Emotional Stages for the DUMPER In a Rebound Relationship

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  • Emotional Stages for the Dumper In a Rebound Relationship:
    1. Relief:
    - Initial Freedom: Right after the breakup, dumpers often feel a sense
    of relief and freedom.
    - Euphoria: This relief can sometimes lead to a euphoric feeling,
    as they look forward to new possibilities and experiences.
    2. Guilt and Regret:
    - Guilt: Despite initiating the breakup, dumpers often experience guilt over hurting their ex-partner and causing emotional pain.
    - Regret: They might start questioning their decision, especially if they see their ex-partner moving on or if they encounter difficulties in their new relationship.
    3. Loneliness:
    - Missing the Old Relationship: After the initial relief, dumpers might start missing the familiarity and comfort of their previous relationship.
    - Emotional Void: They may experience a sense of emptiness and loneliness, leading them to seek out new companionship quickly.
    4. Distraction and Avoidance:
    - Seeking Distractions: To avoid dealing with feelings of guilt, regret, and loneliness, dumpers often look for distractions, as new relationships.
    - Avoiding Self-Reflection: By focusing on a new partner, they can avoid reflecting on their role in the breakup and the underlying issues that led to it.
    5. Validation Seeking:
    - Need for Affirmation: Dumpers may seek validation from new partners to reassure themselves of their desirability and worthiness.
    - Boosting Self-Esteem: Positive attention from a new partner can help boost their self-esteem and counter any doubts they have about their attractiveness or relationship skills.
    6. Realization:
    - Acknowledging Issues: Over time, dumpers may start to acknowledge the issues in their previous relationship and their own contributions to the breakup.
    Which can lead them to want to reconciliation with their ex.





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Komentáře • 28

  • @Bloodsport1337
    @Bloodsport1337 Před 21 dnem +18

    It sucks when you still love them

    • @raymondcopperfield884
      @raymondcopperfield884 Před 20 dny +3

      Yeah you have no choice but just take it like that dear.

    • @Frank-qq7vu
      @Frank-qq7vu Před 20 dny +2

      its alright, soon you wont

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  Před 20 dny +1

      Yes, it is sucks my dear friend, and this is exactly why you’re educating yourself to make it suck less.
      Right now you have the right amount of energy and time to heal so take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this!
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  • @anacfonseca8292
    @anacfonseca8292 Před 20 dny +4

    I’m never going back , I understand that he is not emotionally available and he’s damage will no longer take my energy . I will
    Heal

  • @zahraaazim648
    @zahraaazim648 Před 20 dny +2

    You’re an absolute angel Paz
    😢❤

  • @rayclark6195
    @rayclark6195 Před 21 dnem +2

    Thank you for this valuable information!!👍🏾

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  Před 20 dny

      For sure, my dear friend thank you for watching. I’m always here for you so please let me know if you have any question or video suggestions sending love and healing to your heart. 🙏🏽🤍

  • @Beans300
    @Beans300 Před 21 dnem

    Great video 🙌

  • @IvanSladoja-tj5cx
    @IvanSladoja-tj5cx Před 20 dny

    Found your video and book on healing, thank you very much.

  • @Zulaz100
    @Zulaz100 Před 20 dny +3

    i prey and hope you are right in everything you saying, curse holy shit it hurt when you still love them, and they jump into a new relationship.. rebound or not, you can never be 100% sure i feel like.. but thanks for your wisdom friend. :)

    • @kerriereid8560
      @kerriereid8560 Před hodinou +1

      I feel your pain, we are strong we will make it. X

  • @bambilekha6812
    @bambilekha6812 Před 19 dny +1

    I trusted him and entrusted my innocence, my laugh and my soul unto him, he disrespected and took me for granted 😢

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  Před 19 dny

      I’m sorry to hear that… I feel you my friend!
      Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this!
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  • @kerriereid8560
    @kerriereid8560 Před hodinou

    I was in a relaionship for 5 years, he lied and said he just wanted space and move out. Then cllicked and got him to admit he was in a relaionship and cheating. He loved bombed me. Told me he loved me, then broke up. Begging to be friends. I was in shock. I lost 2 half stone in a month and a half. I am in no contact .he is 40 and he went with a 25 year old. My heart was broken. Still messages me now, asking how i am.do these age gap relationships last?

  • @marytierney9876
    @marytierney9876 Před 15 dny

    I have yo agree I thought the pain in my heart would never heal, I lost a half stone in weight could not sleep .eat or think
    It's possible to die of a broken heart . You have to heal and build your self confidence

  • @IvanSladoja-tj5cx
    @IvanSladoja-tj5cx Před 21 dnem +3

    After careful consideration, l have decided to follow your advice to not focus on getting my ex back, but instead concentrate on moving on and completely healing. Could you please do a video on healing. Thanks for all your work.

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  Před 16 dny

      I have made many videos on healing in my channel but I’ll make more for you!
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  • @askquestions1236
    @askquestions1236 Před 17 dny

    Caught my ex cheating. He lied until i had a photo. Then he told me he had been dating her for 2 years. 😱

  • @HarrisNMeo
    @HarrisNMeo Před 20 dny +1

    Is monkey branching considered as rebound relationship? My ex cheated on me and left me for someone else after a 5 year long relationship.

  • @alliecat6342
    @alliecat6342 Před 19 dny +1

    He moved on after a month. I still haven’t moved on and it’s been over 2.5 months.

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  Před 19 dny

      I feel you my friend!
      Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this!
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  • @aqmendoza52
    @aqmendoza52 Před 20 dny +1

    How do we even know it's a rebound and not a real relationship?

    • @cerico76
      @cerico76 Před 20 dny

      Do not worry about it , go on your own , it is all it matters! As soon as you start to realise they are gone forever , as soon as you will start again.

    • @PazGoldmanOfficial
      @PazGoldmanOfficial  Před 20 dny

      You’re asking because you want to find out if your ex in relationship or if someone is in a rebound relationship with you,?

    • @aqmendoza52
      @aqmendoza52 Před 19 dny

      @@PazGoldmanOfficial I just want to know in general. How do we actually know if that relationship is a rebound or actually a new relationship, And yes, my ex has a new partner after only 2 months. We wer together for 3.4 years/months and the last 6 months, living together. They are all over social media and my ex even blocked me from everything after seeing their picture on FB. Thanks for responding Paz!

    • @craggyexplores3070
      @craggyexplores3070 Před 7 dny

      @@aqmendoza52 delete all social media and give em the gift of missing u forever