My dream wedding that only lasted 5 Months~Part 1
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- čas přidán 31. 03. 2020
- The birth of "The Fix With Righteous"
This video was recorded for the first launch event hosted by 'The fix with Righteous' on 7th September 2019.
It was all perfect in the beginning, I never imagined such a beautiful thing to easily collapse like that.
(The message which birthed the fix, How it all started)
Last year on the same day as today I was getting married💑💑 it was a happy and wonderful day, to a man I believed I would spend the rest of my life with😊forgetting that God's ways ain't our ways certainly. His plans are better than ours. Just when I believed I had found my prince charming of which I know is every girl's dream.😅
I remember vowing before God, my parents and everyone who came to celebrate with us that I will live with this man till Jesus Christ comes back🙏but as the scripture says: His plans are way too different from ours. Within 5 months of our marriage he decided to leave, 😞😞 I mean dump me🙈🙈as embarrassing as it sounds I have to say it as it is😅vanitshikile😅I gladly accepted the breakup, not because it was what I wanted but merely because, you cannot force someone to love you when they have outgrown you; (very important ) and because I trusted The Lord's will, if He wanted the marriage to work He would have saved it.
I knew my value, I trusted God, as difficult as it was I said to myself Lord if its Your will let this cup pass me, I believed He wouldn't take me to a place where He wouldn't sustain me, and I also rejoiced that I was trusted with such a huge mountain to climb for a purpose, it didn't make sense then but it does now. It wasn't easy but I can tell you it is through His power, his grace and His ability that I made it.
As the pastor's first born child, everything is expected to be perfect in people's eyes 😕😕unfortunately 😕now when faced with such a challenge the first thing that came to my mind was I've let my parents down😓their ministry, calling and leadership, that broke my heart, but again I encouraged myself saying, it's beyond my control. a I really want to thank my parents for the unconditional love and support they gave me, from day 1 till to date. I made it because they had my back💓💓💓💓 I was taught that prayer changes everything, I was taught that tough times never last but tough people do, again I was taught that giving in is not an option and I'm grateful and thankful to God that I wasn't the one who threw the towel. I did what the word says "... and having done all to stand firm. Stand..." I thank God I'm still standing😍😍😍
I never dreamt of myself facing such a challenge, I never saw myself being considered in the group of divorcees. I never imagined my life detouring in that direction but let me gladly say to you today, JESUS is alive🙏🙏I'm confirming this to you with so much confidence I saw him takeover in my life just when I thought I'd fall apart, that it is the end with me and my future, I'll be judged, crucified (just like Jesus, vaku YENA AYAKWINI😂😂) how do I face the world, how do I start over. I had all these questions, unfortunately I never had answers!
I then remembered the scripture "come to me all of you who are tired and weary I will give you rest" I made that decision to go to the creator I gave him my pain, I told him how I felt , I told him how heavy the load is, I cried the pain out to Him😊 I can still remember when He whispered to me "I'm with you" I will carry you, this too shall pass, that night I prayed like never before after that prayer I remember very well it was November I gained my life back😊I started to have peace from within, I started not to worry what will people say I reminded myself It matters what God says not what Peninah/people say.
I now understand better why He said I will never leave you nor Forsake you, I understand even much better when He says lean not on your own understanding, I'm very glad that after such a big bomb which was meant to kill/destroy me or even challenge my faith in Christ, I came out very strong. Very strong gold was manufactured after that hot fire😊😊 ...what excites me more is regardless of how painful that situation was I was never admitted in any hospital,I never slept under the influence of medication or alcohol (how nice 😅) but Christ carried me,😘😘 He specialises in such things, I saw Him doing it for me.
Now to those of you feeling like God doesn't love you when the world turns against you, it's a lie, God loves us all. I can tell you with unwavering confidence that He cares. All you need to do is to cast all your burdens to Him because He cares for you. He wouldn't bring you to it, if He couldn't bring you through it🙌or sustain you. I don't know who I'm talking to right now who feels it's over, it's not over it's only the beginning.
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Came out sane , no limb lost .. Girl you are in one piece . Praise Jesus🙌. Healed now going strong.. Own it . Your journey was carved out this way . May God hold your hand and lead you to the land of milk and honey .you are cute and your voice is sweet by the way .. Good storyteller ❣💕💞
Ncwooo this is beautiful thank u soo much🤗🤗🤗🤗
I love how she doesn't bad mouth her ex husband. She's really a good person
This is really not about him, but the lessons learned😙😙thank u
Once you and your partner decide to get married. Both of you must be more prayerful than before. The devil hates marriage and people around might be working behind the scenes.
Devil hates marriages look at the high divorce rate..I pray God fixes his world through my story.
More than we think
Sorry Righteous. Am watching from Kenya 🇰🇪. Anyone watching from East Africa hit like button.
Sesi Righteous you have been called for times such as these where people feel pressure because of age and other factors like societal expectations. I'm waiting patiently for part two. You came out stronger, wiser and better ❤️❤️❤️
I came across your story at "I've been through the most" then i decided to subscribe to your channel.. You made me realise how much God loves me through your story..
Wow such a beautiful feedback, thank you soo much he loves us all even when we face trials he's still our father. Hope all is well with you 😍🤗
All is well.. As i wait patiently for part two. It's a wonderful thing you are doing here in these end times.. We need more sisters like you who will encourage us that purpose is far more important than relationships.
@@faycraftsfaycrafts3128 I'm happy you see it that way and as a learning curve because thats exactly what i am up for..I want my scars to be a healing to someone else..thank u
The accent made me love to listen to you more and more .your story is so educative .another part please
Love u even more ❤️❤️
Righteous that man he wll never meet someone sweet like you may God gave a good husband
Amen I receive🤗🤗
The Fix you are God sent woooow . You are an inspiration to many
Thank you for sharing your story❤️ It has encouraged me to wait a little longer until God approves
Please wait on God...
I love you darling.Your story is giving me alot of courage to be more focused in life and learn to wait on God
I'm glad your motivated 🤗
Beautiful Lady with a beautiful soul. God bless you ❤️❤️❤️
Oooh my God!I never thought I would ever meet a person with a story similar to mine.My heart is touched.I see Gods faithfulness in your glow..God did the same for me because people do not understand how I continue to be so happy after everything that happened...and I tell them its all God
I'm soo happy that there's someone who witnessed the same grace, he loves us we owe him ourlives 🙏
Watching this over n over💕 you're a blessing
God is great and I am grateful for such, I found my purpose through it🙏❤️
I watched this woman on I’ve been through a lot. The story is changing.
I love this woman God give to me as my family in SA thank you beautiful keep that to educate us.
Thank u soo much I'm truly humbled 🙏🙏
watching from Kenya .I feel you.Hugs dear!
Look how beautiful, glowing and happy you look now.
😍😍😍thank u
You're very strong, blessed and chosen
Thank you soo much is all God shame🙏🙏
I love you, you keep me smiling 😁😁. Saw you first time about two months ago on "I've been through the most"
❤️❤️❤️Thank you for following me
Righteous you are a very strong woman.continue to share your story to encourage other ladies and ignore fault finders who don't know what you have been throug!
Very few ladies can go through what you went through and come victoriously as you are.continue to serve God and be a shinning light. The bible says that they overcame them by the blood of the lamb and the word of their testimonies. your testimony is encouraging someone somewhere!
Thank you soo much if this failed to break me, I don't believe there's anything on this world that can ever do. And my prayer is that my testimony heals every broken person out there, that's actually what the fix is all about.
#rejection means redirection#
Thank you🤗🤗🤗
THIS VIDEO IS GOING VIRAL. THANK YOU FOR BEING SO BRAVE TO SHARE YOUR STORY. BELIEVE IT THAT YOUR'RE IMPACTING A LOT OF YOUNG LIVES OUT THERE AND SAVING SOMEONE FROM A POSSIBLE DISASTER....LOVE FROM NAMIBIA
I'm humbled and glorify God for using me as a vessel to touch lives through my experience 🙏🙏
You are a queen😍
You are so strong and I'm very motivated. I was so hurt when l was listening to your story but God has a purpose for both of us. I'm about to get married l once thought twice but l believe that was your bridge and you crossed it and you are still strong and bold❤❤❤❤God will never slumber.
You are strong sis Righteous ❤
Thank you soo much sesi
Much Love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Thank you for following ❤️❤️❤️
Wa musyi osa ngethi.
I listened to your story first at the cent twins channel. Glad to be your new subscriber
Welcome hun🤗🤗thank you for following
You are a very good storyteller , I'm enjoying listening to you while typing some work. I'm learning a lot from your experiences.
Thank you soo much😗
Such a strong women 🤍
May you continue to heal Sis🧡♥️
Amen.. Thank u
You are strong, courageous and inspiring
Thank you soo much 🤗
I am baffled at what really made the guy walk away, he should tell the lady for closure because rejection is painful.
We spoke and we are now in good terms🙏
Ok so far so good let me go to part 2
Waiting part 2 I love your joy and the way you narrate your story
This week thursday 😍😍😍
@@thefixwithrighteous4031 I stumbled on your channel a good story teller like a true African new subscriber +44 LONDON LOCKED.
@@mstevens832 welcome to the channel 🤗🤗thank u for the feedback
This is very encouraging
Thank u soo much
cant wait for part...pleaseeee
Its coming
you were dealing with a manipulative person who never genuinely loved you and was pretending all along- very simple.
A year later I'm back on this video's again. 🙌
They are very interesting to watch because you are a very good storyteller.
Thank you buti 😘❤️
Saw your story on the *centtwinz tv* channel. Yoooh eish. This makes marriage even scarier for those already sceptical. But yah, it sounds like demons took over as soon as he said *I do*
Fear is the opposite of faith, it should never be entertained
She got married to a demon
I understand you Mahali.
But from my own experience, let's not give demons a platform, yes they exist but in this case, I feel like it was a journey that God turned for good. The lessons, the strength and outcome that resulted so that you and I are hear getting reassured that ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR GOOD. the devil can never finish us. ❤
You are such a beautiful Young Lady I like your smile.
Yoooh I learnt 🔥🔥 God bless u for sharing ses
God bless you ❤️😊
If this guy loved like this I think this man was bewitched afterwards remember the devil does not like beautiful things
Am inclined to think so too.These guys had been friends for soo long...we don't know about the mother of his kids and whether they were done...other gals...her ex etc... there is need to engage in deliverance prayers for her self but himself too...as human beings it's easier to blame the person u see instead of the adversary the devil and his agents.sad but God conquers all witchcraft as well....seek God intently
I agree too. I think he was bewitched. Im sure some people were not happy for her or the both of them. Some people even use gifts they give to you at a bridal shower or wedding to bewitch you. It sounds like he really did love her.
Oh My...you look in your early 20s for real
#goals
😊😊😊What a beautiful compliment 😇💕thank u
Mhhh I feel you!
It it weird that i kinda admire u a lot ...like i can see ur gonna be a good influence on my thinking ur values are awesome
Thank you for following and I love you 🤗
The Lord will continually encourage you ma...
Subbed immediately
Welcome mommy❤️❤️
Has Part 2 been uploaded?
Oh this lady is beautiful and amazing saw her story on you she wiĺl find love team kenya
Thank you dearest🤗🤗
You are so pretty and look so young strong powerful woman of God you are
😍😍😍thank u soo much
your my inspiration righteous
I can't find u on that number u gave me..
@@thefixwithrighteous4031 +256757773330
@@thefixwithrighteous4031 is there I can reach you? Am from Uganda, maybe be I catch u on Twitter or Facebook? You mind hun?
@@omegajudith3534 let me text u
So emotional
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Is part 2 already out?
Followed u here from CentTwinz TV
Welcome🤗🤗🤗
hello, great video but the background music is super loud..I love that song so much thankfully 💕
Hello noted will work on it🙏🙏
Wow wat a great story ,but now I'm scared to even get married cause I'm in a serious relationship with someone and we are about to get married
Please watch my next video titled why did I get married? Theres nothing to be scared about
You have not been given the spirit of fear.but of power love and sound mind. Remember marriage is a step of faith,and other people's experiences may not be your experience.don't allow fear to cripple you.
❤️❤️❤️
When are uploading part 2?!!!its been 4 days wait now😢😭..pls upload a part at least daily.
I upload every Thursday...😂😂😂relax we are coming
Haha I feel you.
Are you sure one of your bridal showers wasn't to cancel your marriage. I wouldn't trust people
I wouldn't know sis, but the great news is that whatever it is, it never succeeded, God spared my life for a greater purpose I'm grateful
Righteous, are you still married to this men , I don’t understand when you said , happily ever after 😍
Lol it was a joke🙈🤣🤣🤣🤣
Am still lost...why does the headline read 'lasted only 5 months ' then she ends the story with 'and they lived happily ever after?!'
Go to Centtwinz :I've been through the most and you will understand.
Poor girl, this was love-bombing usually done by controlling narcs. I'm glad you can now smile. Wish you well.
God is good. Im sory to disturb sisters, pls give me the name of the background song...
Mercy chinwo-Chinedum
Beautiful song indeed 😍
What's the name of the song playing In the background?.👌👌
Chinedum by Mercy Chinwo
Hey Righteous, thank you for sharing your story.
Would you be comfortable enough to share what your parents saw that you didn't in regards to your ex husband before you got married?. I ask because such information could help someone even myself, who wants to enter marriage, and can't see the red flags, and everything seems to be okay but in actual fact disaster could be waiting.
Hey sis
Compliments to the new season
Please watch all my videos and my healing process I have addressed everything. I recently posted few episodes on my family speaking for themselves...
@@thefixwithrighteous4031 thank u💕
We are good now, Thanks to those who brought it to my attention that this section was locked..
The Fix With Righteous Awh righteous ❤️❤️Can you please upload part 2
@@gmk9732 its coming boo
Hi, where can I find the part 2?
@@mamamalet on Thursday it will be up
Why do I think he actually genuinely loved and still loves you Please engage in intense prayer specifically on this matter and inquire from God of any demonic interventions like witchcraft, ancestral stronghold, household wickedness..etc...God will reveal to you in a dream who bewitched you two.You story in deep spiritually...it's not an ordinary failed marriage story...I will keep watching and listening...pray pray pray...do deliverance and inquiry prayers..say show me God, who brought what at your wedding or functions etc
Wow, everything was so perfect dear, but God had another plans for u, he wanted u to be a witness.
How i wish i can just see the whole picture of ur ex husband hey
Are you intending to get married again in future?
Ooh YES 🤣🤣love did not hurt me a person did 🙈🙈
@@thefixwithrighteous4031 I'm so glad to hear
May the Good Lord restore you ❤❤❤
Witchcraft 😭😭😭is real
Where is part 2
😂😋😋😄😄😄 these good memories
Very beautiful memories right🙈🙈🤗
Stay turned for part 2
Yeah Elders used to say if the Lobola paid once its a taboo the marriage will not last .....maybe thats why sorry eey
But do you believe in that?
I think if you don't believe on something it has no power over you, I doubt that was the case
in our culture (Zimbabwean ) you dnt pay all the Lobola in one day even if you have it Apparently its bad luck.
But I think it all depends on your believes, if you don't believe on something it won't have power over you. But i hear, as for me i believe this had to happen
Yhuu ha.a your dad
I wish u good luck but I think de Guy was still Young or maybe he was cheating on u
Only God knows hey but it really doesnt matter anymore his plan prevailed..
Someone leaving you after the honeymoon you might have lied that maybe you are a virgin which you are maybe not or maybe you talk too much. Man don’t easily work away like that. And by the look of things you talk too much say the whole part of the story why did he went.
What is marriage all about? Is it the person's character or?
This might help me better
And what is LOVE?
The Fix With Righteous marriage is about character and person
@@seunkambaraa1340 lies can destroy marriage I agree with you but in my case it was nothing like that, the talking too much is true but I just didn't start after the wedding..
@@seunkambaraa1340 my believe and definition of love is that I should never marry a person hoping to change them, because that can be frustrating if they don't become what u want them to be. Love is kind... The idea of getting married hoping to change a person messes a lot of people and beautiful unions this days