What Assumptions Do You Make About Single Parents? | Reverse Assumptions

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  • čas přidán 19. 08. 2018
  • It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series, Reverse Assumptions.
    We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to make assumptions about their partner's appearance without ever actually seeing their partner. When they flipped around to finally face each other, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
    Now it's YOUR turn. What do people assume about you?
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  • @voyance4elle
    @voyance4elle Před 5 lety +199

    I loved the vibe of the two women 🙂 I feel like as if they could become friends...

  • @fruitloop8083
    @fruitloop8083 Před 5 lety +355

    You should do this with a black screen and the viewer judges based on the talking only

    • @pugz5532
      @pugz5532 Před 5 lety +2

      Fruit Loop YES^

    • @omgfinally4340
      @omgfinally4340 Před 5 lety +11

      Fruit Loop right... And then let us see them at the end so we can realize how right/wrong we are.

    • @fruitloop8083
      @fruitloop8083 Před 5 lety +5

      •ᴥ• it wouldn’t be the same tho

    • @lain3893
      @lain3893 Před 5 lety +1

      Fruit Loop please

    • @kehbab
      @kehbab Před 5 lety +9

      It would be a lot more boring, and a lot of People would not stand watching a black screen

  • @flawessgrace4604
    @flawessgrace4604 Před 5 lety +132

    "You stereotyped me" lol

  • @fruitloop8083
    @fruitloop8083 Před 5 lety +120

    I FRICKEN LOVE THESE SERIES

  • @fruitloop8083
    @fruitloop8083 Před 5 lety +42

    All these parents seem amazing

  • @Gamesake2
    @Gamesake2 Před 5 lety +71

    Kids aren't as resillient as adults think they are. don't you remember things from your childhood that shaped your thought processes for life? I accidentally got a penny stuck in my throat when I was 3...it was traumatic for me and my mom. she had no phone or car in those days and she had to run next door to try to use their phone....I don't know who she was calling. I remember she tried to shake it out of me by turning me upside down. I threw up as she left the room and it came out. I still chew everything to a pulp and I can't take pills at all. My Son just told me he doesn't remember anything good from his childhood...he's 38. I thought things went pretty well until his early teens when my husband (ex husband) started having mental issues. We divorced whenmy son was 18. There was some physical abuse by my ex, but not severe. Anyway I think kids don't act like they are troubled, but you find out later in life. If you ever watch My-600-Pound Life on TLC you will note that so many of these kids became obese because they were abused and food brought them comfort.

    • @sweetboo1022
      @sweetboo1022 Před 5 lety +7

      Gamp Lane I think you're right but I also believe that it does depend on the kid and the parents. I had some traumatic things in my childhood but I also have two very very extremely loving parents and a disabled brother who is loved very much bye many people.
      I think that it is a lot of nature and nurture that depends on how well a person handles things when they get older. It's such an interesting subject with so many variables in each child that it's almost impossible to guess an outcome.

  • @kayla1357
    @kayla1357 Před 5 lety +128

    i find it so cool that, that guy left hsi family when he was 14/15. I’m turning 15 and I wouldn’t survive a day, it’s so cool to think whatever he has he got on his own just image what you’d have as an adult if you didn’t have you’re family to take you there. ik it happens often but Just sayin’ .

    • @snowonder024
      @snowonder024 Před 5 lety +3

      He probably did that out of necessity, but yes, it is amazing he could do that and do well.

    • @kayla1357
      @kayla1357 Před 5 lety +4

      snowonder024 but he got somewhere

  • @deelitefuldee1006
    @deelitefuldee1006 Před 5 lety +11

    I just can't stop smiling the whole way through every episode!!

  • @tinamakombe5900
    @tinamakombe5900 Před 5 lety +58

    I always enjoy this segment. Thank you Soul pancake for quality content that brings a smile to my face. I honestly loved the Sydney-Sharon pair

  • @shirleypilger1705
    @shirleypilger1705 Před 5 lety +4

    I got my first tat at 38. When I decided the only opinion that mattered was mine. I was raised in a war zone created by angry abusive adults, from, bio to step to foster. And was really just locked away in my room at 14 til 18. The. it was all up to me to figure out. So to see these people doing so well is inspiring. I wish I had been as resourceful. They were all nice, kind, caring people. Stereotyping is something everyone does whether we admit it or not. I see a lot of young poc wearing Jordan's, doesn't mean he's saying they are criminals. None of the people I know are anyway.

  • @poppykok5
    @poppykok5 Před 5 lety +16

    I simply LOVE this thought-provoking channel & witnessing the kindness & respect between strangers...

  • @TheJleliot
    @TheJleliot Před 5 lety +25

    The ladies are Sharon and Sydney. My name is Sharon and my granddaughter is Sydney.

  • @muoileuc1583
    @muoileuc1583 Před 5 lety +20

    I love their stories, amazing parents

  • @stephi6792
    @stephi6792 Před 5 lety +29

    Is the darker girl from that Lil Skies music video? She's so beautiful

  • @A28CB
    @A28CB Před 5 lety +1

    These segments are short, interesting and best of all get me thinking.

  • @MyHappylicious
    @MyHappylicious Před 5 lety +3

    This was beautiful. Thank you

  • @amira222
    @amira222 Před 5 lety +3

    I love these wholesome videos. They just brighten up my day^°^

  • @michaelsuliman7471
    @michaelsuliman7471 Před 5 lety +12

    5:03 Robert De Niro laughing

  • @feathersong5838
    @feathersong5838 Před 5 lety +29

    I've never really known my father. He was arrested the day after my third birthday and I never saw him again after that. I don't even know what he looks like. Not very long after, a few months, my mom married my stepdad who doesn't care about us at all and takes all of my mom's hard earned money.
    Because of this kind of lifestyle atleast half my family has some sort of mental disorder. I have severe anxiety and depression and use a service dog at 14 years old. One of my brothers is ADHD, my older sister is bipolar, and my oldest brother has had every diagnosis under the sun.
    And someone actually had the nerve to go to my face and say that I would have been better off in a abusive household where could have been killed, and in this household where my mother is the only one with common sense instead of my mom just staying single.
    I can't believe it. People would actually rather watch a child suffer every day of their life than just have a single loving parent raise them.

    • @sweetboo1022
      @sweetboo1022 Před 5 lety +4

      Lunar Breeze I want to give you a hug

    • @iyaniole6010
      @iyaniole6010 Před 5 lety

      Hi, I understand exactly where you are coming from. My father was locked up on Riker's Island (the worst prison in America) for three years, starting from before I was even born, until able to be put on trial. I was not able to meet him until after those three years were over and he continued to leave me behind for the fast life. It hurts me till this day and I'm 19. Not able to move on and learn what security means because I never felt it from a man before. But, we cannot put what we cannot control in front of us. The love you are able to give to yourself through self-care and respect is just as comforting as any hug a father can give. Much respect to you, my love.

  • @lokeshkumar5911
    @lokeshkumar5911 Před 5 lety

    I love this channel , LOVE you guys for such a original content AMAZING💙💙

  • @maysolijon8766
    @maysolijon8766 Před 5 lety

    I love this channel SP❤❤❤

  • @clareashcraft3411
    @clareashcraft3411 Před 5 lety +3

    Sharon and Sydney had such a sweet relationship

  • @AnxiousTrap
    @AnxiousTrap Před 5 lety

    Enjoyable series.

  • @akwaabab8504
    @akwaabab8504 Před 5 lety +2

    beautiful. would love to participate in something like that.

  • @MsMockingbird06
    @MsMockingbird06 Před 5 lety +3

    I did start laughing when the guy said Jordans lol

  • @vivianle1124
    @vivianle1124 Před 5 lety

    oh gosh Sydney is wayyyy too beautiful!

  • @flawessgrace4604
    @flawessgrace4604 Před 5 lety +1

    Hey the thumbnail had the correct pair this time lol

  • @empressveiw8283
    @empressveiw8283 Před 5 lety +1

    I like this one it was weirdly satisfying

  • @anon2131
    @anon2131 Před 3 lety +1

    When I lived in Melbourne in the 80's I heard of a singles group called Parents Without Partners. I asked some non members what this club was like. I got concerned looks and comments like "Not the right club for you". I thought they referred to fact that I had no kids. Then anotheratute married woman said " They should call that group Parents Without Pants, as they are just single mother looking for sex partners and who leave their poor lids home alone while they're out fooling around withen. No wonder nobody wants such women as decent proper wives. They're bad mothers, Don't drop your standards mixing with single mothers" So, I gave PWP a miss. Especially after I heard one of their wild parties on the floor above my apartment that went till dawn, when I heard some blood curdling female screams and then thought I was dreaming but I wasn't,as I could sleep, due to their racket, as I saw a matrees and pillows etc sail down pasta my window. As it it was training matresses and pillows etc. They were arguing about whose kids were whose and who'saresponsible parent and who isn't. I don't think very highly of single mothers. I would never inviate one to my house or eventi or rent a place to her as a landlady or welcome one into my club or vive one a job etc.They may noto be able help it, but, unless they are widowed,I really would not wish to know them or mix with them.

  • @TravelSlut
    @TravelSlut Před 5 lety

    What is this end song clip from?? It’s been haunting me for to long!

  • @CommunityClyde
    @CommunityClyde Před 5 lety +3

    Pretty cool series. Just got sent this link from a lady in Atlanta. I live in Delaware. If the people want, how do we connect with them?

    • @dillonkirya2185
      @dillonkirya2185 Před 5 lety

      Try going to their website maybe?

    • @CommunityClyde
      @CommunityClyde Před 5 lety

      Lord Doge thanks! Went there yesterday and couldn’t even find this series. I found many others but not this one.

  • @leggs4113
    @leggs4113 Před 5 lety +25

    I’m glad the black guy called him out with the Jordan’s comment 🙄

    • @222aaliyah
      @222aaliyah Před 4 lety +3

      always gotta bring race into it. big deal if he commented that.

  • @sydneydesvignes298
    @sydneydesvignes298 Před 5 lety +2

    My name is Sydney to

  • @jess_a_yo
    @jess_a_yo Před 5 lety

    Wasn't Sharon on The Voice last season? She looks so familiar.

  • @anniewilliams5089
    @anniewilliams5089 Před 5 lety

    That one eye open 😂😂😂

  • @jessicaaudate
    @jessicaaudate Před 5 lety

    Yes the struggle not to bad mouth 😠😠😠

  • @aaliyah42069
    @aaliyah42069 Před 5 lety

    *my older sister and i have very different skin tones, shes much more lighter and im pretty tan. A lot of people assume that im more black then she is but im actually more white then her even though our skin colors are different, which i find kinda funny to be honest.*

  • @elizabethnix6875
    @elizabethnix6875 Před 5 lety

    I live in DE too

  • @stephi6792
    @stephi6792 Před 5 lety

    Sydney is the chick from the Lil Skies music video "Creeping"

  • @a1d5
    @a1d5 Před 5 lety

    these are great

  • @JFalcon
    @JFalcon Před 5 lety

    Sydney from lil skies and rich the kids music video?

  • @kaliana04
    @kaliana04 Před 5 lety +31

    Some Jordans...smh

  • @shanenaayers5444
    @shanenaayers5444 Před 5 lety

    Creeping-lil skies

  • @caroltassin4049
    @caroltassin4049 Před 5 lety +2

    I feel kids today stay home as long as possible & I got My first tattoo at 40 also.

  • @SpamNeggs23
    @SpamNeggs23 Před 5 lety

    They assume that I’m nice..... 😏

  • @nicktokar2459
    @nicktokar2459 Před 5 lety

    A teen mom raising a kid by herself. Absolutely shocking.

  • @tranquility9325
    @tranquility9325 Před 5 lety +1

    Guys think I'm a pushover Bec I'm nice. They eventually find out that is far from reality, esp when they try to run game.
    Ppl also tend to do a double take when they find out I have tatts.
    their facial expression says what is a nice girl like that doing with tattoos?

  • @jonasmeetua1255
    @jonasmeetua1255 Před 5 lety

    Sydney looks like a girl at Lil Skies "creeping"

  • @alexandria1878
    @alexandria1878 Před 5 lety +1

    I actually kinda wanna be friends with Richie

  • @mikkibihon9816
    @mikkibihon9816 Před 5 lety

    I hope I can be one of the participants in one of your videos T.T

  • @nathanb5579
    @nathanb5579 Před 5 lety +1

    More like educated guesses. Statistics dont lie.

  • @CappuccinoTX
    @CappuccinoTX Před 5 lety

    How do I get on here?

  • @quirkyquips9915
    @quirkyquips9915 Před 5 lety +2

    I swear I've seen so many of these people..I KNOW I've seen them, faces you don't forget. Indeed most say they're in the arts ie actors, models, artists, photographers..☎ Beautiful Pancake Souls Casting..need a Richie? Got it. Pretty blonde in her 40s? ✔ A rapping grandpa? Glenn..ah, yeah, wait, nope he was on a couple of shows ago.
    Yep. The blonde hippy-dippy going to keep in contact? ✔ *YES! YES! WE NEED TO DO A FOLLOW UP EPISODE!* Allll...right. Everybody! Places! Focus on the energy coming from behind you. It's called ESP...Ok..shhh-shh..Speed..🎬
    *Annnnd...ACTION!..*
    (Zealous, much?)

  • @gnova7
    @gnova7 Před 5 lety

    Who are the actresses on this?

  • @donniectv7254
    @donniectv7254 Před 5 lety +1

    Okay but was the black looking girl middle Eastern, mixed race or just black 🤔

    • @emdadahmed5592
      @emdadahmed5592 Před 4 lety

      I'd say she's
      60% black
      20% middle Eastern
      20% white
      *100% PURE SEX*

  • @rileye5347
    @rileye5347 Před 5 lety

    Even if we can see them, we shouldn’t make assumptions, people might look mean but they could be really nice.... this kinda sounds cheesy 😂
    Love ya guys ♥️ ❤️ 💜

  • @dominicawitt7867
    @dominicawitt7867 Před 5 lety

    Sharon is so beautiful.

  • @Hacker-gf3ih
    @Hacker-gf3ih Před 5 lety

    8th one

  • @chickennuggets3550
    @chickennuggets3550 Před 5 lety +6

    When i think of single parents i think that the other one that left was an a**whole

  • @xalar1
    @xalar1 Před 5 lety +13

    Wasn’t Sydney in Lil skies music video

  • @marialejandra585
    @marialejandra585 Před 5 lety

    I was a single parent for a WHALE

  • @Faitho901
    @Faitho901 Před 5 lety +1

    That white guy was stereotypical AF

  • @JustStarex
    @JustStarex Před 5 lety

    somebody send me Sydney's info 🙏

  • @AcerbicOrder
    @AcerbicOrder Před 5 lety +9

    Sharon and Sydney look related.
    What's Sydney's Instagram?

  • @fauziayussuf608
    @fauziayussuf608 Před 5 lety

    F

  • @gangatalishis
    @gangatalishis Před 5 lety

    Cindy tho 👀

  • @rhonwenwestern6562
    @rhonwenwestern6562 Před 5 lety

    The girl on the right of the thumbnail looked a tiny bit like Beyonce to me

  • @johnhynson1940
    @johnhynson1940 Před 5 lety

    Is that fergie?

  • @tadsite
    @tadsite Před 5 lety

    Sydney is a hottie.

  • @lordken33
    @lordken33 Před 5 lety

    For a whale😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gnova7
    @gnova7 Před 5 lety

    Also 2 million subs and only 37 thousand views on a video and only 89 comments does that make since for his numbers. Did this channel buy subs?? Seriously I don’t know this channel what is the story here