We're Pregnant!
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- čas přidán 1. 04. 2021
- Ahhhh, secret's out! Ben and I are ready to start the biggest chapter of our lives. The newest member to our lil fam is arriving this fall. This whole experience has been huge for us and I just wanted to share a slice of what was going through my mind.
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Ohhh my goodness. I'm in tears reading all your comments. Thank you thank you thank you for the amount of support. 😭😭😭I was really nervous uploading this video, but I just wanted to be honest and open about it all. I hope it can help anyone who's experiencing something similar. Honestly Ben, Cheeki and I are SO excited to welcome our newest family member in September. 👶🏻
I KNEW YOUR OOMA (umma???¿) haircut WASNT WIHTOUT REASON. You are glowing Jenn. I hope you can carry on with strength and faith in your pregnancy. I believe in you guys 💚 lots of love. You’re gonna rock it as momma Jenn, no matter what you do, every mom is unique, you will find your bond with your kid!
Another September baby for your family! You guys are going to do amazing. Thank you for sharing your journey!
Wow I’m so happy for the both of you! This is great news... I’ve been watching you for so long now and it is great to see you grow 🌸💕 wishing you and your new family all the best from this day on ✨
You’re going to be an amazing mom, Jenn! Your daughter/son is so lucky to have you as her/his mother. Congratulations and I hope your journey from here on out will be filled with nothing but happiness (and happy tears ONLY) 🤍
Another virgo baby perhaps Jenn? 😂💜💜💜
Worrying about being a good mother is the first sign of becoming a great mother.
great words
THATTSS FACT!! ❤️
ty… found out im pregnant today and im SCARED and WORRIED instead of happy? 🥺
Thank you
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Do you know Jesus Christ can set you free from sins and save you from hell today
Jesus Christ is the only hope in this world no other gods will lead you to heaven
There is no security or hope with out Jesus Christ in this world come and repent of all sins today
Today is the day of salvation come to the loving savior Today repent and do not go to hell
Come to Jesus Christ today
Jesus Christ is only way to heaven
Repent and follow him today seek his heart Jesus Christ can fill the emptiness he can fill the void
Heaven and hell is real cone to the loving savior today
Today is the day of salvation tomorrow might be to late come to the loving savior today
Romans 6.23
For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
John 3:16-21
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. 18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. 21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
Mark 1.15
15 And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.
2 Peter 3:9
The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
Hebrews 11:6
6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
Jesus
So sincere and genuine. Thank you for sharing your feelings. Congratulations on this new week and then the next one ☀️
hi,justine,i also watch your channel,thank you for your french style tips
I have never seen a pregnancy announcement that resonated more with me. The honesty, kindness, self-knowledge, and love just radiate from you, even as you admit your fears. We should all be so lucky to have a mother like you. Really, truly.
You are going to be a great mother. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with the world 💚
I've never seen a comment from CZcams
@@SG-mk4ni literally
If you see this Jenn I’m so excited for what the future holds for you I’m so happy and excited for you and Ben
Woah
@@SG-mk4ni very rare. :o
Seeing a comment from CZcams for the first time in my life🧍♀️
MOST BEAUTIFUL PREGNANCY VIDEO IVE SEEN IM IN TEARS
Me too, oh my god and I don't even want kid but it's so beautiful that I am changing my mind right now
You’re not alone😭😭
LITtERaLY
IN TEARS TOO
same!!
4:05 Ben's reaction when he saw the test was everything. i'm literally sobbing. the whole scene of love and happiness. so so lovely. he really loves you so much. he would be a great dad and you would be a great mom
omg, why am I crying. so happy for you guys
I cried a lot too, and I started thinking about my life and this video get me out of the whole dispersion that I had.
I’m grabbing tissues before the video starts. I know I’m going to need it 😅
100% same. Just finished the video. Very good call. T____T
you might need the whole box
Not the time to beat it man
This is probably the most real, raw, refreshing video that I have seen about pregnancy. I feel like women are compelled to feel 1000% happy and joyful and grateful about pregnancy 24/7. As if there is no room for a woman to feel like a human being who is anxious and nervous and fearful and doubtful when she's bringing another human being into this world. And most of the time women feel guilty and won't be honest about these feelings for fear of being judged and being seen as ungrateful and undeserving. So when you see CZcams videos about pregnancy, it's all the beautiful and happy and wonderful. But I mean if I tell someone right now that I don't think I'd like to have kids in the future, people will go ballistic. So thank you for bringing this into light. Let's normalize this.
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Jesus Christ is the only hope in this world no other gods will lead you to heaven
There is no security or hope with out Jesus Christ in this world come and repent of all sins today
Today is the day of salvation come to the loving savior Today repent and do not go to hell
Come to Jesus Christ today
Jesus Christ is only way to heaven
Repent and follow him today seek his heart Jesus Christ can fill the emptiness he can fill the void
Heaven and hell is real cone to the loving savior today
Today is the day of salvation tomorrow might be to late come to the loving savior today
Holy Spirit Can give you peace guidance and purpose and the Lord will
John 3:16-21
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. 18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. 21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
Mark 1.15
15 And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.
2 Peter 3:9
The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
Hebrews 11:6
6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
Jesus
cried when he hug u >
Me too
i'm only 19, a rising junior in college, parenthood not even a concept for me yet, but i love how your message was to surrender and have faith. i'm so happy for you jenn!
At 19 I thought the same thing I now am 23 with a 3 year old and pregnant with my 2nd 😂
Got pregnant at 19 had my daughter at 20, got pregnant with my 2nd at 22 miscarried, a year later got pregnant with baby number 2 (that's actually healthy so we counted it as number 2). Trust me a lot of girls your age think it's not a concept and it happens
This was the most beautiful video I have ever seen. Thank you for letting us in to such a personal space and for being you. You and Ben are going to be the best parents and we are all patiently waiting for bb’s arrival ❤️ I love you 3 so much!!!
I love you, Weylie. Thank you. T__T
Don’t mind me just sobbing over lunch 😭😭 I keep saying this but forreal you and Ben are going to be the BEST parents. You having so much love to give and I can’t wait to see you bring this little angel into the world!!! I love you!!!
This is literally me rn! Crying my eyes out.. i cant even finish my Lunch.! So happy for them!
I love you so much, Grem! T____T You're gonna be an amazing Auntie!! xxx
I don't even know you, yet I started sobbing when Ben exclaimed "really"
most realistic pregnancy video i've ever watched - no over romanticizing, no model-esque gimmicks. just pure vulnerability and rawness which made it so touching. :( thank you so much for sharing this with us! your content always gives me so much joy and relaxation over the years, they help me become more grounded. we're really excited to meet the little Ben and Jenn (in one)!
Literally spot on!!!
Yes! 💜
Just exactly like what i imagine if i were in her shoes. But seeing this video, how ben’s reaction and his interaction with jenn, everything is gonna be fine! Congratulations Jenn n Ben
Jenn filming herself crying before taking the test is something SOOO many women go through. Lots of people think pregnancy is nothing but pure joy but fear comes first when it's not something you plan for. I wanted to reach out and hug her. I know things are happier now, but this realness is something I truly appreciate. So happy for you both!
she wasn't taking birth control, how did she 'not plan' for it? I'm confused. what did she think was going to happen
@@georgia1986 She was diagnosed with PCOS and one of the complications from having it is infertility.
They don't have to be planned to have those feelings either. After 4 yrs and 2 losses my current pregnancy was not planned and the first couple months was nothing but fear.
@@Pyoriin oh i see. thank you for explaining
When she was crying before taking the test, it was so raw and real it made me cry so hard💔🥺 I’m SO happy for you guys❤️
anyone else notice that 29th December was the day she found out but also the same day 4 years ago that Ben proposed? brb crying
My reaction after watching this video = I want to be your kid
SAME! 😂😂
Korean mama is so cuteeee. She's definitely gonna be loving Mom.
good, im crying and laughing now😂
Such a good comment
me toooooooo
Omgggg this is so beautiful...😭😭😭 Congrats Jenn! So happy for you two🥺🖤
Thank you, Michelle! xx
I've always been a fan of yours Jenn. But you completely blew me away with this. It was so much better than I thought it was going to be. Thank you for your authenticity and willingness to be vulnerable like this. It's very comforting to see you just be human. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy, a smooth birth, and the happiest of lives with your new family. God bless!
i just found out im pregnant, and i will unfortunately be a single mother, i was a complete mess when i found out because i was in shock that it was even real. i thought my mother would be upset because im graduating college may 15th, still have no job and it was with a guy that i just didnt feel a connection with in the end. but, she is over the moon and said the same thing your mother did "im glad youre having a baby while im still young enough and able to remember" that really helped me relax more and just open up to this new journey.
congratulations on the baby and for your upcoming graduation! and im so happy for you. i wish you all the best ❤️
such and vulnerable and touching comment 🥺 wishing you and your baby a blessed life! y’all are so lucky to have such an incredible mom and grandma 💗
my mom basically raised me on her own and i wasnt a planned child either. i never knew my biological father, my grandfather is the closest thing i have to a father (love him to bits) but my mom did fantastic on her own, you have your mom with you to im sure help you with anything you need. congrats on graduating and good luck, im sure youll be a great mother!
Why not abort? Clearly you are not in the right stage life to be a mother as you have said. The kid will be missing a father too.
@@Drake00000010 you are not one to tell someone if they are in the right stage in their life to have a child, she didnt say that?
just bc the baby was not planned it does not mean it cant be a good stage to have a child, just bc she was shocked and a mess about it doesnt mean she cant feel good about it after the initial shock has passed. and from experience i can tell that when you have a boss ass bitch mom, youre gonna be fine even if you dont have a father. most likely the child will have other male figures in their life to be there for them anyway.
sure abortion is an option if she feels like its the right thing to do, but its not your place to tell someone if they are in the right stage or not. and the child will be absolutely fine even if the father is not in the picture.
the way i clicked this notification faster than the speed of light
samee
Guuuurl saaaame
SAMESAME
Sameeeee
Me too lol.
brb im crying
Me tooooo
I'm crying too now! T__T
the way you used “you” is so beautiful. To think, years on, your child will see this video and understand you better - make your bond deeper. You’re going to be great, there’s no doubt about it!
I am CRYING. I’ve been watching you since I was a lil teen and seeing all your milestones and fall in love and get married and now asdfghjk my heart can’t take it. thank you for being the best big sister on the internet, you are going to be an incredible mother 🥺💖💐 ps this was just the most beautiful video omg
Moyaaa hey i love u
Me too
Me toooo!
my fav youtubers here 😭😭
same omg
my heart! the love and beauty in this video, excuse my ugly crying 😭 congrats Jenn!
“I don’t even know you yet but how do i love you so much already”
That hit me so hard that I accidentally cry for a reason
Oh this is absolutely wonderful ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I’m so so so so happy for you both xxx
I'm balling 😭 This was incredible Jenn. I'm so proud of you!! Auntie SoSo is ready to meet him/her ❤️
I love, Sof! Our baby is already gonna have such amazing aunties. n_n ❤️❤️
@@joie3300 Calling babies by him/her is totally fine, a baby is either male or female. People naturally grow into and choose their pronouns as they get older, I don't think using him/her should be looked as at not being open to pronouns, especially when a child is young.
Auntie soso!!!!!
@@joie3300 for goodness sake..... we should also let people use what terms they like and feel comfortable with not everyone is open to the idea or even thinks about it and that's fine! children are too young to understand these things let them grow and discover themself if they are he, she or ze zer
@@unlovebreather AHAHAH
im crying 😭😭 congrats so happy for u 🥲❤️🌷
Thank you, Jessica! ❤️❤️
I have adenomyosis and I’m 38 years old. I’ve been trying to get pregnant but unsuccessful. I’m constantly struggling with thoughts of my fertility struggles and I’m so happy that you’ve come to terms with your journey and are happy with the result.
I couldn't stop crying the whole video. Jenn you're so beautifully vulnerable. Thank you for being such an inspiration and showing us that it's okay to feel. You're going to be an amazing mother!
Only a person capable of being a good mom will doubt her capabilities because she wants to be the best version of herself for her children. You got this 💕❤️
I AM CRYING. Oh Jenn, you will be a great mother and you will raise a child of great values. I am so happy for you. It will be an a rollercoaster of emotions, but I'm sure it will be a beautiful pregnancy. Sending you much love.
Sami
FIRST BTW
Wait what jetzt bin ich verwirrt 😂
Cool das sogar ein deutsche CZcamsr sich für so ein Kanal interessiert, hätte ich nicht erwartet obwohl das garnicht so ungewöhnlich ist ? Haha jetzt fühle ich mich nicht alleine. Noch andere deutsche hier ?:)
@@mariab.v4218 hier 😊
@@Allie83829 nice 😁
@@mariab.v4218 aber natürlich :D aber über Sami hatte ich mich auch kurz gewundert 😂
The moment in the beginning of the video where she started talking about all of her fears about motherhood hit me like a ton of bricks. I have the same feelings too and I'm nowhere near that.. I'd like to hope in 10 years from now I'll have the mindset of "if it does happen.. I can make it work."
Im crying right now and Im not even a mother nor a future mother. This video is just wholesome.
ahH i’m crying,,, CONGRATS JENN!! 😭💖 so so so happy for you both sending so much love your way 🥺💓
Thank you for your vulnerability Jenn 😭💕 this was the most comforting amazing video
Can't agree more 😭😭😭😭😭😭
My heart broke when you said : i don't know if i am going to be a good mother.
You are and you will, you will see everything changes but you get used to it and you will love your baby so much
I related so hard with all of this. The PCOS, hitting 30, the fear, and wishing I was just excited. Made me tear up. We had our first baby last July and now I can't imagine life without her. She is my world. Congratulations to both of you and thanks for sharing and normalizing this type of journey.
As a single 27 y/o man without children, I tend to find it hard to relate to pregnancy announcement videos. But the footage and descriptions in this video are so raw and real that I was actually moved to tears and can somehow envision those fears and doubts you had despite my gender and never being put in that situation. I for one still have no desire for children but if what every one else says is true then I will get more interested as I get into my thirties. This video really was well done and I truly only hope for the best for you three! Congratulations!
I love how real this is. More people need to see the "I'm scared as shit" side of this situation because even if you're someone who has always wanted to be a parent and has meticulously planned a pregnancy, there is still fear for many reasons. And to anyone who needs it: ALL YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID AND NORMAL.
Don't beat yourself up and feel guilty for feeling fear, doubt or even wishing you weren't pregnant anymore. And if you've already had a kid, don't feel bad for feeling stressed from being a parent and sometimes wishing your life were different. It happens and doesn't mean you're a bad parent.
You are human and being human is complicated. Our moods are always changing and our lives are stressful. And things like pregnancy literally change your body's chemistry both during and after. That complicates things further.
Feel what you need to feel. Talk to someone when you need to talk. And no matter what path you take, you're not wrong and your emotions are normal.
Love this
😭😭😭
Worrying about being a good mom means you are going to be an even better mom than you can imagine.
The phone call with your mum was so beautiful ❤️ she was so supportive and reassuring
Is everyone else crying? This is the most beautiful and raw pregnancy announcement I’ve seen. Congratulations Jenn and Ben!
Couldn't agree more
Congratulations Jenn❣️I really feel you. But life as a mother is more proud and fun than anything else! The gestation period is precious and it really goes by so quickly, so enjoy your time with Ben!🥰 Sending love from Tokyo!
Spotted Moe! 💕
So nice seeing you here! もえさんの動画をいつも見ています💕
omg hiiii
Moe can be such a great role to learn for being a great mother 💛💛💛
Kimono mom!!! Omgeeee, I’m so glad to see someone I watch RELIGIOUSLY comment, letting me know, she watches someone else who I watch religiously🥰♥️ small world😭
I've been a silent viewer since the beginning, it always felt like watching a friend grow up and I'm SOOO HAPPY!! Thank you for sharing Ben and Jenn, you're going to be amazing parents!!
i know i was not the only one crying from beginning to end of this beautiful video! what an incredible expression of the rang of life & human emotions!! ugh Congratulations Jenn & Ben! Wishing you & Your growing Family so much Support, Love & Joy✨
As someone who is very close to 30 and not very interested in being a mother, this really moved me. I appreciate your honestly because a lot of videos like this just make it seem like it was such an easy decision - but motherhood isn't something that feels so welcoming to some of us. So due to that, I thank you for you rawness. Sending tons of love and congratulations your way! Life is a wild ride
^^THIS^^ Sometimes It's really weird, not wanting kids but also being wildly, genuinely, passionately excited for my friends who are all getting pregnant now. I pray that, though I might not have a family of my own, i will get to have my friends' kids as kind of my own family, and that I will be as much of a part of their kids lives as I hope they are in my life, because i know i will love the little ones just as much as i consider my own friends like my family. Thank u for this truly honest and touching video @jenn, and inviting us along into this exciting new chapter of your life!
My sister and I have been watching your videos since 2013, we were each 11 and 14. Being Korean American, we grew up following you like you were a big sister to us. You didn't only open our eyes to fashion and makeup, but you also gave us advice on how to be more confident, and just how to be a good person in general.
We have already cried many times to your videos(your wedding with Ben, what you have learned in your 20s..), but this made us cry so hard. My sister just screamed my name when she saw the notification, and we ran to the sofa and sat down to hear this beautiful news together.
We just want to say that we have faith in you and Ben to be amazing parents. I know this because you literally raised us to be good. Without you and your channel, we wouldn't have become the people we are now. We are so full of emotions that can't be put into words. We love you and your family with all of our hearts. Congratulations on starting a new chapter of your lives!
This is such a heartfelt comment. I hope Jenn sees this!
Jenn u need to see this comment...this is the most beautiful and loving thing I have seen today❤️
Yess 💚💚I hope Jenn sees this comment. I can attest to that too and say I share the same feelings. Jenn you help me on the daily be a better person and I’ve learnt so so so much from you. I don’t idolize you cos that would be weird but I just appreciate everything you do and your honesty.
Thank you so much for this comment, Rafaela. T__T Sending all my love to you and your sister! ❤️
@@imjennim saw it.....teeheeee
Congratulations Jenn! I've subscribed to you for years and it's so nice to see you guys grow while I am too. This was such a beautiful video (crying) and I truly wish blessings and health for you and your growing family. Thank you for feeling comfortable sharing this piece of your life. :)
I’ve been bawling obscenely through this entire video. I’m so happy for you Jenn and Ben. And when I saw September at the end I lost it. The world needs more Virgos!
jenn, i started watching you when you were still in college, still ‘clothesencounters’, watched you get married, get a dog, grow a clothing business, and now, pregnant. it’s so weird how happy i can feel for someone i’ve never met, i just wish for all the best things to happen to you, congratulations!!
I am so happy for you both! Congratulations ❤️
Tina you look like the alien lady from Mars attacks
@@dann5480 She is actually better than you!
I cried so much omg I grew up watching jenn starting from clothesencounters and the fact that she's having a baby makes me so happy
I've never cried so hard from a youtube video... Thank you for being so vulnerable and real with us. You practically raised me through your videos, it was so validating having a female korean creator to look up to. You're gonna be an amazing mother and I'm so happy for you and Ben!!!
“What if I tried my best and my kid still didn’t love me.”
That shattered my heart.
Omg! I just bawled at that part!
The same. I was already ready eyed, that part really sent me.
Not me sobbing watching this 😭😭 this was so beautiful and real!! Thank you for this 🙏🏽
This was so beautiful I’ve just been sitting here crying watching 🥺 I can just tell you two have the biggest hearts and will make the best parents this child could ask for. And thank you so much for being so vulnerable and honest and real - that takes so much courage but it helps us all feel a little less alone ❤️ sending you all my good thoughts and energy
Thanks for sharing Jenn. I love how authentic you are! Super exciting, congrats to you and ben!
ben's reaction brought me to tears. I'm just bawling all over my sheet mask right now. Jenn, you are such a sincere human who is always looking to grow, how can you NOT become an amazing mother? And if you make a mistake, like we all do, you will communicate and learn and grow because that is the type of person you are. An abusive parent won't be willing to take that step, to communicate, to fix. Don't you ever worry, you are going to be amazing.
Ikr Ben is so supportive in any given situation.
omg jenn this is so viseral, i felt everything. and appreciate hearing the highs and lows of becoming pregnant. thank you so much for crafting this beautiful entry for us to enjoy and i am soo happy for you both!!!!
Thank you so much, Rachel. This message means SO much coming from you. ❤️
@@imjennim Congratulations, dont worry you will be fine, pregnancy, motherhood will Definetly change everything, but in a good way, it is like a test the relationship with you and God (doesnt matter what religion, God is the One and Only Creator of everything). Motherhood gives you so much love and Joy that you couldnt imagine you will feel, trust me, your heart will expand so much... But of course hormonal changes, lack of sleep will make you tired sometimes, but always remember it is temperary, the baby grows so fast, and remember in the end of the Day it is a Blessing to carry a baby and give birth to a New human being (so many women dream to be a mother). Be gentle with yourself, trust God, dont worry, babies and kids want happy parents, not Perfect ones. P.s. Pregnant women always a step closer to God whether she belives in Him or not, (so you will noticed that your desires and wishes comes true quicker at this period of time, i noticed from myself when i was pregnant i won the giveaway i dreamed of lol) and where there is Faith there is no fear:)
CZcams is evil for recommending me this video now 🥲
I felt every single emotion here. I only see glorified stories of when people get pregnant but I know for sure my first emotion would be a shock and a fear. So thank you for sharing that honest vulnerability Jenn!
Congratulations Jenn! I’m beyond happy for you, Ben and your family! I’m crying watching this. Everything you felt are real emotions. Thank you for sharing your beautiful journey and being so vulnerable. You are going to be an amazing mother 💗💗💗
That raw clip of you questioning yourself before taking the test and being scared got me to tears. I felt your pain. I’m 37 weeks pregnant and I can relate. I wish you all the best and all the happiness in the world. Do your best girl, you got this!!! That baby is going to love you 💗 And a “bad mom” wouldn’t be crying, scared that their kid won’t like them. You’re wonderful and I know your baby will see it too. One step at a time.
CONGRATULATIONS YOU TWO!! Honestly, I have never related to a video more (other than the fact that I’m most DEFINITELY not pregnant) and I can imagine many other people will feel an immense sense of comfort knowing your feelings about pregnancy as a pregnant woman. I’ve always struggled with intense anxiety around the idea of being pregnant, having kids, etc., and I’m so glad you shared your raw feelings in this way. Thank you for showing it’s okay to feel negative in light of such seemingly positive news, and that everyone is allowed to feel anxious but also excited and everything in-between. We’re human, and no one should feel ashamed for whatever emotions they feel at these big life milestones. You’re an absolute queen, and I’m so happy for you both. I just know you’re adding an incredible person into this world 💗✨ can’t wait to see who they become!!!
why did I start crying when you started crying? Oh Jenn, We basically grew up together, we're almost the same age and I felt this. this video was everything. Congratulations, and no matter how many times you will doubt you will be the BEST mom for your future baby.
I think it's so natural to be afraid and there's absolutely no need to have guilt about feeling that way. In fact, I think it's more natural that way than feeling excited.
OMG im crying. Congratulations Jen!!!! It’s a beautiful journey and you’re gonna be a great mom!!!
scottie boo will have another baby friend . hopefully they meet too
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"what if I try my best, and my kid still doesn't love me" THAT BROKE ME IN TEARS.
Im so so glad I came across your chanel. I suffer from intense anxiety and panic disorder and my mind works like yours. It was like looking into a mirror. I’m so very glad you got the help you needed and had a healthy little bean! (Watched your birth vlog before this one). I found it comforting that I immediately understood your fears. Because I am not good with change either. But I have to say, you did such a good job! Thank you for sharing these vulnerable moments with us.
I’m so happy for you Jenn. Thank you for sharing all these precious and private moments with us. It must have taken lots of courage to share it. You will be a great mum ❤️
For what it’s worth, I think you will be a brilliant mother. We’re all constantly doubting ourselves in life... it’s just that some people are better at hiding it than others. This video was so beautiful done, Jenn. Thank you for sharing such an intimate moment with us. Much love! 💋
I got pregnant at 32. Married at 30. When I found out I was pregnant by using the test kit, I was alone. My husband was overseas for work. I cried in the bathroom for the longest time. My relationship with my mom was never good. So I questioned myself "Would I be a bad mom?" "Would my kid love me no matter what?" I went to the doc to get a retest because I still didn't believed I was pregnant! My daughter will be 9 this year and I love her to bits! She is the best thing that ever happened to me and being a mum is the most best and rewarding, the most tired and never ending job, the most unappreciated job where you will always be judged, but No Regrets! You will be a great Mom Jenn. Yes, we will doubt ourselves all the time, and think that sometimes we just wanna give up, but Moms are strong! You will rock at it!
I felt that sooo much!
Your husbands reaction?
This is beautiful ☺️ when Ben said “really?” it set me off in tears! Super happy for you both. I’m due in September, too. It is a scary prospect, but it will be amazing, I’m sure. You’re going to be a wonderful Mum/Mom.
I'm literally in tears !! been following your journey Jen since clothes encounters days ! it's crazy to see you grow and bloom as a person .. it feels like i know u up close and personal. You are going to be an incredible dedicated mother .. that I'm sure of. Congraaats to you and Ben !!
Jenn I’m crying! I’m so so happy for you🥺🥰
This is probably one of the most beautiful and real pregnancy announcement I've ever seen. Congratulations, you've got this.
Yesss🥰
I post vidz
Always radiating love and so much warmth, Jenn! Congratulations! I'm so happy for you and Ben.
wow, this was so powerful, jenn. thanks for sharing your story and emotional journey. this video brought out so many untapped emotions in me i didn't know i had as someone who is in the same boat as you contemplating having kids and whether motherhood would be for me. just whoa. congratulations to you and ben!
I started crying when I saw you crying... I’ve been a subscriber since I was in 8th grade, and now I am a freshman in college. You’ve made me more confident in my “Asian”ness, my awkward stages, and even through my mistakes... whatever happens with your family, please know that you’ve been a role model for so many of us and you’ve been part of our found family, somehow. We love you loads!!
Same Laureen!!
Same!
Same I started watchin her videos since grade 9 now I finished college. I saw her before she even met ben. I love her so much. I saw her growing up into this beautiful woman. I am so proud of her
I'm sorry why am I sobbing??????? But oh my goodness congratulations! I'm so happy for you and your little family!! 😭😭
Congrats. This was such an amazing video. Thank you for sharing. I was tearing up from the moment you started crying. So happy for you and Ben.
I still watch this and cry every time, September is here and I’m so excited for you Jenn!
"It's okay, babe. We're gonna get through this. You're gonna be amazing and I'm gonna be there right with you." Ben saying this when Jenn said she's scared AHHH SO HAPPY FOR YOU BOTH T___T
Oh my god.. i'm crying with her🥲 Congrats you so much🧡 As an old Korean subbie i'm so excited for you!!! 너무너무 축하드립니다🌷 꽃길만 걸으세요!!!
zooeee omg all my fav youtuber here supporting Jen 😭💕
Zoeeeeee
zoeee!!! same!! :'))
Thank you for sharing such heartfelt moments. ❤️ It is natural to have these fears and anxiety. You are going to do the best you can and that will be good enough. Just remember that there is no right or wrong way to be a mom. Motherhood will be a wonderful journey in itself. Embrace the highs and the lows. Only then can we grow and learn. Congrats to you and Ben! Looking forward to seeing you guys start this new chapter of your life. Thank you for being so candid. I’m totally not crying into my lunch right now. 😂
Thank you for such a beautifully vulnerable and revelatory video. I can only imagine the amount of courage it took to not only experience this but then to also share it with the world. Congratulations to you, Ben, and the rest of your families! Much love and respect for you, Jenn ❤️
This was the most relatable pregnancy reveal video.. The fear, the doubt, and the guilt. But learning that surrendering to the unknown is the beauty of life.
Hi, Jenn. My name´s Moira. I was diagnosed with PCOS, too, and my biggest dream is to be a healthy mom someday. It´s so scary to think about the complications of PCOS and you know how we can drown ourselves in so much fear. You´ve been my favorite youtuber for awhile now and I just want to thank you for opening up about your PCOS and for allowing yourself to be vulnerable to share this with us. You gave me so much hope and got me excited again for the future. You have no idea how many people you´ve given courage to through this video. You´re gonna be a terrific mom. We love you!
❤️
Hi Moiraaaaaa :)
Woowwwwww moiraaaa’
Ate moi, next ka na din po! 💛
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Congratulations!!!! See, social media is beautiful because of this video. She shared her raw true feelings as well as this beautiful edit with overlaying music that is so creative and hits a different part of my brain. Gosh, I love this video so much and so happy for you and Ben
Congrats!!! This was the most beautiful and heartfelt video I have ever seen. You brought me to tears reliving the fears I had as well. I’m so happy you’ve embraced this new chapter in your life. Looking forward to seeing more updates and I may not know you personally, but I wholeheartedly believe that you’re going to be an amazing mother. ♥️
Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable moment in your life with us.
I don't think I've ever seen a more beautiful video on this platform. Congrats Jenn
It's so empowering to see this version of finding out you're pregnant - fearful, scared, catastrophising. What a gift you've given so many mothers and mothers-to-be around the world for showing this very valid version of this chapter. Wishing you all the best in the months to come, I'm so happy for you both!
What a beautiful beautiful video - thank you for being brave enough to share your honest reaction, doubts and all. I am SO happy for you and Ben!!
i literally cried my eyes out watching this. i’ve watched you for years and i’ve seen you get married, open your own clothing line, settle down and do new things. wishing the best for you jenn, always
I am tearing, everyone talks about the excitement of having babie. But neglected the negative ones.. society has incepted that everyone should be happy for new member. But neglected mom’s feeling and status change. :’) is ok to be scare, is ok to be emotional.. you got this Jenn! :) love youuuuu!