How to deal with Negative People who are Toxic and Wicked? (Never Forget This Advice!)
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- How to deal with negative, toxic and wicked people? Enlightened Yogi and Guru Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa explains how to deal with wicked and evil-minded people (using a beautiful parable of the snake as an example). Subscribe to this channel for more spiritual inspiration and wisdom: / supremeyogi
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Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa (1836 - 1886) was one of the most prominent Self-realized masters of India during the 19th century. He was a mystic and a yogi who translated complex spiritual concepts into lucid and easily intelligible manner. He was the guru of the legendary monk Swami Vivekananda.
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the lesson of the story is "Be a kind person, but don't let anyone take advantage of your kindness...."
lol yes..... but we all have different understandings of what that means....
It is not possible to behave with our family members the way we treat othrrs. Even when it is clear that they r exploiting u, it will years to be tough to them.That is for sure.
you have to learn protection and that means sometimes "hissing"
@@ashistarudeb5574 yeah, truly said
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When somebody insults you or behave improperly towards you, you should sincerely thank them with a loving heart for releasing your karma 💖😊
Right
I like Ramakrishna - he was not PC! He says to stand up to bullies so did Vivekananda... yes, spiritual life is Not being a doormat.🌼
Truthfears Guilty
What are you trying to say. That spirititul people cant eat meet?
It depends. I tried that and was almost murdered by what turned out to be a Social Psychopath - sometimes it's best to run (and the police, therapists, Ph.D.'s in Psychology, ministers and more were equally conned as well "he's so nice" stay there and work on "your own" issues.)
Remember O.J. Simpson - the charming "angry" man (social psychopath). I had several degrees, obtaining my MA and was ruined listening to the advice of the many who told me to stay and stand up to this - LOL to even "fight back". ( I say that sarcastically).
I learned there are other ways to stand up to them - such as posting photos of him in rage and his records online so that the many another numerous woman whom he targeted can now know the truth and not be harmed. I was stunned when so many women didn't believe me until the rage eventually showed itself.
It was truly a "life lesson and education"...
@@openheartedwarrior2971 no.
@Truthfears Guilty how do you know, were you there?
I like his teachings they make total sense it taken me 40 years to realise this I like his stand up 5o the cold-hearted snake in your life I never been a forgive and forget turn the other cheek love thy enemies person that philosophy has never worked for me
I was moved to tears about the poor snake. I must send love to those who've hurt me but from a distance. Wise man, that.
STAY AWAY FROM BITING, BUT DONT FORGET TO HISS AS AND WHEN IT NEEDED TO KEEP YOU ALIVE.
GOOD LESSON FOR OUR SAMAAJ.
This exactly happened to me. I never hated anyone and said anything bad. But, haters always keep on hurting if someone doesn't hurt back.
ain't that the truth
You are right
How can a small child fight back against a violent and dangerous father?
@@kr1221E Ask God to protect you and if you are being abused I suggest you tell a trusted adult or if you feel in danger calling the child protection authorities,you don't deserve to suffer in silence neither do deserve to feel any pain and abuse from family or parents.
I'm talking from experience as I escaped years of torture from my foster parents I stayed silent and suffered until I moved away don't let it keep happening you deserve to be happy.
You have the power to put an end to the abuse you're feeling by speaking up I hope and pray that you will be able to seek help God helped me and trust in him fully and he will guide you to safety.
@@Youbarkimeow I have a feeling that question was rhetorical.
Plus, children don't have power. Rarely. Or victims of abuse generally. Somebody else must come and create possibilities, doors, there where are now walls and obstacles. There might not be available person also. So indeed, God must and will act, but sometimes, it won't happen on it's own, prayers might be needed...
I once heard a man say; ''Don't mistake my kindness for weakness.'' I suddenly saw him in a different light. I mean he literally looked physically different. I was twelve years old at that time and I have used that lesson all my life.
The teaching also advises us to stay away from wicked, negative, impure, unholy people.
i have never felt so peaceful in my life. by listening to the music i feel am at heaven. so refreshed.
In these 17 years of my life since birth I have dealt with a huge bundle of toxic people who bullied me, who took advantage of my kindness, who disrespected my love, my feelings, who just used me for their selfish motives, who never treated me well, who abused me, who assaulted me, and so on.
But I know there is one who teaches me not to do evil to them and not to turn yourself bad just because of them. And be aware when their limits are crossed.
I lost my self-respect and even lost myself.
And I realise there are loads of people who are just fake, selfish and wicked. But we have to protect ourselves
Thanks for this video.
Love to all ..
Always put bad people in trouble, even in harsh trouble if you are able and can- Chanakya.
@Rim Jhim 👆
@@gyan9368 it is good to say this for a stateman and a kinsmen to say , but that suffering will again come to haunt you .
Discipline asked to ramana maharishi - how to treat others
Rmana maharishi - there are no others , only same self within everyone
If only it were that simple when dealing with deeply disordered and highly dangerous people. Sadly, many of these toxic and evil people cannot be redeemed in this lifetime, nor do they want to.
as it is here, the toxic and foul find themselves in positions of advantage by acting this way. its gotten them the worldly desires authority
Well said.. some people are pure evil. They don't even want redemption. Their purpose of birth is to spread negativity and evil in the world
Absolutely right. The only way is to get the hell away. They will ruin your peace of mind every single chance they get.
Coming across tamasic and rajasic beings are unavoidable during our time here on Earth (and after all, we ourselves are just like them in one way or another throughout our lives; which conditioned soul can claim to be purely good and virtuous all their lives?). The best thing we can do is to try to keep our distance and defend ourselves from them (if need be) while focusing on our spiritual practices and devotion to God. Moksha will ultimately free us from having to deal with these deluded, ignorant souls anyway, so this matter should not be brooded upon for it is merely temporary.
STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVE PEOPLE TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE
Tirupatirao Gogula what if it's your mother, then
Shreerama Krishna I will stay away physically but I will take care of her because it's my duty
That might be a very unkind thing to do. There is a difference between a negative person and a bad person. If you ostracised someone just because they are negative, they might commit suicide. Would you not feel guilty about that?
soulmate7 I knew someone who was bad, negative and later committed suicide. Her siblings were trying to palm her off to other relatives who got betrayed and bad-mouthed. People who were close to her were few and not much better, my mother being one of them. Being dutiful I took care of my mother who assumed she's entitled to a good life. Over 2 years ago after I turned 61 I cut myself off completely from her. She'd be less hurtful and do less harm to others that way.
Tirupatirao Gogula Disagreed with the 'duty' part. People who are bad, obnoxious and spoiled usually have dutiful parents, spouse or children.
That was such a beautiful story...so wonderful wisdom...I'm trying to keep away from wicked people but sometime in have to hiss when the oppress the gentle one...so God help me to be a soldier for justice and heal the gentle ones...than you for your love and kindness keep teaching us to be wise and clean around us...love and light xxx
Thank you! Just dealt with a toxic person and felt better after watching this video!
Great Spiritual Advice on keeping strong boundaries.. Although sometimes it takes a while to Truly know who is a Snake..may We be granted that discernment quickly before it's too late.Jai SriRamakrishna!
There is very much to reflect upon in this story. First, we identify with a snake/earthworm in this story, symbolic of our soul. The snake had a spiritual awakening by repeating a holy word. He did all that he could to stay on his path but his error was in failing to protect himself. The monk even called the snake a “fool”for this fatal flaw. The snake would have been better off keeping distance between him and the evil around him. He needed to look out for self and others.
Here is some valuable wisdom.Thank you.
@Elaine McCarty-except it's just that. A "story". Baga's don't talk to snakes, and snakes don't take advice from anyone, or talk back.
What if the snake hissed and the boys injured him to the point of real death?
@@kr1221Ethen the snake had to fight ( with no intention to cause harm but to save himself ) . There shall be no feelings of revenge , ego , anger , then you won't even get a little of karmic debt .
There is nothing except self , there is God in everyone . If you think like referring to yourself that now God ( you or the God in you ) need to fight to save himself but whom is he even fighting. He is fighting the God ( but there is ego of that other person but he is fighting God) this type of person is free from any karmas , any sufferings
Yes this is Srimad Bhagwad Gita knowledge. There are demons and divine people on this earth. We should learn to distinguish and deal with them accordingly. Demons are as such suffering from many negative aspects, lets not add or may be we may also be dragged and behave likewise. Therefore it is better to stay away from such people. Good message. Thank you👏👏😀
Make their lives none of your business, it's that easy!
Be careful beautiful souls out here... you need to protect yourself.. sometimes you think this is to real to be fake...reflect yourself and the behavior of the other people. thank you Supreme Yogi 💖 I love your vids, so much passion, beauty and truth💖
Amazing truth unfolded by paramahamsa guru ji. People around are more venomous than the cobra. Truly if speech is silver than silence is golden.
I find that with people, a 'hiss' is not merely enough. Some don't get it and many of those never learn.
Practical teachings are always important. This approach to deal with wickeds is the correct approach.
Wow! Extremely grateful to God to come across this clip. I had so much doubts dealing with toxic people. Swami' s message cleared my mind and I know I am doing the right thing by not giving my self worth around toxic people. I keep distance and only talk to them when I need too. Oum.
I take away multiple meanings from this little parable. I feel so blessed for having discovered Sri Ramakrishna and Swami Vivekananda too.
Thank you for sharing. ✌
great story doesn't work like democracy. there's no cure pf venomous and toxic people. best you can do is avoid such people and wait till their karma gets them.
There ain't no karma
Not their but wheres ur karma?
Sometimes you have to become karma
i have learnt that people who are bad towards us are actually utterly jealous of us, so they try to find different ways to trouble us.The only mantra to deal with such people is to keep a sharp eye on them and keep track of their loop holes and bring it in front as a sheild when they come to harm us.It has worked for me hope it will work for you two.Remember we all have heard GOD help those who help THEMSELVES.
SA, pretty solid, what u say here. x
S A No. Your ego is trying to find the motive (in your case you are assuming jealousy) of others. But there is a solution for violations of both personal and universal ethics. it is your pre-programmed karma to come across venomous people. Let us get that straight first. It is all your own making.(based on past lives). If you also react negatively, you create bad karma again when people (friends, families, relatives, coworkers, known people) violate your personal dharma. Such people have to be handled with sam/dhan (peacefully) (revenge/resentment, angry reactions create negative karma for you).
If bad people (robbers, thieves, corrupt, terrorists) violate universal dharma, you will have 4 options to deal with them. Sam/dham/bhed/dand (if peace does not work we can divide them, if it does not work we can punish them but the method of choice depends on the context). Some terrorists have to be killed. Some may lay down their arms
Most of the time goodness & kindness taken for granted, people use your time,money, emotional & practical help and just neglect you when you are in need,or just abuse you and label you as psycho..too emotional,too involved,too spiritual... seriously..the last two sentences are essense..aloofness & self-protection,self proclamation of dignity is so important and remember ..the abuser, selfish people would follow you, would ask your help according to their convenience and hurt you again even if you help them out of compassion..so it's told in vedas..too much compassion is harmful.. be calculative,self protective while dealing with wicked people..best way.. have no conversation,just stay aloof and devote your time &affection to God..listen good music,thoughts like above and meditate,watch your breathing..chant mantra..be strong,take help of police in case of abusive relationship or parents or caretaker.. don't give up.. don't allow their labels decide your capabilities, don't dout on your own strength and nice behaviour rather make them realise their abusive,wicked nature,expose them in crowd,record their abuse , submit to police,or expose infront of relatives,evil people afraid of exposure,they afraid of removing their mask..so expose wicked people.. that's the real hiss
My life is full of snakes. Poisonous, cunning, ruthless, shameless, manipulative.........
Hope God gives them some good nature. I actually feel sorry for them
Ranjini Bangalore -ignore them they just want attention and never help them ,think of them as mentally retarded ppl
mandakini mahajan , thanks .You are right .
Lord arunachala will remove their ego...pray to arunachala Siva u should visit this place in ur life time....giri pradakshina is imp...lord shiva is in the form of Sidha yogi in that hill Ramana maharshi ashram also nearer to that
That hill is full of Sidha yogis live miracles if anyone try to harm u lord shiva will come directly to save u in any form
@@8956deep I appreciate u. I too love Ramana Maharishi.
Bhagwan Sri Ramakrishna Dev Ki Jai.
Sri Sarda Mata Ki Jai.
Swami Vivekanand Maharaj Ki Jai.
My translation :
- Try to be good, do good and open yourself up to the good things in life.
- Avoid contact with the bad and the evil but not to the expense of your own quality of life.Rather learn how to defend yourself and keep your guard up (don't be weak and don't appear/allow the wicked to think that your weak).Don't ask for trouble, but don't run away from it either.
The brutal fact of life is that some people are just incorrigible, no matter what kindnesses are done to them, or what punishments they incur.
Moral: Don't disturb anyone, and Don't let anyone to disturb you.
For whatever reason I am always submissive at work, and I get bullied a lot by my colleagues and take a lot of pain. I always say to my self don’t react stay calm blabla, Now I know what to do, hiss them. Thank you!
the music in itself a remedy for relaxation....so enchanting
do u know the music please ? :)
@ not really 😊
Awesome story... Heartily thankful to RamaKrishna Paramagamsa Ji
Thanks for uploading one more good video, I feel connected to my spiritual journey after watching your videos
So wonderful! I love the calm, meditative pace of your videos, as it gives one time to reflect upon the message, taking it deep within. The background music is peaceful. Thank You so very much for your beautiful work! Such a blessing!
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This is exactly what I believe in!!! Beautiful thought and philosophy!!👍👍👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏
It has been a long time since i heard this but right on time it;s something i am dealing with right now . Thanks for the video.
Baghavad Gita (chapter 18 verse 17) clearly says that those who do not have ego or those who are dharmic, even if they kill adharmic people, there is no karma or cause and effect. Yes, this video talks about particular situation. Its advice is not applicable to all situations. Dharma is highly contextual. We can use sam/dhan when someone violates personal dharma because revenge or resentment and angry reactions can create karma but when it comes to re-establishing universal dharma (like dealing with thieves, robbers, corrupt, terrorists), we have 4 options. Sam/dhan/bhed/dand.
@@Dharmicaction there is no karma if our intention to do is not bad and person is free from ego , anger , lust , attachments which is very very difficult . 99.99 times , you will get bad karmas involved . So keep distance from such people and never ever try to do something ( like killing or this things ) . Only the true sages can be free from karmic debt even after killing someone
Hare krishna hare krishna
Krishna krishna hare hare
Hare ram hare ram
Ram ram hare hare
I'm so glad i saw this! This was a hidden message for me.
I wonder how people can dislike this awesome Explanation about life so simply . Definitely as it's being said here " work of wicked or ignorant ones " . 🙏
Sometimes people take advantage of your kindness. They equate your kindness with the time they spent with you.
I'm a Sri Ramakrishna Paramahansa fan.... anyone else ??
I don't have words to express what I have learned with this teaching thanks for this video......
Ephesians 4: 26 Be angry, but sin not, let not the sun go down on your anger. To remain angry can cause you to sin.
Susan Carter Amen.
i keep getting shunned by many Christians especially on CZcams..Dan Shelley ignored my plea for prayer but pinned all other comments on his last healing video.so i deleted it..maybe JESUS has rejected me because HIS followers certainly have..GBY
Susan Carter
We are trying to learn about things and u bring the man made book now !! The book advocates slavery why would I follow it shit for Brains
Dandy D: Yep, evil is the true sinner, but whilst they say demons do not exist as they are a supernatural myth, but the type of *damage* that some people do is the absolute equivolent to the type of harm/damage that any demon would likely do if they came up from hell. And in this case they as *good* as *do* exist (or as *bad*.)
the honest seer
I wouldn't worry about it ++ There is no God anyway ++ It is all just a be[LIE]f.
I learnt a lot frm dis story.it s a lesson fr d life time.one should always show his toughness towards people like dis n never become afraid frm dem.
Thank you!
Regards 🙏🏼❤️✌🏻🌺
JAI GURUDEV
He is the most practical men we found ever.And his advice will move the future of the world.We can't stand still and see to do harm to ourselves by the ruthless bad people.We must retaliate. otherwise we all will be dead.And to know the aatma(our inner God) you need to remain alive.
May God bless you Sir.
Thank you. This is very helpful. Yes we are all One Light but don't allow people to abuse you. Be wise as serpents and gentle as doves love gratitude peace to you. 💛
it Made me really cry very bad for that snake
vibhushri gedam aww plz don't cry it's jst the way the world is.😍
That means your toxic.. haha jk jk. That snake prolly went back to being a snake evenutually and bite the monk
Don Birnam, check out Jackson Katz videos, he can explain why you made that joke about the man who was not afraid to express having feelings and emotions.
{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{} that guy seems confused, and i was just joking and the joke doesnt even make mich sense just like thst guy who wants u to agree with him so he can think hes right about something even tho hes probably not
vibhushri gedam
Yeah.. actually I felt sorry for snake. He changed. And couldn't forgive for his pass hissing.. now they treat him like crap.
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A very useful video. Thank you.
Wonderful story and good moral and sayings. Ramakrishna paramaamsar
Good words of swami Ramakrishna Deva.🙏
OM Namo Bhagavate Sri Ramakrishnaya!
Thanks for enlighting us with your rich knowledge :)
Wow it worked, my neighbor is too annoying. They play music so loud and laugh in me when im pissed when i tell them to stop. But after reading this i sharpen my knife in their loud music it worked by sharpening my knife the music die. Im very glad i read this.😊
Its easy to say that you should frighten someone. When you end up having trouble with powerful people the more you try to go against them the more they will try to destroy you.l.
Revered Saint Paramhans Ramakrishna was a epostle of peace, love and divinity.
Thank you!
Such a deep, peaceful and mysterious music
Very beautifully said ...
Thanks for sharing
Very true!! ❤❤🙏🙏
Beautiful
Please add Audio in your videos so that we can listen to these wonderful words with eyes closed... that will have great impach along with background music.. it will make experince pure bliss...
+Pranav Sharma, This channel is a small attempt to spread some of the most valuable teachings of great masters that are hidden inside the pages of book sources. So all video lessons are selected from book sources, for which audio is not available. If I try to add voice to these teachings, it will consume a lot of time from my daily schedule and also adding voice may take away the originality of these words. Hope you understand. Thank you for visiting Supreme Yogi channel.
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I like the hiss back at 😈 attitude and how there is good and evil people in the world
Beautiful thank you yogi..
Great teachings! Thank you!
Very good bhai , thank you.
Great lesson ...many many thanks...
Very beautiful and real!
🔥Sree Rama Jeyam🔥
I know this story years before! But straight to the point, lesson more than this! ☺️☺️👍👌
Thanks a lot
Wow😯...i m so fortunate to found this video,thankyou🙏
Jai Shri Krishna 🌼🌺🌸🌹🌷🌻
this is such a meaningful way to live a life, full of anger I loved it, very profound !
bEAUTIFUL SIR!!!
Very nice narration. Inspiring & motivational. Loved it.
swami ramakrishna paramahamsa please make me healthy.
Excellent motivator who wrote all of his stories so educational that I have no word to show my respect towards Him. These are not only motivational, children can build up their characters by reading these DB
Om namo rama Krishna bhagawan ji
I now have understanding that I want to be awakening . thank you
So it's okay to hiss.
I'll remember this.
Most people think hissing is bad though. They'll think you should just sit back and "take it". I never agreed with that, but this helps a whole lot more.
Well let me add that it seems from the comments that most people assume the snake is the toxic or wicked person? No.
This story is more complex. The snake was initiated through the holy word and became non violent. Then what happened? He became subjected to attacks but due to his non violent nature did not know how to 'defend' himself.
The persons who are toxic are the ones attacking the snake!
Read carefully!
🙏🏻🙏🏻thank you I needed to see this
I will say simple it's amazing
Beautiful.
Nice, immortal and effective message.
Bhai keep it up.
yup , great truth is great truth. It transcends religions, culture, politics and all the things that divide us. Thank you :)
Simply Great. ...
Don't try to be a bad person. don't try to be a good person too. You will always act as the person you really are.
Thank you 🙏🌹
Great story, I very much enjoyed it
Thank you for this information
Awesome teaching thank you, whoever created this video.
Wonderful 🙏🙏🙏🙏 thank you 🙏🙏.. needed
Shri Gurubhyo Namaha