Even Stevie Wonder could see this was transactional. You were the come up and meal ticket for the entire family. But he doesn't even care enough to play the long game. He wants the instant gratification of moving to America. "There's no reward without work, no victory without effort, no battle won without risks." This is why so many Africans stay losing. I would say you're dodging the bullet. You have such a strong personality and temperament; do you really want a man that's subservient to you, I think not.
I see both sides. If you are marrying a man who you KNOW wants to come to America, why is living with him in America not expected? She's in America right now so why not have him here with her? Do people prefer to be used for YEARS and then dumped after the person used you?
@@newaccount5891 Nobody PREFERS to be dumped. So why not feel comfortable that a person is with you for ALL the right reasons and not JUST the reason that will enhance THEIR life. Better to be the DUMPER than the DUMPEE being financially responsible for him for 10 years in the US.
Some of these Africans found out the hard way when coming to America. I work with a Kenyan. I was surprised when he told me this. He said if Kenya was on the border of America of, he would had made a u turn. Some Africans return home when they found out how the system is in America. My Kenyan coworker is looking forward to returning to Kenya one day.
😀I thought they got over on you. I am proud of your gangsta. You are right make him prove himself. His family is looking for a way to get to America. #staywoke
Lol she wild af. So why are you marrying these men you should be dating? My girl had a baby by a African. He got deported for over staying his visa? But now no child support he talks to the kid once a month or every other month. If you are bad at picking men it's not going to change just because you go to a different country. Gotta work on self first.
Living in America does not mean everything is great. And you know Ghana is not bad either. I was born in Ghana, have lived in the US and I know you can make a great life in either place.
Gurl throw away the whole marriage. The signs are showing already. Let him and the girls remain in Ghana use the time to bond with your kids. I have seen this type of story unfold to many times. You cannot save the world. Let him remain in Ghana with his family. I mean the fact he doesn’t want to support you in going to Mexico is a bright red flag. The father said it all. Leave everyone in Ghana. It will only cause issues later on. I love your truthfulness in sharing your story. I know to many people who have been burned by Africans they married and brought to the USA. Gurl don’t do it .
I would DIVORCE that Ghana man! Gurrrl! Don't be married to ANYONE who sees you as a come up! When I went home to visit, I had men wanting to come back to the U.S.A. with me...I figured it out because even if a man shows interest in you...they don't be trying to move away with you right away! I LEFT THEM RIGHT WHERE I FOUND THEM!
I’m so glad that you made this video because for a minute I was worried about your judgment regarding the marriage. Turns out, you are way stronger than I gave you credit for. Rough around the edges but strong nonetheless. 💙
Sis, if you feel like you’re not gonna stay in marriage with him, then do not go back to Ghana because of him because you might not know what will happen. I am from Ghana, I know of a woman who brought her husband here and the man left her the next day to Ohio, and if this guy have kids, don’t bother to bring them because you’re gonna go through hell with them and why didn’t you get married at church? And also, think about what his father said, RED flag 🚩.
I'm so happy for you to be taking things slow and using your discernment. You have a beautiful mind. And you looked really lovely in your amazing attire 😍.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey, now I am seriously thinking about looking for retirement in Mexico. All couples have challenges Queen its apart of the journey. Do what is best for you and your children.
I am happy to learn you’re living your best life! You traveled back to Africa obtained a husband and looking incredible! Now, he doesn’t care to relocate to Mexico. Either way I know you’ll be fine, because you’re super resilient. You know how to shake, move, and make things happen. I think it’s great that you allow nothing to dim your light and spirit and able to move forward. Loving your African fashion sense! All the beautiful colors make your tone pop! Wishing you good health and happiness! Keep your head up beautiful lady! Looking forward to your next video! Love from the DMV! ❤❤❤❤❤
I agree w/ the advice you gave at the end. Even though it was for American women, I can apply it to the fellas. I prefer living most of my life in Africa after retirement. So I have a responsibility to tell a female upfront that I have no intentions on raising a family in the USA. Either she agrees, or we find other partners on the same page. *You really should consider doing a live panel discussion on this topic* .
You're a man its different..would you follow a woman to totally depend on her for the basic needs of life for yourself and your children..i am a woman and i can see the picture here..The man knows there might be challenges getting a job in Mexico..This man wouldn't be able to buy you a beer if he doesnt ask her to pay for it..he does not want to spend the rest of his life living like that
I ain't gonna say what I want to say.....but I know you'll be fine. I love your rawness and sense of humor. You remind me of people back home in New York.
I am going to Mexico in two weeks with the idea to move in. My head is set. I don't know anybody there. I hope to meet other African descent people there. You talked about different expats groups. Which ones would you advise me. Thanks for any input
I think Mexico will be a better fit for you and your family vs Ghana. You tried but honestly Ive heard from several people that Ghana has its challenges.
I hate the music too. Some content creators don't realize how distracting it is. Most of the time it would make me leave the video, but this particular video was pretty good, so I suffered through it... 😂
@@JasperStoneChroniclesIIAngiboo Some content creators actuallyneed the background music because their personality is dry but K has a lively personality so the music is more of a distraction
From my knowledge majority Black Africans of Africa especially west Africans will not marry a divorcee (women with children) with children. Women need to stop being so desperate rather be on Yr own than be played nd treated badly. Love yourselves lady's you worth the Best
@Jim Jones having music on. Is OK but it's volume of it. They should hv quiet music which does not drown their voices, WE want to be able to hear what's being said nit listen to music
I’m lost. I have just began to watch your videos. In fact , I bing watched your videos. In those other videos, you were with your 4 kids and am American husband. Those videos had the same title, knk squad
Yo it's been a minute since I seen you I think it was last when you guys came back from you guys bad trip in Ghana im confused that dont look like your husband with the impala did you guys break up ???,
I have almost sent you a message several times but I said, “mind your own business “ and I didn’t want you to think I was being negative. You are so smart, innovative and intelligent. You are a very interesting person, my favorite CZcamsr. But sometimes in the affairs of love we can be so hopeful that we get blinded. This man is not there for you. He’s making excuses not to be around you. Why would you need to get a hotel after your photo shoot when you have a husband. Why would he not pick you up. Why would he not be with you daily, he doesn’t have to be on camera but he can still be with you. He’s upset that we are telling you the truth and messing up his plan. Alone, he can fool you but with us, we have your back. You are a woman and you should not have to support an adult man. He should be supporting you. It’s better to be heart broken now than to continue to let someone use you and get over on you then have your heart broken. Plus I’m sure he’s costing you a lot of money. Take the money out of the situation and see if he really loves you. Let him prove himself. Stay in Ghana, let him court you, act as your husband by being present and providing. If he can’t do that, he’s not into you and is using you. This guy is temporary, looking for a come up at your expense. Look into his eyes, they tell the truth. The eyes are the window to the soul. I never comment but I care about you because you have a good heart. It’s so obvious and I am blessed with discernment. By the way, I’m the lady you met at the mall where you were picking up your daughter from dance lessons. We also own a tv production studio. Keep up your confidence and your decision may hurt but you will get over it and be stronger from it. Take yourself out of the equation, what advice would you tell your friend or daughter if she was you right now. We’ll wishes and keep up the good work and remember your worth. What value are you getting out of it? He’s getting a lot. You’re helping financially, he gets to come to America. If it’s just s*x you’re getting, you can get that anywhere. Yes he’s a decent looking man but looks fade or he could get into an accident and lose it. There’s so much more to being a man and you deserve someone who really loves and adores you. That man, will take care of you in all ways. Only weak or manipulative men let a woman take care of them, bad example for young girls to see. By the way, great job on taking it slow with papers, take 2 more years if you have to, smart lady, make us proud!
“This man does not want to be around you.” That’s very obvious, probably because she’s loud and ratchet. Like most men, he doesn’t want that but clearly this woman is going to be herself. Instead of kicking rocks he is trying to reap the benefits of a husband with no intention of being one, that makes him a scammer. He doesn’t even sound or look like someone that would have enough work ethics to make it in the US.
I am looking for two bedrooms two bathrooms in Mexico, specifically Merida. Do you have any agency you have worked with to help you find a place. Please let me know. Thanks
@@Knksquad all your attitude goes with gangster movement, Ghanaians men want a Queen 👸who is respectful, talk politely, and ready to summit to their husbands , from the the way I look at things it seems you want to control everything in your marriage 💑 , that won't work, so try to learn and understand people before you make a video about your personal life
@@isaacokyere8271 Since day one this woman has been loud, potty-mouthed, insensitive and rambunctious. She hasn't tried to hide who she is. So why didn't this "so-called king" marry someone respectful, polite and submissive? From what I've seen of the videos the only thing he brings to the table is handsome looks and expectations. Outside of Africa none of that shit puts food on the table or a roof over your head.
Ain't we surprised, you know you always have the drama. I knew this video was coming when I first saw your wedding. I was like this poor guy is fucked 😂😂😂
@KnK Squad you need friends like this hater, the truth shall set you free. Thanks for a drama filled contents, keep em coming, we here for it all. Marry a Mexican.
Did you guys discussed how he will be making an income for himself and his family in Mexico? The man doesn't want to depend on you soley for food, shelter and clothing..he is either a slave, a child or a worthless man to be okay following a woman all over the world and not working. Its better he stay in Ghana and be able to make some money..how can he face other black men and stand tall in Mexico with no money of his own??? come on now. You met a man who wanted opportunity to better his family. Love is not enough for any man good or bad.
Yes we discussed it. We own a staffing agency in the states. So we would outsource the work to the locals, which would better the economy cause we would be bringing jobs there. Also I have a 12 passenger ford transit. Which he would operate, doing airport transfers that estimated revenue is about $3k a day. But it’s his lost you know.
Well what does it take for you to move on??? His father blew the whistle on his son and you are still with this no good man! Be by yourself for a while and enjoy your children and wait for God to send you a man who deserves you. You don’t have to be a sucker and allow yourself to be used. The Bible says be anxious for nothing.
I understand where you’re coming from but u can’t blame the man for not wanting to go to Mexico. Where would he work? Maybe he doesn’t want to live off u. America does suck. But at least he has a better chance of getting a job with benefits that’s the whole point in marrying American. For the benefits of America. I get it. But I don’t expect for him too. Moving to Mexico would only benefit u. When u turn 65 y good your SSI is set up. Your Medicare will kick in. Moving to Mexico for him. Will make him a dependent for the rest of his life
He can hustle like every other man. He wants the easy way out. If he really loved her he would follow her wherever she goes and find away to make money. He can sell products from Ghana. She is moving to a black areA
Even if he moves to America he has to live off her for atleast 6 months or longer, before he even gets the working visa, so why not test it out in another country to see if he would atleast do right by her first, hustle and find work, vs him moving in with her in America gaining all benefits just to later move back to ghana, and leave later when it's convenient ❗️
Plenty black folks hustling and making it work in Mexico. It’s a global world many online jobs can be worked from anywhere etc. if a man wants to find a way to take care of his family he will…
@@uniquetaylor8588 where are you working at in Mexico. And if u do find work. There is no benefits like it is in US. And the same work in Mexico your getting paid 3 times more in US with healthcare and benefits for long run.
Maybe Jamaica 🇯🇲 over/B4 Mexico 🇲🇽 I guarantee he would say yeah mon to JM🇯🇲 🤗🤩 Don't keep him in Ghana 🇬🇭 let him test the waters of USA 🇺🇸, give him a chance to show yuh he will be, could be a provider 💯 I'm here for my Ghanaian family oo 💛💫🙏 bless bless
I don't understand. Will America not let him in? Why is living in America by yourself ok but if you are with him you have to live in Mexico? As an American citizen, people who you have to marry outside of the US is marrying you so that they can get their American citizenship. You are a natural born citizen so you can always live in another 3rd world country like Mexico but come back to America when things get too hard. So of course this man wants to live in America. Not another poor nation.
@@rock-a-bye-baby3529 Yes. It's control and the whole reason why a person who already lives in the most diverse country in the world would choose to even get with someone like him.
You all think everybody who lives in a 3rd world country is broke? This man may be married for love but the American sister want to call the shots, it does not work like that with most African men, and it does not work like that in most of America, which is why most black women are single mothers. I will advise the man in this relationship to stand his ground and let his wife go where she wishes in the universe. Mexicans are at the border trying to get into America everyday, why should a Ghanaian go live in Mexico where he will have difficulty with Spanish and may not be entitled to work to support his family?
Being with me, he would never have a problem making money. I don’t go look for jobs I create them. I already bought a Sprinter van to do airport transfers as well as a Staffing agency working completely remotely. And Spanish is not a hard language to learn. So as far as problems. There are none..
@@Knksquad Chart a pathway together, don’t assume the position of the head of the union. So dispel the idea that you alone (If he is with me he would never have a problem making money ) will solve all issues in the marriage. I think you need a strong minded man and you have found one.
Even Stevie Wonder could see this was transactional. You were the come up and meal ticket for the entire family. But he doesn't even care enough to play the long game. He wants the instant gratification of moving to America. "There's no reward without work, no victory without effort, no battle won without risks." This is why so many Africans stay losing. I would say you're dodging the bullet. You have such a strong personality and temperament; do you really want a man that's subservient to you, I think not.
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I see both sides. If you are marrying a man who you KNOW wants to come to America, why is living with him in America not expected? She's in America right now so why not have him here with her? Do people prefer to be used for YEARS and then dumped after the person used you?
@@newaccount5891 Nobody PREFERS to be dumped. So why not feel comfortable that a person is with you for ALL the right reasons and not JUST the reason that will enhance THEIR life. Better to be the DUMPER than the DUMPEE being financially responsible for him for 10 years in the US.
@@Azuria000 Yes, that is true. Having to pay for him for 10 years is too much of a risk. I agree.
Some of these Africans found out the hard way when coming to America. I work with a Kenyan. I was surprised when he told me this. He said if Kenya was on the border of America of, he would had made a u turn. Some Africans return home when they found out how the system is in America. My Kenyan coworker is looking forward to returning to Kenya one day.
😀I thought they got over on you. I am proud of your gangsta. You are right make him prove himself. His family is looking for a way to get to America. #staywoke
Lol she wild af. So why are you marrying these men you should be dating? My girl had a baby by a African. He got deported for over staying his visa? But now no child support he talks to the kid once a month or every other month. If you are bad at picking men it's not going to change just because you go to a different country. Gotta work on self first.
Wow you really gave sound wisdom to Mrs KNK
You are a very Strong woman- I was born there- lived in the USA for more than 20 yrs- You are 100% right- Of course he just wants to get to America.
Living in America does not mean everything is great. And you know Ghana is not bad either. I was born in Ghana, have lived in the US and I know you can make a great life in either place.
Dam Mexico banging like that you just put me up on game for mexico
I just started following you. This is eye opening. I’m in Merida, best wishes on your move. We love it here.
Gurl throw away the whole marriage. The signs are showing already. Let him and the girls remain in Ghana use the time to bond with your kids. I have seen this type of story unfold to
many times. You cannot save the world. Let him remain in Ghana with his family. I mean the fact he doesn’t want to support you in going to Mexico is a bright red flag. The father said it all. Leave everyone in Ghana. It will only cause issues later on. I love your truthfulness in sharing your story. I know to many people who have been burned by Africans they married and brought to the USA. Gurl don’t do it .
I would DIVORCE that Ghana man! Gurrrl! Don't be married to ANYONE who sees you as a come up! When I went home to visit, I had men wanting to come back to the U.S.A. with me...I figured it out because even if a man shows interest in you...they don't be trying to move away with you right away! I LEFT THEM RIGHT WHERE I FOUND THEM!
Ha right, worst is when ur family is trying to push these people on you
I’m so glad that you made this video because for a minute I was worried about your judgment regarding the marriage. Turns out, you are way stronger than I gave you credit for. Rough around the edges but strong nonetheless. 💙
Girl you know the game 😉 thanks for keeping it real, I have no doubt you will succeed in living your best life….
Sis, if you feel like you’re not gonna stay in marriage with him, then do not go back to Ghana because of him because you might not know what will happen. I am from Ghana, I know of a woman who brought her husband here and the man left her the next day to Ohio, and if this guy have kids, don’t bother to bring them because you’re gonna go through hell with them and why didn’t you get married at church? And also, think about what his father said, RED flag 🚩.
I'm so happy for you to be taking things slow and using your discernment. You have a beautiful mind. And you looked really lovely in your amazing attire 😍.
Thank u for your transparency.
I’m here for this!!!
I am so glad you're choosing yourself and choosing not to be used like a lot of desperate women going to Africa.🤔
I LOVE ME SOME YOU LADY ( YOU ARE SPEAKING LIFE INTO LIFE ) STAY ALERT TO RECIEVE ALL YOUR BLESSINGS !
Thank you so much for sharing your journey, now I am seriously thinking about looking for retirement in Mexico. All couples have challenges Queen its apart of the journey. Do what is best for you and your children.
I am happy to learn you’re living your best life! You traveled back to Africa obtained a husband and looking incredible! Now, he doesn’t care to relocate to Mexico. Either way I know you’ll be fine, because you’re super resilient. You know how to shake, move, and make things happen. I think it’s great that you allow nothing to dim your light and spirit and able to move forward. Loving your African fashion sense! All the beautiful colors make your tone pop! Wishing you good health and happiness! Keep your head up beautiful lady! Looking forward to your next video! Love from the DMV! ❤❤❤❤❤
I agree w/ the advice you gave at the end. Even though it was for American women, I can apply it to the fellas. I prefer living most of my life in Africa after retirement. So I have a responsibility to tell a female upfront that I have no intentions on raising a family in the USA. Either she agrees, or we find other partners on the same page. *You really should consider doing a live panel discussion on this topic* .
You're a man its different..would you follow a woman to totally depend on her for the basic needs of life for yourself and your children..i am a woman and i can see the picture here..The man knows there might be challenges getting a job in Mexico..This man wouldn't be able to buy you a beer if he doesnt ask her to pay for it..he does not want to spend the rest of his life living like that
Thank you sis for keeping it real!! But dam!! Your husband is a whole mood lol.
Thanks for that advice girl 😊
Dropping like a boom and stay strong sis
Yaaaasssss…Smart Move! ❤this video
Ma’am, this a whole word. Keep it pushing, stay safe! 💪🏾✊🏾✌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You have a calming spirit sis ❤
Great information 👍 👌
Actually a fiancee visa takes 6 months and the marriage visa can take 3-5 years.
Cynthia G is soo right about some black american women. I suggest many of u here go watch her videos. Ya'll could use a lesson.
You are sooo funny! Had me rolling towards the end of the video…Thank you 🙏🏽
You r one Smart woman Kudos to u
I enjoyed your content.thanks for sharing.
Good for you, for having the heart to guard your heart.
I ain't gonna say what I want to say.....but I know you'll be fine. I love your rawness and sense of humor. You remind me of people back home in New York.
I am going to Mexico in two weeks with the idea to move in.
My head is set.
I don't know anybody there. I hope to meet other African descent people there. You talked about different expats groups. Which ones would you advise me. Thanks for any input
I know that's right!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏽
Great content but the music was very distracting. Thanks so much for being real 😊
Thank you for being real and sharing your story I really appreciate it!🥰
I think Mexico will be a better fit for you and your family vs Ghana. You tried but honestly Ive heard from several people that Ghana has its challenges.
😂😂😂bring the tea girl
💯 I'm still here girl 😆
Keep your eyes open dealing with any man. Just don't get played or use. I like the way you think and stay wise.
Yes respectfully leave his ass in Ghana....
What's up with the background music
I hate the music too. Some content creators don't realize how distracting it is. Most of the time it would make me leave the video, but this particular video was pretty good, so I suffered through it... 😂
@@JasperStoneChroniclesIIAngiboo Some content creators actuallyneed the background music because their personality is dry but K has a lively personality so the music is more of a distraction
@@jimjones2757
Very well said... I totally agree! She does NOT need the music at all. The music takes away from her beautiful personality... 👍😊
From my knowledge majority Black Africans of Africa especially west Africans will not marry a divorcee (women with children) with children. Women need to stop being so desperate rather be on Yr own than be played nd treated badly. Love yourselves lady's you worth the Best
@Jim Jones having music on. Is OK but it's volume of it. They should hv quiet music which does not drown their voices, WE want to be able to hear what's being said nit listen to music
Wow that’s crazy
Love you baby girl. ❤️
Love u too
Please Turn down the LOUD music
💀🤣 right when I read the comment the song got BOOSTED up while she was talking. Lmao
Long distance may not help
All I can say, girl 💃
you look so beautiful
This what the effff I`m talking abt!!!! You can't play a player🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😘
Hallelujah white baby Jesus! She built a boundary!!!
I’m lost. I have just began to watch your videos. In fact , I bing watched your videos. In those other videos, you were with your 4 kids and am American husband. Those videos had the same title, knk squad
They divorced and she returned to ghana to marry a new one
I’m trying to move to Merida too it’s so nice there!
Yo it's been a minute since I seen you I think it was last when you guys came back from you guys bad trip in Ghana im confused that dont look like your husband with the impala did you guys break up ???,
Please check you mic please
I have almost sent you a message several times but I said, “mind your own business “ and I didn’t want you to think I was being negative. You are so smart, innovative and intelligent. You are a very interesting person, my favorite CZcamsr. But sometimes in the affairs of love we can be so hopeful that we get blinded. This man is not there for you. He’s making excuses not to be around you. Why would you need to get a hotel after your photo shoot when you have a husband. Why would he not pick you up. Why would he not be with you daily, he doesn’t have to be on camera but he can still be with you. He’s upset that we are telling you the truth and messing up his plan. Alone, he can fool you but with us, we have your back. You are a woman and you should not have to support an adult man. He should be supporting you. It’s better to be heart broken now than to continue to let someone use you and get over on you then have your heart broken. Plus I’m sure he’s costing you a lot of money. Take the money out of the situation and see if he really loves you. Let him prove himself. Stay in Ghana, let him court you, act as your husband by being present and providing. If he can’t do that, he’s not into you and is using you. This guy is temporary, looking for a come up at your expense. Look into his eyes, they tell the truth. The eyes are the window to the soul. I never comment but I care about you because you have a good heart. It’s so obvious and I am blessed with discernment. By the way, I’m the lady you met at the mall where you were picking up your daughter from dance lessons. We also own a tv production studio. Keep up your confidence and your decision may hurt but you will get over it and be stronger from it. Take yourself out of the equation, what advice would you tell your friend or daughter if she was you right now. We’ll wishes and keep up the good work and remember your worth. What value are you getting out of it? He’s getting a lot. You’re helping financially, he gets to come to America. If it’s just s*x you’re getting, you can get that anywhere. Yes he’s a decent looking man but looks fade or he could get into an accident and lose it. There’s so much more to being a man and you deserve someone who really loves and adores you. That man, will take care of you in all ways. Only weak or manipulative men let a woman take care of them, bad example for young girls to see. By the way, great job on taking it slow with papers, take 2 more years if you have to, smart lady, make us proud!
“This man does not want to be around you.” That’s very obvious, probably because she’s loud and ratchet. Like most men, he doesn’t want that but clearly this woman is going to be herself. Instead of kicking rocks he is trying to reap the benefits of a husband with no intention of being one, that makes him a scammer. He doesn’t even sound or look like someone that would have enough work ethics to make it in the US.
I am looking for two bedrooms two bathrooms in Mexico, specifically Merida. Do you have any agency you have worked with to help you find a place. Please let me know. Thanks
Yes I do if u send me ur phone number on Facebook I’ll give it to my Realestate agent.
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@@Knksquad Thanks. I will check you on Facebook.
Whene this story happening IAM lose?
Left his ass sitting in ghana... lol.
What's your contact info?
Boy bye, I mad for u let me hold the anger . The fkn Nerve of ppl.
Wait, I’m late to the party,you’re not with the other guy that was in Ghana with you last year?
He's gorgeous. You looked beautiful in the white. As long as ya'll happy that's all that matters.
You left your usa husband you came with to Ghana n married a Ghanaian.
Off cause you are an American you are gold all they see is $$$$$
Don’t go back. Leave him be
Trust me with this your attitude no right man will stay long in your life, you need to change your behaviour first
What do u think is wrong with my attitude?
@@Knksquad all your attitude goes with gangster movement, Ghanaians men want a Queen 👸who is respectful, talk politely, and ready to summit to their husbands , from the the way I look at things it seems you want to control everything in your marriage 💑 , that won't work, so try to learn and understand people before you make a video about your personal life
@@isaacokyere8271ok thank u for the feed back. I appreciate it
@@Knksquad you always welcome 😘
@@isaacokyere8271 Since day one this woman has been loud, potty-mouthed, insensitive and rambunctious. She hasn't tried to hide who she is. So why didn't this "so-called king" marry someone respectful, polite and submissive? From what I've seen of the videos the only thing he brings to the table is handsome looks and expectations. Outside of Africa none of that shit puts food on the table or a roof over your head.
Ain't we surprised, you know you always have the drama. I knew this video was coming when I first saw your wedding.
I was like this poor guy is fucked 😂😂😂
Thanks for hating really appreciate It. I hope u feel good about ur self. I love all my haters.
@KnK Squad you need friends like this hater, the truth shall set you free.
Thanks for a drama filled contents, keep em coming, we here for it all.
Marry a Mexican.
You are still married to the guy?
Getting married anywhere is a big mistake. If you love each other opt for a traditional african wedding and have a great relationship.
Did you guys discussed how he will be making an income for himself and his family in Mexico? The man doesn't want to depend on you soley for food, shelter and clothing..he is either a slave, a child or a worthless man to be okay following a woman all over the world and not working. Its better he stay in Ghana and be able to make some money..how can he face other black men and stand tall in Mexico with no money of his own??? come on now. You met a man who wanted opportunity to better his family. Love is not enough for any man good or bad.
Yes we discussed it. We own a staffing agency in the states. So we would outsource the work to the locals, which would better the economy cause we would be bringing jobs there. Also I have a 12 passenger ford transit. Which he would operate, doing airport transfers that estimated revenue is about $3k a day. But it’s his lost you know.
@@Knksquad Becareful with him those people are bad. Before they sneak in something to your drink.
Why are you whispering ?
She doesn't want the ancestors to overhear her.
@@Azuria000 I got you
Well what does it take for you to move on??? His father blew the whistle on his son and you are still with this no good man! Be by yourself for a while and enjoy your children and wait for God to send you a man who deserves you. You don’t have to be a sucker and allow yourself to be used. The Bible says be anxious for nothing.
I understand where you’re coming from but u can’t blame the man for not wanting to go to Mexico. Where would he work? Maybe he doesn’t want to live off u. America does suck. But at least he has a better chance of getting a job with benefits that’s the whole point in marrying American. For the benefits of America. I get it. But I don’t expect for him too. Moving to Mexico would only benefit u. When u turn 65 y good your SSI is set up. Your Medicare will kick in. Moving to Mexico for him. Will make him a dependent for the rest of his life
He can hustle like every other man. He wants the easy way out. If he really loved her he would follow her wherever she goes and find away to make money. He can sell products from Ghana. She is moving to a black areA
Even if he moves to America he has to live off her for atleast 6 months or longer, before he even gets the working visa, so why not test it out in another country to see if he would atleast do right by her first, hustle and find work, vs him moving in with her in America gaining all benefits just to later move back to ghana, and leave later when it's convenient ❗️
Plenty black folks hustling and making it work in Mexico. It’s a global world many online jobs can be worked from anywhere etc. if a man wants to find a way to take care of his family he will…
@@uniquetaylor8588 where are you working at in Mexico. And if u do find work. There is no benefits like it is in US. And the same work in Mexico your getting paid 3 times more in US with healthcare and benefits for long run.
@@specialkay460 no he want the smart way out.
Is your "Friend" still your friend??? Should've let them marry if they'd already been talking.
Ever think about trying another country in Africa? Love you & your family and everything you do.
GOOD RIDDANCE 😘💯
Cut out on the Ni--a cursing 👹
Maybe Jamaica 🇯🇲 over/B4 Mexico 🇲🇽 I guarantee he would say yeah mon to JM🇯🇲 🤗🤩 Don't keep him in Ghana 🇬🇭 let him test the waters of USA 🇺🇸,
give him a chance to show yuh he will be, could be a provider 💯 I'm here for my Ghanaian family oo 💛💫🙏 bless bless
I don't understand. Will America not let him in? Why is living in America by yourself ok but if you are with him you have to live in Mexico? As an American citizen, people who you have to marry outside of the US is marrying you so that they can get their American citizenship. You are a natural born citizen so you can always live in another 3rd world country like Mexico but come back to America when things get too hard. So of course this man wants to live in America. Not another poor nation.
Her game, her rules. If he can’t play let him stay his broke ass home.
@@rock-a-bye-baby3529 Yes. It's control and the whole reason why a person who already lives in the most diverse country in the world would choose to even get with someone like him.
You all think everybody who lives in a 3rd world country is broke? This man may be married for love but the American sister want to call the shots, it does not work like that with most African men, and it does not work like that in most of America, which is why most black women are single mothers. I will advise the man in this relationship to stand his ground and let his wife go where she wishes in the universe.
Mexicans are at the border trying to get into America everyday, why should a Ghanaian go live in Mexico where he will have difficulty with Spanish and may not be entitled to work to support his family?
Being with me, he would never have a problem making money. I don’t go look for jobs I create them. I already bought a Sprinter van to do airport transfers as well as a Staffing agency working completely remotely. And Spanish is not a hard language to learn. So as far as problems. There are none..
@@Knksquad Chart a pathway together, don’t assume the position of the head of the union. So dispel the idea that you alone (If he is with me he would never have a problem making money ) will solve all issues in the marriage. I think you need a strong minded man and you have found one.