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Komentáře • 81

  • @dize3672
    @dize3672 Před 7 měsíci +120

    Your constant self reflection and questioning is soo reassuring. It tells me you will be an EXCELLENT doctor.

  • @anganilemercy9357
    @anganilemercy9357 Před 7 měsíci +106

    Faye, hunny!! I’m a current F2 and honestly what you were saying about professionalism I felt so the same as an F1. When you naturally have a bubbly personality it just comes out in your practice, it just does. BUT I honestly think most patients really appreciate a doctor that has a friendly and cheery personality like yours and mine (hehe), don’t underestimate the positive impact it has, you’re smashing it !! ❤

    • @ataulkarim8809
      @ataulkarim8809 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Exactly. If I see myself as a patient which I have been a lot of time I would chose a friendly doctor. If I am in a middle of health chaos I would also want a friend. And I have gone to many doctors. But personally I only remembered the ones who gave medical and life advices like a strict friend.

  • @larissat2943
    @larissat2943 Před 7 měsíci +85

    I do want a human being though, your personality is so incredibly refreshing in ER.. I totally get the professionality part BUT sometimes when you are scared and stressed - you do not want a robot - your personality is incredible for being a doctor.
    Also, seeing the cogs working is refreshing and being slow is refreshing - showing that you CARE!
    Its funny because all the parts you are pulling yourself up on are what set you apart. 💖

  • @johannamariabeck-faubl9062
    @johannamariabeck-faubl9062 Před 7 měsíci +15

    I’ve spent a lot of time in hospital and tbh I lose my shit and clam up when I have to talk to doctors, the only time I’ve managed to actually open up to them and tell them how I’m feeling was when they stepped out of their professional doctor self and were humans with medical knowledge instead and I truly appreciated when a doctor said “hey, I’m sorry I don’t really know what’s going on with you, I’m going to refer you to xyz” and that’s when I felt the safest bc I knew they were being honest ❤️

  • @SimplyErinful
    @SimplyErinful Před 7 měsíci +8

    These are so comforting to watch. I’m a trainee pharmacist and it’s so nice to hear other newly qualified healthcare professionals talk about their experiences

  • @oddchild8949
    @oddchild8949 Před 7 měsíci +20

    Very long but I’m here for it all!!

    • @FayeBate
      @FayeBate  Před 7 měsíci +3

      I apologise in advance for all my rambles, please feel free to skip or use 2x speed xxxx

    • @oddchild8949
      @oddchild8949 Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@FayeBateNot a problem at all. Thoroughly enjoying it! Thanks for the video

  • @poetrybysuhashani__
    @poetrybysuhashani__ Před 7 měsíci

    your content is inspiring. documenting your challenges & seeing your raw emotions helps a lot of us in navigating our own struggles. so thank you for being so vulnerable ✨

  • @GirlWhoVlogs22
    @GirlWhoVlogs22 Před 7 měsíci +16

    We love a long vlog, the increase in your confidence honestly gal, you're doing such an amazing job ♡

  • @linda4335
    @linda4335 Před 7 měsíci

    I don’t think you know how inspiring you are and how good you’re doing! You can be so proud Faye and you’re gonna continue being an amazing doctor! ❤️

  • @metamoneko147
    @metamoneko147 Před 7 měsíci +3

    It’s such a joy to watch you and even if I’m not a doctor or anything close it’s so relatable to watch you having those selfreflecting moments, the joy, the pain, the fun and energy ❤ please keep the vlogs they really are so relaxing and fun to watch 🎉

  • @beatricesekula-petukhov2352
    @beatricesekula-petukhov2352 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I love these vlogs sooo much! I don’t even care how long they are, they are just so comforting to watch. I am a second year medical student right now and I’ve been watching your vlogs since before I started Uni, you are just so inspirational, thank you 🤗🫶🏻

  • @Serine_T
    @Serine_T Před 7 měsíci +4

    my comforting youtuberr !

    • @FayeBate
      @FayeBate  Před 7 měsíci

      This makes me so happy given the special place my comfort CZcamsrs have in my heart 🥲🥲 thank you so much for sticking around 🤍

  • @RachelBrown-uk7rl
    @RachelBrown-uk7rl Před 7 měsíci +19

    Omg nearly one hour of Faye 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 please do an updated notion tour please, please, please 🙏

    • @FayeBate
      @FayeBate  Před 7 měsíci

      HOPE YOU ENJOY!! 💖💖💖

  • @idilsuozer8800
    @idilsuozer8800 Před 7 měsíci +25

    You inspire me so much Faye, keep going like this and you are gonna be very successful doctor!

  • @princessangelstar2351
    @princessangelstar2351 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Ooh Faye I loved this vlog!! I love that you have a job and have the same fears and stresses a lot of us have. I think its sometimes hard to relate to influencers that are 'only' influencers. I'm a junior software engineer girlie and I feel so many of the feelings that you describe, with the only difference being, that all my faluts can be easily reverted and no human being sufferes any harm 👀 I looove your rambles and your thoughts about your every day live! And your hometown does look really beautiful!

  • @user-gi3yr1gl7j
    @user-gi3yr1gl7j Před 7 měsíci

    FINALLY ANOTHER VLOG THANK YOU FAYE

  • @shahdali9351
    @shahdali9351 Před 7 měsíci

    Missed your vlogs on youtube faye 🫶🏽 seeing this notification gave me so much joy

  • @SweetMoon87
    @SweetMoon87 Před 7 měsíci +8

    I’m a nurse and suffer with this type of anxiety everyday.

  • @tiffanytesta1036
    @tiffanytesta1036 Před 7 měsíci +15

    Hi! Couldn’t express this medicine related anxiety any better, you only really get it when you experience it. Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @dominique130
    @dominique130 Před 7 měsíci

    I love these style of vlogs, I work in research/clinical trials where we aim to positively impact various systems and procedures in the NHS, and honestly hearing from your perspective what it's like to work frontline in the NHS, issues etc. is so interesting and helpful. You're doing amazing Faye! ❤

  • @amieet
    @amieet Před 7 měsíci +2

    Oh Faye, I have no clue why but you telling the story about the consultant complimenting you- it made me tear up 🥹 so proud 🥰

  • @justinfelt748
    @justinfelt748 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Hi, Faye and Happy Monday!😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷🇬🇧💜💜💜💜💜💜🎇👍. You're the prettiest doctor in the world with good vibes. And I like it so much.⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐. I'm so proud of you!🌷

  • @puneet6940
    @puneet6940 Před 7 měsíci

    Loved the long vlog!

  • @Ozmensshop
    @Ozmensshop Před 7 měsíci +7

    I’m currently working as an FY2 and I really think a lot of patients appreciate a bubbly and personable doctor- I would not try to change your personality at all, it sounds like it’s very obvious you care deeply about each of your patients. Also I don’t think you need to work on your poker face- I think people can subconsciously sense if you see unsure of what is going on (as I often am). I think there is a lot of strength in being able to say to a patient ‘I’m not sure what is going on and I am doing x,y,z to find out’ or ‘I’m not sure I’m going to check with a more senior doctor’. I’ve always found it’s much better to be honest with patients about when I am unsure and explaining to them what I am doing to try to find out (I.e speaking to someone else or doing more tests). I think it builds trust as they can see I’m being honest and not hiding anything. Whatever stage of your career there is always going to be something you won’t know for certain and I think it creates better healthcare for the patient if you let them know this instead of trying to fool them that you are an omniscient medical being.

  • @92madsk
    @92madsk Před 7 měsíci +1

    I’m going into a final year of Health Information Management (undergraduate). A lot of people do not understand the effort and expertise that goes into changing medical records systems or any clinical data systems. Everyone knows that electronic medical records are the way forward but unfortunately it’s not as easy as pushing a button but are years in the making. I feel for you Faye as person on the front line whose workflow is completely changed!

  • @murielsophie1210
    @murielsophie1210 Před 7 měsíci +3

    you're just my comfort youtuber ❤

    • @FayeBate
      @FayeBate  Před 7 měsíci

      🥲🫶🏼🥲🫶🏼🥲

  • @dreaminrebecca
    @dreaminrebecca Před 7 měsíci +1

    Hii, you completely Inspired me to become a doctor myself ❤❤ thank you so much

  • @arellayolanda8901
    @arellayolanda8901 Před 7 měsíci

    yayyy I missed the vlogs :)

  • @Mogalog
    @Mogalog Před 7 měsíci +13

    I should revise for my mocks but I'd rather watch Faye ❤❤

    • @FayeBate
      @FayeBate  Před 7 měsíci +4

      Good luck with your mocks!!! And hoping the vid doesn’t lead to too much procrastination xoxox

  • @auntiemichelleoutdoorsygir9909

    YOU crack me up! Much entertainment, keeping it real - dropping sh#@@$^t all over the place whilst brushing your teeth, multitasking.

  • @user-gd6qc8wq4p
    @user-gd6qc8wq4p Před 7 měsíci +1

    Hi faye, great vlog as always, how about a life update on your uni mates are they enjoying there hospitals as much as you?etc

  • @carlybenarbia9193
    @carlybenarbia9193 Před 7 měsíci

    Love your vlogs x

  • @chaos_willow169
    @chaos_willow169 Před 5 měsíci

    i love the long vlogs to watch while i'm studying because its like we're working together :)

  • @jas_313
    @jas_313 Před 7 měsíci

    Wooo a new vlog🥳

  • @jordann1115
    @jordann1115 Před 7 měsíci +4

    The only thing I want as a patient is a human. I know I am not alone in that. The most safe hands possible ARE human hands. Doctor human hands. You can be both at the same time which will greatly ease your patients' anxiety

  • @bryainmaradiaga5544
    @bryainmaradiaga5544 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Min: 39! You're so right about this! As a physician, this should be implemented; we need to communicate better with our patients and let them know the whole picture or at least describe it

  • @mollyrice1578
    @mollyrice1578 Před 7 měsíci

    Love the chatty vlogs! Just a small piece of advice based on your chats! Grab a clothes steamer whilst it’s Black Friday and they’re cheap! As a fellow ADHDer I always hate the feeling of crinkled clothes but never iron! A steamer is convenient but also kinda fun 😂 and you don’t need to go through the effort of setting up an ironing board, dodging the cable of the iron and just the hassle!!!

  • @nomnomtime
    @nomnomtime Před 7 měsíci +2

    I recently switched to the salt of earth, unscented salt stick deodorant thing. GAMECHANGER!! I was so sceptical at first. But it actually works 🤯 especially with my sensitive skin. Love your vlogs Faye 🫶🏿

  • @NatureRyan24364
    @NatureRyan24364 Před 7 měsíci

    Love the video

  • @JakeANDmima
    @JakeANDmima Před 7 měsíci

    came from insta OMG AN HOUR 💜

  • @kia-883
    @kia-883 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Ahhh I can never sleep in either and get super bored, I’ve never found someone that can relate!

  • @originalpix
    @originalpix Před 7 měsíci +4

    Hey Faye! As a mum to a teen we found Mitchum less effective.. the BEST is Sure Maximum Protection with 96hr protection. The only deodorant to beat atomic body odour and on Amazon ❤

  • @jenniferisbellajimenezlope4462

    Minute 12:45. Feeling the winter season as well here

  • @JOR20.A
    @JOR20.A Před 7 měsíci

    Hi Faye!!! Lovely video as always 😍
    Can I ask what uni do you go to?

  • @natureangel33
    @natureangel33 Před 7 měsíci

    It's important for all of us to remember that doctors are human too and that there is a shortage but they are trying to do the best that they can. I get patients being upset because it is annoying waiting for hours BUT it is not the doctors fault! Side note: I think it depends on the patient but I would want a human casual friendly doctor because I know that doctors are human and you already don't feel good in the hospital so a friendly face goes a long way ❤

  • @tashapanayi7681
    @tashapanayi7681 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Girl, use the roll on in that brand of deodorant! The powder or the gel roll on is amazing, you smell funky fresh without the funky all day!🫶

    • @saraadams6447
      @saraadams6447 Před 7 měsíci +3

      yes was gonna say this, roll on is king for that brand

  • @jadoreux
    @jadoreux Před 4 měsíci

    The mitchum ultimate cream one is absolutely incredible I somehow got through labour, c section, a week in hospital and postpartum sweats which honestly I didn't think was possible 😂😂 I got the spray version but I'm not impressed

  • @caitlyntree6129
    @caitlyntree6129 Před 7 měsíci

    12:45 bless you!

  • @marinaxx5539
    @marinaxx5539 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Sorry for possibly weird wording, I don't know how to say it in Englisch - but the amount of spinning your washing machine does also affects your clothes being crinkled. Less spinning, less crinkles. Maybe you'd want to take that into account as well. Love your vlogs and your emotional rambles! ❤❤

  • @__AlisaRahman
    @__AlisaRahman Před měsícem

    I like ur sense of humour

  • @emilyfagg349
    @emilyfagg349 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I think a little bit of anxiety is healthy in your position! I’d be super concerned if my doctor wasn’t worried about making a wrong decision and wasn’t fully thinking things through. Side note: have you tried a steamer? I’ll never go back to ironing

  • @EmilyJohnson-jh6jd
    @EmilyJohnson-jh6jd Před 5 měsíci

    Get the Sure wind up deodorant think mines the confidence one. Its incredible! Its about £5

  • @yolayola7655
    @yolayola7655 Před 7 měsíci

    An hour long yaayyyyy🩷🩷✨✨🥳🥳🥳🤣

  • @serena7418
    @serena7418 Před 3 měsíci

    Loved this vlog were is your pink clip from? 💕

  • @lisabernard1797
    @lisabernard1797 Před 7 měsíci

    Wild deodorant is really good and it's aluminium free so much healthier for you! 😊

  • @amy_runs
    @amy_runs Před 7 měsíci +1

    Personally, I prefer it when a clinician is more casual and personable. That said, I work in paediatrics and it may differ depending on the environment and the patient! You'd fit right into paediatric ED if you ever have a rotation there

  • @Hannah-oy2ic
    @Hannah-oy2ic Před 7 měsíci

    I'm the odd one out when it comes to healthcare because when I hear the words 'theres a locum' o'r there's a trainee/ newly qualified is that okay? I'm so happy because they're more thorough and have often better knowledge about things because they haven't gotten into a routine or stuck in their own ways of doing things. All they know is the masses of knowledge they have been taught over the last 5 years and they often miss things less.
    An example was I had a cough for 6+ weeks, went and saw a locum and he sent me for an urgent chest x-ray tested me for asthma etc. he then gave me acid reflux tablets and it worked! I then went back to my GP at home to get a refill of these tablets because my cough was back after not having them for a few day and the Dr there said oh I don't believe that actually works you don't need them I'm not giving you a prescription... 🙃

  • @bellaandnemo
    @bellaandnemo Před 7 měsíci

    native deodorant is theeee best i've ever tried!

  • @Dalimrg
    @Dalimrg Před 7 měsíci

    More Vlogs pleeeeease😂❤❤❤

  • @laurachm
    @laurachm Před 7 měsíci

    That biscoff cheesecake looks delish

  • @cerysdevin9135
    @cerysdevin9135 Před 2 měsíci

    Llandudno girlies rise!!

  • @HowToSaveMoneyOnCarRepairs
    @HowToSaveMoneyOnCarRepairs Před 7 měsíci +1

    They are all Angry, some people just can not Control Their Emotions...! Especially post COVID...!🤔😇

  • @kazianika4897
    @kazianika4897 Před 7 měsíci

    Which part of wales is she in?

  • @beethemessiah9973
    @beethemessiah9973 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Nothing says welcome to the medical world quite like a pissy patient!! I’ve been both worker and patient 😂😂

  • @FestivalChic
    @FestivalChic Před 7 měsíci +2

    Hang your clothes in a damp shower room = creases drop out and look like you've ironed them ✌🏻

  • @sebastianhavestad8498
    @sebastianhavestad8498 Před 4 měsíci

    6:28 How tall are you?

  • @user-gd6qc8wq4p
    @user-gd6qc8wq4p Před 7 měsíci +2

    The minimum wage will now be £11.44, weird to think that you and your F1colleagues are only earning just over £3 more 😮😮😮😮

  • @__AlisaRahman
    @__AlisaRahman Před měsícem

    You look like Gal gadot

  • @nataliemodrzynski53
    @nataliemodrzynski53 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I would personally disagree about wanting an omnipotent doctor. It has taken me 7 years to get a endometriosis diagnosis and the doctors who acted like they knew everything/couldn’t be wrong are one of the reasons it took so long. I would far FAR rather a human told me that they couldn’t be sure, but their best assessment is ‘X’. Just putting forwards another perspective 🩵

  • @theadventuresofvic
    @theadventuresofvic Před 7 měsíci

    12:46 bless you!!!

  • @Aditi-zs9jk
    @Aditi-zs9jk Před 7 měsíci

    I think being nervous vs being a human is a different thing. Being nervous can be scary and maybe you don’t want a nervous doctor but as a patient most people definitely want a human doctor. I think a lot of people recognise that doctors are gonna be nervous but working on your poker face might help. A lot of judgement could just be based on you being a junior doctor and the patient knowing that.