I do understand why Paula didn’t really care for her pregnancy, nor the name reveal party, but the way she went about it is rude to me. I find it interesting that Paula wants to be rude/disrespectful when the woman is pregnant, but when the baby is here she has the audacity to want to be involved with the baby (i.e. see it, hold it, post it all over social media, etc.). That’s entitlement at its best. If you don’t want them in your kids life then so be it. It’s your life & your kids NOT anyone else’s. End of story.
When the father called, I'd have said "why would I call u? It's not that big of a deal, right?. You downplayed everything and said it wasn't worth it to come to events. I thought maybe this wouldn't be worth it to u either." Sounds like Paula was jealous because she doesn't have kids and didn't get to experience pregnancy, so she's belittling op's pregnancy announcements.
No, I don't think she is jealous that she can't have kids, else she wouldn't latch onto them as much... it seems like she compartmentalized pregnant ladies in particular. But trying to figure out why seems like a waste of time imho
I don't understand why Paula didn't just keep quiet. There are lots of things I'm not into. Doesn't mean I want to ruin it for other people with pointless negativity. Dad doesn't seem like a very wise person either- dismissing his pregnant daughter, and then complaining about not being included. This is the perfect example of drama. Pointless all around. Just be cool...
Not everyone cares about your pregnancy.... but that doesn't mean they shouldn't show you respect. It kinda sounds like that was your issue with your dad.
Someday, when my kids have their own kids, I will gladly participate in any activity I can go to, stupid or not. I will be there to support them if nothing else. This is a basic parent thing. If you can't show your kid basic respect, you shouldn't expect it back.
I suspect Paula might've been unable to carry. It would explain her "disinterest" as actually being avoidance of an uncomfortable subject. This is further supported by her interest and excitement in children, which would suggest she wanted her own and make the subject of pregnancy very uncomfortable while unable to bear children. That all said, it would have been wiser for her to at least come clean about her reasoning and discomfort. It's like, if I was excited about a new movie, why would I invite someone who downplayed and scoffed at my excitement for it once it came to theaters? Not an exact parallel, but it gets the point across.
Didn’t watch the video entirely, but I’m going to go out on a limb and say Paula got a miscarriage and the pregnancy itself brings up negative emotions. Then when the baby is safely delivered then she finally is so into the baby’s life because she knows it’s safe.
I can relate to OP. My 2nd daughter(1st biological) is over 3 years old now and not once has my dad or the woman he's married to offered or made the effort to come see her. Knew of my wife's pregnancy, knew when the baby shower was, knew when the due date was, due to from when water broke to holding our daughter in our arms being about a 2 hour time frame he didnt know she was born until right after, also granted this was in 2020 and all the covid crap was rough back then, no effort to come see her. No holiday visits, no birthdays. Just a text every 1-3 months to ask how we are and update us on how theyre doing. My dad's wife asked for pictures early on for a couple of months, but still no efforts, requests, or mentions of trying to come see her or us coming to them(they live in a neighboring state but its just a 45 minute drive). He's seen my oldest daughter, who i met when she was three when i started dating my now wife, twice when she was about 5. Both of my wife's parents have passed, so she only has 1 grandparent, my mother, her mimi.(my oldest has her Nan as well and her bio dad who is kinda sorta in the picture sometimes) And my grandparents who live right down the street, who all love them so much, that I am so very grateful for. My wife helped me through the heartbreak of this to where I now just accept it. If someone doesnt want to be a part of her life, then their fuckin loss, we wont try to make them.
I have better one. My parents divorced when i was 5, because my dad cheated on my mom with his now wife. He made some promises he broke to meet up, broke them, lied few times until i just didnt care. when I got my first GF who lived next house to my dad. I know for a fact he has seen me with my ex multiple times. Never greeted me. Even my ex told me that he was often staring at us. Last time i spoke with my dad was on my grandads funeral when i was 17. On my grandmoms funeral he even didnt greeted me (month later after grandads funeral). Meanwhile, my uncle. When parents divorced, he obviously took my dads side and said some nasty stuff to my mom. Then when we were 12, me and my cousin were at grandmoms house and somehow we convinced my aunt and uncle to let me stay at their house for few days. after few instances of me staying at my uncle or my cousin staying at my house, my uncle little bit softened but still never spoke to my mom after some rude things he said to her when my dad divorced my mom. Always my aunt was in contact with my mom. My cousin told me that he overheard that i changed his mind about my mom, how she raised me. Then one time, when my uncle and aunt picked up my cousin from my house, my aunt was inside drinking coffee while my uncle was sitting in car (shame i guess), until my stepdad went outside and basically dragged my uncle in for coffee. and somehow my moms and aunts friendship rekindled and uncle actually apologised to my mom, shocking everyone. Anyway, fast forward when im 23, Im living in different country 1500km away, me and my wife (different girl to one who lived next to my dad) had out first son On same day, i messaged my aunt telling her the news. What i was told later, my uncle called my dad and congratulated him for being grandad. My dad didnt know anything and was speechless. He found out from his brother that i had a kid. Fast forward 8 years later, I have a kid and my brother has 2 younger daughters and our dad hasnt met any of them. Then most hilarious thing happened last year. My mom and my dad were classmates. They had class reunion and both went. because my moms original surname was in alphabetical order way before my dad, she had a chance to talk about her life. She told every one that that christmas (2022 i think) she was happiest grandmother, that her all 3 kids were at her house in christmas (dont forget i live far away and due to covid we werent able to go home for 3 years and i had my first christmas holiday in years) and that all her 3 grandchildren were with her that christmas. She bragged how proud she was. My dad left the reunion without telling about himself and his life. Then last summer my mom had to call my dad just to ask some medical questions for my brother, my dad asked my mom if she has picture of all of us lol .
Bro ignored his daughter and his grandson to appease his envious gf. Wild
I bet she’s infertile, hence why she loved the actual babies but hated the pregnancy, she was jealous of them for being able to get pregnant
I do understand why Paula didn’t really care for her pregnancy, nor the name reveal party, but the way she went about it is rude to me. I find it interesting that Paula wants to be rude/disrespectful when the woman is pregnant, but when the baby is here she has the audacity to want to be involved with the baby (i.e. see it, hold it, post it all over social media, etc.). That’s entitlement at its best. If you don’t want them in your kids life then so be it. It’s your life & your kids NOT anyone else’s. End of story.
When the father called, I'd have said "why would I call u? It's not that big of a deal, right?. You downplayed everything and said it wasn't worth it to come to events. I thought maybe this wouldn't be worth it to u either." Sounds like Paula was jealous because she doesn't have kids and didn't get to experience pregnancy, so she's belittling op's pregnancy announcements.
No, I don't think she is jealous that she can't have kids, else she wouldn't latch onto them as much... it seems like she compartmentalized pregnant ladies in particular. But trying to figure out why seems like a waste of time imho
I don't understand why Paula didn't just keep quiet. There are lots of things I'm not into. Doesn't mean I want to ruin it for other people with pointless negativity. Dad doesn't seem like a very wise person either- dismissing his pregnant daughter, and then complaining about not being included.
This is the perfect example of drama. Pointless all around. Just be cool...
Paula want to be the 🌟 of the show and I think she wanted to ruined op relationships with her father.
@@princessstarpeach9161 Worked out great for her, lmao...
@AndrewAce. 😂😂 yep now she can sing Mr. Lonely all by herself.
Hopefully that Paula lady don't come back and her dad can continue to be a good grandfather.
Not everyone cares about your pregnancy.... but that doesn't mean they shouldn't show you respect. It kinda sounds like that was your issue with your dad.
Someday, when my kids have their own kids, I will gladly participate in any activity I can go to, stupid or not. I will be there to support them if nothing else. This is a basic parent thing. If you can't show your kid basic respect, you shouldn't expect it back.
I suspect Paula might've been unable to carry. It would explain her "disinterest" as actually being avoidance of an uncomfortable subject. This is further supported by her interest and excitement in children, which would suggest she wanted her own and make the subject of pregnancy very uncomfortable while unable to bear children. That all said, it would have been wiser for her to at least come clean about her reasoning and discomfort. It's like, if I was excited about a new movie, why would I invite someone who downplayed and scoffed at my excitement for it once it came to theaters? Not an exact parallel, but it gets the point across.
Didn’t watch the video entirely, but I’m going to go out on a limb and say Paula got a miscarriage and the pregnancy itself brings up negative emotions. Then when the baby is safely delivered then she finally is so into the baby’s life because she knows it’s safe.
I can relate to OP. My 2nd daughter(1st biological) is over 3 years old now and not once has my dad or the woman he's married to offered or made the effort to come see her.
Knew of my wife's pregnancy, knew when the baby shower was, knew when the due date was, due to from when water broke to holding our daughter in our arms being about a 2 hour time frame he didnt know she was born until right after, also granted this was in 2020 and all the covid crap was rough back then, no effort to come see her. No holiday visits, no birthdays.
Just a text every 1-3 months to ask how we are and update us on how theyre doing. My dad's wife asked for pictures early on for a couple of months, but still no efforts, requests, or mentions of trying to come see her or us coming to them(they live in a neighboring state but its just a 45 minute drive).
He's seen my oldest daughter, who i met when she was three when i started dating my now wife, twice when she was about 5.
Both of my wife's parents have passed, so she only has 1 grandparent, my mother, her mimi.(my oldest has her Nan as well and her bio dad who is kinda sorta in the picture sometimes) And my grandparents who live right down the street, who all love them so much, that I am so very grateful for.
My wife helped me through the heartbreak of this to where I now just accept it.
If someone doesnt want to be a part of her life, then their fuckin loss, we wont try to make them.
I have better one. My parents divorced when i was 5, because my dad cheated on my mom with his now wife. He made some promises he broke to meet up, broke them, lied few times until i just didnt care. when I got my first GF who lived next house to my dad. I know for a fact he has seen me with my ex multiple times. Never greeted me. Even my ex told me that he was often staring at us.
Last time i spoke with my dad was on my grandads funeral when i was 17. On my grandmoms funeral he even didnt greeted me (month later after grandads funeral).
Meanwhile, my uncle. When parents divorced, he obviously took my dads side and said some nasty stuff to my mom. Then when we were 12, me and my cousin were at grandmoms house and somehow we convinced my aunt and uncle to let me stay at their house for few days. after few instances of me staying at my uncle or my cousin staying at my house, my uncle little bit softened but still never spoke to my mom after some rude things he said to her when my dad divorced my mom. Always my aunt was in contact with my mom. My cousin told me that he overheard that i changed his mind about my mom, how she raised me. Then one time, when my uncle and aunt picked up my cousin from my house, my aunt was inside drinking coffee while my uncle was sitting in car (shame i guess), until my stepdad went outside and basically dragged my uncle in for coffee. and somehow my moms and aunts friendship rekindled and uncle actually apologised to my mom, shocking everyone. Anyway, fast forward when im 23, Im living in different country 1500km away, me and my wife (different girl to one who lived next to my dad) had out first son On same day, i messaged my aunt telling her the news. What i was told later, my uncle called my dad and congratulated him for being grandad. My dad didnt know anything and was speechless. He found out from his brother that i had a kid. Fast forward 8 years later, I have a kid and my brother has 2 younger daughters and our dad hasnt met any of them.
Then most hilarious thing happened last year. My mom and my dad were classmates. They had class reunion and both went. because my moms original surname was in alphabetical order way before my dad, she had a chance to talk about her life. She told every one that that christmas (2022 i think) she was happiest grandmother, that her all 3 kids were at her house in christmas (dont forget i live far away and due to covid we werent able to go home for 3 years and i had my first christmas holiday in years) and that all her 3 grandchildren were with her that christmas. She bragged how proud she was. My dad left the reunion without telling about himself and his life. Then last summer my mom had to call my dad just to ask some medical questions for my brother, my dad asked my mom if she has picture of all of us lol .
Does anyone know the name of the music in this video?
Oneheart x reidenshi- Snowfall
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Um i dont know why i got like kinda annoyed but why alot of story telling video has a boy sound but they we're a woman that just make me confused
This is the fakest channel ever
There are so many like this 😂
Ive literally seen the posts on reddit
I don’t care if the story is fake. What I care about is if the story is good