Things I Wish I Could Tell My Parents | Ft. Team YUVAA
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- Have you ever find yourself thinking about the small things you wish you could tell your parents? If you said yes, this video is for you.
We asked our Insta Fam about the things they wanted to tell their parents but couldn't. And here's what they had to say.
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"I need a therapist"
"I'm losing myself constantly"
"wanna live my life on my own terms" totally relatable😑
Hmmm same here ❤️
Ya 🥺💔
i told my mothere that i am depressed and need a therepist and she replied ki depression ye sab kuch ni hota or inka koe doctor b ni hota and laughed
I want to tell my parents to stop fighting all the time .
God bless you
Sameee😪
Yaa it will be true what u want Hare Krishna
Me too
May your wishes come true!! God bless u
Maybe more youngsters or children are watching this stuff instead of parents..
No may be it is true
The problem is that Parents are not interested in knowing about our stuff.
The bitter truth : THEY DON"T CARE!!
And this dude this hurts even tho they will never know...
@@akhilpillai2747 And we will keep this within us.
they don't want to accept that this is what we are facing. And what to escape when we try to tell them that this is not only me who is doing this.
"Maybe notice the marks on my wrists than the marks on my tests."
-Someone I met in a suicidal help chat
Every thing will be fine
Parents don't understand that everytime materialistic love is not important there is real need of ur personal time 😔
You are right
This is exactly which I extremely lack in my life
I opened up to my best friend via phone cause my parents didn't wanna believe that I'm depressed. Later they checked my chats with each of my friends idk why and they found out about me telling everything to my bff. They scolded me so hard and said how could you do this and bla bla. So I ran away and stayed at my friends house for the night. The next day when my mom came to pick me up, the first thing she said to me was " now what the neighbors will think of us". That hurt me the most. I thought at least now I deserve a "I know you're not fine. You can tell me anything and everything " or even a short version that would've been sufficient. I didn't expect that though lol. They just want me to bottle it all up and move on that's it huh?!!!!!! Now I'm getting angry!! And guess what, my cat was murdered by our neighbors!
I feel you💔
It's okay....
All of us kids are going through this
Our parents don't understand that even a 12 year old can have serious issues,it's the generation gap and the way they have been brought up......
Happens with me too
Only thing I can say 'Stay Strong'!
❤️
I told my mom about my emotional breakdowns and she told me stfu and left me crying
😭💔💔
They only care about what society thinks. Unfortunately none of my friends have phones and I can't really chat with them, or I would have done that too. They think hat feelings are a bottle you can throw in the sea. But no! It's an open box. We can close it or open it to but we can't throw it away. For me, my mom understands me but she too insults ne a lot unknowingly like 'you are fat' or 'shave your legs, you look disgusting'
Am I the only person who thinks that parents should be taught how to be a good one instead of teaching kids how to be a best one. They want us to be open but we can't tell anything becuz they will scold us. Don't wanna tell you about my friend's score cuz I got less. Wanna stay alone cuz i feel uncomfortable when I can't speak openly with the people around. Always on the phone cuz I need a distraction from my thoughts of being worthless. Why can't you understand us?
Why?
:(.
I feel the same
Dude u r not alone
😖 dost u r not alone even I am treated the same way
You kinda explained my life..,😀
the part about needing a distraction from your own thoughts,, hits different!!
I really felt the catcalling one... Don't tell me to dress "properly", don't tell me to take another path, don't tell me to ignore, don't make 8 pm curfews, don't send my brother along everywhere... Make me strong enough to do something about it instead of running away from it.
Well said dear
I just wanted to say that mom I didn't want to visit a therapist bcoz of headache but becoz I m in depression, I cry in washroom, cut my wrist, punch the walls, cry my heart out but now I just paste a smile coz u don't understand me
Don't harm yourself, woh hume hi affect krta hai, I know kyi baar krne ka mann krta hai but jitna rona hai rolo koyi baat nhi but apne aap ko yeh pain mtt do
Don't harm your self everything will be alright don't worry
I wanna tell my papa please trust me and also start trusting everyone please understand have friends specially boys is not a crime usse aapki bezati ni hogi .
Please stop thinking that i wont be able to do anything in my life just because of my behaviour please please just say me i can do better in my life .... papa hmesha gusse me rhte ho please stop being like this
I wan to say when I'm out and i I don't pick the phone or I be late please don't think I'm with someone and in someone's room please
Mai ni bhul pati hu ye sb it hurts a lot papa i hope you will understand
My dad doesn't do that. I don't have so many male friends that my dad knows of, because once he knew a male friend if mine and teased me SO MUCH. if you have male friends, don't let them interact with ur parents so much as your female friends
U spoke my heart out😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
💔
U spoke my heart out😭
Same here...
This video literally made me cry😭.
Even i want to speak loud that " Ahhhhhh! I need a therapist" and i literally feel like i do need one but i can never tell them
this.
Same here
same here
Same here
I need toooo
Same here i can never tell my problems to my parents as they will just kill me
"I'm losing myself constantly. Notice that apart from my marks" & yeah "I need to go to a therapist".
This is the phase I'm going through & I can't even tell my parents all this.. I'm 21 & This is the most immature but most important phase of life.. Hope I survive all this..
Nowadays parents don't understand the real issues of their child..
Don't worry just go live your life on your own terms love yourself..... Everything will be fine and yes don't loose yourself and if the issues get worse discuss it...... Understand your worth... You are important ✌❤
@@snehas.9333"live your life on your own term".. That's kinda difficult.. I'm a medical student & I'm pursuing it just because of my family pressure..I want to do something else actually but don't want to hurt my parents' feeling..
Thanks for your kind words though..
@@ayushchoudhary4721 I do understand your dilemma but that's what life is all about whatever the situations may be just don't loose your passion and yes do pursue it whenever you feel it's the right time...... All the best😄
@@snehas.9333 👍
The same with me
I wanna tell my parents tht I'm not the girl tht they want me to be....I just pretend to be one in front of them,,,,,tht I do many things out of my comfort zone just to make them feel proud.
I really just want to give u a hug I know this feeling
Same
When parents ask how was your day the only answer they want is about school and friends and physical,not about your mental health.
To be honest, our parents don't understand us.
That's why I never tell them what I feel neither I want, because they always consider me wrong in every perspective. I'm happy by not to share them anything, because as soon I share even a little thing with them, they always come up with a new lecture. So I've understood them that not to share them anything. I share my each and every thing to my Bestfriend and that's what our friends are for. I'm happy I share her and she understands me. Our parents can never. We can always have children-parent relationship but can never be friends with them, can never feel free to talk with them. This Is the harsh truth we all know this.
bro soo trueeee
I can feel you.. Cuz i do the same
U r 100% correct.
Even I am suffering the same situation from the age of 14 or 15 yrs and now I m 23.
I think it carries on till u get a job (in case of boys) and till u get married (in case of girls), and all this is mostly bcoz of this bloody stereotypic society.
I have started doing the same thing and... try that I don't have to speak much in front of them.. Because as soon as I say something.. It gives rise to a new melodrama
Same here really a true problem for teens 🤷🏼♀️😌😌😌
I wanna tell my parents that I never wanted to persue studying for doctor...but I'm taking tht stress just for them.
I wanna tell my parents tht pls let me make frnds whom I want to be my frnds....don't control who my frnds should be😶
I wanted to tell my parents that- "Yeah I wanted to persue arts even after scoring 92% in boards and I'm just carrying on with bio and going to become a doctor for your pride's sake.
And please don't tell me that I'm living on my own terms cuz you killed the voice of that little child who once thought of becoming an artist.
Thanks for defaming me in front of others and criticize the piece of art which everyone appreciated a lot.
Thanks for making me realize that parents will be parents and will never understand my problems even after trying so hard"
Mutual feelings bro! Even I wanted to persue arts..but they said if I will persue science I would have more career options...and I ended up being a pcb student..btw I got 87% in 10th
@@mansiraibole8865 Bro I was not even given the privilege to choose my career option in PCB. Some stupid relative once commented on my looks as "Doctor sahiba" and since then I'm supposed to become a doctor. Lile wtf😑
i come from a doc family and i just wanted to say, it gets really hard in college if you dont really want to become a doctor from your own will. ofcourse you will eventually cope up , but if you can , try to make art your career!
@@radhikachhabra2154 Yeah! Will have to see🙃
Yeah! But it's like I am privileged That I spend time with my parents and could tell them my problems...I told them about this one too...several times and now they say that I can continue with humanities If I want to...but now I am kinda loving pcb☺️❤
I am a 17 year old suffering from anxiety disorder. I am losing myself constantly and my parents notice only my marks not the stress and chaos I m going through. I m constantly spyed upon and I am never trusted. I am not given the privacy that is not only a need but a right. I am never allowed go out or watch movies with my friends. I feel suffocated , choked and I want to end my lyf.
It’s okay friend me being the same age as of u ..it’s acceptable that u go through this ! Wait we all go through this !!! Teenage is the time we feel so ...if u can’t take control over a situation don’t loose hope ! Do something that makes u feel good ..read books ...sit calm nd speak to yourself ...take a day off nd discover ur passion ...learn something new ...make friends share ur feelings with the same ...it’s ok we all go through this believe in urself ...each time try reminding yourself dear me I’m strong I’m brave Nd whole power nd strength atleast is in me ...im the happiest soul ...it’s okay this will not last long
hey there... i know its seems as if no solution is around... but no matter what happens never feel like ending your life ... thats the only thing i can say, because we guyz do face problems and no motivation/ lecture can help us out unless we get over it with time :-)
@Derrick Lloyd
Hello there, Hope you are fine now...
I am sure that every thik will be ok to you 😇😊😊
The same thing is going with me but... trust me Ending lt is not a solution so don't think that trust me everything will be fine and hope for the best 🙂🙂🙂
I went through a bad break up during my exams and I had to run to the washroom every 10 minutes just because I wasn't able to control my tears.
When parents say that they're our best friends, that means that you need to listen to our problems and not just take out flaws and say "yeh tumhari age nahi hai"
We just need u to lisn to us and not comment or react. Just listen.
So sad now I feel you are fine. Break ups happen . Though not experienced l am telling you move enough. You will get your prince one day . But don't forget no one is permanent in your life
I know how it feels.....
My parents also say that they are my best friends but whenever I try to open all they answer is "you should have a crush or boyfriend....focus on your studies." I am 15 and this is where we all start having feelings and crushes I am not the only one why can't they understand that this is natural and EVERYONE goes through this......
I wish they could understand how difficult it is to study when all these tanas and lectures of you been worthless and useless and always on your mind
I wish I could tell them that only my friends and my phone whom they hate so much can make me laugh
Please stop comparing me with other children's pls stop telling me how bad I am in doing stuffs please stop telling me that you are not only one who have problems in life please just ask me ones what I feel? is everything alright?am I fine ? And please please not say that what the problem you have in your life in which we gave you all facilities please please let me be me
My parents compare me with other kids for studies, and I thought of a lot of things to tell them. I don't because I am too scared they will beat me. They should be happy with their child and calmly help them, not harshly compare them with other children
Very relateable
Same here with my parents...I am so tired of their comparisons by now, I tell them in the face when they compare me with my cousins that " Fine. I can't do that. Alright? Kindly stop comparing." And then I am labelled as arrogant, cold, impolite, and so on. But I can't really take anymore taunts from them. It really hurts.
she said we all go through those nights but mine are years
The most important thing a parent should understood is that never judje your child ,if they do something wrong then let them tell about the right and wrong thing plzz never say your child ki" meri khandan ki naak kata di".Its your child and they really need your support always.
I feel like throwing this khaandan in some garbage.
Everytime khandan khandan, hadd hai yrr
When ur child will be in pain or suffering then this khandaan will not come to see you or support u.
I have my "judgemental relatives".
I want my parents to know that i cant study all the time if my home’s falling apart . Plz stop fighting , we arent kids anymore , we know whats going on , we sometimes fail at hiding how your fights affect us . Please..
I know, once I asked my parents to not fight in my presence because it affects me. They merely told me to shut up and it's not any of my business. They said that I'm only a kid and I should not be affected. Aree, kids get more affected about fights than adults!
That is so true
@@sniper4872 Well, the fact is, parents fighting, affects the child the most. I experienced it myself. I literally felt like dying with the cold war going on in the house. Finally, when I couldn't take it any longer, I shouted at them for acting like cowards rather than facing the actual issue. Imagine what they said? " Ladki hat se nikal gayi hay.!", " Chote hai, chote jaisa bat kar! Humko datne ayi hai! Betameez!" And many such horrible things. They did not understand how it pains when you have your most loved ones shouting at each other and fighting, sometimes ending up in deciding divorce, and the whole thing comes to a conclusion that everything is happening because of you. It hurts a lot. And they are an absolute failure in understanding this.
I don’t wanna get married this soon, I am just 21. Have to do something with my life, please let me.
Are you married yet?? If not or if you don't want to marry then don't. This is not the time to marry.
Talk to your parents, do something, tell them that you want to do something in your life but don't marry otherwise you will regret your whole life and never will be happy.
Exactly the same thing is happening wth me 😩
@@shweta.jangra9374 are u ok?
@@UshaSharma-gf4mn actually no😔
@@shweta.jangra9374 what happened
"mom, can you please stop telling that i am fat,please"this is the phase i am going through!! I can't even tell my parents about this.. 😭😭
All are beautiful in their own way. So don't be sad. When they tell u that u are fat just take it as a complement. Even fat people are beautiful. And I think fat people are more cute. Mine Bestfriend is also fat and she is very cute and beautiful. If u will ignore what others thinks about u they will not say it again. So just listen from one ear and remove it from another ear. I have not seen u but i am telling u that U ARE BEAUTIFUL like that only so don't change yourself for any one.Stay happy and stay blessed Sis
@@sadiashaikh24 Same here
@@sadiashaikh24 can you please send me this in my what's app 8618222586
@@sadiashaikh24 they r telling me to cut off my night dinner
@@nikitakotagi6962 Don't change yourself for anyone. And plzz don't cut off your dinner. Just ignore them. U are not getting fat because u eat so much its how god made u and it's his choice. If he wants u to be thin then he will definitely do that. So plzz don't take tension it's your life and u can live how u want. Don't think u are not beautiful because of your weight u are also very beautiful sis. Just listen to yourself and eat how much u want. Take care and stay blessed Sis❤
i want my mom to stop using slangs and swearing at me without knowing the inner me .....
There's not even a single child who's like happy with his/her parents i just wanted to say ty to my parents for working so hard for my future ♥️
Not all people are the same
I love my parents!
ITS ME,
THE CHILD WHO IS HAPPY AND BLESSED TO HAVE SUCH AMAZING PARENTS
My parents r soo cool
They r my life
They luv me and I luv them too
They cares me a lot
I m very happy with them
I luv u
Mom and dad
that's not true at all, please don't generalize. my parents are amazing and sensitive. sure they aren't perfect but they're much more than i deserve.
bruh everyone loves their parents🙄 what this video and comment section is saying that we just need space and our own time!!!
Please Stop caring about what ur relatives will think, what ur neighbours will think, what the people who won't be even be a part of my life in future will think..
Just for once, for this one little time, just please please only think about me!!!!
Log kya sochenge 😔😔😔😔😔🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
I wanna be free.....not everyone wants to take advantage of me... 😓
I was suffering from anxiety when I was only 17, and I secretly visit a therapist and when I disclose this to my parents they scold me hard even how can you go to person which is unknown to you.
My parents didn't let me speak my heart what I want to do and now I am doing good job but of their choice. Which is giving me stress and I am.just 18 #weareyuvaa
Just have patience u will be alright many people like us have suffered from this and we don't have courage to talk to someone about it
Ask your parents to Google about therapy. They don't judge your story and are not the same people your parents mingle with. They understand you and help you go through it
I want to tell my parents , that I want to live my life ... I want to do what I want .. I want them to know them that I not a bad girl but I am just suffering inside ... Every night I cry in the bathroom because I am having social phobia , I cannot do what I love... Please once assk me how I feel ... I am just 15 years old and I cannot bear .. I want to be free . I know you appreciate me for my studies but I want to do something else.... Sorry maa - papa , this generation is like this...
I too have the same problem....
My parents want me to go for IAS but i truly don't want to be .i don't disrespect any job in this world but my heart is occupied by some very special thing .I don't know if i would ever get what i really want but yaar everyone has this one single life and so,i want to try it out .I don't want to waste your money mama papa but what I want is really big and special
Very true.. this generation is like this.. don't worry dear i hope they will understand u someday!!❤️
@@tirthathakur5161 i don't know when that SOMEDAY will come but i will never lose the hope
As a age fellow ,,, please do your best to stay happy, Chill, and enjoy everything,,,, GoD 🙏 bless you dear
💔
One day I cried very loudly.. I broke down actually.. I thought my mom would come and hug me.. But she came and closed my mouth with her hands, she immediately called my uncle and asked him to shut all the windows and doors and my dad came and slapped me and asked me to keep quiet.. After all this they said "what will the neighbours and society think if a girl cries so loudly, why are creating a drama". It was the most traumatic day of my life.
That was the last time i ever cried in front of them or ever shared my problems with them.. I wanted to stop talking to them forever but they are my parents after all so i cant do that.. I have decided to never talk to them abt my problems ever again..
I am 25. Today when I talk to 18 year old, I feel their problems are nothing as compared to mine. But when I look back to when I was 18, those problems were big enough for me. I think this is the reason why parents don't listen to kids because they think their problem is too small or insignificant but parents should understand that the problem their kids have is big for them.
My parents never even bothered to know what's going on in my life. There were times when I badly wanted them to be my emotional support but all they provided was materialistic things and used to tell "itna Kuch to krte hain tumhare liye, tumhe saari facilities di h aaj tak" but sadly that wasn't enough..bcz I wanted you to listen to me, the emotional trauma I was going through. I never gathered courage to speak my heart out. And here I am typing everything down here bcz now even if I get a chance I don't want to talk to them about my weaknesses, my insecurities, my fears or my strengths. If any parent is reading this, all I wanna say is you can be your child's best friend bcz the world already knows that you are his/her parent but let your child know that you are and always will be his/her first and best friend.
I dunno what to write right now...its so relatable as I'm listening to my own word that constantly keep running in my mind ..n the comment section much more stuffed with our stories to be readed by our readed by our parents...ik actually we all do know that everything they r doing is for us but we too keep trying to help them n not to bother them...but when they say we don't care or do anything for them n rather create new problems we feel heartbroken...how can we not care about them man how can we...forget first love has to be our mother or father but think the way that we had witnessed them to suffer for us n we know the problems they're going through...we feel mature enough to understand them why don't u make us feel the same..that could to have the problem with which we must be fighting...mamma papa I love you more than anything but the time u made me feel I don't know what would be the appropriate word to say....but I feel disheartened...when I cry n u caught me...it don't used to bcz of my frnds but bcz of u I'm sorry but that's true...as I always say if u can't understand my feelings Atleast don't judge...n when I clarify plz listen to understand not to find mistakes that i had made...when I try to do my best to make u feel happy but when I fail plzz come to hug me rather to make me realize the mistakes cz I already knew that n want support from u to make to once again...I stopped bothering u with my health too so that u don't feel how will u manage things without me...sorry for all the mess I create everytime
Yes
I can totally relate with you girl 💔
I recently opened up on telling my family that I have anxiety and my dad said "it's just in your head ,you don't have to be like that. Why do you have to overthink anyways,just don't ." I'm like that's not how it works. Just because I don't want it,it won't leave me. In that case no body would suffer from any mental illness if they just try to 'get rid of it'. Atleast my sister understood me and said to open up to her anytime I feel depressed. I'm thankful for that.
' I am losing myself constantly. At least notice that apart from my marks. ' Happening to me at the moment. Not my dad, but my mom. I am a 13 year old girl studying in class 8 currently. I once won the topper prize in class 6 but, unfortunately, I couldn't win it in class 7. I didn't ever think my mom would react the way she reacted that moment. She literally beat me in school in front of the result board but, fortunately, a teacher passed by so she stopped and went away. I got a lot of scoldings because of this and I also thought that this would end after some days. But, it went on for my whole year. Everytime. Every moment. I am still reminded of my class 5 when I got only 2 medals while my friends got 6. But, why doesn't she understand my problems? What does marks have anything to imply with what is going on in my life? It has been so many years.. Do you think I feel glad when you remind me? Things can't be ignored always. They are sharp. They strike hard. So, please, PLEASE, just stop for a moment and listen to me. All I want is just someone to talk to, not someone who pokes me on every single thing. I know you are saying for my good, I love you for that, but you should also see if I am feeling good listening to that or not. Please.
Same here man ! Even I'm a 13yrs old who tried to deal with the situation maturely, but failed..
Hey guys I am 19 year old and want to give you a suggestion....Don't give shit about it...even if its your mom....respect her take her scoldings as pebbles and make your villa guys....you have long life to live...just be happy and satisfied whatever you have...and yes if you are good in studies or even not then try harder get a medal next year afterall they are our parents and they do so so so much for us...when I was in my early teenage...in every single scolding of my parents I use to think they are enemy they can't see me happy blah blah but dude I was wrong...unki daat me pyaar chupa yaaro just love them back when they scold you or say sorry I will try to improve next year...there is no better wellwisher in this whole universe for you except your mom and dad....not even your those besties who say I will be you partner in crime...yes they are not....don't trust them blindly...one or two may remain but other will leave you eventually❤ live your life and be happy because atleast you guys have your parents with you who scold😂...many don't have....so just be happy
I am good at studies,Even if I get 96%,I am told that others got more marks than you, I told them That I want to learn guitar,They said no it is just wastage of time,I study 5 hours a day,Is that less? I Said that I wil learn music in spare time but they don't listen, I am always compared with others,I am not given phone,
Story of A 14 year old 8th class student
You can talk to me
My story is something that in the lower standards I always became ,and from 6th grade I started becoming second. I was facing a lot of mental issues and I an facing till now, bit my family members have always blamed the phone, my aggressive behavior for the decreased marks. In the Annual examinations of class 7 I scored much more than that I scored last few times in my exams but was still blamed because I got 10 marks less than that of my friend who topped. They ask why always I stick to the phone, it's because I find a friend who listens to me without giving any advice to make myself better. Which my parents have never asked. I make mistakes and get blames and affected by it but I am never asked the reasons for doing it. They give advice that what they did in their own times,but they forget that times have changed and so our problems.
My Identity
Adrita Saha
13 years
Class 8
I needed to go to my school counselor, I told my parents about it and they, after asking the problem that concerned me, tried doing the best and let me visit the counselor. They are very understanding, I love them!
Kaash mere bhi parents aise hi hote
I want to tell my parents stop fighting with each other
If it's not working let's just stop pretending that it's working
We will.support u.
Ur fights make our day worst
Make us feel low n depressed .
N not let us to do any things effectively
Yaa i told them but they were like har ghar mai jhagda hota hai
Gowwd.. I could relate
@@rat7209 mine too.
I m Jaanvi here.. I wish I could tell my parents that I m in grade10th it’s getting really out of my hands doing engineering JEE studies all together. I want to play badminton which I m not able to and that creates anxiety in me😰
Hey I know it feels overwhelming now.
But if you really want to pursue for Jee, your parents are right then.. Cause if you start from class 11, you don't really understand all the concepts and lag behind
I've been there man! But I was In allen, kota in Class 11 and didn't start in class 10, sland lagged behind.. and finally had to drop out of this course all together.
The thing is every course requires sacrifice and hardwork man.. just have to do it..
I dropped out and now I'm doing the Ca course, and yeah it demands the same sacrifice..
But anyways you can always make some time for yourself, like I do make time for me once in a week n do stuff I enjoy..
same here
Don’t make me feel worthless just because I wasn’t able to be an ideal daughter like you wanted
I want to tell my parents - stop telling me to not to watch mobile, instead feel my feelings of lonelyness, that u r not talking to me correctly over months"
Relatable..
Facts hun
Yes even i felt like i need a therapist.. but i guess being with parents is the only therapy i need.. i really feel like talking to them.. i wanna tell them what all i go through.. even i don't wanna cry in the washroom anymore.. i wanna sit with my mother and cry in her arms.. but unfortunately i just can't tell my parents anything.. coz they never try to understand me.. they never listen to me.. if i tell them any of my feelings they say only one sentence.. " u are a kid u should not feel that" n i shut my mouth n cry in the washroom!!
EXACTLY! Even I cry becuz of their problems and they will say 'you are a kid, why should you care? ' children and adults are not different when it comes with feelings. Both can have anxiety and both can got through problems. It's not like our problems are small and useless, they are just different
@@sniper4872 very true... But adults always think that they have more problems then us.. You correctly said we all go through problems.. just our issues are different!! And our parents problem, their fights do affect us!!
It's seems like a lot of children of different age groups speaking their heart out without any fear under a same platform 💖
"Nothing Ideal Exists in this world!
Neither parents Nor Children....let us both accept each other as how we are.....😊😊"
Hey all who think this video is relatable
Guys I want to hug you 😘😍😘😍
More power to u and virtual hugs🤗🤗
I was 12 when some shit happened in my life, i wasn't able to tell to my parents not because they would scold me, but because there weren't close to me. Now when i look back, i realize that if they would have been close i would have handle it much much nicely.
If parents are close to their children there are no chances of them taking a wrong decision.
You guys are amazing! Super work!!
Hi Riddhi! Thank you for the love! More power to you!
I want to tell my parents," My friend scored higher than me and I want you to don't compare me with her." "It's okay that I am weak in sports and games" "Please don't call me weak if I cry." "Please understand that if I am silent it doesn't mean that I am offending you."
I just wanna tell my parents to stop being to rude to me in front of everyone. I know you do everything thing for my betterment.. But can you please just stop Comparing me with others. And just let me take my decision. According to you guys you gave me a lot of freedom but that's not true.... I feel suffocated. I want my life on my own choice.
I wanna tell you that I don't wanna be a doctor. I wanna be a journalist. Can please let me choice my carrier by myself. And just stop always putting the topic of marriage in front of me. I am just 17yrs right now. Stop always thinking about such stuffs.
And I just wanna ask you..... Why don't you guys just send me abroad. I got 100%scholarship last year..... But you guys are just awesome....
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....... Okay forget it.... Thanks for giving me birth but please stop making me your puppet. I am also a human and I have my own emotions. So just let me take some of my carrier decisions. Being a girl doesn't mean to being your puppet.
Yeah I want to tell my parents I'm still interested in animation but because of their happiness I'm doing engineering so please don't stop me to do the things I love😊
Yuvaa you are doing a great job! I literally felt goosebumps when you were sharing that stuff.
Thank you, Devansh! We are happy to hear :)
sometimes they just compare there problems to our problem and ignore it...
Stop telling me that I am fine because I am not. Let me visit a psychiatrist.
I can't change my parents , they don't understand our feelings because no one understood them , but i promise from my self i will be the best mother and i will teach my children to be a good parent
You know, what I concluded from all the things that i have heard from Indian teens(including me) is that, "Being a teenager in India is hard as F- "
Very true 😐
I wanna tell my parents to part ways. May be I could be the first child who would wish so. But a relationship where you both don't respect each other's view is really not worth. Everyday gets worst for me . My academics my mental health as a single child and a teenager I am confused but ik you both need to be happy settle with peace and concents where you both as an individual are respected. Please stop fighting. Mom -Dad this one is for you.
Even i want to tell my parents that its okay to be in a relation and focus on studies and stay happy. We are #17
I want to tell my parents that not having any friend affects a person which is me u dont understand that at all coz when u were kids u had a lot of friends and u were never in my shoes
Mom dad friends are important coz we can't tell u everything or you'll scold us
We also need someone with whom we can share feeling like u do with ur siblings
I don't even have a sibling to share my feelings with and
I am just left with 1 friend as some left me due to transfers and some due to their personal greed and now u think i should give up on her too why just why??
U dont like me making new friends. Why?? That's just what I ask
I don't wanna be alone I am scared of being alone
And one last thing which I wanna tell u that having a crush is purely normal at teenage it's a natural thing i can't control my thoughts plz
I was crying while reading the comments at least in the comments of this video we all shared our feelings to one another without knowing any of them
Idk why but I feel bit relieved
Same here I am also a single child with no friends and my parents also don't lete make new friends .even they don't let me talk to my old friends .
I really don't know why
@@harshitajasu4180 omg is that the issue with all the parents with single child??
Coz I have the same as u just read
May be .but why
Single child is already so alone since childhood and still they do like this
@@harshitajasu4180 i know but i think they are just protective n all bout us but they just don't understand that by this they just make us lonely and alone due to which we get attached to this person or a friend who is just good to us..
They just have never been in our shoes
Which sucks sometimes or a lot of times
Yes , and after this they will be like "hum toh hai humse baat karo " but then also they are not ready to listen and to realize that their child have problems too and they aren't soo silly all the times
I m suffering from each and every line they spoke
Mee too
I want to tell them that please stop fighting like wild over small things it affects me too much.🙏
I was reading comments ....nd i literally come to know , i m not only a teenager who is facing generation gap but almost are feeling same ....our parents expect from us to understand them but how make them understand that they nvr taught us soo... Our parents are so buzy in judging us instead of understand ....Sumtym come closure to us nd try to know what do we want instead of putting decisions on us it will be make us strong ....i really feel so alone becoz whn parents do not want to understand who vl b else there ...nd this typ of aloneliness makes too weak ...
Vry vry vry disappointing thing i wish every parent could understand their child.....lyf becomes so easy
This is just so true... I want to tell 75% of the things from this....to my parents.... But I never dared to..💓💓
My mom always compares me to others she never listen patiently to me
She is there when everytime i need her
I cry by myself and I'm the only one who consoles myself amd say don't worry everything is fine
Nothing is gonna happen
I'm strong nothing can break me
Same with every one bru
I want to tell my parents that life is about living and loving, and money is a part, not the centre of human identity. And that feelings and relationships are real and significant like all other aspects of life.
I have my maths exam tomorrow and I am in eighth grade. I decided to watch this video to freshen up. ✌️ but the first line itself shattered me "i got 0 in maths in 8th grade"🙄😟
Feels like god's telling me to go study😂😂😂
🤣🤣😂😂😂😂lit👍👍👍
I'm suffering from depression, I don't know how to handle it,but can't tell my parents I just need some quality time with them
I want to tell my parents too that I am not arrogant, I am just an introvert. I can't socialize.
I would have become very happy with my parents, if they just sat and listened to me when I told them about the problems that I was having in my college. If I could just make them understand, 92% is not that bad! I would have been raised to the seventh Heaven, if my mother would not have mocked me when I requested her to reply to people who mock my womanliness just because I have apparently a flat chest and skinny body. I want to tell her to accept the fact that i need to wear prescription glasses and she should not be unhappy about it and think that I will not get married for this. Even if I don't, does that matter?
I am depressed, i was depressed. At the age of fourteen, I could first understood this when I failed to tell them that I did not like the way my relatives made fun of my abilities, and marked me as a failure.
I don't want them to compare me to the extroverted, happy-go-lucky children of their friends, i don't want my mother to remind me of my overachiever cousin's results and express disgust looking at me when a random girl in the television says, "I love doing all the household chores".
And they will not read this comment.
Just like the others I too had and still have many problems in life and there are many things I don't want to do but I have to.. Not because I want to make my parents happy or it's their wishes that I have to fulfill.. Not at all.. But because my family demands for the necessity... I think we all have undergone and faced the most difficult challenges some or the other time in life but the only way to overcome is let it go.. Your problems will dominate over you only when you permit it dominate you. So don't. I believe life is a snake and ladder game.. Always you'll get ladders in life is not true but always you'll get snakes in life that isn't true as well. It's all about the luck and the roll and your belief of not giving up easily. So be who u r. The game is not over yet. You have just moved to the next level.. Go with the flow everything will be alright. As a 16 yr old girl if I have understood this.. I'm sure all will at some point of time. Patience. A long way to go... You have just started to play..the 100 "winner" place is still waiting for you now it totally depends if u give up and leave the game or keep rolling the dice.
I want them not to keep spying me everytime I do or talk to someone..
I want to tell my parents... Please stop finding rishtas for me based on caste.....I'll find my girl on my own.
Or ye caste and all ..ye sab bullshit h..in sab se bahar niklo ..please mom..please dad.
I wanna tell my parents... That I'm not stupid if I shout on the people who talk to me about the terms a girl should live on...
And I just want to tell them... That outsiders are none... They are just meant to lower the confidence..
I want to tell my parents "just let me fall now bcoz I know you are with me let me try out new things gain my own experiences and let me learn from them on my own. Stop keeping me away from problems let me face them. Right now you are with me , so I am courageous enough to fight with troubles don't stop me and begin the fight between us. Pls"
I just want to say one thing...you guys are doing fabulous job! Keep going!
I want to tell my parents " it's alright if I have mood swigs in this phase of life i.e 'adolescence' and thus it is just normal if sometimes I get too angry and sometimes start crying at matters which doesn't matters to them.....
And that I have feelings too or I feel too "
0 toh hum class 11 me v aakr le re hai😂😂
It's okay if I hv taken a drop, BIG DEAL, might be successful someday hopefully, so don't demotivate me today
Exact same situation here.
@@kirubavictor1562 omg soo fucking relatable
It just happened to me yesterday
This is soooo relatable
This is all I want to tell them
I feel low and also get anxious but will never able to tell them how I feel
I want them to come to me one day and ask me how do I feel
Studies and career is not the only topic to discuss
I don't want to cry in the washroom anymore 🙏
I want to create my CZcams channel, I want to know world by my face not just by my voice even i want to post my photos and yeah I want to spend my life with the one whom I will choose
I am losing myself continuously I don't know what to do and I am suffering from depression and anxiety I am only 17 I don't know what to do
This video literally touched my heart.. Even made me cry.. I just wanna say that I also need someone who can listen to me and understand me. Person who is with me even when I'm in my worst mood... And I always wished that person can be you mom and dad ☹️
Best utube channel❤..always motivate me very much...love love #team yuvaa❤❤❤
Just listen to my problems with a new perspective where I'm not a trouble maker and given that it's 2020 (hamara zamana & not aapka zamana) where things are not the same as ur tym. I love you & I'll love to discuss our problems (mine as well as yours)
M blessed my mumma papa are my bestfriends ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I want my parents to stop fighting. That's all I want from them.
Absolutely relatable and truee
Just tell my parents that am not a bad daughter... I just have my own choices where their taste differ with mine...
I would like to tell my parents that this lockdown is affecting me as much it is affecting them. Being an extroverted person who overthinks a lot it is difficult for me to sit down with just my thoughts. For these past few months, I haven't been able to talk to any of my friends and all this time with my thoughts just gives me anxiety. I tried talking to my friends through social media and in turn, they told me to delete all my social media profiles and took my phone away because I need to focus on my studies to crack NEET next year. And when I tried talking to them, they just told me to go to my room and focus on my studies, and that its just a phase. They think that the reason am losing my concentration and focus is because I spend too much time on my phone. I want them to understand that as an extroverted person,, who always expresses what she feels, i need a little human contact. they want me to isolate myself completely!
Hyy ... What is your name 🙂
Ur story is totally relatable to me
I m very happy that parents are helpful and understanding especially my mother and yes i cant express my feeeling and i don't know how to express my heart out
I don't wanna study this shit maths n science any more I want to study Arts n practise my Sitar n Vocals all day
Today my mom cursed me for my arrears by saying that she was ashamed to have me as her son & that she would torture me till I felt like not living anymore. She doesn't realise how much that can hurt me (has hurt me).
Aditi!! Great job...
I just want that my parents should understand my feelings apart from my studies and ask me something that I am ok or not or what I feel in some situations and solve the problem without scolding me but by giving me such advice that can pick me up
We all know the generation gap is huge and this just gets hard both on kids and parents. We either overlook it and never understand each other or we find healthy ways like this content and atleast try. Thanks guys, for such good content :)
"They think how big of a problem can a 15 yr old can have. Yeah they are facing big problems everyday " True 💯💯
I want to tell my mom that when I say I am having DOES MEAN I AM FACING A PROBLEM. And my may not seem big, but for me they r.
I don't know if I am suffering from depression or not but my friends say so
I just want to tell my parents that I am not a child I am 17 give me some space
They don't trust me . I have been followed by my dad's spies
I want to go out with my friends too you know but they always says that they r not good they will use me they want to decide everything for me I want to decide things on my own you know let me just do that..
They also said that I should be a doctor and build a hospital but I don't want that but I don't have the curege to say that I just hope they will understand me one day
By the way I love my dad so much I could die for him...but I have one request to make try to understand me.i will solve your problems but try to solve my problems to don't just say your problems are not important
Love ur stuff...... amazing concept.....keep going gups.....support👍
want to tell my parents that for once please instead of paying attention to my grades just once see that how hard I am trying to fight with my anxiety,depression,insecurities,........and even if you cant do anything just give me a warm hug and a shoulder to cry on that's it ..
I want to tell my parents that they should not stop me from doing my hobbie or favorite things and do not tell me again and again that you are a girl and that is a boy (my brother).Even now there are many people who discriminate between boys and girls.Bohot baar mai distract ho jati hu kisi cheez mai maan nhi lagta hai for eg.padhai,bus unki aawaz kaan mai gunjati raheti hai tum ladki ho ladka nhi raat mai rooti hu bohot and dimag kaam karna band ho jata kuch samjh nhi aata kya karu kaise samjhau.
i know my parents know i am suicidal .. just want them to help me by taking me to a therapist.. i lost trust on them and want them not to handle my issues making it worse
Yes! My height is short I'm just 4'8 and everyone tells me tujse shadi kon karega.... I hate my society and I hate when my parents take there side.
Omg even I'm 14 yes and 4'8..no one ever told me anything but I do feel insecure about it myself...
@@anushkadeka6410 why to be insecure.. Height never decide over future... 🙃
I just wanna say that you guys are just awesome. I misunderstood you a lot of times. But you have been there for me always! Though I get mad at you sometimes but you didn't ever quit trying to understand me! You are the best parents in this world. You are my best friends ♥️