6.20.24-Should Men Wear Engagement Rings, Too? Double Standard?

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  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
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    In today's video, we'll ponder whether or not there is a double standard on men and women wearing engagement rings.
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Komentáře • 13

  • @deborahcasey2459
    @deborahcasey2459 Před 13 dny +1

    My late spouse and I gifted each other with necklaces on our wedding day, wrote our own vows and my hair was cornrolled in the 70's. I never had a engagement ring nor did I want or need one . We bought each other rings for Christmas after 10 months of dating. and we bought each other rings after 10 years of marriage. It's all good❤😊 love you and so glad you continue to heal.

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 12 dny

      So there you go, Debbie. Y'all already had rings (made a commitment) before y'all got engaged and married. Therefore, he was willing to wear a ring that symbolized his commitment to you even before proposing to you. Mr. Al was a special man, yes he was. His kind is few and far between. Yes, I'm still healing. Thank you for watching.

  • @kiatate1442
    @kiatate1442 Před 13 dny +1

    I love that idea, sis! Ha! So surprised this hasn't come up before now. I can't wait to hear what others have to say. My vote is yes!

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 12 dny

      Yeah, I was thinking the same thing, Kia...why hasn't this come up before. Glad to see you agree with my thoughts. Thank you for watching.

  • @bereciapitts1913
    @bereciapitts1913 Před 13 dny +1

    Great topic. Thanks Camille. Lately, I have seen men wear a symbolic of a wedding ring on their married finger to show he is off limits. I think it's a good thing that men consider their engagement period too by wearing a something to symbolize being spoken for and off limits.

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 12 dny

      That's the word, Berecia...symbolic! It's not his official wedding ring, but as you said, something that says he's taken/off limits. We're on the same page. Thank you for watching.

  • @charlottepatterson9950
    @charlottepatterson9950 Před 9 dny +1

    Sorry, I'm late listening,
    I've wondered about that myself.
    Both of them are supposed to be off the market from that day forward, sooooo why not?
    Also Camille, you just opened up another market because the jewelry stores are going to get flooded with "Do you have engagement rings for men"
    No not that desperate, lol😂😂
    Yes my man Wear that ring and say I belong to her ‼️‼️‼️‼️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️♥️

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 9 dny

      Lol! Thank you for chiming in, Ms. Charlotte. You’re never too late, so no apology needed. We’re definitely on the same page. I say, why not, too? Maybe this will open up some new conversations. We’ll see. Thank you for watching.

    • @charlottepatterson9950
      @charlottepatterson9950 Před 9 dny

      My pleasure 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @sherriecooke4681
    @sherriecooke4681 Před 13 dny +1

    I don't know about this male engagement ring thing. I'm glad this is coming around after I got married. When my husband proposed to me and I said, "Yes" and he put that engagement ring on my finger, that meant WE were engaged, and I expected him to act accordingly. 😂

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 12 dny

      LOL! I get it, Sherrie. I was thinking more like he wears a place-holder on his finger that signifies his "allegiance" to you like he expects you to do. It doesn't have to be his official wedding ring. I respect how you feel though. Thank you for watching.

  • @dandrealong2944
    @dandrealong2944 Před 13 dny +2

    I think it could be a good idea but I really want to make sure he is telling others that he is off limits bc regardless of the ring he is going to do what he wants. I want him to value me and our relationship.

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 12 dny

      Great point, D'Andrea! For people like you and I, seeing a man with a ring on automatically let's us know he's off limits, so there's no mistaking his marital status. But, I agree, he should be telling people as well. Thank you for watching.