Recognizing and Treating Problematic Fear & Anxiety in Children | John Piacentini, PhD | UCLAMDChat

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  • UCLA child psychologist John Piacentini, PhD, discusses the difference between age-appropriate and problematic anxiety in children, including how to recognize the warning signs of problematic anxiety and how it is treated.
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Komentáře • 392

  • @daydreamerexo5644
    @daydreamerexo5644 Před 5 lety +215

    My teacher said “everyone gets anxious, everyone has anxiety you just need to try, and I’m picking on you to help you” I explained to her that it doesn’t help... she still picks on me

    • @galaxyoldacc483
      @galaxyoldacc483 Před 5 lety +10

      DayDreamer EXO ikr like it just makes it worse

    • @missGolightly420
      @missGolightly420 Před 5 lety +7

      Wow hope youre doing okay. That's really rough

    • @normalchannel7106
      @normalchannel7106 Před 5 lety +4

      Do you know a way for me to get my fear out of thinking ima die because when Cameron Boyce died I got pain idk what and I got scared thinking i was going to die so can you help me

    • @leamartin9868
      @leamartin9868 Před 4 lety +2

      This is just superb, been searching for "eliminate social anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Qanwen Donuke Approach - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my cousin got cool results with it.

    • @afiaama1299
      @afiaama1299 Před 4 lety +1

      Cheers for this, I been tryin to find out about "i have social anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Qanwen Donuke Approach - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my mate got amazing results with it.

  • @johndeluna692
    @johndeluna692 Před 5 lety +81

    I have been suffering of anxiety since childhood but I thought it's just who I am.

    • @_-_-gachacreations-_-_3069
      @_-_-gachacreations-_-_3069 Před 4 lety +1

      John De Luna I’m 9 and have suffered from it for years. And might end it when I’m older 😌
      I’m going to hell though.. I know it. So I’m gonna have a bad life. There are things I can’t even tell to online friends.

    • @sean_2106
      @sean_2106 Před 4 lety +2

      I have anxiety in health and love ones im scared to lose my love ones and im scared to die

    • @shhjgjg
      @shhjgjg Před 4 lety

      im 9 and idk if i have one so im watching this...

    • @nura4068
      @nura4068 Před 4 lety +1

      --Gacha Creations-_-_ hey I don’t know what religion you believe in but if it’s Islam or Christianity just ask for forgiveness for whatever it is, God is more forgiving than we are of ourselves ❤️ so just because we can’t over our mistakes doesn’t mean we won’t be forgiven for them. You’ll never know where you’re end up, you have to be ok with not knowing, that’s the hard part with anxiety

    • @meharg6298
      @meharg6298 Před 4 lety

      @@sean_2106 same but how i can get rid off 😭

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva Před 2 lety +9

    I’m watching this because my son deals with fears and I want to help him but watching this reminds me of what an anxious child I was. The difference is I didn’t verbalize it to anyone.

    • @ardmis48
      @ardmis48 Před 3 měsíci

      I hope your kid gets over it. In my culture we have spiritual people that take fear out with prayers and rituals, we sometimes look at it same as evil eye. Fear usually comes from something tragic happing or can even be passed down. Anyone with fear and anxiety can be triggered by just saying the word anxiety or fear.

  • @alfie6061
    @alfie6061 Před 5 lety +93

    I can’t even speak to my teacher I’m that nervous I really hate being in front of a crowd or even a group I can’t control myself when I cry it’s almost like it’s automatic 😐

    • @brianandrew7265
      @brianandrew7265 Před 4 lety

      This was great, thanks, I been tryin to find out about "generalized anxiety disorder children" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Quonfen Anxiety Adirondacks - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my colleague got great success with it.

    • @tonylars4128
      @tonylars4128 Před 4 lety +1

      This was great, thanks, been searching for "free your child from anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Quonfen Anxiety Adirondacks - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my m8 got cool success with it.

    • @pakistanis1782
      @pakistanis1782 Před 4 lety

      This was great, thanks, I've been looking for "son suffers from anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Quonfen Anxiety Adirondacks - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my neighbour got great success with it.

    • @kayme4193
      @kayme4193 Před 4 lety

      Thats so me....

    • @anxg_elx8410
      @anxg_elx8410 Před 4 lety

      RaDeZ Alfie that’s the same as me when I cry I say in my head I’m okay and I repeat it but it just happens

  • @BrendaNoon
    @BrendaNoon Před 4 měsíci +1

    I had all of these as a child, phobias, social anxiety, selective mutism, GAD & separation anxiety, but I never knew back then that it was called anxiety, until I was 21 years old did I found out, I wish I knew sooner. My life would´ve been much easier.

  • @DrCyrusVeil
    @DrCyrusVeil Před 4 lety +29

    Always great to hear folks talking about childhood anxiety. I see it a lot in my own practice as a child psychologist. I’ll be making my own videos on that subject soon.

    • @zimpk8033
      @zimpk8033 Před 4 lety +2

      i have adhd and i get really horrible anxiety from separation
      i got left at home a bit longer than usual so i broke in to really bad tears and got to a point where i thought i would have to kill myself

  • @Max-dr6rz
    @Max-dr6rz Před 4 lety +43

    School gives me anxiety I cry everyday because I keep failing, like I can't pay attention. Even if I try.

    • @Mikhashilin
      @Mikhashilin Před 4 lety +4

      MynxLynx i get really anxious and when my anxiety peaks i get terrible stomach aches, and a fear of everything

    • @synthia4020
      @synthia4020 Před 4 lety +1

      I have this problem too. Have you tried talking a psychiatrist about ADHD?

    • @_-_-gachacreations-_-_3069
      @_-_-gachacreations-_-_3069 Před 4 lety

      Just school?? Wow. I would rather have ur life than my shitty life. I’m 9 and idc that I’m cussing. I DONT CARE.

    • @peacefullylove9566
      @peacefullylove9566 Před 4 lety

      Try to increase your left frontal lobe activity. It's mean we need to do activity that'd let's our brain happy.

    • @iJJ895
      @iJJ895 Před 4 lety +1

      @@peacefullylove9566 please how 😭

  • @richardmarranca3870
    @richardmarranca3870 Před 3 lety +11

    This was excellent from start to finish. It offers a vocabulary and a structure to deal with various problems that kids have based on anxiety and other issues. It has great advice at the end for both parents and kids. It's a wise action plan that all parents can learn from.

  • @lunchycrunchlunchbunch5287
    @lunchycrunchlunchbunch5287 Před 5 lety +133

    I have anxiety but sometimes even when I’m just scared of nothing ...

  • @cjlovesyou5674
    @cjlovesyou5674 Před 5 lety +155

    Im tired of my self. I always feel alone even i have friends etc.

  • @aptruthwillsetyoufree
    @aptruthwillsetyoufree Před 3 lety +4

    This webinar is very helpful, I hope many parents get a chance to learn about the various strategies shared. One key message is that anxiety is very treatable. In my personal experience, what made the difference was a holistic approach that included mindfulness and emotional freedom techniques. There isn't a one-size-fits-all solution and a combination of strategies to help both parents and children heal their anxiety is often the best approach.

  • @KarissaAnneGMoog
    @KarissaAnneGMoog Před 2 lety +2

    I am having child anxiety until now , and this is because I am a perfectionist

  • @stanleymessiless9717
    @stanleymessiless9717 Před 5 lety +17

    Anxiety is making me worked up ...My heart race so first and i have all the physical symptoms of anxiety .

  • @allisonhazelwood102
    @allisonhazelwood102 Před 3 lety +1

    I really appreciate this video. So helpful. Thank you for sharing!

  • @user-ll7jn5jl8u
    @user-ll7jn5jl8u Před 4 měsíci

    This would be a good content that I recommend all of them prior to contact with someone whom I used to call a teacher when I was young at my 20s.
    I always appreciate all of your dedication to doing your defense and military service to make our society better and safer.

  • @marinamendez7083
    @marinamendez7083 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you for this video. it is very informational and helpful to both me and my son.

  • @RocketUsa
    @RocketUsa Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you for this video. 🙏🏼

  • @singing-gamestv997
    @singing-gamestv997 Před 4 lety +9

    When I was 9… I was an “early bloomer”. I was in 4th grade with “HUGE” boobs… I would no longer wear my fav clothes if my “boobs” looked too big in them. I would wear big baggy sweaters and 0 long-sleeves or shirts that are tight. I had so much anxiety that I didn’t know what to do, I wanted to blend in w/ the other kids. I didn’t want to go to school because I thought kids would make fun of me… so, my dad set me up for therapy. I noticed that I had a mental health disorder where I see things on my body that other people didn’t… I DO NOT HAVE BOOBS!!!! I would tell myself every night, and when I did have boobs…I LOVED THEM!!!!!!! Never think ur not good enough. That’s a mistake I made…

  • @philcooper2408
    @philcooper2408 Před 4 lety +11

    Maybe pupils are anxious for entirely rational reasons. If you face intimidation or abuse in an adult workplace its socially unacceptable and you complain or go to the police. Yet we expect kids to cope with brutalising conditions that often resemble prison rules where bullys rule and authority turns a blind eye. If you complain then you are the one that is blamed. Teachers and parents say fight back, but if you do it just escalates the violence and always leads to the victim getting the blame.

  • @Oobservatory_X
    @Oobservatory_X Před 2 lety +3

    I have anxiety issues I get anxious my heart starts beating fast whenever I talk to someone

  • @ines180
    @ines180 Před 4 lety +10

    It’s literally affecting my health
    When i travel my anxiety goes up the roof and i get diarrhea and chest pain also my skin starts to itch at times. I don’t deserve this i want to get better it’s affecting my life too much

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb Před 4 lety +3

      Hope u talk to and find someone who will understand and help u! It will get better, even if it takes a while!

    • @mommaonabudget2742
      @mommaonabudget2742 Před 3 lety

      Hope you are feeling better, my daughter and myself deal with high anxiety and it is so tough, good kuck

  • @bharatinayudu
    @bharatinayudu Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you very much!!! This was helpful

  • @vanessakyrillos9406
    @vanessakyrillos9406 Před 5 lety +3

    really good video!! we need more of that :)

  • @ibelieveinjesuschrist8911

    so helpful in so many ways!!!!

  • @whatshisname2497
    @whatshisname2497 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much. I felt really lost on this and the video helped guide me in the right direction.

    • @olgabushak2942
      @olgabushak2942 Před 2 lety

      Look up 'anxiety guy' by Dennis Simsek on youtube. VERY good videos

  • @sofiyarini
    @sofiyarini Před rokem +1

    Ur a Godsend, thx u so much for all this tips i'm going to try it.. hopefully i'll manage to do it

  • @Veryberrymalyali
    @Veryberrymalyali Před 2 lety +2

    I have symptoms of anxiety sometimes between 6 to 7 i am lost in my world i lock my self in my room i cry for no reason i feel better wen i listen to life goes on and love myself

  • @brother-qofficial8163
    @brother-qofficial8163 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for the explanation

  • @nildatsubaki7758
    @nildatsubaki7758 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much. It is very informative.

  • @sujathabehere1247
    @sujathabehere1247 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks a lot lot of inputs... It was really good

  • @isamic_amol
    @isamic_amol Před 6 lety +7

    I think it's really helpful

  • @liorliv3Gaming
    @liorliv3Gaming Před 5 lety +3

    I wish this was on spotify so I could listen on the way :)

    • @AndreaWanting
      @AndreaWanting Před 5 lety +1

      Download Tubemate. Then download this to phone

  • @ajinkyakhandare4748
    @ajinkyakhandare4748 Před 2 lety +1

    Very valuable video thank you so much sir ❤

  • @hellomarisolmo
    @hellomarisolmo Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this. It gave me a better perspective and understanding. I also have anxiety but it has gotten SO much better after being diagnosed with ADHD and getting medicated. I spoke with my daughter's pediatrician and he suggested therapy and fish oil. I hope they can guide me . Thank you.

  • @jenikahorn
    @jenikahorn Před rokem +1

    I was born with ADHD and anxienty born my entire life and when thunderstorms come its kicks in really bad and i cry

  • @Hellohellohello5
    @Hellohellohello5 Před 4 lety +3

    That was fantastic doctor thank you a million !🙏

  • @tinat1974
    @tinat1974 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you Sir.

  • @esmeraldacruz8646
    @esmeraldacruz8646 Před 5 lety +4

    I have anxiety and last year I just started worrying all over the place I want to make friends and connect with people I’m going to try to join the track team at my school so I can try and socialize and hopefully it all works out

  • @allawi8120
    @allawi8120 Před 4 lety

    no lies i almost having been trying over 2000 time to get rid of social anxiety , since i was 14 when i changed my class untill today 20 years old , i miss that days when i was friendly and lovable daily..😢😢😢😢

  • @_-_-gachacreations-_-_3069

    Ive been depressed for years now. I am now 9 years old. I wish I could have a better life but I’m stuck here. Kinda wish I could end it. But I still have the people I love ❤️. I give signs a lot, nobody seems to care. My brother told me im a attention seeker. But I think he is noticing.. I wasn’t acting confident today at school, my teacher told me to try and be more confident. Nobody really likes me at school. I have like 2 friends.. and I can trust them. And I have a friend online and I’ve told him about this. I always wished for a happier life. ❤️😔

    • @iblanco1
      @iblanco1 Před 4 lety +1

      Hi, I am so so glad that you have friends that you can talk to and that you can trust. I am sorry that you aren't happy with how things have been going for you in your life. Have you told an adult that you trust (parents, aunt, uncle, teacher or school counselor)? Maybe talking isn't your thing, maybe it is writing, drawing, etc. Whatever does help you, continue to do that. I hope you find peace and joy. I really really do. You are young and it would be horrible if the world lost you so young and didn't get to witness what you are capable of.

  • @user-us5gl1kw8v
    @user-us5gl1kw8v Před 3 lety

    yeah, it's a good program, it helped me out a lot

  • @xypheir_
    @xypheir_ Před 4 lety +2

    Back in elementary till 7th Grade I didn't have any problems about anxiety I was just shy but when I reached 7th and 8th grade I would always feel anxious and thinking too much about everything and that's when I would have panic attacks too it's really hard to control especially when public speaking. I just wanna overcome it during this quarantine

    • @olgabushak2942
      @olgabushak2942 Před 2 lety

      Look up 'anxiety guy' by Dennis Simsek on youtube. VERY good videos

    • @hitshering
      @hitshering Před rokem

      I found this video when looking for guidance for my 6 yr old son experiencing anxiety. Your response was posted 2 yrs ago, how are you feeling now with your fear? I hope you have overcome it with success 👍
      While growing up I had the same fear as you of public speaking and it was extreme since I left one school in the middle because I was so scared to speak on stage. After finishing college, I started to work on my fear/weakness and now I have overcome the fear of public speaking. In fact I enjoy it 😊 We have the ability to overcome our fear.
      Now, as a mom I am looking for solutions to help my son cope with his anxiety/fear.

    • @hitshering
      @hitshering Před rokem

      I found this video when looking for guidance for my 6 yr old son experiencing anxiety. Thank you for posting this video, very helpful!
      While growing up I had the same fear as you of public speaking and it was extreme since I left one school in the middle because I was so scared to speak on stage. After finishing college, I started to work on my fear/weakness and now I have overcome the fear of public speaking. In fact I enjoy it 😊 We have the ability to overcome our fear.
      Now, as a mom I am looking for solutions to help my son cope with his anxiety/fear.

  • @suulapoola6447
    @suulapoola6447 Před 5 lety +5

    I have anxiety, autism and i have a fear of abandonment which means i can never get too close to people incase they leave me but psople i get close to i end up going to extremes to make sure they don't leave me

    • @cygnus2206
      @cygnus2206 Před 5 lety

      i have anxiety and a fear of abandonment but im more scared of getting close to people and getting hurt so i don’t like getting close to people to the point where im afraid of it.

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb Před 4 lety

      SEEK 👏 HELP 👏 PLEASE 👏
      You poor souls... Please do... Its not fun to keep it hiding...

  • @arksadian
    @arksadian Před 4 lety +4

    I have anxiety and i want to go to the new idea school and ik im going to have anxiety and im afraid that i might get bullied again and i don't want that to happen again and i always feel left out on everything and i also felt really different beacuse i were boy shirts and shorts and when im in stores people stare at me and i dont like how they stare at me it scares me prob beacuse i never really get out of the house

  • @nadinesimpson6135
    @nadinesimpson6135 Před 2 lety

    My grandson is in fear of most things n have memory lost and don't understand things easily when you explain to him n can't believe ng a message straight he is right years old

  • @contentedspirit9022
    @contentedspirit9022 Před 4 lety +6

    There needs to be an effort to determine WHY the anxiety exists to begin with. ASD, ADHD, PTSD, abuse, executive functioning dysfunction, sensory processing disorders, twice exceptional child, developmental disorders. Can't just treat the symptom. Good information however.

    • @mandacole8703
      @mandacole8703 Před 4 lety +1

      I would really love to know as well. I assumed my anxiety was trama induced from a crap upbringing, but my son has been shielded from the abuse I had to live with and I see it starting in him. 😭😥 Both my parents and grandparents have anxiety and mental health issues on different levels. I never want him to feel how I do 😭

  • @alphaw1748
    @alphaw1748 Před rokem

    Excellent video

  • @davinderrehal9391
    @davinderrehal9391 Před rokem

    Excellent

  • @mujjuuu
    @mujjuuu Před 4 lety +4

    I have fear of mosquitoes cause in my precious house there where tons of mosquitoes they always bit me like evry second so mosquito's fear started growing and growing If they aren't there I still rubbed or scratched my body

  • @islamabadthebeautiful9261

    my 4 year old daughter has just started school.earlier she cried and denied to leave for school.but now she knows she has to go to school so she dont cry alot but her anxiety triggers her to vomit once during the school timings or just before leaving the school....

  • @dd-vy5lb
    @dd-vy5lb Před 5 lety +3

    I have knew I've had anxiety since I was 7 years old; I Remember my first bad panic attack , I started hearing screaming in the upstairs .
    I want to know if anyone else has the worst anxiety when you are ill?

    • @ruthie4197
      @ruthie4197 Před 5 lety +2

      You might not see this, but I'll comment anyway. Mental and physical health are interconnected; when one takes a downturn, so does the other.
      So feeling more anxious when sick is probably normal, yes.

  • @shelbeecoulter6219
    @shelbeecoulter6219 Před 5 lety +6

    I have anxiety about everything well almost everything everything that he said I have anxiety towards it

  • @Sapphiremoonskulls
    @Sapphiremoonskulls Před 4 lety +1

    I can deal with a HUGE audience because im in choir and I've been doing it for 5 years now. But i can't handle classroom sizes

  • @marcodeluca4068
    @marcodeluca4068 Před 4 lety

    I had a kid who is extremely shy and feel afraid to do anything because he will be judged

  • @CharlieMansfield22
    @CharlieMansfield22 Před 3 lety +1

    anxiety is where there’s a rush of stress when anyone comes close to you exc. you may feel like you can’t breathe and there’s an elephant on your chest type feel,breathing in and out is a good method for calming yourself down.

  • @AlbanianGladiator
    @AlbanianGladiator Před 2 lety +1

    im 13 and i had anxiety for all of my life and it just keeps getting worse

  • @lynnkay2348
    @lynnkay2348 Před 5 lety +7

    I keep advocating for my son. He is almost 6 years old with high anxiety and sensory issues. On the surface his problematic behavior displays as ADHD or even ODD. He appears to not hear or be aware of his surroundings. Any advice on how I can help him?

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb Před 4 lety +1

      Dang a year and STILL NO ADVICE, idk what to do in his case but i hope hes better now!

  • @daisy8489
    @daisy8489 Před 5 lety

    Because of my social anxiety my teacher put me at the front of the class and i scared me and still does I never raise my hand in a early age if I ever did wish was once my teacher said my answer was wrong :(

  • @evelyneloiterstein7085
    @evelyneloiterstein7085 Před 4 lety +1

    Being in school may lead to an existential crisis, i.e. does my presence in school have meaning, purpose, or value? Is my life wasted by spending so many hours, years in school and not learning much or not learning what I want to learn?

  • @evna9246
    @evna9246 Před 4 lety +10

    Why am I parenting myself by watching this?

    • @hectorloks3377
      @hectorloks3377 Před 4 lety +1

      Evna 😂 because parenting isn’t handed to you like a handbook with instructions

  • @brettconv83
    @brettconv83 Před 3 lety

    I just noticed my son who just turned four is doing things that worry me. He uses my phone for a short time to watch kids CZcams and play learning games. Well I noticed my phone case which is a life proof case he is picking the rubber clean on the phone case. It started with just the buttons and after a couple weeks my phone case is stripped clean. He’s a very sweet loving boy so I am worried about him .

  • @brilliantwriter4856
    @brilliantwriter4856 Před 4 lety +2

    I walk aimlessly through the store
    Do I look up or down
    Left or right
    If I look at you
    Wouldnt it cause a fright
    I try not to think about you but
    I cant help but feel you're thinking about me
    Why cant I concentrate
    I forgot why I came here
    Now I'm really causing a sight
    My heart beats faster
    My thoughts losing control
    I feel hot
    Oh please make it stop
    I walk outside
    I sit in my car
    I go home
    Finally
    An end to these crazy thoughts
    🤩

    • @brilliantwriter4856
      @brilliantwriter4856 Před 4 lety +1

      @julesdownunder we you must know what you're talking about because I do suffer from PTSD because of trauma as a child. The trauma was being left alone at age 5 hours into the night, sitting at the window, waiting for someone to come home, scared someone would break in and hurt me, it became ocd, I cried every night it was a ritual my father never listened to me. It was intense then I started to have nightmare, sleep walk and talk, to this day it doesnt go away. Also my mother told me that I cried alot as a baby and once she left me in the closet alone to cry. Ugh... i dont know what else she did but maybe theres more

    • @mylink.orb17
      @mylink.orb17 Před 3 lety

      Whoa, get outta my head dude.

  • @user-fj7hi8mm8d
    @user-fj7hi8mm8d Před 2 lety

    I don’t know why.. but sometimes I forget about being sane, and I think bad things about the people I love.. Like, their gonna do something bad. I trust them all 100% except my uncle. So I don’t know why I feel like that. It’s hard to explain so sorry!

  • @abhilashapriya1005
    @abhilashapriya1005 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you doctor for information.My child is 18 months old.What I find he is fearful in walking.He has an execcive fear of stranger.He starts crying for long.what should I suppose to do?

  • @DrAmna-pr6zl
    @DrAmna-pr6zl Před 3 lety

    A 32-year-old woman presents to her primary care physician complaining of overwhelming fear and apprehension. The patient states that for the past 8 months she has been feeling anx- ious and worried about many things. She has difficulty concentrating and difficulty sleeping because she “can’t seem to keep [her] mind off of the everyday issues of life.” She also says she often feels tense and restless. She denies past substance abuse. Which of the following drugs would be considered first-line treatment for her illness?
    (A) Amitriptyline
    (B) Buspirone
    (C) Diazepam
    (D) Flumazenil
    (E) Midazolam
    Which would be suitable?

  • @unidentifiedleiviathan7250

    But I can't stand I be the spotlight of a crowd I don't know what's wrong with me I cried when I was little if I had to do anything in front of a crowd I once even ran away the school gym when I had to do some Christmas song thing this continued well into my middle childhood and it hasn't completely stopped

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb Před 4 lety

      Seek 👏 Help 👏 Please 👏
      Seek help from someone who understands (find another if they dont), hope it gets better!

  • @dababy3790
    @dababy3790 Před 5 lety

    I started having anxiety in school because I threw up and now I can’t leave the house without my parents

  • @thaysvaldivia8830
    @thaysvaldivia8830 Před 2 lety

    I have a 4 years old girl… and she is scared off everything new around her. I was ok because when I explain to her and get familiar, the fear goes away… but now am into the Monsters Fears… she refuse to be alone and don’t want to go to her own room by herself and cry and ask for hugs all the time… I think it’s normal since this is her first Halloween party at daycare and after we talk or change the topic she is fine… but I really want to know the right way to help her going true all that… :(

    • @sabianova4304
      @sabianova4304 Před 2 lety

      Play some prayers over her. CZcams Robert Clancy fear prayers

  • @tangokan7494
    @tangokan7494 Před 4 lety +1

    My daughter 15 and half is very smart but doesn't want to go to school. She will start crying, her anxiety will trigger even if 2 family members are taking about something but she thinks they are referring to her. I'm her dad but she stopped talking to me since I unfortunately had argument with her 3 months ago. She's afraid to be in same room as me. Please suggest how to handle her phobia and normalise relationship with her. Thanks.

  • @laxmipriya6259
    @laxmipriya6259 Před 3 lety +1

    I have very seriously phobiaa..in my case I don't leave my parents anymore ...but fact is i am a indian girl..in my country..after marriage we leave our parents house..😭😭😭I am very scared and anxiety... please help me 😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 please

  • @Hanabi782
    @Hanabi782 Před 4 lety +1

    I tried to have a friend in school and i tried everything but the only thing that i get is everyone hates me for a reason that i dont understand at all...

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb Před 4 lety +1

      Like u think everyone hates u or they visibly show that they hate u?
      They probably dont understand what we are going through... Sadly.

  • @bunbun8595
    @bunbun8595 Před 2 lety

    What does it mean if you’re anxious to tell you parents that you feel anxious so you can get treated? Or even diagnosed?

  • @Cr4zy3lf
    @Cr4zy3lf Před 4 lety +2

    I just found out I have a Anxiety disorder, and honestly I'm anxious about having anxiety 😖 I mean I already have so many things going on. I see 6 different doctors for different things. I now have to take Anxiety Medicine. I'm having my first surgery a major surgery in a couple months. I have problems with eating and might have to get a feeding tube. I'm getting braces sometime soon. On Sunday it will have been a year since my best friends dad passed away, I'm horrible at comforting people. My Grandpa's having surgery the 22nd.
    I feel like I can't talk to anyone, even when I'm with family and friends I feel like I'm alone. I'm just so scared. I also haven't seen my other best friend I've known for 8 years in 2 years. Everyday I just wish my sibling who died before they were born could be here on Earth. I don't know what to do, I'm just lost in a world where I feeling like I'm drowning- I have had a near drowning experience. I keep worrying about something happening to my parents- mostly caused by my dad's car catching on fire with him inside when I was 4 and my friends Dad's death. Someone help please I'm just a lost 12 year hoping for someone to grab my hand and understand.😖😩😟
    I know this may sound stupid or like a cry for help- but online is the only place I feel like I can share my true feelings. Have a great day Everyone 🤩✨🤓💖 You're all awesome beloved children of God. Just remember this qoute "Every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day"💝❣️💌✨💓💗💖💬 I thought that quote was cute!!!🤓✨😁🤩👌 P.s. if you read all of this congratulations... Your crazy✨ Remember keep Calm and Smile Wide😁🤓🤩😃😇😺😸😻😍😝😋😉

    • @Cr4zy3lf
      @Cr4zy3lf Před 4 lety

      I use too many emojis 😐😑

    • @brandoncarrillo951
      @brandoncarrillo951 Před 4 lety

      It’s going to be ok! You have so much to live for and I might not know much about you but I know that you are strong! I like that quote I’m going to write it in my journal🙏🏽

    • @Cr4zy3lf
      @Cr4zy3lf Před 4 lety +2

      @@brandoncarrillo951 Thank you! You are a very kind person!

    • @brandoncarrillo951
      @brandoncarrillo951 Před 4 lety +1

      RandomGirl4 O_o thank you I believe we need to be like that with anyone. We need to be the good in a bad place. Good attracts good and we should strive for improving. Hope you have a blessed day🙏🏽

    • @Cr4zy3lf
      @Cr4zy3lf Před 4 lety +1

      @@brandoncarrillo951 Thank you it is night. I hope you have a good night/day too!

  • @natrisp6809
    @natrisp6809 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for this series, so helpful, thank you 😊

  • @ijbuilders2171
    @ijbuilders2171 Před 4 lety +2

    I always try to find therapists so i can get rid of this separation anxiety and im still a child and i always cry every night so pls anyone help me

    • @brandoncarrillo951
      @brandoncarrillo951 Před 4 lety

      I’m trying to find my own way as well. I’m 20 years old and I have finally accepted that I have separation anxiety. My advice is to always fight no matter what to improve yourself in any way that you can. Mentally and physically if you work on it rn you’ll have a better understanding of yourself and more love with yourself when you are older. This will help not only with yourself but also with relationships. Girlfriend boyfriend, friends, parents siblings you’ll appreciate them more and by knowing yourself you can also let them know how you are feeling. You are never alone 🙏🏽

  • @cupcakeratyt1338
    @cupcakeratyt1338 Před 3 lety +1

    anybody have emetaphobia? I think I do, it's the fear of vomiting, and I have had it for about four monthss, and let me tell you, it has been the worst 4 months of.my.life.
    I
    I really don't want to get the stomach flu, and I having had the stomach flu since I was 6 I think.I'm so anxious, most of the day, and it makes my stomach hurt, and then I get scared I'm going to be sick, and then I start crying. I'm getting therapy soon, and I just really hope it helps for good. I never want to get sick ever, but I know I will some day and that makes me very anxious and scared.

  • @jaydawg9616
    @jaydawg9616 Před 2 lety

    My son has alot of anxiety he worries when he's away from me and he's afraid that if he touches someone by accident that he's going to turn into that person and it's always something and doesn't focus in school due to his constant worrying. He will be seeing the Dr soon to get ADHD medicine they just diagnosed him. Can his lack of focus just be do to anxiety? I don't want to put him on meds that he doesn't need

  • @JoseRojas-bu9ts
    @JoseRojas-bu9ts Před 3 lety

    When ever I see someone like dieing or something very scary and that stuff and I get anixty 😔

  • @ar1eea.
    @ar1eea. Před 2 lety +3

    I’m a 10-year-old, and I am afraid of Natural Disasters, Ghosts, Kidnapping, Hacking. I’m a Extrovert, but still, I’m very concerned if people like my videos and stuff.

    • @Veryberrymalyali
      @Veryberrymalyali Před 2 lety +1

      Me too i was 9 wen i had symptom s now im 12 im still having issues

    • @ar1eea.
      @ar1eea. Před 2 lety

      I hope you get cured! 💜

  • @lorisheppard4410
    @lorisheppard4410 Před rokem

    I see early childhood separation.. but my child is 9 and just now having major separation anxiety.

    • @jensuttie74
      @jensuttie74 Před rokem

      Same! Did you find any strategies to help??

  • @merlinsheelajeyakumar3187

    hi mam yen jocker flim parthathu ipo rombha Payapadura nyt thoongamatra, yepdy avala payathulendhu meekurathu mam pls tel me

  • @lil_timmy7443
    @lil_timmy7443 Před 5 lety +9

    I am a child I have anxiety and stress when in the class two weeks ago I had a panic attack😢 usally when I have tests or something is going to happen I am scared when the door knocks and I will randomly cry. It is very annoying. Also when I talk about it my chest hurts or else If I am around crouded places or else even loud places I will freak my mucles tense I sweat I get pains in my chest and I begin to feel sick

    • @xnet8346
      @xnet8346 Před 5 lety +1

      Ginga Ninja o that’s happening with me man

    • @Olivia-he8ew
      @Olivia-he8ew Před 5 lety +1

      Same, I cant lean toward my window at night, I cant think about anything without wanting to cry, I keep having dreams that seem so real, etc...

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb Před 4 lety +1

      Holy crap same currently... But i hope things are better for u now!

  • @randomaccountthatparentsta6701

    I have anxiety when I wake up in the morning at six And here sounds coming from my parents room

  • @prime-boys
    @prime-boys Před 5 lety +4

    Anxiety is society unless you have values its confusing
    there is a answer

  • @normalchannel7106
    @normalchannel7106 Před 5 lety +1

    Do you know a way for me to get my fear out of thinking ima die because when Cameron Boyce died I got pain idk what and I got scared thinking i was going to die so can you help me

    • @normalchannel7106
      @normalchannel7106 Před 5 lety

      Thank you but I can’t do that.... do you know another way

  • @anish6295
    @anish6295 Před 2 lety +1

    I am feeling so scared to sit inside classroom after this Covid🥺 pls help me today at 4pm I have to be there😭 already my hands are cold and I am tensed 1 week before pls help

  • @simplybuyer1
    @simplybuyer1 Před 4 lety

    Hi, Please can you help me and advise on the anxiety I suffer with. I suffer with death anxiety and need help. Had it for over 10 months and take medicine too. If you can make contact, I would appreciate it very much

  • @gageedwards2780
    @gageedwards2780 Před 4 lety +1

    My 2 year old recently started having some type of fear or frightened about something. Which she starts to cry and clings to me, she has been in day care since she was 24 mos old. And she is used to the environment around her as well the other todddlers with her, but I’m not sure why she is clingy.

    • @norleng2
      @norleng2 Před 3 lety

      Hi, my 3yr old is doing the same now, can u share anything abt how it went? Did She get over it? Mine gets really upset and clingy

    • @DarkAngel-cj6sx
      @DarkAngel-cj6sx Před 2 lety

      My 3.5 years old has been scared of everything since he was born.
      Only mom and dad and now he is terrified of other children and dogs

    • @liila52
      @liila52 Před 2 lety

      guys mine is the same, she is 4 and started when is was 4 and not sure what caused? how your children doing now

  • @inachu
    @inachu Před 2 lety

    I love all this tech info on anxiety but I always no matter the subject matter be it health or tech.... to think outside of the box.
    So on that my theory on anxiety is.... What if as a human species we are starting to diverge?
    One human race based on tech. The other on empathy and we are just overwhelmed with everything?

  • @nauka7565
    @nauka7565 Před 4 lety

    Idk if I have social anxiety or no but I really fear talking to someone, I really hate being yell at because of my attitude, I dont want to be rude at all. I just want to help others but maybe if Im right there with the person the person would hate me. And other says that "You hate me" even though I do not. Its very common from others to say that I hate them. So I hate myself right now, idk what I do that makes other hate me. I want to change but it seems that I still not a changed person. I really hate myself. Sorry for everything. I really sorry.
    Edit: but if I know that the people care for me I would not fear to talk to them, I can talk everything to them.

    • @nauka7565
      @nauka7565 Před 4 lety

      Sorry for the poor grammar I really didnt think about it

  • @iconicstar-tysmfor50subs22

    I’ve had social anxiety for like my whole life I’ve even been diagnosed

  • @Madebyjasndk
    @Madebyjasndk Před 7 měsíci

    Hi, my daughter is 7 years old, and i think she is having anxiety attacks she said that her tummy hurts her hands and gets cold she wants to heat things and worry that she eats she will be sick

  • @user-vc4wf9nm5h
    @user-vc4wf9nm5h Před 10 měsíci

    My son-in-law has OCD
    Will that affect my grand daughter genetically who is now 6yrs old n by nature doesn't like crowd n now this academic year from the beginning says that she doesn't want to go to school
    Kindly reply

  • @amruthaammu8783
    @amruthaammu8783 Před 4 lety

    If we have fear with whom we gone to plz tel anyone I'm felt fear throught the nyt n frequent urination n anxiety is tr is a doctor to treat tis I am thought I gone to die plz tel. With whom. We go n took a treatment pschyatrist or urologist or with whom

  • @zimpk8033
    @zimpk8033 Před 4 lety +1

    how do i get over my anxiety of not being with my parents is it to do with my adhd

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb Před 4 lety

      Ask for help, ask ur parents, or any adult u KNOW (like a teacher) if u mean ur parents arent around for u, probably not adhd but could be PART of it

  • @rahulagrawal3484
    @rahulagrawal3484 Před 5 lety +2

    Hi, My son is having fear about loosing his mother since he has seen a bollywood movie in which an actress is kidnapped, Raped and killed. Off course there were no actual rape or killing shots. But there were mention of that orally for many times. Now he feels if something similar happens to his mother then. He cries in school fearing about mother. What shall I do?

  • @kamalpreetrakhra8071
    @kamalpreetrakhra8071 Před 5 lety +1

    We started taking our 18 months for storytelling classes and other activities. he enjoys them a lot and does not show any sign of stress or anxiety. However, he does not sleep well at night. He wakes up at 2 or 3 am and does not go back to sleep for a couple of hours. Next day is happy and cheerful but naps for a longer time. Can you explain why he is showing this behavior.

    • @cygnus2206
      @cygnus2206 Před 5 lety

      Depression can do that. It’s easy to fake happiness when your depressed, especially if your surrounded by happy people and have been doing it for a while.

    • @mylink.orb17
      @mylink.orb17 Před 3 lety +2

      Because he's a baby.
      Did he grow out of it?

    • @rajshreekeny8369
      @rajshreekeny8369 Před rokem

      I can help you in this as have gone thru and overcome the same problem

  • @myragatchalian1
    @myragatchalian1 Před 5 lety +4

    When you said treatment for young children with anxiety...do you mean taking medication to manage it?

    • @cygnus2206
      @cygnus2206 Před 5 lety

      yes

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb Před 4 lety +1

      Nah, could also mean someone who helps them through speaking/therapy

  • @vanessabayardo9788
    @vanessabayardo9788 Před 3 lety

    Today my nephew got home. He didn't want anyone near him. We also have another nephew in the house. The 19 month old has hit the 3 year old. I've noticed whenever my 2 yr old get near the 1 year old, the 1 year old's mom will put her giant hand on her face and tell him not to get near him. When her son has hit him or even tried to hit him, she hides behind the excuse of "it was as accident". Now that my 3 year old finally has learned to tell him no, his grandma starts telling him oh stop saying no. Hello, the 1 yr old was trying to hit him. I'm just so exasperated with all of the adults. Whenever my nephew comes over, I follow him all over the place, I become his bodyguard. Now my nephew doesn't want to come to our house anymore and people wonder why. Are they kidding me?!

  • @nilamdebi3638
    @nilamdebi3638 Před 2 lety

    My 2 months baby scared of moving things what can i do now?is this normal