Teenager Conspires with Lover to Murder Her Family | Erin Caffey Case Analysis

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Komentáře • 934

  • @danfrazier2839
    @danfrazier2839 Před rokem +457

    Parents worried about her friends, when she is the primary monster in the story.

    • @polarbearsrus6980
      @polarbearsrus6980 Před rokem +21

      Denial runs deep.

    • @elanahammer1076
      @elanahammer1076 Před rokem +14

      How ironic even the amount of denial in that household.🤔❤🇺🇸

    • @dianemorton2222
      @dianemorton2222 Před rokem +27

      The father still blames the boyfriend and other friends. The father is in total denial. Erin hated both her parents and family. She had zero feelings. It seems sex ia the only happy feeling she had in life.

    • @mookiess
      @mookiess Před rokem +23

      Kevin Schmevin eh, i think mostly everyone involved were messed up/wrong to an extent, but her parents were far from being the monster, more like the catalyst. Her parents weren't saints for sure and def had a bad influence on her, but at the end of the day, Erin still chose to murder instead of seeking some other tame method like waiting till 18 so that she could have the freedom to leave. Lots of people in toxic households don't end up becoming monsterous killers, she had other choices, but instead she chose to destroy everyone's lives and in the process, her own. By this she looks more like the monster of this case.

    • @alfobootidir2474
      @alfobootidir2474 Před rokem +1

      Not that Dr. Phil us great but his interview with her really showed she is a true sociopath. She has straight shark eyes

  • @Katkiwi25
    @Katkiwi25 Před rokem +471

    Imagine if the friends blew the whistle on this plan instead of just roll their eyes

    • @jamegumb7298
      @jamegumb7298 Před rokem +25

      I cannot think of 1 friend that would be serious saying that. At all.

    • @phantasmatt.
      @phantasmatt. Před rokem +10

      Watch the movie Bully dir. Larry Clark, about the true story of high school kids who convinced each other to murder their friend. Crazy story, even crazier movie

    • @noam2315
      @noam2315 Před rokem +9

      I saw the Dr Phil episode about this case, apparently she also asked her ex boyfriend years prior to murder her family, the boyfriend didn't have a problem with her parents so I'm not so sure about her having to break up with Charlie being the motivation. She wanted them dead long before she met Charlie.
      Edit: I commented before finishing the full video, so the ex boyfriend is mentioned in this video, I thought it was a boyfriend but apparently it was just a boy she kissed.

    • @Ad-Lo
      @Ad-Lo Před rokem +1

      Right?!

    • @Ad-Lo
      @Ad-Lo Před rokem +7

      @@noam2315 your point is still valid, though. She clearly wanted them dead.

  • @my3dviews
    @my3dviews Před rokem +63

    Crazy how easily the other people just went along with her plan, including murdering two kids just so that they wouldn't be witnesses.

  • @jimc6687
    @jimc6687 Před rokem +162

    I'm stunned the father still visits his daughter behind bars......where she absolutely belongs!!

    • @bebitamira3054
      @bebitamira3054 Před rokem +22

      I guess you don’t have children?
      You would NEVER understand until you have them.
      Yes she is a criminal, yes she is where she belongs, but I can sympathize with the father, the extreme pain he must feel about what his baby girl did. To him that was HIS BaBY GIRL... it is his daughter after all, that’s what unconditional love is and what most parents do.

    • @kayzbluegenes
      @kayzbluegenes Před rokem +28

      He's a Christian, so he 'has' to forgive her; plus, she probably snowed him like she did the therapist.

    • @honeyoyinfalola6870
      @honeyoyinfalola6870 Před rokem +13

      It’s sad could be a coping mechanism

    • @jeaniechampagne8831
      @jeaniechampagne8831 Před rokem +6

      I think he's also hollow. Removed from the whole tragedy. She'll never be released, in my opinion, that is.

    • @aethrya
      @aethrya Před rokem +9

      I would never speak to my child again after this. Ever.

  • @Spiralyne
    @Spiralyne Před rokem +77

    A couple of the guys on the behaviour panel names Erin their favorite psychopath ever, partly because she was unintelligent, female, and very young, while we typically think of psychopaths as male, extremely smart and at least older than a teenager. Thanks for your analysis, Dr Grande. Always a pleasure!

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Před rokem

      The Behaviour Panel is pseudo-scientific nonsense, unfortunately.

    • @Spiralyne
      @Spiralyne Před rokem

      @@eadweard. So what? :)

    • @mightiestalone9851
      @mightiestalone9851 Před rokem

      The Behavior Panel is engaged in pseudoscience, per Dr. Grande. I agree.

    • @celesteshenas2155
      @celesteshenas2155 Před rokem +4

      Weird as the psychopaths

    • @RIOTEARTH
      @RIOTEARTH Před 2 hodinami

      She's highly intelligent. She speaks like a seasoned politician yet has no formal training whatsoever.

  • @andromeda1903
    @andromeda1903 Před rokem +112

    i don't understand killing someone when you can just leave! you have to be an idiot monster to do that. although i'm sure she would have ended up in prison no matter what she chose, she's just rotten.

    • @dextermorgan1
      @dextermorgan1 Před rokem +15

      A teenager can't "just leave" plus, her parents probably tried to rule every aspect of her life. Those highly religious parents can't do real psychological damage to their children. Add that on top of already being a psychopath, and you end up with a person willing to kill to get what they want.

    • @chuckrobinson599
      @chuckrobinson599 Před rokem

      @@dextermorgan1 they're not highly religious, they're heavily controlling. They never taught their daughter any values, they just give orders. They hide behind the facade of religion, to throw fits about a 17 year old drinking, like it's a federal case. It's an extreme form of virtue signaling.

    • @cmstacy
      @cmstacy Před rokem +10

      Some are just born bad seeds.

    • @Noodlepunk
      @Noodlepunk Před rokem +4

      @@dextermorgan1 She could have waited.

    • @dextermorgan1
      @dextermorgan1 Před rokem

      @@Noodlepunk Yes, she could have, but she's obviously psychotic, so in her mind, that probably wasn't an option. Crazy people don't think logically like we do.

  • @saragates2255
    @saragates2255 Před rokem +50

    Erin Caffey has always given me the creeps. Very manipulative and no conscience whatsoever. My skin crawls when I watch her interviews. IMO she's one of the more dangerous people we've reviewed. Tyfs Doc!

    • @marlanaferro1558
      @marlanaferro1558 Před 9 měsíci

      Jill Coit as well.

    • @doringhaak8392
      @doringhaak8392 Před měsícem +1

      You're talking nonsense about Trump. Trump is a competent no nonsense succesful statesman that improved everybody's lives

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva Před rokem +105

    I’ve seen interviews of Erin and she doesn’t seem even the least bit remorseful to me. I feel so bad for her dad. I can’t imagine finding out my whole family was massacred at the hands of my other child.

    • @erikamccarthy1457
      @erikamccarthy1457 Před rokem +2

      Severe denial Erin involved. I’d be in shock to, but at some point after hearing the evidence you must doubt your belief in her innocence. Parents worst Nightmare made Reality! 7/30/22

    • @lf9341
      @lf9341 Před rokem +5

      Psychopaths...crazy.

    • @jeaniechampagne8831
      @jeaniechampagne8831 Před rokem +1

      Her facial expressions looked hollow to me, even tho she's pretty, zombie like.

    • @erikamccarthy1457
      @erikamccarthy1457 Před rokem +1

      @@jeaniechampagne8831 Psychopath in making. If/When ever released, not last we’ll see of her. Something very wrong. Sad really

    • @susannasPOV
      @susannasPOV Před rokem +5

      No kidding when interviewed and asked what happened she said , " well I just made so bad choices that how I ended up here " no emotion doesn't feel bad at all bout taking her mothers and brothers lives and ruining the dads life on top of his life long physical injuries !! She saud, I made some bad choices as if she just shop lifted something weird and the dad is weird as can be in total denial doesn't blame her says, the boy manipulated her despite ALL EVIDENCE to the contrary!!

  • @archipiratta
    @archipiratta Před rokem +325

    I'm noticing a trend in these teenage crimes from Skylar Neese tragedy and the Loveless case to this one: the perps blurted out their plans yet nobody took them seriously. Had one person said something this whole mess could've been avoided. Sadly this was not the case

    • @franny5295
      @franny5295 Před rokem +24

      I had a 15 year old boy tell me that he was feeling out of control and his mom wouldn't let him get help. That he felt like he would do something "bad" and he was mad at the girl rejecting him. I tried to report it but was met with "if you don't know who he is and where he is there's nothing we can do." So, I guess we'll see this fall if he got over it or not...

    • @Kat-tr2ig
      @Kat-tr2ig Před rokem +35

      The police will probably just tell you that teenagers talk about killing their parents all the time, don't pay attention to them, they're being dramatic.

    • @jhoughjr1
      @jhoughjr1 Před rokem +6

      Not really. So and so heard some dude say such and such about these ppl over here. Go arrest them officer.

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 Před rokem +11

      Problem is, according to the police there’s nothing they can do. It’s super frustrating

    • @chuckrobinson599
      @chuckrobinson599 Před rokem +10

      The entire country is a troupe of drama queens. So you learn to ignore it. Then the one who wasn't a drama queen speaks up, and we're used to ignoring it.

  • @paulajohnson139
    @paulajohnson139 Před rokem +30

    Dr. Grande's statement that people grow up "unevenly" opened my mind. Such clarity!

    • @tammysims8716
      @tammysims8716 Před 14 dny

      Pathetic excuse.

    • @Readytoflyhome
      @Readytoflyhome Před 8 dny

      @@tammysims8716it’s not an “excuse” do you understand that even bad actions still have reasons as to why they happened and factors that contributed to it.

  • @karabeasley5282
    @karabeasley5282 Před rokem +165

    Now we need an analysis of her dad. Poor man is in TOTAL denial about his daughter’s role in this horrific case.

    • @davel7014
      @davel7014 Před rokem +13

      Exactly. He doesn't want to believe that she could do this. Sad

    • @erikamccarthy1457
      @erikamccarthy1457 Před rokem +21

      I believe he forgave Erin partly, bcz he’s a religious Man, but to listen to her lie after having her whole family killed. I’m not able to wrap my head around him being so naive about her involvement. 7/30/22

    • @Secter84
      @Secter84 Před rokem +6

      Guys a major pushover

    • @bcpr9812
      @bcpr9812 Před rokem +30

      He's probably in denial because, to accept the truth, that means losing his only remaining child.

    • @Secter84
      @Secter84 Před rokem +11

      @@bcpr9812 still though, like she's the reason the rest of the people you loved are dead.
      Guy doesn't have to hate her, but if it were me in his shoes I definitely wouldn't be doing anything for her.
      Idk if that says more about me than anything, but seriously, fck that. 🤦🏼‍♂️
      Guy is a better person than I am I guess. Lol

  • @prant8998
    @prant8998 Před rokem +66

    The instigating factor here is psychopathy. Being young and sex crazed is fairly normal, they simply find a secluded place and do it. No one took the dialog of killing her parents seriously because, while anger is virtually universal, killing them was, well, insane. There was an element of wanting to injure and kill the parents, and the brothers while being witnesses, were completely disregarded. The woman had zero empathy, zero judgment, zero regard of consequences, also obsessive, thinking and talking about it all the time. The mystery is the recruitment of the co-conspirators, where they all crazy? Was drugs involved?

    • @cnst2657
      @cnst2657 Před rokem

      No, no and no again. This is clearly the parents' fault, 100%. When Grande said "a girl kissed her so the parents pulled all three kids from school" tells you everything about what kind of people they are. These parents were bigots and religious extremists who drove their daughter to this.

    • @jodybrown4956
      @jodybrown4956 Před rokem

      Yea in the current state of society an obvious parallel runs through the course of society use of drugs including those now accepted as legal for recreational, and crime ,sometimes the most serious, also misinformed phoney religious upbringing, basic truths ,Peaple are known by the peaple they keep as company, bad associates hang out together. Some of the religion practiced by families in an attempt to guide themselves to doing good are the source of their hypocritical actions . Whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one .God of this present system of things is Satan the devil himself .Look forward to the end of this corrupt world of this man,human governed society. All the failed efferts of human to bring about kind compassionate loving caring grateful members of human family earthwide, instead of sick warped ,self-centered, egotistical, imitators ,of Satan himself prideful , con artists,.Ultimately all reap what they sow.

    • @alfobootidir2474
      @alfobootidir2474 Před rokem +4

      Yea honestly that’s the part I get the least. How this sociopath with no personality got multiple other ppl to kill her parents. Boyfriend I kinda get but the other guy? Why?

    • @llkellenba
      @llkellenba Před rokem

      @@alfobootidir2474 money 💰

    • @karenglenn6707
      @karenglenn6707 Před rokem +5

      My parents were not overly strict, but I was a bit wild as a teen. They allowed me to go to concerts with my friends to see a very young AC/DC numerous times. But they did cramp my style sometimes. I t never occurred to me to hurt them, or my sisters, and I truly don’t understand how she did not at least care about her little brothers. That is especially sickening.

  • @J_bird777
    @J_bird777 Před rokem +74

    As always, the deadpan humor embedded in your analysis lightens the darkness of the topics!

  • @jameslong4511
    @jameslong4511 Před rokem +61

    What amazes me is that no one involved, even friends of Erin, contacted the police before the murders. When I was in school, if someone talked about murdering their family, I think I would have reported it to someone in authority.

    • @ReedRosson1987
      @ReedRosson1987 Před rokem +6

      Same here...most definitely.

    • @elanahammer1076
      @elanahammer1076 Před rokem +3

      No kidding if nothing else or a sick joke. It would have been a deal breaker for me to hang out with them! Lol You are not alone in your thinking.🤔❤🇺🇸

    • @kgonzalez8098
      @kgonzalez8098 Před rokem

      Yeah you would think so...until you do so and people think you are crazy for be living it

    • @aliensoup2420
      @aliensoup2420 Před rokem +1

      Part of the problem is that the authority figures do not take it seriously enough. We have already seen evidence of that in several recent mass shooting cases.

    • @Somegirl811
      @Somegirl811 Před rokem +4

      Yeah but so many kids just say stuff to vent and yet could never even fathom someone actually going through with it.

  • @mimidebrose
    @mimidebrose Před rokem +71

    Shoplifting or bad checks😂 Love your videos!! The depth you go into cases is genius . Blessings ❤

  • @TheTyree72
    @TheTyree72 Před měsícem +3

    Idk how Dr Grande researches, edits and produces all these tragic stories. A lot of the time I have to pause the video to get myself together. And I truly can’t imagine the nightmare the people involved go through.

  • @magdam8290
    @magdam8290 Před rokem +92

    Bobbi Johnson (the girlfriend of the second killer) got an extremely strict sentence. I think it was too harsh. They didn't want to involve her in the plan at first. She borrowed the car to her boyfriend without knowing the plan of the killing. She was nosy and didn't want to leave her boyfriend alone that night, so he finally agreed to take her with them. She found out about a plot by sitting in the car with two armed men and the mastermind manipulator. Imagine the peer pressure. What was she supposed to do? Get out of the car and call the police? But what if they decided to kill her too? She could be afraid for her own life. She didn't plan the crime, she didn't pull the trigger. Nevertheless, she got a crazy long sentence. I agree she should be in prison, but not for 20- 30 years. It's preposterous.

    • @Swansong321
      @Swansong321 Před rokem +21

      I agree with you..I had the exact same thoughts about her

    • @rickbrenner6079
      @rickbrenner6079 Před rokem +10

      I agree with you. 15 years would’ve been enough for Bobbi.

    • @prant8998
      @prant8998 Před rokem +21

      Zero time for her. Ignorance is a defense. She was trapped. She should have seen a lawyer the next day, cut a deal and would’ve walked. She must have had terrible representation. The crime, was so awful, everyone had to pay.

    • @magdam8290
      @magdam8290 Před rokem +19

      @@prant8998 she was very eager to talk with police without lawyer (of course). You can see on the tape in the investigating room that at the beginning of the interview with officers, it didn't even cross her mind that she could be in such a trouble.

    • @THE-id1by
      @THE-id1by Před rokem +27

      @@prant8998 ignorance is not a defense

  • @christa7773
    @christa7773 Před rokem +81

    When an honest-to-god psychopath comes in the form of a pretty teenage girl, a lot of people simply don't see it coming. That, to me, is part of what makes this case so interesting. I love The Behavior Panel's video on her. And everything by Dr Grande is amazing, so...

    • @dahe1352
      @dahe1352 Před rokem +10

      Pretty?????

    • @MikeySea676
      @MikeySea676 Před rokem +1

      @@dahe1352 After a 12 pack, though?

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Před rokem +4

      @@dahe1352 mostly all young women are pretty, come on, you’re just being unrealistic.

    • @samf.s8786
      @samf.s8786 Před rokem +1

      Thing is, all teenagers say "my parents suck". I can see why people weren't exactly taking what she was saying seriously, because they just thought it was an exaggeration.
      I also wonder, would she have been less aggressivel if they let her have safe sex with this boyfriend of hers? I'm definitely pro safe sex, I think that abstinence is just not feasible for everyone. This apparently happens when a psycho gets sexually frustrated 😑

    • @dahe1352
      @dahe1352 Před rokem +3

      @@lostandfound5145 I don’t think that’s true at all. Not everyone can be good looking. It is what it is.

  • @moonstruck562
    @moonstruck562 Před rokem +79

    This reminds me a case you covered recently Dr Grande, of Christopher Porco. Wonder how she feels when the father visits her in jail knowing each time she looks at him is a reminder that she didn’t “finish the job”.

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec Před rokem

      She probably wash her hands like Ponce Pilate.
      But in the end she is a liar, who cares what she thinks ?

    • @THE-id1by
      @THE-id1by Před rokem +8

      If she finished the job she would still be in prison only then she wouldn't have daddy putting money on her books.

    • @minirock000
      @minirock000 Před rokem +2

      of

    • @dianabeurman364
      @dianabeurman364 Před rokem

      He really doesn't care!

    • @jackedkerouac4414
      @jackedkerouac4414 Před rokem +3

      Holy crap her dad forgave her??

  • @elizabethhamm5320
    @elizabethhamm5320 Před rokem +133

    Her father has convinced himself that Charlie was the mastermind behind the executions. Erin did an episode of Dr. Phil and at one point called her Dad after her interview. She knew that Dr. Phil wasn’t buying her story and at this point she wants her father’s support. Too bad that she didn’t value it before she decided that her family needed to die.

    • @elanahammer1076
      @elanahammer1076 Před rokem +3

      Not to question the legitimacy of loss concerning the mother. Yet, we really do not know what other forces at play could have been going on in the marriage or other family considered. 🤔❤🇺🇸

    • @Blox117
      @Blox117 Před rokem +2

      ♀nature at its finest. giving them equal rights was a mistake

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva Před rokem +17

      I’ve seen this so many times. There’s other killers who tried to kill both parents but one survives. That surviving parent clings to the murdering child. Seems like a coping mechanism because it’s all they have left.

    • @Kenna198
      @Kenna198 Před rokem

      @@Blox117 what are you talking about? There’s always been female murderers, in the past they got away with it because men, in their wisdom, didn’t think a woman was capable of such heinous acts…equal rights has been helpful in dispelling that myth, that being said, most murders are committed by males that’s a fact, still feel superior?

    • @elanahammer1076
      @elanahammer1076 Před rokem +3

      @@DottieMinerva Perhaps 🤔 ❤🇺🇸

  • @melindaduncan3073
    @melindaduncan3073 Před rokem +16

    Wow, peer pressure sure has changed since I was a teenager.

    • @ZombolicBand
      @ZombolicBand Před rokem

      Wuuut, so u didnt talk about killing someones family? 😲😲😲😲

    • @melindaduncan3073
      @melindaduncan3073 Před rokem

      @@ZombolicBand what?

    • @melindaduncan3073
      @melindaduncan3073 Před rokem +1

      Our peer pressure was skipping school or sneaking makeup to school and putting it on when we got there. Not killing families!

  • @GM-gv8qd
    @GM-gv8qd Před rokem +9

    Hahaha I always look forward to the hidden comedy line, you never disappoint 😂

  • @littleeva
    @littleeva Před rokem +10

    Great analysis Dr. Grande. One thing crossed my mind. In many religious families gender roles can be quite strict and girls are often shamed for sexual desires a lot more than boys are. I've also found girls to be manipulative because a lot of times, girls are not taught to be direct, to say what they want, what they mean. I was taught that being direct was "un-ladylike." So in order to get what you want, you learn to manipulate, to go around what you want, to make it seem like it's the other person's idea. Most girls in Erin's situation would probably get pregnant but Erin probably didn't want the responsibility, which was why she had to get other people to do her dirty work for her.

    • @Africanpunkrocker
      @Africanpunkrocker Před rokem +1

      You are absolutely correct! Especially in the south where gender role are prevalent. Women learn how to be manipulative to get what they want.

    • @kuritheking
      @kuritheking Před rokem +1

      @@Africanpunkrocker it’s almost like misogyny is the problem wow

  • @katalinabrigitte3395
    @katalinabrigitte3395 Před rokem +74

    Several years ago while teaching at our Juvenile Corrections facility, I had a new "student" who had become involved with a much older man (She being 16 and the eldest of 4 sisters). Her hard working father was adamant about her not dating this man and eventually she and the 26 year old boyfriend murdered him. Of all the inmates on my caseload, all young males mostly in for theft or drugs, she was the one I could not bring myself to even look in the eye. I had seen her mother and sisters crying on television and I felt so bad for them. How could she have been so cold blooded? So cruel and selfish? Now I know. Thank you Dr. Grande for another analysis.

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Před rokem +5

      That’s so sad and terrible.

    • @Blox117
      @Blox117 Před rokem

      how? she was a ♀.
      there's something about having a vaj that makes you not ok in the head

    • @samf.s8786
      @samf.s8786 Před rokem +5

      She got her father killed for a P word guy?! Seriously?
      That's so atrocious and ugly.
      Did her father assault her though? Physically or sexually? Or was he just trying to keep her away from the creep she thought she was "dating"?

    • @jamesbowman6925
      @jamesbowman6925 Před rokem +1

      To a psychopath, that's nothing. The girl you mentioned would have killed her mother and sisters without a second thought if it had suited her purposes.

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Před rokem

      @@Blox117 your comment really says a lot about how you’re unable to understand people that think differently than you. Might want to work on that. If 50% of the population seems insane to you… it might be you, just food for thought

  • @HazyJ28
    @HazyJ28 Před rokem +9

    When I was 17, I would fight with my Mom all the time because "I was in love" with a girl. My Mom already knew what type she was, but I wouldnt listen. So we always fought about it. I put a rift between us so I could be with her for the next year.
    I regret that so much now and I wish I could get that time back with my Mom.
    I wonder if these young killers ever grow to regret.

  • @erikamccarthy1457
    @erikamccarthy1457 Před rokem +22

    Senseless Murder that didn’t need to take place! She could of just run away, but she needed her Family killed for them to be together! Erin’s a Classic Psychopath! 7/27/22

    • @kristinekrohn7231
      @kristinekrohn7231 Před rokem +4

      I agree . Checkout the behavior panel. They did an informative analysis on Erin. Dr . Phil is also featured.

    • @erikamccarthy1457
      @erikamccarthy1457 Před rokem +2

      @@kristinekrohn7231 Thanks for info I did catch TBP & Full Interview Piers Morgan did on Women in prison yrs ago, Dad was on it to.

    • @jguenther3049
      @jguenther3049 Před rokem +1

      A classic psychopath? Heck, she's a full-blown psychoboulevard.

  • @Casinogirl56
    @Casinogirl56 Před rokem +12

    I've always wondered how the dad still maintains contact with her. He's a way better person than I am.

    • @dougchance8891
      @dougchance8891 Před rokem +2

      Jean
      Could be her dad was quite pleased he was rid of his wife.
      He remarried soon enough.

    • @netta96
      @netta96 Před 4 hodinami

      ​@@dougchance8891it struck me that his new wife bears a striking resemblance to his daughter.

  • @Annenigmatic
    @Annenigmatic Před rokem +11

    But would a psychopathic person really feel guilt & shame? I thought that was one of the "perks" of psychopathy 🤔

    • @netta96
      @netta96 Před 4 hodinami

      I don't think she ever felt shame or guilt. That's the problem.

  • @JustAcommenter29
    @JustAcommenter29 Před rokem +23

    I can't over her father keeping her in his life. Forgiveness is one thing, but this crosses over into stupidity.

    • @JennekedenOuter
      @JennekedenOuter Před rokem +1

      It reminds me of the Bart Whitaker case. Would love to see Dr. Grande analyse that one.

    • @Laura_Stern
      @Laura_Stern Před rokem +1

      I agree!

    • @lydiahernandez4700
      @lydiahernandez4700 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Just like Kent Whitaker, still visits his son after he killed his mom and brother. But that's the love of a parent.

    • @GalacticTradingPost
      @GalacticTradingPost Před měsícem

      She's a very sweet girl. I get it, guys do really dumb things for cute girls.

  • @MashaRistova
    @MashaRistova Před rokem +9

    From watching true crime videos on CZcams I’ve learned that samurai swords are way more common of a murder weapon than I ever could’ve imagined

    • @kgonzalez8098
      @kgonzalez8098 Před rokem +1

      They make for great melon slicers

    • @tammysims8716
      @tammysims8716 Před 14 dny

      ​@@kgonzalez8098Repulsive comment. Maybe where you come from, murder is commonplace.

  • @meaghanduthie
    @meaghanduthie Před rokem +9

    Reminds me so much of Bart Whitaker. Would love to hear you do an analysis of him as well as his father. And if you could weave the similarities and discrepancies between this case and that one, that would be amazing. There’s something about these fathers that go on speaking and media tours talking about how they forgave their kids that murdered their families. Can’t help but think the fathers’ personalities and what the kids ended up doing is related. Thanks, Dr G!

  • @tron.44
    @tron.44 Před rokem +12

    Dr. G is hitting the mark again and again, with consistently thorough and intriguing analysis! Without your work, I wouldn't know about many of these cases. So, thank you for the hard work!

  • @julieannballard6333
    @julieannballard6333 Před rokem +6

    Thank you, Dr. Grande! 💙

  • @majav.4887
    @majav.4887 Před rokem +23

    We just met and I feel like you're rushing things a bit 🤣🤣🤣
    Too young to be pregnant but killing parents fits...
    Thanks Dr Grande for reminding me that I'm not as crazy as I sometimes think I am.

  • @annalisegiovanni7032
    @annalisegiovanni7032 Před rokem +2

    Hello Dr. Grande🥰 Thank you for the new video! This was one that I hadn't heard of nor was it one that I could guess what was going to happen with any amount of certainty. Thank you for your great analysis!

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 Před rokem +1

    Outstanding job with this review, thank you Dr. Grande.❤️

  • @skepticusmaximus184
    @skepticusmaximus184 Před rokem +3

    I love how the characters being introduced wearing orange jump suits, kinda foreshadows their outcomes.

  • @dianemorton2222
    @dianemorton2222 Před rokem +12

    I saw the video of the interview with the father. Tbis story is so sad. The young teenager erin hated her entire family yet the father continues to blame the boyfriend and other friends. Erin had zero love for her family. Maybe sexual relations were the only happy feelings she felt? She was not happy and lied to her parents. The father refuses to see his daughter as the evil liar and killer she is. The father still loves and prays for erin. I see erin as a sociopathic killer. She would have gonè on to kill others in life.

    • @bcpr9812
      @bcpr9812 Před rokem +3

      Oh yeah, if she had actually gotten away with this she would've learned early that it's a solution to people who get in her way.

    • @netta96
      @netta96 Před 4 hodinami

      That psychopathic mind found the power she wielded using $ex amd there you have it. The perfect storm.

  • @sharonmacphisto849
    @sharonmacphisto849 Před rokem +1

    Thank you, Dr. Grande! Always an insightful analysis... 💙

  • @danielhouse6244
    @danielhouse6244 Před rokem +2

    Always nice to see another post by The Good Doctor Grande.

  • @cassiekay8633
    @cassiekay8633 Před rokem +3

    Erin felt she was too young to get pregnant ...BUT not too young to be involved in the murder of her family ??? I can't even begin to process that type of thinking !

  • @franny5295
    @franny5295 Před rokem +31

    So this is what it looks like when Romeo and Juliet kill their family instead of themselves? Interesting. Tragic still, but interesting. I wonder what your thoughts are on why this instead of that. Specifically, killing her family instead of killing themselves. Either way is crazy, it just seems unusual.

    • @ReedRosson1987
      @ReedRosson1987 Před rokem

      Please don't insult Romeo and Juliet by comparing them to these stupid brats. ;-)~

    • @annedenman3312
      @annedenman3312 Před rokem +6

      She had wanted to kill her parents prior to mtg Charlie. He was her instrument to get the deed done. No Romeo and Juliet here just a need to over power (to the ultimate degree, her parents).

  • @IMWeira
    @IMWeira Před rokem +2

    The amount of work you put into each of these topics is amazing. That's before I am

  • @kyleoglee
    @kyleoglee Před rokem

    Legit fantastic channel Dr. G!

  • @northernnightmare7986
    @northernnightmare7986 Před rokem +8

    Evil is real.

  • @wolfslullaby
    @wolfslullaby Před rokem +3

    This story is so sad, I feel so bad for the only survivor- Terry, imagine your daughter being the reason your whole family was brutally murdered, including children, I couldn't imagine.

    • @erikamccarthy1457
      @erikamccarthy1457 Před rokem +1

      He doesn’t believe Erin was involved at All, not capable. He forgives her (religious)Erin is responsible for his Wife & Sons (almost him) being Murdered. I couldn’t defend my child! Sad situation All around. 7/30/22

  • @ariadneraynor
    @ariadneraynor Před rokem +1

    So many amusing comments, Dr. Grande! I always watch your videos for the educational purposes, but stay for the entertainment. Thanks.

  • @saxegotha7
    @saxegotha7 Před rokem +1

    I don't know what's wrong with me but I'm sitting here on a Saturday bingeing Grande when I should be doing something productive.

  • @judysanchez6329
    @judysanchez6329 Před rokem +8

    She was a bad seed .

  • @moonstruck562
    @moonstruck562 Před rokem +7

    Thank you for covering this story, Dr. Grande. A tragic, senseless crime.
    Love your humor❤️have a blessed day!

  • @marlinfisher2529
    @marlinfisher2529 Před rokem +1

    Amazing analysis. Especially the dry humor. Very well done.

  • @GGiblet
    @GGiblet Před rokem +10

    Your humor is making the day brighter!😄Thanks so much Doc🌈☀

  • @Beach-girl104
    @Beach-girl104 Před rokem +5

    Such a tragedy.. I enjoy ur content.. I like how you will slide a little appropriate humor in *some of your videos. I don't disagree w/ the funny ( a baby running a country) comment abt Trump, however, its just as equal to having a well advanced senior citizen who's inattentive and requires a minimum of 15 hours of sleep each day&night..and needs to be reminded daily of what state or city he is currently in.😉

  • @leylamoody3177
    @leylamoody3177 Před rokem +1

    How horrific...that poor family. 😢 Excellent analysis, Dr. Grande! ❤️

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 Před rokem +2

    Always interesting.
    Another reason for Me to stay home.
    Thank you.
    Peace 💕🇺🇲

  • @zencronimax7636
    @zencronimax7636 Před rokem +3

    hey dr grande when you have the chance, can you analyze the ruby ridge case with the weaver family?

  • @elliedaniels2245
    @elliedaniels2245 Před rokem +6

    I thoroughly enjoy these videos. They are interesting and informative. I was, however, a bit taken off guard with the comment comparing a baby running a country to President Trump. Wouldn't it be for the best to pass over any politically bias? Surely I'm not the only conservative subscribed.

    • @joelpenley9791
      @joelpenley9791 Před rokem +4

      He has made similar jabs towards liberals and democrats, but this one seemed really out of place. Almost like he was forcing it in. But I am in no way diagnosing, just making an observation.

    • @MusgraveRitual
      @MusgraveRitual Před rokem +4

      @@joelpenley9791 It was such extremely low laying fruit to pick for otherwise sharp humor by Dr. Grande. "I made "Trump is a baby" joke, hurr durr..." " Like in old adage: "it doesn't offend me as a conservative, it offends me as a comedian" :)

  • @SmokingDodo
    @SmokingDodo Před rokem

    Man todd love your videos! I love how objective you are I really appreciate feeling like you have almost zero bias

  • @viveviveka2651
    @viveviveka2651 Před rokem

    Interesting and enjoyable. Thank you.

  • @blitzphantom9488
    @blitzphantom9488 Před rokem +7

    She’s a terrible liar. 🤥

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec Před rokem +1

      At least her style work well on thirsty teenagers.

  • @hughneutron5303
    @hughneutron5303 Před rokem +15

    word to parents. unless your kid is being beaten, don't intervene. you're just gonna make them wanna see the person you hate more

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Před rokem +2

      Incoherent.

    • @snow999
      @snow999 Před rokem +9

      I agree with this. Of course protect them from harm but seriously young love is intense.

    • @troyevitt2437
      @troyevitt2437 Před rokem +2

      Parents need to realize that children are old enough to make their own relationship decisions sooner than they want to admit. Just because you STRONGLY FEEL something is your business doesn't make it true. This includes your children and it includes them way sooner than the "magic number" 18.

    • @mritzs5142
      @mritzs5142 Před rokem +3

      This is so true even adults in dysfunctional relationships grow tighter when friends try to convince them to leave

    • @jackedkerouac4414
      @jackedkerouac4414 Před rokem +2

      Pretty sure it's extremely difficult bc of the possibility of a baby entering the picture, the young couple unable to handle the responsibility and the poor kid being raised by god knows who

  • @chocolatethunder192
    @chocolatethunder192 Před rokem +1

    Great video! It's so interesting how uneven maturity can combine with personality issues (e.g., psychopathy) to cause someone to go down this road. What a tragic situation for the Caffey family!

  • @edwardwong654
    @edwardwong654 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This was a really good story. Thanks Dr Grande.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Před rokem +6

    Sounds like a nightmare! Let’s do this! Thanks for all the interesting information and analysis, Grande. I appreciate it.

  • @stevenjambrozy2057
    @stevenjambrozy2057 Před rokem +6

    Maturing unevenly... yes...exactly...she developed no feelings singing with her family?

  • @marlenewulf5051
    @marlenewulf5051 Před rokem

    just when I finish bingeing all of Dr Grandes videos a new one drops 🥰 amazing as always!

  • @CIS101
    @CIS101 Před měsícem

    I've seen this channel a couple of times before. I like the calm, and thoughtful presentation which is very appropriate as well.

  • @karabeasley5282
    @karabeasley5282 Před rokem +6

    I’m by no means victim blaming here as no one deserves this, however, please please please be the kind of parents that your child can feel comfortable coming to and being honest with about their normal hormones and desires. Do not shun them or shame them.

    • @erikamccarthy1457
      @erikamccarthy1457 Před rokem +1

      I totally agree with you on this. We raised 3 well rounded children, always open line’s of communication about everything & anything. Never in trouble with violence, abusive, law. It was the right thing for our family. If they can’t talk to Parents/Parent (secrets kept) sneak behind your back, trust me you’d rather know keep an open mind & listen. 7/30/22

    • @sternshadowdude2
      @sternshadowdude2 Před rokem

      You are victim blaming.

    • @kuritheking
      @kuritheking Před rokem

      @@sternshadowdude2 that’s not victim blaming, it’s decent advice. The fact is not being open to your kids can make them want to k!ll you. It happens a lot easier than you’d think.

  • @pierre6625
    @pierre6625 Před rokem +8

    Hello Dr. Grande, thank you for this video. For me, it is disturbing how a confused mind can start to focus on evil thoughts but not realize how serious the act or consequences of their actions will end. Very disturbing. Best Regards. ❤👍

    • @janinemccartha1811
      @janinemccartha1811 Před rokem

      Hi Dr. Grande. This video shows that she was an evil, devil, trashy, loser. I hope & may God let her murdered family members rest in peace. Thanks sincerely for your always on point analysis, hope you & your family are having a wonderful evening, love & peace, Janine Smiley😀🙂😎🤩😍✌👍🍰🍪🥧🎂👒👑💍🍫☕🍩🦓🐶🦊🐺🥝🍎🍇🍓🍊🍉🇺🇸

  • @susanb4713
    @susanb4713 Před rokem +1

    Just way beyond mean. Assuming this is precise and on point. Thank you Dr. Grande another interesting story.

  • @ProudMary1721
    @ProudMary1721 Před rokem +1

    I saw a PRETTY CACTUS ON A PASSING REVIEW …
    I said a prayer for you and yours in thanksgiving.
    Wonderful!

  • @user-pv7qh6mb6k
    @user-pv7qh6mb6k Před rokem +13

    Hi Dr Grande
    Why did Nikolas Cruz the shooter of Parkland Florida cover his ears during the audio of the shooting & Also doesn't look at anyone directly on the stand as witnesses describe their experience of the shooting nor look at medical examiner describing autopsies of each victim
    Greatly appreciate your analysis
    Marty M Molina

  • @madamlt5758
    @madamlt5758 Před rokem +3

    Erin was given 2 life sentences plus another 25 years.
    SHE COULD BE OUT IN 40. 🤦🏻‍♀️
    How does this make any sense?

  • @wendirose509
    @wendirose509 Před rokem

    I really love your smart-ass comments. It's pretty funny. Thanks for your videos!

  • @roxanajordan9507
    @roxanajordan9507 Před měsícem

    Very insightful analysis, thank you.

  • @mfb4552
    @mfb4552 Před rokem +3

    I don't get it. Why not just run away? Her moron boyfriend even suggested it. They were just as stupid as they were cruel.

  • @myozbubble
    @myozbubble Před rokem +18

    And my parents were afraid I would hang out with the wrong crowd. No one I hung out with even planned a crime. None of the guys raped any women. The only killing was my parents and their overkill to raising their kids.

  • @brennag.7042
    @brennag.7042 Před měsícem +1

    She did not live in Alba, she lived in rains county just outside of Emory TX. I lived there when this happened. It shook our little small town.

  • @julieyoung3315
    @julieyoung3315 Před rokem

    Good Day, Dr. Grande. Ready for an Excellent Analysis.

  • @samf.s8786
    @samf.s8786 Před rokem +5

    Honestly Dr. Grande, none of the things about her background justify her having murderous intent towards her parents.
    All kids "become highly interested in sex", some kids can lie well, and a lot of kids behave how she did with the exception of manipulating another kid into killing her parents.
    Edit: Dr. Grande, I agree regarding your opinion that many things came together here to cause what unfortunately happened. I really couldn't pick one characteristic or urge that she displayed and go Aha! That was the reason. So I guess it was them collectively.

  • @ileneyadegari8055
    @ileneyadegari8055 Před rokem +3

    I think we need to do something to help our youth. They are not able to think rationally. This happens a lot and probably always has. Where do we begin? This makes me sad. I did a lot of stupid things as a young teen because I was impulsive thank God it wasn’t serious but it’s true young people don’t think like adults. How can we as a society do something better to help prevent some from these lifelong tragedies?

  • @IMWeira
    @IMWeira Před rokem +1

    Have a big dog. This is, the rest of the story. . .Dr Grande is so clever in his use of words that he can find word play or something unexpected to startle me into smiling or sometimes laughing. Some topics are tough to find anything amusing but it is worth listening for.

  • @judyedwards7144
    @judyedwards7144 Před rokem +1

    Love your since of humor 😊

  • @AM09286
    @AM09286 Před rokem +14

    Dr Grande I’d love to see your take on the case of Brian Blackwell, the teenager who killed his parents and pretended to be a pro- tennis player. He was convicted of manslaughter due to his NPD.

    • @kgonzalez8098
      @kgonzalez8098 Před rokem +4

      Yeah! In the UK I think? Dude went on shopping sprees and everything as his folks rotted

    • @AM09286
      @AM09286 Před rokem +2

      @@kgonzalez8098 that’s right! Went to New York with his girlfriend on a pretend tennis tour and spent £30k in two weeks. He told everyone his parents were in Spain but actually they were decomposing in the kitchen.

  • @angiec6923
    @angiec6923 Před rokem +3

    Makes me glad I never had kids. You never know how they turn out. They can turn into an incredible adult or they can turn into a murderer and betray the family. Happy with my cat! No drama no killings

  • @GH-oi2jf
    @GH-oi2jf Před měsícem +1

    I remember this horrible crime. They are all monsters. Erin should never be released.

  • @mykal2803
    @mykal2803 Před 23 dny +1

    what you get when sociopath meets stupid.

  • @aitheuhc
    @aitheuhc Před rokem +9

    I don't understand how people can kill someone for their partners. I've been with my partner for 9 years and if conspired to kill I'd snitch on him. People like that need help and discipline not people helping them to murder

    • @peggypeggy4137
      @peggypeggy4137 Před rokem +4

      This was so sad and stupid. All these other kids getting in big trouble over something that she wanted. They probably would be having their kids by now. Living normal lives

  • @fasilharer1291
    @fasilharer1291 Před rokem +6

    These types of crimes are more frequent in American families than any other countries in the world , mass killing incidents, and more serial killers in America ? But why ?

  • @barbaracherrington375
    @barbaracherrington375 Před rokem +2

    So funny that the one act they always think will allow them to be together forever, is the act that will ensure that they will NEVER be together! These young minds never seems to think beyond the act. Just another sign that they will not succeed! But it's so sad that this girl had no conscience and would not choose another alternative. Can she ever be reformed?

  • @ryanmclellan8740
    @ryanmclellan8740 Před rokem +1

    Doc, your low key comedy is gold 😂

  • @joandeigan7826
    @joandeigan7826 Před rokem +3

    Great video Dr. Grande! I loved the comment that you made about Donald Trump. I'm surprised that the dad has anything to do with his daughter. BTW. Could you possibly do a video on Gypsy Rose Blanchard? I'd love to hear your take on that story.

  • @Traderjoe
    @Traderjoe Před rokem +7

    There’s something weird about these hayseed small towns that seems to cause people into casually thinking about murdering their parents and other people. We all would otherwise think these small towns would be less of an exposure risk than big cities.

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Před rokem +1

      Such towns tend to have greatly lower per capita crime than do cities.

    • @ReedRosson1987
      @ReedRosson1987 Před rokem

      @@eadweard. Maybe because they are less populated?

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Před rokem

      @@ReedRosson1987 Well I did say "per capita".

    • @ReedRosson1987
      @ReedRosson1987 Před rokem

      @@eadweard. true

    • @ReedRosson1987
      @ReedRosson1987 Před rokem

      @@eadweard. There has been a spike in murder rates in rural areas since the pandemic, though. The following is just a theory, my opinion: a lot of people manufacture and consume methamphetamine in small town America and that stuff literally will make you psychotic. It's also easier to get away with murder in those areas.
      But yes, you are correct, crime is definitely most rampant in urban areas.
      Sorry, I responded way too fast.

  • @TheEclecticEmpath
    @TheEclecticEmpath Před rokem

    I absolutely love the snarky remarks added in. Dr. Grande is savage!

  • @deboracopeland4795
    @deboracopeland4795 Před rokem +2

    Wow in my day you just ran away, didn’t need to take out your whole family.

  • @jillkramer8835
    @jillkramer8835 Před rokem +3

    It sounds more like the "Biden " effect.

  • @THE-id1by
    @THE-id1by Před rokem +8

    Dr seemed a little concerned that she could be released after 40 years at age 59. The fact is they thru as big a book at her as they possibly could 2 life sentences to run concurrent plus 25 years is a lot given it's unconstitutional to sentence a minor to life without the possibility of parole.

    • @mritzs5142
      @mritzs5142 Před rokem +4

      Well they need to change that law because minors are not really children anymore not in the world we have inherited

    • @jenrutherford6690
      @jenrutherford6690 Před rokem

      To me the important thing is she is not able to produce children . They will likely be victims or perpetrators. The evil ends with her .

  • @frozentspark2105
    @frozentspark2105 Před rokem +2

    This reminds me of the Richardson family murders in Alberta Canada. The girl was like 14 at the time, she just got out of prison recently. Her boyfriend is still in until 2030's

  • @little-miss-happy
    @little-miss-happy Před měsícem

    I’m not diagnosing anyone just sharing my opinion. He looks so intelligent yet alienate 50% of the population.

  • @mercychoke4475
    @mercychoke4475 Před rokem +11

    Imagine how much death & suffering could be avoided if people would just NOT stick to their "pro-murder agendas"... The Behavior Panel said Erin Caffey reminds them of the Bride of Chucky... I fully agree- this girl has a VERY weird & off putting affect, behaviorally, imo. Regardless of Behavioral Science being real or not, it's VERY obvious that something is REALLY wrong with her. I believe she tried to spare her dog, in her madness. She stressed this point when speaking to doctors & journalists after she was caught. Too bad her boyfriend & other friends fell for her crap... 🎯🤯>😳

    • @constanceskalecki4928
      @constanceskalecki4928 Před rokem

      I never saw that movie, however, I agree that something is off with her beside her being a murderer. Her eyes are void and dumb cow like, and when she speaks she tries to feign vulnerability and childlike innocence. She’s a monster behind a dumb cow persona.