Are there really perfect people , most people have some of these traits , at one time or the other , addictive people , may come off psychopaths , their driven by addiction , school teacher's exhibit a lot of these traits , and so do people in positions of power , our Political System seems to have a lot of people that meet these criteria.
It seems you have to have a degree in psychology not to have any of these traits , that means there are no psychologists that are psychopaths , you couldn't become a psychopath if your a psychologist , l don't think this is the truth, people are imperfect !
The pre frontal cortex. Do you know how the damage was done to it, or are they born this way? Or, could they have been raised or groomed into this behavior during their upbringing? Could this behavior be due to being exposed at a young age? This is extremely informative for me right now. I’m sharing to a specific group. I would appreciate any feedback from you. Or, should I do more research on my own?
Unfortunately most of the psychopaths are not in prison. You can seen them everyday on your TV screens telling endless lies about how they care about you and rest of the citizens.
Dr. Fauci,, if I spelling that correct It's a flu, people and most of us will not die from it! Check out what he did in regards to Aids,,, do some investigating
From my experience is that if you become aware of a psychopath within your group, the psychopath will force you out of the group, ensuring his position within that group of people and keeping his name clean. Most people within that group won't notice or don't want to get involved, and let the psychopath do it's thing. The person that became aware is kept out of the group forever.
Well that's a good thing. Who would want to be in a group with a psycho...and in a group comprised of people who aren't aware enough to recognize a psycho. .
100%! They will work subtly to get control over as many people as they can and if they can't woo them they find something to use against them or will make up wrongs to convince others you are the problem. Watching this right now. Psychopath been doing this to anyone who suspects or who questions her authority. Suddenly, the person who called her out and everyone who ever worked with them disappears one by one until has clean slate of victims to oversee. Sick to go thru and sick to watch! 🤢
My father was a psychopath and everything you wrote rings true. Took me a lifetime to heal from that monster not all my siblings did. Suicide attempts..😢
I married one person like that but I escaped...I was never married...Declared null..but me and children suffered a big deal after annulment.due to his revenge used family courts Cold distant classic traits schizo personality disorder
@@dlourdes4743 I am so 😔 sorry that you and your children are going through this. Anyone going through this heartbreaking. Human evil. God Help Us All.
Yep! My father was a psychopath. I even feel like that term is an understatement. He was and is just dead inside except for the pleasure he gets from ruining people’s lives.
My mother is a psychopath and everyone loves her. Of course except those of which lives she’s ruined but no one believes us because she’s so good at acting. She mentally abused my sister to death but gets lots of sympathy because “she lost her daughter”. It’s horrifying. HORRIFYING!
Yes .! Totally get it. I'm the target in my family. I had someone who is ex-in-law to family tell me how wonderful my mother is. Finally... Finally got to tell someone, "well this is what she says about you." Oh the joy. Also filled her in on what she says about her kid. If this gets back... Oh well I've been on benzos for 9yrs and have been diagnosed with PTSD because of her. 😵💫
Wow! This really says, in clear language, what a psychopath is. Fifty years ago I almost married one and I still have PTSD. Imagine if I had married him!
Charm is a sign, disregard of morals, play by the rules, or be called a psychopath, distorts reality, a twisted mind, doesn't learn from mistakes, impulsive and drastic, question their empathy when they feel victimized, holds on to grudges and resentment, manipulative when scrutinized, unstable relationships, seeks revenge💥✅💲
Most of the politicians are sociopaths. The key difference is that psychopaths are born with this condition and sociopaths become liars, killers due to interaction with bad social environment.
Be more specific. Most of the REPUBLICAN politicians in America are obviously psychopaths. Democrats are Empaths! In Brazil you have president Bolsonaro who is obviously a dangerous psychopath. He has said publicly that he’d like to kill all of Brazil’s indigenous peoples. And he’s burning down the Amazon Rainforest! In America we have Donald Trump who over 60,000 mental health professionals warn is dangerously mentally ill. Every word out of his mouth proves them correct. And 90% of republicans absolutely love him. They are not well people.
@@jmseipp what a joke...you actually believe Democrats are empathetic? Look at the revenge they use against those they disagree with..Democrats and those associated with are some of the most evil sociopathic people on the planet..the only empathy they feel is for themselves
They will also provoke you so badly that you'll react, in return, they use your reactions to try and make you believe that it's you who is in the wrong for your massively triggered outbursts due to their aggression.
You could be one,listen to the explanations,are you concious of it,why deny the truth,accept it,it's difficult for you to function in society,your morals questioned,feel guilt or shame,consequences don't matter,slander and abuse others at your peril,claim to be victimised,the blame game is at play,resentment from it causes anger,manipulate others to get your way,relationships should be difficult,predicts what a psychopath does❌💥
That's where we must learn self control. My wife tried to provoke me daily. I had to grit my teeth to keep from reacting. She failed and I won the final battle in court when I won annulment based on fraud.
Preach! I am currently going through this with what I can only say is an ex I don't even know at the moment I'm taking it as such because I apparently failed so badly he has gone silent this is after years of standing by his side with the worst of his behaviors he supposedly is remorseful for but ??? It's hard I don't know he is one but some things hit dead on.
I did not realize I was married to a psychopath until his death. He was an extremely good actor. He made me feel loved and cared for. I found the lies , deception and double life after his death
I was married to a psychopath for 27 years and his mother was one too. I could write a book on it. Both pathological liars. Both obsessed with revenge. Superficial charm. The mother was actually worse. Gossip. Could destroy people's lives by gossip and the telephone was her weapon of choice. Determined to get her way regardless of the truth or what she had to do. And the son did his mother's bidding. Sad sad human beings if you can call them that.
@@victoriousjoy9338, I’m still working on the title, dear. Halfway through the book now. Started writing when the healing began, after I walked away from over 20 years of abusive marriage. I lost everything, but my mind is still intact and I intend to utilise that for a closure by writing. All the best to you in your healing journey!♥️
My ex is a thrice diagnosed Malignant Narcissistic Sociopathic Psychopath and also working as a functioning Venture Capitalist and board member of many high tech start ups in the Northeast and New Jersey. He reeks havoc wherever he goes and then splits to go onto his next victims. They also label others they have manipulated and left as “crazy”. And If children are involved they abuse and try to manipulate them as well against the stable parent who was there and raised them. They try to justify their absence and abuse when they were young as the fault of the parent who actually tried to hold things together.
Traits of psychopath 1. Seeks Revenge 2. Multiple sexual partners or short term relationships 3. Manipulation comes naturally 4. Narcissism and superiority complexes are common 5. They direct blame on others 6. They act like a victim when immoral actions are caught 7. They bully and abuse even those they’re close to 8. They are impulsive 9. Lacks empathy and is callous 10. Has a small range of emotions 11. Pathological lying 12. Superficial charm and charisma 13. Disregard for rules, laws, morals
Well just remember 1. Everyone has traits of it. it's only an issue if it's a repeating pattern which makes you unable to stay out of legal trouble, can't maintain any relationships, etc. There's a lot more stuff but I'm not gonna type that much unless you want to hear it 2. If you're over 18( and diagnosed ofc)
Empaths beware. You attract this type as well as narcissists. Don’t pay attention and hyper focus on the good qualities and what’s wonderful- but look for the red flags and negative traits you know should not be tolerated. How do they treat strangers..parents..friends, enemies..or you during hard times and arguments. I want to suggest a book or two I read as a counseling student. How to make marriage work by Dr Gottman, How to Avoid a Bozo , and Not Just Friends. Fellow ladies and gentlemen I wish you well,be smart.
@@pami9208 yes it can be very miserable sharing a roof with narcissists or being related to one. Just everything is under their control or how they want things to go ..or so it seems. I believe character traits are both genetic and learned. Generational curses some call it is very real- because of the learned behavior passed down from each generation: example: a son learned from his father bad temper and poor self control, as the father learned from the grandfather and the grandfather saw and grew up with the same traits from his mom or dad.. this is why emotional intelligence and self control is important in breaking this ugly and harmful cycle
@@Art_and_Soul_Studio also that the family members know how to push your buttons even when you bring it to their attention and yet they do it to the other family member who suffers by that activity
An interesting note. My ex is a psychopath and while she did lack empathy in most cases I found it interesting when she would show empathy to her fellow substance abusers. One night coming home we saw a car stuck in a ditch. The guy turned off the highway too late and missed his turn, we stopped to check on him and he was stone drunk. I went to leave him there but my wife went crazy insisting that we help him. There were several other times I saw this behavior.
@Sam Sam I am empathetic to people in need, but I also believe in natural consequences. A drunk driver puts countless people at risk, and he is lucky that no one was killed in his act of extreme selfishness.
Im a psychopath (sadly) evaluated by psychologist. What helped me is discovery of stoic philosophy, and practicing it every day for years. I managed to direct my pychopathy towards sport and art, in which i compete and excel every day. Everyday meditations and self evaluating is helping me to not abuse others. Its really hard to keep it under controll, everyday battle.
Yes stoicism, combat sport and work helped me. They don't understand that we must battle with our nature all day, every day. It doesn't get easier with age and it gets really difficult if you are in position of power. I am really annoyed with those who let them self loose, maybe I am jealous, who knows. Just keep with good work, and after some time you can use it for good of society. Be careful around people that are really close to you, control tends to drop around them so you can hurt your family.
@@jaja2536 same here, that's why I only concentrate on family, sport, art and studying. No social life, no partying, just grind. Yes and people are quick to judge and write you off with thing life "psychopath never change". It would hurt me if I had any emotions for this shit :D
Wow man admitting yourself as a psychopath takes courage and even if you have the impulse to hurt or abuse and have no feeling about it, you are still rational about what's right and wrong. For that you have my utmost respect.
If this is not some sort of weird nonsense psychopath manipulation (I hope it is not and actually want to believe that it is not), I find this amazing and it's proving that people labeled as psychopaths are also people with a drive to change their life for the better. The battle is tough I am pretty sure, I tend to have impaired feelings due to my depression and OCD burnouts and in a way I can sometimes feel like a psychopath and it's absolutely devastating feeling when you just don't care and feel nothing, especially if you had relatively normal emotional life in the past, you feel like you've lost it, it drives me crazy, starting to spiral in thoughts that I could be evil. I whish for all people with this infamous personality disorder the best and especially to the people like yourself who find that amazing strength to push forward through the very difficult lenses of your nature. Keep on going and never let it go!
The psicopaths are the ones ruling us. If we rebell against their opressive system we are called psicopaths. These videos are created by professional hired by them to create more confussion. Those who govern us are demonic sick psicopaths.
Thank you for the link. Unfortunately I'm unable to access it on my phone, but man, I don't trust their methods.I did the math, but math and I are mortal enemies. Accuracy is no where near guaranteed. The numbers are correct, trust the math at your own risk. In the general population of psychopaths in a given population equates to .75%-1%. In the prison population the psychopathic prisoners make up about fifteen percent. Population of the United States-318.9 million or, 31,890,000 psychopaths General population in US 318.9 million x 0.0075 = 2,391,750 318.9 million x 0.01 = 3,189,000 (in this case just move the decimal point two space to the left) Prison population . For comparison against general population of the same size, the numbers would be: 2,220,300 x .15 = 333,045 333,045/3,190,000=10 percent 333,045/2,399,250= about thirteen percent
I was a victim of a lots of Psychopathic people and I'm still trying to recover. I hope God send something good my way after all of that toxicity that drained my spirit
I’m married to a psychopath thank god almost divorced. He did every single one of these. It’s almost scary being abused and gaslit and they flip the script on you. It’s also scary that when was angry and abusive, there was zero remorse for anything he did and there was nothing behind his eyes but darkness.
We worked witha psychopath, Jim Foreman, at the Southtown Economist Newspaper, Chicago. He and a lady had an argument. She later found he had removed the tires from her car. For some reason, he was not fired.
#1 mysterious phenomena of such personality is that even though victims are able to recognize a person with such traits, they still choose to get victimized by such personalities. There have been so many psychological case studies and people stated that they knowingly got victimized and don’t understand the reasons. A great book “Talking to Strangers” may shed more light. Another interesting capability of People with these traits is they somehow have ridiculously High IQs. Unfortunately this is so true. Great Video!
FYI, the psychopaths who murder people lack self-control and there recorded to have lower IQ's. The only reason they stay out of prison is because they think logically. However, they almost always get tripped up by their compulsive obsession. Everyday psychopaths like myself are in control of our urges and desires (no killing people is a waste of time, and I don't care to spend my life on death row) so that's why we're usually hidden considering half these comments bash us which rightfully so we can and will kill you I imagine people don't like that. Just a heads up if you didn't know it's the psychopaths you don't see in prison with higher IQ.
I've seen that happen. The victims seem to enjoy the "excitement" of the psychopath, and live vicariously through their rule-breaking. We aren't always horrified by those Jack Nicholson/Christopher Walken/Gary Oldman movie villains. Some of them are damn compelling.
My brother is a psychopath. He uses his high I to feign disability and receives SSA money for being a fake. He keeps a walker in his like a prop to use for doctor visits and evoking pity from patsies. I wouldn't put it past him to use it to lure victims like Bundy did with his fake broken arm.
I was married for 20 years to a narcissist sociopath. Divorced 30 years now. Never remarried. Because you never really know another person. Fear has kept me from living a (so called) normal life. But at least I’m not bound to a psycho anymore. 🍒
Married to one for six years, 2 kids, divorce took 11 years. Kids haven't talked to him in years, they barely talk to me. A few years ago he opted for life w/o parole, and at 65 I'm finally getting used to opening the drapes. Doesn't feel any better that somebody else became his retirement plan.
@@agreetodisagree4751 … There should be a death sentence for these narcissistic sociopaths. Get them out of society. They do unrepairable damage. On Netflix there is a movie “Power of the Dog”. He gets his just reward in the end.
I do have a student who was diagnosed as being a psychopath. He did have all these traits. I think most people with some of these traits are sociopaths. I do think the psychopaths are much more dangerous. Although they are intelligent and capable in many ways, they do have brain damage that causes them to do harm to others without being able to care. To keep from hurting anyone you have to keep them occupied.
They must do very good scientists. Busy, occupied, and all that. Also, good home training from very childhood must help as well for them to use their qualities for good instead of bad. In my family is said, that if we do not occupy ourselves with something good and important, we will get stupid ideas and act on it, so we did learn to study and do other useful things instead of loafting. I think it could be helpful for psychopaths too? To me, the only worrying trait in psychopathy is the need for revenge. I am not sure if it would be possible to fix that trait- or to use it for anything good. Maybe I am not creative enough?
@@gothic-rosenovorossiya5740 why are u implying like psychopaths being themselves is bad. Psychopaths are what add flavour in the pale boring and bland mess.
All those descriptions of a psychopath is my older brother! As a kid/teen he always bullied me and my younger brother. Then he'd act like the victim so my parents didn't blame him and blamed us. He'd always prance around claiming he's God's gift to the world and that he was better than us all. When he'd meet women, he'd behave super nice and respectful just long enough to have girlfriends marry him. Once he'd fool a young woman to marry him, he'd become physically and mentally abusive towards them. Claiming a marriage license gives him permission to OWN the woman, control her, abuse her and do what he wishes with her. He ruined two marriages he had. When he was around relatives with his girlfriend or wife, he'd refuse to let them meet me or speak to me because he wanted to make sure I didn't mention his dark secrets of his abusive, violent behaviors to them. My younger brother followed in my older brother's footsteps also. I cut my older brother out my life in 1993 and my younger brother out my life in 2004. Don't even know names of their kids or have met their kids.
My so called friend is a monster, he hid it well but I finally exposed him and he was so humiliated that I caught him and detailed his repugnant behavior that he just quietly went away all butturt. I never heard from that manipulating piece of crap ever again. If you make it clear to a psychopath that you know who they are and you are willing to defend yourself with brutal wit they will seek a weaker victim.
Wow, I thought my brother is the only narcissist in the family, with my mother "just" being a narcissist, but after watching this video, I'd say she's a covert psychopath as well. (And my grandmother simply having been pure evil.) I cut them off 20 years ago, thought I had healed from it, just to still keep attracting the same toxic people. Arrgghh. All right, thank you for showing me that I still have a lot more to heal from than I thought. Awareness is the most important step to begin/continue the healing process, so I'm optimistic and thankful for having seen this. 🙏🙏🙏
You're not going high enough. CEOs! Billionaires and multimillionaires are very typical of people who have used, manipulated and enslaved people (including family members) around them to get to the place where THEY MAKE THE RULES, never obey others' rules! (Typical psychopathy). Think Fossil Fuel CEOs, Wall Street/Bankers, Defense Contractors: All who screw consumers, cause major death and destruction as their money grows.
Just want to clarify: psychopaths DO NOT feel “happiness”. They feel a type of narcissistic satisfaction, but never real happiness because they are incapable of true joy, a key component even in superficial happiness. But also, they DO feel FEAR and tend to be cowards. They are only able to feel fear, hate, rage, and sadistic pleasure. Also in the first point, it is extremely important to note that most higher intelligence psychopaths are Jekyll and Hydes. They may appear very moral and lawful outwardly, like a judge, cop, clergy person, teacher, politician, social justice advocate, corporate officer, conscientious parent, etc..., but away from public vision, they are the complete opposite and very evil. Also the impulsive aspect is only for certain types of psychopaths, as there are numerous types, (organized, disorganized, etc...) some are very calculating and pre-meditative. They are ALL killers of some sort. Some will derive pleasure from trying to kill someone emotionally, or relationally, while others will seek to destroy you financially. Some of them will lurk in the shadows to slander and destroy your reputation and chances of success and happiness, whereas others will want to kill a victim physically. But KILLING is their greatest delight, perhaps their only delight beyond being praised and exalted above others. I should say they relish with much saliva, the ability to deceive and trick others. They ALL like this, as they ALL also are emotionally limited, negative emotions only (explained in this video). They may profess to love you, but if they are a psychopath, they are incapable of loving anyone, they can only imitate it, and that they are very good at. They also ALL never accept blame, guilt, or responsibility for any actions taken or even inaction. They will ALWAYS deflect and transfer blame, culpability, and accountability. Some are more duplicitous than others, as some are unable to keep up the “wolf in sheep’s clothing” masquerade for too long. Whereas, others can do it for life and never be exposed.
Excellent. Perfect analysis of some family and a friend or two. I grew up with a psychopathic father and a narcissistic mother. I collected a few friends with the same qualities. God sent an Angel for my husband and so I survived what could have been a very dark life.
I would like to really study real psychopaths because I am sure that we may not always guess THEIR perspective right? When it comes to feelings, especially. I always have that argument with my mom. She always claims that this person thinks this and that and that is why they did this and that. And when she says something like that about me, I know for sure she does not guess right at all. Also my getting to know one non-criminal confirmed psychopath made me really surprised and question a lot.
So many holes 😕 A psychopath doesn't take pleasure in killing you. There are other forms of satisfaction. It is similar embodiment of the autistic disorder, which limits the satisfaction inside your head, makes you an inside loner. The difference is autistic disorder is taking pleasure in interacting with oneself, while psycho interacts with others. It's true most psychos are killers, but not everybody kills, emotionally, mentally, physically. Again, there are other forms of satisfaction. Killing just comes easier for a psycho than a normal person, and it is the last resort. I mean, he might choose to kill if needed, but certainly it's not so retarded to choose this option from the beginning.
I am fifteen actually and i also realised that this is common in me as well but i am not a psychopath actually nowadays people's personality is like a psychopath they think that they are psycho, normally kids around my age but they are not psychopath. The actual psycho doesn't even consider them as psychopath for them they are just perfect and others are just stupid so if you think you are a psychopath then you are definitely not if there was a psychopath he would likely wouldn't had started this video, for him this is cap And i may be fifteen but i am actually interested in psychology so I had some knowledge and this is the conclusion i am currently in
Diagnosed psycho here, just the type of person who clicked this video for research and etc. The term "psychopath" is used to describe someone who is callous, unemotional, and morally depraved. Although not an official mental health diagnosis, it is often used in clinical and legal settings to refer to someone who often is egocentric, antisocial, lacking remorse and empathy for others, and often has criminal tendencies. For me it is indeed some form of manipulating and lack of empathy for others, naturally my illness was a genetic thing and was passed down to me, i couldn't tell if i was truly unlucky or not. For me living with this felt like chaos rising and falling for the 18 years I've lived. Over time i noticed that i was never able to normally understand basic human emotions and actions. It was only till the emotional supporters I had passed away the condition gotten worse and was left untreated and from what i can remember is that i was never the best child, some even considered me toxic and violent. Basically what I'm saying is that the first top 5 are true about me. I just wish to live a better lifestyle then what it was 10 years ago.
If it helps, I've done a lot of research on psychopathy and autism because my son has both and I really think psychopathy IS autism. You need to learn to express yourself, you need someone to guide you to know what you're feeling inside, you need to accept people who want to help you. Perhaps your emotions weren't validated when you were a child? Many psychopaths/sociopaths think we want to control them when we try to help them, but that's not what we want, we just want to show you something different, something outside your box. Autistic people are rigid. it's hard to open your mind to something else than what you think but it is not your fault. James Fallone discovered that his brain and that of many prisoners were identical... he concluded that he must be a psychopath, but he never thought it could be the other way around... he's autistic and so are all psychopaths.
@@Cass_772 Psychopath and autism isn't really the same thing but if that's what you think then go off ig. Most of the people I met was looking down on me or giving me the wrong advice, but thankfully I do got one person who helps me out but tbh and she's my best friend, but I tend to wonder off in my own place and mess around just because I want to. My mom could probably yell at me or her boyfriend does and I just kinda stare at them, I would yell depending on the situation. Last year I was very vengeful and had a lot of trust issues. From what I could also remember is that people just can't handle me like they say they can because they're always saying "You're scaring me" or "Are you even human?" Sometimes I feel something toward it but it just kinda brushes off because I'm just like "Ehh". To add the cherry on top is that yes most of my problems comes from trauma and that PTSD caused me to hallucinate sometimes or feel like theirs bugs or a hand crawling on me. I just feel like I am simply not there to fit into reality, I don't feel human because of what all I had to reflect on and realize that I've done. Hopefully you understand something that I at least said.
@@Cass_772 I must disagree with you on psychopathy is autism. I have autism, and while i lacked emotional connections due to childhood influences, i never completely lacked empathy, especially regarding animals. I think it would be safer to say each case is different, different contributing factors and triggers, and while childhood does play a role in the brain's development, so to does early adolescent life. This could be noted especially in cases of autism where social development is often behind the peer age group and that our brains perceive the world differently to neurotypical brains. Been there, lived it, but still managed to stay connected. There are some traits of autism that overlap with other psychological conditions, including narcissism, sociopathy etc... this is why diagnosis from a professional is really important. Multiple people, figures, identities - these can be attributed to Borderline PD, Schizophrenia, DID, and even indicators of emotional abuse. Some medications can cause these brain anomalies too! Stress can cause autistic splits in personality and meltdowns. There are many things to consider that might be the cause, not just psychopathy. But autism is not the same. Borderline and DID especially create feelings of disassociation which can actually lead to feeling like "multiple people" in one.
@@jason-hs1zq I think given you are self aware of your psychopathy traits and it has been diagnosed already shows you may be able to lessen your ailment, especially if it stems from trauma. From my experiences, most psychopaths are self aware of what they are, but it is what they do with that awareness that speaks the most volumes. Its good that you have some support. Living with any kind of condition that separates you from the norm (what is normal these days honestly?) is hard at best. I hope you find some peace and a better space fr yourself in the future.
@KyuubiNoAstralokk I am autistic too and I am not saying that every autistic person is psychopaths, what I say is psychopathy is a neurodevelopmental condition and I think that it comes from autism, since autism IS a neurodevelopmental condition. Some autistic will be naive, others will be psychopaths. In Hans Asperger's study, he called autism... infantile psychopathic autism... I studied this condition for 23 years and I crossed the paths of many machiavelic or psychopathic people and they are all autistic, this can't be a coincidence. The fact is that, in adulthood, autistic traits tend to disappear in psychopathic people, to be replaced by psychopathy or schizophrenia, so they are not diagnosed correctly as autistic. What's more, schizophrenia has its roots in autism. Psychology/psychiatry has really only been around for 100 years, which isn't very long so we can't assume that we know everything in this field. We're still in the embryonic stage, there's still a lot to learn.
my uncle, with whom I've been living since birth is one very apparent psychopath. i probably started noticing it at the age of 7-8. the way I've seen him act and behave to literally anyone, his general lifestyle, and also him being weirdly different from my father and aunt who had the same upbringing is even scarier why he turned out this way. I've known this behavioural differences from quite a young age and i must admit that he's also the man i am afraid of the most. it's thanks to god how we, as family members, are still alive. just his presence in front of me is enough to make shivers run down my spine. the unlucky part is, the rest of my family are just a bunch of cowards and don't take any action against all this. i hope i can do something about it once i become an independent adult. till then, i just hope we will remain safe.
@@qistina.3990 Its been only 4 days.....i think he is still alive, but yeah i am also worried about him.i read somewhere that if someone wants to kill you,kill them first.just kidding maybe when become independent., take your family away from that man...
I want to tell you that you have cleared up a lot for me! Not only is my soon to be X a Narcissist, but I now realize I have also been living with a Psychopath for almost 39 years!! OMG! My eyes have been opened big time. What I thought was our relationship Never really was. It's been all these years tainted by lies, cheating & basically NO love for a very long, long time. He used my mental health issues against me & actually made me much worse. I see the light now. I'm taking my life back & he has already done been kicked to the curb!! This Woman is alive & free again to be ME! THANKS FOR THE INFORMATION. KEEP 'EM COMING...😉🖐
i stayed married to one for 24 yrs. my physical and mental health were damaged so badly that i will never be completely recovered. after the divorce, he still walked into my home as if he still lived there. i had to get really tough about that. when he died, i went to his funeral for the sake of our children, but i will never be sorry that the world is rid of him.
Your son, your husband, hmm, how many else of them u got ? Don't you think that after watching one video on youtube idk maybe you're still incompetent to say what psychopath actually is ? Just a thought
I have 2 as well, a younger sister and a niece that I thought of as a daughter (my oldest brother's daughter.) My sister's been actively at my destruction for over 35 years, and my niece was at it for about 15. It was especially lovely when they joined forces to destroy me. At least my niece had limited reach and has essentially moved on. My sister will never stop. She has only 2 family members fooled, but they are important family members to me, and she takes every opportunity to play victim with me the bad guy. Oh, I forgot to mention -- the sister has her own church, and the niece is a psychologist. Yay for them. Unlimited source of victims at hand.
What I hate about psychopath are when seeing them for what they are, they have most ppl. fooled and others don’t believe you. For the most part I’m hard on ppl. and I usually see many that are psychopaths, but others eat it up and the psychopaths know I see through them and ends up targeting me for it. I think they see most to be unaware or dumb and why they do what they do bc they can. I think there are more psychopaths than what this video claim and not all are in jail. I’ve met so many psychopaths in my life and I think I see it quickly bc I think they think they have me fooled and I don’t notice. Or maybe I’m also a psychopath and know the game, but I’m not practicing or something made me change but keep those psychopathic skills to protect myself. Not sure if I’m making sense but revenge is a big one for me, but I’ve learn to let it go, but it’s very tempting.
i call the psychopathic advantage, its human nature to think people who are good to you are good people, like in your case people probably think you are the arsehole being sneaky in a friend group and trying to back stab someone even if you are 100% correct and telling the truth, normal humans dont want to see the bad in people so unless pyschos show themselves you are shit out of luck. If you want my advice theres nothing you can do and just protect yourself and stay away from the people you think are psychos
there’s this one guy i know who is definitely a psychopath. it always seemed like he was playing a game with us and he was a sort of puppet master. he didn’t feel anything. he would cheat,curse,hit people and feel nothing but anger. he would get off on hurting people. he was scary and he still is, if not more now. He was so unhinged and had so many background issues. if i saw him today i’d be scared he would potentially kill me honestly, there’s been a few times where he’s scared me into thinking he would. i’m almost sure he will go to jail for some horrific act. i haven’t talked to him in 2 years tho and i plan to avoid him at all costs. but anyways. be careful out there y’all! you never know, they can be ur sophomore year classmate.
Sounds like Donald Trump! Trump has been diagnosed as a malignant narcissist, but you can tell with his name calling and putting people down he has deep mental problems!
Nothing. If its not causing you to do anything bad. I got admitted to a mental hospital and they diagnosed me then. I do therapy and im doing good. If you start to spiral out, get help.
You were mostly spot on with only two minor exceptions. The assumption about the majority of psychopaths being incarcerated due to their inability to follow rules. I will argue that the majority of psychopaths, being as high functioning as they are, can be found in positions of influence, often times they are the legislators themselves. The other blurred fact is mistaking rules for morals, which I'll refrain from getting into because it's an obviously cliche argument & deviates from the main topic.
As a diagnosed phycopath most of this is false, it's very interesting to see what the majority of people think of people like me. I do agree with the empathy part but it's true that most even lack the incentive or goal to be criminal. Not all of us are criminals and malicious. This video antagonize phycopaths very much
@@emmytheghost627 I think the title should be changed to low-functioning psychopaths. I’ve known many high-functioning personally, they’re not rare to come by, and they’re not criminals, they’re just very neutral about morality because that part of their brain isn’t active. LSD usually opens them up to the empathy part of humanity though, but it doesn’t last longer than the high provided from it, although it is often remembered to serve as a moral compass for them. At least this is my present understanding through my own personal and educational research.
They dont need to be in a position of influence, they could just make a phone call or unexpectedly show up at ones work and brainwash u right there and then to make u do what they want u to do. Just to ruin people's life
@@SeanMichael1992 there is no such thing as a low functioning and a high functioning psychopath. And no drug can open up any part of the brain to get empathy. U just have no idea what a psychopath is and u've been fooled
Rings some bells for sure. I had a friend once who was a psychopath. The worst part about such individuals /methinks is that they demolish the trust in humanity. Someone falling for a psychopath's fake kind and wholesome behavior (operative being *fake* ), and then falling prey to toxicity, will reject a genuine nice person met later in life, who might've benefited both the ex-victim and the new person. On a microscopic level, in relation to all of humanity, that is destruction of bonds between people, destruction of society. Also, the final statement of the video expresses hope that it may have helped one identify themselves as a psychopath. Sorry, but is that even possible? The friend I mentioned in the 2nd sentence once told me, that to be a skilled manipulator one has to convincingly manipulate themselves first.
Yeah your right. I've been subconsciously manipulating myself and others and I put the pieces together after years of searching for why I'm so sporadic and down right confusing but yeah. Your friend put is correct. Found out I'm a psychopath and got diagnosed a few months ago. Nice to put a name to it, the stigma is entertaining to say the least.
I recommend a book called "the language of letting go...a daily meditation for codependents". By melody Beattie. This book changed my life. Some years I read it like a text book. I've been reading it for 25 years. It really changed my life for the better. I quit attracting psychopaths!
I checked the reviews.... Religious solutions n more for AA Difficult read for atheists n never drinks kind of people (Even if addiction is what's being addressed, be it AA or codependency) Difficult for never drinks n atheists to relate to it n keep feeling motivated to read Would love to read other similar books for codependency though
John 3:16 New International Version 16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. Romans 3:23 New International Version 23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 10:9-10 New International Version 9 If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.
I feel like I'm a psychopath, I hate my friends and my family, they turned me into a very angry person and I just hate life itself, I just can't bare to think that life is about getting a job eating sleeping and repeat. I have thoughts, terrible thoughts. And I was born in November, and they say most serial killers are born in November.
I've known one personally. He's my ex. I observed he's well-behaved person in front of others but when we're alone together, he would expressed his true self. He had a worse history of his ex but he's good at covering his fault by telling lies. He often tells others what his ex did to him which is actually he's flipping the story up. Also, he always beat me every single day like he did to his ex's. He extremely hates to make an apology even though it's obviously his fault. He likes to play with feelings and always keeps telling that you're guilty. When sometimes you're afraid to ask for something but you need it, he will get easily offended and throws tantrum against you. I can't tell more because he has all 13 CLEAR TRAITS of a psychopath. One thing maybe you missed. they are very ungrateful person!
I can relate with u a lot, it's just my brother for me... You know he's 12 year older than me n he's been beating me, blaming me, torturing me ever since i was a kid... He abuses me mentally, physically n emotionally n than acts like it's all my fault.... He always tries to find my fault so that he would beat the hell out of me, n the thing that really shock me is that he's so good in lying n manipulating n disguising.... He acts so sweet with the outsiders n in home he's a true demon... Honestly me n my parents are so done with him.... Yesterday only, he beat me again, he punched me blindly my face was blooded n my eye is all blue n my neck is hurting so u know Idk who would be a more psychopath than him....
Anger clouds their mind, so they are not grateful for what you have done for them in the past. Even if you love that person, the moment the " psychopath" gets angry, all those kind actions you did for him, goes out of the window. Because anger is leading their mind. Vengance. Nothing more. Then will say " sorry, I said those hurtful words out of anger. But I am really a kind person" type of drama. Let's call it for what it is: manipulation These people need deep emotional healing & needs professional mental help consultation. We cant fix them no matter how loving we are. That's okay.
If you feel you have figured out someone is a psychopath from watching this, don’t go confront the person, please go learn more first, the worst thing you can do is confront one unprepared, if you aren’t just disappearing to get away you better research a good plan!! I wish you tons of luck 🍀
POV: you're reading comment section and everyone realised that they are in relationship with psychopath since making extreme conclusions about partners isn't actually lack of self awareness anymore, such a poor victims ☹️
I was neglected and emotionally abused by my narcissistic psychopathic father. Ever since I was young he would yell, berate, and bark orders at me. He would insult and scream at me, calling me a prick at just the age of 9. It got worse, I was never good enough, I was a moron, stupid, he was always angry or disappointed it seemed like. He brainwashed me and manipulated me. He wanted me to be just like him and be his little fucking puppet. He wanted me to feel like a nobody, and I genuinely feel like he wanted to strip away my fun as a youth and I still don’t know why. He was a complete and utter mess to be around and I get tight and just irritated whenever I’m around him now. I just found out from my mom a couple months ago that he is indeed a narcissist with cluster b / psychotpathic traits. He displayed every single one of these traits when I was growing up. To this day, I don’t have a high self esteem even though I have accomplished a good amount in my life and I’m still young, 22 years young. I wish I had a normal ducking family dynamic /childhood. I sometimes get jealous when I see a young kid and he seems to have really happy, loving parents. Not a psychopath as a father.
I hope you can go to talk to a professional who will help you see your worth and to get past what he did to you, you have YOUR own life to live and you must try really hard to make it count for you, go out and find what makes you happy, find real love, believe in yourself let him die, get him out of your system, love yourself, you are worth so very much to everyone else, let him die.
If you are living at home, LEAVE! If you don't have a job, look for one, and also attend a two year college. A crash course is fine. Not living in harmony is stressful, and that causes health problems.
A psychopath wanted me as his trophy. Something felt off, I saw subtle signs but I didn't listen to my heart. He ended up getting a revenge on me that collapsed my life, I was so naive. The most shocking part is how well he could deceive everyone. He exhibits all these traits...
we literally practice it our wholes lives, we are a walking deception, dont feel bad about falling for it you were never going to win nothing was your fault, be thankful you are out now and never look back
Actually, as a psychopath, I feel like it's great being one, I don't know how to explain this to you, but, it feels amazing to be a psychopath, you can do everything without regretting anything, and its all about smiling is the worst situations that makes me proud. one fact that wasn't told in the video is "psychopaths are totally independent, and they really, like really hate any partners for some reason."
Look man I'll share my opinion as a fellow psychopath as well. I agree, it does bring you a sort of pride being one. Makes you feel as the apex predator of this world, knowing I am genetically better at manipulating people and getting my way. Others see it as a curse. It is perfect for me. I don't mind having partners however. A lot of our fellow psycho's have issues with maintaining long-term relationships but that's not the case for me. Another commenter said "they somehow have a high IQ", and while I do not see IQ as being the objective form of calculating intelligence, I have personally shown marks of high intelligence. If you can truly relate to me, you will know what the phrase "too intelligent for my own good, It is tiring to see so many idiots running around freely." to it's fullest extent. Best of luck to you brother. Don't feel ashamed for what you are. Remember there is no objective good or bad, just a matter of perspective. Even the most horrendous of actions are seen in a positive light sometimes.
My narcissistic neighbors, lying in court, to the police,to the manager, anything they can do to me, they do not care, I am extremely disabled and was accused for violent, I cannot pick up a gallon of water, the neighbor fits this profile exactly, I believe God sees everything, their abuse will be their demise...
Went through the same experience. I'm disabled too. My neighbor got the court to issue a warrant for my arrest, after an altercation, which was cooked up by him to get me angry enough to react to his accusations. I spent four days in jail. They dropped the charges, but the court didn't say why or how they reached that decision. I have depression and Ms so I basically cried for four days because I didn't have my medicine and I knew it was unfair he framed me to get paid by his political group.
I have a step son who is a psychopath. Literally for years I tried to help him get a job, pay his fines in court for car stealing and physical assault, but he would never get his life in order, and all his problems were always someone else's fault especially me. He would never be held to account for his actions, even physically assault, and for years he would just free-load on me. To others he is a nice guy, but they do not have to live with him. One day my emotions snapped, and compassion was replaced with a deep seated hatred of him.
With all respect, why would your son take responsibility for himself or change his ways when you’ve done everything for him and removed the consequences? You paid his fines for committing crimes. Did his job search for him. Has your son had opportunity to take responsibility for himself or are you always quick with the bail-out? He may deep down resent you for your overprotection and now you resent your son. It’s late, but try a hands-off approach, let him feel the pain of his actions and inaction. In time he may see himself as the problem and may come to respect you. Tough love is a gift. I hope things turn around, if he’s just irresponsible and not hard-wired with psychopathy as you think.
@@lynnohl2526 Not quite like that, but thank you. I have kicked him out of my home three times. But he ends up on the streets. He was given assured accommodation for 18 months, but lost that as he would not pay his rent.
Just to point out, people with ASPD aren't monsters, theyre people. People with who are just wired different, while yes they do have the tendency to have selfish motivations, it's not necessarily a fault of their own.
@@MajinJustin872 I would suggest those who are qualified to do more extensive research I'm treatment of this. Instead of advising others (while it may be beneficial to the ones trying to protect themselves) to further isolate them. We should look deeper into the root cause of an illness to make a better treatment.
As a fellow empath who has experienced the displeasure of residing with psychopaths, I can't emphasize the importance of evaluating a potential paramour with utmost detail and neutral caution when reaching a decision upon whether to devote yourself to someone. These individuals truly mask their innermost characteristics with such skill in order to deceive you, whilst focusing upon their sinister ulterior motives. If you sense that any malevolent activity may ensue, never resist the opportunity to perform a formal investigation to secure your safety. Don't become one of their victims as I almost did, and ensure that you enforce you research, both legally, intellectually and virtuously.
Two types of anti social, psychopath and sociopath. Lone wolf please research what the connection is. Every psychopath is diagnosed with anti social personality disorder.
@Chad Abercrombie omg 😆 you posted that comment somewhere else stop trying to get attention and response from people. Someone already explained that your probably not one. 😂 and especially when it was a person who works in that field
Dang! I had no idea I was married to a psychopath. According to my therapist he is a narcissist. This video confirms he is both. Yikes. I am praying for humanity. Thank you God for WAKING ME UP! To anyone going through this, I pray you break free like me. It may be hard and scary, but choose YOU. This is YOUR LIFE. Don’t let unstable, ornery beings dictate you mental health or human experience. Sending blessings to you! Sending loving energy everyone’s way! Namaste y’all!
therapists arent suppossed to critique or judge anyone except the person who does the therapy..!(since they dont know the person one on one, plus extremely unprofessional), you might wanna find someone else dear, she wont have her license for too long
@@tiktalk4573 well it was while him and I were in couples therapy and the reason he stopped going. He didn’t like the diagnosis. LOL... typical narcissist behavior. He literally proved her right! Super eye opening for me. I’m extremely grateful! Also, she was a therapist we saw together for months. She’s actually wonderful. She saved me in ways I didn’t know I needed saving. I’d recommend her to anyone who needs one!! You should learn to not assume you know all the facts from a person’s life based off of a comment you found on CZcams. Hmm... What’s that saying about when you assume.. Sending you some loving energy! Since we are interconnected I like to put that frequency out there with all the low vibrational energy lurking!
I've experienced being harmed by a sociopath it only takes you a few days to realize their dark side as they act nice to people with more power/popularity and treat the ones they already know badly and tear them apart. Most of the time you'll never be able to get back at them.... I know I wasn't able to-
The video is on point, usually a psychopath will also take all measures to isolate you from the ones that love and care about you. It does take time till they decide to make this move depending on how much you obbey to their needs if you don't they'll isolate you
Yes.I know from experience,sadly.Lost so much.And this person comes out as full of charm.Makes me feel sick.Doesn't think they did anything wrong.The mental pain caused to me & mine will never go away.I lost so much due to feeling sympathy for this person.
@@susanmccormick6022 Healing is possible. You just need to give IT time, realizing that the person has hurt you îs a great motivator to move on and start healing. I smell psychopath very easily now and know how to deal witj the ones I have to deal.
When I was a kid, I grew up going to church (I’m no longer religious) and we got a new preacher. He was a younger guy, very lively and charismatic individual. Always full of energy and constantly smiling at people, just an abundance of energy. I always enjoyed getting to hang out and play sports with him. As I got older and became a teenager, we became closer friends, even though there was a little bit of an age gap. I slowly but surely started picking up on certain patterns I recognized in him. He always wanted to be praised and the center of attention. If we were ever around someone that didn’t look up to him, it’s like he seemed very uninterested and had an immediate negative opinion of that person. I started having mixed feelings about our friendship. I just always felt nervous in his presence, like I needed to act a certain way and needed to impress him, I can’t even explain it. I started seeing how he interacted with people but then he was a COMPLETELY different person when nobody was around. Don’t get me wrong, we all do a ‘fake laugh’ out of courtesy here n there, but it was disturbing how he would switch from great loving and caring person to just zero interest in anyone else’s welfare once we were alone. He always always ALWAYS had to be right and win any kind of argument/debate. If you called him out on something and he was stuck in a corner or caught in a lie, he would aggressively ramble nonstop in defense for 2-3 hours straight (I am not exaggerating!). One time, he made a fake Facebook page and started messaging me as if it was a messenger from ‘God’. I found a note in my car and it was a ‘letter from god’. It was all in his handwriting of course…. When I finally brought it up to him, he denied it all and said maybe someone was trying to set him up. A couple years later, he befriended another guy my age, and the exact same story happened to him! He received a ‘letter from god’ as well. I feel like I could literally talk about different stories for hours. I was young and naive but now that I’m older, I have no doubt he was a psychopath. We all have our pros and cons as humans but I’ve never know anyone like this person. I cut off all communication a few years ago and always wondered if he would MAYBE apologize to me, but I don’t think he’s capable of that. My one bit of advice, always be weary of people that seem to be too good to be true right away. There are good people out there, but the ones who love to be seen and praised are the ones you gotta look out for. I haven’t talked to this individual in years but there’s still some post traumatic stress I carry with me to this day I feel like because of him.
@@stevewheatley243 Cry about it. Is reading hard for you? Reading books is very enjoyable if you do it more frequently.., it just gets easier and easier! ;)
Did you report him to police and to Church officials ..do you have a Lawyer This is very Pychotic behavior on his part no matter how he be guils a bunch of ppl He still frightened you and scared you He impeaded your growth marginizledyour religion and offered you no sactification as a religious leader. He is not only a Pychotic but a true Cultic with Boarder line Personality disorder Using God this way to control ppl is wrong hugely Cultic he has a Boaderline personality He is dangerous you need to report him for the sake of others . I wish you well Im sorry he scared you
And here I always pegged myself as more of a slight sociopath… I don’t feel sympathy or empathy, not even when my children would get hurt in whatever fashion (something my psychologist seemed to find unsettling by his expression and body language). I’ve always been easily bored and do whatever I feel like to alleviate said virgin no matter what it is and I’ve always had this knack for manipulating people to get what I want. I don’t do it all the time, but I know when I’m doing it and it’s always intentional. And revenge… Oh yeah, that’s always my go to. But I always thought psychopaths could mimic emotions they don’t feel and that’s something I can’t do. I understand the concept of the emotions, I just don’t have them and can’t mimic them. However, when I’m in a social situation, I can be the little social butterfly. I hate it, but it must be done… Now this video me wondering if I’m actually a psychopath and not a sociopath. Thanks…
psychopaths were born psychopaths but sociopathy is kinda learned. So just think about if you dont remember feeling empathy at all or if you did at one point or went through something.
@@noididntlmao early childhood trauma causes all malfunctions. Or even Fetal distress and early childhood trauma cause many types of mental disorders. Ultrasounds are very distressing to the sensitive nerve endings of the developing fetus. If you get a few of those during your pregnancy you are developing anxiety in the child. If you circumcize your infant, chances are great that they will have a mental disorder. Vaccine injuries often cause learning disabilities that make the child act out in combative ways. If this becomes a lifestyle norm than they will be combative adults. The psychopath is created by a series of poor decisions on the part of the parents.
@@libbyhicks7549 Perhaps that is true, but this is also true -- psychopathy can be inherited. I studied it for awhile and also the Bible says, "The wicked are ESTRANGED FROM THE WOMB; they go astray AS SOON AS THEY BE BORN, speaking lies..." Inherited!!!!
They say about 1/100 people is a psychopath. So it’s almost impossible to not be in close proximity with at least a few psychopaths during your life. It’s very likely that one of your neighbors or acquaintances is a psychopath.
It's much more prevalent than 1 out if hundred. It's more like about one out of every 8 or nine persons. You can verify ...They are everywhere ..I live in low income housing ,Sec8 ,and most of them are that or have those traits. They will prey upon you in a sends
Omg. I thought my ex was a narcissist. Now I understand, I was dealing with someone much more insidious. I am changed forever. I truly hope I can heal from this trauma.
We all know one and some of us know a few psychopaths. They don't have to be criminals, either. When what people say and what people do, don't match ... that's your first clue. Heed it and remember you can't fix someone who doesn't think they are broken.
No you don’t😂an actual diagnosed psychopath isn’t a common occurrence. I assure you you more than likely have not met one and certainly not multiple. If you have met one, you wouldn’t be able to know they are one from normal everyday interaction..
@@CDA843 I'm 69 yrs old and I've been around the block...please don't tell me what I do or don't know. I'm not talking about someone I MET I'm talking about someone I KNOW.
@@tonithenightowl1836 and..? So because you’re 69 years old that somehow gives you the ability to somehow magically diagnose an individual on whether or not they’re an actual psychopath? I’m 27 and I’ve ‘been around the block’ myself thanks. Still doesn’t give us a doctorate degree in Psychology/Neuropathy or anything at all in regards to whether or not someone is a Psychopath.
@@CDA843 It's called the block of life. Live long enough and you see all kinds of personality disorders. These people are not mentally ill, this is learned behavior. Most mentally ill people who take their meds lead normal lives. Those who don't usually end up doing jail time or self destruct. We have all run across pathological liars, manipulators and narcissistic people who never bring anything positive to the table....unless it's going to benefit them later on.
This describes my ex to a T! Particularly the pathological lying, the constant boredom and gaslighting. I thought he was a narcissist, after learning so much about narcissism, but I believe he may be both. He had an inflated ego & far fetched delusions of grandeur.
@Ryan John I am going to stay far from all known psychopath and that is my right. No need to take chances with EVIL! Psychopaths can not love another so why stay near them?
When you have to be around these type of sick people, ie coworker, neighbor, inlaw ect for reasons you cannot avoid right away, you learn to adapt. It has to be subtle, and you must have some type of outside support to insure your safety, even if it means financially, or have an otherwise escape plan or LE contact to consult. It's like some of these types "target" you, or those you love in a way that is obvious but only to you. It looks like jealousy but is a deeper issue. And bullying is bullying. It's quite sinister at times, too. There should be laws to protect people from them but often, they know just how far to go or how to make you look like the bad guy. Thanks for the information.
@@tinyvr7036 👍 Yes this is great information to have. Many people would be alive today if they did not under estimate how dangerous these twisted people truly are.
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I have met someone who was a sociopath or psychopath. One trait you're missing is high intelligence and greed. The part about lack of respect for the rule of law is because of their impulsive behaviour. That one person wasn't malicious it was more of like a naivety of their wrong doing. I would say "that's not honest, that's not right" and they would look at me confused. It was creepy how detached they were to their morality, they only thought about the action, but not the consequences.
Yeah, this trait is very beneficial in business. I am also exactly like that. You should also know that not all of us have the intelligence and ability to premeditate, but greed is very common.
1) As long as laws are on my side, I follow them, if on my way, just break them 2) Charm and charisma, true, I always wear a mask in society that is why I get bored of people so quick, it is tiresome and go to my solidatry quickly, 3) Pathological lying, yes, I always/mostly think that I am right and might lie for many reasons to reach my goal, 4) Small range of motions, true, a) Happiness : Only material gains or illegal substances or excitimg sex are my source of happiness. The rest, I could care less. 2) Sadness, Fear and Anxiety : Nope, we interpret all above mentioned feelings as level of anger. You just feel anger. 3) Anger : All the time. Mostly you mask it in order not to cause any risk to your goals but when you cannot, it is just pure anger (me attacking 10 cops just for loosing it due to their injustice. You just get blinded by it) 5) Lack Emphaty, Callous, true, I always think that pople are fakely being nice to others when they show empathy cause I just cannot even pathom how you can relate to another human's feelings. If we are close such as neighbours (I have no friends cause I dont believe in friendship but I briefly socialize with many if necessary with ease) and heard you lost a loved one all I know is that it is bad thing for the one and say I am sorry my condolences. That is it. No feeling at all. In fact I might find that crying pathetic and laughable but would never mention it of course. Same applies for physical pains. Callous, very true, it is either my way or the high way, I could careless who feels what in the process 7) Impulsive, extremely true, I am extremely bored most of the time and risky criminal behaivours or spontaneous sex or illegal subtances put me immediately in a good mad. It is just like normal world is just too boring and you need to replace it with your fantasy world in order to be happy. I was fired from all Jobs I had and created my own law firm and become successful. Team work? You better beat me to a pulp! 7) Bullying and Abusing, true, you do that even to your own family for whatever goal you are after. I do gaslighting mostly to manipulate a person who is not intelligent at all and in my circle to direct her to the correct way. For that, I do various shades of conv8ncing tactics from lighter ones to the hurshers, repeat if necessary cause they cannot learn quick and after it is true that guilt or remorse felt but anger towards that person for being not the brightest color in the shade. Acting lile a victim over caught immoral actions, true, cause I strongly believe that I am more special and much superior from the majority of people. So, if I do something wrong, it is society's fault as they pushed me for that action and not my! True that I would deny everything I am accused of even if I caught red handed. Why would I make their job easier against my favor! Blaming others, of course, that is a given. Acting superior, I believe I am superior and naturally act that way! Manipulation, as I said above, you keep wearing a mask which is tiresome. To me, humans are just viruses, insects. Multiple partners, short relationships, very true, everybody and relationship lose its' exciting side very quickly and fade away. Therefore, staying in the same relationship feels like hell. I get bored too quick. Revenge, the sweetest feeling. If I cannot take my revenge against a person who wronged me, It would bother me for decades and I would still look for ways to get even but I deliberately wait to gettings cooled down!
The few questions I have about psychopaths are : - what is the "objective" of a psychopath ? (why do they manipulate people, what are they looking for by doing this) - are they aware of how bad of a person they are, that what they do is morally bad etc. ? - what is the status of psychopathy (disease, mental illness, something you have in your genes, sth linked to a childhood trauma...) and can a psychopath recover from it / have a therapy or some medicaments that can help stopping their behavior - do you become a psychopath or are you one from birth ? thanks to whoever can answer one of these questions :)
If you have heared about neuroplasticity make a research.Someone can change but its not up to you or them. All you have to do is do not blame them for being bad,thats what they choose to be,with or without knowing it.Their brain has not normal parameters like a normal person.They may look normal at some point and their logic for doing bad things make excuses about them being right.Their interest is about them at first place or sometime they lack smth and try to fill it by taking care or sacrificing to much of themselfs 'for you' and in return they prison you to fullfill their wishes forever.I mean these people should be taken seriously , they will never show who they are ,they want you to play their game where they win and you loose.This is their engine.Where they want to go with this ?? Nowhere.They just dont know, they hate healthy reasoning.
Becoming a psychopath mainly comes from a traumatizing childhood with that said that's why they have no remorse and another thing being is killing small animals like cats to see them struggle on the break of death and they usually get bored after killing small animals and wanna take it up a notch and start killing people but hay you might be talking to one rn
As an introvert I have issues when people bully me or tell lies about me. When this period of frustration goes on for decades or five years, the person gets restless. I'm a hyper sensitive person and I do experience sadness. But I do like revenge. Revenge is a way to get justice. And when one meets more and more people who don't fall under their value systems they get more angry. I do experience anger. Two prominent reasons for a normal person to become a psychopath is bad childhood or bad adult life. When everything is lost people become mad and become psychopaths. If the society had been more intelligent then there won't be such large numbers of psychos. It's the relatives, peers, friends and family that create a pssycho.
I am extremely manipulative. I went to therapy and my therapist said I show no sign of psychopathic behavior. I simply know there’s something wrong with me but I don’t know what it is. I’ve manipulated people subconsciously and consciously. Do I feel like a piece of shit? Of course. But sometimes I feel like I have to for whatever interest I have. Not being in power or not being in control scares me, it drives me insane. (It’s not ambition) not even close. Whoever is reading this, please. Tell me what could be wrong with me. I need help. I want help.
This sounds like me. I have a natural on/ off switch which I can use if I need to manipulate people. I usually refrain from using it because it makes me a bit guilty. But when I do use my manipulative skills, it is because I have no other foreseeable choice in the situation. It usually happens because I know that I must do so in order to achieve some goal of mine. And keeping on top of my goals and plans gives me a sense of control of my life (even though I know life is generally chaotic and uncontrollable, I must do what I can do survive). I don't know if there is anything WRONG with you... it might just be something that comes to you naturally and when you need it. To analyze my own manipulation, I usually read and interpret the people who I am meant to impress - understand who they are as a person, and what they will value in others, then replicate the behavior they will like. Sometimes my act is so convincing that even I am convinced it is the truth - and that is the scary part. Sometimes you can lose who you actually are in the act. Nowadays I am too tired to play the social game so I just don't interact with people unless I have to. It's a tiring process, manipulation. Sometimes I wonder if I should go back to using charisma, but then I just feel bad when I do use it. It might be something to do with your personality as well. For a reference, I am an INTJ, 5w6, 513.
My experience is they know when they can get away with it and who they have to look good in front of to maintain their social standing. Totally agree with #3, by midlife they have become professional manipulators. You will notice that things aren't quite right, they don't have the professional skills they should, they can't delagate tasks, they can't maintain relationships with suppliers, they have temper tantrums and they want to talk about personal matters and get chummy with you so you find them likeable.
The really good ones manipulate others into doing the risky tasks. A good wake up is to research the Coburg Saxe-Gothe family in the last 4 centuries. The question unanswered was it inherited or learned. I believe it can be learned. Most people have the gene. It may be one of those that unlocks according to environment. You learn from your environment. For those that you feel uncomfortable about when you 1st meet someone. Trust your instincts. Dogs are real good at this.
I know exactly what you mean. My boss fits the exact description you gave. Blows my mind. I'm desperately trying to find a way out of that horriblly toxic mess.
@@mariagricius8994 Stay strong, keep your head down and look for a job. Write down the warning signs and avoid putting yourself under someone like that again. You'll be happy again. I got a new job and I can't beleive how happy I am now. When you're getting gaslighted remember to breath deeply, it puts more oxygen into your brain and will keep you calm. It's a valuable skill to have in any workplace.
Wow. I cant believe he scored 100. I had been rationalizing why Abunyim acted the way he did for two years without any remorse. I came here already suspecting he could fall into the category. I just did not expect him to be a blueprint. Arigato for these insights.
Is it just me or do the labels of narcissist, sociopath and psychopath get quite blurry at times. To me the differences lie in the following markers. Pure narcs are not generally violent and have primarily social emotional supply strategies. Sociopaths have even more limited emotional range and therefore have very stark jumps between one end of their emotional spectrum and an other making their social situations far more precarious and their lives far more desperate. I feel sorry for sociopaths. And psychopaths are far more regulated internally, less spontaneous and feed their egos and emotions more indirectly. This is just off the top of my head and I would like to see a more insightful summary.
I’m not sure if it was Dr Ramandi where I heard a psychopath is always a sociopath but a sociopath is not necessarily a psychopath. From reading psychological text books I read mostly psychopaths receive gratification from causing pain.
@@melissawalker7570 thanks. I heard socio and psychopaths always have narcisitic traits. People that enjoy causing others suffering for its own sake are sadists. I think psychopaths are motivated by goal accomplishment with no sense of remorse or empathy
Interesting video, in mental health units you won’t really hear staff use the term “psychopath” very often though and more likely the term “a person with high a psychopathy score” which refers to a PCL-r score which is a clinical tool used to measure some of the traits you’ve talked about in the video. Often psychopaths are really keen to tell others that they are a psychopath and people sometimes think it’s counter-therapeutic for staff to refer to them as a psychopath. Also remember “traits” and “states” we all might sometimes have traits like the ones described but less likely to be within a permanent state of this.
Thank you for this comment I was thinking that many if not all people have these traits to some degree or another throughout a life time that doesn't mean your a Psychopath.
@Chad Abercrombie If you mean that you score on 13 factors on a PCL-r even if you scored 2 on each factor then you would score 26 which would be below the cut off point for psychopathy
Changing terminology does not mean changing the diagnosis. A psychopath will always be a callous, cruel, remorseless manipulator no matter which term is used to describe them.
The best quality I have as an INFJ is that I understand if a person is a psycho or not .and I becomes a better actor to use their power on themselves as their weakness. Thank goodness
An INTJ here, wondering if I have psychopathic or sociopathic tendencies. Must say, the stereotypes of our types does often make it seem like we do have some of these traits. It's interesting to see how some of these psychopathic/ sociopathic traits are what I envision as my 'dark side' - basically what I fear may happen to me if I lost everything... might turn to the darker traits which I know I am capable of. Tend to not like these traits because of my morals, but well if I discard them one day it's not going to be good.
Spot on! I spent 22 years with one. He was very popular and charming. They are great at fooling everyone. I have two sons with him and was terrified they may turn out like him. They are nothing like him. My greatest joy are my sons.
My EX and many of his friends. They recognise the sameness in each other and treat others in the same disregarding way. Bullies with smiles and charm and pride in getting away with it.
You just described my ex-wife to the letter!... there should be a book just written just about her. I meet a lot of people in my life, but none like her, and hope I never do again! She's truly one for the books.
This is probably why some psychopath need an early detection symptoms before it's too late. My mom was married to a guy that secretly has an affair with other man and always getting a huge debt from some dangerous people but my mom was persuaded to pay it and one time he did a domestic violence towards my mom and I still remember how it looks. It really scares me when those dangerous people actually came to my house and act really like about to kidnap me if the debt aren't get payed. Good thing that they are divorcing and I'm living with my mom really far away from him. I pray for those that facing tough time.
Psychopaths aren't immediately criminal. If you lay down in your bed, cry intensely, eating your blanket, trying to kill yourself because your partner forgot your anniversary day, then you're literally a psychopath too. So you see, SOME psychopaths don't mean to do criminal stuff.
You can’t say someone is a psychopath based on one trait, so you’re absolutely wrong on this. Doing that one thing doesn’t make them a psychopath because there are multiple other criteria. That type of behavior could be any number of things. What’s certain is that you’re incredibly ignorant for saying such nonsense.
I wish I could have watched this ten years ago and been aware of the things that can happen. I pray for everyone that is going through this. May God find you and give you peace.
Now, I'm certain. The callous young cousin of mine is a psychopath. I knew it, something just seems off. Now, he had done damage in my life, I'll fix this and I'll make sure that he'll get to face the consequences of his actions.
You start out well talking about how they blend in, but then fall into th trap of mainly focusing on sociopathy (factor 2 psychopathy) instead of psychopathy (factor 1 psychopathy) that so many videos fall into. The distinctions between the two is important, and explains why psychopaths tend to blend in with society, doing maximum damage, while sociopaths make up a good percentage of the prison population. I think people are well acquainted with sociopathy, it would be really great if videos could be made specifically about psychopathy and not confusing the two.
A few years ago, i had identify these points on my siblings; pathologic liars, manipulating, and revenge. And they are more abusive as we grow old. And they also have sociopath traits combined. Thats why i have to keep distance from them.
Oh! WOW! OMG! This described my 2 middle sisters & my mother perfectly. I always thought that there was something "hinky" about them & the way that they behave. This also described my neighbour a few doors down from me who befriended me. I told her that I wanted nothing more to do with her. I told her that I was fed up with her games & her lies & her racist attitude & her criminal behaviour & her trying to antagonized me all the time ( she's just like my sisters & mother ). Now she is now waging war on me & manipulating others to do her dirty work & play acting "victim".
I'm truly confused. Are you actually aware of what's going on or are you trying to play both sides ? Calamity Jane and jamming again pfft... And they call the Filth on a Sting ! This is YOUR bill their running up ! What happens now ! How do you walk out of this now ? I was your ticket out ! They are your ticket in ! You support them ! You can't play both sides ! They WILL DESTROY YOU you NEED TO HELP ME STOP THEM ! THEY TRAP ME WHEN MY GUARD WAS DOWN, I'm out of ideas and your the smart ones apparently peep peep peep ! If your not already there go take a look at how happy she is 💡
Ohh I forgot Lord give strength REC (Dead) Is not the brother of WTC is he ? Tell me that's not true because that would pretty much be the icing on the cake !
Another thing is a lot of people who are into Beauty and being the most popular person is usually the most narcissistic and psychopathic, they're always concerned about their looks and they always want to make you feel down and out from Envy or from trying to keep pushing your buttons or from neglect.
I was married to a psychopath and didn't even realize it. I knew that he was narcissistic. When I made my choice to dump him clear he blamed my family and say they talked me into it and threatened to hurt them. I made the Choice on my own. He played the victim and of course I was in the wrong despite his cheating, his lies, and abuse.
You guys really think a psychopath that is cold and heartless, without any warm emotions is dangerous? Hah, is not. They can be easy detected and avoided (probably not easy to stop) The real evolved and unbreakable stone is when you meet psychos with high emotional intelligence and emotional filter, with heart living empathy, that they use to their deceptive advantage. Those are the danger... This video is like representing the 1960 psycho.
This. You understand the difference then? That not all of us are to be feared or shunned? I hope so, you make it seem like you know a thing or two. I try to emulate normalcy but at times it feels boring. I feel... numb, I guess? Anyways, thanks for breaking the ice. I try to have empathy but everything I do just boils down to logic. Is it right or is it wrong, can it be or can it not be, that kind if thing. I feel more akin to a graphing calculator than to a person lol
@@erytisal133 right, but the manipulation of the heart to achieve their goal, is internal psychopathy. I mean, I think it's dangerous to stay around someone who uses strong feelings of love (which can be felt, not faked) only to achieve a purpose, like using a person, or other deviant acts etc. Because the best deceptive camouflage in this society are true human feelings, not only the empty image of them.
Amazing video! It is very informative and helpful! The only problem is that Norman Bates in the thumbnail is not a psychopath, he actually suffers from the Dissociative Identity Disorder. I know it's just a thumbnail, but I felt the need to point out this small detail.
Robert Hare, who did an extensive 25-year study on psychopaths determined at the end of his study that only a tiny percentage of psychopaths are in prison because most psychopaths aren't caught.
This is spot on! I married one and survived it because of my Faith. He moved on to someone else so easy to manipulate. He needs to be on the criminally insane ward!!! Dangerous to himself & anyone around him!!!
Yeah most of the people in prison suffer from mental illness and learning disabilities. A high percentage suffer from drug and alchole addiction and were physically and sexually abused as children. Most criminals that show psychopathic traits are really confused with sociopatholodgy. Meaning that these criminals exibit learned behavior and defense mechanisms from there own abuse and traumas that they suffered from the hands of others. Others must be intoxicated and or motivated by addiction to commit there crimes. On the otherhand there are many more psychopaths that are highly intelligent people that enforce the law and or hold these criminals accountable for there crimes. 9 times outta 10 psycopaths are way to smart to get caught and get sent to prison alive. 9 times outta 10 its the cop with an itchy trigger finger or the prison guard that assaults and kills more people behind the facade of enforcing justice than any of the criminals that are in prison. My point is that psycopaths are everywhere they are just more easily unidentifiable once they have been busted for a crime
Well I work in prison in germany for mentally ill prisoners. The problem with the vidoe and with the comments is that people mix up simple assholes with a psychopath. The level of evilness is way higher then just some asshole you met in your life that manipulated you or lied, cheated or hurt you. You are also wrong by saying that high percentage of criminals were physically or sexually abused. A lot of them just simply love the lifestyle of not caring and taking what they want. Anyways they are just humans as you and I are and people often forget that. If you ask me every human is a psychopath if you give them the "right" reason in their minds to be one. For example if your child gets killed and tortured and you had the chance to do the same thing to the torturer without any consequences you would do it. The difference is just that the reasons "psyhopath" do what they do are often not really understandable for most people. But they are also just simple humans and every human on the planet has the potential to be a psychopath. So please stop acting like they are another species or some monsters that are walking around unidentified and doing damage. You want to see a psychopath? Then just get up and look in the mirror. Look deeply in your own eyes and you can see the darkness of your soul. Everyone has the potential to be a monster. You know you also have very dark thougths when you are angry on someone. Evernyone has. In the end it is simply our decisions that makes us kind human beeings or vicous monsters.
@@outsourcing2004 not everyone has the potential to be a psychopath. To be psychopathic you need some sort of traumatic experience within the first 5 months of your life. But I certainly agree everybody has the potential to become a monster.
Yeah, it's really sad. Some people were just born at a disadvantage like that. I'm a lucky one though. Or at least, my parents are. I had abusive parents, they beat us and were constantly abusing substances. We never had money and I've been depressed my whole life. But somehow, I turned out mostly fine. It's crazy how the human brain works sometimes
my "farts" seem to have psychopathic traits... disregard for others, knows no boundaries, starts off charismatically but leaves a bad taste in your mouth, etc.
Whew, sounds like an ex. Glad I got out intact. When we broke up I had a bad feeling and was terrified of getting my ex mad, so I avoided anything that would cause anger. I felt this person was capable of doing damage without realizing it was psychopathy. My entire relationship was fake and I was gaslighted the entire time.
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It's never a good idea to give this kind of information to psychopaths... they might learn from it. 😨
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Are there really perfect people , most people have some of these traits , at one time or the other , addictive people , may come off psychopaths , their driven by addiction , school teacher's exhibit a lot of these traits , and so do people in positions of power , our Political System seems to have a lot of people that meet these criteria.
It seems you have to have a degree in psychology not to have any of these traits , that means there are no psychologists that are psychopaths , you couldn't become a psychopath if your a psychologist , l don't think this is the truth, people are imperfect !
How sad.
When I've watched your video, I immediately thought of my president. Emmanuel Macron.
All the traits fit ! 😐
The pre frontal cortex. Do you know how the damage was done to it, or are they born this way? Or, could they have been raised or groomed into this behavior during their upbringing? Could this behavior be due to being exposed at a young age? This is extremely informative for me right now. I’m sharing to a specific group. I would appreciate any feedback from you. Or, should I do more research on my own?
Unfortunately most of the psychopaths are not in prison. You can seen them everyday on your TV screens telling endless lies about how they care about you and rest of the citizens.
Absolutely true..!!
and you can find them in higher positions such as managers
Dr. Fauci,, if I spelling that correct
It's a flu, people and most of us will not die from it! Check out what he did in regards to Aids,,, do some investigating
Righto!
Yup!
The scary thing is that you can walk along side a psychopath and not even know it. They are very skilled at hiding who and what they are.
After a while though, they drop their masks one way or another, and then, you know. You cannot ''not see'' this.
@@extremotionaltrouffas Sometimes it takes a while, these people are masters when they want to be. Look for the red flags.
It's like playing Among Us but real.
Yes (:
@Victor Alexander True. However I'm not thankfully.
From my experience is that if you become aware of a psychopath within your group, the psychopath will force you out of the group, ensuring his position within that group of people and keeping his name clean. Most people within that group won't notice or don't want to get involved, and let the psychopath do it's thing. The person that became aware is kept out of the group forever.
Well that's a good thing. Who would want to be in a group with a psycho...and in a group comprised of people who aren't aware enough to recognize a psycho. .
well said!!!!!
I can see that happening in the workplace.
100%! They will work subtly to get control over as many people as they can and if they can't woo them they find something to use against them or will make up wrongs to convince others you are the problem. Watching this right now. Psychopath been doing this to anyone who suspects or who questions her authority. Suddenly, the person who called her out and everyone who ever worked with them disappears one by one until has clean slate of victims to oversee. Sick to go thru and sick to watch! 🤢
Sad but true
My father was a psychopath and everything you wrote rings true. Took me a lifetime to heal from that monster not all my siblings did. Suicide attempts..😢
I married one person like that but I escaped...I was never married...Declared null..but me and children suffered a big deal after annulment.due to his revenge used family courts
Cold distant classic traits schizo personality disorder
@@dlourdes4743 I am so 😔 sorry that you and your children are going through this. Anyone going through this heartbreaking. Human evil. God Help Us All.
Yep! My father was a psychopath. I even feel like that term is an understatement. He was and is just dead inside except for the pleasure he gets from ruining people’s lives.
hate to hear that bro i hope you guys are alright form the intensity of the situation you shouldnt have to deal with cold blooded predators
Thank you, we all went no contact with him. Unfortunately our stepmom passed due to trauma related health issues 😢
My mother is a psychopath and everyone loves her. Of course except those of which lives she’s ruined but no one believes us because she’s so good at acting. She mentally abused my sister to death but gets lots of sympathy because “she lost her daughter”. It’s horrifying. HORRIFYING!
i am soo sorry u have to go through this
I'm so sorry 😔
Yes .! Totally get it. I'm the target in my family. I had someone who is ex-in-law to family tell me how wonderful my mother is. Finally... Finally got to tell someone, "well this is what she says about you." Oh the joy. Also filled her in on what she says about her kid. If this gets back... Oh well I've been on benzos for 9yrs and have been diagnosed with PTSD because of her. 😵💫
I believe you..
@@joe-billy-bob bullshit, you're not a psychopath.
Wow! This really says, in clear language, what a psychopath is. Fifty years ago I almost married one and I still have PTSD. Imagine if I had married him!
He still hit
@@CFourtyTransportationLLC bro💀
You certainly dodged a bullet. Unfortunately for me my mother was a psychopath and ruined my entire childhood.
Charm is a sign, disregard of morals, play by the rules, or be called a psychopath, distorts reality, a twisted mind, doesn't learn from mistakes, impulsive and drastic, question their empathy when they feel victimized, holds on to grudges and resentment, manipulative when scrutinized, unstable relationships, seeks revenge💥✅💲
@@CFourtyTransportationLLC 💀
Looks like most of the politicians world wide does fit the description .
That's not altogether coincidental.
Look up "pathocracy."
Most of the politicians are sociopaths. The key difference is that psychopaths are born with this condition and sociopaths become liars, killers due to interaction with bad social environment.
Be more specific. Most of the REPUBLICAN politicians in America are obviously psychopaths. Democrats are Empaths! In Brazil you have president Bolsonaro who is obviously a dangerous psychopath. He has said publicly that he’d like to kill all of Brazil’s indigenous peoples. And he’s burning down the Amazon Rainforest! In America we have Donald Trump who over 60,000 mental health professionals warn is dangerously mentally ill. Every word out of his mouth proves them correct. And 90% of republicans absolutely love him. They are not well people.
@@jmseipp what a joke...you actually believe Democrats are empathetic? Look at the revenge they use against those they disagree with..Democrats and those associated with are some of the most evil sociopathic people on the planet..the only empathy they feel is for themselves
I was just thinking this fits Donald Trunt to a T
They will also provoke you so badly that you'll react, in return, they use your reactions to try and make you believe that it's you who is in the wrong for your massively triggered outbursts due to their aggression.
YES!!!
You could be one,listen to the explanations,are you concious of it,why deny the truth,accept it,it's difficult for you to function in society,your morals questioned,feel guilt or shame,consequences don't matter,slander and abuse others at your peril,claim to be victimised,the blame game is at play,resentment from it causes anger,manipulate others to get your way,relationships should be difficult,predicts what a psychopath does❌💥
That's where we must learn self control. My wife tried to provoke me daily. I had to grit my teeth to keep from reacting. She failed and I won the final battle in court when I won annulment based on fraud.
Preach! I am currently going through this with what I can only say is an ex I don't even know at the moment I'm taking it as such because I apparently failed so badly he has gone silent this is after years of standing by his side with the worst of his behaviors he supposedly is remorseful for but ??? It's hard I don't know he is one but some things hit dead on.
That's Because They Are Cowards
I did not realize I was married to a psychopath until his death. He was an extremely good actor. He made me feel loved and cared for. I found the lies , deception and double life after his death
I wish you could say more
How?
Maybe he was a player not a sociopath they both like money sex food
Well good for you, he's dead and you're free
Rubbish, not all psychopaths behavior are manipulative
They can naturally love and care for someone, Respect the dead for goodness sake
I was married to a psychopath for 27 years and his mother was one too. I could write a book on it. Both pathological liars. Both obsessed with revenge. Superficial charm.
The mother was actually worse. Gossip.
Could destroy people's lives by gossip and the telephone was her weapon of choice.
Determined to get her way regardless of the truth or what she had to do. And the son did his mother's bidding. Sad sad human beings if you can call them that.
Sounds like we could write a book together . And I will write one.
Me too? I'm in it deep right now🙁
I’m sorry you went through this too. This comment mirrors my life. Interestingly, I’m in the midst of writing a book on it.
@@ikshakranti6582 What will your book be called? I will write one too.
@@victoriousjoy9338, I’m still working on the title, dear. Halfway through the book now. Started writing when the healing began, after I walked away from over 20 years of abusive marriage. I lost everything, but my mind is still intact and I intend to utilise that for a closure by writing. All the best to you in your healing journey!♥️
My ex is a thrice diagnosed Malignant Narcissistic Sociopathic Psychopath and also working as a functioning Venture Capitalist and board member of many high tech start ups in the Northeast and New Jersey. He reeks havoc wherever he goes and then splits to go onto his next victims. They also label others they have manipulated and left as “crazy”. And If children are involved they abuse and try to manipulate them as well against the stable parent who was there and raised them. They try to justify their absence and abuse when they were young as the fault of the parent who actually tried to hold things together.
Oh be quiet. You're just crazy.
Give him a pseudonym before he wreaks revenge.
High profile psychopaths go to any lengths to harass
Traits of psychopath
1. Seeks Revenge
2. Multiple sexual partners or short term relationships
3. Manipulation comes naturally
4. Narcissism and superiority complexes are common
5. They direct blame on others
6. They act like a victim when immoral actions are caught
7. They bully and abuse even those they’re close to
8. They are impulsive
9. Lacks empathy and is callous
10. Has a small range of emotions
11. Pathological lying
12. Superficial charm and charisma
13. Disregard for rules, laws, morals
14. Pissing in lakes
15. Very selfish & self serving
16. Entitled & lazy
Woah, my last situationship/man described. Didn't take a long to recognise who I'm dealing with and it's time to walk away 💪🙏
They steal your used towels
17. Write the s starting from the bottom
Before Watching Video :
Me : Lets see who is a psychopath near by me
After Watching Video :
Me : Today I learnt something about myself
Lol
Omg thats hilarious hahah I got this as recommended i was like maybe I’m phyco😂but I’m not😂😂😂 hahah
Wait til a doctor calls you one 🥳
M there too 😂
Well just remember
1. Everyone has traits of it. it's only an issue if it's a repeating pattern which makes you unable to stay out of legal trouble, can't maintain any relationships, etc. There's a lot more stuff but I'm not gonna type that much unless you want to hear it
2. If you're over 18( and diagnosed ofc)
Empaths beware. You attract this type as well as narcissists. Don’t pay attention and hyper focus on the good qualities and what’s wonderful- but look for the red flags and negative traits you know should not be tolerated. How do they treat strangers..parents..friends, enemies..or you during hard times and arguments. I want to suggest a book or two I read as a counseling student. How to make marriage work by Dr Gottman, How to Avoid a Bozo , and Not Just Friends. Fellow ladies and gentlemen I wish you well,be smart.
God bless you.
@@Justadudeman22 thank you , God bless you too
Isnt it something when you learn family members are narssastic. Did that mean the kids learned that behavior or have gene traits to be on??
@@pami9208 yes it can be very miserable sharing a roof with narcissists or being related to one. Just everything is under their control or how they want things to go ..or so it seems. I believe character traits are both genetic and learned. Generational curses some call it is very real- because of the learned behavior passed down from each generation: example: a son learned from his father bad temper and poor self control, as the father learned from the grandfather and the grandfather saw and grew up with the same traits from his mom or dad.. this is why emotional intelligence and self control is important in breaking this ugly and harmful cycle
@@Art_and_Soul_Studio also that the family members know how to push your buttons even when you bring it to their attention and yet they do it to the other family member who suffers by that activity
An interesting note. My ex is a psychopath and while she did lack empathy in most cases I found it interesting when she would show empathy to her fellow substance abusers. One night coming home we saw a car stuck in a ditch. The guy turned off the highway too late and missed his turn, we stopped to check on him and he was stone drunk. I went to leave him there but my wife went crazy insisting that we help him. There were several other times I saw this behavior.
You just telling us how you lack of empathy… you always help someone in need, drunk or not.
@Sam Sam I am empathetic to people in need, but I also believe in natural consequences. A drunk driver puts countless people at risk, and he is lucky that no one was killed in his act of extreme selfishness.
@@BobPruett that’s true but he/she still needs help…
Those types of people, are enablers. They co-sign each others bull shit.
Psychopaths are notorious for calling people psychopaths. Psychopaths are low on the grid for substance abuse & wouldn’t seek help in most cases.
Im a psychopath (sadly) evaluated by psychologist. What helped me is discovery of stoic philosophy, and practicing it every day for years. I managed to direct my pychopathy towards sport and art, in which i compete and excel every day. Everyday meditations and self evaluating is helping me to not abuse others. Its really hard to keep it under controll, everyday battle.
Yes stoicism, combat sport and work helped me. They don't understand that we must battle with our nature all day, every day. It doesn't get easier with age and it gets really difficult if you are in position of power. I am really annoyed with those who let them self loose, maybe I am jealous, who knows. Just keep with good work, and after some time you can use it for good of society. Be careful around people that are really close to you, control tends to drop around them so you can hurt your family.
@@jaja2536 same here, that's why I only concentrate on family, sport, art and studying. No social life, no partying, just grind. Yes and people are quick to judge and write you off with thing life "psychopath never change". It would hurt me if I had any emotions for this shit :D
Wow man admitting yourself as a psychopath takes courage and even if you have the impulse to hurt or abuse and have no feeling about it, you are still rational about what's right and wrong. For that you have my utmost respect.
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Courage? Arent psychopaths fearless?
If this is not some sort of weird nonsense psychopath manipulation (I hope it is not and actually want to believe that it is not), I find this amazing and it's proving that people labeled as psychopaths are also people with a drive to change their life for the better. The battle is tough I am pretty sure, I tend to have impaired feelings due to my depression and OCD burnouts and in a way I can sometimes feel like a psychopath and it's absolutely devastating feeling when you just don't care and feel nothing, especially if you had relatively normal emotional life in the past, you feel like you've lost it, it drives me crazy, starting to spiral in thoughts that I could be evil. I whish for all people with this infamous personality disorder the best and especially to the people like yourself who find that amazing strength to push forward through the very difficult lenses of your nature. Keep on going and never let it go!
I have a hard time believing that 93% of psychopaths are already in prison. I'd like to see the study
The psicopaths are the ones ruling us. If we rebell against their opressive system we are called psicopaths. These videos are created by professional hired by them to create more confussion. Those who govern us are demonic sick psicopaths.
Thanks for watching Melissa.
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It can be found in the 5th link.
@@josehorta3898I think you might have misunderstood it
Thank you for the link. Unfortunately I'm unable to access it on my phone, but man, I don't trust their methods.I did the math, but math and I are mortal enemies. Accuracy is no where near guaranteed. The numbers are correct, trust the math at your own risk.
In the general population of psychopaths in a given population equates to .75%-1%. In the prison population the psychopathic prisoners make up about fifteen percent.
Population of the United States-318.9 million or, 31,890,000 psychopaths
General population in US
318.9 million x 0.0075 = 2,391,750
318.9 million x 0.01 = 3,189,000 (in this case just move the decimal point two space to the left)
Prison population
. For comparison against general population of the same size, the numbers would be:
2,220,300 x .15 = 333,045
333,045/3,190,000=10 percent
333,045/2,399,250= about thirteen percent
@@josehorta3898 Nah you're just brainwashed.
I was a victim of a lots of Psychopathic people and I'm still trying to recover. I hope God send something good my way after all of that toxicity that drained my spirit
I’m married to a psychopath thank god almost divorced. He did every single one of these. It’s almost scary being abused and gaslit and they flip the script on you. It’s also scary that when was angry and abusive, there was zero remorse for anything he did and there was nothing behind his eyes but darkness.
We worked witha psychopath, Jim Foreman, at the Southtown Economist Newspaper, Chicago. He and a lady had an argument. She later found he had removed the tires from her car. For some reason, he was not fired.
#1 mysterious phenomena of such personality is that even though victims are able to recognize a person with such traits, they still choose to get victimized by such personalities. There have been so many psychological case studies and people stated that they knowingly got victimized and don’t understand the reasons. A great book “Talking to Strangers” may shed more light. Another interesting capability of People with these traits is they somehow have ridiculously High IQs. Unfortunately this is so true. Great Video!
FYI, the psychopaths who murder people lack self-control and there recorded to have lower IQ's. The only reason they stay out of prison is because they think logically. However, they almost always get tripped up by their compulsive obsession. Everyday psychopaths like myself are in control of our urges and desires (no killing people is a waste of time, and I don't care to spend my life on death row) so that's why we're usually hidden considering half these comments bash us which rightfully so we can and will kill you I imagine people don't like that. Just a heads up if you didn't know it's the psychopaths you don't see in prison with higher IQ.
I've seen that happen. The victims seem to enjoy the "excitement" of the psychopath, and live vicariously through their rule-breaking. We aren't always horrified by those Jack Nicholson/Christopher Walken/Gary Oldman movie villains. Some of them are damn compelling.
My brother is a psychopath. He uses his high I to feign disability and receives SSA money for being a fake. He keeps a walker in his like a prop to use for doctor visits and evoking pity from patsies. I wouldn't put it past him to use it to lure victims like Bundy did with his fake broken arm.
I was married for 20 years to a narcissist sociopath. Divorced 30 years now. Never remarried. Because you never really know another person. Fear has kept me from living a (so called) normal life. But at least I’m not bound to a psycho anymore. 🍒
Married to one for six years, 2 kids, divorce took 11 years. Kids haven't talked to him in years, they barely talk to me. A few years ago he opted for life w/o parole, and at 65 I'm finally getting used to opening the drapes. Doesn't feel any better that somebody else became his retirement plan.
@@agreetodisagree4751 …. I don’t get it!
@@agreetodisagree4751 … There should be a death sentence for these narcissistic sociopaths. Get them out of society. They do unrepairable damage. On Netflix there is a movie “Power of the Dog”. He gets his just reward in the end.
I feel this one
I feel same
I do have a student who was diagnosed as being a psychopath. He did have all these traits. I think most people with some of these traits are sociopaths. I do think the psychopaths are much more dangerous. Although they are intelligent and capable in many ways, they do have brain damage that causes them to do harm to others without being able to care. To keep from hurting anyone you have to keep them occupied.
I think 🤔 it’s splitting hairs between the naming of psychopath & sociopath. Each person is so highly individualized
@@hawaiigirl8089 I think you are exactly right. They both take what isn't theirs with a self-satisfied smile on their face.
be careful they dont igure out that they are getting played as they are kept occupied. it will be worse.
They must do very good scientists. Busy, occupied, and all that. Also, good home training from very childhood must help as well for them to use their qualities for good instead of bad. In my family is said, that if we do not occupy ourselves with something good and important, we will get stupid ideas and act on it, so we did learn to study and do other useful things instead of loafting. I think it could be helpful for psychopaths too? To me, the only worrying trait in psychopathy is the need for revenge. I am not sure if it would be possible to fix that trait- or to use it for anything good. Maybe I am not creative enough?
@@gothic-rosenovorossiya5740 why are u implying like psychopaths being themselves is bad. Psychopaths are what add flavour in the pale boring and bland mess.
All those descriptions of a psychopath is my older brother! As a kid/teen he always bullied me and my younger brother. Then he'd act like the victim so my parents didn't blame him and blamed us. He'd always prance around claiming he's God's gift to the world and that he was better than us all. When he'd meet women, he'd behave super nice and respectful just long enough to have girlfriends marry him. Once he'd fool a young woman to marry him, he'd become physically and mentally abusive towards them. Claiming a marriage license gives him permission to OWN the woman, control her, abuse her and do what he wishes with her. He ruined two marriages he had. When he was around relatives with his girlfriend or wife, he'd refuse to let them meet me or speak to me because he wanted to make sure I didn't mention his dark secrets of his abusive, violent behaviors to them. My younger brother followed in my older brother's footsteps also. I cut my older brother out my life in 1993 and my younger brother out my life in 2004. Don't even know names of their kids or have met their kids.
You set a healthy boundary.
Good for you. Smart move.
Damm. What an evil guy.
had trouble with brothers wife and cow took me to court. Years latter one off her kids spotted me on street and gave me- $$$ 100.
My so called friend is a monster, he hid it well but I finally exposed him and he was so humiliated that I caught him and detailed his repugnant behavior that he just quietly went away all butturt. I never heard from that manipulating piece of crap ever again. If you make it clear to a psychopath that you know who they are and you are willing to defend yourself with brutal wit they will seek a weaker victim.
Wow, I thought my brother is the only narcissist in the family, with my mother "just" being a narcissist, but after watching this video, I'd say she's a covert psychopath as well. (And my grandmother simply having been pure evil.) I cut them off 20 years ago, thought I had healed from it, just to still keep attracting the same toxic people. Arrgghh.
All right, thank you for showing me that I still have a lot more to heal from than I thought. Awareness is the most important step to begin/continue the healing process, so I'm optimistic and thankful for having seen this. 🙏🙏🙏
These are traits are those that exactly fit Politicians, Real Estate Agents, Used Car Salesmen and Lawyers
please don't generalize
You're not going high enough. CEOs! Billionaires and multimillionaires are very typical of people who have used, manipulated and enslaved people (including family members) around them to get to the place where THEY MAKE THE RULES, never obey others' rules! (Typical psychopathy). Think Fossil Fuel CEOs, Wall Street/Bankers, Defense Contractors: All who screw consumers, cause major death and destruction as their money grows.
I know of sociopaths and psychopaths. Add to list lawyers.
Police officers, military and yes school teachers
wait hold on, a friends boyfriends whole family works as lawyers and they’re quite nice
managers and bosses
Just want to clarify: psychopaths DO NOT feel “happiness”. They feel a type of narcissistic satisfaction, but never real happiness because they are incapable of true joy, a key component even in superficial happiness. But also, they DO feel FEAR and tend to be cowards. They are only able to feel fear, hate, rage, and sadistic pleasure. Also in the first point, it is extremely important to note that most higher intelligence psychopaths are Jekyll and Hydes. They may appear very moral and lawful outwardly, like a judge, cop, clergy person, teacher, politician, social justice advocate, corporate officer, conscientious parent, etc..., but away from public vision, they are the complete opposite and very evil. Also the impulsive aspect is only for certain types of psychopaths, as there are numerous types, (organized, disorganized, etc...) some are very calculating and pre-meditative. They are ALL killers of some sort. Some will derive pleasure from trying to kill someone emotionally, or relationally, while others will seek to destroy you financially. Some of them will lurk in the shadows to slander and destroy your reputation and chances of success and happiness, whereas others will want to kill a victim physically. But KILLING is their greatest delight, perhaps their only delight beyond being praised and exalted above others. I should say they relish with much saliva, the ability to deceive and trick others. They ALL like this, as they ALL also are emotionally limited, negative emotions only (explained in this video). They may profess to love you, but if they are a psychopath, they are incapable of loving anyone, they can only imitate it, and that they are very good at. They also ALL never accept blame, guilt, or responsibility for any actions taken or even inaction. They will ALWAYS deflect and transfer blame, culpability, and accountability. Some are more duplicitous than others, as some are unable to keep up the “wolf in sheep’s clothing” masquerade for too long. Whereas, others can do it for life and never be exposed.
Excellent. Perfect analysis of some family and a friend or two. I grew up with a psychopathic father and a narcissistic mother. I collected a few friends with the same qualities. God sent an Angel for my husband and so I survived what could have been a very dark life.
I would like to really study real psychopaths because I am sure that we may not always guess THEIR perspective right? When it comes to feelings, especially. I always have that argument with my mom. She always claims that this person thinks this and that and that is why they did this and that. And when she says something like that about me, I know for sure she does not guess right at all. Also my getting to know one non-criminal confirmed psychopath made me really surprised and question a lot.
@@donnavorbach215 An Angel came to me and reveal the Covert Narc in my life too.
Yes very accurate. The ex!
So many holes 😕
A psychopath doesn't take pleasure in killing you. There are other forms of satisfaction. It is similar embodiment of the autistic disorder, which limits the satisfaction inside your head, makes you an inside loner.
The difference is autistic disorder is taking pleasure in interacting with oneself, while psycho interacts with others.
It's true most psychos are killers, but not everybody kills, emotionally, mentally, physically. Again, there are other forms of satisfaction. Killing just comes easier for a psycho than a normal person, and it is the last resort. I mean, he might choose to kill if needed, but certainly it's not so retarded to choose this option from the beginning.
14 year old edgy kids watching this: 😮 that's literally me
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I’m 15 actually
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I am fifteen actually and i also realised that this is common in me as well but i am not a psychopath actually nowadays people's personality is like a psychopath they think that they are psycho, normally kids around my age but they are not psychopath. The actual psycho doesn't even consider them as psychopath for them they are just perfect and others are just stupid so if you think you are a psychopath then you are definitely not if there was a psychopath he would likely wouldn't had started this video, for him this is cap
And i may be fifteen but i am actually interested in psychology so I had some knowledge and this is the conclusion i am currently in
Diagnosed psycho here, just the type of person who clicked this video for research and etc. The term "psychopath" is used to describe someone who is callous, unemotional, and morally depraved. Although not an official mental health diagnosis, it is often used in clinical and legal settings to refer to someone who often is egocentric, antisocial, lacking remorse and empathy for others, and often has criminal tendencies.
For me it is indeed some form of manipulating and lack of empathy for others, naturally my illness was a genetic thing and was passed down to me, i couldn't tell if i was truly unlucky or not. For me living with this felt like chaos rising and falling for the 18 years I've lived. Over time i noticed that i was never able to normally understand basic human emotions and actions. It was only till the emotional supporters I had passed away the condition gotten worse and was left untreated and from what i can remember is that i was never the best child, some even considered me toxic and violent. Basically what I'm saying is that the first top 5 are true about me. I just wish to live a better lifestyle then what it was 10 years ago.
If it helps, I've done a lot of research on psychopathy and autism because my son has both and I really think psychopathy IS autism. You need to learn to express yourself, you need someone to guide you to know what you're feeling inside, you need to accept people who want to help you. Perhaps your emotions weren't validated when you were a child? Many psychopaths/sociopaths think we want to control them when we try to help them, but that's not what we want, we just want to show you something different, something outside your box. Autistic people are rigid. it's hard to open your mind to something else than what you think but it is not your fault.
James Fallone discovered that his brain and that of many prisoners were identical... he concluded that he must be a psychopath, but he never thought it could be the other way around... he's autistic and so are all psychopaths.
@@Cass_772 Psychopath and autism isn't really the same thing but if that's what you think then go off ig. Most of the people I met was looking down on me or giving me the wrong advice, but thankfully I do got one person who helps me out but tbh and she's my best friend, but I tend to wonder off in my own place and mess around just because I want to. My mom could probably yell at me or her boyfriend does and I just kinda stare at them, I would yell depending on the situation. Last year I was very vengeful and had a lot of trust issues. From what I could also remember is that people just can't handle me like they say they can because they're always saying "You're scaring me" or "Are you even human?" Sometimes I feel something toward it but it just kinda brushes off because I'm just like "Ehh". To add the cherry on top is that yes most of my problems comes from trauma and that PTSD caused me to hallucinate sometimes or feel like theirs bugs or a hand crawling on me. I just feel like I am simply not there to fit into reality, I don't feel human because of what all I had to reflect on and realize that I've done. Hopefully you understand something that I at least said.
@@Cass_772 I must disagree with you on psychopathy is autism. I have autism, and while i lacked emotional connections due to childhood influences, i never completely lacked empathy, especially regarding animals. I think it would be safer to say each case is different, different contributing factors and triggers, and while childhood does play a role in the brain's development, so to does early adolescent life. This could be noted especially in cases of autism where social development is often behind the peer age group and that our brains perceive the world differently to neurotypical brains. Been there, lived it, but still managed to stay connected. There are some traits of autism that overlap with other psychological conditions, including narcissism, sociopathy etc... this is why diagnosis from a professional is really important.
Multiple people, figures, identities - these can be attributed to Borderline PD, Schizophrenia, DID, and even indicators of emotional abuse. Some medications can cause these brain anomalies too! Stress can cause autistic splits in personality and meltdowns. There are many things to consider that might be the cause, not just psychopathy. But autism is not the same. Borderline and DID especially create feelings of disassociation which can actually lead to feeling like "multiple people" in one.
@@jason-hs1zq I think given you are self aware of your psychopathy traits and it has been diagnosed already shows you may be able to lessen your ailment, especially if it stems from trauma. From my experiences, most psychopaths are self aware of what they are, but it is what they do with that awareness that speaks the most volumes. Its good that you have some support. Living with any kind of condition that separates you from the norm (what is normal these days honestly?) is hard at best. I hope you find some peace and a better space fr yourself in the future.
@KyuubiNoAstralokk I am autistic too and I am not saying that every autistic person is psychopaths, what I say is psychopathy is a neurodevelopmental condition and I think that it comes from autism, since autism IS a neurodevelopmental condition. Some autistic will be naive, others will be psychopaths. In Hans Asperger's study, he called autism... infantile psychopathic autism...
I studied this condition for 23 years and I crossed the paths of many machiavelic or psychopathic people and they are all autistic, this can't be a coincidence.
The fact is that, in adulthood, autistic traits tend to disappear in psychopathic people, to be replaced by psychopathy or schizophrenia, so they are not diagnosed correctly as autistic. What's more, schizophrenia has its roots in autism.
Psychology/psychiatry has really only been around for 100 years, which isn't very long so we can't assume that we know everything in this field. We're still in the embryonic stage, there's still a lot to learn.
my uncle, with whom I've been living since birth is one very apparent psychopath. i probably started noticing it at the age of 7-8. the way I've seen him act and behave to literally anyone, his general lifestyle, and also him being weirdly different from my father and aunt who had the same upbringing is even scarier why he turned out this way. I've known this behavioural differences from quite a young age and i must admit that he's also the man i am afraid of the most. it's thanks to god how we, as family members, are still alive. just his presence in front of me is enough to make shivers run down my spine.
the unlucky part is, the rest of my family are just a bunch of cowards and don't take any action against all this. i hope i can do something about it once i become an independent adult. till then, i just hope we will remain safe.
Pls update. I'm lowkey worried
@@qistina.3990 Its been only 4 days.....i think he is still alive, but yeah i am also worried about him.i read somewhere that if someone wants to kill you,kill them first.just kidding maybe when become independent., take your family away from that man...
Pls stay safe
I wish u all the luck
Why would ur family take action against somebody just bc ur scared of em?
I want to tell you that you have cleared up a lot for me! Not only is my soon to be X a Narcissist, but I now realize I have also been living with a Psychopath for almost 39 years!! OMG! My eyes have been opened big time. What I thought was our relationship Never really was. It's been all these years tainted by lies, cheating & basically NO love for a very long, long time. He used my mental health issues against me & actually made me much worse. I see the light now. I'm taking my life back & he has already done been kicked to the curb!! This Woman is alive & free again to be ME! THANKS FOR THE INFORMATION. KEEP 'EM COMING...😉🖐
I married one too. Watch Dr Ramani, it helps
i stayed married to one for 24 yrs. my physical and mental health were damaged so badly that i will never be completely recovered. after the divorce, he still walked into my home as if he still lived there. i had to get really tough about that. when he died, i went to his funeral for the sake of our children, but i will never be sorry that the world is rid of him.
Good for you Linda, its never too late to be free. Enjoy the rest of your happy life.
Your son, your husband, hmm, how many else of them u got ? Don't you think that after watching one video on youtube idk maybe you're still incompetent to say what psychopath actually is ? Just a thought
CONGRATULATIONS!!!🎉
Good for you!😄
Try having 2 of them in your immediate family! That is a world of fun. It seriously mucked my head around - thank you mother and sister...
welcome to the family i guess
always control your thoughts
I have 2 as well, a younger sister and a niece that I thought of as a daughter (my oldest brother's daughter.)
My sister's been actively at my destruction for over 35 years, and my niece was at it for about 15. It was especially lovely when they joined forces to destroy me.
At least my niece had limited reach and has essentially moved on.
My sister will never stop.
She has only 2 family members fooled, but they are important family members to me, and she takes every opportunity to play victim with me the bad guy.
Oh, I forgot to mention -- the sister has her own church, and the niece is a psychologist.
Yay for them. Unlimited source of victims at hand.
What I hate about psychopath are when seeing them for what they are, they have most ppl. fooled and others don’t believe you. For the most part I’m hard on ppl. and I usually see many that are psychopaths, but others eat it up and the psychopaths know I see through them and ends up targeting me for it.
I think they see most to be unaware or dumb and why they do what they do bc they can. I think there are more psychopaths than what this video claim and not all are in jail. I’ve met so many psychopaths in my life and I think I see it quickly bc I think they think they have me fooled and I don’t notice. Or maybe I’m also a psychopath and know the game, but I’m not practicing or something made me change but keep those psychopathic skills to protect myself. Not sure if I’m making sense but revenge is a big one for me, but I’ve learn to let it go, but it’s very tempting.
i call the psychopathic advantage, its human nature to think people who are good to you are good people, like in your case people probably think you are the arsehole being sneaky in a friend group and trying to back stab someone even if you are 100% correct and telling the truth, normal humans dont want to see the bad in people so unless pyschos show themselves you are shit out of luck. If you want my advice theres nothing you can do and just protect yourself and stay away from the people you think are psychos
Revenge is one of the most strongest feelings i have felt ever since my childhood.
It is TEMPTING
there’s this one guy i know who is definitely a psychopath. it always seemed like he was playing a game with us and he was a sort of puppet master. he didn’t feel anything. he would cheat,curse,hit people and feel nothing but anger. he would get off on hurting people. he was scary and he still is, if not more now. He was so unhinged and had so many background issues. if i saw him today i’d be scared he would potentially kill me honestly, there’s been a few times where he’s scared me into thinking he would. i’m almost sure he will go to jail for some horrific act. i haven’t talked to him in 2 years tho and i plan to avoid him at all costs. but anyways. be careful out there y’all! you never know, they can be ur sophomore year classmate.
I pray for him
Sounds like Donald Trump! Trump has been diagnosed as a malignant narcissist, but you can tell with his name calling and putting people down he has deep mental problems!
That sounds more like a sociopath that a psychopath though.
It's been two years that I have been looking for you!. I'm banging on your door right now open up!.😈😂
He needs to be locked up, not prayers!!!
Imagine the psychopaths watching this like “yeah, relatable” and thinking we are the weird ones.
Lol I sense that you're from one of those person 👀
im a diagnosed psychopath. yeah, thats basically how it goes. im just watching this wondering wtf life is like for yall
Nothing. If its not causing you to do anything bad. I got admitted to a mental hospital and they diagnosed me then. I do therapy and im doing good. If you start to spiral out, get help.
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A true psychopath will not admit he is one
You were mostly spot on with only two minor exceptions. The assumption about the majority of psychopaths being incarcerated due to their inability to follow rules. I will argue that the majority of psychopaths, being as high functioning as they are, can be found in positions of influence, often times they are the legislators themselves. The other blurred fact is mistaking rules for morals, which I'll refrain from getting into because it's an obviously cliche argument & deviates from the main topic.
No, it's not a clichè argument. Everything that was said is true. I know one personally. From the 13th point to the 1st point describes him
As a diagnosed phycopath most of this is false, it's very interesting to see what the majority of people think of people like me. I do agree with the empathy part but it's true that most even lack the incentive or goal to be criminal. Not all of us are criminals and malicious. This video antagonize phycopaths very much
@@emmytheghost627 I think the title should be changed to low-functioning psychopaths. I’ve known many high-functioning personally, they’re not rare to come by, and they’re not criminals, they’re just very neutral about morality because that part of their brain isn’t active. LSD usually opens them up to the empathy part of humanity though, but it doesn’t last longer than the high provided from it, although it is often remembered to serve as a moral compass for them. At least this is my present understanding through my own personal and educational research.
They dont need to be in a position of influence, they could just make a phone call or unexpectedly show up at ones work and brainwash u right there and then to make u do what they want u to do. Just to ruin people's life
@@SeanMichael1992 there is no such thing as a low functioning and a high functioning psychopath. And no drug can open up any part of the brain to get empathy.
U just have no idea what a psychopath is and u've been fooled
Rings some bells for sure. I had a friend once who was a psychopath.
The worst part about such individuals /methinks is that they demolish the trust in humanity.
Someone falling for a psychopath's fake kind and wholesome behavior (operative being *fake* ), and then falling prey to toxicity, will reject a genuine nice person met later in life, who might've benefited both the ex-victim and the new person.
On a microscopic level, in relation to all of humanity, that is destruction of bonds between people, destruction of society.
Also, the final statement of the video expresses hope that it may have helped one identify themselves as a psychopath. Sorry, but is that even possible? The friend I mentioned in the 2nd sentence once told me, that to be a skilled manipulator one has to convincingly manipulate themselves first.
Yeah your right. I've been subconsciously manipulating myself and others and I put the pieces together after years of searching for why I'm so sporadic and down right confusing but yeah. Your friend put is correct. Found out I'm a psychopath and got diagnosed a few months ago. Nice to put a name to it, the stigma is entertaining to say the least.
I recommend a book called "the language of letting go...a daily meditation for codependents". By melody Beattie. This book changed my life. Some years I read it like a text book. I've been reading it for 25 years. It really changed my life for the better. I quit attracting psychopaths!
I checked the reviews.... Religious solutions n more for AA
Difficult read for atheists n never drinks kind of people
(Even if addiction is what's being addressed, be it AA or codependency)
Difficult for never drinks n atheists to relate to it n keep feeling motivated to read
Would love to read other similar books for codependency though
John 3:16
New International Version
16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
Romans 3:23
New International Version
23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 10:9-10
New International Version
9 If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.
I feel like I'm a psychopath, I hate my friends and my family, they turned me into a very angry person and I just hate life itself, I just can't bare to think that life is about getting a job eating sleeping and repeat. I have thoughts, terrible thoughts. And I was born in November, and they say most serial killers are born in November.
@Aiman Maraidi well, not all serial killers are born in November. It's just you having the killing/insane instinct is the big question.
@Chad Abercrombie remain calm, it's not common having the killing instinct. Probably seek help
I've known one personally. He's my ex. I observed he's well-behaved person in front of others but when we're alone together, he would expressed his true self. He had a worse history of his ex but he's good at covering his fault by telling lies. He often tells others what his ex did to him which is actually he's flipping the story up. Also, he always beat me every single day like he did to his ex's. He extremely hates to make an apology even though it's obviously his fault. He likes to play with feelings and always keeps telling that you're guilty. When sometimes you're afraid to ask for something but you need it, he will get easily offended and throws tantrum against you. I can't tell more because he has all 13 CLEAR TRAITS of a psychopath.
One thing maybe you missed. they are very ungrateful person!
I can relate with u a lot, it's just my brother for me... You know he's 12 year older than me n he's been beating me, blaming me, torturing me ever since i was a kid... He abuses me mentally, physically n emotionally n than acts like it's all my fault.... He always tries to find my fault so that he would beat the hell out of me, n the thing that really shock me is that he's so good in lying n manipulating n disguising.... He acts so sweet with the outsiders n in home he's a true demon... Honestly me n my parents are so done with him.... Yesterday only, he beat me again, he punched me blindly my face was blooded n my eye is all blue n my neck is hurting so u know Idk who would be a more psychopath than him....
@@flame0111 oh God, how old are you? Why don't you complain to someone about him?
@Chad Abercrombie stop doing it
@@flame0111 tell someone
Anger clouds their mind, so they are not grateful for what you have done for them in the past.
Even if you love that person, the moment the " psychopath" gets angry, all those kind actions you did for him, goes out of the window.
Because anger is leading their mind. Vengance. Nothing more.
Then will say " sorry, I said those hurtful words out of anger. But I am really a kind person" type of drama.
Let's call it for what it is: manipulation
These people need deep emotional healing & needs professional mental help consultation.
We cant fix them no matter how loving we are. That's okay.
If you feel you have figured out someone is a psychopath from watching this, don’t go confront the person, please go learn more first, the worst thing you can do is confront one unprepared, if you aren’t just disappearing to get away you better research a good plan!!
I wish you tons of luck 🍀
You 100% right, I confronted my ex and paid big price for it 10 years ago, learned my lesson.
Why is there a need to confront? Not like they gonna change or something, you just gotta drop them from your life
Just walk away. You'll never win .
@@ujjwalchauhan.in. it
Don’t confront it at all. LEAVE.
My brother fit all of the 13 descriptions of a psychopath. It really didn't surprise me.
POV: you're reading comment section and everyone realised that they are in relationship with psychopath since making extreme conclusions about partners isn't actually lack of self awareness anymore, such a poor victims ☹️
What does POV mean?
Point of view
@@someonesdaughter3180 Thank you!
I was neglected and emotionally abused by my narcissistic psychopathic father. Ever since I was young he would yell, berate, and bark orders at me. He would insult and scream at me, calling me a prick at just the age of 9. It got worse, I was never good enough, I was a moron, stupid, he was always angry or disappointed it seemed like. He brainwashed me and manipulated me. He wanted me to be just like him and be his little fucking puppet. He wanted me to feel like a nobody, and I genuinely feel like he wanted to strip away my fun as a youth and I still don’t know why. He was a complete and utter mess to be around and I get tight and just irritated whenever I’m around him now. I just found out from my mom a couple months ago that he is indeed a narcissist with cluster b / psychotpathic traits. He displayed every single one of these traits when I was growing up. To this day, I don’t have a high self esteem even though I have accomplished a good amount in my life and I’m still young, 22 years young. I wish I had a normal ducking family dynamic /childhood. I sometimes get jealous when I see a young kid and he seems to have really happy, loving parents. Not a psychopath as a father.
Don't get jealous, ask God to help you find a real father who is willing to mentor you now. It's not too late!
I hope you can go to talk to a professional who will help you see your worth and to get past what he did to you, you have YOUR own life to live and you must try really hard to make it count for you, go out and find what makes you happy, find real love, believe in yourself let him die, get him out of your system, love yourself, you are worth so very much to everyone else, let him die.
@@victoriousjoy9338 unless you're atheist
If you are living at home, LEAVE! If you don't have a job, look for one, and also attend a two year college. A crash course is fine. Not living in harmony is stressful, and that causes health problems.
Same here bro but may god bless you and dont be upset . Just be happy always 👍🙌
A psychopath wanted me as his trophy. Something felt off, I saw subtle signs but I didn't listen to my heart. He ended up getting a revenge on me that collapsed my life, I was so naive.
The most shocking part is how well he could deceive everyone. He exhibits all these traits...
we literally practice it our wholes lives, we are a walking deception, dont feel bad about falling for it you were never going to win nothing was your fault, be thankful you are out now and never look back
Actually, as a psychopath, I feel like it's great being one, I don't know how to explain this to you, but, it feels amazing to be a psychopath, you can do everything without regretting anything, and its all about smiling is the worst situations that makes me proud. one fact that wasn't told in the video is "psychopaths are totally independent, and they really, like really hate any partners for some reason."
Look man I'll share my opinion as a fellow psychopath as well.
I agree, it does bring you a sort of pride being one. Makes you feel as the apex predator of this world, knowing I am genetically better at manipulating people and getting my way.
Others see it as a curse. It is perfect for me. I don't mind having partners however. A lot of our fellow psycho's have issues with maintaining long-term relationships but that's not the case for me.
Another commenter said "they somehow have a high IQ", and while I do not see IQ as being the objective form of calculating intelligence, I have personally shown marks of high intelligence.
If you can truly relate to me, you will know what the phrase "too intelligent for my own good, It is tiring to see so many idiots running around freely." to it's fullest extent.
Best of luck to you brother. Don't feel ashamed for what you are. Remember there is no objective good or bad, just a matter of perspective. Even the most horrendous of actions are seen in a positive light sometimes.
My narcissistic neighbors, lying in court, to the police,to the manager, anything they can do to me, they do not care, I am extremely disabled and was accused for violent, I cannot pick up a gallon of water, the neighbor fits this profile exactly, I believe God sees everything, their abuse will be their demise...
Went through the same experience. I'm disabled too. My neighbor got the court to issue a warrant for my arrest, after an altercation, which was cooked up by him to get me angry enough to react to his accusations. I spent four days in jail. They dropped the charges, but the court didn't say why or how they reached that decision. I have depression and Ms so I basically cried for four days because I didn't have my medicine and I knew it was unfair he framed me to get paid by his political group.
I have a step son who is a psychopath. Literally for years I tried to help him get a job, pay his fines in court for car stealing and physical assault, but he would never get his life in order, and all his problems were always someone else's fault especially me. He would never be held to account for his actions, even physically assault, and for years he would just free-load on me. To others he is a nice guy, but they do not have to live with him. One day my emotions snapped, and compassion was replaced with a deep seated hatred of him.
Yes bc you had enough and your eyes opened so you could see him for what he was; a MONSTER.
He sounds like a liberal
With all respect, why would your son take responsibility for himself or change his ways when you’ve done everything for him and removed the consequences? You paid his fines for committing crimes. Did his job search for him. Has your son had opportunity to take responsibility for himself or are you always quick with the bail-out? He may deep down resent you for your overprotection and now you resent your son. It’s late, but try a hands-off approach, let him feel the pain of his actions and inaction. In time he may see himself as the problem and may come to respect you. Tough love is a gift. I hope things turn around, if he’s just irresponsible and not hard-wired with psychopathy as you think.
@@lynnohl2526 Not quite like that, but thank you. I have kicked him out of my home three times. But he ends up on the streets. He was given assured accommodation for 18 months, but lost that as he would not pay his rent.
@@malcolmabram2957 Good that you Raised him and now is his turn to take care of himself.Don’t help him otherwise he will destroy your life in return
Just to point out, people with ASPD aren't monsters, theyre people. People with who are just wired different, while yes they do have the tendency to have selfish motivations, it's not necessarily a fault of their own.
So what can be done about it?
So what do you suggest?
@@MajinJustin872 I would suggest those who are qualified to do more extensive research I'm treatment of this. Instead of advising others (while it may be beneficial to the ones trying to protect themselves) to further isolate them. We should look deeper into the root cause of an illness to make a better treatment.
@@tantilist1449 what better treatment is there? What should we do? You act as if you have the answers, so what are they?
@@MajinJustin872 wtf how does he act as if he has answers. He just stated that the ones who are qualified should do more research on treatment.
My kids dad is one and it's scarry the things they do in front of ur face sometimes then denied it
As a fellow empath who has experienced the displeasure of residing with psychopaths, I can't emphasize the importance of evaluating a potential paramour with utmost detail and neutral caution when reaching a decision upon whether to devote yourself to someone. These individuals truly mask their innermost characteristics with such skill in order to deceive you, whilst focusing upon their sinister ulterior motives. If you sense that any malevolent activity may ensue, never resist the opportunity to perform a formal investigation to secure your safety.
Don't become one of their victims as I almost did, and ensure that you enforce you research, both legally, intellectually and virtuously.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
I've come across a dangerous psychopath who's anti social too. All the points are true for him. Thank you so much for confirming my doubt.
Two types of anti social, psychopath and sociopath. Lone wolf please research what the connection is. Every psychopath is diagnosed with anti social personality disorder.
Thankyou, Mr. Romney.
And your name lone wolf? What are you trying to imply about yourself?! Oo
run while you can dude.
@Chad Abercrombie omg 😆 you posted that comment somewhere else stop trying to get attention and response from people. Someone already explained that your probably not one. 😂 and especially when it was a person who works in that field
Dang!
I had no idea I was married to a psychopath. According to my therapist he is a narcissist. This video confirms he is both. Yikes. I am praying for humanity.
Thank you God for WAKING ME UP!
To anyone going through this, I pray you break free like me. It may be hard and scary, but choose YOU. This is YOUR LIFE. Don’t let unstable, ornery beings dictate you mental health or human experience. Sending blessings to you!
Sending loving energy everyone’s way! Namaste y’all!
Namaste ❤
It was that "Namaste y'all" that killed your comment for me.
@@peterandreadakis3851 ...& it’s your judgement that makes me laugh. Have fun attracting that into your life! 😉
therapists arent suppossed to critique or judge anyone except the person who does the therapy..!(since they dont know the person one on one, plus extremely unprofessional), you might wanna find someone else dear, she wont have her license for too long
@@tiktalk4573 well it was while him and I were in couples therapy and the reason he stopped going. He didn’t like the diagnosis. LOL... typical narcissist behavior. He literally proved her right! Super eye opening for me. I’m extremely grateful! Also, she was a therapist we saw together for months. She’s actually wonderful. She saved me in ways I didn’t know I needed saving. I’d recommend her to anyone who needs one!!
You should learn to not assume you know all the facts from a person’s life based off of a comment you found on CZcams.
Hmm... What’s that saying about when you assume..
Sending you some loving energy! Since we are interconnected I like to put that frequency out there with all the low vibrational energy lurking!
I've experienced being harmed by a sociopath it only takes you a few days to realize their dark side as they act nice to people with more power/popularity and treat the ones they already know badly and tear them apart.
Most of the time you'll never be able to get back at them....
I know I wasn't able to-
Dude nailed it with the description
The video is on point, usually a psychopath will also take all measures to isolate you from the ones that love and care about you. It does take time till they decide to make this move depending on how much you obbey to their needs if you don't they'll isolate you
Yes.I know from experience,sadly.Lost so much.And this person comes out as full of charm.Makes me feel sick.Doesn't think they did anything wrong.The mental pain caused to me & mine will never go away.I lost so much due to feeling sympathy for this person.
@@susanmccormick6022 Healing is possible. You just need to give IT time, realizing that the person has hurt you îs a great motivator to move on and start healing. I smell psychopath very easily now and know how to deal witj the ones I have to deal.
When I was a kid, I grew up going to church (I’m no longer religious) and we got a new preacher. He was a younger guy, very lively and charismatic individual. Always full of energy and constantly smiling at people, just an abundance of energy. I always enjoyed getting to hang out and play sports with him. As I got older and became a teenager, we became closer friends, even though there was a little bit of an age gap. I slowly but surely started picking up on certain patterns I recognized in him. He always wanted to be praised and the center of attention. If we were ever around someone that didn’t look up to him, it’s like he seemed very uninterested and had an immediate negative opinion of that person. I started having mixed feelings about our friendship. I just always felt nervous in his presence, like I needed to act a certain way and needed to impress him, I can’t even explain it. I started seeing how he interacted with people but then he was a COMPLETELY different person when nobody was around. Don’t get me wrong, we all do a ‘fake laugh’ out of courtesy here n there, but it was disturbing how he would switch from great loving and caring person to just zero interest in anyone else’s welfare once we were alone. He always always ALWAYS had to be right and win any kind of argument/debate. If you called him out on something and he was stuck in a corner or caught in a lie, he would aggressively ramble nonstop in defense for 2-3 hours straight (I am not exaggerating!). One time, he made a fake Facebook page and started messaging me as if it was a messenger from ‘God’. I found a note in my car and it was a ‘letter from god’. It was all in his handwriting of course…. When I finally brought it up to him, he denied it all and said maybe someone was trying to set him up. A couple years later, he befriended another guy my age, and the exact same story happened to him! He received a ‘letter from god’ as well. I feel like I could literally talk about different stories for hours. I was young and naive but now that I’m older, I have no doubt he was a psychopath. We all have our pros and cons as humans but I’ve never know anyone like this person. I cut off all communication a few years ago and always wondered if he would MAYBE apologize to me, but I don’t think he’s capable of that. My one bit of advice, always be weary of people that seem to be too good to be true right away. There are good people out there, but the ones who love to be seen and praised are the ones you gotta look out for. I haven’t talked to this individual in years but there’s still some post traumatic stress I carry with me to this day I feel like because of him.
I can relate to your story.
Did you have to write a book?
@@stevewheatley243 Cry about it. Is reading hard for you? Reading books is very enjoyable if you do it more frequently.., it just gets easier and easier! ;)
@@Glimmmerra If I wanted any lip from you I'd rattle my zipper.😏
Did you report him to police and to Church officials ..do you have a Lawyer
This is very Pychotic behavior on his part no matter how he be guils a bunch of ppl
He still frightened you and scared you
He impeaded your growth marginizledyour religion and offered you no sactification as a religious leader.
He is not only a Pychotic but a true Cultic with Boarder line Personality disorder
Using God this way to control ppl is wrong hugely Cultic he has a Boaderline personality
He is dangerous you need to report him for the sake of others .
I wish you well Im sorry he scared you
It is important to note that psychopaths are extremely deceptive so they often present themselves as being law abiding, responsible, caring & nice.
@Chad Abercrombie Watch more videos you might find out more.
And here I always pegged myself as more of a slight sociopath… I don’t feel sympathy or empathy, not even when my children would get hurt in whatever fashion (something my psychologist seemed to find unsettling by his expression and body language). I’ve always been easily bored and do whatever I feel like to alleviate said virgin no matter what it is and I’ve always had this knack for manipulating people to get what I want. I don’t do it all the time, but I know when I’m doing it and it’s always intentional. And revenge… Oh yeah, that’s always my go to. But I always thought psychopaths could mimic emotions they don’t feel and that’s something I can’t do. I understand the concept of the emotions, I just don’t have them and can’t mimic them. However, when I’m in a social situation, I can be the little social butterfly. I hate it, but it must be done… Now this video me wondering if I’m actually a psychopath and not a sociopath. Thanks…
psychopaths were born psychopaths but sociopathy is kinda learned. So just think about if you dont remember feeling empathy at all or if you did at one point or went through something.
@@noididntlmao early childhood trauma causes all malfunctions. Or even Fetal distress and early childhood trauma cause many types of mental disorders. Ultrasounds are very distressing to the sensitive nerve endings of the developing fetus. If you get a few of those during your pregnancy you are developing anxiety in the child. If you circumcize your infant, chances are great that they will have a mental disorder. Vaccine injuries often cause learning disabilities that make the child act out in combative ways. If this becomes a lifestyle norm than they will be combative adults. The psychopath is created by a series of poor decisions on the part of the parents.
@@libbyhicks7549 Perhaps that is true, but this is also true -- psychopathy can be inherited. I studied it for awhile and also the Bible says, "The wicked are ESTRANGED FROM THE WOMB; they go astray AS SOON AS THEY BE BORN, speaking lies..." Inherited!!!!
You are everything but nothing good ! Its sad and bad for youre kids lots people copy parents behavier !
They say about 1/100 people is a psychopath. So it’s almost impossible to not be in close proximity with at least a few psychopaths during your life. It’s very likely that one of your neighbors or acquaintances is a psychopath.
Exactly
It's much more prevalent than 1 out if hundred. It's more like about one out of every 8 or nine persons. You can verify ...They are everywhere ..I live in low income housing ,Sec8 ,and most of them are that or have those traits. They will prey upon you in a sends
This is true- my biological mother is a psychopath and she's currently dying. We're not doing a funeral. Some people just fill up space, sad to say.
Omg. I thought my ex was a narcissist. Now I understand, I was dealing with someone much more insidious. I am changed forever. I truly hope I can heal from this trauma.
We all know one and some of us know a few psychopaths. They don't have to be criminals, either. When what people say and what people do, don't match ... that's your first clue. Heed it and remember you can't fix someone who doesn't think they are broken.
No you don’t😂an actual diagnosed psychopath isn’t a common occurrence. I assure you you more than likely have not met one and certainly not multiple. If you have met one, you wouldn’t be able to know they are one from normal everyday interaction..
@@CDA843 I'm 69 yrs old and I've been around the block...please don't tell me what I do or don't know. I'm not talking about someone I MET I'm talking about someone I KNOW.
@@tonithenightowl1836 and..? So because you’re 69 years old that somehow gives you the ability to somehow magically diagnose an individual on whether or not they’re an actual psychopath? I’m 27 and I’ve ‘been around the block’ myself thanks. Still doesn’t give us a doctorate degree in Psychology/Neuropathy or anything at all in regards to whether or not someone is a Psychopath.
But yeah I guess you just KNOW somehow. Must’ve been some block you’ve been around👍🏽
@@CDA843 It's called the block of life. Live long enough and you see all kinds of personality disorders. These people are not mentally ill, this is learned behavior. Most mentally ill people who take their meds lead normal lives. Those who don't usually end up doing jail time or self destruct. We have all run across pathological liars, manipulators and narcissistic people who never bring anything positive to the table....unless it's going to benefit them later on.
This describes my ex to a T! Particularly the pathological lying, the constant boredom and gaslighting. I thought he was a narcissist, after learning so much about narcissism, but I believe he may be both. He had an inflated ego & far fetched delusions of grandeur.
You are saving lives by spreading awareness.
Thank you!
@@PsychologyElement I meant to write you ARE. That was a typo . I'm typing on my phone. Yiu are helping people seer danger.
@Ryan John I am going to stay far from all known psychopath and that is my right. No need to take chances with EVIL! Psychopaths can not love another so why stay near them?
When you have to be around these type of sick people, ie coworker, neighbor, inlaw ect for reasons you cannot avoid right away, you learn to adapt.
It has to be subtle, and you must have some type of outside support to insure your safety, even if it means financially, or have an otherwise escape plan or LE contact to consult.
It's like some of these types "target" you, or those you love in a way that is obvious but only to you. It looks like jealousy but is a deeper issue.
And bullying is bullying.
It's quite sinister at times, too.
There should be laws to protect people from them but often, they know just how far to go or how to make you look like the bad guy.
Thanks for the information.
@@tinyvr7036 👍 Yes this is great information to have. Many people would be alive today if they did not under estimate how dangerous these twisted people truly are.
Let's not forget that the biggest payouts in the markets don't come from great performances but rather it's great promotions. Stay invested, diversification for streams of incomes is very important And with the right skills and proper understanding of how the market works.
Just imagine retiring as a registered nurse, using all your income/salary to pay rent and tax without any good investment or means of extra cash, tending to leave your profession/job that has been part of you for many years with no good funds. How will you cope?
This is actually what most families are going through, tax and rents takes almost what they got monthly, leaving them with no savings
That's why we need to plan ourselves via making extras in all we do because depending on paycheck that can give us our comfort and peace till we die is not guaranteed
I'm a nurse and I saw all this coming, so l've planned myself so I engaged in forex trading, little I know about the business though but so far so good, Forex trading has been my very means of savings lately while my salary goes for bills and utilities
Despite the huge drop in crypto and fx, I still make good withdrawals. I don't believe that profit making is not possible despite the drop in stocks when you got good mentorship
I have met someone who was a sociopath or psychopath. One trait you're missing is high intelligence and greed. The part about lack of respect for the rule of law is because of their impulsive behaviour. That one person wasn't malicious it was more of like a naivety of their wrong doing. I would say "that's not honest, that's not right" and they would look at me confused. It was creepy how detached they were to their morality, they only thought about the action, but not the consequences.
Yeah, this trait is very beneficial in business. I am also exactly like that. You should also know that not all of us have the intelligence and ability to premeditate, but greed is very common.
1) As long as laws are on my side, I follow them, if on my way, just break them
2) Charm and charisma, true, I always wear a mask in society that is why I get bored of people so quick, it is tiresome and go to my solidatry quickly,
3) Pathological lying, yes, I always/mostly think that I am right and might lie for many reasons to reach my goal,
4) Small range of motions, true, a) Happiness : Only material gains or illegal substances or excitimg sex are my source of happiness. The rest, I could care less. 2) Sadness, Fear and Anxiety : Nope, we interpret all above mentioned feelings as level of anger. You just feel anger. 3) Anger : All the time. Mostly you mask it in order not to cause any risk to your goals but when you cannot, it is just pure anger (me attacking 10 cops just for loosing it due to their injustice. You just get blinded by it)
5) Lack Emphaty, Callous, true, I always think that pople are fakely being nice to others when they show empathy cause I just cannot even pathom how you can relate to another human's feelings. If we are close such as neighbours (I have no friends cause I dont believe in friendship but I briefly socialize with many if necessary with ease) and heard you lost a loved one all I know is that it is bad thing for the one and say I am sorry my condolences. That is it. No feeling at all. In fact I might find that crying pathetic and laughable but would never mention it of course. Same applies for physical pains. Callous, very true, it is either my way or the high way, I could careless who feels what in the process
7) Impulsive, extremely true, I am extremely bored most of the time and risky criminal behaivours or spontaneous sex or illegal subtances put me immediately in a good mad. It is just like normal world is just too boring and you need to replace it with your fantasy world in order to be happy. I was fired from all Jobs I had and created my own law firm and become successful. Team work? You better beat me to a pulp!
7) Bullying and Abusing, true, you do that even to your own family for whatever goal you are after. I do gaslighting mostly to manipulate a person who is not intelligent at all and in my circle to direct her to the correct way. For that, I do various shades of conv8ncing tactics from lighter ones to the hurshers, repeat if necessary cause they cannot learn quick and after it is true that guilt or remorse felt but anger towards that person for being not the brightest color in the shade.
Acting lile a victim over caught immoral actions, true, cause I strongly believe that I am more special and much superior from the majority of people. So, if I do something wrong, it is society's fault as they pushed me for that action and not my! True that I would deny everything I am accused of even if I caught red handed. Why would I make their job easier against my favor!
Blaming others, of course, that is a given.
Acting superior, I believe I am superior and naturally act that way!
Manipulation, as I said above, you keep wearing a mask which is tiresome. To me, humans are just viruses, insects.
Multiple partners, short relationships, very true, everybody and relationship lose its' exciting side very quickly and fade away. Therefore, staying in the same relationship feels like hell. I get bored too quick.
Revenge, the sweetest feeling. If I cannot take my revenge against a person who wronged me, It would bother me for decades and I would still look for ways to get even but I deliberately wait to gettings cooled down!
The few questions I have about psychopaths are :
- what is the "objective" of a psychopath ? (why do they manipulate people, what are they looking for by doing this)
- are they aware of how bad of a person they are, that what they do is morally bad etc. ?
- what is the status of psychopathy (disease, mental illness, something you have in your genes, sth linked to a childhood trauma...) and can a psychopath recover from it / have a therapy or some medicaments that can help stopping their behavior
- do you become a psychopath or are you one from birth ?
thanks to whoever can answer one of these questions :)
If you have heared about neuroplasticity make a research.Someone can change but its not up to you or them. All you have to do is do not blame them for being bad,thats what they choose to be,with or without knowing it.Their brain has not normal parameters like a normal person.They may look normal at some point and their logic for doing bad things make excuses about them being right.Their interest is about them at first place or sometime they lack smth and try to fill it by taking care or sacrificing to much of themselfs 'for you' and in return they prison you to fullfill their wishes forever.I mean these people should be taken seriously , they will never show who they are ,they want you to play their game where they win and you loose.This is their engine.Where they want to go with this ?? Nowhere.They just dont know, they hate healthy reasoning.
Becoming a psychopath mainly comes from a traumatizing childhood with that said that's why they have no remorse and another thing being is killing small animals like cats to see them struggle on the break of death and they usually get bored after killing small animals and wanna take it up a notch and start killing people but hay you might be talking to one rn
@Rudra sharma Okay, your answers make it clearer, thanks !
@@izabelhatel783 Ok, thank you
As an introvert I have issues when people bully me or tell lies about me.
When this period of frustration goes on for decades or five years, the person gets restless.
I'm a hyper sensitive person and I do experience sadness.
But I do like revenge.
Revenge is a way to get justice.
And when one meets more and more people who don't fall under their value systems they get more angry.
I do experience anger.
Two prominent reasons for a normal person to become a psychopath is bad childhood or bad adult life.
When everything is lost people become mad and become psychopaths.
If the society had been more intelligent then there won't be such large numbers of psychos.
It's the relatives, peers, friends and family that create a pssycho.
I am extremely manipulative. I went to therapy and my therapist said I show no sign of psychopathic behavior. I simply know there’s something wrong with me but I don’t know what it is. I’ve manipulated people subconsciously and consciously. Do I feel like a piece of shit? Of course. But sometimes I feel like I have to for whatever interest I have. Not being in power or not being in control scares me, it drives me insane. (It’s not ambition) not even close. Whoever is reading this, please. Tell me what could be wrong with me. I need help. I want help.
This sounds like me. I have a natural on/ off switch which I can use if I need to manipulate people. I usually refrain from using it because it makes me a bit guilty. But when I do use my manipulative skills, it is because I have no other foreseeable choice in the situation. It usually happens because I know that I must do so in order to achieve some goal of mine. And keeping on top of my goals and plans gives me a sense of control of my life (even though I know life is generally chaotic and uncontrollable, I must do what I can do survive).
I don't know if there is anything WRONG with you... it might just be something that comes to you naturally and when you need it. To analyze my own manipulation, I usually read and interpret the people who I am meant to impress - understand who they are as a person, and what they will value in others, then replicate the behavior they will like. Sometimes my act is so convincing that even I am convinced it is the truth - and that is the scary part. Sometimes you can lose who you actually are in the act.
Nowadays I am too tired to play the social game so I just don't interact with people unless I have to. It's a tiring process, manipulation. Sometimes I wonder if I should go back to using charisma, but then I just feel bad when I do use it.
It might be something to do with your personality as well. For a reference, I am an INTJ, 5w6, 513.
My experience is they know when they can get away with it and who they have to look good in front of to maintain their social standing. Totally agree with #3, by midlife they have become professional manipulators. You will notice that things aren't quite right, they don't have the professional skills they should, they can't delagate tasks, they can't maintain relationships with suppliers, they have temper tantrums and they want to talk about personal matters and get chummy with you so you find them likeable.
The really good ones manipulate others into doing the risky tasks.
A good wake up is to research the Coburg Saxe-Gothe family in the last 4 centuries. The question unanswered was it inherited or learned.
I believe it can be learned. Most people have the gene. It may be one of those that unlocks according to environment.
You learn from your environment.
For those that you feel uncomfortable about when you 1st meet someone. Trust your instincts.
Dogs are real good at this.
WE? Get away with what? People did this to us trough a process of continuous torment untill we couldnt feel anymore.
I know exactly what you mean. My boss fits the exact description you gave. Blows my mind. I'm desperately trying to find a way out of that horriblly toxic mess.
@@danielbusiness1135 you probably should find a psychiatrist to help you, if it's possible, before you hurt any more people.
@@mariagricius8994 Stay strong, keep your head down and look for a job. Write down the warning signs and avoid putting yourself under someone like that again. You'll be happy again. I got a new job and I can't beleive how happy I am now.
When you're getting gaslighted remember to breath deeply, it puts more oxygen into your brain and will keep you calm. It's a valuable skill to have in any workplace.
Wow. I cant believe he scored 100. I had been rationalizing why Abunyim acted the way he did for two years without any remorse. I came here already suspecting he could fall into the category. I just did not expect him to be a blueprint.
Arigato for these insights.
Is it just me or do the labels of narcissist, sociopath and psychopath get quite blurry at times. To me the differences lie in the following markers. Pure narcs are not generally violent and have primarily social emotional supply strategies. Sociopaths have even more limited emotional range and therefore have very stark jumps between one end of their emotional spectrum and an other making their social situations far more precarious and their lives far more desperate. I feel sorry for sociopaths. And psychopaths are far more regulated internally, less spontaneous and feed their egos and emotions more indirectly. This is just off the top of my head and I would like to see a more insightful summary.
Dr Ramani made a video about the difference between these three types.
@@chadabercrombie6860stop typing this and trolling please move on and entertain yourself somewhere more productive silly Billy
I’m not sure if it was Dr Ramandi where I heard a psychopath is always a sociopath but a sociopath is not necessarily a psychopath. From reading psychological text books I read mostly psychopaths receive gratification from causing pain.
@@melissawalker7570 thanks. I heard socio and psychopaths always have narcisitic traits. People that enjoy causing others suffering for its own sake are sadists. I think psychopaths are motivated by goal accomplishment with no sense of remorse or empathy
Interesting video, in mental health units you won’t really hear staff use the term “psychopath” very often though and more likely the term “a person with high a psychopathy score” which refers to a PCL-r score which is a clinical tool used to measure some of the traits you’ve talked about in the video. Often psychopaths are really keen to tell others that they are a psychopath and people sometimes think it’s counter-therapeutic for staff to refer to them as a psychopath. Also remember “traits” and “states” we all might sometimes have traits like the ones described but less likely to be within a permanent state of this.
Thank you for this comment I was thinking that many if not all people have these traits to some degree or another throughout a life time that doesn't mean your a
Psychopath.
@Chad Abercrombie If you mean that you score on 13 factors on a PCL-r even if you scored 2 on each factor then you would score 26 which would be below the cut off point for psychopathy
Very true
Changing terminology does not mean changing the diagnosis. A psychopath will always be a callous, cruel, remorseless manipulator no matter which term is used to describe them.
The best quality I have as an INFJ is that I understand if a person is a psycho or not .and I becomes a better actor to use their power on themselves as their weakness. Thank goodness
You yourself sound like one ngl
An INTJ here, wondering if I have psychopathic or sociopathic tendencies. Must say, the stereotypes of our types does often make it seem like we do have some of these traits. It's interesting to see how some of these psychopathic/ sociopathic traits are what I envision as my 'dark side' - basically what I fear may happen to me if I lost everything... might turn to the darker traits which I know I am capable of. Tend to not like these traits because of my morals, but well if I discard them one day it's not going to be good.
In college I learned that those who wanted to study others mental states needed the most help. Those people
Made this video.
Spot on! I spent 22 years with one. He was very popular and charming. They are great at fooling everyone. I have two sons with him and was terrified they may turn out like him. They are nothing like him. My greatest joy are my sons.
My EX and many of his friends. They recognise the sameness in each other and treat others in the same disregarding way. Bullies with smiles and charm and pride in getting away with it.
You just described my ex-wife to the letter!... there should be a book just written just about her. I meet a lot of people in my life, but none like her, and hope I never do again! She's truly one for the books.
This is my husband of 20 years living together
He went hellbent on destroying me when I finally found out about his secret life
He goes through all means necessary to not expose his secrets that he’s spent his whole lifetime hiding from everyone. I became enemy #1 to no relief
This is probably why some psychopath need an early detection symptoms before it's too late. My mom was married to a guy that secretly has an affair with other man and always getting a huge debt from some dangerous people but my mom was persuaded to pay it and one time he did a domestic violence towards my mom and I still remember how it looks. It really scares me when those dangerous people actually came to my house and act really like about to kidnap me if the debt aren't get payed. Good thing that they are divorcing and I'm living with my mom really far away from him. I pray for those that facing tough time.
@@chadabercrombie6860 Seek help from a trusted psychologist. Good luck!
@Chad Abercrombie Come to Jesus and him him for deliverance the power of God word can truly change your heart and you renew your mind ❤️
Psychopaths aren't immediately criminal.
If you lay down in your bed, cry intensely, eating your blanket, trying to kill yourself because your partner forgot your anniversary day, then you're literally a psychopath too.
So you see, SOME psychopaths don't mean to do criminal stuff.
You sure? Doesn’t sound like any I know
@@liberty3 I’m talking about them they are projecting obviously
You can’t say someone is a psychopath based on one trait, so you’re absolutely wrong on this. Doing that one thing doesn’t make them a psychopath because there are multiple other criteria. That type of behavior could be any number of things.
What’s certain is that you’re incredibly ignorant for saying such nonsense.
@@kieransoregaard-utt8 What's certain is that you did not get the example and nevertheless tend to answer.
@@amber1384 False. What’s certain is that you have no clue what you’re talking about and should not comment again until you do.
Evil spirits play a big role to them also.Aside of their mental illness,they're also inspired by the evil spirits.
@Silas Snowberger How do you know?
Possession is very real, and more common than many could even imagine.
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I wish I could have watched this ten years ago and been aware of the things that can happen. I pray for everyone that is going through this. May God find you and give you peace.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
Now, I'm certain. The callous young cousin of mine is a psychopath. I knew it, something just seems off. Now, he had done damage in my life, I'll fix this and I'll make sure that he'll get to face the consequences of his actions.
Just stay away from him
what?
No let it go....these folks are very good at flipping the script on you. Besides in order to do that you would have to stoop to his level.
What did he do?
You missed one, that psychopaths think they know everything about psychopath's without ever considering themselves a psychopath.
You start out well talking about how they blend in, but then fall into th trap of mainly focusing on sociopathy (factor 2 psychopathy) instead of psychopathy (factor 1 psychopathy) that so many videos fall into. The distinctions between the two is important, and explains why psychopaths tend to blend in with society, doing maximum damage, while sociopaths make up a good percentage of the prison population. I think people are well acquainted with sociopathy, it would be really great if videos could be made specifically about psychopathy and not confusing the two.
Exactly. Lots of this info describes sociopaths
As a psychopath i can confirm this is 💯 correct
A few years ago, i had identify these points on my siblings; pathologic liars, manipulating, and revenge. And they are more abusive as we grow old. And they also have sociopath traits combined. Thats why i have to keep distance from them.
Good 👍
Oh! WOW! OMG!
This described my 2 middle sisters & my mother perfectly. I always thought that there was something "hinky" about them & the way that they behave.
This also described my neighbour a few doors down from me who befriended me. I told her that I wanted nothing more to do with her. I told her that I was fed up with her games & her lies & her racist attitude & her criminal behaviour & her trying to antagonized me all the time
( she's just like my sisters & mother ).
Now she is now waging war on me & manipulating others to do her dirty work & play acting "victim".
17 of 50 Never Ending Community Fences.
I was rooting for ya...
TY
Move!
Makes you just sit in wonder how they come up with this stuff. Like how does a brain even become that devious?
I'm truly confused.
Are you actually aware of what's going on or are you trying to play both sides ?
Calamity Jane and jamming again pfft...
And they call the Filth on a Sting !
This is YOUR bill their running up !
What happens now ! How do you walk out of this now ? I was your ticket out ! They are your ticket in ! You support them ! You can't play both sides ! They WILL DESTROY YOU you NEED TO HELP ME STOP THEM !
THEY TRAP ME WHEN MY GUARD WAS DOWN, I'm out of ideas and your the smart ones apparently peep peep peep !
If your not already there go take a look at how happy she is 💡
Ohh I forgot
Lord give strength
REC (Dead)
Is not the brother of
WTC is he ?
Tell me that's not true because that would pretty much be the icing on the cake !
Another thing is a lot of people who are into Beauty and being the most popular person is usually the most narcissistic and psychopathic, they're always concerned about their looks and they always want to make you feel down and out from Envy or from trying to keep pushing your buttons or from neglect.
I was married to a psychopath and didn't even realize it. I knew that he was narcissistic. When I made my choice to dump him clear he blamed my family and say they talked me into it and threatened to hurt them. I made the Choice on my own. He played the victim and of course I was in the wrong despite his cheating, his lies, and abuse.
Wow!
My boss is a psychopath.
That explains a lot.
You guys really think a psychopath that is cold and heartless, without any warm emotions is dangerous? Hah, is not. They can be easy detected and avoided (probably not easy to stop)
The real evolved and unbreakable stone is when you meet psychos with high emotional intelligence and emotional filter, with heart living empathy, that they use to their deceptive advantage.
Those are the danger... This video is like representing the 1960 psycho.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 Love this comment a million times over!!! Very true!
@@klickingkayasmr7585 ty
This.
You understand the difference then? That not all of us are to be feared or shunned? I hope so, you make it seem like you know a thing or two. I try to emulate normalcy but at times it feels boring. I feel... numb, I guess?
Anyways, thanks for breaking the ice. I try to have empathy but everything I do just boils down to logic. Is it right or is it wrong, can it be or can it not be, that kind if thing. I feel more akin to a graphing calculator than to a person lol
wouldnt that make them no longer psycho. just murderers
@@erytisal133 right, but the manipulation of the heart to achieve their goal, is internal psychopathy.
I mean, I think it's dangerous to stay around someone who uses strong feelings of love (which can be felt, not faked) only to achieve a purpose, like using a person, or other deviant acts etc.
Because the best deceptive camouflage in this society are true human feelings, not only the empty image of them.
Amazing video! It is very informative and helpful! The only problem is that Norman Bates in the thumbnail is not a psychopath, he actually suffers from the Dissociative Identity Disorder. I know it's just a thumbnail, but I felt the need to point out this small detail.
Shit! I'm scared
Shit! I'm scared
Shit! I'm scared
Shhit! Im scared
Norman Bates is also a fictional character .. a script written for a movie is not a reflection of real life .. 🤯
Robert Hare, who did an extensive 25-year study on psychopaths determined at the end of his study that only a tiny percentage of psychopaths are in prison because most psychopaths aren't caught.
This is spot on! I married one and survived it because of my Faith. He moved on to someone else so easy to manipulate. He needs to be on the criminally insane ward!!! Dangerous to himself & anyone around him!!!
THANK YOU immensely for covering this issue. It is overarching all the today's problems in our societies.
Yeah most of the people in prison suffer from mental illness and learning disabilities. A high percentage suffer from drug and alchole addiction and were physically and sexually abused as children. Most criminals that show psychopathic traits are really confused with sociopatholodgy. Meaning that these criminals exibit learned behavior and defense mechanisms from there own abuse and traumas that they suffered from the hands of others. Others must be intoxicated and or motivated by addiction to commit there crimes. On the otherhand there are many more psychopaths that are highly intelligent people that enforce the law and or hold these criminals accountable for there crimes. 9 times outta 10 psycopaths are way to smart to get caught and get sent to prison alive. 9 times outta 10 its the cop with an itchy trigger finger or the prison guard that assaults and kills more people behind the facade of enforcing justice than any of the criminals that are in prison. My point is that psycopaths are everywhere they are just more easily unidentifiable once they have been busted for a crime
This.
Well I work in prison in germany for mentally ill prisoners. The problem with the vidoe and with the comments is that people mix up simple assholes with a psychopath. The level of evilness is way higher then just some asshole you met in your life that manipulated you or lied, cheated or hurt you. You are also wrong by saying that high percentage of criminals were physically or sexually abused. A lot of them just simply love the lifestyle of not caring and taking what they want. Anyways they are just humans as you and I are and people often forget that. If you ask me every human is a psychopath if you give them the "right" reason in their minds to be one. For example if your child gets killed and tortured and you had the chance to do the same thing to the torturer without any consequences you would do it. The difference is just that the reasons "psyhopath" do what they do are often not really understandable for most people. But they are also just simple humans and every human on the planet has the potential to be a psychopath. So please stop acting like they are another species or some monsters that are walking around unidentified and doing damage. You want to see a psychopath? Then just get up and look in the mirror. Look deeply in your own eyes and you can see the darkness of your soul. Everyone has the potential to be a monster. You know you also have very dark thougths when you are angry on someone. Evernyone has. In the end it is simply our decisions that makes us kind human beeings or vicous monsters.
@@outsourcing2004 not everyone has the potential to be a psychopath. To be psychopathic you need some sort of traumatic experience within the first 5 months of your life. But I certainly agree everybody has the potential to become a monster.
Yeah, it's really sad. Some people were just born at a disadvantage like that. I'm a lucky one though. Or at least, my parents are. I had abusive parents, they beat us and were constantly abusing substances. We never had money and I've been depressed my whole life. But somehow, I turned out mostly fine. It's crazy how the human brain works sometimes
F’ peeps it’s nice to know I’m not alone! Thanks to everyone for sharing your experiences!
my "farts" seem to have psychopathic traits...
disregard for others, knows no boundaries, starts off charismatically but leaves a bad taste in your mouth, etc.
May The Farts Be With You.
I love you. 😂😂💀
Consider yourself lucky...
*laughs in diarrhea*
You should watch Salty cracker, you'd fix right in ......the crowd
Whew, sounds like an ex. Glad I got out intact. When we broke up I had a bad feeling and was terrified of getting my ex mad, so I avoided anything that would cause anger. I felt this person was capable of doing damage without realizing it was psychopathy. My entire relationship was fake and I was gaslighted the entire time.
. . . .realising . . . .
Adderall addiction seems to bring all these traits out in a relative. So much better off that horrible drug.