I Lost My Home My Wife My Kids This Is My Blackpool Story

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  • @Randomanddesperate
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  • @sandradowling4605
    @sandradowling4605 Před 21 dnem +3

    You are doing so very well Random.....so glad you are happier.

  • @Nickpaintbrush
    @Nickpaintbrush Před 21 dnem +1

    Nice one mate keep your chin up, you're way more witty and informative than a lot of other youtubers Ive wasted my time watching!

  • @KatieFairfoot
    @KatieFairfoot Před 22 dny

    Loving the new video 😊, me and dom going to Scarborough on Friday, we’re looking forward to it 😊

  • @cats2954
    @cats2954 Před 22 dny +2

    Keep ya chin up my friend, you have the rest of your life to enjoy and make the most of it big hugs. X

  • @lillianrosbottom7366
    @lillianrosbottom7366 Před 22 dny +4

    Absolutely luv walking down blackpool front. So relaxing. Used to take my kids in 80s every yr for holiday

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny

      There's something about blackpool. What makes us keep coming back?

    • @patriciajervis3909
      @patriciajervis3909 Před 22 dny

      @Randomanddesperate thanks most kind you have I had gone to blackpool but find it stressful now I have a friend there

  • @lindadudley705
    @lindadudley705 Před 21 dnem +1

    Great content random’ absolutely Love Blackpool’ sound of the waves and sea it’s awesome’ enjoy’ Great memories as a kid Loved it and still do always’ Here twice a year’ walk for miles’ keep ya chin mate’

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 21 dnem

      There's so many people that's got a passion for a Blackpool just like you, it's amazing I you hear all these stories

  • @Thefatfoodiemcr
    @Thefatfoodiemcr Před 21 dnem +1

    Blackpool is so memorable for alot of British families and will always hold a special place in our hearts .keep your chin up buddy great to really get to know you .lovely walk there down prom loved it .

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 21 dnem

      How to say so many families have so many memories of a lovely place and hopefully many more to come

  • @rosejones2096
    @rosejones2096 Před 14 dny +1

    i agree with you i can rember walking along the promanade in the arcades ..mum bought me chips for chip shop and they were all green she threw them in bin lol came down see the illuminatins 😂 love blackpool comming down 2 show my hubby in september ...hubby never been 2 blackpool ❤

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 14 dny

      What great memories and your husband is going to Have a great time

  • @leemaitland2722
    @leemaitland2722 Před 18 dny +1

    Great to see your getting your life back together random, I lost my son to suicide in 2015 after that my life went out of control I turned to drugs and alcohol and lost every thing my partner all my money hit rock bottom, but now I've been clean for 5 years and getting my life back , I was in Blackpool the June and met up with jamies rock and soul he gave me some sound life advice and now I've started my own channel to help with my mental health, stat strong random and keep up the great content

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 17 dny +1

      I'm really sorry to hear that, and I'm glad you've been clean for 5 years. Keep going. You could do it, and if you're ever in blackpool want to meet up for a joint adventure let me know

    • @leemaitland2722
      @leemaitland2722 Před 17 dny

      @@Randomanddesperate thanks for that it's much appreciated

  • @carbonsiliconnn
    @carbonsiliconnn Před 21 dnem +2

    The pull for me is you get to wear a winter puffer jacket in July🤣🤣

  • @zamiadams4343
    @zamiadams4343 Před 22 dny +1

    Great video, same as you I was always really excited going to Blackpool with my mum and cousins back in the late 70's/early 80's. We would get the train down from Glasgow to Preston and then on the Blackpool. The sounds and sights of the arcades I remember most, great memories.

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny +1

      I bet that was some traveling coming all the way from Glasgow but happy memories

  • @steveweaver4365
    @steveweaver4365 Před dnem

    I've found your channel from watching stocky bloke random love your content blackpool started for me as a wedding present gift of a couple of nights at the norbreck lol still come over night every year at some point 😊

  • @wendyleece2555
    @wendyleece2555 Před 21 dnem

    Lovely video random,dont ever give up what you do feel sorry for the way your feeling i suffer mental health as well so no where your coming from,just keep going as much as you can and have a laugh with aunty Ethel we all love that 😂❤ love from the ISLE OF MAN ❤❤❤❤

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 21 dnem

      I'll try but sometimes you have dark days but don't worry I have you guys

    • @wendyleece2555
      @wendyleece2555 Před 21 dnem

      @@Randomanddesperate keep it up,chin up you are really doing well we all love you dont forget it,cant wait to see more videos 👍xxx

  • @Craig_Deno
    @Craig_Deno Před 12 dny

    Great stuff ive sent to my son because i struggle to explain how it destroys a man. Thank you next time i see your uploading in blackpool i wiil buy you a pint

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 10 dny

      I hope you don't ok 🙏 it not easy but it can't rain all the time

  • @johnaldwinckle8410
    @johnaldwinckle8410 Před 21 dnem +2

    As a child we all went to blackpool to see the lights. Arcade and hotdogs. Really good memories

  • @weyayemanjoe3082
    @weyayemanjoe3082 Před 22 dny

    Never give up mate we all love your content 👍🏻

  • @paulbutler6984
    @paulbutler6984 Před 22 dny +1

    Been in your position mate and come out the other side a happier wiser man.

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny +1

      Yeah I have a good days and bad days but things have improved dramatically over the years

  • @CWhandlei
    @CWhandlei Před 9 dny

    By the way I admire your story your strength and extremely glad and amazed how well you have done. Nevet gove up now you have so many supporters and some of thats through the CZcams obviously but its all through you !!

  • @nickshields7258
    @nickshields7258 Před 22 dny +1

    Totally agree Blackpool I class as my second home and I have always had a happy experience going there every year, instead of other vlogger's showing the negativity take your frustration out on the council who have left the outskirts in a terrible state,great vid Steve.

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny

      @@nickshields7258 100% Knickerbocker Glory, One day when I do retire I'm going to live next door to you in Blackpool

    • @nickshields7258
      @nickshields7258 Před 22 dny

      ​@@Randomanddesperate😄Sounds like a plan 👍

  • @wpa4329
    @wpa4329 Před 13 dny +1

    hi random great to hear your eflections and thoughts on blackpool.i remember going to blackpool every year with my mum and dad we stopped up north and we alwaays visited the boating pool which is now the go kart track. i still return to blackpool every year there is nothing like the sea air to waken you up on your stroll first thing in the morning although blackpool has changed a lot blackpool holds special memories that will live with me forever thanks for the memories random keep well take care.

  • @J33-g2e
    @J33-g2e Před 12 dny

    I used to come to Blackpool in early 90's with my children, they loved the Tower ballroom and circus and windy walks along the piers. I'm bringing my grandchildren next week and we're all super excited, hot fresh donuts and seaside fun.

  • @Craig_Deno
    @Craig_Deno Před 12 dny

    Ive started my own YT Vlogs about the same thing thank you for the inspiration and motivation

  • @lillianrosbottom7366
    @lillianrosbottom7366 Před 22 dny +5

    The sound of the waves the sea nothing like it

  • @1harryrobert
    @1harryrobert Před 21 dnem

    Same as me Random, I like going to bed fairly early & then having a nice early start in the morning. In the late 60's early 70's we used to go to the cabin, it was a boating pool and you could have a nice ride on a motor boat. We used to go crabbing in the pool and then throw them back in. I used to bring my daughter when she was very young and go upstairs at the Manchester pub where there is a family bar and then have a ride on the tram to Cleveley's where I took her on the rides at kiddie's corner (gone now). Great times and I will be back later this year. Take care Random; Harry.

  • @sadiamehboob3362
    @sadiamehboob3362 Před 21 dnem

    I m new on your channel love your bodrum vlogs 😊

  • @annstanners6216
    @annstanners6216 Před 14 dny

    Blackpool my second home. The Doric is my second family. I have an awful disability fibromyalgia and when in blackpool specifically the Doric I feel free to be a child again :) I have many memories over the years, from. 15 of my whole family to just me and hubby going. Blackpool is a beautiful place my happy place it allows you to feel free from stress and hard times. So much to do :) I visit for 2 weeks in August my main holiday I save really hard all year to be able to spend 2 weeks worry stress free, and be able to reminisce on past holidays and enjoy the current one making new memories. Opposite the doric the rocks I often sit there hours taking in the beautiful sight and reflecting on life and how happy Iand lucky I am. I call the rocks my Shirley valentine spot 😅 I always say don't knock it till you tried it. Looking forward to my next journey to see my Blackpool family. Stay safe love and huggles xxx

  • @roostercoburn
    @roostercoburn Před 22 dny

    Twice I had everything and twice I ended up homeless 🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️ but things always have away of correcting themselves . Now single dad to 3 of my youngest children and never been happier things will come good random your a nice bloke 👍

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny +1

      It looks like we've all gone through the mail at some part in our life, suppose it's a life lesson

  • @marietricklebank202
    @marietricklebank202 Před 22 dny

    Another Great Video. I think blackpool is the best blace for Entertenment in England . Lots of Hotels B ,B . Fish and chips .Ice creams . I Love the Littel shop where you can Get Suger dummps , rock. I love the Fair Big Diper The smell of Candy floss.Ive not been to Blackpool For a long time .Kepp up with the Good work. All way Love Watck you on Youtune .😘

  • @johnnytipton8741
    @johnnytipton8741 Před 21 dnem +1

    I love Blackpool but like you steve it does hurt with the memories but we soldier on mate

  • @juliepownall1063
    @juliepownall1063 Před 22 dny

    Hi random Steve lve got many happy memories of Blackpool when l was a kid used to get a train from central station happy times still.enjoy it now

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny

      No matter how old we are? We still get excited of the thought or coming to Blackpool

  • @garygibo70
    @garygibo70 Před 21 dnem

    Random,went to blackpool as a kid in the 70s.Was a boat trip from n ireland to Scotland,then a drive to Lancashire.Loved every minute of it,now as an adult I live an hour away😊

  • @manchester1972
    @manchester1972 Před 21 dnem +1

    My uncle used to have the manhatten. Bit further down from the Doric (called something else now) Every Friday I would finish at dinner and get the train from Piccadilly. Used to help out behind the bar etc but it wasn't a job. I loved it with all the old folks. I had such a laugh every single weekend. In the Summer I would take 6 weeks non paid leave from work and stay there. Used to go on the exact walk ur doing, Tom's cabin sat on the rocks with a lucazade. The North side is far far better than the South. One year as I used to do every Saturday I put my coupon on at Ladbrokes near the Duke of wellington (closed now) I got 12 homes up. £15,400 for a £10 bet. So u can imagine I had a great week that week. 😊😊

  • @lizauger9828
    @lizauger9828 Před 16 dny

    Im the same random except i re started my life 25 years ago, i personally justcwalked away from everything in 2000. No regrets, life goes on.

  • @jeanhorn8891
    @jeanhorn8891 Před 21 dnem

    Blackpool,Blackpool oh Blackpool.
    from the Tower overlooking the sea.
    from the North Pier to the south Pleasure Beach.
    from wonderful Stanley Park to the Winter Gardens
    I remember thee.
    but most of all the memories you still give me.
    Oh the good people of Blackpool thanks for putting up with thee..
    Thanks for sharing the good of Blackpool...

  • @colski222
    @colski222 Před 21 dnem

    I would just like to leave a positive message my friend. I have always thought when the muck hit the fan. Its not the end, its a new beginning. I ended up in a shared house after my divorce. Now i am remarried to a lovely woman, living in Norfolk, 15 minutes drive away to some lovely beaches. And only 40 minutes away from Great Yarmouth. Keep moving forward and never back peddle.✌️👍

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 20 dny

      I wouldn't mind trying that one day thanks for the positive comment

  • @user-xl7en5hy7c
    @user-xl7en5hy7c Před 18 dny

    Hi random another Michelin star performance, white van man 👍🏻

  • @sadiamehboob3362
    @sadiamehboob3362 Před 21 dnem

    Always been summer time with my husband and my kids had so much memories of Blackpool ❤always we took cotton candy rocks and fresh donuts from their

  • @Speaker568
    @Speaker568 Před 22 dny

    Hi mate I have been going to Blackpool every year 2times a year for 20 years my family love it 2 kids 2adults we wouldn’t miss it for anything so many memories my children now older is really all they know we have the most amazing times there they used to cry on there last night we call it the vegas of England.

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny +1

      Blackpool as you say, all of us have an amazing time there. Why go abroad when you can have the frills the excitement in your own country?

  • @julieleah9913
    @julieleah9913 Před 16 dny

    Had some great times with family in Blackpool love the fresh air and the the Zoo at Blackpool also love the tower and in my younger years the pleasure beach

  • @johnearle1394
    @johnearle1394 Před 22 dny

    Been twice this year for 5 nights each time n going again in 3 weeks time for 5 nights love the vibrancy the atmosphere even the rough side of things I'm 62 n hoping to move their early next year

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny

      It really is a great place. Make sure you mention my name when you're there. They know me well, Hope you have a great time

  • @keithwatkins7908
    @keithwatkins7908 Před 19 dny

    Thanks for the excellent video. Blackpool holds memories for me, as many, our parents taking us there in the 1970's. Cheap B & B near North Pier. Playing in the boating pool. Fish and chips and ice creams. Paddling in the sea and waling the beach. And holding onto those memories, it is a shame that what we enjoyed then, has now been replaced with changes to those places we love. I live in the Philippines, there are beautiful scenic beaches. But it's not Blackpool, with fish and chips, ice cream and diving seagulls! People should make the most of the seaside towns of Britain.

  • @farrahw7804
    @farrahw7804 Před 22 dny

    I remember my first time to Blackpool I stayed in Pontins campsite with my mumprincess Ann came to Pontins campsite and going to the tower sea life going on the tram to Fleetwood and Saint Ann's having fish and chips by the sea sints then I have fallen in love with Blackpool enjoy my self every time I go to Blackpool makeing memories and forgeting about your worries it's nice to gwt away on holiday go visit different places makeing memories and help with ones mental health

  • @Craig_Deno
    @Craig_Deno Před 12 dny

    Ive moved to blackpool because of family issues i love the place but find it hatd being 100 miles away from my son who is the only person i consider family.

  • @kaybee2930
    @kaybee2930 Před 22 dny

    Definitely the memories. When my mam & dad divorced, he would take me & my sister every year & it was amazing

  • @dottietimms1764
    @dottietimms1764 Před 21 dnem

    For me Blackpool is special i came with my late husband and stayed at pontins September 98 we married april 99 i lost him to cancer in 2016 came back in August 2019 was so sad see pomtins gone

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 20 dny

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Hopefully when you go to Blackpool you remember him

    • @dottietimms1764
      @dottietimms1764 Před 20 dny

      @Randomanddesperate when i came in 2019 it was to do a pilgrimage of when we came and because i had just won a battle with 2 lots cancer in 12 months i have on a cushion our photo taken at pontins i 1998

  • @junelaw4162
    @junelaw4162 Před 22 dny

    Evenin the pull for me is the same as you really I have endless memories with my mom dad and sister I then bought my children there and they are the same as me with their kids 😂 we come up twice a year now till the next one 😊

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 21 dnem +1

      I must come around about 4 to 5 times to Blackpool. I love it!

  • @kevincleary5073
    @kevincleary5073 Před 18 dny

    “With this black thing in my hand”
    Ooo err missus.

  • @weyayemanjoe3082
    @weyayemanjoe3082 Před 22 dny

    Steve 🙏🏻

  • @CWhandlei
    @CWhandlei Před 9 dny

    I think it's a 50/50 thing about Blackpool depending on what YOU like. There is some nice scenery along the beach if you wish to look for it and also there's always some life and bars etc if you choose to look for that but all of it has to be your thing. You have to make the best of things and that's what Blackpool is great for if you let it be that . You have to let yourself go a bit. Don't go to Blackpool if you are uptight

  • @euphemiahunter3620
    @euphemiahunter3620 Před 2 dny

    Been coming to Blackpool for 60 odd years love Blackpool go now to the Ruskins hotel great hotel

  • @alfiegiblin-dl5gz
    @alfiegiblin-dl5gz Před 22 dny +2

    Booked in doric hotel on 17th July cant wait me and my girlfriend go 3 time s a year park hotel we stay in seaview this time in doric hotel

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny

      Well, make sure you say to the staff you've watched random and desperate

  • @patriciajervis3909
    @patriciajervis3909 Před 22 dny +2

    I enjoy the doric but I lost my husband due to vovid 2020 I. Love blackpool I cannot explain I am on mental heath thanks

    • @weyayemanjoe3082
      @weyayemanjoe3082 Před 22 dny

      R bless you take care hun 🙏🏻

    • @patriciajervis3909
      @patriciajervis3909 Před 22 dny

      Thanks I have been to blackpool any chance I can get but I cannot face it xp

    • @lynnharling7497
      @lynnharling7497 Před 22 dny

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny

      You will one day. It was difficult for me to go back to the Derek but eventually You can return back to your heart

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny

      You will one day. It was difficult for me to go back to the Doric but eventually You can return back to your heart

  • @CWhandlei
    @CWhandlei Před 9 dny

    WhAt would you have done if you had been in Blackpool with no money. No kids. No family that cared and no friends.

  • @tracyhughes2921
    @tracyhughes2921 Před 22 dny

    Get where your coming from Steve my son going through it he trying to fight for his girls she up and left from blackpool to Scotland taking girls he so devastated not only the girls she had a baby while they where married and tried to convince the baby was his until dna so know how you feel why make the children suffer and use them as weapons 😢my heart feels for you like my son

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 22 dny +1

      Hi Tracey, it's the story I know well I have tried everything. I just have to wait when they're older and understand what's going on, hey it's heartbreaking my friend but we've got to be strong and get through it

    • @tracyhughes2921
      @tracyhughes2921 Před 22 dny

      @@Randomanddesperate so very true Steve

  • @sadiamehboob3362
    @sadiamehboob3362 Před 21 dnem

    I m live in Manchester too 😊

  • @shadowwolf9639
    @shadowwolf9639 Před 15 dny

    Shame William regal can't join you for a Blackpool pub crawl 😂

  • @anthonyoconnor7516
    @anthonyoconnor7516 Před 21 dnem +1

    you need a cuddle from auntie ethel

  • @gemmalewis7993
    @gemmalewis7993 Před 22 dny

    Hey buddy,you can see the emotion and pain in your face 😢 on a lighter note,bloody love Blackpool ❤

  • @marioncannon9924
    @marioncannon9924 Před 13 dny

    What a dump

  • @davidGPS95
    @davidGPS95 Před 21 dnem

    Random why didn't you take your ex to court when she stopped you seeing your kids ? You have rights as a Father

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 21 dnem

      I did, The parent alienation took into effect

    • @davidGPS95
      @davidGPS95 Před 21 dnem

      @@Randomanddesperate that's narcissistic behavior from your ex , I dont think the courts are that naive

  • @user-nv2sm9jh1c
    @user-nv2sm9jh1c Před 8 dny

    HI RANDOM AND ESPERATE GLAD YOU ARE ALRIGHT NOW AND THAT BLACKPOOL DOES HELP WITH OUR PROBLEMS AND BLACKPOOL IS A GREAT PLACE TO COME AND GETAWAY FROM IT ALL AND YEAH LIFE IS SHIT IM THE SAME WHERE I WORK AT IN A CARE HOME AND ME AND MY WORK COLLEGUE GET ON SO WELL AND I REALLY THOUGHT THAT WE HAD A SPARK WHICH WE DID FROM THE START AND THE GIRL WHO I STILL DOESNT HAVE ANY FEELINGS ANYMORE IT WAS HARD TO TALK AND I STILL LIKE EBONY SHE A WONDERFUL PERSON I THINK NOW THAT SHE FIND SOMEONE HER OWN AGE I OVERHEARD SAYING THAT I TO OLD IM 35 YEARS OLD I STILL CARE ABOUT HER THATS WHY I CAME TO BLACKPOOL IN MAY THIS YEAR WITH MY AND BROTHER AND MY BROTHERS GIRFRIEND AND MY NICE WE HAD A GREAT TIME I MISSING EBONY WORK AS A CARER AND IAM ON HOUSEKEEPER SO NYOU NEVER KNOW A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE SAID THAT SHE WAS USEING BUT I STILL LOVE HER I EVEN ASK HER TO MOVE IN WITH ME BECAUSE SHE WAS HAVING PROBLEMS AT HOME THSATS WHAT IM LIKE RANDOM AND DESPERATE I CARE ABOUT OTHERS BEFORE MY SELVE AND THATS WHY I HAVE MY SAID MY STORY AND ENJOYED LISTENING TO YOU RANDOM AND DESPERATE THANKS FOR SHARING PAL TAKE CARE FROM KEITH

    • @Randomanddesperate
      @Randomanddesperate  Před 8 dny

      It's very important you do look after others as we are a human and we work better as a group