Becoming a Godly Wife| Before You Get Engaged... | Preparing to Be a Godly Wife
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- čas přidán 21. 07. 2024
- Do you desire to become a godly wife? If so, look no further because I'm here to help! I believe that as you prepare to become a godly wife, there are certain things that should already be implemented into your lifestyle and relationship with God. In this video, I share 5 things that I believe Christian women should do or possess that will make their transition into married life a lot easier. There's definitely more that can be shared here, but I wanted to start by keeping the conversation light.
Before you get engaged, and while you're single, continue to invest in yourself as much as you can in a variety of ways. Before getting engaged, I think it's important to address how healthy you are spiritually, mentally, financially, emotionally, physically, socially, and occupationally. While I don't go into these things in depth in this video, I did want to take a moment to mention them here.
As always, I hope this video is helpful and encouraging to you. Thank you so much for watching!
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Ladies submit don’t mean control, you have to make sure your husband is a Godly man you’re submitting too. He must be getting direction from God to lead you.
Yes, I explained that in another video.
As the oldest sister, the idea of submitting to my husband makes me drool, I don’t understand how some women find this hard to do. 4:05
Girl tellll me about it. Especially as an older sister where we had to do and lead everything for our younger siblings. Having a Godly man lead and submitting to him is the dreammmm lol
@@Sandra-jc2fs exactly!
Facts same!
Thank you so much for this video! I want to make sure that when proposed to that I myself feel qualified to be the able to take on the role of a fiance' and wife. When proposed to I want to look at my ring and take in the moment and be like "Yes, I deserve this!''
Yes girl! God will prepare you if you allow Him to! He taught me everything I needed to learn to prepare and is still teaching me to this day!
I think the issue many have with the word submission is that unfortunately that word has become warped & misused in society to abuse or treat women as inferior/insignificant. It’s become perverted through history. More need to do a better job teaching on BIBLICAL submission and the beauty of it.
I agree 1000%! I'm actually doing a video on submission that speaks to this.
For serving others my advice is don’t get used god doesn’t call you to be manipulated and taken advantage of
Preach!!!
yes!! there are some of us who have served others so much that they've forgotten about themselves.
I'm getting married next month
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
We got engaged last year December getting married next year :) date has been set I want become the best wife I can be. Looking forward to watching your video!💍
Congratulations girl!! Keep God at the center, follow biblical principles/teachings, and you'll be the best wife ever!
I never thought to ask God to help me to know my worth. That part really resonated with me! Thank you for your video😊
So happy to hear that you've been encouraged and enlightened. God bless you!
When you said "20's were full of sacrifices" that's how I feel rn, I'm 25. Had my daughter in college and it's been very challenging, but I see how and still learn how God uses these times to build my character and draw me closer to him
Yes girl! I'm thankful for the sacrifices and hardships. It's benefitted me in the present big time. I can withstand and persevere because of it!
I'm currently in my sacrifice phase. I left my job and leaving everything behind to go back to my mom's place and start everything over. I am also going to take care of her since she lives alone, and my goal this year is to become closer to God and be able to be obedient and hear the Holy spirit.
Learning how to serve and surrender to God does prepare us to be a godly wife.
Yes, amen!
This was SO GOOD. I’ve been watching a lot of other CZcamsrs who focus on the feminine space and the advice and the focus is very worldly. Looking good, being “high value”, yadda yadda. There are those who do have good points but without focusing in on God and putting Him at the center, the picture is always off. Amazing. Thank you!
I couldn't agree with you more Lauren. Thank you so much for watching!!
I need to start serving. I work on my jobs and yes I’m serving people but I need to get into serving kingdom purpose. Gotta give back to God’s people and share with them the things the Lord wants His people to know.
Yessss!! And you're gonna be SO surprised at how fulfilled you're going to be. Serving others for the kingdom really is a game changer!
I’m in this season now.. in a relationship but not engaged YET. Really trying to learn how to prepare. Thank you for this video, spot on!
You're so welcome girl!!
Same here 😊
Me too, I feel like this is the one. We have been talking about marriage since the very beginning. I definitely have not been praying and reading his word. I have actively been trying to do so because marriage is a covenant God created. I can’t want marriage without God in my life.
@@tillyjoy-zb2nz I made a video just for you and answered your question. I hope it's helpful! czcams.com/video/Fr21CduU8h0/video.html
@@amberdmccann thank you Amber. It was so helpful
Be a good steward of what you currently have❤
This video was wonderful, I got out of bad relationship and not long after praying for a window to open for me to leave and put me in the path I need to be on I met the most wonderful man who I just know I’m going to marry. I just want to be a good wife and women who knows god and be my future husbands help.
Love that for you Haley girl! God will teach you everything you need to know!
Thank you so much for this video
Especially the submission part is deep and you said it all ... I'm blessed 🙏🏽💖
Thank you for providing this video, submit to God stood out to me. Each point was validating to things I have considered. I like that you mention that certain mannerisms can create a smoother transition. The transition can be and seems like a huge mysterious transition.
Absolutely!! I'm glad you found this video to be helpful and I appreciate you watching. God bless you my friend!
I do need a better attitude and a better behavior
Girl I'm sure we all do lol
Love that I stumbled across this video. Thank you.
You're so welcome, glad you enjoyed it!
Great video, i appreciate the reminder about being a good steward !
Glory to God!
This was a really good video
The last one was the best one and a good reminder just to take responsibility for your own things as well. Definitely added that to my notes. Thank you
Okay notes lol
Thank you so much Melody this was so on time. Literally I did a video about the past. Thank you again for your inspiration
Girl, my name is Amber lol 😂 Haha, thanks for watching. So glad you enjoyed it!!
Amazing, amazing video. I love that you went over topics that will not only prepare but also maintain a healthy marriage and lifestyle.
Glory to God! Glad this blessed you!
Everything you Said resonated with me and I'm truly grateful. I need to learn to steward my finances well
I'm so happy to hear that!
Being selfless is a major one thank for sharing this video be blessed ❤
Of course!!
Steward whatever you have well❤🙏🏾
That's the way!
Steward well 💗
Amen!
Thank you sister for your wise and Godly teaching. Be blessed.
Glory to God! Likewise!
Amen, thanks for sharing, point no 1 is a must have dear and thanks for making it clear. Elphesians 5:22-24, then the other points serving others, making sacrifices and being a good steward of our resources are very important, may GOD help me. Wishing you GOD'S guidance and blessings in your marriage dear
God has you! Just pray for wisdom and for the Holy Spirit to help you. These are all spiritual muscles we have to exercise. Thank you for watching!
All good tips!
Glad you think so!!!
Great talk💯
Glad you enjoyed it Grace!!!
Y’all this Queen is truly a Beautiful person inside and out. I’ve encountered her a few times at church. I’m glad to have ran across her You-Tube. 💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
Awww thank you sooo much my friend!!
Oh my goodness….this was the perfect video for me to watch after the dream that I just had.
Oh really?! Well if you like this one, you should watch my newest video. I'm doing a series through Proverbs 31 and helping single women prepare for marriage. I hope you like it!
This was some GREAT reminders….I am in a healthy relationship however I realize I need to step my GAME UP!!!! And only TMH God can truly help me by fully surrendering and submitting to him❤ Thanks again girly
You're so right! And as long as You allow Him to teach you, He will!!
Literally you saying just pray about my value and worth. Some things seem like common sense but I would have never thought to do that
Yes because that's the thing I wasn't paying attention to, yet it was the very thing that changed my mindset!
Amen🙏🏼🙏🏼🥺thank you
Of course!
Be a good steward and Sacrifice!
Amen!
Thank you for this video, not in a relationship but preparing to be a Godly suitable helper for my future husband 🎉
I love it!!
Great advice!! New Subby over here! Love your hair and your pleasant and energetic attitude!
Welcome to the community!!! And thank you for the compliment. I appreciate it!
✨BE a Good Steward
Yes, stewardship is key!
Amen Sis 🙌🏼✨👑♥️💯
Thanks for watching!
Excellence 👑
Yesss!
I'm a 15 year old.I struggle with having crushes and obsessing over them.I know that as a christian I am not going to date unless im.ready to be married (which is obviously no time soon) I'd love you to make a video on how i can redirect my focus and be content in my waiting
I would be happy too! Thanks for watching!
You’re so wise, especially for your age! Keep seeking the Lord in all things at all times ❤
Thanks love 🙏🏽💜
Thank you for watching!!
I’m already a wife. Currently separated. Working out way back together Gods way. In my head I was going on CZcams to look up videos about being a wife. Got on the app and scrolled then boom…….. needed this.
I love to hear that! I hope things have improved for you since!
thank you ♥️♥️
Glory to God!
Can you do a video on “Knowing your worth”?
Here you go girl!: czcams.com/video/K7WXYAzLyhk/video.html
Please pray for me Katarina, who is my kingdom husband ? Thanks, God bless you ...
Could you remake this with scriptures to back your advice up?🙏🏽
Hey girl! I have a newer series I did based on Proverbs 31. I encourage you to check it out!
Submission goes both ways
Yep- the husband submits to God and the wife submits to her husband.
I really should be a good foundation
Yes indeed!
11:18 going through that now 😅
Keep the faith!
Amém 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen!
I really should be submitted to the most high the lord first before l submitted to a husband that l don't know if am ready for yet l always been in toxic turmoil relationship's l wonder when l will get into a pure relationship
Yes, I agree that you should nurture your relationship with the Lord right now. That's the best thing you can do in this current season.
Please do a video on submission
Hawa, thanks for the recommendation!
I would watch this too 🙋♀️
GOD BLESS! PRAY FOR UKRAINE!❤
I don't know if am ready to settle down full time relationship submitted to a husband yet l probably not ready for a full time relationship am little bit self centered l always wanted to be the center of attention
😩You need to pray about that Sis❤️
I love how honest and raw you are by sharing this. I felt the exact same way and can relate. Bring those things to the Lord and ask Him to change you and desire what He desires for you!
These are some really good pointers on being a good GODLY WIFE🤍🤍✝️
Much needed 🤍🤍🤍🤍
I'm so happy this blessed you!
The background music was too distracting for me to finish the video 😭
Oh no!! So sorry! This is from my earlier days of CZcams when I didn't know what I was doing lol I'll definitely re-record and a post a new video! Thanks for the feedback!
We want the video on submission please
Coming right up!
The smacking your hands together, and "baby girl"...
It's the culture on display.
My name is Christy Florence lunsford by the way 😊
Hi Christy!!!
Stewart what you have well ❤❤❤
Yes ma'am!
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I like your nails
Thank you!
Am blessed sitted here at metro 🚇 side listening to beautiful spiritual message from a powerful woman of God .I believe am a wife and God is working in me. Always grateful to God for providing so I can be able to help others in good knowledge. Watching from Belgium 🇧🇪 bruxelles
So glad that you enjoyed this and took something away. God bless you my sister!