Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) vs Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
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- čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
- In this video I'll be discussing the differences between a highly sensitive person (HSP) and someone who has borderline personality disorder (BPD).
0:00 Intro
1:38 What is BPD?
3:03 What is a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)?
3:43 Reactions to Internal and External Stimulus
6:30 Differences in Symptoms
7:00 Changing the name BPD?
8:42 How to Move from BPD to HSP Only?
9:28 Outro
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This example with coffee is very true-I feel really anxious almost to the point of paranoia after about 3 hours of consuming it.
I was just diagnosed with BPD last week, I'm so thankful to have found your channel
lol i love your name also good luck on your journey im sorry you have to go through all this but im so glad you got an explanation and stuff :)
Me too. Yesterday! I already knew, but now I'm official. Yay fml
You might really benefit from watching videos by Dr. Daniel Fox and by Prof Sam Vaknin too! I definitely have from all 3 😊
@@Omegha94zip vaknin is a sham. Don't watch him. He doesn't even think men can have bpd. He calls us basically narcism which is not me at all
Thank you for your videos. I'm a 30yo man dealing with a new BPD diagnosis. It's a relief knowing my diagnosis is the key to my recovery. Gaining an understanding and self awareness is the first step. Keep up the positive vibes 💜
Missing your uploads! I know you've got your own hectic life but I just wanted to say that your content truly helps me and I'm very excited and thankful for every video you post!
Love the videos. When are you coming back? 😢
I am going to see my psychiatrist and have a discussion about BPD, and I am not sure what to feel. What made me come to this conclusion was reading the literature on BPD and trauma and how I experienced many of these symptoms and behaviors as an adolescence and even now when reading over the diagnostic criteria I have experienced many of these symptoms continuously throughout my life. In one of your recent videos, you talked about how your BPD seems to only show when in a relationship and I have a very similar experience and I too also relate in how BPD can be internalized. But I also have had intense highs and lows and when I am not in-between, I do often feel empty and loneliness which often leads to poor impulsive decisions to fill a black hole of what is left of the previous joy ride. I am just tired of living my life on a rollercoaster of emotions and thoughts. I hope that I will be able to recover in some way the person that I know that I can be. Thank you for your videos they have been supportive while I try and figure out this whole process.
be happy you don't have to go through menopause. I literally went crazy. Everyone I talked to said it wasn't that bad. Before I would freak the f out if I dressed too warm for spring day. Hot flashes made me literally go nuts. They wanted to send me to the looney bin with a police escort instead of prescribing some relief.
Hope you've been well. I miss your uploads, they're really helpful!
im loving your content... keep up
Thank you so much, I feel so heard. Also, you are so beautiful !
great video. Im an HSP, was born this way. BPD traits came after things like birth control & mold exposure
May i know if it was depo provera?
@@dmarl1042 Meliane
Very well explained yes I do agree. Tks.
Thank you thank you thank you!!!
Interesting... I am definitely a HSP but I've been watching your videos cause I also have a lot of symptoms of BPD. Perhaps I am/have both
As a positive twist on your comment, you don't HAVE HPS, you ARE an HSP. It is not a disorder and you don't need to change it, it is just how you are and it's a trait that you are born with. Treat the BPD, but love your sensitive self, it can be really useful ☺
yeah that's why I said am/have. 'Am' referring to HSP, and 'have' referring to BPD@@joanasilva8567
Same here great explanation. Tks.
For HSP it really depends on family acceptance, understanding or else you can really feel bad. Thank you very muuch.
How does one go about getting a diagnosis for bpd? I have a deep feeling I may have quiet bpd but I’m afraid to seek a professional about it
I believe that I am an HSP with Quiet BPD. How does anyone get a "full diagnosis" ???????
Thank you for sharing.
I don't know if I am HSP or BPD or ....ABC but it's a fine line and as you say, the DSM is only a guide.
And yes Borderline Personality Disorder is a terrible term
great video!! i miss seeing you upload :( hope you're doing okay!!
The high sensitivity is trauma. It is like if the skin is wounded , you’ll feel everything way too much. It is like a cable without any insulation
U should upload more we appreciate you
Great video. I would like to put my two cents on the last part were you spoke of changing what the diagnosis (BPD) should be called and the symptoms. I think we dont need the name to be changed or the symptoms. We are who we are. We just need to embrace ourselves and find ways to cope. Changing names feels like changing our identity and we will soon become the next 'Trans' 'pronouns' group that everyone will soon get tired of and we will find ourselves getting back to square one. Let's not changing anything besides how we handle ourselves and how society percieves us.
Hi, I love your videos and how honest you are always. My partner has BPD and isn't able to get treatment yet because she's in jail and it's not accessible. I've been trying to find one that I'll see her in there but have had no luck. Understand she needs help and wants it but we just can't do it now and are doing the best we can with articles and videos and workbooks etc. The problem we're running into is it's been 2 years and well she understands what's going on she doesn't understand that it's exhausting for the person trying to support her and love her. And she's not good at telling me what she feels so I don't know what I can and cannot expect from her. Do you have a video or could you maybe make one that explains how hard it is on the partner, and what is expected from both people,? I'm not expecting her to not have an episode I know that that's possible, but I think when she's done with the cycle she can acknowledge that she had an episode and was very hurtful. Maybe I'm wrong there. She had an addiction problem I've been in and out of jail for twenty years. It's been two years of us together and she finally recognizes that she has a problem and what it is but there's no way to get her help until she gets out and there's no idea when that's going to happen. So I need help and how to navigate what's happening now because I am exhausted. I love her to death and will not give up but we need some help. Thanks in advance
It's been seven months since you've posted a video. I hope you're okay.
Empathy is a valuable gift. Bpd is a curse that destroys everyone you love.
I was diagnosed 10 years ago, with bp. I believed thwthwas an empath and hsp. I cried when i was told.
I also have complex ptsd from abuse and neglect throughout the first 10 years of my life.
I hate the bpd diagnosis i hate myself.
I treat my partner badly, i have self harmed and attempted to take my life.
I hoped that i was both but is it possible to be hsp and bpd at the same time.
How can i do it, what type of therapy is best?
I spent 2 years paying for dbt therapy and it absolutely failed.
I hate this label and i had convinced myslf that ieas an empath, i do cry at other peoples pain and unhappiness and i believed that this was my empathy.
Now i feel like a fraud instead of having a caring and rewarding trait i am stuck with bpd.
Im 55 and despairing that after 2 attempts on my life i may not survivr another
Empathy is a
i’m diagnosed adhd and highly suspect i’m autistic and experienced significant trauma. i relate to almost all quiet bpd symptoms.
Can you please do a video about bpd euphoria when your back? 💜
hey i hope everything is ok
I am a standard bearer for BPD. All I want to do is smooth your hair!
HSP is often Autism!! BPD symptoms are super common with autistic people with C-PTSD. It's such a huge cross over!!!
Please look into autism if you identify with HSP!!
You're channel should have more followers. Your channel is great. pwBPD are so maligned on so many channels on CZcams by coaches, exes, PhDs and psychiatrists all over you tube. It makes me sad and angry! IMO anyone with bpd or traits need to not even listen to channels for exes of pwBPD! They can be very cruel. Even if you have bpd, your ex can still have also been mean or hurtful or dismissive. The pwBPD gets blamed for everything! I'd like for Kayla to do a vid on just these channels.
100% agree.
I just found your channel..I hope I'm just confused but it seems that you stopped making videos. I hope not because even being a man I have alot in common with you and I am really getting alot of good information and a degree of comfort from your videos..hoping to see some new stuff from you😊
Hi Doc I am suffering from BPD i am people pleaser is this the symptom of BPD
It can be
Hey! Missing you and your videos lots. Are you ok? 💐
Shit after watching this I am thinking I do have bpd symptoms and not just HSP.
Hey what happened to her?
Yeh...and the penultimate video was on 'Ghosting'!
Prophetic?
Do U have an instagram?
Do u have Instagram?
Hi, I love your videos and how honest you are always. My partner has BPD and isn't able to get treatment yet because she's in jail and it's not accessible. I've been trying to find one that I'll see her in there but have had no luck. Understand she needs help and wants it but we just can't do it now and are doing the best we can with articles and videos and workbooks etc. The problem we're running into is it's been 2 years and well she understands what's going on she doesn't understand that it's exhausting for the person trying to support her and love her. And she's not good at telling me what she feels so I don't know what I can and cannot expect from her. Do you have a video or could you maybe make one that explains how hard it is on the partner, and what is expected from both people,? I'm not expecting her to not have an episode I know that that's possible, but I think when she's done with the cycle she can acknowledge that she had an episode and was very hurtful. Maybe I'm wrong there. She had an addiction problem I've been in and out of jail for twenty years. It's been two years of us together and she finally recognizes that she has a problem and what it is but there's no way to get her help until she gets out and there's no idea when that's going to happen. So I need help and how to navigate what's happening now because I am exhausted. I love her to death and will not give up but we need some help. Thanks in advance
Honestly, you need to take a break. Shes not going anywhere as you said you arent sure when she will get out so theres no need for the stress to find it so fast. Youd be better off taking a small vacation or go do something to make yourself relax for a week or two. Think about it after, i absolutely guarantee you will come to some insights. You seem like a good person but you also have your own life to live mate.
Have a good day.