ROME SUBWAY SCAM 😱 | Our Shocking Experience at Termini Station and What You Should Watch Out For

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  • ROME SUBWAY SCAM 😱
    Welcome back, fellow adventurers! In our latest video, we take you on a rollercoaster ride through the bustling Rome Termini Subway Station, where we encountered the infamous Rome Subway Scam. 🚇😱
    Join us as we share our heart-pounding experience in the busy and hectic Termini Station in Rome and how we fell for this Rome subway scam. Learn from our mistakes for valuable tips to stay safe during your travels. What went wrong? How did we almost get robbed? And most importantly, how can you avoid falling into the same trap?
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  • @midlifetravelbug
    @midlifetravelbug  Před 23 dny +42

    Thank you so much for watching our video! 🙏😊 We hope you found our experience with the Rome Subway Scam at Termini Station helpful and eye-opening. Have you ever encountered a travel scam or had a close call while traveling? We'd love to hear your stories and tips in the comments below!
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    • @rebenton8112
      @rebenton8112 Před 18 dny

      Never were these girls americans! I bet a certain ethnic group from romania.. that do most of begging and picpocket crime in italy/Germany/Austria/Spain.

    • @rebenton8112
      @rebenton8112 Před 18 dny +3

      No disrespect, but the first red flag for me would have been that a young girl out of nowhere "cares" so much about you and worries that you might miss your train. How could she even know where you were heading to...

    • @shapeoftimes
      @shapeoftimes Před 18 dny +2

      Last year we went to the French Riviera and we read even before going, on different groups, that a group of 3 young girls were running all kind of scams on tourists in Nice and surrounding cities. We didn't encounter them, but we were warned in a train station, by the staff, to be aware of our belongings, because they saw the girls on the platform, waiting for the train. We were shocked that everybody seemed to know about them and yet they were still out and about doing their thing...

    • @ellenh4984
      @ellenh4984 Před 2 dny

      ​@shapeoftimes Thoes bloggers are saying that they are experience travelers. And look what they did.

  • @brettbeckinsale5691
    @brettbeckinsale5691 Před 21 dnem +83

    My husband and I have been to Rome a few times. Love it. One time we were on the train going to the Colosseum. We were seated and looking around. There was a a couple of locals standing up in the middle of the doorway area. There were other commuters getting on and off and standing in the middle. I noticed the first 2 people were looking around especially at women with their bags. I then noticed the first 2 people also were surreptitiously making signs to another group of people regarding the commuters. I told my husband I thought they were up to no good. We had to get off at our stop. When we were returning I saw same group of people in our carriage still standing up where everyone was getting on. They started surrounding a woman who was standing near them who was not concentrating and on her phone. I got up and let the lady know to be careful as they were looking at her bag. They all moved away and got off at next stop. Traveller beware!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 dny +4

      Wow, good for you for letting the lady know. Too many just move on with their day and don't want to get involved. we love Rome and Italy too, it will not sway our thoughts on Rome, it can happen anywhere in the world. Thank-you for sharing. Stay safe, Cheers Chris and Jim

    • @marias2169
      @marias2169 Před 18 dny +5

      Yes, in certain cities, heroic people, upon seeing pickpockets in action, will shout and point " Pickpocket! Pickpocket!" to warn everyone within earshot.

    • @STUMAHA
      @STUMAHA Před 17 dny +1

      That's great! Who would expect that they've been singled out? It's also interesting that others probably observed the same things and said/did nothing.

    • @relocatetoItaly
      @relocatetoItaly Před 12 dny +2

      Its pickpocketing not a scam. A scam is usually someone contacting you online. Dont talk to anyone in the street or on public transport!

  • @hrw3mom103
    @hrw3mom103 Před 18 dny +26

    Growing up in NYC really prepared me for travel. 1. I can spot the scammers and 2. I have no problem telling people bugging me to leave me alone.

    • @rosey312
      @rosey312 Před dnem

      yeah a lot of people assume that the folks in other countries are nicer than folks at home. Treat any crowded area with the same care that you would in any big city.

  • @BirchandEvergreen
    @BirchandEvergreen Před 19 dny +45

    Thank you for posting. This was a profile incident. The ‘American’ was the leader. The dude profiled you. Likely saw you minutes before he approached you. Timed and synced up the incident with the others. To him, you were targets. You presented approachable. Within moments, his group manipulated, disorientated your planned steps on your your planned route to the airport. Because of this approachable, friendly vibe. He believed you would quickly place trust in isolating yourselves with strangers out of public view. His English speaking skills were accented American - common to have strong English speaking among young people in Europe, especially with American accents. Please examine this experience through a new lens that you were targeted by the ‘gentleman’ who fooled you to be comfortable with a ‘perceived’ lost American. Travelers: If you get approached in a public transportation area in Europe, ignore or tell people to go get help from the authorities. Move on. It’s okay. It’s never rude to be safety first and never selfish to stay focused on your itinerary. Rome is wonderful. The Italians are wonderful. The organized thugs are not good people! Organized criminals are attracted to Rome and major cities because they can hide among the tourists - pickpocketing is profitable for organized criminals. It’s not petty theft by a few. It’s a crime syndicate. Ignore approaching people on the street. While abroad it is best not to be approachable on the city streets, which can quickly translate into easier to engage. During certain times of travel, put on your steely stares. Ignore people who disrupt you. Ignore them against your feelings that you aren’t being nice. You did this video because you are shocked by how quickly criminals moved into your Roman holiday, your travel plans, then surrounded you, isolated you. The additional point to be made is all because of presenting open and approachable. This common criminal experience now shows you when to put on a cold, hard face. Ignore. If the are persistent - snarl and say loudly ‘are you a pickpocket?’ That will turn normal people to you and the criminals will turn away and go from you.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 19 dny +8

      Yes I guess we were the perfect targets. We were lucky, it's too bad some are not. Lessons learned for sure. We have had great experiences all over Italy and loved it so far. Great tips, thank-you for your comment. Stay safe, Cheers Chris and Jim

    • @Ponkelina
      @Ponkelina Před 13 dny +1

      I agree with the cold hard face. I've learnt to do my inner snot-snorting sneering punk with hard glare. if I'm getting target vibes and guess what, they immediately about turn and walk away.

    • @Ponkelina
      @Ponkelina Před 13 dny

      @@midlifetravelbug see my reply below/above

    • @yvonnenystrom
      @yvonnenystrom Před 12 dny +2

      This would be a perfect response, ‘Are you a pickpocketer??’!! Love it!! I plan to use that!!!

    • @Ilebuda
      @Ilebuda Před 12 dny

      It is very easy to spot American tourists in Europe, also (maybe even especially) in Italy. The language, behaviour, clothes... Sadly, there are people who use that information "against" American tourists.

  • @user-zc6ix1ex1t
    @user-zc6ix1ex1t Před 21 dnem +44

    I am a 78 year old woman who travelled solo through Italy with no problems. Be aware of surroundings, especially if someone approaches you. You don't have to respond.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem +4

      Happy travels! We have not had too many problems and we are usually on point, but we let our guard down. We thought we would share to remind others of how quickly things can happen when we make poor choices. We were lucky. We are happy to hear you have been safe and wish you continued happy travels. Cheers Chris and Jim

    • @chronic2023
      @chronic2023 Před 20 dny +8

      Yeah, I am 73, female, and was on a solo trip to Rome this year. Stayed away from public transportation for fear of being pickpocketed. Never got close to anyone. Termini is notorious. Preferred to pay €50 for a taxi to my hotel from Fiumicino than hassle with trains and Termini Station.

    • @downieduck2414
      @downieduck2414 Před 19 dny +2

      @@chronic2023 BRAVO, i am 72 and considering going Rome this week from canada last minute- i am terrified of all the bs that happens tho how fun can it be always worried about getting robbery and scammed everywhere you turn

    • @cavgrey8
      @cavgrey8 Před 18 dny +1

      I travel solo. Anyone asks if I speak English my response is a quizzical look & a shrug. Learn how to speak yes or know in the language where you visit with the native accent. A SCOTTeVEST & PackSafe items are fabulous. I use a door stop & portable door lock available on Amazon. Look at street maps & familiarize yourself with landmarks & major streets. There are good tutorials on YT on travel safety & scams. Budget more to use safer transportation. I wear a RoadSafe bracelet with data for 1st responders and use an AirTag to allow a designated person to track me. If you’re from the USA locate & download our embassy phone number & location in the country of travel. Also use their warning travel system. Depending upon the country local police may not be safe or of assistance.

    • @STUMAHA
      @STUMAHA Před 17 dny

      @@downieduck2414 My first trip to Italy, I had several random 'helpers' when trying to buy train and metro tickets. DO NOT take advice, or offer your attention to them longer than to say no thank you/no grazie. One guy almost talked me out of the line at the train station and I would've lost my spot. He claimed to know a better way. He was some random African guy not in uniform.

  • @snowbirdlady7221
    @snowbirdlady7221 Před 21 dnem +35

    I was targeted by a pickpocket team in Venice many years ago. It was my second trip to Italy and my second visit to Venice. I had been doing some specific sites for a few days and felt like taking a stroll. I decided it would be nice to walk down the one main "street" in Venice that starts from the train station. I had not seen this part of the city before. I'm walking along at a normal pace carrying just my cross body purse. Suddenly a short little guy in painter's overalls approaches me, keeps pace, and says he wants to paint my portrait. He's talking very fast, gesturing wildly, and speaking in a heavy French accent. I kept saying no thank you and he kept on walking with me. As we walked, I noticed a nicely dressed man leaning up against a building facing the street and reading a newspaper. He stood out because he was dressed much nicer than anyone else around in a navy blazer, collared shirt, and ivory slacks and he was tall with black hair. I figured he was waiting for his wife who was shopping. Meanwhile the annoying guy was still trying to get me to go with him even though I kept saying no. Finally I had enough and yelled at the top of my lungs at him "Basta"! and made a big angry sweep with my arm. He took off so fast if was funny.
    Now that I was rid of him, I continued walking but immediately saw the tall man again. He was looking in a shop window, still with his folded newspaper. A little further on I saw a perfume and bodyworks shop and stopped in for a look. Guess who was in there? The navy blazer man standing to the side and reading his newspaper again. I knew he was following me so I stepped back against the wall and stared at him. He never looked up, but I'm sure he knew I was staring at him. I watched to see if he was with a woman and many women came and went. Some made purchases, but he never spoke to any of them. I kept staring at him. Finally he left alone! After a bit, my fun walk ruined, I left and kept an eye out for him. I walked quicky to Piazza San Marco watching for him, but didn't see him again. Jerks.

    • @zakmartin
      @zakmartin Před 18 dny

      You're just lucky you didn't meet the red-hooded dwarf.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 dny

      Wow, thanks for sharing, sounds like you were lucky and saved the day! Good to trust your gut feelings for sure. Stay safe, Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @worldvoyagers4965
    @worldvoyagers4965 Před 18 dny +24

    I was just in Rome last week. Heading to the airport from Termini station, the easiest way to get there is to get on the Leonardo Express. Nonstop service to FCO. 14 Euros and you don’t have to worry about escalators, elevators, or anything. It’s on the Main Street level and super straight forward.

    • @Ponkelina
      @Ponkelina Před 13 dny

      the Leonardo express is pickpocket heavy too.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 6 dny +1

      Yes, thank you. We used it to get into Rome, We were leaving from termini to the other airport to our next destination in Greece. It’s very handy. Thanks for sharing 🙏 Cheers 🍻 Chris and Jim

  • @davidng407
    @davidng407 Před 21 dnem +30

    I always wonder why victims of crime call their perpetrator "the gentleman?" I am glad you guys didn't get hurt!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 20 dny +3

      That's the Canadian in us I guess, lol....thanks for watching and commenting. Much appreciated!

    • @user-xs9fp3ic9y
      @user-xs9fp3ic9y Před 18 dny +2

      That struck me too.

    • @spaniardsrmoors6817
      @spaniardsrmoors6817 Před 13 dny

      @@midlifetravelbug Americans do it too and it's infuriating...they're not gentlemen and calling them such just lightens the situation and as being something inconsequential when they're nothing but criminals.

  • @theamarcord1332
    @theamarcord1332 Před 18 dny +13

    I travelled a lot in Europe and I know by now that you simply need to ignore anyone who approaches you, most likely it’s a scam. If they persist I just tell them to f**off in their language.

  • @vinyalonde
    @vinyalonde Před 19 dny +16

    I had something similar happen to me in Berlin. A young couple tried to engage me in conversation regarding directions. Specifically, they tried to get me to help them by using my phone to access a map. Why would they ask a tourist? That made no sense to me. Spider senses started tingling and I kept moving and tried to direct them to someone else. They gave up. For what it is worth, I try to memorize my route before I go out so that I don't have to have my phone out for directions. And by using my earphones, I can get verbal instructions from the app and thus not have to expose my phone.
    To add, these robbers have one important skill they have to develop and that is sizing people up to identify their targets. And they rarely work alone. This is their full time job and unfortunately, with travel numbers up, they are getting a lot of practice.

  • @cavgrey8
    @cavgrey8 Před 18 dny +15

    1st thing is to disregard your ideas on what a pickpocket looks like. There are no age limits, being well dressed or poorly dressed, male or female or locations that are pickpocket free zones. Anyone can be a pickpocket. Any location is prime for being pickpocketed. Be unapproachable in public. It isn’t being rude. Your safety is of utmost importance. Very seldom do they work alone. Keep walking. It’s more difficult to hit a moving target.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 dny

      Yes this is true, the guys was probably in his 60's and well dressed. maybe this is why it threw us off. Yes we will work on the unapproachable for sure. Thanks for the tips and sharing, cheers Chris and Jim

  • @angelaslocum9620
    @angelaslocum9620 Před 22 dny +21

    I appreciate you for sharing this experience. We are going to Rome in October and I hope I’m prepared for any such events. My husband is a very friendly guy by nature, and innocent as to people who may have bad intentions. I feel I’ll need to be extra wary to not get caught by “friendly, helpful” people. It’s a shame we have to be suspicious, but better safe than sorry. I’m glad you got out of that situation as well as you did. Pays to listen when bells go off in our head!

    • @MencyNars
      @MencyNars Před 21 dnem

      we were in Rome in 2022. the taxi drivers have scam too, they will switch your money to a lesser amount , so watch out for this. I was staring and counting my 30 euros for 15 mins of drive. when I paid the taxi driver ( we got this justoutside the The Vatican. he switched my 30 euros to 15 only, I told the driver, I saw his fast hand doing this trick but I just let it go. the driver stopped atthe mdiddle of the street and my family already got out so I just let it go

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem +2

      Thank-you for your comment! We really didn't have any problems until then, but I think our over confidence caught up to us. We hope you have a wonderful trip and stay safe, and honestly most people are so amazing. Make sure you take all the safety steps and you should be just fine. We also never carry much cash if possible. Maybe when we head to and from the airports we might consider a taxi even if it is more costly. Someone mentioned a bus. Yes our gut feelings can be super helpful. Thanks for watching, Cheers Chris and Jim.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem

      Oh wow, thanks for the information, good to know. It's really too bad when these things happen.

    • @melhenline8438
      @melhenline8438 Před 18 dny +1

      Our biggest problem in Rome was the people at the famous sites who want to "give" you a gift like a flower or a bracelet and then demand money. You have to be extremely firm/borderline rude and do not engage at all. Say "no" and walk away. Other than that Rome is amazing and I hope you love it as much as we did. 🙂

    • @Ponkelina
      @Ponkelina Před 13 dny

      please get him to watch all the pickpocket videos on youtube. They are all the same whether its Barcelona or Paris or Rome etc. There is a great 5 min video called Pickpocket Huntress of Barcelona.

  • @mindlesspaul
    @mindlesspaul Před 18 dny +12

    This brings back sweet memories of glory. While standing in a bus in Naples the guy casually sitting next to the place where I was standing was trying to open the side pocket of my shorts. At first I didn't notice, but when I did, I grabbed him by the throat with just one hand and lifted his face (and the rest of his body) next to mine, telling him he was lucky that I didn't hit him. He took of a the next stop. It must be common in Naples, because the rest of the bus acted like nothing out of the ordinary had happened.

    • @toilettduckk
      @toilettduckk Před 17 dny +2

      Naples is notorious for pickpocketing. The Circumvesuviana, the train that goes to Pompei, has a reputation for being one of the worst in Europe. When I''m on it, I look alert, clutch my bag and scowl the whole time.

  • @pippasmith4813
    @pippasmith4813 Před 20 dny +10

    On our way to Termini at another station, my husband and I had our luggage on the way to the airport. As we tried to board the train, two girls, mid-teenage age, stretched out their arms to restrict us from getting onto the train, whilst their two partners in crime, came from behind trying to grab whatever they could from us. Thankfully we used our luggage as battering rams, as the girls ran off the train.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 19 dny +2

      Oh geez, that’s aggressive, so glad you were ok. So crazy how quickly things can get out of hand. Thanks so much for sharing your story! They definitely have teams and with the ability to text now days it’s so much easier. Stay safe, Cheers 🥂 Chris and Jim

  • @mariacabral3967
    @mariacabral3967 Před 21 dnem +12

    My husband and I travel to Europe every year on vacation. We keep it simple ‘no talking to strangers’ no matter what! For information we ask at the hotel or tourist information Center! We travel trains and subways we do our homework in advance even checkout the train station and platform the day before. When we arrive to travel we know the route. I also carry a small keychain alarm with me purchased on Amazon and the noise is deafening!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 19 dny

      Thanks for sharing!! Those are some great tips! Stay safe! Cheers Chris and Jim

    • @dkwannabe
      @dkwannabe Před 5 dny

      I hear you completely, however...not talking to anyone at all in your travels makes you miss out on a significant, and often memorable aspect of visiting a new place. But I hear ya. I've had things stolen in Europe - twice. Both while moving from one place to another with all our stuff. Both were my own stupidity. Be hypervigilant to the point of paranoia when you are going to or from the airport as you have everything with you. But while you're there, go out with nothing,,.... and engage! I put $50 worth of cash in my pocket, and some backup cash and card/ID in a pouch I wear inside my pants. That's it. TBH I am a lot more afraid of losing my phone now that it does literally everything include ID'ing you back to your bank after you get robbed (doh!). I grip it for dear life when it's out.
      Sorry for the ramble. Travel is 90% awesome, the other 10 is this stuff and airports - but don't let it stop you from engaging the locals, most people are not out to get you.

  • @TheMMAlegria
    @TheMMAlegria Před 22 dny +87

    And the lesson for Jim is for you listen to your wife next time.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 22 dny +14

      @@TheMMAlegria she tells me that when I listen to her 100% of the time, I will always be right 100% of the time! 🤣 Now I know 😁

    • @karenorozco8917
      @karenorozco8917 Před 19 dny +6

      The wife is always right!!!

    • @Lee.Freeman
      @Lee.Freeman Před 19 dny +3

      Weird thing is, my sisters are rarely ever right, But the wife, she is a whole other species. 😮😂🦘

    • @leihacinar4320
      @leihacinar4320 Před 12 dny

      Absolutely 💯 always work as a team❤❤

    • @leihacinar4320
      @leihacinar4320 Před 12 dny +1

      Absolutely 💯 team work

  • @wildearthfarm4632
    @wildearthfarm4632 Před 23 dny +13

    Thanks for sharing that! I'm headed to Rome in the fall and one thing I've heard is that if you're loaded down like you guys were, best to take a taxi and stay off mass transit just for those reasons you listed. Glad you escaped and thanks for the lesson!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 22 dny +2

      Yes we were lucky, hope this helps you out. Yes a taxi would be nice but sometimes it’s just not in the budget. It’s about 50 euro from the airport. Wishing you a wonderful trip! It’s such a wonderful place.. even with a few bad apples. Cheers Chris and Jim 🥂

    • @thedavidguy01
      @thedavidguy01 Před 21 dnem +6

      I’ve gone back and forth to the airport with luggage in Rome several times using mass transit with no problem. These kinds of scams unfortunately happen, but I wouldn’t avoid mass transit because of them. That said, pack light. Most people take way too much stuff. It’s far easier to get around with less stuff.

    • @Ponkelina
      @Ponkelina Před 13 dny

      even they scam you! I was quoted a huge amount at the taxi line at Rome Centrale - a huge arguement developed when I refused that amount and didnt get into the taxi - until a female taxi driver arrived, told them to shut up, and took me to my hotel. I had my young daughter with me. She charged me far less than the scamming taxi driver. Also never ever pay for the taxi until you have your bag OUT of their boot/trunk. Else they drive off with your bag if you disagree about the cost. Another thing in Naples a hotel offered me a voucher to pay the taxi driver with. He didnt know I had the voucher and seemed to take an eternity to get to the airport. When we got there I duly waited for the bags to be taken out of the boot/trunk and only then did I present the voucher. He turned into the Incredible Hulk and had the biggest tantrum I've ever seen in a adult. I said thanks and off I went.

    • @lynn9018
      @lynn9018 Před 9 dny +1

      @wildearthfarm4632 Yes take a white taxi 50 euro right to your destination in Rome, so worth it.

  • @ginav3636
    @ginav3636 Před 4 dny +2

    Going to Rome next week. Thank you so much for your honesty! I am now going to have eyes wide open and will remember to just take a step back and regroup if i feel confused. Thank you!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 4 dny

      Have a wonderful trip! Thank you for your kind comment. We were back last week and everything was good, but we were definitely more pro active 😂. Cheers have a great time!! Chris and Jim

  • @loriswan2556
    @loriswan2556 Před 21 dnem +8

    Great video, you guys are still smiling and NOT robbed!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem

      Thanks so much for watching, yes still smiling. Hopefully a little wiser..lol.. all we can do is laugh at our mistakes and learn from them. Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @ithacaster
    @ithacaster Před 2 dny +3

    That bag is often called a sling pack. I've been to Rome several times and have taken the Da Vinci Express train to the airport several times. I've also taking the subway out past the Vatican. The subways are in a separate section of the station. Good advice to ask the police or people that are obvious workers for directions. The "you're the only people that speak English" is BS as well. I found it rare to find someone in Rome that did not speak English.

  • @Caocao8888
    @Caocao8888 Před 18 dny +10

    You “almost” fell for a scam at Roma Termini. For months, I’ve been watching videos of people on New York City subways suffering FAR worse than what you experienced. P.S. Brief interactions with strangers needing help make sense, but to ALLOW people to herd you around?

  • @carolyn8758
    @carolyn8758 Před 18 dny +6

    On a subway platform in Madrid 3 years ago, I noticed a group of young women watching us. I mentioned it to my husband, who had his wallet in his cargo shorts leg pocket. Not a good place to put it!
    These young women all boarded the same crowded train with us. When we got off about 4 stops later, one of the women handed my husband his wallet and said, “You dropped this.” We thanked her. Then…I asked my husband, “Did you check your wallet? Is everything there?” Luckily she’d only taken the cash, about €100. (Why she gave us the wallet back is perplexing.)
    It's so important to trust your intuition. If it feels wrong, trust that feeling!
    It almost happened again a year later in Rome. Same method, a group of girls (gypsies) watching us, studying us; such a very uncomfortable feeling. I think in the future I would spend the money on taxis, it’s very nerve-wracking knowing thieves are everywhere.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 dny

      Oh wow, so sorry to hear this. I actually just watched a documentary on the subject and apparently they don’t even get into trouble when caught. So they are able to do it over and over again. Scary and sad really. I am heading to Rome soon again and then Madrid. I will have to be much more careful. We were lucky 🍀 but I feel bad for those who aren’t so fortunate. Stay safe, thanks for watching! Cheers Chris and Jim.

    • @carolyn8758
      @carolyn8758 Před 18 dny

      @@midlifetravelbug Thank you and happy travels! :-)

    • @SD-co9xe
      @SD-co9xe Před 17 dny

      Fortunately cash is needed less and less in Europe now. I used Apple Pay for almost everything recently.

  • @annemariedonovan3437
    @annemariedonovan3437 Před 18 dny +5

    We were in Barcelona and at a park bench waiting for our room to be ready. Right across the street, a woman was walking by, and as soon as I spoke English she turned and came back and sat next to us on a bench. My gut told me to leave as she was texting on her phone. I nudged my husband and went into the hotel lobby. We wear the sack you can order online that is big enough but goes under your clothing. We kept close to us through out our trip. Through Barcelona and France. I don't trust anyone.

  • @JohannesNikitin91
    @JohannesNikitin91 Před 18 dny +4

    Here in Europe, we don't talk to random people on public transport. We also speak several languages ​​here. People who study different languages ​​learn a lot of cultural things in addition to just the language. Speaking English in a non-speaking country is a scammer's dream. Scammers know that many native speakers of English do not know other languages, so it is easy for them to fake trust.
    .
    In addition to this, if you speak with a strong American or Canadian accent, scammers know that many of these people do not use public transport often but usually go by car. The scammer can only ask you where in America you are from. If you answer that you are from, for example, Arizona, Nevada or Texas, they will immediately know that you are not familiar with public transport. Then they can pretend to be friendly, but are really trying to cheat. It's better to be the one who talks to random people, but if someone else comes to talk to you, that's a red flag, all theater, what happens after that doesn't matter. Well ofcourse you can lie that you are from NYC. Scammer in Europe may know that in NYC people use public transport daily.
    .
    Experienced travelers also know that Rome is not only one of the worst tourist spots in Europe, but one of the worst touristbaths in the whole world.
    .
    Enjoy your travels in Europe!

  • @darlenemackamul7008
    @darlenemackamul7008 Před 21 dnem +10

    When I was in Paris around 10 years ago a woman came up to me said she found my wedding ring. I told her no and walked away. She tried to follow but I just kept walking.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem

      Wow, thats an odd one. Glad you stayed safe, thank-you for sharing. Cheers Chris and Jim

    • @user-fd4ot8mf6s
      @user-fd4ot8mf6s Před 21 dnem +4

      @@midlifetravelbug actually, the found ring and a real garbage bracelet are very common scams.

    • @cavgrey8
      @cavgrey8 Před 18 dny +3

      That’s a very typical scam that has been happening for decades. Just keep walking.

  • @TWSmith42
    @TWSmith42 Před 21 dnem +5

    Great discussion. There are pickpockets in all major cities, including Rome, Paris, and New York. We had no issues the last time we were in Rome. Fingers crossed our luck continues.

    • @jewelmarkess
      @jewelmarkess Před 21 dnem +5

      New York has a lot of problems, but I've never seen pickpockets there or heard of them. If there are, they are far less skillful than the European ones which are "professionals" - often have been taught to pickpocket since a very young age. I had no issues in Rome either, or Barcelona or Lisbon, but I have a habit of holding my purse as if any person next to me can be the one out to steal from me.

    • @alexwyler4570
      @alexwyler4570 Před 21 dnem

      no pickpockets in NY. in NY, you will get killed for your purse. One can not compare Europe to the USA

  • @Loumow1
    @Loumow1 Před 18 dny +5

    Good advice! The metro or buses is the most likely place. Had my purse ripped off my shoulder and lost everything but my passport as my husband had it!! Spent the whole evening and next day cancelling cards and I had just beforehand exchanged money ($250) and I was being watched when I bought tickets for the train. It was a family with kids who surrounded us while we stood reading maps on the metro wall. They had been watching us for several minutes beforehand. They were well-practiced. Now I never carry a purse in the metro and always step far away of people seemingly crowding me. You must be assertive and pro-active! These people make a good living. Always stay alert and never, never appear confused like you don’t know where you are going.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 17 dny

      Oh wow, how scary. Thanks for sharing, and the good advice. Sorry to hear about your experience. Stay safe, Cheers Chris and Jim

    • @DianaGonzalez-tz3bc
      @DianaGonzalez-tz3bc Před dnem

      These crooks know that Americans are naīve and gullible. Please try to be one step ahead of them.

  • @classics39
    @classics39 Před 12 dny +2

    Sorry, guys so many red flags...... my antenna would have been on high alert not immediately but quite from the onset.... at the very latest when this girl turned up..... Anyway, good of you to make aware fellow tourists as there are many inexperienced and naive people...

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 11 dny +2

      Yes we agree.,. Our poor choices almost cost us greatly. Unfortunately others have not been so lucky.. just hoping to help others and get people talking about this issue and not be ashamed when it does.. thanks for your comment!

    • @classics39
      @classics39 Před 11 dny

      @midlifetravelbug You were lucky. Not good to be stuck in an elevator with such people... BTW I am approachable, open and not of a suspicious mindset. Yet, I am observant and can read people/body language well, my radar works well. Still, I have been very lucky, too, on several occasions.

    • @Ponkelina
      @Ponkelina Před 6 dny

      @@midlifetravelbug yes we are making mental notes on your bad experience. Thanks for sharing it with us

  • @martharivera3113
    @martharivera3113 Před 19 dny +6

    If you are a season traveler it’s thing never get in an elevator with a bunch of people

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 dny +1

      Yes, again as we state our poor choices put us in this situation for sure. Sometimes easy when you are jet lagged and tired. But lessons learned. Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @biblicalgodisonlytruegod
    @biblicalgodisonlytruegod Před 2 hodinami

    Really good! Thanks for this! They know you have everything with you when you are going to the airport! Great advice guys.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 minutami

      Yes they do, Thanks so much for watching! Stay safe, Chris and Jim

  • @observer8736
    @observer8736 Před 3 dny +1

    We traveled to Italy numerous times and never ran into pickpockets or scams because we always rented a car. Be aware of areas that are heavily populated including museums, shopping, and even car rental places😂 Italy, France, and Spain have pickpockets from Eastern European countries. They wear several large empty bags and they walk in groups. Lock your backpacks!

  • @lynn9018
    @lynn9018 Před 9 dny +2

    My husband,daughter & I recently traveled to Italy for the 3rd time. We have steered clear of the subway & chose to take a white cab for 50 euro into Rome & right up to the front door of our hotel it was well worth the 50 euro, the Leo express train is 14 euro per person each way & you will arrive in Termini another popular pickpocket area then you still have to get to your destination in Rome by walking or public transportation, by the time you add up the cost you might as well just take a cab to begin with. Some folks might say it’s too expensive but so replacing stolen items. We had a lady (not Italian) come up to us in Tuscany in the city of Orvieto, she figured we were waiting for a tour of the underground & started a conversation about where we needed to stand to get the correct tour (which they had Italian speaking tours & English) but she just kept trying to engage us in conversation & I was getting very irritated but my husband for some reason wanted to keep a dialogue going 😩. She knew I was irritated & said to my husband “oh she is mad or pissed”. That’s when I looked directly at her & said F off & told my husband watch your stuff & walked away. My husband was mad but I didn’t care, he eventually walked away from her.

    • @Ponkelina
      @Ponkelina Před 6 dny

      i think its becoming more and more necessary in big cities now.

    • @gilliansmith9134
      @gilliansmith9134 Před 3 dny

      Orvieto is in Umbria

  • @dionandkimx
    @dionandkimx Před 23 dny +4

    Wow.. what a story. We're so glad you're safe and nothing was taken! We've heard a lot of similar incidents like this do happen in Europe!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 22 dny

      Thanks 🙏 guys. Yes we have too, this was really our first experience and we’re lucky for sure. Most places we have felt really safe, but the big cities seem to have a few more crafty ones 😝have fun in Vietnam 🇻🇳

  • @beccabrutal386
    @beccabrutal386 Před 21 dnem +3

    Thanks for sharing!! I’m glad you guys got out of the situation okay! I’m heading to Rome soon. And I’m a little worried to be traveling alone but I’m trying to prepare myself and your video helps!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 19 dny +1

      Thank-you, exciting for your upcoming trip for sure! Just take all the steps to protect yourself. All you can do is your best. We have never had any problems before and travelled all over Italy and many other countries. Most people are kind. We have never really felt unsafe, but we are usually more careful. This is why we choose to share to help others. Thank-you so much for watching, and wishing you a safe trip! Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @rosalinddruceevanson3334

    Thanks for the video. We were in Rome years ago, and I bought a fake LV backpack, ( a pretty good one) from one of the many street vendors. It had two openings. Both zippered. One to open the entire backpack and one to access a wallet. We boarded a bus to take us to the Vatican and as the bus was crowded, we stood. A group of young children boarded at the next stop and squeezed their way through the standing passengers. One of them got behind me and had almost unzipped the wallet section of my backpack before a seated passenger stopped her. I was so lucky and never wore that backpack again. You really cannot be too careful. Tourists are so vulnerable and be vigilant always!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 5 dny

      Wow, we are glad you made it out ok. Good for whoever stopped it. Thanks for sharing. It's so sad that kids are doing this instead of having fun like kids should. Stay safe, Cheers Chris and JIm

  • @sherriirrehs8377
    @sherriirrehs8377 Před 22 dny +5

    Also do NOT ever leave your cellphone on a table top, people will come by with clipboards asking you to sign a petition, lay their board over your cell and steal it. Don't have your cellphone in your hand while boarding or leaving public transit. Pickpocketers will grab it while the door is about to close. We've bought cellphone cases with the lanyards to wear crossbody while traveling on public transport in Europe. Mini carabiner style clips to use on backpacks and purses & Murses! 😂
    It at least will slow them down. 😕

    • @jewelmarkess
      @jewelmarkess Před 21 dnem +4

      This is exactly what happened with the husband of my cousin in Berlin. He isn't a tourist there, he is German and a native Berliner, but got careless. Maybe he only expected these things to happen when he travels. He was sitting at one of the tables by the river, using his cellphone which was on the table next to him. The girl came to him with a petition, while he read it, his phone disappeared. He run after her, called a policeman, but she had nothing on her. He said they steal your phone and quickly give it to someone else. They put up a sign there for people to be aware of people with petitions.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem +1

      Wow, crafty. Thanks for the tips! We really need to look into this. Thanks for sharing. Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @LP-ho9ty
    @LP-ho9ty Před 21 dnem +4

    Your video is informative.
    I live in Rome and use public transport on daily base but NEVER NEVER use bus or metro to travel to and from train station when travelling.
    A taxi run within the city center may vary form 9 to 20€.
    Patiently queue when arriving at the train station and download the taxi app to call it when leaving or when needed.
    Thanks for sharing your experience.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem

      Thanks for the tips and the information! We will be back there in a couple of weeks and will look into this option. Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @s3uoq
    @s3uoq Před 16 dny +6

    Very sound advice. We always ask officials if we are stuck and need to ask someone but that is usually rare. Backing up to a wall is a great way to re group too. Stops that 'being surrounded' situation 👍 Was in Italy last year and while at Rome's main train station I spotted a scout at the train station with no luggage scanning the crowd for a mark. We made eye contact and he left but reappeared soon after doing the same thing. While everyone was looking at the overhead timetables he was looking at people instead. He was obviously not alone either and I was aware of that but once they know you have noticed them they will focus on someone who is unaware. Stay safe and never accept help from strangers offering it when in a foreign country as they are the scammers.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 13 dny +1

      Good advice, it's crazy how brazen they have become. Glad you were safe and aware! Thanks for your comment on your experience. Good to share. Cheers Chris and JIm

  • @redstar1408
    @redstar1408 Před 3 dny +1

    My wife and I have been all over Europe and seen all the scams. We've learned that you have to cultivate a steely hardness when dealing with strangers on the street. If anyone, regardless of their perceived kindness, English skills, dress etc, approaches you... you should immediately be on high alert and NEVER engage. Robert Young Pelton, author of Dangerous Places, wisely says that no matter how hard you try, as a tourist, you are never blending in with the locals. So the scammers just see you as a dumb tourist painted in $100BILLS. You need to have your hardest look painted in your face and eyes, walk with determination and never ever stop and stand around looking confused or in need of direction, the scammers will hunt you like lions looking at the edge of a herd of gazelles, seeking easy weak prey. Never be afraid to tell someone to F**CK OFF in your loudest voice and stare em in the eye when you do it. We've done it many times, they'll get the hint and move on.

  • @Skimat1215
    @Skimat1215 Před 6 dny +1

    When traveling I use a safety pin on any zipper that holds anything of value or importance. Just pin the zipper to the fabric of the bag or pocket. I was in Rome last year when someone tried to unzip my bag but it only had hand sanitizer and napkins in it. I told the guy, "You're not very good at this and if you need some hand sanitizer I am happy to share." If someone approaches requesting help in a crowded area they are usually up to no good particularly when everyone has a phone that is much better at directions than a person. Glad it worked out for you.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 6 dny

      That’s a great idea! We are glad you were safe and nothing important was taken. Thanks for sharing! Cheers 🥂 Chris and Jim 🫶

  • @bcs3948
    @bcs3948 Před 21 dnem +5

    When traveling, stay alert and watch your surroundings. When you see something just a little bit off, that’s when you notice them. Trust your instincts and don’t be afraid to “ hurt their feelings “. Try it! You will see everything clearly once you understand this. I did, and had a lot of fun in Paris! From the guy wearing a red baseball cap crossing the street in front of the Eiffel Tower, the lady wearing hot pants in the Metro ( then seeing her running for her life after the first train stop 😂), the old lady getting close to me when I was washing my hands and the restroom was empty, etc… You will notice them.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 dny

      Yes, it's sad but a reality for sure. we had the coin one in Paris and other smaller ones , but this one could have been much worse. Just happy to be lucky and hope others stay safe. Thanks for watching, Cheers Chris and Jim

    • @Ponkelina
      @Ponkelina Před 13 dny

      Yes i had an old lady up to no good on the underground train in Rome.

  • @JP.Travelz
    @JP.Travelz Před 20 dny +4

    Jim sounds like he had very little in the way of Awareness in this instance
    Ignorance is Not bliss - pays to suspicious and aware of everyone around you !
    You can be open and friendly , but Uber aware !!
    Especially at night… lesson learned I hope !

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 19 dny +1

      lol.. this is true. We are working on Jim.. 🤣 yes definitely lesson learned. We are usually more aware but we’re not on our best behaviour this time. We wanted to share how fast things can change and hopefully help others. Thank you for sharing and watching, Cheers 🍻 Chris and Jim

  • @verazhurakhovska5971
    @verazhurakhovska5971 Před 23 dny +6

    Good morning!
    It's happening to many people, sad...This Gipsy tipe...everywhere, they have different mentality..
    Sad,that policy not doing much.
    Thanks for the story!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 22 dny +2

      Yes it is sad! But grateful we were lucky. Thanks again so much for watching 💕

  • @stephentyler4352
    @stephentyler4352 Před 8 dny +1

    When someone asks for help in a foreign place, direct them to the information desk. That is what they are there for.

  • @mfolson81
    @mfolson81 Před 22 dny +6

    Heading to Italy with my wife, I got a cross body bag that locks and a backpack with a lock as well. Appreciate your story. I'll leave my Minnesota nice behind when it comes to anybody approaching us.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem +2

      Have a wonderful trip! lol, most are nice just a few bad apples. The cross body bag is a great way to go! Jim loves his, Cheers Chris and Jim.

    • @JayandSarah
      @JayandSarah Před 21 dnem +2

      @@midlifetravelbugthe strap must be slash proof. This area of the world is horrid as a tourist we avoid it.

    • @Ponkelina
      @Ponkelina Před 13 dny

      As extra precaution put zip ties where the handle joins the bag.

    • @mfolson81
      @mfolson81 Před 13 dny

      @@Ponkelina Not sure what u mean.

  • @andyroo9381
    @andyroo9381 Před 19 dny +5

    I would be curious to know if these "girls" were gypsies? I am shocked that an American male was taking part in the scam (Yes, he was definitely part of it all). Was he a true American or did he just speak good English? I was in Rome, in the early 90's, and a mother with 4 or 5 young kids tried to disorient us with a lot of distraction techniques. We were ready for this scam and it didn't succeed. The mother sneered at us when she knew she lost the battle. It was a stressful encounter, but we survived it. BTW, the mother and kids were gypsies and that is why I asked that question about your encounter. Glad all ended up well for you two.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 19 dny +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience, glad you made it out safely. Yes I think they were gypsies. The man told us he was American but who knows if it was true. We just wanted to share and hopefully 🤞 help others out. We have been lucky and are not usually this naive but sometimes when we get rattled before we know it we are in a bad situation. Stay safe, cheers 🍻 Chris and Jim.

  • @andrewsnape1705
    @andrewsnape1705 Před dnem

    Sorry this happened but strong advice about stepping back, creating space and not allowing yourself to be controlled or railroaded. Thx

  • @user-xt3vq1rz7d
    @user-xt3vq1rz7d Před 21 dnem +5

    In Barcelona two goons followed my wife and I down a narrow street. The situation didn’t feel right and I pulled my wife to the side and made eye contact with the goons. They proceeded down the alley without incident.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem

      Wow, scary stuff, glad you are OK! Smart on your part for sure. Thanks so much for watching and sharing your experience, cheers Chris and Jim

  • @debmele48
    @debmele48 Před 18 dny +3

    I'm so glad you came out on top this time. The lesson is to take care of yourself first and help along the way. Your first mistake was to go with someone after you already researched and knew where you were going.
    We lived in Italy over 8 years and Madrid under four years. Americans are always targets. They second quess themselves because of the language barrier, it's understandable.
    Thank you for sharing to warn others.
    There are so many scams and women are the big part of it.😢

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 5 dny

      Thank-you for your comment, we agree. We just hope to help others, we are from a small area that does not have metros, trains and public transit is rarely used. Stay safe, cheers Chris and Jim

  • @frannieb5203
    @frannieb5203 Před 2 dny +1

    My go to transport in Rome is Stefano's Rome Cabs. They are also great for tours. I have worked too hard to be in public transport and especially if my husband is not with me. My husband and I have been very lucky that we plan our trips with safety in mind.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před dnem

      Thanks for sharing! We love to hear other suggestions for sure. Stay safe Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @debrabeaupeurt1231
    @debrabeaupeurt1231 Před 20 dny +3

    As an Aussie, I have been to Italy many times, on my own. I have not been scammed, but I have had people very close to me when buying a train ticket, asking if they can help. I guess the trick is, try to look like a local. thanks for the video

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 19 dny

      That good that you have been safe. We have never had any problems until this time, but were lucky. Yes I am sure looking like a local would help. Cheers 🥂 Chris and Jim

  • @banjetta
    @banjetta Před 19 dny +3

    Pacsafe travel bags and wallets are what I usually travel with, as they not only have slash resistant straps and materials, they also have RFID protection. Cross body are safe, with sores on the straps to avoid most slash type actions and zippers have a lock mechanism, to help avoid slick hands of thieves. It pays to pay extra, to have the best chance of NOT losing personal items, especially wallets/cash/jewelry/passports! Never show signs of affluence during travel, esp in known high theft areas, to help avoid being a target. Dress down in public and hide jewelry.

    • @cavgrey8
      @cavgrey8 Před 18 dny +1

      I leave all jewelry at home including wedding rings. If it isn’t stolen going through airport security it will get you targeted at your destination.

  • @mitchk2981
    @mitchk2981 Před 18 dny +3

    Most big cities are filled with low life scammers. I have lived and worked in NYC for over 50 years. I have pretty good trouble radar. In NY, if someone comes up to me and I sense anything out of the ordinary I immediately walk away. If they offer “help” I say, no thanks and start moving. One time in Mexico City a guy in a suit came up to me and said I had a stain on the back of my sleeve. He offered to direct me to a men’s room where I could wash it off. It took me a moment and I realized he was trying to get me to an isolated area to rob me. I said, thanks, I have to run and was off.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 dny

      Oh geez, thank-you for sharing. We are glad you were safe! Good to know what scams are out there, it helps to be prepared. Most people have been amazing in our travels but there a alway a choice few for sure. Stay Safe! Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @kimvilleneuve2543
    @kimvilleneuve2543 Před 18 dny +3

    Be safe. And be rude. Don’t talk to strangers. Trust no one

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 dny

      Sad but true at times. thanks for watching, cheers Chris and Jim

    • @anthonycicero6102
      @anthonycicero6102 Před 18 dny

      This is not a way to live a life- I’ve been to Rome 20 times and never had any issue… sure I’ve had the Gypsy kids ask for $$ etc but it sure helps to pay attention at all times .. but to never interact with other people is missing out on more than the 20€ in your pocket

  • @MFGata
    @MFGata Před 21 dnem +5

    Similar situation happened to me and my husband! It’s all very well orchestrated and even some staff/police/security looking people are in on it. If you’re going to ask for help, ask a worker behind a desk/counter, better yet take cab to airport even if expensive.

    • @DebeNicole
      @DebeNicole Před 21 dnem

      sadly some of the workers are now in on it...I watched a different youtube video where the girl had her designer purse stolen from the train attendant. Part of travel is to budget in transportation as you mentioned expensive or not.

    • @jewelmarkess
      @jewelmarkess Před 21 dnem

      @@DebeNicole One can learn all about buying tickets even before going to a place. They all have an option for English. There are videos about various popular tourist cities and countries on how to buy tickets. I always watch those and google before going to a place. I speak Italian - was majoring in Italian language and literature in college, but my friends who don't had no issue using the machines in Italy. It's not rocket science.

    • @jewelmarkess
      @jewelmarkess Před 21 dnem

      There is also Leonardo Express that takes you from the airport to Termini. I don't believe there are pickpockets there, it's a train not subway. It's more expensive than subway and is probably not worthwhile for pickpockets to use as it's not crowded. Everyone is seated. I've been to Rome a few times. The last couple of times, I reserved a hotel in a walking distance from Termini station. I find it more convenient as you often need to be at the airport early. Even if your hotel is elsewhere, you can take a taxi from the Termini station. One time we stayed near Piazza di Spagna with friends. We took a taxi to Termini, then Leonardo Express. I don't know if the police is on it, I've read it's difficult to catch them in the act, and then, it's considered a misdemeanor, not to mention they are all underage or pregnant.

    • @DebeNicole
      @DebeNicole Před 21 dnem

      @@jewelmarkess confused about your reply to me. I simply stated that even the train attendants are sometimes involved in robbing tourists and that when traveling abroad if you are too nice, think of budgeting in taxi or hire a car to get you to and from your destination to avoid these type of scams.

    • @jewelmarkess
      @jewelmarkess Před 21 dnem

      @@DebeNicole You made good points. I just said there is another option in Rome specifically when getting from the airport into town other than a taxi or metro in case you or people who read your post and comments don't know. Leonardo Express is a dedicated train from Fiumicino to Termini. It's part of Trentitalia and not the metro system, not as crowded. The machines are easy to use. I think getting to/from the airport is the riskiest part as you have all of your cards, money and passport on you, as well as the luggage.

  • @dr.bshousecalls141
    @dr.bshousecalls141 Před 18 dny +3

    As Rick Steves says: when in Europe never carry anything with you that you can't afford to have stolen"! It is worth it to take a van to and from the airport. Especially if you have a lot of stuff. But having a good situational awareness is always important.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 dny

      Yes good advice for sure! Thanks for sharing, Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @dorothywillis1
    @dorothywillis1 Před 4 dny +1

    I have been reading the Comments. We used to travel and it was fun. Talking to people was part of the fun. Now -- "We keep it simple ‘no talking to strangers’ no matter what!" "Be safe. And be rude. Don’t talk to strangers. Trust no one." "Here in Europe, we don't talk to random people on public transport."
    What a sad world.

  • @nikkideslauriers3707
    @nikkideslauriers3707 Před 15 dny

    Thank you for sharing this. Very kind of both of you to take the time to video your take on this incident. Thankfully you are both safe.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 13 dny

      Thank-you. We were lucky for sure. We just hope it helps others stay safe. Thank-you so much for watching, Cheers Chris and Jim.. " stay safe "

  • @stonew1927
    @stonew1927 Před 18 dny +1

    Glad you guys came out of it alright. I was in Rome and Italy for the first time in June. Termini station is massive. Besides the above ground platforms that go literally a kilometer or more (I know because I had to walk all that distance to catch my train), there's the underground areas that go for blocks. It can be very daunting and confusing. With so many people coming and gowing, the crowds can be intimidating. I certainly had to ask for directions multiple times. Fortunately, I didn't encounter any scams but I was keenly aware of that possibility as well, having watched several YT videos about it before my departure. Lesson being, besides always being on guard, trust your instincts!!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 17 dny +1

      Yes this is true! We have travelled many places and never had an issue until now. Most people have had good intentions. Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @lmusima3275
    @lmusima3275 Před 16 dny +2

    I was in Rome six months ago. I hated using the subway it was always packed with weird people. If you’re going to the airport from Rome it’s usually from the railway station in Termini

    • @Ponkelina
      @Ponkelina Před 6 dny

      especially weird after dark too

  • @MidnightAspec
    @MidnightAspec Před 18 dny +1

    WOW! Great advice. We just came back to the states from Rome but didn't use the metro while in Rome, opting for public buses given the locations of our AirBnB and destinations. While we had our guard up and nothing happened with us, you never know how they'll come at you.

  • @brendahanglider4890
    @brendahanglider4890 Před 4 dny

    Thank you for sharing. Very useful to be aware of this.

  • @donnamanitu8673
    @donnamanitu8673 Před 13 dny +1

    You two better have good insurance because if you are willing to follow strangers then you and your items will soon be separated. I can't believe how both of you were smiling while literally they could have done anything to you.

  • @Newfoundtravel
    @Newfoundtravel Před 21 dnem +3

    great video guys and awesome advice. You guys have to be Canadian ?

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem +2

      Thank-you! and yes were are from a small town in BC. We have actually felt safe most of our travels, probably why we were caught off guard. Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @acbc3543
    @acbc3543 Před 10 dny +1

    I don’t talk to strangers abroad unless I need to .

  • @AndyGlavac
    @AndyGlavac Před 22 dny +1

    Thanks for this video Glad you are safe Yes, lots of scams all over and this one was easy to get caught in It’s easier to steal than work for lots of people

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem

      Thank-you, yes it's too bad. We were lucky and have never had any issues before, just wanted to share in hopes of protecting others. Cheers Chris and Jim.

  • @twilson355
    @twilson355 Před 11 dny +1

    Most people these days dont need help with directions with all the technology. I would be like "use your phone, bye."

  • @giovannil8244
    @giovannil8244 Před 3 dny

    I’m extremely sorry as a Roman that our tourists have their trips ruined by those “people”, it’s been a real problem for months but nothing has changed.
    For some reason pickpocketing has exploded in many European cities all at the same time

  • @twotipsytravelers6701
    @twotipsytravelers6701 Před 8 dny +1

    About 15 years ago my elderly parents in law were in Rome. They got out of their taxi at the train station and a man offered to "help" them to their train. He told them to get on their train and he would pass up their bags. When they got on board he said they needed to give him $50US (a lot at the time) or he would run away with their bags. They paid him. It was a real eye opener. Now that I'm older I don't travel with anything I can't carry myself and I refuse anyone, firmly, who tries to assist me. Sad but necessary.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 5 dny

      So sorry to hear this. It's so sad that people pray on trusting and honest people. I now have my Mom doing this, carry-on, or what you can carry only. Thanks for your comment. Stay safe, Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @SecondsOfAnOrdinaryLife
    @SecondsOfAnOrdinaryLife Před 19 dny +2

    I use small carabiners on my day bags to clip the zippers closed. Easy for me to access but hard for thieves to unzip

  • @peterdavis2233
    @peterdavis2233 Před 7 dny +1

    This is also why I decided decades ago to do everything I can to avoid looking like an obvious tourist when traveling abroad. One of the first things I dumped was a "fanny pack" or a "man-purse" or a backpack. I found carrying those types of things set you off immediately as an easy mark. When I'm walking around Rome, for instance, why do I need to carry a backpack? The most I carry is a phone (for photos and communication) and a very slimmed down wallet (an ID, insurance card, and a couple of credit cards), while I leave my passport in the hotel safe. That's it. Nothing more. And I carry these things in interior pockets that are either buttoned or zipped shut. I've never found a need to carry half of my suitcase around with me on day hikes around cities. I have never had an issue with thievery once I made these simple changes. Travel light and don't look like you just stepped off the plane from Des Moines.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 5 dny

      Yes good advice. Stay safe, and thanks for your comment. Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @HermionefromAustralia001

    Thanks for sharing - always great to be reminded how quickly & easy these situations happen !

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 19 dny

      Absolutely! It happens to the best of us. Thank-you so much for watching, Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @lauriegauthier4445
    @lauriegauthier4445 Před 19 dny +1

    Thanks for sharing this information!!!!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 19 dny

      Thank you for watching, just hoping to make people aware of how easy we can make poor decisions when letting our guard down. Cheers 🍻 Chris and Jim

  • @renferal5290
    @renferal5290 Před 13 dny

    Even being an experienced traveler, I am aware of Taxi scams and still fell for one. The rotten sod tried to charge me 150 euros to go just a few miles. I was so mad at myself for that. I was recently in Rome and thankfully didn't run into any scammers. This was a very helpful video

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 11 dny +1

      Thank you so much for sharing! We were hoping to open up the community conversation about this.. we felt embarrassed but wanted to share anyway to hopefully help some poor suckers like us. Glad you were safe the last time! Cheers 🥂 Chris and Jim

  • @steveshama5960
    @steveshama5960 Před 18 dny +2

    I grew up in New York City...Forgive this bias but...No one in a big city who is legitimate asks you for directions. Sounds crazy...But sorry...It has proven to be correct over many years and in many cities. Whoever it is who asks you for directions is "working you" for money or is a potential pickpocket...I wish I didn't feel this way because I'd love to help people, but "a word to the wise."

  • @cydmack4074
    @cydmack4074 Před 18 dny +1

    Great service announcement - thanks

  • @donring
    @donring Před 21 dnem +2

    I think taxi is always best for airport run when you have passports, laptops etc. as you are at your most vulnerable, otherwise when you are out and about in most tourist cities you will get pickpockets so be very aware but also trust your instincts, with two people you are safer as you can watch put for each other, you cannpt live your life thinking everyone is going to mug you

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 20 dny +1

      Yeah, the cost of the cab was €55 compared to €28 so that was behind our decision to take the train. We haven't had a problem before, but we know we let our guard down....we have felt completely safe throughout Italy and all of the other countries we have been too. 99% of the people have great intentions and that is the joy of travelling. Thanks so much for watching and commenting, we really appreciate it :)

    • @cavgrey8
      @cavgrey8 Před 18 dny +1

      Never allow your most sensitive bag with your passport etc to be placed in the trunk of a taxi. If you find yourself making this mistake never pay until that bag is removed from the trunk & in your hands. Often the bag will be held hostage until you pay an outrageous price. They’ll even take you to an ATM. Don’t do it! Keep that bag with you!

  • @karens5429
    @karens5429 Před 21 dnem +9

    We wear Scotti vests. A must zipped and all essentials inside next to our bodies.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem +1

      Good idea! Thanks for watching and for the great tip! Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @elzabethmorgan8020
    @elzabethmorgan8020 Před 16 dny +1

    Roma Termini is always a hazard. It’s been cleaned up, but it’s still a place to beware. Also watch out for gypsies in tourist centres such as Florence, Milan, Venice, etc.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 13 dny

      Good advice! Thanks for sharing. Cheers Chris and Jim, stay safe!

  • @pamelamontgomery6453
    @pamelamontgomery6453 Před 21 dnem

    Thank you for sharing this info.ill pass this scam along. I think you were very fortunate not only to have avoided being robbed or worse!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem

      Thank-you for watching! Yes this is what we are thinking as well. We were lucky, but we also made mistakes that put us there...lol... we really hope this helps at least one person. Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @judithtaylor6916
    @judithtaylor6916 Před 2 dny

    We have purchased "Pak safe" cross bags for our trip which has 2 additional locking systems, enabling you to add a padlock. We were sardined in a train in peak hour in Rome. Fortunately no pickpockets.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před dnem

      Yes this sounds like a good idea. Glad you stayed safe. and thanks for your comment. Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @skyduck66
    @skyduck66 Před 14 hodinami

    I used to live in Paris and once I was on a long escalator coming off the subway platform. There was a man in front of me, and another man in front of him. The first man stopped at the top of the escalator and did not get off which caused a collision with the second man and there was obviously a scuffle because no one could get off until the first man moved and people were piling up. First man finally rushed off and second man realized his wallet was gone and was yelling "my wallet, my wallet!" Poor man. Was quite astonishing and fairly ingenious I guess if you know how to pickpocket. Have never forgotten it. Beware.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 12 minutami

      That's so scary. I think these moments do stick with you because they are such a violation of our personal space. Sorry to hear the man was robbed so sad. Glad you were ok. I have never considered the escalator a risky spot but after reading up on it seems to be a common area. Stay safe! Thanks for your comment, Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @mariadegan1029
    @mariadegan1029 Před dnem

    Good for you👍 l wasn’t so lucky😔 when visiting Milano I got on an elevator at the train station, and just as l was about to push the button to descend, 4 Spanish speaking South American girls pushed into the small elevator space telling me to move to the back when l protested there wasn’t enough room! They were “in my face” asking directions, and l was uncomfortable, but told them where to go, we were very tight so l didn’t feel anything when my bag was opened 😮 they got out before me and one rushed off while the other three tried to keep me “occupied “ with a last direction 🤷🏻‍♀️ l was confused (l’m 75) and just glad they didn’t hurt me as they were aggressive! They took my wallet with all my documents and 600 euros😢but l only realised it when l got to my daughter’s house. Usually these are either gypsies or extracomunitari

  • @mandybugeja6829
    @mandybugeja6829 Před 21 dnem +1

    Having read so many stories of scams at termini we got airport bus into city.Its quite reasonable and frequent.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem

      Thanks, we will look at this on our way back through Rome. Good to know. Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @Kevin-zz9nc
    @Kevin-zz9nc Před 19 dny +2

    How to get the Vatican?? Pray!!!

  • @ellenh4984
    @ellenh4984 Před 2 dny

    I can never understand people who spend money on vacation, but save on transportation there. Also, I never stop if someone tries to talk to me.

  • @boldmover
    @boldmover Před 19 dny +3

    They worked in a gang. Someone might be at the other floor to take everything out.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 19 dny

      Yes this is what we thought. Just happy we didn’t see the end of this scam. Just hoping to make others aware. Cheers 🍻 Chris and Jim

  • @elenap6284
    @elenap6284 Před 16 dny +2

    I was traveling my train from Sorrento Italy to Naples bytrain, in front of me standing was an older gentleman later 60s holding onto the pole with his luggage in front of him we stopped and a young well dressed man by himself gets on the train and before the doors closed he walked around the older man and then steps off the train and the doors closed, the older man then checks his back pocket and says loudly I have just been picked pocket. It happened so fast that I didn’t even see it happen.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 15 dny

      Awe, thats so sad. But it can happen so easy and fast. Stay safe, thanks for sharing, Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @fredkerr
    @fredkerr Před 21 dnem +3

    In New York City the petty criminals hang around the Subway ticket machines looking to help you buy tickets...Tell them to back off and tell them you can look after this yourself.....The Important thing is be aware of your surroundings where ever you travel.

    • @cavgrey8
      @cavgrey8 Před 18 dny

      Same in the Paris metro

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 dny

      Yes they are everywhere I guess. we had no problems in Paris but always good to be on alert for sure. Thanks for sharing, cheers Chris and Jim

  • @samanthaalbury4048
    @samanthaalbury4048 Před 12 dny

    I am glad you are ok and things worked out for you.
    From the start of your story, there were big red flags. Never follow anyone. My husband knows to stick with me (the one paying attention to everything and on full alert majority of the time) and I will literally yell at him and cause a scene to keep him with me or to catch on to what is going on around us. Yes, it is a sad reality, but you have to be leary of all strangers and you must be on high alert at all times.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 11 dny +1

      Yes we were lucky 🍀 . Yes there were way too many red flags. Sometimes before you know it it’s happening. But we wanted to share this because of how easy it can be at times to let our guard down and make poor decisions. Yes also Jim needs to be on board.. he is working on it. lol… 😂 we now have a code word.. and I don’t think he will ever think I am over reacting anymore. Thank you for your input and watching! Cheers 🍻 Chris and Jim

  • @patriciaverbeeck8263
    @patriciaverbeeck8263 Před 16 dny +1

    I always use a Travelon cross body bag which has a slashproof strap, slash resistant material, little twist locks for all zippered compartments and RFI protection for the charge cards inside. In black, it would be fine for a guy. It is a recognisable bag which I think is also a deterrent, I never use it as a shoulder bag where it can be grabbed off the shoulder, always cross body!

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 15 dny

      Yes we have hear they are good ones to have. Good advice. Thanks for watching and sharing, Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @geofiggy
    @geofiggy Před 18 dny

    Good move guys. Thanks for the warning. 🙏🏼🤟🏼

    • @furnacefighter
      @furnacefighter Před 17 dny

      Travel days is when you have to be extra careful. I encountered a petition girl during a vulnerable situation. I came off as an ugly American but better that than a stupid American with no wallet and passport. You guys did great, congratulations! Don’t worry about hurting feelings, get loud, get tough, keep your stuff.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 17 dny

      Thanks, just trying to help warn others! Thanks for watching, Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @melhenline8438
    @melhenline8438 Před 18 dny +1

    Maybe you could come up with a code word so if one of you is suspicious and the other hasn't noticed anything, it's your signal for "Hey, I think something's up. We need to evaluate what's going on here."

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 17 dny

      Good idea!

    • @kathleenkalt3852
      @kathleenkalt3852 Před 8 dny +1

      My husband and I are traveling to Italy soon. We've been many times and though we've never been pickpocketed, I've seen it happen to others. We decided that if one of us gets suspicious, to call the other by their given name, not their nickname, as a heads up.

  • @becomecollaborative6820

    So glad you guys got lucky! Definitely had a similar situation happen to us in Amsterdam. Sending good vibes for the continued trip! Hahaha and yes Jim … just like don’t take candy from strangers… don’t follow strange girls beginning you to come with them. 😂🥰🙌

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 22 dny

      Haha… Jim is learning.. yes we were lucky.. when do we get to see your beautiful face again 😉💕 come stay with us when we are home 🏠 xo

  • @claudiag8097
    @claudiag8097 Před 18 dny +1

    I started this off thinking, "oh yeah, innocent amercians, easy prey", then I remembered how stressful travelling overseas can be ... and I listened ... hard.

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 18 dny

      Thank-you for this comment. Yes it has to be factored in for sure, the elements are a lot when you are jet lagged and in a new environment. But our choices were very poor and we hoped to help everyone remember that it can happen so easy when your letting your guard down. Cheers Chris and Jim

  • @robtrevelyan5276
    @robtrevelyan5276 Před 22 dny +1

    Glad you guys are ok. I definitely would have fell for it too, especially if the group of women had beer. 😂

    • @midlifetravelbug
      @midlifetravelbug  Před 21 dnem +1

      yes Rob.... you might not have made it out...lol... on a side note the vending machines sell beer and other special items all over Italy!

  • @TheRomanPilgriminPerson

    Never follow anyone coaxing you into an elevator like that. Never follow anyone period.

  • @hollyhock4160
    @hollyhock4160 Před 12 dny +2

    Interesting that is was a question about getting to the Vatican making you feel he was a spiritual person and disarming your warning signals!

    • @Ponkelina
      @Ponkelina Před 6 dny

      Exactly. He should be laughed at for saying such Pinocchio tales. Or someone doing a long nose impression with their hand at the very least. Or saying "ah, Pinocchio."

  • @Erowid_Spark
    @Erowid_Spark Před 18 dny

    Thanks for sharing this.😊

  • @jiminycrockett6022
    @jiminycrockett6022 Před 17 dny

    You don’t ride the subway with baggage! The metro is there to bring commuters into and out of the city center - not for travelers! Take a taxi from your hotel to Termini Station. It doesn’t cost all that much and they’ll handle your bags.