"We'll just call her.. we'll call her Petunia!" 😂😂
Brandon Mr.Unattainable Sloan Anyone thinking Harry Potter the second he said that? 😂 I sure did!
don't put pressure on yourself to tell her anything. if it's not relevant to the conversation and you are conflicted about it, then you don't need to tell her. just be yourself and see how things go 😊
stop whispering, your voice is deep enough, you dont need to try to make it sound deeper.
Apple Son he's probably whispering cause it's awkward since he has 5 roommates and he's telling a story about one
Ryan Jacobs Flores They ll see it anyways since you posted this for the whole internet lool
+Kai Mills but he's a youtuber so it shouldn't be awkward. And I meant in all videos, not just this one.
Carlos Alberto its not about if they know its about he not want to disturb his mates. At least thats what i guess would be more legit.
Hi Ryan! This is Daisy & Mikey's grandma. I just want to let you know that I am truly happy that you have found your happiness. You have become quite a handsome young man and intelligent as well. Take care of yourself and may you blessed with all that your heart desires.
plot twist, she's trans too
Loved this video man! I totally feel you in the whole being stealth, but wanting to talk about it, but that not being the only thing about us. Especially how you said people see you differently when they find out you're trans like that's insanely true!
Biggest shout outs to you Ryan, you've gained a subscriber all the way from New Zealand. You're so brave, courageous and are setting such a great example for many people. I respect that immensely!
It's amazing to see how you changed since high school, it feels like not to long ago when I watched you on rebel news and now I'm watching you on youtube. Truly inspiring 💞.
i spent like 2 min trying to read the top of his hat
Angie D don't you know a joke when you see one???? I know what it says.
I seriously love listening to you talk and watching your videos. I do hate hearing people go through hardships, but I truly think it helps with development. I can't wait to watch your next video! :)
you are truly inspiring! I remember seeing you in highschool, so confident. I remember envying you for your courage to be who you are. I wasn't out then but you, malorie and everyone helped me so much. now its my senior year, I've been out for two years, and I want to thank you for me and many others to be ourselves.
I go to a small college and am currently living stealth as well. It is very scary. Glad we're in this together. Thanks for sharing!
I would do the same. It must feel very nice to be treated like the guy you are!! I'm sure people will accept you as a trans but I think you're right, they will look at you differently. There a girl I know and I heard the is trans. I wished they didnt tell me. I went to her instagram and stared at her picture thinking; I cant believe she used to be a boy. You know what I mean? She was 100% female to me but now that I KNOW I cant help myself thinking that she wasn't born this way. I also mind the Things I say, like I asked her about Caitlyn Jenner when she just came out, but then I thought "hmmm maybe this is too delicate to ask" but I asked all of my other girlfriends and I want to treat her just the same. But I cant anymore... So me not knowing would have been better. I hope it will change soon. I know it will it just takes time I guess.
What im saying is, you are a 100% guy to me, and by saying you're trans people will see you as a trans instead of a (good looking!!) guy. And I'm guessing you just wanna feel like a normal guy, without explanations. You took your chance to be treated equally and that's a good decision, no shame in that. You did the right thing and if there ever will be a right moment you can tell her. I'm proud!!!! And you're gorgeous.
question: dont u think u are overthinking it? like now u know this girl u know is trans, you know she is different, because she is, right? However, maybe knowing may help you to just adjust the things you may wanna say or share that cis girls like us wont take offence than maybe she would/could? ( i mean the whole period talk and stuff like that) what i mean is maybe it is a good thing that you know?
I really appreciate the message you sent in this video about coming out when you want to.
you are strong and soo positive i like that,i love you so much
Your voice is sooo soothing! I love it
you have the most perfect voice for ASMR if you ever wanted to try it out
To be honest she has the right to know you're transgender if she's your girlfriend. She shouldn't judge sure but she should know
Nah. He doesn't need to tell anyone if he doesn't want to. There is no "right" to know these things, or any entitlement at all. Trans people don't owe anyone anything...
Ryan Jacobs Flores Oh sorry thought you meant girlfriend dunno why. And yh your room mate doesn't have to know, your right about that.
Sofia If I had a transgender girlfriend & she didn't tell me. It would annoy me. Sure a room mate doesn't have to know but when your in a relationship big things like that's should be shared with each other!
I am new to your channel and am enjoying your perspectives.
My Godson is FtM, so your wisdom helps me to understand him. I am cisfemale & a femme lesbian.
I came out in the olden days, circa 1970s, and oddly, being a
feminine lez in San Francisco was not acceptable. Not only that, but I was told by my own LGBT community I was mistaken thinking I was gay (!!).
I would be asked to leave from lesbian events, that's how bad it was. What I disliked most was being ignored by lesbians, who had no idea I was one of them. Especially when I wanted to flirt with them. I have gaydar, and I can pick up on other people's sexual orientation easily. I don't know why they didn't do the same.
There was the mistaken perception by my lesbian sisters that I would drop everything to run off with a man, the first chance I got, and it was foolhardy for anyone to date me.
Also, I was disliked because they told me I was "trying" to pass as straight. For the record, I made attempts to dress & look more masculine, but it was extremely uncomfortable, and it felt like I was in drag.
Not only that, I don't even like the tailored look on myself. I am an uber frilly & colorful woman. I keep up with the fashion trends; I love makeup, shoe, & clothing shopping. I have styled hair and love going to spa salons.
Nowadays this is more acceptable among my peers. The Los Angeles based cable show The L Word educated people to see that feminine lesbians were not unusual.
San Franciscan lesbians are still very masculine.
I'd moved to Arizona in 1989, and am not around San Fran.
Thank you, Ryan, for sharing your story, because it helps many.
I am new to your channel. I think you are wonderful and courageous for living your truth. Talking about this topic on your channel has the potential to help so many others who are going through the things you discuss: transitioning, coming out to new people, etc.
Stay strong! 💛 do it whenever you are ready and when your heart tells you. People will love you for you! You have an amazing personality
I think you're an amazing guy
Thanks for sharing your story! Good luck at school!
I say go stealth. What's the problem with her thinking you're cis? And even if she does find out, why would she be angry? It's a personal part of your own life and therefore you're not under obligation to tell her. And since it would not effect her life in any way whether you're trans or cis, I don't think she'd be pissed if she found out.
Anything AFTER a few dates means that has to be disclosed. It’s not fair to the other person!!!! I don’t judge trans people, but I would be upset if I was dating someone sexually and they waited for intimacy to tell me. The fact that the other person may not want to date a trans person has to be respected too!!!!!
Your voice is so calm ☺️❤️ feels good to hear, I can hear you talk forever ♥️
such a soothing voice omg
You're probably the best looking man I've ever seen omg
Ryan thank you so much for having your channel!! I just found your channel and I am so happy and proud of you (even tho i don't know you) Please never stop being yourself and keep up the wonderful channel
I'm extremely happy that I found this channel. It so far has be really inspirational and warm. I appreciate people who are strong enough and confident enough to share the most vulnerable parts of themselves in hopes to help others that are going through the same thing or similar experiences. I'm 19 right now and for the longest time I never knew what I was, only that I fell somewhere in the LGBT+ community between Bisexual and Transgender. You know and it sucks because I never knew what to say to people. I am attracted to both sexes, but I was born a gender that I wish I wasn't, yet at the same time I am not to sure about the change being something that I want. People would think I was a girl and others would think I was a guy, and at some point people stop trying to figure me out and in a way I kind of liked it. So, ultimately I decided I was Genderfluid. I can be myself in a way but also have that excitement of being someone else. I always tell people I hate having limits, but deep down I still have this feeling where I just should just commit and be one, y'know?
That's why your videos and videos like these really help me out and give me perspective on what to expect and if I really want this. i have a few trans friends that have either begun the transition or is already well through it. It's tough to explain to family and other people you know or meet but all in all they seem happy with who they really are. I guess I am curious on the matter of being transgender is because I want to know if it will help me reach that same level of happiness and confidence. Anyways, you got my love and support! Definitely had to subscribe and I wish you the best with this roommate. It isn't any of her business, but if you two do become close my best bet is to tell her. It would make things a lot easier then, and if you want to be discreet just let her know and if she truly is cool she'll understand. What's your thoughts on sex change? (or anyones really)
Have a nice day :D
I love how you put Sunset Lover in your videos, It's my favorite song!
I don't think you need to tell anyone, you are a guy and not having a penis is not a big deal, you'll always be a guy anyway, it's not like you have something wrong with your body
ladyk Minho so it's selfish not to tell someone you're trans? I don't get it
it's so amazing that you inspired so many people in this world. keep up the good work, and JUST BE YOU 😍🤗😁
you're awesome man. i'm glad you pursued your dreams
I love you. My cousin Jake saw your vids and said you gave him the courage to come out.✌
Great story time man! Kinda sounds like something I was going through until someone went and told my business.
Anyways loved the video, you have a wonderful day!
You're inspiring, this is the second video I watched and your content is very chill.
You make me want to hug you, Idk why. You're so strong and lovely ❤️
You inspire so many people out there, I just had to subscribe to you.
you are so amazing. like seriously you inspire me so much to love myself and not be afraid to be who i truly am. btw you are so handsome omg!!!!
just found your channel and I already love it 😩❤
@Ryan Jacobs Flores I'm not sure how I came upon your video, but it is totally the virtual hug I needed. Consider me your newest subscriber
I love your eyebrows!!!! They are perfect!!
true that!!! you are not obligated to tell everyone about your situation. just live life so long as you're happy and you don't hurt anyone. 😀
I just found your channel and I adore they way you express your thoughts.
Omg I just watched your video about you discussing your first month on T and I'm went to this and I'm so amazing how much have changed in you 😱
I can't wait for my boyfriend to start T and see him happy ❤️
Im new to your channel and i absolutly Love your voice sooo much ❤️ its calmin me down when im watchin your videos.
I ❤️your openness!
you are so cute ryan :)
Your story and aspects on other people's opinion is great 😊👌🏽
You have such an awesome personality!
had to subscribe! I think it is awesome that you are doing this for yourself. 😊❤
I really idmire you! So happy to se your story, to see that you come on with your preferenses in life, something that is making you happy, sooooo happy for you!!!!! Keep going, dont let anyone ruins your dreams, kisses from a mexican admire of you!
I just found your channel a couple hours ago.. and man.. I am SO binging rn. 😍
you look great as ever and I'm very proud of your determination to be yourself. bless you and have a wonderful day🙌
Yesss 🙌 you're not alone. I've been stealth since I came out, which was 3 years ago and I'm over 1 year on T now. The only people who know are my parents or people who need to see my birth certificate and stuff, but I don't plan on ever coming out really, unless it's absolutely necessary. Just do you.
I wish I could give you a hug... you are inspiring.
Who thinks of Petunia as a name, though? lmao
He is still genetically a woman and petunias are a flower for all you know there might have been a petunia sitting right in front of him or petunias outside the window or possibly his favorite flower the first feminine thought/name that came to his mind
You are such an inspiration to me 💕
I recently began following you in order to help me be a better support person for my ftm son.
3 mins in and I'm subbing, nice job bud
I am ridiculously jealous of your voice. It has dropped so much, and I'm happy for you, but I really wish that I could be on t
you're such a cool person, with such a dope heart!
I want his eyelashes omg
I love how tou talk lol your accent is really woamdoajd 😍
Your voice is so calming
such a soothing voice
I respect you so much. For so many reasons.
Originally watched this video bc I thought you were cute. That was such a surprise. Thank you for sharing this it was very informative. You're still cute ! Good luck with your roomie ❣️
You do you and you do it well!! Keep the positive vibes going. I support you #bekind ❤😁
Hes actually really cute💕
😍 your voice is so soothing
Wow.....just imagining how it must be a burden to be cautious about yourself and who you are. Nobody should go through that. Everyone has the right to be themselves and to keep personal things private w/o the fear of being judged or looked differently. This is the 1st video I've watched of a woman-man transition and I find it really inspiring. "Live life to the fullest" #StayBlessed :)
your voice sounds amazing!
I THINK YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PERSON ON EARTH. THANK YOU FOR INSPIRE MANY OTHERS!
I think I'm in love. Your smile is just perfect ✨
Thanks for sharing! If i were your roommate and you felt you needed to come out I would be like “we r not having this convo because it doesn’t matter. Dude, check out my new computer!” I love your vids and just started following on twit! Stay safe my friend!
Bruh wtf ur voice is so calming
I wish you the best. Live your TRUTH. Be happy. PEACE AND BLESSINGS.
Yeezus oke I'm so overwhelmed right now. First of all, you got me as a new subscriber!!! I looove how open you talk about every fucking thing! Because of you I will look way more positive to every transgender I meet I think. I already supported lgbt's, but I don't know... You really opened my eyes in some way. Sounds heavy, but your channel means sooo much to the world right now. I'm sure of that. I wish you the best!!
i love your eyebrows.
So, now it's November. Is there an update with the same roommate?
on a total different note to this topic, the last two minutes had helped me realize I really don't have to tell others anything if its not important o.o I was always trying to explain myself to everyone , thanks for helping me realize this >~
Just be yourself and dont overthink things. It only makes it worse. You got this.
eyebrows on fleek!
I started a new school two weeks ago and I wanted to come out ofter one or two days but it just didn't happen so now I'm stealth and it makes me really nervous cause I'm very feminine and don't really pass I'm so scared they might find out (I'm ftm and I'm 15 and the other kids in my class are all younger than me and I think they're too young and too dumb to understand what being trans really is)
I wonder if boys with vaginas have their period bc idk🤔 I still support u cuz I'm bisexual and I'm not ready to come out some ppl. But almost everyone knows but some ppl don't.
Queen Krystal periods are caused by hormones so i think he wouldnt have one anymore bc his hormone levels are probably at the same level as a cis dude. Im not very educated on the topic but with my knowledge of the human body i would think him being so far into transitioning he wouldnt have it anymore
I've been stealth (MtF) for the whole of my first year of Medical School. You're not obligated to tell anyone - especially anything this personal. Your choice completely.
I get guys and girls sharing apartments at uni but isn't it a bit odd to share a room? Does that happen often where you live?
When you live in an apartment on campus you can live with whoever you want. In the dormitory system that you cannot live with whoever you want
Actually, I live in a college dorm room and with a female. Some colleges allow co-ed dorming. And more and more are following the trend.
irrelevant but your voice is sooo relaxing :)
i know this fits with all the comments about your voice, but if you did audiobooks i would totally listen to them
love your voice!
If you do come out to her about it, you should do it on a video. It would be nice to see her reaction
good video. go you, you sound happy. happy for you!
Yeah his voice is so nice to listen to
Richtofen Modz I feel like... he definitely prefers male pronouns. He even said it in a video
Cara Stamets I don't care what the disappointment says in the video every person with a working brain knows you can't hide from your real gender
i love ur eyebrows 😍😍
I 100% support you, and I think it's great that you are who you are, but if you're being true with yourself don't be afraid to tell people the truth about you especially if she's living with you being honest with others helps you be true to yourself .
"Petunia !!!!" 🤣😂😂😂
You have such a calming voice omg
Shelby Rayne Music its so fake
yoyo yo yeah so is he! it's all cgi
@@davedooart1584 so are you so stfu and leave him alone