Please - we should somehow send her a respirator - we really don’t want your INCREDIBLE kindness to make you sick, even lungs of iron need a break sometimes
.. Send her one ? She has the money to get one and refuses too bc she thinks it's rude or something to cover her face. Like its weird at this point and im starting to think she has a fetish with smelling others peoples literal shit and garbage.
Ryan must have cried tears of joy when you cleaned his home. Even if he didnt in front of you, I'm sure he laid down the night and was happy his home was safe again❤
I hope they get the psychological help they need, the physical help you've done should hopefully pave the way for a better future for them. Bless you and your work
I'd judge, but also help. He can't stay like this. He's busy, sure, but you really can't walk to the garbage can to throw out cigarette boxes? You throw them under your couch..
@@toddsmith1969maybe he fell into depression or either he would just help his mom straight after work for the whole day and then go home. It would be pretty tiring.
You are an absolute angel! My sister was married to a severe hoarder for 16 years and when (she’s 5 years older than me) he would go away to visit family I would come home from university and help her clear out. Thankfully he’s not in the picture any more and she lives with my mom. Some tendencies rubbed off but my cousins and I went down for my moms birthday this month and were able to help her get organized and clean. So glad you are able to help folks like this!
Your judgement isn't appreciated. It's a mental illness... he's not in the picture, hopefully he's getting the help HE NEEDS AND DESERVES ❤ I hope your family isn't too traumatised by his illness 😂
She’s literally an angel in disguise!!! People get too old, or in this case, to overwhelmed to clean. And you help them for free picking up their moldy trash,fridges filled with bugs, etc, without even paying them!!! You are so sweet❤️❤️
It's so great that Ryan got his home cleaned... But I hope that he addresses his psychological problems. Because if he doesn't, he will end up in the same situation again.
Just so you know, comments like that completely relapse people going through this. I often let my room get this bad, would clean it and feel excited to start fresh and got hit with the same comment by family and my excitement died instantly and came the "why clean it at all if it's just going to go back anyways?" And the cycle restarts. When you see someone do this for themselves, just make a point on saying how awesome it looks and invite yourself over more often. They want change and to be presentable, give them a reason
@@lollipopgunner5568 if someone gets help for their mental health issues, then this increases the chance that they won't relapse. Praise is nice, but taking steps in the right direction is what effectively inspires hope and progress.
They all do. Untill the mental stuff is adressed ...my mom has hoarding disorder...its just a case of cleaning every few months or else it gets bad. I have to do it though. She is incapable of it for whatever reason.
This brought tears to my eyes that you would be so non-judgemental and only help. If the world were filled with people like you, it would be heaven on earth. Thank you.❤
I agree with this! It’s life changing! I had a mom who came in and helped me during my hard times. Without that support I would hope it wouldn’t have gotten this bad but you never know. 😢 Without anyone checking on you and being there for you I would imagine this could happen to anyone. Aloneness causes this.
@Something both, lazy because he let someone else clean for him (temporary solution/quick fix) instead of getting help with his mental illness. It’s obvious the owner has major issues, just based off his voluntary living conditions, and the amount of empty cigaret packs.
I don't understand how this is lazy. He worked for money. And he took that money and hired someone to do work he could not do (he tried and was too overwhelmed).
@@graceho8296 exactly, thank you. He did a step in the right direction. Of course the problem is not solved, but one can not heal in an environment that is unhealthy. And to understand this important to actually do more steps. It will be one less thing on his mind, that overwhelms it. It will help him game care of him self and his mother
No those are enablers. The person who hasnt cleaned in a freaking lightyear should be held accountable but instead people would rather do it and post it on the internet.
@@faithrada I mean SOME NEW MOMS that's suffer postpartum depression and things like that ..I didn't go through it but around 7 or 8months some women get the burst of energy getting ready for birth and clean the entire house from top to bottom
Right! So true. Getting help can be sooo scary and stressful just thinking about the process. Make me want to run when I need help. Denial is blissful for me. Lol
Just to think what a relief this is dealing with caring for a sick mother and having this piled up, and him trying to start cleaning it. I would have cried if someone did this kindness for me. ❤
Unfortunately, people who have a hoarding condition won't be able to keep their home clean for a long time. But, I give the lady a lot of credit for helping. She is such an angel!❤
I wouldn't call it hoarding, more like just laziness, it's 95% old food packaging, hoarders actually have things worth some value, more likely he has a substance abuse problem & that's all he cares about, so eat, (substance of choice), sleep, work, repeat.
@@mitchellgardner2193 Some hoarders hoard things of very little value to others, like boxes and plastic bags. Once hoarding becomes obstructive, you often see their places degenerate, as it's impossible to maintain a normal home when there's loads of stuff in the way. For example, if your bin is full to the brim and you have clamber over a load of other shit to get there, guess where it's going to go? Yep, the floor. Aside from that, many people with chronic depression have motivational deficits that beggar belief. It's important to note that these people aren't _lazy_ in the conventional sense of the word and shouldn't be shamed, but helped.
@@mitchellgardner2193 This isnt simply "laziness". This is a mental disorder that causes the person to lose interest, motivation and energy to bother cleaning the flat.
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@@Juju0LM Some people have clinical depression and/or mental/physical disabilities. Like me. not everyone can be as lucky as you. dont judge what you dont understand.
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It's so good that she's not over sympathizing with him. I was in this stage before, too much judgement or too much sympathy will be too hard for me. Her help and attitude is just so angelic. Thank you for doing what you're doing ❤
@@elenalopatina5056 okay? But how do you know that? You don’t know Ryan do you? Maybe he will change, plus, you can predict the future. So stop assuming.
@@coreenaburke5378you know, maybe he will, maybe he won't. And when it comes to mental health issues, I think we should celebrate the victories, no matter how small. Belittling someone that he'd better ask sooner next time is counter productive because brains don't always cooperate. This is a wad of fat locked inside a bone done which runs on less watt than your average lightbulb at home, and it tought itself to think. That is bound to have errors. Being kind costs you nothing.
@@traditionalkateppl don’t want to live like this. judgement pushes them away. we don’t want to isolate - we want to support so they feel encouraged to keep up good work :)
@@traditionalkate I see what you're saying, and my aspect on it is that sometimes people are in such a bad place that they no longer have the willpower or strength to help themselves, and therefore they need someone to help them. hope you understand! :)
Oh absolutely, The pure bliss *you* get when *you* clean *your room yourself* is just incomprehensible. Being grateful to oneself is just simply amazing
As someone who's raised by hoarders, I'm so thankful of your openness, no judgement and just pure intention. You're an angel❤ May God bless you always✋
Same im still in the house im not old enough to leave in my state the habbit carries over my rooms a mess my mom tells me and my brother to cleen more but it's 2 pepole cleaning the hoarding of 4 pepole we keep it to a level 1 but it'd so hard i can't wait to move out
As a person with only clinical depression not even chronic I could definitely see myself spiraling like this. Especially when my mom passes. Its nice to know there are people like you who can help. P.S. Welcome home Ryan!
I don't really think that I could clean a home like this, but I really enjoy to watch every video where you make your "magic"! You're a kind of angel for these people, God bless you!
@@no1dea261 If you haven't been there, you wouldn't understand. It may be easy for you, but for someone with depression for example it's hard to even get off your bed in the morning.
@@popsikern5848 No it's not. There's a reason you set your alarm, I've been down countless times and that didn't make me say "5 more minutes" that turned into another 4 hours.
@@no1dea261 I understand that you might not fully grasp the experience of someone dealing with depression, and I appreciate your perspective. However, it's important to remember that depression affects individuals differently, and what may seem like a simple task to you can be incredibly challenging for others. Depression can drain a person's motivation, energy, and even their ability to carry out daily activities. While setting an alarm can be a helpful tool, it doesn't magically eliminate the deep-seated feelings of despair, emptiness, and fatigue that individuals with depression often face. It's not just a matter of hitting the snooze button for a few extra minutes. It's a constant battle to find the strength to face each day and carry out even the most basic tasks.
It is not even the fact that you r an earth angel...but just as importantly you always let them keep their dignity...God bless you always and all ways❤❤❤❤❤❤❤thank you sooo much❤❤❤❤❤
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I wish i could have an angel like you come help me.. I've had the worst depression for over two years now since losing my husband, Memaw, finding my brother n law who committed S then, and months later i spent two weeks caring for my best friend/ mother as she passed on hospice 😢 .. my home and years are in desperate need of love and cleanliness .. bless you for what you do ❤
ive struggled with hoarding and need to live with others in order to ensure i dont fall back into it and this reminds me of the first time i got help cleaning, im sure ryan is so SO grateful for this, its easy to get overwhelmed and give up when you try on your own.
@@gulnazsafiullina3703 idk the answer to ur question but i know hoarding is a type of OCD mental disorder so i dont think its as simple as not wanting to take the trash out.
@@gulnazsafiullina3703 it's a disorder really. i struggle with hoarding tendencies and you form an emotional attatchment to everything, even trash like empty food wrappers. that, combined with executive dysfunction in my case, makes it nearly impossible to just throw things out. it's like if you were trying to burn old pictures of you and your best friend from high school, except burn is donate and old pictures is old clothes.
@@gulnazsafiullina3703there are different types of hoarding. I also struggle with hoarding... I used to be the type of person who showered twice a day and was always VERY organized. I'm 30 and for the past 7 years or so I have been very physically sick. I have been unable to work a normal job so I started selling stuff on ebay. I would go thrifting on the days I had to go to the dr. (which at one point was 6 days a week)... to make a long story a little less long, I became so piled with shit that I couldn't sell or wanted to keep to sell on a "rainy day" when I needed the money....my house isn't big by any means and I have become overwhelmed with stuff.. I'm working on it. but it has become VERY hard to get rid of things. in turn making it hard to clean because I have no space for anything. and it is like I'm constantly just "moving the mess", but not getting rid of it... I also have always been a crafter so I have all sorts of things like that and containers etc that COULD BE repurposed and scrap wood etc. and paint.. and idk what. Hoarding is like the perfect storm in my opinion... if I wasn't sick, I would be able to get a decent job and make some money and wouldn't be so worried about "saving every little thing"... if I wasn't so worried about Penny pinching because I never know where my money is coming from, I would be far more inclined to get rid of all this stuff too.. but even if I make a dollar... it's like that is a dollar i need and didn't have before.. if I didn't have so much stuff everywhere, i would be able to get this house cleaner/clean. it is a pile of things literally and figuratively speaking. And where you/anyone would just think or say: living like that is ridiculous and/or gross!! just buckle down and get it done man! I think the same thing the start of most days, but then one way or another get sick or overwhelmed and give up before I get everything I wanted to done. I have found that resilience is definitely key. I am in no way where I want to be, but I am better than where I was... so even if I chip away at it little by little, at least it is something even if it isn't as much as I want it to be. There are also aspects of hoarding when it comes to collecting that I struggle with...when my daughter got really into barbies, it brought back all of my love for barbies etc back lol so even though she is older and doesn't even care much about them, I still have like 99% of it all which i know needs to all go too. it is just a mess. I think a lot of people who struggle with hoarding do not only have mental/emotional issues, I believe a lot of it is physical also. like a lot of us also have health issues that make it hard for us to physically clean or do things also. which makes it all culminate into what is shown in these videos here on CZcams. it is sad and it sucks. I think a lot of us say to ourselves "if only I could get to a point where i only have to maintain this house instead of clean this ALL"... and I love that this woman helps people get their houses back so that they can function and have that feeling.
She’s such an angel and so is Ryan. You can tell that he dropped everything to go care for his mom. I very much know the feeling, my grandma, who I was very very close to/was raised by, had a stroke and I became her sole caregiver. Her room and the living room bath room and kitchen I kept immaculate. My room? Absolute war zone. I just couldn’t bring myself to focus on myself when I had to be there for her, I just made sure I kept her safe happy health, etc. It has now been a year and 2 months since she passed away (peacefully and at home surrounded by loved ones) but I’m still recovering and the house is very hard to keep clean because cleaning involves making tough decisions about what of her things I should keep and what I need to let go of. I know everyone is impressed that she doesn’t judge the people she helps clean the houses of but as someone on the other side I think it’s also important to point out/acknowledge just how difficult of a place those people are in, because it should be basic human decency not to judge people who are struggling!
I cannot fathom letting my home get this way but I can imagine how relieved he would have felt walking into this now clean space. I admire your willingness to help people for free.
God Bless you! You are doing a big difference in this world. You bring a new chance to be better and especially HOPE! Thanks so much. I love your videos.🥰🙏👏👏👏💐💐💐💐💐
This is a beautiful gorgeous thing to come home two and have a lovely day and bless you for cleaning his house up and bless your hearts and love you and be yourself💔💞❤💋💞💌💖💖💌🎀💓💕💞💓💚💜💛🎀💙💚👛👝💐💄🌸🌸💐💐🌸🌸💐🌸🌸💐💐🌻🍁🍁🌻🌿🌺🌿🌺🍁🌷🍁🍀🍁🌿🌺🍃🍁🌻🍀🌻🌷💄💐💕💔🎀💔💖💋💖💌💖🌸🌻🌻💘💞💋💘❤💔💘💞💔💕💞💄🎀🌷🌷🌷🌸🌷🌻🌿🍃🌻🍁🌻🌿🍀🌺
I’ve been watching your videos for a while. At first, I couldn’t even imagine what should had happened to somebody that their home turns into this. And now I almost got there myself. Watching your videos made me realize that it’s okay to struggle, and everyone deserves help and having a clean home. Thank you for your kindness, everything you do means a huge lot.
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You said the key word....try. Just keep trying......hang in there. You matter to the world whether you know it or not! Sending you prayers from Alabama!
Sometimes, when you're trying to care for someone you love, it's hard to give yourself the love you need, too. I'm glad you were there to give Ryan the care they needed. ❤ and 🤗to both of you and Ryan's mom.
Please - we should somehow send her a respirator - we really don’t want your INCREDIBLE kindness to make you sick, even lungs of iron need a break sometimes
.. Send her one ? She has the money to get one and refuses too bc she thinks it's rude or something to cover her face. Like its weird at this point and im starting to think she has a fetish with smelling others peoples literal shit and garbage.
and gloves!
Yes!
Shut up
and tyvek suits
If I had been in his situation and come home to a beautifully cleaned home for the first time in months, I would have broken down and cried.
Fr even me, who now sitting in my freshly cleaned by me & my bf home, got teary bc I FEEL how hard it can be to care for myself and my home
@@user-dh1pz1pf1p I got a housekeeper 😎
@@wukongthemonkeyking249💀
@@mint2k what
@@Iwanttoblowmybrainsoutrn I'm just stating that he/she having a housekeeper is weird lmao
We need more good people like you in the world.
No no no, we have to be like her on the world that is what you say?
And less people like 31 year old, Ryan.
If you read the story he kinda had weight on his shoulders@@aggcavan943
@@aggcavan943What is wrong with you ffs?
@@silviasiguencia6083?
Ryan must have cried tears of joy when you cleaned his home. Even if he didnt in front of you, I'm sure he laid down the night and was happy his home was safe again❤
I hope they get the psychological help they need, the physical help you've done should hopefully pave the way for a better future for them. Bless you and your work
😊Z,😊
@@anartsheet_7266 no, its "bless you" because this woman is doing something to help.
Yes, agreed!
@@anartsheet_7266 its "bless you"
@@zephyr139 oh yes because most people can totally afford to buy a cleaner...come back to reality Bry.
what a nice person, not even judging him just helping him. one love
I'd judge, but also help. He can't stay like this. He's busy, sure, but you really can't walk to the garbage can to throw out cigarette boxes? You throw them under your couch..
@@toddsmith1969maybe he fell into depression or either he would just help his mom straight after work for the whole day and then go home. It would be pretty tiring.
Ah assuming gender your terrible i’m appalled shame on you
Smh 😂
Los acumuladores tienen un problema mental.
You are an absolute angel! My sister was married to a severe hoarder for 16 years and when (she’s 5 years older than me) he would go away to visit family I would come home from university and help her clear out.
Thankfully he’s not in the picture any more and she lives with my mom. Some tendencies rubbed off but my cousins and I went down for my moms birthday this month and were able to help her get organized and clean.
So glad you are able to help folks like this!
Your judgement isn't appreciated. It's a mental illness... he's not in the picture, hopefully he's getting the help HE NEEDS AND DESERVES ❤ I hope your family isn't too traumatised by his illness 😂
I love how happy she is. We need more people like this in the world. It would be such more environmental if people were like her ❤❤
She’s literally an angel in disguise!!! People get too old, or in this case, to overwhelmed to clean. And you help them for free picking up their moldy trash,fridges filled with bugs, etc, without even paying them!!! You are so sweet❤️❤️
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A Hero if ever they was one !🔥💙🔥
Sorry to break it to you but she put that there for the views and the finished product was just before they added the trash😢
@@That1dude107Girl what sense would that make...?
@@That1dude107 right… because that makes so much more sense..¿? Lol
It's so great that Ryan got his home cleaned... But I hope that he addresses his psychological problems. Because if he doesn't, he will end up in the same situation again.
Just so you know, comments like that completely relapse people going through this. I often let my room get this bad, would clean it and feel excited to start fresh and got hit with the same comment by family and my excitement died instantly and came the "why clean it at all if it's just going to go back anyways?" And the cycle restarts.
When you see someone do this for themselves, just make a point on saying how awesome it looks and invite yourself over more often. They want change and to be presentable, give them a reason
@@lollipopgunner5568 but the comment wasn't about his home is getting gross again, but about psychological issues this man might need to fix
@@lollipopgunner5568 if someone gets help for their mental health issues, then this increases the chance that they won't relapse. Praise is nice, but taking steps in the right direction is what effectively inspires hope and progress.
Its probably not a Ryan problem, he most likely spends so much time with his mom that he has no time to cook and clean
They all do. Untill the mental stuff is adressed ...my mom has hoarding disorder...its just a case of cleaning every few months or else it gets bad. I have to do it though. She is incapable of it for whatever reason.
Ryan was overwhelmed… I hope he’s doing much better today, & I hope his mom is doing well!❤
That's actually a really nice house once it was cleaned
This brought tears to my eyes that you would be so non-judgemental and only help. If the world were filled with people like you, it would be heaven on earth. Thank you.❤
Be like her then lead the way
Amen to that!
Same, this lady is indigo.
You honestly are a saint. So many people really need help, not judgement, and that's exactly what you give them.
I agree with this! It’s life changing! I had a mom who came in and helped me during my hard times. Without that support I would hope it wouldn’t have gotten this bad but you never know. 😢 Without anyone checking on you and being there for you I would imagine this could happen to anyone. Aloneness causes this.
@@charityrocks❤❤❤
They don't need help. They need accountability, guidance and structure
You had me at the door cleaning, im huge on that! I thank God that he made ppl like you to remind us there is good in this world.❤
I'm SO thankful for people who do this for others just to be kind!
Wow, this is just another level of kindness. You have a heart of gold.
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I literally love this woman she has nothing but purity in her heart
And the fact that she doesnt insult it or judge it is nice
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Sorry to break it to you but she put that there for the views and the finished product was just before they added the trash😢
@@That1dude107 why would she waste her time putting trash everywhere just to pick it up💀
@@rdnrmnvch for likes and views
You are so kind for cleaning peoples houses for free😊😊
Auri is a super woman,God bless her in all of her endeavors.God bless her
I'm very proud of that man for actually getting help when he struggled
He didn’t get help. He was lazy and let someone clean his house for him. The home owner is severely mentally ill. This is not the “help” he needs
@Something both, lazy because he let someone else clean for him (temporary solution/quick fix) instead of getting help with his mental illness. It’s obvious the owner has major issues, just based off his voluntary living conditions, and the amount of empty cigaret packs.
I don't understand how this is lazy. He worked for money. And he took that money and hired someone to do work he could not do (he tried and was too overwhelmed).
@@graceho8296 exactly, thank you. He did a step in the right direction. Of course the problem is not solved, but one can not heal in an environment that is unhealthy. And to understand this important to actually do more steps.
It will be one less thing on his mind, that overwhelms it. It will help him game care of him self and his mother
@@Talvi_Sota yes it will.
Girl if we had more people like you, the world wouldn't be so chaotic.
People to clean people's dirty rooms. You can start since its such a Nobel thing.
No those are enablers. The person who hasnt cleaned in a freaking lightyear should be held accountable but instead people would rather do it and post it on the internet.
That’s true
💖 you can also become a good person like her💖💖
@@aprilxzy.2.9 I am already one 💞✨
Amazing outcome. Good on you. I hope Ryan can get support to prevent recurrence
YOU GO GIRL❤! Keep doing what you love! Also you cleaned that home good!
People who have never known someone who's been like this they don't understand how hard it is to not only get the help but to ask for it. Go Ryan ❤
Right...new moms hate to ask for help too I hate that
@@kokainejane773This goes way deeper than New Mom stuff!!!!
Typically New Moms want things Super Clean.
@@faithrada I mean SOME NEW MOMS that's suffer postpartum depression and things like that ..I didn't go through it but around 7 or 8months some women get the burst of energy getting ready for birth and clean the entire house from top to bottom
I need help!
Right! So true. Getting help can be sooo scary and stressful just thinking about the process. Make me want to run when I need help. Denial is blissful for me. Lol
Just to think what a relief this is dealing with caring for a sick mother and having this piled up, and him trying to start cleaning it. I would have cried if someone did this kindness for me. ❤
@WaylonTheDog nah bro more like 2 comments here and 552 likes
Thank you sooo much for helping people who need it ❤
The transition we all need
the audacity you have to help other people in the world is just lovely to see
Audacity?!
@@alasidereal it also means rude or disrespectful behaviour. The term most likely used for this word.
@@tea-chip-cookies difference of interpretations. Ever heard of that shit
@@PuskasW No, I've never heard of your so called 'shit'.
@@PuskasW 😂
She is truly a good person, doing these cleanings with no judgement, for free with no expectations. We need more with hearts like hers.
True but with people like her more people become more abusive
@@nmedina4836 what
@@btluvz2920 maybe he meant to say that people would take advantage of you if you are too nice
wait she doin this for free ☠️
Зачем она это делает бесплатно 😮?
Unfortunately, people who have a hoarding condition won't be able to keep their home clean for a long time. But, I give the lady a lot of credit for helping. She is such an angel!❤
I wouldn't call it hoarding, more like just laziness, it's 95% old food packaging, hoarders actually have things worth some value, more likely he has a substance abuse problem & that's all he cares about, so eat, (substance of choice), sleep, work, repeat.
@@mitchellgardner2193 Some hoarders hoard things of very little value to others, like boxes and plastic bags. Once hoarding becomes obstructive, you often see their places degenerate, as it's impossible to maintain a normal home when there's loads of stuff in the way. For example, if your bin is full to the brim and you have clamber over a load of other shit to get there, guess where it's going to go? Yep, the floor.
Aside from that, many people with chronic depression have motivational deficits that beggar belief. It's important to note that these people aren't _lazy_ in the conventional sense of the word and shouldn't be shamed, but helped.
@@mitchellgardner2193 This isnt simply "laziness". This is a mental disorder that causes the person to lose interest, motivation and energy to bother cleaning the flat.
@@m3lodr4maticDo you think they will ever lose motivation for eating?
You are the kindest soul ever 💗
Ryan must be currently in a dark dark place.. I hope he finds the motivation to live peacefully
Love this comment & i agree!
@@whiteangel2852 in the video it says this is his home, he would help clean his mom's house, that's why his is so bad
@@whiteangel2852 no don't worry about it, there's a few people making this mistake
Ryan is lazy as heck
You’re positive attitude definitely makes people feel safe. You dont judge, and fund joy in cleaning. thats beautiful. youre amazing
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😅but I judge! How come he never took out the trash? I'm not even talking about cleaning or tidying up, just throwing away the garbage!
@@Juju0LM Some people have clinical depression and/or mental/physical disabilities. Like me. not everyone can be as lucky as you. dont judge what you dont understand.
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wear gloves! :-)
Please, please...make sure you are wearing protective gear and a good mask. Your a God-sent, but continue to be healthy so you can continue to be a blessing.
Hope she keep it clean. ❤🎉
It's so good that she's not over sympathizing with him. I was in this stage before, too much judgement or too much sympathy will be too hard for me. Her help and attitude is just so angelic. Thank you for doing what you're doing ❤
She got rid of the cool rotting food. L.
@@creamking3569 huh, if she threw out rotting food, how does that make her a L?
@@Whokilleddazai516you don't get the joke bruh 💀💀💀💀
@@brianwarner6677 explain please then
@@brianwarner6677 it’s not a joke the rotting food adds to the atmosphere
This woman is an actual angel on earth
A radiance u might say
Totally agree
@@mr.g.luaghe9645 Me three!
YES God bless her
love it , Ryan deserved it
You help so many ppl keep it up 🤩🤩🥰🥰
You’re an absolute angel for this. May you get all the happiness and love! ❤❤❤
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@JohnsonHoword I do in fact believe in them and their work.
Ryan I wish you all the best with your fresh start in life. I know that waking up in a clean room will have you looking at life differently now.
How long did it take to get clean like that?
Люди не меняются. Через полгода тут будет также, как было до неё.
@@elenalopatina5056 okay? But how do you know that? You don’t know Ryan do you? Maybe he will change, plus, you can predict the future. So stop assuming.
@@elenalopatina5056 and actually, SOME PEOPLE do change.
@@elenalopatina5056 ты его не знаешь. иногда все, что вам нужно, это начать все сначала. тебе следует быть более добрым.
Love his decor style ❤ cheering for Ryan! Awesome job as always guuuurrrl
I love this girl because she cleans homes for free and doesn't brag about it because some do❤
She has put it online!
Proud of Ryan to ask for help when he needed it! Asking for help is hard.
Ryan get help sooner next time!
@@coreenaburke5378you know, maybe he will, maybe he won't. And when it comes to mental health issues, I think we should celebrate the victories, no matter how small. Belittling someone that he'd better ask sooner next time is counter productive because brains don't always cooperate. This is a wad of fat locked inside a bone done which runs on less watt than your average lightbulb at home, and it tought itself to think. That is bound to have errors.
Being kind costs you nothing.
I love how she is judgement free, and she does everything without needing something in return. It's hard to find people like her these days.
Sometimes judgment is fine, so people would listen
@@traditionalkateppl don’t want to live like this. judgement pushes them away. we don’t want to isolate - we want to support so they feel encouraged to keep up good work :)
@@ratboygirl they must help themselves, no to hope to be helped
@@traditionalkate I see what you're saying, and my aspect on it is that sometimes people are in such a bad place that they no longer have the willpower or strength to help themselves, and therefore they need someone to help them. hope you understand! :)
@@halfdeceased5829 everybody has power to pluck out themselves from any shit, believe me
Otherwise this is just need of attention
Realising my room is heaven
Many people don't know the simplest pleasure of things such as cleaning, the ones you cleaned up for would be forever grateful to you❤️
Oh absolutely,
The pure bliss *you* get when *you* clean *your room yourself* is just incomprehensible. Being grateful to oneself is just simply amazing
As someone who's raised by hoarders, I'm so thankful of your openness, no judgement and just pure intention. You're an angel❤ May God bless you always✋
oh im judging hard! not u but ryan
Same im still in the house im not old enough to leave in my state the habbit carries over my rooms a mess my mom tells me and my brother to cleen more but it's 2 pepole cleaning the hoarding of 4 pepole we keep it to a level 1 but it'd so hard i can't wait to move out
@@SuperSlimshady1 Why?
@@Sapphire_Bluesss cuz that place is insane!
@@SuperSlimshady1 But it’s rude to judge someone who is living a worse and harder life than you are.
This is so amazing of you. I would cry if someone did this for me 😢
Girl can you PLEASE drop your Spotify- I gotta know what playlist you’re listening to help you clean😭
As a person with only clinical depression not even chronic I could definitely see myself spiraling like this. Especially when my mom passes. Its nice to know there are people like you who can help.
P.S. Welcome home Ryan!
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My son too , hope he doesn't...
So disgusting 💀
@@OfficialZsolks what are you referring to?
It must have made Ryan feel so good to see his clean space. It is really kind that you do this.
I don't really think that I could clean a home like this, but I really enjoy to watch every video where you make your "magic"! You're a kind of angel for these people, God bless you!
These videos inspire me to do a task, even a small one.
U are an 😇 angel. As someone who struggles with mental illness and keeping a clean house bc of it..I tip my hat 👒 to u ❤
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Idk how people can live like that bless you for helping him I can’t imagine cleaning that
Genuine tears by the end. Poor Ryan, hopefully this better environment will help.
This woman is a true angel 😇
We need more people like her
i’d have literally sobbed if i came
home to the ‘after’ room. it looks like a whole other room!!
Filled my heart with joy. He's clearly struggling, and you helped him no end. Good on you. Keep spreading love!
SMH I hope Ryan helped her at least. It is his responsibility. 🤔
Eat your food → stand up → go to the trash bin
It's seriously not difficult I don't know why this was a big deal.
@@no1dea261 If you haven't been there, you wouldn't understand. It may be easy for you, but for someone with depression for example it's hard to even get off your bed in the morning.
@@popsikern5848 No it's not. There's a reason you set your alarm, I've been down countless times and that didn't make me say "5 more minutes" that turned into another 4 hours.
@@no1dea261 I understand that you might not fully grasp the experience of someone dealing with depression, and I appreciate your perspective. However, it's important to remember that depression affects individuals differently, and what may seem like a simple task to you can be incredibly challenging for others. Depression can drain a person's motivation, energy, and even their ability to carry out daily activities.
While setting an alarm can be a helpful tool, it doesn't magically eliminate the deep-seated feelings of despair, emptiness, and fatigue that individuals with depression often face. It's not just a matter of hitting the snooze button for a few extra minutes. It's a constant battle to find the strength to face each day and carry out even the most basic tasks.
She changes the world by one house, it’s amazing she definitely deserves way more
100 likes and no comments? Let me change that
She's excellent!😊
It’s a good thing the houses in most of your videos are small, I can only image the time it must take for all this.
You are a miracle worker. AND you did it for free! God bless you!
I hope Ryan is okay and gets the help me needs so he can live in a clean space with a clean mind.
I swear I couldn't stomach some of these cleanups you do. You're a special, beautiful person. Mad respect to you.
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Yummie. 😂 your work is so amazing. The world will be better.
It is not even the fact that you r an earth angel...but just as importantly you always let them keep their dignity...God bless you always and all ways❤❤❤❤❤❤❤thank you sooo much❤❤❤❤❤
You're literally an angel!! You changed everyone's lives❤❤
Jesus loves us and died for us
But even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not therefore: ye are of more value than many sparrows. Luke 12:7 ✝🌅
Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. Matthew 7:7-8 ✝💖
O.M.G. !! You are truly an angel set from up above !!! May God bless you !!!!
This woman's an angel ❤
I wish i could have an angel like you come help me.. I've had the worst depression for over two years now since losing my husband, Memaw, finding my brother n law who committed S then, and months later i spent two weeks caring for my best friend/ mother as she passed on hospice 😢 .. my home and years are in desperate need of love and cleanliness .. bless you for what you do ❤
ive struggled with hoarding and need to live with others in order to ensure i dont fall back into it and this reminds me of the first time i got help cleaning, im sure ryan is so SO grateful for this, its easy to get overwhelmed and give up when you try on your own.
I’m sorry for my question, I’m just curious about why being a hoarder? What could be the reason for not wanting to take out the trash
@@gulnazsafiullina3703 idk the answer to ur question but i know hoarding is a type of OCD mental disorder so i dont think its as simple as not wanting to take the trash out.
@@gulnazsafiullina3703 it's a disorder really. i struggle with hoarding tendencies and you form an emotional attatchment to everything, even trash like empty food wrappers. that, combined with executive dysfunction in my case, makes it nearly impossible to just throw things out. it's like if you were trying to burn old pictures of you and your best friend from high school, except burn is donate and old pictures is old clothes.
@@ferris1435 you would never need to burn them in the first place trash = garbage = meaningless
@@gulnazsafiullina3703there are different types of hoarding. I also struggle with hoarding... I used to be the type of person who showered twice a day and was always VERY organized. I'm 30 and for the past 7 years or so I have been very physically sick. I have been unable to work a normal job so I started selling stuff on ebay. I would go thrifting on the days I had to go to the dr. (which at one point was 6 days a week)...
to make a long story a little less long, I became so piled with shit that I couldn't sell or wanted to keep to sell on a "rainy day" when I needed the money....my house isn't big by any means and I have become overwhelmed with stuff..
I'm working on it. but it has become VERY hard to get rid of things. in turn making it hard to clean because I have no space for anything. and it is like I'm constantly just "moving the mess", but not getting rid of it...
I also have always been a crafter so I have all sorts of things like that and containers etc that COULD BE repurposed and scrap wood etc. and paint.. and idk what.
Hoarding is like the perfect storm in my opinion...
if I wasn't sick, I would be able to get a decent job and make some money and wouldn't be so worried about "saving every little thing"...
if I wasn't so worried about Penny pinching because I never know where my money is coming from, I would be far more inclined to get rid of all this stuff too.. but even if I make a dollar... it's like that is a dollar i need and didn't have before..
if I didn't have so much stuff everywhere, i would be able to get this house cleaner/clean.
it is a pile of things literally and figuratively speaking.
And where you/anyone would just think or say:
living like that is ridiculous and/or gross!! just buckle down and get it done man!
I think the same thing the start of most days, but then one way or another get sick or overwhelmed and give up before I get everything I wanted to done.
I have found that resilience is definitely key.
I am in no way where I want to be, but I am better than where I was... so even if I chip away at it little by little, at least it is something even if it isn't as much as I want it to be.
There are also aspects of hoarding when it comes to collecting that I struggle with...when my daughter got really into barbies, it brought back all of my love for barbies etc back lol so even though she is older and doesn't even care much about them, I still have like 99% of it all which i know needs to all go too.
it is just a mess.
I think a lot of people who struggle with hoarding do not only have mental/emotional issues, I believe a lot of it is physical also. like a lot of us also have health issues that make it hard for us to physically clean or do things also. which makes it all culminate into what is shown in these videos here on CZcams.
it is sad and it sucks. I think a lot of us say to ourselves "if only I could get to a point where i only have to maintain this house instead of clean this ALL"... and I love that this woman helps people get their houses back so that they can function and have that feeling.
I used to think my room is the dirtiest but seeing Ryan's room I'm impressed by myself and I'm gonna show this video to mom too 😂
She’s such an angel and so is Ryan. You can tell that he dropped everything to go care for his mom. I very much know the feeling, my grandma, who I was very very close to/was raised by, had a stroke and I became her sole caregiver. Her room and the living room bath room and kitchen I kept immaculate.
My room? Absolute war zone. I just couldn’t bring myself to focus on myself when I had to be there for her, I just made sure I kept her safe happy health, etc. It has now been a year and 2 months since she passed away (peacefully and at home surrounded by loved ones) but I’m still recovering and the house is very hard to keep clean because cleaning involves making tough decisions about what of her things I should keep and what I need to let go of.
I know everyone is impressed that she doesn’t judge the people she helps clean the houses of but as someone on the other side I think it’s also important to point out/acknowledge just how difficult of a place those people are in, because it should be basic human decency not to judge people who are struggling!
Being a caregiver to a sick or dying loved one is the most difficult and selfless thing anyone can do. Thank you! ❤️
We dont need more people like her, We need to be more like her.
No she is enabling that asshole to clean his damn house every once in a while
very much l😮😮
Being more like her = more people like her… 😭
You are an Angel. God bless you
An absolute BLESSING ❤
this woman is incredibly kind for doing all of that for free. you're an angel!!!
Youre heart is pure and your kindness is oustounding. Thank you for helping the world in your own way.
I cannot fathom letting my home get this way but I can imagine how relieved he would have felt walking into this now clean space. I admire your willingness to help people for free.
God Bless you! You are doing a big difference in this world. You bring a new chance to be better and especially HOPE! Thanks so much. I love your videos.🥰🙏👏👏👏💐💐💐💐💐
This is a beautiful gorgeous thing to come home two and have a lovely day and bless you for cleaning his house up and bless your hearts and love you and be yourself💔💞❤💋💞💌💖💖💌🎀💓💕💞💓💚💜💛🎀💙💚👛👝💐💄🌸🌸💐💐🌸🌸💐🌸🌸💐💐🌻🍁🍁🌻🌿🌺🌿🌺🍁🌷🍁🍀🍁🌿🌺🍃🍁🌻🍀🌻🌷💄💐💕💔🎀💔💖💋💖💌💖🌸🌻🌻💘💞💋💘❤💔💘💞💔💕💞💄🎀🌷🌷🌷🌸🌷🌻🌿🍃🌻🍁🌻🌿🍀🌺
Poor guy. Can’t imagine his pain. So glad you guys are friends❤❤
You're an angel 🤍
That's what I was about to say too.😅❤
I’ve been watching your videos for a while. At first, I couldn’t even imagine what should had happened to somebody that their home turns into this. And now I almost got there myself. Watching your videos made me realize that it’s okay to struggle, and everyone deserves help and having a clean home. Thank you for your kindness, everything you do means a huge lot.
IT'S AMAZING how she does it smiling
This is mind blowing. People like you change people’s lives, mentally as well.
Jesus loves us and died for us ✝
The wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord (Romans 6:23) 💖
Even now, says the Lord, return to Me with all your heart (Joel 2:12) 💖
Looks so good afterwards ❤ I struggle with mental health and anxiety and those videos inspire me to try and clean my room 😌
You said the key word....try. Just keep trying......hang in there. You matter to the world whether you know it or not! Sending you prayers from Alabama!
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@@auburnkim1989 even tho it wasn't meant for me, this comment made my day. You're awesome!!
You don’t judge, and you help those in need! We need more people like you around! Everyone needs someone like this in their life once in a while
You’re nice I feel like you’re the nicest person in the world and you help a lot of people I bet
You are a wonderful person. Good cleaner.👍
Her patience is uncountable ❤️
That after IS AMAZING... youre an Angel 🪽
It amazes me that you do these for free. That's so kind. 💖
The fact that she’s so gentle I can never😭
Sometimes, when you're trying to care for someone you love, it's hard to give yourself the love you need, too. I'm glad you were there to give Ryan the care they needed. ❤ and 🤗to both of you and Ryan's mom.
You do amazing work! Please make sure you are taking care of your health!