ABCDE Model. Change Negative Thoughts and Beliefs. CBT and REBT.

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  • čas přidán 29. 06. 2024
  • In this video I will explain how we have change unhelpful thoughts and beliefs by using the CBT ABCDE Model. By changing our negative thoughts we can change our emotions and behaviours. This model was developed by Albert Ellis and its one of the most foundational skills of Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy (REBT) and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT).
    🔵 A is the activating event. This can be a real external event, a future event that you anticipate or an internal event such as an image or memory. The ‘A’ is usually referred to as your trigger.
    🔵 B is your beliefs about the event. This also includes thoughts, your personal rules and the meanings that you attach to events.
    🔵 C is the consequences. This includes your emotions, behaviours and physical sensations.
    The basic idea behind this model is that an activating event (A) does not cause the consequences (C). Its actually the the belief (B) that causes the consequences.
    🔵 ‘D’ IS FOR DISPUTE
    Once you identify your AB and C the next step is to dispute your irrational beliefs. D stands for Dispute and we do this by asking a series of focused, open-ended questions that encourage reflection, unravel deeply held beliefs and help you find your own solution. In section D we question and examine the belief from section B.
    🔵 E IS FOR EFFECT
    E stands for Effect. In this final section you write alternative and balanced thoughts and beleiefs from the evidence gathered from section D. Alternative or balanced thinking is often more positive than the initial automatic thought, and its much more than just positive thinking. Alternative or balanced thinning takes into account both positive and negative information in an attempt to acknowledge all available information.
    🔵 CHAPTERS
    0:00 Introduction
    0:28 The ABC's of CBT
    3:35 D is Dispute
    4:39 E is for Effect
    6:00 Three Insights by Albert Ellis
    🔵 CBT BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS
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    ☐ Cognitive Behavioural Therapist Basics and Beyond by Judith Beck. Please click on the link to buy from Amazon: amzn.to/3RfTN2f
    🔵 WORK WITH ME
    If you'd like to work with me, or a member of the Lewis Psychology team, please click on the links below:
    ☐ Lewis Psychology CIC (for face to face therapy): www.lewispsy.org.uk
    ☐ Lewis Psychology Online (for online therapy): lewispsyonline.co.uk
    🔵 ABOUT TERESA LEWIS
    Teresa Lewis is the founder and Director of Lewis Psychology and a Senior Accredited psychotherapist with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP Snr. Accred). Qualified in 1995, Teresa has been providing counselling and psychotherapy treatment for nearly 30 years. Teresa holds a masters degree in counselling and psychotherapy and is a qualified EMDR Practitioner having completed training accredited with EMDR Europe. Teresa is also a qualified adult educator and an accredited Mindfulness teacher As a recognised expert in her field Teresa is frequently asked to conduct editorial reviews and endorse counselling and psychotherapy books for international publishing houses.
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Komentáře • 104

  • @LewisPsychology
    @LewisPsychology  Před 2 lety +12

    Have you tried the ABCDE model yet? I'd love to hear how you got on. Please comment below.

    • @Michael-go9hm
      @Michael-go9hm Před 2 lety +3

      no, but cant wait to try it at work (retail) which can be negative ass enviroment

    • @keya12art
      @keya12art Před rokem +1

      Yes I have did it for a year, after reading Learned Optimism book. It helped me a lot and I am free of anxiety and negative self talk.

    • @larabardot6836
      @larabardot6836 Před rokem +2

      Thank you so much for this video, it reminded me of some of my harmful habits I had to correct. I had a really difficult time growing up. My father was an alcoholic and abusive, we were poor and I was bullied a lot. I’ve learned to always make negative assumptions whenever I would experience trigger events, as a form of self defense, out of fear of looking like a fool and being disappointed and hurt if I give someone/something the benefit of the doubt. It has become so engrained in me that I wasn’t even aware I was doing it until my therapist pointed it out. Before that, people would tell me I’m too sensitive or that I have an abrasive personality. It has made me feel like a victim/villain most of my life and I internally vilified people as soon as I would spot a “red flag” in their behavior or would use their behavior I deemed as bad as a justification for my negative reaction. It has slowly caused me to develop a severe anxiety-depression that I had to put in a lot of effort to unpack and heal from.

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před rokem +2

      @@larabardot6836 Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and insights. Best wishes, Teresa.

    • @catalinacincotta8711
      @catalinacincotta8711 Před rokem +1

      I would love to have some ideas as to how to use this with a teen on the spectrum with some limitations in describing internal events. Please 😊 thank you!

  • @anastasiospapafragas
    @anastasiospapafragas Před 9 dny +1

    Κάνατε τη διαδικασία πολύ εύκολη. Συγχαρητήρια!

  • @peppercherrybomb
    @peppercherrybomb Před 11 měsíci +12

    I appreciate how simply and concisely you explain this model. As a new therapist I stumble over my words, often trying to explain things in a more technical manner, or over explain. It's good to have your example as a more seasoned clinician. Thank you for the work you do to create your content.

  • @joeydevilliers1752
    @joeydevilliers1752 Před 2 lety +11

    Anything or anyone can trigger us, though we carry the ammunition. Unfortunately, when the ammunition goes off, it's rarely aimed at ourselves. Thank you for helping us defuse our unnecessary ammunition and replace our arsenal with a garden.

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 2 lety +1

      Thanks for your comment Joey. I'm pleased to hear it has been helpful. Wishing you well.

    • @CorePathway
      @CorePathway Před rokem +2

      Mine ammo is primarily aimed at myself.

    • @lg4550msu
      @lg4550msu Před rokem +1

      @@CorePathwaysame.

  • @John-tq5qm
    @John-tq5qm Před 10 měsíci +3

    This makes so much sense. I wish I had the motivation to try it.

  • @MandyWoodArtist
    @MandyWoodArtist Před 3 měsíci +2

    These videos have great short snap reminders of information that is important for each model and the examples and diagrams are great. Thank you for making these available.

  • @joannechua3639
    @joannechua3639 Před 27 dny +1

    one of the best videos on CZcams on ABCDE! Truly helpful for a counselling trainee!

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 26 dny

      Wow, thank you. That’s very kind of you. Best wishes, Teresa.

  • @jdt8983
    @jdt8983 Před rokem +3

    Since both possibilities are true I think giving more credence to the more neutral or positive belief can happen when the person sees humanity as somewhat self absorbed in the sense that - most people are just focused on figuring out their day. Most people aren't out to get you; you aren't actually on that level of radar.

  • @emaaneemaane7emaaneemaane7
    @emaaneemaane7emaaneemaane7 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Mam , the way you explained along with examples is just amazing. Thank you so much for this much amazing explanation.

  • @aneeqaqureshi4223
    @aneeqaqureshi4223 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Just discovered your channel. The best thing is that you use such simple language and you have a soothing voice. Love from Pakistan ❤

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 9 měsíci

      That’s great to hear, thanks for your support. Best wishes, Teresa.

  • @dumbbo123
    @dumbbo123 Před rokem +3

    This is so helpful. The famous quote goes... "Don't believe everything you think" this is powerful. In that, whatever irrational thoughts we do have, they are simply an effect of the moment we are in that's causing those thoughts which in turn cause a different feeling, a feeling of unease or joy.
    It's important to separate irrational thoughts out and to watch them from an outside perspective, ask do those thoughts make sense, are they based on facts, do they sound like reality, or is it just a thought from the unconscious part of our minds.

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před rokem

      I'm pleased to hear you found my video helpful and thank you for sharing your insights. Best wishes, Teresa.

  • @Christina-rq3ed
    @Christina-rq3ed Před měsícem +2

    Christina D here,today.

  • @carolina6683
    @carolina6683 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you, Teresa. I think we all have a responsibility to ourselves and those we love to challenge unhelpful belief systems. Best wishes from Mallorca!

  • @vanhill3561
    @vanhill3561 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Yes indeed. I use it in our smart recovery meetings. Very powerful.

  • @moshebenamram6020
    @moshebenamram6020 Před 11 dny +1

    Thank You very much!

  • @Grunfeld
    @Grunfeld Před rokem +1

    I have a lot of time for REBT. I had an engineer on the spectrum who had no time for what seemed like slow, therapy-speak so the almost procedural nature of REBT was a great fit. Whereas that point at 3:07 about the challenges of noticing easily cued thoughts was addressed best, for me, by doing the present-moment awareness/ mindfulness practices I learned in ACT. It was quite an eye-opener to begin to gain awareness of the endless stream of thoughts and moods. Thanks for the videos!

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před rokem

      Thanks for sharing your insights. Best wishes, Teresa.

  • @alishalalljee2280
    @alishalalljee2280 Před měsícem +1

    This is extremely useful and beautifully explained ❤

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 29 dny

      That’s great to hear, thank you. Best wishes, Teresa.

  • @anthonygibson6506
    @anthonygibson6506 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Hi Teresa, I am currently studying Coaching and find many of your videos excellent resources. Thank you so much for taking the time to make them! I am also learning more about myself and how and why I react in certain ways, which is insightful and extremely helpful. Keep up the good work!

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 7 měsíci

      You are so welcome! Wishing you all the best, Teresa.

  • @shahnuralam851
    @shahnuralam851 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much.

  • @janebaker6595
    @janebaker6595 Před rokem +1

    Thank you very much for explaining this!

  • @emekdenizdemirci
    @emekdenizdemirci Před rokem +1

    Thank you million times, it's so relieving to understand our behaviour's.

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much for your support. Best wishes, Teresa.

  • @markushassel2737
    @markushassel2737 Před rokem +3

    Great stuff - very straight forward and understandable! Should be taught in every school:)

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před rokem

      Thank you, that’s great to hear. Best wishes, Teresa.

  • @Thelightoftejwid
    @Thelightoftejwid Před 10 měsíci +1

    What an explanation!!
    Great thanks ❤❤

  • @louise8498
    @louise8498 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for posting your content, it's so so so helpful. Best wishes xxx

  • @chrisgurung3121
    @chrisgurung3121 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great video! Great examples! Thank you!

  • @GraveRave
    @GraveRave Před rokem +1

    This is very well explained, thank you.

  • @doaaabdelwhab9281
    @doaaabdelwhab9281 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank u so much 💜✨

  • @chayanikadasgupta3109
    @chayanikadasgupta3109 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much. You have explained theories with perfect examples. I really appreciate that. I will try myself and give you a feedback Lewis.

  • @amitmal
    @amitmal Před 2 lety +2

    This is very useful and I have not come across this before. Please keep up the great work.

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 2 lety

      Thanks for your kind comment Amit. I’m pleased to hear you find this model useful. Best wishes.

  • @rod4530
    @rod4530 Před 2 lety +3

    Useful tool that aligns itself with the 5 Factor Approach. Presented in an educational setting - younger persons who are particularly vulnerable during their teenage struggle could benefit greatly using this approach. It would also help with teacher - student relationships from an empathic perspective. Especially, if it is carefully facilitated in a classroom environment that enables peer support and sharing. Could be integrated with awareness and importance of establishing positive relationships and how these impact on sense of self.

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 2 lety

      Thanks for your comment Rod. Yes, we usually teach the 5 factor model first and then move to the ABCDE model. I agree it would be most helpful for young people to be taught this in a supportive educational setting. Wishing you well.

  • @ramilurazmanov
    @ramilurazmanov Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much!

  • @ducanhvu9658
    @ducanhvu9658 Před rokem +2

    This is so helpful. I'm working on William J knaus book and you explain it so well.

  • @widiah3431
    @widiah3431 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you!

  • @101Tigerheart
    @101Tigerheart Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you for this! I’m a graduate student in counseling and these videos are very easy to understand. Love it!

  • @mohammadreza4648
    @mohammadreza4648 Před rokem +2

    This is one of the most underrated videos on CZcams. This method can basically save the world. It's that helpful. Do you know any books from Albert Elis about this method? Which books can I read written by Albert Elis teaching it? Thank you for this video.

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for your kind comment Mohammad. The ABCDE method certainly is very powerful. I would suggest Getting Started with REBT by Windy Dryden amzn.to/3KpHten
      Best wishes, Teresa.

    • @mickberry164
      @mickberry164 Před 6 měsíci

      Here's one: How to Stubbornly Refuse to Make Yourself Miserable About Anything, Yes Anything.

  • @georgiasimmons1433
    @georgiasimmons1433 Před 2 lety +1

    I love it I will past it on to family and friends

  • @mogestesfahun7566
    @mogestesfahun7566 Před rokem +1

    Keep up i think you wiil fill my gap.

  • @antonishontzeas3607
    @antonishontzeas3607 Před rokem +1

    Stoicism at its best!!!!

  • @professordrabhijitsayamber703

    Om shanti

  • @vivienvancouver
    @vivienvancouver Před 2 lety +4

    I love this model, i will share with my friends in chronic pain group. Im learning to heal myself from childhood traumas and will try this model for sure do u have any other models that may help me as well. Thanks 😊💞🙏

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 2 lety

      Hi Victoria. I pleased to hear you love this model and that you’ll be sharing with friends from your chronic pain group. I’m going to be releasing many more models over the coming weeks so watch this space. Wishing you all the best my friend.

  • @riaz951
    @riaz951 Před 3 měsíci +1

    It is feom childhood you have to practice

  • @mohammadreza4648
    @mohammadreza4648 Před rokem +1

    Hello Lewis. Hope you are having a great day. In the Dispute part you said 4 questions that we can ask to dispute our negative judgment. Is there more questions that we can ask to question these beliefs? I'd appreciate it if you know the answer. Thanks a lot

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for your question Mohammad. Please watch my video on socratic questioning: czcams.com/video/8jNUAuDkeRI/video.html I hope this helps. Best wishes, Teresa.

  • @vatsaldoshi7270
    @vatsaldoshi7270 Před rokem +1

    Thankyou for this! But How can we change our thoughts? Could you help with a 30 day structure?

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před rokem

      Have a look at my CBT playlist. I hope it helps. Best wishes, Teresa.

  • @islamabadmedicalcare5
    @islamabadmedicalcare5 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Nice video. How often this abcde approach should be practiced to change a negative belief

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 4 měsíci

      Good question! I would personally use this with other tools and techniques I've mentioned on the channel. I wouln't use it as a stand alone model. Best wishes, Teresa.

    • @islamabadmedicalcare5
      @islamabadmedicalcare5 Před 4 měsíci

      @LewisPsychology no i meant the frequency. Should it be practiced once daily or how many times per day and for how long

  • @riaz951
    @riaz951 Před 3 měsíci +1

    In real world it is very difficult to follow cbt and rebt sometimes it works sometimes it won't work

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 3 měsíci

      Personally I prefer Transactional Analysis (TA). Different theories work for different people. Best wishes, Teresa.

  • @learntonganwithandrew
    @learntonganwithandrew Před 11 měsíci

    This is a great video, but can you please do it again without the English accent? I'd prefer to hear it with a Canadian accent. Thanks!

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 11 měsíci

      I’ve never been asked to change my accent before 😂 I don’t do accents, just my natural English accent that I’ve had for over 50 years 🤣

    • @learntonganwithandrew
      @learntonganwithandrew Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@LewisPsychology Haha, just joking around.

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 11 měsíci

      👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @jacogrobler6391
    @jacogrobler6391 Před rokem +1

    Does track down in Transcational Anylysis do the same for a person as the ABCDE method.

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před rokem

      TA has a very different core philosophy and is a different method of working. One of the aims of TA is to strengthen the Adult ego state. If you have a strong Adult ego state you would certainly be able to think more rationally and logically (as per the aim of the ABCDE exercise). Another aim of TA is to be free of Script and respond with more spontaneity and autonomy. Again, it really comes down to 'what do you want to get from therapy?' Best wishes, Teresa.

    • @jacogrobler6391
      @jacogrobler6391 Před rokem +1

      @@LewisPsychology Aah thank you.I have read the books games people play and staying ok.It realy helped me to understand boundries ,I am also more assertive now .I wished I knew about TA 20 years ago.Thank you

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před rokem +1

      @@jacogrobler6391 two classic and timeless books. I’m currently working on a video on TA script theory which will be out in a couple of weeks. A video on games would be great too. I’m really pleased to hear TA helped. Best wishes. Teresa.

  • @darklordharris
    @darklordharris Před 3 měsíci +1

    Dear Madam,
    Did I Use this in severe ocd

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yes, you can. Best wishes, Teresa.

    • @darklordharris
      @darklordharris Před 2 měsíci

      @LewisPsychology, thank you, madam. I will pray for you. Best wishes for your next video.

  • @DigiDiver
    @DigiDiver Před 8 měsíci +1

    This fails when your beliefs after examination are proven to be correct.

    • @LewisPsychology
      @LewisPsychology  Před 8 měsíci +1

      If that is the case they are not faulty beliefs. Best wishes, Teresa.

    • @DigiDiver
      @DigiDiver Před 8 měsíci

      Any videos on how to challenge facts?@@LewisPsychology

    • @mickberry164
      @mickberry164 Před 6 měsíci

      Irrational Beliefs are always incorrect.