Divorce will tear your children into pieces. Why don’t you make peace for the sake of ur kids?
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
- In the event of a divorce, it’s the kids who hurt the most.
Think about them and their future before you make a decision to divorce…
Tonight on #TheMarriageCoach
But do you know you can stay and end up dead in depression and he will still marry someone who will come and treat those kids badly. Divorce is painful and no doubt children get affected but better to raise those kids single but happy
Exactly, no need of telling someone to stay in a toxic marriage/relationship
Very true.... Is good to love yourself first
You're right you can be happy but those kids will suffer alot and they can't express themselves 😢
Well said
Its better for kids to be from a broken home than for them live in a broken home.
Divorce hurts children... But living in a toxic marriage equally hurts them as well ........some of them pick up the bad habits of your toxic marriage and assume they are normal.....eg ... The boys learn that you can beat your wife and its ok ... Girls learn that been abused is ok and normal .... At the end of the day the ugly effects of divorce is the lesser evil
Divorce is a loss, no one is a winner
But sometimes it's worthy the peace
Don't promote toxicity, kids and a spouse deserve better in life. I hope you understand Narcissisism and then you will understand the damage.
Divorce is traumatising but toxic marriage is worse....
We wacha! Unhappy parents living together is extremely toxic and leads to dysfunctional kids.
The marriage life is like figures of numerator & denominator
In that every partners has feelings which should be equals ,marriages needs flexibility of love & respect and humility on both side its not a walk in the ........paradise
Divorce is not a joke! God bless Wakiama for that really deep advice.
Divorce is not always a solution but in most cases it is switching from one set of problem to another problem.
Indeed, divorce and separation is a loss and grief in itself. However,whilst it is a bad thing, living in some relationships can be more traumatic than the divorce itself.
A child can develop very well under the care of just one adult who is able to meet all their needs.
I feel for our children, oh GOD have mercy i have nephews whose mother left them ages 3 and 5 with their dad this level of selfishness is too much, they don't even want to listen to wise counsel i didn't know until now that it will affect generations ati the hubby is not allowing her do her hobbies. REALLY
A parent or woman who sticks in a toxic relationship ends up destroying/bringing up bitter kids towards the society, they blame the sober parent for exposing them and not protecting them from the abuse.
Toxic marriages are more worse than divorce. Choose peace and take care of yourself and your children.
I don't have any beef with my xhusband, I wish him and his family God's blessings
Thoroughly blessed wakiama,Asante
Doing good job ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This mama is awesome, very wise. We are learning.
Awesome ,,,,well noted
Today the courts have charged, and I was given all I contributed to building the house and all my assets. My divorce took 3 months so a lot is changing. The court needs a plan to make it easy for the judge. Deut 28:1-5. Death threats should not be given perseverance. My 13-year-old daughter recommended and requested I walk out of an abusive and cruel marriage.
Wa Kiama speaks the truth kwanza hapo kwa generational true bt scary that u find some patterns repeating themselves
From the title, this is such a retrogressive mindset!
But it’s a true statement. Children suffer but I know there are cases where divorce is necessary.
No woman entered into a marriage with anticipation to breaking away, Stop entertaining aldultary!!! kids ends up orphaned as a result of recklessness , illitic , loose sexuality, from a parent. do not normalize immorality. Weight the impact it will have on the boy child and the ripple effects on the society at large.
I am that child torn into pieces. My parents divorced 7 years ago but the impact that brought i my life is immense. I met God three years ago and He's been restoring me back. But its still very hard, my parents don't see eye to eye let alone have a conversation. My brother is totally lost to the world, only God will help him...
The divorce was warranted but it came at a cost 😢😢😢😢
It was a toxic marriage all along, and that too brought alot of trauma...
Someday I'll talk about it because couples need to know there's More than just them in The picture
Lots of love to you Lilian😊
May God continue to heal you, and may your brother find peace.
This was soo informative but i feel it's stages resembles that of a heartbreak 💔 but i can't imagine the pain of divorce especially where children are involved coz in dating when you part ways it's soo painful 😢what about in marriage ??
Rekia nyambura njoki na dukamuguthe ringi🎶 by de Matthew
Iyo wimbo ni ya DE Mathew,rekia nyambura.
@Nimo my sentiments exactly!
I love the topic
Always look forward to these episodes
But what about me? Iam also someone's child. My happiness is important too. Why should I live my life for my children?
Very true, soon they will have their own lives, and you will be begging for their attention 😢😊
Wakiama kindly answer me.
ln case the children are grown ups,can divorce still affect them?
STOP PROMOTING a traumatised & toxic generations.
They will be traumatized either way, parents being divorced or sticking in a toxic relationship
Better divorce is easier to heal from 🤔
Bottom line Ngai mbele
Better to stay alone without seen any other man
Wakiama unaongea ukweli lakini wanaume wengine ni kisilani tutira de force ni kwenda
Wow!
Wakiama na magonjwa???
❤
Mimi niliachana na bwana yangu saidi ya mwika kumi , lakini tuko mwika miwili tukikutana Hadi tuna have sex. Is that normal?
Bado unapenda bwana wako
Toxic marriage is more destructive to the children than divorce itself.
Anyway this lady just as Wamuratha is very annoying
Monica when you say that umeandika number hapo kwa screen,I think you sideline your visually impaired followers.
Kuwa tu unaisema
Noted. Asante sana