Corey Holcomb GOES IN on DISRESPECTFUL children
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Even when my father and I were on the worst terms, I never disrespected him in public or in private. Right or wrong, I'm here and am I am who I am because of him.
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Yo took the words right out of my mouth about my exact experience!
I 100% agree! My father and I don't get along at all. So I completely keep my distance from him but I don't disrespect him. He created the hole he in. Why throw dirt him when he suffering
My son ignores me and I don't know why me my ex wife raised him
Big fact
I’m 64 , I’m a father of 3 grown sons (46,34,23) I’m blessed. I raised my sons to be better than me, but they have to respect my father’s name, don’t embarrass my name, or I’m going to get in their ass. My parents were together for 58 years and I was scared of both of my parents, my mom, more than my dad. My dad was my hero, I can hear my dad’s voice. They don’t respect their elders
If toxic behavior wasn't celebrated this wouldn't keep happening
Toxic behavior is always rewarded, especially in Black communities.
You said that right Corey. I will not have a disrespectful child up under me no matter what age.
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That’s right
Real parents run the damn house and no disrespect will ever come from the kids. Hold that damn house down men and women you NEVER let your kids run you. Never
Pop culture (social media, music, film, tv, etc.) is the new “parent”. It has more influence with children than the parent/s do. No cap.
Yup
That’s because the parents are not PARENTING. I’m 46 years old. We had plenty of negative influences when I was growing up. Difference is my parents weren’t out here trying to act like one of the kids
Always been for a while quite some time now
My generation grew up respecting all adults and spoke when spoken too. We stayed out of grown folks business. Kids who grew up in a suburb but acting like they lived in a hood do it because survival gets respect and a silver spoon gets criticism and no sympathy.
My 50 yr old sister was living in a rental house for yrs that was owned by our parents and she would regularly disrespect them, all while constantly being late on rent and demanding sh*t that no landlord would put up with. A couple years ago they finally had enough and sold the house. 😂
Good
Spoiled child
Your parents...SMOOTH OPERATORS.
NOOO baby, we would never put you out. 🤔Uhhm...the new owner might though....love you baby, God bless ya, ya heard me!? 🙏🏾
@@Jaeh1Yes indeed! 😂
Unfortunately those kinds of people can be dangerous to their elderly parents
My father has done despicable things and I've never disrespected him. Like Corey said, I've distanced myself so i won't disrespect him. I forgive, I don't hate, I pray, and give him his space.
Yep
Nah I disagree. Yea your father needs to be forgiven but he’s not above accountability and truth. And sometimes that comes with disrespect. Don’t get me wrong tho ti son was very disrespectful and out of pocket and he’s built different. I don’t believe he had any legitimate reason to act that way towards his father and mother.
My father is no longer here. He raised me the best of his abilities after mom died early. I was a momma's boy but i always respected my father. He gave me life and my mother carried me. I couldn't take a female seriously who doesn't respect her father period.
Unfortunately, most of them don't know where their father is to disrespect him. Too many single mother homes led to this.
Well that's the man who the mom chose to go raw with.
Unfortunately, I believe you’re right. When do we start talking to, (or, start talking ABOUT!!) these men who are deserting these families that they created? 🤔
@@busterheine3806 The same time you speak on parental alienation that's allowed by the courts who automatically give custody to the mothers. Or the same time you speak about women not protecting their wombs.
@@jaycesmith7899good comeback. 😎
Heavy on the parental alienation! Also let’s talk about how it should be MANDATORY dna tests after birth, and then AUTOMATIC legitimization for the fathers. A lot of men are “deserting” their families bc they have no real power or access. 4 days a month (Every other weekend) is not enough to have any real impact on the child. When a break up happens a man should have automatic 50/50 unless he has been proven to be abusive to the children
I was raised in a household where I had both of my parents and my father being HOH would never tolerate disrespect no matter what if he was right or wrong and I for the most part never challenged him and knew my place in the home not to do so. He put me on game about everything in life that I know today and would not have grown up to be the man that I am today if it not wasn’t for him being there as a father and real man should be with their kids. I may not have always agreed with some things he said or taught me but one thing I did do: I listened and learned from him the things I needed to understand and pick up to survive and thrive out here and to keep my nose clean. My father always told me: A father is everything.
Same here. Your father was right. Only a present father knows.
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Honour your Father and your Mother is the 1st Commandment with a Promise.
Which is?
I was with a woman whose baby's father was doing some scanless sh** to her. She made it a note to never say anything negative about him. "It's in my daughters' best interest to think they have the best dad in the world. Even though he ain't sh**!!!!"
You don't have to tell children anything. They can see for themselves who you are.🤷🏿♀️
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I can relate to what Corey said. I explicitly avoid my parents to avoid disrespecting them on a regular basis.
I was raised by my Grandparents, and I would have been knocked out if I ever disrespected them.
Bruh… I couldn’t even look at my mom and dad crazy and definitely wasn’t courageous enough to say something fly to them. Man these kids are out of control!
My ex-wife wanted a divorce. We got it. We were cool when I was down and out, but when I remarried, she turned my son against me. My son was my shadow. Now he doesn't want nothing to do with me because I don't want to communicate with his mother. He is 21 now. When he was 10 to 17, I chased hi down and he would send messages that he didn't want me around. He turned 17 my mom passed way and my son and I reconnectd. We had a talk ad we made a deal that when he turned 18 it was just him and I and that I wanted nothing to do with his mom because she is a toxic person. He agreed but at 19, that changed. Now he leaves send me text messages disrespecting me. I paid 600 a month child support for 8 years and spent time wit him for 4 of those years until she turned him against me. I was good father to my son and I socks knowing how your seed feels about you when you busted your tail for them but someone poisons their mind about you.
I recently came across the following, I needed to really know this: If someone is stupid enough to walk away from you, be smart enough to let them go. 🤷🏿♀️
My pops and I are not on the best of terms. But best believe when I’m talking to/about him, there’s always a level of “fear” and respect shown
I was never trained to hate my father & he ain’t shit or disrespect my mother, I was raised to respect my elders no matter what age I am!
Being born decades ago… You absolutely knew better than to disrespect your father. Especially in a black household. If you did, it usually was going to happen just once. Our father worked very hard and did the best that he could for the family. You never wanted to cross “that line”. We were told by our father, “I brought you here and I don’t have a problem with taking you out”. He got his point across to all of us.
Just because you’re grown, doesn’t change the fact that you’re still a child to your parents.
That’s an oxymoron
@@degrerickjenkins1617 no it’s not. Just because you’re grown doesn’t mean that you treat your parents like they’re on your level like they’re your friends. You still give them that parental respect because you’re still their child at the end of the day.
@@alvinsmith5686What you described is oxymoronic, that doesn’t mean it’s wrong.
@@369pendulum ok, then my apologies to you and @degrerickjenkins1617. I interpreted his comment as saying that I was wrong. But, that was my mistake.
I work at a transitional housing with addicts and it's all pain that came from the home along with bad life decisions it's real sad
I tried my pops at about 16. I woke up looking at the clouds. Let me tell you I never tried it again. I’m 53 now I fully understand the way he raised me. I appreciate everything he did for me.
When yall hear positive content like this hit the "like" button. Letget this spread faster
Spot on Cory. You preaching doctor. You've been raised. This world is drunk and "everbody" is mad.
The Hell with my Old Man he never took care of me and my Siblings. Now he Gotten Older he thinks we Owe him something. No Bruh you didn't care if we went without so we don't care about you.
Congratulations!!! Let's keep it moving Mane!!! 🫡🫡
Dealing with disrespect right now in my son. He is 21 lazy as all outdoors. If I am giving him stuff it is all good. When I tell him to buckle down and grind. It's a problem. The dude was kicked out of college for academic failure. He wasn't going to his classes. He asked me to pay for his school's debts. I said I can't do that. All you had to do was go to class. Which you did not. Not you are feeling it. The crazy part is that his college is paid for if he attends a school in Texas due to me being an army vet. But he wanted to stay near his moms.
The 4th member of Boyz II Men is still living guys he and I share the same Birthday December 16th he is living with MS but still with us !!!!
I am 63 and up until the time that he died in 2016, I never disrepected him. He would have knocked me into next week! Believe that!
True im 40 and both are gone and i never disrespected them at least not without acknowledging it n saying im sorry
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My daughter is acting this way right now. Its sad to be honest. I ain't having it. She's gonna need me more than I will need her. I love her too death, but just like Corey is saying, I won't tolerate anything kind of disrespect at all.
Amen brotha 🙏
Sometimes, it’s just that one child. You can have the same parents, raising the same children, providing a middle class life, shielding them from the world we may have grown up in, and they’ll still be NBA Youngboy.
My dad recently passed away. He was never a huge part of my life after my very young years although we always lives in the same town. I went through foster care for years even though he lived in the same town. He never put himself in a position to be able to take care of his kids on his own after he and my mother divorced. I said all that to say I never uttered a disrespectful word to him once. I'm big on respect in my own life, and regardless if he wasn't a great father, he's still my dad.
Beautifully put. Sorry for your loss. I truly am. May your father rest in eternal peace. 🙏🏾🕊
He not lying!! The truth and facts!
If you’re a deadbeat parent, expect some disrespect. You don’t earn the honor and respect if you’ve never been around to raise your child.
No one should disrespect their elder or parents no matter even if they out their mind God made your feet to walk away
They made him. They raised them on tv. This is no one’s fault but their own
The daddy tried to instill man values in the boy, the women let that weak crap in. But parents should realize if you raise your kids in reality tv nothing g good will come out of it.
Kids nowadays are not trained to have ethics, or morale values anymore. These celebrity kids dis their parents for notoriety and attention, not knowing that in the long run they are going to need them when that FAME runs out. What are you gonna do then?
Look we never disrespected our parents & my Mother always said, "If you aren't helping yourself, then I'm not helping you." All that, there ain't no jobs out there, & she'd say "it's jobs out there but I know that you don't expect one to come knock on the door to hire you." We had respect because if you didn't, that ass would get taxed & if they go to jail, when they get home your ass is getting out of their house. C-YA!👋🏾. ❤️🖤💚
I love my Mama and Daddy!!! They been down for me before I was even though of 👌🏾 41 years in counting 🩷
My son came at me through social media,. I seriously wanted to break his ass off, though it changed us forever, I did l try to mend what happened face to face. With nothing to say in person, he later sent me the longest text, the gist being how all I care about was him becoming successful and how I never nurtured him. I was officially done. People become somebody else behind these keyboards. Through it all, God is still good! 😎
He is Good all the time. But here is the thing. Sometimes we forget our kids aren't to be our friends. You were the best man for your son, you put his success and education before everything else according to him. That's what a father is supposed to do, his mother can nuture him "pause" men provide.
@@victormorrow3000 I feel exactly as you've said. I wasn't hurt by his text, I was disgusted. His text was an insult more than anything. I literally lost respect for him over that text.
Rightfully so, but he will need your fatherly advice and protection again before you need his. I'd just reaffirm to him that being his friend and nurturer is not your concern. He will FAFO! when he has his own
Amen!!! We have an adult daughter who has been disrespectful towards us since she was 12 years. We’ve tried everything to make it work but enough is enough now. She’ll have to figure it out on her own.
This usually what happens when toxic people procreate together
When is T.I. going to get a DNA test?
It’s easier to act like King, Society lets off on you. It’s when you try to do right as a Black man the pressure comes. The real pressure, you feel from everywhere, stay prayed up.
Honor your father and mother and there is blessing attached to it. This is a spiritual attack
Glad he clarified the AMERICAN black family.
Yep I agree. Honor thy father and mother.
I have raised 3 girls with morals & to have respect. You can raise them with the best of intentions but children have their own minds and have to decide if they will follow your direction. I’ve learned from my oldest daughter that kids feel entitled, they want everything and do nothing, selfish, & have know respect for what you actually do to allow them to live the life they do. So yes they do pick up bad behavior @ home but now bad behavior is everywhere & the world embraces it so our children continue to follow what they believe to be cool which is very unfortunate.
When most boys/men disrespect their father is because they witnessed their father disrespect their mother. This is apart of the case with King. It's not just about respect of the father.
Even with my pops was on bad terms to the point we could possibly come to blows I would never put my business about my family on the internet
I'm with brotha cory i totally agree never and i mean never ever disrespect your father, mother, uncle's, aunties and grandparents, like my old man and i had our disagreements here and there, but at the end of the day thats my father and because of him being strick with his rules i wouldn't be who i am
My father is 74 and even to this day I wouldn’t dream of talking sideways to my father and I wouldn’t dream of trying to fight him either. I’m still pretty confident my dad can still kick my ass and I’m bigger than him. This is something I also teach my stepson and he thinks the world of me. The issue I have is with other family members that show my father disrespect. Then I have to keep my distance from them so in turn I haven’t spent time with my father because of those family members
Shiiiiit. 18, there is a job at Burger King or the military waiting on you!
I said there was some best podcast but you nail it Theo with your commentary bro💯
wow thanks!
Most ppl don’t realize how important their parents were are until they are gone. Sad
Factz! At 22, I was a 5 year soldier, been to four countries, taking college classes, made E-4 and trying to make E-5.
I was in my forties and ask my grandmother could I leave the house after I did what she asked me to do and I was just visiting.
The real question is what happen to everyone. Kids know a days are so disrespectful its hard to try and discipline them. When i was young if i acted up my the neighbor hood parents woild correct us if mom or dad wasnt home. The traditional parenting model is no longer relevant unfortunately. Smh
TI"s son rap name should be named Red Snapper the rapper
Always cracks me up when Corey starts to go into his Cosby voice 😄
We come from a Navy Dad n a Nyc Harlem Mom.
We were raised walking distance from da real hood.
I showed both of them respect, til their last days.
My son wud never raise up on me (now almost 40).
But his low key disrespect, he allows other (his wife n her friends). It Got him cut off !
My mom said, " I was my dad ", @ the age of 10. She was right, Cory & Theo are right about that.
He's learning the "Hard Way !".
That -
"Papa don't take Nooo Mess !"
A James Brown song (1974)
I'm so glad my children are respectful adults. 🙏
"Bang! Bang! It's Good!"🫡💯💪🏾
Bitter women made it comfortable for kid's and family members to disrespect of the dad. Only real grown women don't get down with that. You hardly hear men talking down on their BM s like that, it happens but not often
Facts Corey 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I grew up with my awesome dad and 5 uncles and they did not play with my cousins whether it was their sons or nephews! When my son was 2 we were at a family reunion and my son swatted at me like he was going to hit me cause I wouldn’t give him something- my uncle spun him around so fast grabbed him up and told him to never disrespect his mother! My son didn’t remember that of course but at 31 yo I am so proud of the man he’s become/becoming (all thanks due to positive yet tough men in his life - grandfather/ uncles/ coaches/ church brothers ) and now is about to be engaged and start his own family. #proudmomma.
Congratulations on the 75 k subs. Best wishes to you!
A product of their environment, I would never even want to disappoint my parents, much less disrespect them.
Dee be running interference and down field blocking for them thots..😂again she’s the aunt who takes her nieces secrets to the grave.
Man Corey talking real and she’s slick throwing shots at her baby’s father making this about her
Sadly, most black children are not raised in a 2 parent household. So they don’t see the examples of how men and women should interact respectfully. Most black men are either raised by a single woman or by the streets.
And that started when?
I can't STAND a disrespectful person related or not
Snap Congratulations on the 75k SUBS BRO 💪😎 (edit now you 101k Lets Goo)
If I spoke to my father like these kids today, I would have packed up and kicked out to be on my own.
My mom kicked me out the house and called the police and told them I ran away at 16. I didn't smoke, I didn't steal, never cursed her or raised a finger, I was getting decent grades, just a young man trying to enjoy life and find himself. The first woman to lie and call the police on me was my black mother.
They never want to talk about that do they🙄
Care how long your kids need you. You always have their back because you knew the world and how it goes and you alive them. You laid up and created that life meaning making a oath you got them forever ♾️
As you get older, you DEFINITELY want PEACE and don't have time for nonsense
At this age and time there will BE NO disrespectful kids, friends and family too close up on me!! It doesn’t make sense!!
I’m just glad he was on camera. Ain’t no telling what would have happened to that boy if no phones was out. Not saying he don’t need it because he obviously does
Disobedience to parents is a sign of the times we live in. Read 2 Timothy 3: 1 - 6. If you fail to respect and obey parental authority in the home, you'll chafe and rebuff against all authority, albeit leads to your own undoing. Remember family is the cornerstone of human society, if family goes society goes. History has proven this time and again since man's inception.
The holy Bible doesn’t hold any weight in the Information Age
@@wmmitchell3494 That's why are society as we know it is going to hell in a handbasket. Because we have no godly or moral standards to live by in this so-called information age. Read 2 Timothy 3: 16 & 17. That's why we can't separate right from wrong or good from evil. We live not only in an immoral society but a amoral one.
@@wmmitchell3494and that's why we are where we are.
That “boy” (in his thinking) was given EVERYTHING, but one good @ss whoopin in the early stages of his life!!! This is what happens when parents give their children everything, never make them earn anything and try to be their friends and not their parents. The Elders back in tha day would say to parents of teenagers who behave like T.I and Tiny’s son; “You created that monster!!”
Salute on 75k,
From #Hateford - USA
My mother act like deadbeat black stepdad. She abandoned me while i was dealing with a second round of cancer. My dad never knew me.
Great video, Commander!👍🏿💯💪🏿
Facts Corey! I stay out the way. Never disrespect!
Love this. They talking real wisdom 🤌🏾
I like your style . It took me a minute to realize you weren't off camera talking to Corey and the gang. You don't over talk and you stay on topic.Im a truck driver so I can't look at the screen
Where is a belt or a extension cord unfortunately that how some of us got punished 🤷🏾 congratulations to you brother Theo coop 75k 🙏🏾🎊🙏🏾🎉🎉🥳 very proud of your content 🥳🙏🏾 keep up the wonderful work
The extension cord for me.
He said what we're all thinking. I told her dont have you!
Son: "I hate you. You ruined my life"....Dad: You 23 now. "Get off my couch, dont eat my food....move out my house."...They got this shit backwards.
My dad tried to kill me since before I was born lol he wanted an abortion, he choked me as a kid and then ghosted me. I didn’t go to his funeral and I’m the asshole 😂
No need to disrespect your parents. You may not agree with everything your parents do, but there's no need for the disrespect.
IT'S DEPENDS😂
MY PARENTS ARE DIFFICULT STRICT IMMIGRANTS.
Excellent advice!
My momma so bad I don’t talk to her at all. It’s hard to just be respectful just cause it’s your parents. We never know what goes on. My mom will claim she’s been the best parent in the world.
I wish the boondocks and chappelle show was back on to deliver the news
I don’t know the whole background but the hypocrisy is crazy. Corey said don’t disrespect your parents (which I agree) but having a casual conversation about women and you call your daughter a b!tc# is wild. Respect goes both ways. You can’t demand respect but in the same breathe disrespect your child and their mother.
💯 Not only that. I stopped the video after he started saying that the father created a child's life by getting the mother to 'bust down.' So disrespectful, inaccurate and butthurt about being alone.🤦🏽
Craig was talking brah!!!! Great work as always Do Better!
That yellow boy looks like the monster from the movie Gyver.😂