My husband left me because i wanted children

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  • čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
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    The first story focuses on a woman who stopped taking her birth control pills because she wanted to have children. Unfortunately, her husband didn't...First, he went downstairs to the dumpster to retrieve the pills. Then, he just completely disappeared!
    As for the second one, it follows the adventures of a girl who was obsessed with getting pregnant. She was doing her best to make sure her husband led a healthy lifestyle, but, one day, she went too far and forbade him from doing anything at all...

Komentáře • 62

  • @AniMatters.official
    @AniMatters.official  Před 9 měsíci +25

    In your opinion, when should a young couple discuss their desire to have children?

    • @ReneeInspires_GodGives
      @ReneeInspires_GodGives Před 9 měsíci +6

      During friendship or courtship…way before they marry.

    • @xoxosashana
      @xoxosashana Před 9 měsíci +7

      When the relationship is becoming more serious and you both feel comfortable talking about your future together.😊👫👶

    • @Yeetgirl1
      @Yeetgirl1 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Before they get married

    • @ArcFallOrder1919
      @ArcFallOrder1919 Před 2 měsíci

      Before they get married, but in my opinion they should be tested for parenting. Cause I have seen young people making the right decisions for their children, etc. So they should be prepared, talk, or take a test.

  • @kerrygligorovic9758
    @kerrygligorovic9758 Před 9 měsíci +68

    Eric should have told his wife the truth about why he refused to have a baby 👶with her in the first place instead being nasty and bully her to forget this idea of bring a child into the world. You should never run away from your problem or your fear because those problems won't go away by themselves so you have to face your problem/fear head on with some help from the people who cared for you.

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  Před 9 měsíci +14

      You're absolutely right, @kerrygligorovic9758🤗 Sometimes life presents you with situations in which we have the impulse not to confront, but if we do that, the situation will undoubtedly get worse. Besides, just as you say, you can always count on a little help from friends🙂🙂👍👍

    • @only257
      @only257 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Agreed 🎉

    • @polishalastor142
      @polishalastor142 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Ben

    • @avanaharvey
      @avanaharvey Před 5 měsíci +2

      Exactly

    • @user-nq9if8ep7k
      @user-nq9if8ep7k Před 5 měsíci

      I agree if you want a relationship it’s for the best to tell your partner that you don’t want to have kids

  • @kerrygligorovic9758
    @kerrygligorovic9758 Před 9 měsíci +25

    If she have known that her husband doesn't want to have any kids with her then she should never have married Ben in the first place because watching the video it's very clear that they were never made 💔for one another since they have different opinion and goals. But I'm glad she realise this and decided to file for divorce so she could moved on with her own life as she have met someone who shares the same opinion 💖like her which turn out to be Ben's boss.
    I do love the good ending to the story but I wonder if Ben will ever find out that his ex-wife is happily remarried to his boss and she's pregnant with their first child because I would imagine that he'll be shocked and very annoyed. Even if Ben did confront them about their relationship his boss will pointed out to him that you should have married someone else who share the same opinion like him just as his boss and his ex-wife have a lot in common. This would make Ben realise that he and his ex-wife doesn't have anything in common after all and decided to take his boss advice by finding someone else who would have something in common just like him.

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  Před 9 měsíci +3

      Hi @kerrygligorovic9758👍👍Excellent the way you present the alternatives that life presents to Ben😉 If we get into the plot of the story, we can only hope that he has enough maturity and fortitude to move on with his life and learn from his past mistakes. He must learn to live and let live👍🙂

  • @ameliawarfield5637
    @ameliawarfield5637 Před 9 měsíci +31

    Eric should have been honest with his wife from the beginning.

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  Před 9 měsíci +3

      We 100% agree with you, @ameliawarfield5637. Sometimes it's scary to be honest, but it's certainly the right way to go and will save a lot of trouble in the long run😉Thanks for weighing in! 🤗🌷

    • @ameliawarfield5637
      @ameliawarfield5637 Před 9 měsíci

      @@AniMatters.official You're welcome 🤗.

  • @user-nq9if8ep7k
    @user-nq9if8ep7k Před 5 měsíci +3

    You know what’s wired it’s crazy how childfree people know better how children are but people who want kids don’t realize how much work they are until they are born now I don’t want to have kids either

  • @CidZero
    @CidZero Před 9 měsíci +20

    I can understand the fear of disappointment in the first story. It wouldn't be a good life for the child if you suffered from addiction.
    But it's never too late to make the right decision and turn your life around, especially if you want a child.

    • @jaggg.3821
      @jaggg.3821 Před 3 měsíci +1

      not all people can do that my grandpa adored my mom but, he was an alcoholic the best advice he gave my mom was to stick with that Jesus fella because He's working for you, she stuck with Jesus just as he advised but there's still a life lesson I learned stay away from Alcohol because my grandpa died of chiross of The liver when my mom was 16 years old and believe me that is such a painful death on top of it.
      My mom said he was a crying alcoholic not the blind violent some Alcoholic's behave.

  • @gracejustine5048
    @gracejustine5048 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Love is a beautiful thing when u find someone who genuinely loves you and share alot in common with you

  • @amaraobizue2652
    @amaraobizue2652 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Don't force anybody to be a father or a mother
    I've always wanted to be child free, even if i can't get married

  • @ameliawarfield5637
    @ameliawarfield5637 Před 9 měsíci +10

    Ben obviously didn't want another baby. So he focused on his job, and his wife divorced him and found another husband who wanted to be a father.

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  Před 9 měsíci +3

      Hi @ameliawarfield5637 👋🙂 Thank you so much for commenting! 🤗🌼🌺

    • @ameliawarfield5637
      @ameliawarfield5637 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@AniMatters.official You're welcome 🤗.🌹

    • @jnew5274
      @jnew5274 Před 8 měsíci +1

      I was listening for the marriage to Ben's boss but it seems that they are in a relationship and will be co-parenting. 🤷 Just saying.

    • @ameliawarfield5637
      @ameliawarfield5637 Před 8 měsíci

      @@jnew5274 Got it.

  • @saihraahmed7051
    @saihraahmed7051 Před 9 měsíci +7

    She cant force him to be a father.

  • @avanaharvey
    @avanaharvey Před 5 měsíci +3

    Eric actually lied to her because he should've told her from strt

  • @daisyfombe8041
    @daisyfombe8041 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Been waiting for this🎉🎉🎉finally

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  Před 9 měsíci

      Thanks to you, @daisyfombe8041, for your patient waiting 🤗🤗🤗

  • @freshnessnewaccount3854
    @freshnessnewaccount3854 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Good story 👏👏👏

  • @fyngal5327
    @fyngal5327 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Am happy for Ben's boss at least he knows what he wants 😊

  • @ArcFallOrder1919
    @ArcFallOrder1919 Před 2 měsíci

    Don't control your partner if want to have a child or not. But I understand breaking unhealthy cycles, but still.

  • @sapphirehylton
    @sapphirehylton Před 9 měsíci +12

    She not being a good wife it's wrong control Your partner

  • @vikivalov2600
    @vikivalov2600 Před 9 měsíci +4

    DIVORCE HIM AND LEAVE HIM

  • @zayvionthelegoking4545
    @zayvionthelegoking4545 Před 9 měsíci +6

    You leave her just because she wanted kids not everyone have a family and some people want one but can’t have one due to one being infernal

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  Před 9 měsíci +1

      Those are the paradoxes and ironies that life sometimes has, @zayvionthelegoking4545🙂👍

  • @supremetrapxex
    @supremetrapxex Před 9 měsíci +5

    I miss everyone

  • @rebeccaholt4827
    @rebeccaholt4827 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Why bleep out ovulating? Who cares???

  • @00videovideo
    @00videovideo Před 6 měsíci +2

    I love how we just skipped out the part where she tried to baby trap him but not taking her pills when she said she did. In some places that could be considered SA and honestly is just disgusting behavior.

  • @GracieStories
    @GracieStories Před 9 měsíci +1

    He should tell the truth to his wife

  • @tonyahenry8166
    @tonyahenry8166 Před 4 měsíci

    manipulated men to have his kid

  • @only257
    @only257 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Great 😊

  • @denisebatts3414
    @denisebatts3414 Před 9 měsíci +3

    If and when you are in a relationship communicate to your partner before marriage if you say i was afraid to tell someone your feelings, 5hen you wiil not work out and to me trust is broken

  • @anonedwards
    @anonedwards Před 9 měsíci +5

    If she was smart she would've drop all the pills in the toilet and flush them😂 he'd never find full birth control pills in the trash 😂. I'm just saying, but I truly don't believe in lies and deception.

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  Před 9 měsíci +2

      Hi @anonedwards 👋🙂 Thanks for commenting. Your opinion is important for us 🤗

  • @rosemary3135
    @rosemary3135 Před 9 měsíci

    I remember these stories

  • @melanateddoll1491
    @melanateddoll1491 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Was this a re upload?

  • @cassandraleis4162
    @cassandraleis4162 Před 9 měsíci

    Lessons well learned

  • @polishalastor142
    @polishalastor142 Před 9 měsíci

    11:07

  • @carolechaney2830
    @carolechaney2830 Před 9 měsíci

    Diversity 😊

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    @Luisanaprincessicepink-ct1nn Před 9 měsíci +1

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