Treating Social Anxiety: Exposure Therapy

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  • čas přidán 28. 06. 2021
  • Social anxiety is something that everyone experiences - but some of us have more of it than others. In this video we look at behavior therapy for social anxiety, with an emphasis on exposure-based exercises. The key is to focus not just on the social setting, but on the look or actions that the person fears might attract judgement.
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Komentáře • 18

  • @minar5653
    @minar5653 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you very much for this post. 👍🏻 Yes, behavioural work is most effective, then processing what was learned later, each time, until things gets easier.

    • @RandyPaterson
      @RandyPaterson  Před 2 lety +3

      Some evidence suggests that behavioural work is more effective at changing cognitions than cognitive work is, at least with some concerns. This seems odd until you think about it a bit. We can sit chatting about the questionable validity of "Oh, I could never do X" until the cows come home. But if we actually get you to DO X, this can dispel the idea pretty effectively. Hard to argue you could never talk to strangers when you've just done it.

  • @JoqsanCastellanos
    @JoqsanCastellanos Před 6 měsíci +2

    Omg I've been doing exposure therapy without knowing it.

  • @carolinechapman8984
    @carolinechapman8984 Před 3 lety +2

    Thankyou for the post. Doing rather than thinking, I like that. This makes sense. And it's creating new habits in the brain's circuitry.

  • @chechoaus
    @chechoaus Před 9 měsíci

    Interesting video. It all sounds doable and reasonable to me, now how to find a group that does that sort of work in Melbourne Australia! 😖

    • @RandyPaterson
      @RandyPaterson  Před 9 měsíci +1

      Check with the Aus Psychological Association, for which I did some training a few years ago. They are in Melbourne. But there should be many practitioners who do CBT-based work with social anxiety.

  • @jayros4269
    @jayros4269 Před 3 lety

    Can you do a video on body dysmorphia and anxiety related to body image?

    • @RandyPaterson
      @RandyPaterson  Před 3 lety +1

      This is a topic I would cede to a colleague who thus far has not expressed a desire to do videos. I do anticipate inviting more guests in future, however.

  • @venooom5316
    @venooom5316 Před 2 lety

    How to solve difficulty eye contact in social anxiety in table talks face to face?

    • @RandyPaterson
      @RandyPaterson  Před 2 lety +2

      The same way we do other forms of exposure: bit by bit. The person takes this on as their “project” for a week at a time. Going into any social situation, they contemplate their “intent.” Five quick glances in the 20 minute meeting, or “look at the barista while ordering,” or “hold the gaze for ‘one steamboat’ at least once.” With repetition this tends to get easier - but only by tolerating this type of ridiculous and artificial exercise practice. If the person can’t stand doing it artificially and deliberately despite it not feeling genuine, the problem is unlikely to improve.

  • @bestwitch2931
    @bestwitch2931 Před 5 měsíci

    Are the groups that do this in Indiana, near and around Chicago?

    • @RandyPaterson
      @RandyPaterson  Před 5 měsíci

      Exposure therapy is a standard treatment for social anxiety. For services in your local area, I recommend consulting with the state or provincial psychological association in your area.

  • @user-vq4fo9ck6j
    @user-vq4fo9ck6j Před 6 měsíci

    Im a alcoholic and ive got abit of social anxiety going on been sober 6 months now but its part of my treatment to go meetings but dont want people to see me anxious aka looking weak

    • @RandyPaterson
      @RandyPaterson  Před 6 měsíci

      Meetings are the perfect social anxiety exposure therapy. If I could send non-alcoholics to them I would. You can talk or not; every person who has ever attended has felt anxiety, guilt, or shame at being there at one point or another; and you get to see beneath the carefully composed mask people wear in other settings. Few settings are better for sharing one’s humanity and realizing that this is what makes you belong, not what sets you apart.

    • @user-vq4fo9ck6j
      @user-vq4fo9ck6j Před 6 měsíci

      Yeah the mask mine was the alcohol mask. If I had it on I could pretend to the world that I was coping with life when clearly I wasn't. Now I can't put my mask on and now my insecurities are exposed for every one to see

  • @rudrasharma8031
    @rudrasharma8031 Před 3 lety

    How to get rid of that feeling in chest and neck like something is choking my neck

    • @RandyPaterson
      @RandyPaterson  Před 3 lety

      Please consult a medical professional about this - though the words you use resemble the way some describe anxiety-related intercostal breathing without the diaphragm.

  • @supersarah5673
    @supersarah5673 Před 3 lety

    I’m going to shit myself next time I get a coffee😆