Biblical Proof You Never Should Tell People What You're Up To (some things should be secret)

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  • čas přidán 26. 06. 2024
  • This is why Christians shouldn't tell everyone what they are to with the Lord and should keep their secret prayer life private with the Lord so that God can reward them for honouring Him.
    A Christian video by Joe Kirby from Off the Kirb Ministry.
    #motivation #Christianinspiration #Christianmotivation

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  • @offthekirbministries
    @offthekirbministries  Před měsícem +123

    If you want to see my video on gossip, click here: czcams.com/video/GqY5z1jdc9A/video.htmlsi=uZu11IZb_0SESeGl

    • @tylermorgan8201
      @tylermorgan8201 Před měsícem +11

      Could you cover how to handle others who take the lies as truth with zero effort to hear from the other side? It is not the liar but the followers of the liar that I struggle to understand.

    • @QuestionMarc316
      @QuestionMarc316 Před měsícem +9

      *thank you Joe! † I think the Lord will guide your video content if you listen! & You DO! **_so if Bible verses fit then put it in! No matter 1 verse or 100, your overall message is ALWAYS CRUCIAL & will reach those that GOD ALONE determines & designs!_** you ALWAYS have my support*
      ☯️ Much, much ♥️ & RESPECT! You are APPRECIATED! 🙏G0D † BLESS!
      Oh, another thing to avoid is representing, supporting or spreading _false or unproven theories & doctrines!_

    • @Acb.1233
      @Acb.1233 Před měsícem +3

      Watching from Namibia

    • @Acb.1233
      @Acb.1233 Před měsícem +5

      I am still struggling with keeping quiet. Thank you for the message.

    • @momykk
      @momykk Před měsícem +4

      Thanks Brother 👍

  • @trav7424
    @trav7424 Před měsícem +423

    Lord help me keep my mouth shut!! Seriously.

  • @caromoinemtouz1379
    @caromoinemtouz1379 Před 17 dny +77

    Lord, please help me to be quiet and wise and be able to keep my mouth shut and accomplish all my life’s dreams without any distractions and anyone apart from my family not knowing about my work until one day they see the fruits of my labour and dedication 🙏

    • @wvglitter7761
      @wvglitter7761 Před 16 dny +2

      Distractions have been working overtime in recent weeks. 🙏

  • @mollygraves5558
    @mollygraves5558 Před 20 dny +132

    Complaining is a big one for me. I say, "I'm tired," so often that it just almost slips out of my mouth every time I open it. Complaining about my stress or how much I have to do, how much money I have to spend, how much money I don't have, stress about the future - we tend to just focus on all the negatives in life, anxious people like me. I want to stop this and focus on all my blessings and how God has given me an able body that may hurt at times, but is still fully functional and able to do His work!

    • @jancollard7169
      @jancollard7169 Před 17 dny +2

      I have a friend who likes to complain, she says it makes her happy! How does it make you feel? When I told her I used her as an example, she complains less!

    • @RemediesFarm
      @RemediesFarm Před 16 dny +3

      Amen. I have gotten a little better, but still have a long way to go. God help me!

    • @charmainerichter6954
      @charmainerichter6954 Před 16 dny +3

      me too!

    • @Yellow-oc4sl
      @Yellow-oc4sl Před 16 dny

      Be careful ful of the energy drainers users that can pray to the Lord for decernment

    • @ElleKay4Life
      @ElleKay4Life Před 14 dny +4

      Me too sister (complaining and saying I’m tired so often almost as a reflex) let’s do better ❤

  • @Sarah-iy7uc
    @Sarah-iy7uc Před 23 dny +181

    From Brisbane, Australia. I’m an oversharer as a symptom of insecurity- but really, my security should be fully found in Jesus, and only his approval should I seek.

    • @junebuggy9614
      @junebuggy9614 Před 23 dny +6

      Ditto ❤

    • @OrionOlamPiksie
      @OrionOlamPiksie Před 22 dny +2

      Thank you for sharing. Also deal with this too.

    • @lwedel3361
      @lwedel3361 Před 21 dnem +1

      How patient God is with us 'wafflers' haha. He is so good.

    • @bernicerogers2383
      @bernicerogers2383 Před 10 dny

      I overshare sometimes because I feel lonely. I usually don't talk much just because I'm an introvert, not because I'm a good Christian.

  • @jessicalane6337
    @jessicalane6337 Před měsícem +481

    If any brothers and sisters would like to please pray for me I’m dealing with a lot of back pain for some time now. In Jesus name thankyou Amen

    • @dianemoore8289
      @dianemoore8289 Před měsícem +34

      🙏 Heavenly Father, I lift up my sister, Jessica, to you. I pray for healing of her back, Lord. You know what is wrong, whether it be the muscles, nerves, discs... whatever it is, Lord, that's causing her pain, I ask you to fix it right now in Jesus name! Make her back new and strong and healthy and normal, in Jesus name. You are the Lord who heals! By your stripes, Jessica is healed! Amen!
      Thank you, Jesus! ❤😇

    • @Fraevo10
      @Fraevo10 Před měsícem +6

      Watching in the USA specifically Detroit, Michigan

    • @LindaSChastain
      @LindaSChastain Před měsícem +1

      Dear Jessica,
      I pray for Jesus to stop your back pain. Amen
      I had low back surgery 2 years ago that did not help much. I use ice and found QEStrong pain cards which work wonders. They are embedded with prayer and work to change the signal in our brains. They even help dogs and cats when a patch is put on their tags.
      (ARK) is a discount code.
      I love you in Christ. Hugs from northern California.

    • @lilym2432
      @lilym2432 Před měsícem +8

      🙏🙏🙏❤

    • @paultarsus3
      @paultarsus3 Před měsícem +14

      Praying for you dear sister. I can empathize with you as I've been struggling with this myself here recently.

  • @MhairiDhairi
    @MhairiDhairi Před měsícem +327

    May God richly bless Joe Kirby, his beautiful wife, their children and all who are reading this message. Praise be the most high!

  • @buckanderson3520
    @buckanderson3520 Před 26 dny +71

    There is a season and place for everything. A time to show your feelings and a time to hold them back. A time to be light hearted and a time to be serious. A time to speak and a time to reflect. May the Lord help each of us discern which season He has us in.

  • @anniegeorge6749
    @anniegeorge6749 Před 27 dny +61

    I learnt hard way. I was surrounded with jealous so called friends. Never again.

  • @ellesmerewildwood4858
    @ellesmerewildwood4858 Před měsícem +286

    Not being the brightest bulb on the chandelier myself, one of those things I'm grateful to God for is that God loves fools too.

    • @peterb9580
      @peterb9580 Před měsícem

      2 Samuel 16:5-10 KJV
      [5] And when king David came to Bahurim, behold, thence came out a man of the family of the house of Saul, whose name was Shimei, the son of Gera: he came forth, and cursed still as he came. [6] And he cast stones at David, and at all the servants of king David: and all the people and all the mighty men were on his right hand and on his left. [7] And thus said Shimei when he cursed, Come out, come out, thou bloody man, and thou man of Belial: [8] The Lord hath returned upon thee all the blood of the house of Saul, in whose stead thou hast reigned; and the Lord hath delivered the kingdom into the hand of Absalom thy son: and, behold, thou art taken in thy mischief, because thou art a bloody man. [9] Then said Abishai the son of Zeruiah unto the king, Why should this dead dog curse my lord the king? let me go over, I pray thee, and take off his head. [10] And the king said, What have I to do with you, ye sons of Zeruiah? so let him curse, because the LORD hath said unto him, Curse David. Who shall then say, Wherefore hast thou2 Samuel 16:10-13 KJV
      Wherefore hast thou done so? [11] And David said to Abishai, and to all his servants, Behold, my son, which came forth of my bowels, seeketh my life: how much more now may this Benjamite do it ? let him alone, and let him curse; for the Lord hath bidden him. [12] It may be that the Lord will look on mine affliction, and that the Lord will requite me good for his cursing this day.

    • @janjohnson6602
      @janjohnson6602 Před 27 dny +10

      1 Corinthians 1:27 so thankful that He chooses the weak, foolish, insignificant…

    • @SoWhat59
      @SoWhat59 Před 25 dny

      😊

    • @Blood_Condition
      @Blood_Condition Před 23 dny

      Ya I’m low IQ, serf class

    • @LisaGray1000
      @LisaGray1000 Před 22 dny +3

      I love this comment 😂

  • @jenniferkline103
    @jenniferkline103 Před měsícem +243

    I always tell people too much about myself. This was a perfect study to talk about . We need to be still and let God handle it. Thank you

    • @pjfountaine7755
      @pjfountaine7755 Před měsícem +14

      You are not the only one, ditto,

    • @theliberatedplanet
      @theliberatedplanet Před měsícem +14

      And He will handle it. We really suffer when we talk too much. But when we let god handle it we feel good. He brings comfort in our silence.

    • @kellismith6308
      @kellismith6308 Před měsícem +6

      Me too. Then they want to give their advice. I need to learn to let God handle everything.

    • @flowerpower3618
      @flowerpower3618 Před měsícem +18

      It’s a social anxiety response. I do the same and then beat myself up for days after. I don’t go anywhere because I don’t want to do it anymore .

    • @yarenot9878
      @yarenot9878 Před měsícem +14

      Having dealt with social anxiety for most of my life, I assure you it's an absolute nightmare. I totally understand the part where you replay conversations and your responses to situations over and over long after they ended

  • @ettiennelane9173
    @ettiennelane9173 Před 18 dny +28

    If you tell people your plans or your successes they are jealous, and if you tell them your failures or sorrow, they gossip about it to others. My wife and I tell nobody nothing!

    • @bernicerogers2383
      @bernicerogers2383 Před 10 dny +2

      You need faithful people you can trust, even if only a very few of them.

    • @roses993
      @roses993 Před 8 dny +1

      Perfect!!!! When i get married, ill make sure my husband and i are reserved!! Its the wisest thing to do. I never share my failures only with family. I used to share my success with some friends but a large female friend of mine started to downplay my success and try to compete with me😮 . It was pathetic. i ended that friendship. Bye fatty!

  • @imeldarivera7940
    @imeldarivera7940 Před měsícem +29

    I am a Grandmother of 7 grandchildren, from 2 to 18 yrs. In our family gatherings I watch how they some time cut each other down and i can see the hurt they try to hide. I had family meeting and talked about some scripture you mentioned on this video. This was Saturday; today (following Friday) your video was confirmation of what I shared with them. I shared your video with them.Thank you.

  • @mikkisides9211
    @mikkisides9211 Před měsícem +100

    What people think of us is none of our business. What we know about ourselves is what matters. Only one knows your heart. Honor Him in all things🙏🏾🤗❤️

    • @kellywhalen5021
      @kellywhalen5021 Před měsícem +10

      I love that!!!! What "people think of us is none of our business"

    • @theophila214
      @theophila214 Před 19 dny +2

      Yup.
      This idea is present in psychology, called "the separation of tasks."
      That is, their opinions and beliefs, *even about me* , are *their business* to handle.
      It's not my business, and certainly not my business to correct.

  • @yvonnekennedy6105
    @yvonnekennedy6105 Před měsícem +98

    I am a 71 year old woman from Ohio. Love your humility and kindness and sensitivity and honesty!!! I can be guilty of running my mouth and it’s not honoring God. Thank you for your scriptures. A really Godly friend said one thing she was taught was: make sure you can say “In the name of Jesus. Amen” when you’re done speaking or writing something. It will serve as a great reminder of the content of your words. I try to remember that bit of advice!! Love you! God bless you and your family.

    • @LindaSChastain
      @LindaSChastain Před měsícem +11

      Thank you for sharing this advice. I will try to remember it. God bless you and your family. I love you in Christ. Hugs

    • @LoveFaithLive
      @LoveFaithLive Před měsícem +2

      "In the name of Jesus, amen" Yes of course, how freeing and sensible is that advice - very! Thank you❤ for sharing that with us.

    • @Lucky-ws3hx
      @Lucky-ws3hx Před měsícem

      Haha us women are like that aren't we

    • @moirarussell1950
      @moirarussell1950 Před měsícem +1

      Ooohh good tip! Thank you ❤️🇨🇦

    • @virginia7612
      @virginia7612 Před 20 dny

      I’m also a 71 year old woman from Ohio and ty for reminding people to say this at the end of every prayer.

  • @donnacollins4148
    @donnacollins4148 Před 17 dny +19

    What I like most about you Joe is your total transparency and self-honesty. I admire that kind of humility. I am an older woman here in USA. I accepted Christ as my Savior in my late 20's. Since then, I have had such a journey! I am what I call a Truth Student. I've researched many things and have had an open mind, making sure what I believed in was The truth. I've gone off my path numerous times, but in every instance, the Lord only allowed me to go so far, and then picked me up and put me back on my Path. I have read through the Bible several times since becoming a believer, but it wasn't until recently, about 4 years ago, that I started to not just read the Bible, but am actually studying the Scripture! Wow! What an effect that has made on my spiritual growth!!! One thing stands out that I heard this past year was Hosea 4:6 "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge". Anyway, please continue making these videos and encouraging others. God bless you, Joe Kirby

  • @Dawn.overanalyzes
    @Dawn.overanalyzes Před měsícem +31

    In this wicked and perverse world that assaults our spirits daily with the most profane, ungodly philosophies, we could never get too much of God's word, Joe!

  • @princessmw
    @princessmw Před měsícem +34

    As we say in Jamaica “Empty Barrel makes the most noise”

  • @MhairiDhairi
    @MhairiDhairi Před měsícem +216

    Joe! My company has us pick out our own Christmas gift each year. I picked out your book and a Bible and was chuffed that my secular company bought and paid for good, holy material…thanks be to God. And thanks to you, dear brother Joe, for all you do for Him (and us).

    • @offthekirbministries
      @offthekirbministries  Před měsícem +46

      Wow that is incredible! Thank you so much for choosing my book that blesses me so much Mhari! God bless you - Joe

    • @stephenpratt7259
      @stephenpratt7259 Před měsícem +26

      @@offthekirbministries didn’t know that you had a book ! I’ve only recently come across your channel. The coffee channel is refreshing and the openness is very much appreciated. You come across as a genuine brother complete with flaws and no agenda to hide them 😂. Seriously I look forward to metaphorically walking with you as many of our day to day struggles are common to us all and we can all benefit when we are genuine and open. Thanks for your efforts and co-operation with the Lord

    • @MhairiDhairi
      @MhairiDhairi Před měsícem

      @@stephenpratt7259 yes! Check it out: 100 Pure Thoughts: Cultivating Purity One Thought at a Time. Book by Joe Kirby

    • @MhairiDhairi
      @MhairiDhairi Před měsícem

      @@stephenpratt7259 yes! Check it out: 100 Pure Thoughts: Cultivating Purity One Thought at a Time. Book by Joe Kirby 🤍

    • @neonbayside
      @neonbayside Před měsícem +9

      You chose gifts that keeps on giving ❤

  • @joshuahardman396
    @joshuahardman396 Před 23 dny +22

    I recently learned that when somebody is hurting even if I can't feel their pain just don't say anything. Just be there even for a long time

  • @richardlindseybaritone
    @richardlindseybaritone Před 21 dnem +20

    A good prayer: Holy spirit, guard my tongue from saying anything against you will for my life.
    Say that, and God will help us.

  • @offpherj7884
    @offpherj7884 Před měsícem +77

    Joe, remember this. "Other people's thoughts are not my concern"

    • @dude9318
      @dude9318 Před měsícem +17

      That doesn't mean peoples opinions about you are not valid
      Always listen to constructive criticism

  • @kathymathison9131
    @kathymathison9131 Před měsícem +116

    My daddy was a minister and he always said “an empty wagon makes the most noise “. I can’t envision you being a troublemaker. You have such a gentle sweet spirit. God is definitely doing His work in you! We love you Joe and can’t wait to meet you in heaven! ❤️

    • @encouragingword1172
      @encouragingword1172 Před měsícem +7

      An empty wagon pretty much describes me! For years, just couldn’t keep my mouth shut but never produced anything of value, except three great kids, but that was in adulthood and God gave me so much grace and blessings with my kids. After years of stress due to narcissism, rocky relationships, ups and downs, l am now very crippled up and not making much noise. Its kind of nice to be a broken wagon instead of a rattling one. Tks for that illustration. Its very apropos.

    • @GaryOK
      @GaryOK Před měsícem +2

      ..... Or "Silent Water Runs Deep"

    • @WalkByFaith24
      @WalkByFaith24 Před měsícem +1

      Absolutely agreed!!

    • @WalkByFaith24
      @WalkByFaith24 Před měsícem +2

      @@encouragingword1172
      You are pretty much describing me at this point in my life. So grateful the good Lord is such an amazing Father that He chastises His children so that we can learn from our rebellious ways and make it right with Him before it’s too late, even if the lessons are painful. God bless you.

  • @LisachildOTMH
    @LisachildOTMH Před měsícem +18

    Hi from the UK, I’m an ex loud mouth who spoke to much to many people until God did to me what he did to you. Shut me up! Best lesson ever… move in silence. ❤

  • @leluyaa
    @leluyaa Před 21 dnem +5

    I've read the Book of Proverbs countless times and every time is like receiving a proper BEATING 😅👍🏼
    I'm the dumb one that's mentioned there, always choosing the wrong path and suffering all of the consequences that also are mentioned there.
    Praying for God to bless me with wisdom, for it to not just be head knowledge but to put them all into action until they become 2nd nature habits.
    I wish the sane for every follower of Christ that reads this comment as well 🙏🏼

  • @leighannlewis9808
    @leighannlewis9808 Před měsícem +190

    It's amazing how God transforms us from our younger years. I feel I have broken most of the ten commandments. I look back at myself with shame as I thought I was a good person. Now I pray a lot and ask Jesus' permission as much as I can. It's hard to be human. Thank God for Jesus. Without him, we would all fail.

    • @stephenpratt7259
      @stephenpratt7259 Před měsícem +17

      Your recognition of your flaws is refreshing to read. It amazes me how the Lord brings a sweetness with our brokenness. Only our Lord separates conviction from condemnation. What a loving Father we have

    • @jpjp9111
      @jpjp9111 Před měsícem +2

      I've become much much worse off than in my younger years. In fact, even God has abandoned me since my youth. I've called out to him countless times but he's essentially given me the finger. Made me very very bitter toward him but I'm still a Christian. Just a bitter Christian.

    • @stephenpratt7259
      @stephenpratt7259 Před měsícem

      @@jpjp9111 Heb 13:5 is one of the scriptures that confirms that the Lord will never leave you or forsake you. We may have different interpretations of the word “Christian “. I assume that a Christian believes in the inerrancy of the bible, as it is Gods word. Perhaps your struggle is with doubt and not the Lord. I think that most of us have a tendency to doubt some things. Thinking that God has abandoned you though is seriously damaging to your self and I imagine that it’s a hopeless state to be in. To be honest you’re post sounds illogical and it would be unfair for anyone to try and help using a forum like this. Perhaps you could find a pastor who could speak face to face with you

    • @user-oy6lt7el3u
      @user-oy6lt7el3u Před měsícem +5

      I ' m.from.the Philippines..I regulary listen to you.bro. Joe .Kirby.

    • @sammiranda7718
      @sammiranda7718 Před měsícem +1

      @@jpjp9111 So sad to hear and I’m very sad to hear about your sorrows. But remember that the Almighty God (while molding us or fashioning us in His image) is all-knowing and all-seeing and all-loving. As our Heavenly Father asks us to trust Him, He also tells us that “...His ways are not our ways...” and I believe that’s what helps us understand that we are not a part of this world spiritually, we simply inhabit this world physically. God requires that we trust in Him. He wants us to simply love him and follow His Commandments. Although His way may be very understandable in some aspects, just about every biblical figure has had struggles understanding other aspects. I believe all Christians, while in this world, have had and will continue having struggles - BUT, we also have victory in Christ. Above all else, lean not on your understanding of the Creator-lean on your love for the Creator because He IS washing away the old you. So long as you’re sorry (for past sins), you’ve repented (turned away from your past sins), and you trust in Jesus (in the salvation of the Christ as described in Scripture).

  • @pamallen2498
    @pamallen2498 Před měsícem +86

    The picture is my great grandson. I am 75 and live in a small town in California. My husband passed away a few years back, and I now live with my daughter, grand daughter and great grandchildren. I have learned over the years to talk to my Father in heaven when I have a problem. It is difficult not to talk about issues, especially family issues with them. Jesus is the only one who understands and strengthens me. God bless you Joe, you have no idea how much you have helped me over the years to understand God better.

  • @severinejohnson63
    @severinejohnson63 Před 23 dny +20

    I'm from Canada. I've been a Christian for 7 years and haven't looked back. I love England, my father is British.

    • @BePresent.
      @BePresent. Před 21 dnem

      I'm from the UK and I have visited Canada to see family.. i went to Toronto .. Niagara falls and C.N tower it's a gorgeous country with the best people ❤x

    • @severinejohnson63
      @severinejohnson63 Před 21 dnem +1

      @@BePresent. Thanks that's where I'm from. I went to England 3 times once when I was 8 and 9. The other time I went back when I was 25 in 2018 and spent a month there. My mom is French so I spent the summers there visiting family. I love all these cultures they are different and are interesting.

  • @beckybrown3291
    @beckybrown3291 Před 23 dny +14

    There can never be too many bible verses!

  • @sofie539
    @sofie539 Před měsícem +400

    It's 11:46 A.M. in Michigan. I am a disabled Vet and am having my Coffee with you right now. Thanx Joe!!!!!! No Pun intended!!!LOL

    • @Bigtime19
      @Bigtime19 Před měsícem +22

      Hey I’m here in Michigan as well just south of Detroit. How long you been following Joe? I have for a couple years now and because of him my faith has grown and become soand over the years. He is a good man this Joe guy.. lol

    • @cynthg9547
      @cynthg9547 Před měsícem +11

      It's 11: 17 am here in Mobile Alabama 😊

    • @johnfoy5760
      @johnfoy5760 Před měsícem +10

      Where in Michigan are you at? I use to live in the Okemos/ Lansing area but now I am in San Antonio, TX. Thank you for your service. God bless you and your family.

    • @juliewriston980
      @juliewriston980 Před měsícem +8

      It is 9:19 AM Arizona time and I also am having my morning coffee with Joe Kirby 😊 Thank you so much for your service ❤ May the Lord bless and keep you..

    • @Bigtime19
      @Bigtime19 Před měsícem +8

      It’s always a good cup of Joe lol..

  • @johnfoy5760
    @johnfoy5760 Před měsícem +166

    Pastor Joe, please use as many Bible Verses that you need for your message. We need His Word to fight off our oppressor. Thank you for all that you do.

  • @Soundsaboutreet
    @Soundsaboutreet Před 21 dnem +6

    Social media is my downfall, specially CZcams where it’s anonymous. I often find myself giving judgemental opinions that i wouldn’t normally share or even think in real life. I find I’m much more empathetic in person, but social media brings out the worst in me. It’s like it bypasses the filter in my conscience and I don’t get the little voice in my head telling me not to say things impulsively without thinking

  • @kateosmond1090
    @kateosmond1090 Před 21 dnem +9

    Bible verses are fine. Ineed all the Word i can have to transform my life. Thank you Joe Kirby.

  • @hansoleflattun
    @hansoleflattun Před měsícem +50

    Norway and no I am not a Viking😂 I am a Christian and Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior😀♥️🙏🙏

    • @nodrvgs
      @nodrvgs Před 15 dny +1

      “no I’m not a Viking”?? 😂😂

  • @davidl546
    @davidl546 Před měsícem +112

    Personally, I've been trying really hard to keep quiet the last few weeks. Telling most people almost everything about myself has come back against me a few times. Lashing out in anger has been a bad habit, which does not glorify God. Gods timing is perfect for this message to be presented throughout these struggling times. Thanks, Joe, for the message.

    • @lorenrobertson8039
      @lorenrobertson8039 Před 23 dny +2

      I understand David. Prayers for you in you journey. Hard to be still and listen isn't it?

    • @shellyslioneyes
      @shellyslioneyes Před 23 dny +2

      I soooo understand. I relate annd understand.

    • @debb3661
      @debb3661 Před 23 dny

      I'm having the same issue, I say too much and I am having to learn this lesson the hard way unfortunately.

    • @tanastoiberg7981
      @tanastoiberg7981 Před 22 dny +3

      Me too. I need to shut up more often. It seems like i'm too quick to talk about my personal life and get angry at feeling rejected by others. This stems from being bullied by others growing up. My thought is because I tried so hard to be accepted by my classmates and family when i was growing up, i reveal too much so i can be accepted. I'm praying that God heals me of these hurts so I can learn to be slow to speak and quick to listen. I'm 59 now and I don't want to live with this hurt any longer. Loving the Lord has been the most important thing to happen to me and I want to feel whole without the approval of others. Can you pray for me to learn how to bite my tongue and stop telling others my personal life.
      God bless you all. 🙏🙇‍♀️🙌✝️🪻⚘️🕊

    • @hoipoloie
      @hoipoloie Před 10 dny

      @@tanastoiberg7981 hahahahahah, you sound like my twin xxxxxxxx

  • @piusameh102
    @piusameh102 Před 12 dny +2

    Telling people about your plans, what you are about to do. Sometimes, you end up not doing anything. Better to work in silence, sometimes.

  • @helenadavid6868
    @helenadavid6868 Před 27 dny +12

    Oh dear Joe, you are so genuine just by being yourself. Just know that the Holy Spirit is working through you.
    God bless you & your family abundantly wt good health & happiness. ❤

  • @lizjordan2378
    @lizjordan2378 Před měsícem +49

    I have a little book of proverbs from my childhood. One says, “If our lips would keep from slips, five things observe with care: of whom we speak, to whom we speak and how and when and where.”

  • @AntiDecepticonCampaign
    @AntiDecepticonCampaign Před měsícem +65

    There is no one with me where I am. I have no one to talk to. God has separated me from my older life… figuring out what to do. THANKS JOE. I hope I have friends like this hereafter.

    • @ColourfulXO
      @ColourfulXO Před měsícem +14

      I have only one Christian mate since leaving my old life behind. Though they live 2 hours away from me. But, I'm also not ready to commit to friendships yet as I'm working through a healthier lifestyle and have debilitating social anxiety. But, when I am ready to start making friends when I move. A great idea is to take up some classes. Like joining an art group, sport, sewing, etc... of course making new friends at a new church. I hope, God, will put in place the right people in your life that you'll make long lasting true godly solid friendships.

    • @toliveischrist950
      @toliveischrist950 Před měsícem +12

      Remember even if you don’t have many friends here, take heart! Heaven will be full of them.

    • @warpath7824
      @warpath7824 Před měsícem

      If you’re not in church, start going and look into the Exodus 90 program.

    • @warpath7824
      @warpath7824 Před měsícem

      I’m not into Catholicism but the exodus 90 program seems like it might be a good place to meet new likeminded brothers.

    • @j.vanbreugel2378
      @j.vanbreugel2378 Před 17 dny

      You're my friend in Christ!

  • @samanthananda4276
    @samanthananda4276 Před 20 dny +16

    Everyone please pray for the devil to be removed from me forever & to never return. It would mean the world to me if the devil is removed from me forever and never comes back. I hate the devil. I love Jesus!

    • @jancollard7169
      @jancollard7169 Před 17 dny

      I rebuke the demons surrounding you.

    • @828Allthings
      @828Allthings Před 17 dny +3

      Resist him (the devil )firm in your FAITH and he will flee - that is a promise from God.
      However, we will be battling the enemy and our flesh til the day Jesus takes us home… so I pray for perseverance for you Samantha

    • @miriambartley6622
      @miriambartley6622 Před 17 dny +4

      I feel uour struggle. For the whole world is under the power of the evil one.

    • @mariom9926
      @mariom9926 Před 16 dny +3

      🙏Allow Jesus to help you - we are not strong on our own "Jesus, please take care of everything!".

    • @MrsSpock-vj2nm
      @MrsSpock-vj2nm Před 14 dny

      SUBMIT yourselves therefore TO GOD. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.- James 4:7
      10 Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might.
      11 Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.
      12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
      13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
      14 Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;
      15 And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;
      16 Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.
      17 And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:
      Ephesians 6:10-17

  • @stephaniepiazzese2602
    @stephaniepiazzese2602 Před 28 dny +6

    Yes Joe I’m quite isolated too. I only really see humans on Sunday,,, or have to go to the store. I find I’m
    Less and less able to carry a conversation. Worship flows,, yes but suspicion of hurtful people, maybe prevents me from opening myself.even to other Christian’s. Some are gossipy. My dearest friend, passed away now,, said slanderous things. I found later. I forgive her,, it was her way of gaining attention. Still
    It has closed me up. 😢

    • @ajakmonicahpatienceministr7112
      @ajakmonicahpatienceministr7112 Před 16 dny +3

      I resonates with you...May God heal us and help us not miss out Divine duty due to hurtful experience from very chur h/believers.
      May also know when to speak or when to be silent

  • @lauriemclean1131
    @lauriemclean1131 Před měsícem +37

    It is difficult to know how to speak appropriately to people. We need daily to pray for the LORD's guidance. When I say too little, people tend to label me as unfriendly or "stuck up." But it is too easy to say the wrong things to those few people I feel comfortable with.

    • @SoWhat59
      @SoWhat59 Před 25 dny +1

      YUP. Can't win.

    • @Not_of_this_world_anymore
      @Not_of_this_world_anymore Před 17 dny +1

      This is my plight as well. Ive come to recently just listen when people want to talk to me and try to give a caring response but leave it there. And the rest of the time, smile a lot. I wish I knew this when I was younger and it would have helped me. I have a major "rbf". But people love love love smiles. I started by forcing myself. I knew it was fake but I did it anyway and when I noticed I wasn't smiling very much then I immediately started smiling really happy like because it somehow makes people feel really good around you. I used to dislike it when people seemed fake, well I still do, but I view smiling differently. Smiling is letting people know that you are happy to be there/here, even if its a forced smile, just putting in the effort means something. Its that simple! Now I try to smile every chance I can get in public and it's good for my face muscles. 😅

  • @markjones2887
    @markjones2887 Před měsícem +72

    So good. I'm from Texas and I've played the fool many, many times in my 70 years. Every verse you mentioned has been played out in my life, and it's very humbling. One other verse I think about is "Don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing." Jesus really raises the bar, doesn't He? My only hope is in Jesus.

    • @lindasviderskis1943
      @lindasviderskis1943 Před měsícem +3

      I needed to hear this! Thank you & God bless you🙏🙏🙏

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 Před 29 dny

      That's exactly the verse this makes me think of.

  • @lua5589
    @lua5589 Před 21 dnem +3

    Hey Joe! Southern Brazil here! Your message had traveled far far away 😊 I love British accent (working as an English teacher here and recently converted). Thank you very much for this video. I have remained silent but here in Brazil people hate it, looks like we are being not too engaged or hiding something. And now, going through the same thing here at work, having a person badmouthing behind people's back, and I'm the perfect target, cause I know what is going on in the company culture here, it's so interesting... We don't need to say a word, just don't engage and we are perceived as a threaten... Well, my feeling used to be: "I definitely was born in the world country" used to be my thoughts before my conversion. Now, I need to trust that God knows everything, not me. Thank you again for putting your message on the internet! 🙏🏽

  • @florencenjoki4822
    @florencenjoki4822 Před 21 dnem +10

    Kenya 😇🇰🇪 all the way from Africa. Glory be to God

  • @msneka38
    @msneka38 Před měsícem +44

    There are things we must keep to ourselves. We cannot share everything with everyone. Not everyone has our best interests in mind, only God does! Especially what happens in the Secret Place with our God. Lord, help us! God bless you brothers and sisters 💜

    • @sweettina2
      @sweettina2 Před měsícem +3

      May the Lord bless and keep you and your family ❤🙏

  • @tammyp.mcfayden1532
    @tammyp.mcfayden1532 Před měsícem +41

    I’m figuring out if I’m quiet, I’m hearing a lot of important things! Eye opening things.

  • @andrewhard6139
    @andrewhard6139 Před 21 dnem +4

    Amen. Learned that a few years ago. Better to stay quiet unless important.

  • @YATESA8
    @YATESA8 Před 27 dny +2

    Netherlands and our saying is " Holle vaten, klinken het hardst. "

  • @alisonlawrence2636
    @alisonlawrence2636 Před měsícem +34

    From South
    Africa Africa. People are pretty open and friendly here. I myself tend to talk too much, sometimes out of nervousness, also around difficult people. With God's help I want to be quieter and a better listener. Thanks for the encouragement

    • @petradp
      @petradp Před 14 dny

      Hi Alison, my mother and husband are also from South Africa. God bless you from the Netherlands 🇳🇱 hulle praat snaaks Afrikaans 🤣

  • @Runastasis
    @Runastasis Před měsícem +32

    Im watching this 7 hours later from Alberta, Canada.
    I'm old and Im just learning this. Thank you Joe.

  • @irenejoshua6199
    @irenejoshua6199 Před 4 dny

    I am from India. I have been praying to the Lord to give me a gentle and a quiet spirit. And to be a person who is slow to speak, slow to get angry and quick to listen. I am seeing a transformation but I long to have a complete change in me. This message comes to me as a blessing.

  • @LivingLifeEveryday10
    @LivingLifeEveryday10 Před 21 dnem +4

    Watching from the USA 🇺🇸 Atlanta Ga

  • @altagouws5829
    @altagouws5829 Před měsícem +30

    I'm a South African born living in Australia watching this video God bless you 🙏

    • @beatrixhahn7690
      @beatrixhahn7690 Před měsícem +3

      Naand Alta, hoop alles gaan goed met jou daar onder.
      Stuur v jou groete vanuit Howick KZN 🎉

  • @Mirjana-oz3mv
    @Mirjana-oz3mv Před měsícem +22

    That let that person who has no clue about anything discourage you. We need you Joe. Church needs you

    • @offthekirbministries
      @offthekirbministries  Před měsícem +4

      Thank you so much for your upbuilding words Mirjana, you are a great encouragement!

  • @elkanaharthur7713
    @elkanaharthur7713 Před 15 dny +3

    Praise God for good Christian friends who love us, pray for us and point us back to God. ❤️🙌

  • @scottreese5492
    @scottreese5492 Před 9 dny

    My favorite scripture we try to pray everyday is "help us Lord to take every thought captive and make it obedient to you", Amen

  • @BlueJeansandJellyBeans
    @BlueJeansandJellyBeans Před měsícem +36

    I rather like the fliting around in Bible verses. We are to be in the Word, so I enjoy it.😊 I love these types of videos.❤

  • @mikenixon2401
    @mikenixon2401 Před měsícem +25

    You were not alone, Joe. Praise the Lord for what he places in our way to bring us to Him.
    Now, let's go be a blessing.

  • @zaad5273
    @zaad5273 Před 10 dny +1

    From the U.S. Loved this video and one-hundred percent agree, the emptiest vessels make the most amount of noise.

  • @marioekkebus3178
    @marioekkebus3178 Před 23 dny +1

    It is sometimes hard not to say anything, know when to speak en when not.
    We have to listen to the Holy Spirit for leading us.
    We are on the way with Jesus Christ en learning step by step.
    Thanks Joe for sharing!
    Gods blessings for you and your family
    Much love truud the Netherlands

  • @ministry77
    @ministry77 Před měsícem +30

    "Happy are you when people reproach you and persecute you and lyingly say every sort of wicked thing against you for my sake" Matthew 5 11. Praise Elohim.

  • @tonygowan5797
    @tonygowan5797 Před měsícem +17

    I get it. Holy Spirit gave me this after something I let get in my heart and turn bitter. Proverb 19:11

  • @adammontgomery3213
    @adammontgomery3213 Před 24 dny +7

    Indian, watching from Belgium. Praise God for your ministry!

  • @annelewilkens525
    @annelewilkens525 Před 20 dny +2

    Thank you Joe, this message just reminds me to speak when the Lord let me to. To pray for those that needs it the most. To be quiet and to listen to others,
    This message was for me.. All the way from South-Africa

  • @taniamariani7064
    @taniamariani7064 Před měsícem +21

    I really needed this today! I really want to tell some evil people off but I don't want them to even think they are in my thoughts! Jesus plz take away the anger I feel and get them out of my head!

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 Před měsícem +25

    Lord Jesus give me strength as I struggle to take care of my children. Both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. Lord Jesus I’m overwhelmed as a single mother. I’m constantly struggling to buy groceries and constantly struggling to pay rent and now that I’m home schooling my sons I’m struggling even more. Lord give me strength I can’t do it without you.💕

    • @user-rb3zh6sz1b
      @user-rb3zh6sz1b Před měsícem +1

      I pray for you sister, in your struggles, may God strengthen you as you raise your boys 🙏🙏🙏

    • @salauerman7082
      @salauerman7082 Před měsícem +1

      I’ve been there a long time.
      Priorities determine budget.

  • @tklrrbccar3906
    @tklrrbccar3906 Před 19 dny +2

    Joe as I have written to you before. I REALLY enjoy these coffee time sessions! It as though I am popping over to my best mates house for chat and a bit of coffee! You are doing very well in these videos. They are not to long but very substantive!but and each one makes me think about things. God bless you, Emma, and the kids! You give a lot of strength to us Joe!

  • @strineys.957
    @strineys.957 Před 21 dnem +2

    There can never be too many Bible verses - they’re wonderful to include, because they back up what’s being said.
    Edit: Watching from Queensland, Australia.

  • @SandraMartinez-qy8kw
    @SandraMartinez-qy8kw Před měsícem +19

    I am in Fresno California USA.
    The GOD has been teaching me this for about a year and a half now.

  • @revivalcycle
    @revivalcycle Před měsícem +17

    There's never too many Bible verses in anything. It is the 'code' behind all life. We are always blessed by draping over our hearts and minds.

  • @dorothyfinken9102
    @dorothyfinken9102 Před 14 dny +1

    I'm in GA, 20 miles west of Atlanta at 10:10 a.m. I'm having some tea along with you. I have a tendency to tell my life story to anyone who will listen. When I was in the 4th grade a school counselor told me to be bold and speak my mind and tell others what is going on in my life. She told me that I am a very inspiring young lady and others deserve to hear what I have to say. (Side note: I'm hard of hearing, and all my life, people immediately judge me as not being very smart). I have such a hungry desire to share God's word with others. I'm sitting here today outside of a local church. My job is my ministry. I work with special needs adults. My special friend is attending vbs.
    My daily devotions, currently, am reading through Book of Psalm, and I read Proverbs that correlates to the day of the month. Today is the 11th, so, I read Proverbs 11.
    Joe, I enjoy listening to you because you are so at ease in your presentation. You seem to be so transparent, too.Have a blessed day. 😊
    One day I'd like to have early morning devotion time with my Lord, reading through the Old Testament, lunch with my Savior and read through the Gospels, and evening at bedtime, read through the books of the New Testament. But, right now, I am doing well.

  • @beyondblessed911
    @beyondblessed911 Před 21 dnem +2

    Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven. Matthew 5:16 Build each other up, under God, not praise or worship one another.

  • @Jesuslovesyou_365
    @Jesuslovesyou_365 Před měsícem +27

    21:10 no no Brother Joe, I'm learning alot through these sit down peaceful, thought provoking videos, you can give as much Scripture references as you want, we NEED THE WORD ! 😊

  • @sparrowt4082
    @sparrowt4082 Před měsícem +20

    Stayed for the secret at the end. ;)
    I really enjoy these videos too -- and I enjoy the small silences as you're sipping your coffee, making your coffee, etc.
    It's nice to have those small seconds of realistic quiet. ❤

  • @lorraineakers8147
    @lorraineakers8147 Před 14 dny +1

    I needed to hear this ! I am by no means a stupid person but my life has always been an open book ! Ive always been an up front honest person but ive discovered there are those who would take advantage of your sincerety and use your own words to hurt you ! I've since withdrawn my openess not because i dont want to share but because satan is running this world and i need to protect myself !

  • @jackieann5494
    @jackieann5494 Před 29 dny +2

    I'm watching from Lancaster ,Pennsylvania , USA . Surrounded by the Amish , their farms , their horses and buggies and their simple life style .
    First time listening and I'm really enjoying it.
    Edifying.
    Thank you !
    I'm

  • @SCELO_MYEZA.
    @SCELO_MYEZA. Před měsícem +16

    I'm watching from Durban, South Africa 🇿🇦.

  • @janteynor5524
    @janteynor5524 Před měsícem +22

    USA,Phoenix,Arizona it’s 8:55 AM just finishing my coffee! Getting ready for the work day.

  • @trishforster9234
    @trishforster9234 Před 29 dny +2

    HOLY SPIRIT used your video to call me to a place of REPENTANCE, on a deeper level! GOD RICHLY BLESS you & your family AND MINISTRY💕👵🙏🏻

  • @CelticCroata
    @CelticCroata Před 21 dnem +2

    This is another evidence of how much you've come along with Christ. These videos are serving a discipling role. We all need this. This woke me up to so many things that I'd been having internal hints about, but couldn't name them. Now I see. Thank you, Joe.

  • @jasminemartine
    @jasminemartine Před měsícem +13

    Watching from the USA 🇺🇸
    Texas 🤠
    Praying for you and your family

  • @rebeccamabala-buildingthek6745
    @rebeccamabala-buildingthek6745 Před měsícem +17

    Watching from 🇹🇿 Tanzania..God bless you Joe

  • @Cici_Dial
    @Cici_Dial Před 12 dny

    After recently coming across the following quote, I stopped commenting when someone said something I believed was wrong, and I've stopped talking about my thoughts to others. The resulting peace is wonderful!
    I made it a rule to forbear all direct contradiction to the sentiments of others, and all positive assertion of my own.
    ~Benjamin Franklin~

  • @suchiemate6525
    @suchiemate6525 Před 6 dny

    I’m from India dear Joe. My Mother has always told me to talk less, instead go into a room, shut the door and talk to God

  • @Kwalo_Tse_Boitshepo
    @Kwalo_Tse_Boitshepo Před měsícem +13

    South Africa 🇿🇦 ♥️

  • @Seek.Christ.
    @Seek.Christ. Před měsícem +12

    Poland 🇵🇱, "only God can push those stones away." ♥️ Love you, amen.

  • @Soundsaboutreet
    @Soundsaboutreet Před 21 dnem +1

    From Harrogate, North Yorkshire UK- thanks for this video. This definitely struck a chord with me!

  • @Marmeeseven
    @Marmeeseven Před měsícem +2

    Also a reason to keep quiet even with your spouse is when a wonderful private moment happens between you and the Lord. Not always but sometimes.

  • @mercymatinikojonas2550
    @mercymatinikojonas2550 Před měsícem +17

    I'm from Botswana 🇧🇼. Africa

  • @iradukundafrank9021
    @iradukundafrank9021 Před měsícem +15

    Watching from Rwanda, Africa. May God bless you you brother Joe ❤

  • @katierodriguez4939
    @katierodriguez4939 Před 25 dny +1

    I pray and declare 100% healing over your ankle in the name of Jesus! Thank you Lord for 100% blood flow and circulation to the bone, and full function! Thank you for sharing your story today! So good!

  • @anitanavarro4121
    @anitanavarro4121 Před 24 dny +1

    I find myself over talking when I'm nervous or awkward. Thank you for the encouragement to keep it quiet. I will work on that.

  • @johnstarter777
    @johnstarter777 Před měsícem +37

    Please pray for me brothers and sisters, I'm struggling with sin...
    May The Lord GOD hear your prayers!
    Amen 🙏

  • @user-ky7pt8pp9i
    @user-ky7pt8pp9i Před měsícem +10

    I’m totally like that. Been my problem all my life. I’m 57 years old and have just learned to keep my big mouth shut. People use words against you and can twist things you say. I’ve been a fool all my life. But I don’t gossip or slander people. I just share too much information about myself. I now leave it to God to fight my battles for me. I’ve give up on this life as I always seem to mess up.Now Im leaving it to God to take over and sort my life out. By the way I don’t fast, is that a sin in Gods eyes ? I have always believed in God and loved him but I haven’t got a clue what I’m doing!!!!
    From Angie a Geordie subscriber 🇬🇧

  • @flynndiesl
    @flynndiesl Před 24 dny +1

    I’m guilty of the same wrong words and actions a number of times. Thank you for this talk I really enjoyed it and the Lord that conflict me off certain things. We are accountable of our words and actions before the Lord 24:50

  • @vinodjobp5366
    @vinodjobp5366 Před 11 dny

    Silence is sweet like honey. Now a days we don't find people who want to hear some one.A listining ear a understanding heart is very rare.Thankyou for the message.
    I am from India.

  • @ayandakobese948
    @ayandakobese948 Před měsícem +15

    Watching from south Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @darrelking7260
    @darrelking7260 Před měsícem +20

    North Carolina in the USA, stay strong in the Lord Joe. Love ya.

  • @Funkydood
    @Funkydood Před měsícem +2

    Puerto Rico, U.S.A. Joe ! God bless your family and, of course, you! And, man, you REALLY enjoy your coffee!!!