Ready for a Job Change? Don't Let Age Hold You Back!

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024

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  • @beforeitstoolate2023
    @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +46

    Thanks for taking the time to watch our video. Don't forget to like the video and subscribe to the channel. It would be even nicer if your would also leave us a comment with your thoughts or experience.

    • @daveassanowicz186
      @daveassanowicz186 Před měsícem

      You need to reach out to the CZcams channel The Fading Man.

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem +3

      At 60 years old now, I have had over 20 jobs in non-union manufacturing, (manufacturing, is the production of wealth), while earning 3 college degrees (2 in engineering), and I never found a JOB that did not live up to its meaning 'Just Over Broke". It was not until I started my own little business where I got out of poverty. I have bee a staunch believer that free enterprise belongs to the citizenry ever sine,--and is not compatible with communism. That is why we are going broke folks. Our federal government gave our free enterprise, (created by thinking citizens, mostly in the USA, with individual liberty protected by law), to communism so it can fund itself.
      Good luck sir. Doug in Michigan

    • @biddenharryass4573
      @biddenharryass4573 Před měsícem

      Companies deploy racist techniques like this to only hire minorities and people that help them meet DEI quotas, it's a giant illegal scam.

    • @rsaathoff
      @rsaathoff Před měsícem +1

      I have the same name and same situation. I'm 57 looking for meaningful work. Subtle age discrimination is real. I had 19 years as a VP in a small comapny but made a change to be outdoors doing a nonunion trade. I got injured, and that caused a spiral effect ofnwhere im at now. I have resources, so I'm not desperate, but I've been hunting for something suitable for about two years. I'm coming to the conclusion I'm unemployable so close to retirement age.

    • @stevegraves1078
      @stevegraves1078 Před 29 dny +1

      I don’t know how your video came to me.
      I’m also 54. An electrician for 37 years. I was “let go “ from my employer in April. I’m going through everything you have in your quest for work. I’m even applying to places I have no or little experience in. I do have a woodworking shop in my basement. I really only make things for my wife or family. I never wanted to be an electrician. It was just a job back then and stuck. I talked to my wife that I would like something with my woodworking while I’m looking for another job. She like freaked out on me. Saying that I’m trying not to go back to work. Which isn’t true. I think I’m actually better at woodworking than an electrician. She once mentioned that she doesn’t like when I make things for other people cause the things I make for her aren’t special anymore. So. I’m really pulling my hair out trying to figure out what to do. I’ve had many interviews and I’m applying everywhere. Any advice?

  • @monkusbee
    @monkusbee Před měsícem +74

    I have found that senior citizens are more loyal and trustworthy to hire. They always show up for work and never call in sick. I would hire a senior citizen first.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +9

      It’s great to hear you share the same perspective! Senior citizens really do bring a wealth of experience and reliability to the workplace.

    • @pamelavance648
      @pamelavance648 Před 24 dny +3

      Yesssss ...
      Honest
      Hard working
      Reliable
      Efficient when trained
      Believe in customer service

  • @SomeRandomdude857
    @SomeRandomdude857 Před měsícem +176

    Ageism was a complete blindside surprise for me. I’m healthy and active and know my trade well. After i got cut I cashed out what I owned. Moved to a small country town and started my own thing. I feel ashamed that I was a slave for so long. Thankful to see the light. Who knew God had my back the whole time. Keep the faith guys.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +9

      Age is just a number, and you're proving that with your new venture!

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem

      "I feel ashamed that I was a slave for so long." I don't quite look at it that way, because employment is also an educational opportunity for your own business, if we are free enough and have the desire to start our own businesses. I want to thank everybody who gave me a Job,---but I also know I could not advance out of "Just above Poverty", until my little business took off. Any communist government can hire some people. The difference of a free society is free enterprise opportunity, and the liberty to pursue what ever you think is possible,------------with out being stolen from. I don't know if God had your back. But he gave us a brain to figure it out. :) If there was a time where God was actually proud of mankind,---it would have to be the formation of the USA, where we were free to use the brains God gave us, and achieve real progress out of the dirt with our free enterprise. You wold be proud of your kids if they did that too. :)

    • @arien6033
      @arien6033 Před měsícem

      Age is just a number in only West dudes, not in Eastern countries. I am still struggling even under 50 only because of me because I want to move to the UK or any western country like US and Canada or EU.

    • @windyacresway
      @windyacresway Před měsícem

      Ageism is huge in Canada...Don't move here.​@@arien6033

    • @TravisTennies
      @TravisTennies Před měsícem

      55 here forced out of work. Just gonna die. Can't start over, no money to start a business.

  • @Regent79
    @Regent79 Před 29 dny +45

    Turning 55 this month. Got laid off from my job of ten years a few months ago. Can’t even land an interview.. recently divorced, stacking bills, child support, worried about keeping a roof over my head. Been praying. 🙏

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 29 dny +12

      Thank you for sharing your story. It takes a lot of courage to open up about tough times. I truly appreciate your honesty, and I’m hoping that brighter days are just around the corner for you.

    • @susiemartin6497
      @susiemartin6497 Před 26 dny +6

      Praying for you!

    • @Regent79
      @Regent79 Před 26 dny +1

      @@susiemartin6497 Thank you!

    • @MH-hw4uh
      @MH-hw4uh Před 20 dny +4

      Prayers for you and your future. I have seen this, happing to our son, so I know the feeling and the battle. But things will get better I promise you, but you must put your foot to the pedal in seeking a job and be focused. 🙏🏾. All the best 🎉

    • @PepeReyMusic
      @PepeReyMusic Před 20 dny +4

      sending you good vibes ✨✨✨. May a great opportunity come up for you soonest 🙏🏻

  • @bettyanneeilers5809
    @bettyanneeilers5809 Před měsícem +58

    Fired at 57 on June 26, 2024. I know it takes time to get your resume in circulation. I had an interview today with the hiring arm for Amazon. Went well, the interviewer then said: “I communicate transparently…I am going to be honest with you…you are very polished & professional, this position is less than what you are capable of”, (aka: overqualified). She then asked me why I had applied, that I could be running the entire operation. I said to her “that’s why I applied”!!!
    She made me a verbal offer on the spot & said I’d have it in writing tomorrow.
    Yes, I’m overqualified. I knew I would be. Getting my foot in the door was all I wanted.
    Your video resonated with me. It has been discouraging at times, but I remained optimistic (and still do). Thank you for your message to all of us in this position, it taught me to value my experience & knowledge, never to doubt myself & most importantly, remain true to yourself.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      Great Story! One door closes and another opens, you just have to be willing to walk through! Good luck with the new gig!

    • @idontkknowyou9518
      @idontkknowyou9518 Před 19 dny

      That's awesome. Many places won't hire a person who is overqualified because they fear they will quit. Congratulations!

  • @AlexMorgan-ti6nv
    @AlexMorgan-ti6nv Před 24 dny +238

    I enjoyed my job and didn't view it as "a daily grind." I also had a lot of freedom and flexibility. Retirement for me has been all losses and no gains, I'm afraid. Each withdrawal, made it difficult for my savings to recover through compounding. It feels like etf's and bonds might just now be limiting my returns instead of managing risk.

    • @GoryNych-ru3op
      @GoryNych-ru3op Před 22 dny

      I'm approaching retirement and having a financial advisor has been helpful. I started investing later than most, so relying on compound interest from index funds or bonds wasn’t enough for me. Despite that, I’ve managed to do well and am on track to retire with around $4 million

    • @AlexMorgan-ti6nv
      @AlexMorgan-ti6nv Před 22 dny

      I'm currently evaluating my retirement portfolio and could use some guidance. How can I get in touch with your advisor?

    • @GoryNych-ru3op
      @GoryNych-ru3op Před 22 dny

      I usually avoid making specific recommendations because everyone’s situation is unique. However, my experience with Emily Ava Milligan has been quite positive. You might find it worthwhile to see if her approach fits your needs

    • @AlexMorgan-ti6nv
      @AlexMorgan-ti6nv Před 22 dny

      I looked for the name online and found her page. I emailed and made enquiries. Thanks for the help

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 22 dny

      Thanks for sharing!

  • @salembeeman370
    @salembeeman370 Před měsícem +79

    At 62 my company started changing my job. It was so bad I had to retire early. Thank god my wife has a great job. Amazingly, our daughter developed a drug problem and lost custody of her newborn baby. DCF asked if we would take the baby. What? I'm shopping for kayaks and golf clubs! It's been 8 months and the baby is awesome and we love supporting him and feel totally blessed by God. What this company meant for ill God turned to good. Always the way.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +8

      100%!! What a blessing in disguise!

    • @pataleno
      @pataleno Před měsícem +6

      I would do the same in a heartbeat. This is a blessing and I hope your daughter gets through her problem.

    • @StillMe69
      @StillMe69 Před měsícem +1

      When I was 45 we got custody of my 8 year old grandson. I had a business and basically let it run down and was giving customers away. Luckily my wife had and still does have a great job! My grandson is now 21 and it was the best thing that could have ever happened. He and I have a business now and we are all very happy as far as work and life goes.

    • @jimmybeasley6008
      @jimmybeasley6008 Před měsícem +3

      Please don’t give up on your daughter I e been there it’s not as easy as people think it is. It’s a disease in my opinion. Thank you for looking after the child!

    • @miket7184
      @miket7184 Před měsícem

      @@jimmybeasley6008 Cancer is a disease, drugs are an addiction.

  • @mad125100
    @mad125100 Před měsícem +23

    I was fired at age 31 from my six figure job. I cashed out my 401k and started a business. Getting fired was the best thing to happen to my career. Now I'm CEO of a multi million dollar company.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much for sharing your journey! Your experience is a great reminder that sometimes setbacks can lead to incredible opportunities.

    • @markrogers754
      @markrogers754 Před 27 dny

      What kind business you start please

    • @mad125100
      @mad125100 Před 27 dny

      @markrogers754 I started a wide-format printing business. We also print shirts.

  • @jeffhuxford2870
    @jeffhuxford2870 Před měsícem +69

    I know God brought me to this video. I am 58, currently burnt out and ready for retirement. I have applied for many jobs-nothing has come through yet. It is not clear to me if God wants me to stay here miserable, quit keep looking, if nothing comes retire to a lower paying job just to get Medicial insurance. I put all this personal stuff out here knowing the Lord has a plan but looking for guidance and or encouragement from anyone and everyone.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +10

      Keep the faith! I was applying for 18 months or more before He led me to this job. Don't let rejections get you down, it's their loss!!

    • @jamesrecknor6752
      @jamesrecknor6752 Před měsícem +9

      At 65 I am starting a water heater installation business, sometimes the best solution is to create your own employment. May God guide us all in His will.

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem

      The Lord gave us a brain that can figure out reality (if practiced), and advance mankind. So we formed the USA, which used to be called 'The land Of Opportunity", before there was a welfare system. What would happen if you got of the "worker" mentality, (any communist nation can hire "workers", and started a business that took off like mine did? You would then understand the freedom we used to have, that created every industry we have created. The most happiness I have ever experienced, (and I had a good childhood), by far, was when after working for over 20 companies in manufacturing, earning several college degrees (2 in engineering), and still just above poverty like you are,---was when my business took off from my own knowledge and efforts. It was amazing, and I never want to be a "worker" again. I did not know it with all those jobs and education. But I was gaining my own opportunity. You won't find that opportunity--working for the state. If you lose that job and get black balled,---you are screwed. I just got another Job in what is left of our free enterprise, and if I had the skill, they were happy to hire me. Even at 60, I can go back to Grand Rapids Michigan, and get a job (they pay better today because of the shrinking talent) in a week. But the freedom of your own business, and happiness from personal achievement,---can not be had with employment IMO.
      I despise the union/communistic word, "worker", as it implies that you are to be nothing more. In reality, you can't be much less, as JOB stand for "Just Over Broke".
      That is why God gave us a brain that can figure out reality if practiced, to achieve and better our lives. We have to have individual liberty protected by law, and free enterprise in our hands as a citizenry (where it started in the first place), in order be what God meant us to be. The only time God was proud of mankind,---is when we formed the USA. But that nations is gone now. But the "Hero" does not work for the state. The Hero was free to create a factory of wealth making production, and opportunity for any employee who thought of being more than a "worker". Welcome to communism in the USA today. Doug in Michgian

    • @alder50
      @alder50 Před měsícem +1

      Thanks for sharing. Keep the faith!

    • @robgol2949
      @robgol2949 Před měsícem +1

      Hang in there-I was restructured out of a job at 62.

  • @StudentDoctorAntonioPatterson
    @StudentDoctorAntonioPatterson Před měsícem +32

    Glad I found your channel! Definitely subscribed. I am 51 and just started my third year of medical school. I was a pastor and high school science teacher. I loved teaching but it wasn't fulfilling. I always wanted to be a doctor so here I am. I'll graduate at 53 years old.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +3

      Living proof that's it's never too late to chase those dreams!! Good luck Doc!

  • @loridecosta4262
    @loridecosta4262 Před měsícem +18

    I just up and quit my toxic job in June. I’ve never felt more freedom and relief.i believe that God has a plan and I know I’m going to be better than fine! I’m 56. Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +2

      You got this!

    • @stephanieshefer5545
      @stephanieshefer5545 Před 25 dny

      I can't do that. 62 and single mortgage one income. Job affects my mental health immensely. But I have to stay.

    • @bexxs2245
      @bexxs2245 Před 21 dnem +1

      I just did the same. My job was seriously making me physically sick because of how toxic it was. The young people who came in fought and gossiped everyday. Left after 25 years and I now wish I would have left sooner.

  • @mrboggs992
    @mrboggs992 Před měsícem +15

    I'm 48, and our landlord passed away about 8 weeks ago, and 4 weeks ago the attorney for the son of my late landlord gave us a letter saying we needed to leave within 30 days. We are moving from Ohio to North Carolina and starting over in my professional life as well as in life in general. We are just starting this process of starting over again.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      It sounds like you're going through a big transition, but starting over can lead to new opportunities and experiences. Wishing you the best of luck in North Carolina!

  • @jflow178
    @jflow178 Před měsícem +15

    Hi Rich and Robi! 60-year-old, single, divorced female here. I just rushed home for my 10-minute lunch break from my office job that doesn't pay enough to make ends meet these days and I was reflecting on how the whole morning was spent listening to 6 other co-workers huffing, puffing, and complaining all morning, and then your video popped-up. I know it's time for a huge change but I don't have all the answers yet.
    Whoop, ...gotta go back to work! Pray God will give me the answers and open doors for me, please! Judy

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      Sending prayers your way! I hope you can find something to close out your working years that brings you some joy!

  • @rickfazzini22
    @rickfazzini22 Před měsícem +12

    Being open minded is so important not only when looking for a new job/career but in life.

  • @watdahek2
    @watdahek2 Před měsícem +33

    Congratulations! Its a little tougher when you are 67 and decide to go back to work. I worked for 34 years for a family owned trucking company managing their IT department. I learned computer work on my own and with the help of the programmer. I had no college education back in the 80s but this company gave me a shot. In 2022, the family sold the business. Things went downhill with the new owner and many large firms left. The new owner closed the doors in February of this year. I didn't mind because I was VERY unhappy in the last year. After 3 months I decided to look for another job. I was turned down at a lot of places. I got discouraged and a little depressed. I wasn't looking for the same salary. So at the beginning of June I spoke to a school crossing guard on our corner. Got the number of her supervisor and in 3 days had a part-time job. It only pays $24 an hour but I found that I was happy working with young grade school and middle school children. After school starts again at the end of August. I will try to work full time. If that doesn't work, then I will get a part-time job at Costco. Thanks for your video!

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +2

      Looks like you're the real MVP of job hunting at 67! Who needs a college degree when you've got that can-do spirit?

    • @MaureenOLeary-tz1kt
      @MaureenOLeary-tz1kt Před měsícem +4

      Since you like being with kids, drive a school bus. There’s a big shortage and the pay is better than being a crossing guard. They’ll train you to get your CDL. It’s so rewarding! I know, because I drive a school bus. 😊

    • @watdahek2
      @watdahek2 Před měsícem

      @@MaureenOLeary-tz1kt Thank you.

  • @blw46
    @blw46 Před měsícem +19

    I retired 3 years ago at the age of 60 (radiation therapy supervisor) due to an untenable situation with the consultant hired to pare back staff. After watching 14 people being pushed out of their jobs, I decided i WOULD NOT let my 40 year career end on someone else's terms and took the plunge by ending my career abruptly.
    THIS WAS THE BEST DECISION I EVR MADE!!! this move allowed me to be available for my family (which turned out to be fortuitous) and enjoy retirement while I was still healthy to travel and enjoy my retirement years.
    Fast forward 3 years later: My husband I 1 have traveled all over the US, have been available for kids/ grandkids and have a MUCH BETTER quality of life in this season of life.
    My advice to everyone: Live frugally and retire as soon as you can!!

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Love this! It’s so cool to see how you’ve made the most of your retirement. Cheers to family time and road trips! Keep living the dream!

    • @Sally01d
      @Sally01d Před měsícem +1

      I applaud you for your courage to leave when it was the right time. I did the same thing a year ago. After 31 years in my career, I abruptly left my job and retired…felt it was the best decision. I’m very happy now and most of all at peace. Blessings🙏

    • @Jeff97405
      @Jeff97405 Před 28 dny

      do you apply for SS and did they accept it? I am 60 and have given up working. I had several good jobs in the last 20 years. And for some reason I am let go. I do 110% but that must be to good. And not a suck up, I do my job, dont break stuff, and dont talk back...thanks...

  • @clam371384
    @clam371384 Před 23 dny +6

    Your video is comforting for someone who is 52, resigned from the job 2 months ago. The high stress job I was in was affecting my health and that’s when I say no more. I knew it is a right thing to do for myself and I’ve always embrace changes. I can’t wait to see what universe had in store for me…. I am having a phone interview tomorrow. Thanks for sharing.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 22 dny +1

      I'm so glad to hear that you're finding comfort in the video! Embracing change is a powerful step, and I hope the interview went well - stay positive!

  • @Thedesertguy75
    @Thedesertguy75 Před měsícem +99

    I turn 50 in 9 months. It's different , and ageism is real at the workplace

    • @shanefsr6609
      @shanefsr6609 Před měsícem +5

      I always thought that was just an excuse,
      in my line of work the turnover is awful-the idea that someone is going to be loyal and dedicated is unrealistic,
      AND 90% of every new hire is totally inexperienced and will be trained by someone who doesnt have the experience themselves,
      I know what I'm doing, I love this line of work,
      THEN you run into this generation that hasnt achieved, the sense of entitlement is shocking......and arrogant, they look at us as if we arent smart enough to have ever played the entitlement card for ourselves-you get a great understanding and example of "blissfully ignorant",
      I think a lot of the "ageism" is the "threat" of that "old f*cker"'s experience where their own crippling lack of self esteem mixed with their own inexperience easily fuels them to pass on hiring that person, this is happening everywhere, I dont see how the business world is going to be a viable success in the real near future,
      even in this vid, this guy acknowledges what I'm saying by making the comment "...even though my boss is young I HAVE TO BELIEVE he's in his position because he knows what he's doing.....", TO make that comment I know where he's coming from,
      I'm 55, that aint sh*t as far as age goes, most of us are a "LeBron James" in our field of work where we're being passed on for a #1 draft pick that never meets the lowest of expectations, EVERY time, and those who insist on drafting those lofty expectations get "famous" for being idiots,
      I used to get dejected over the "ageism" and that lasted for about a second, ESPECIALLY today-experience is gold, I've worked for places who thought upon hire that I was gifting my experience to them-as if they had a copyright on my expertise, NOPE, and I let places know that if that's the direction I see them going-dont let them get their hopes up,

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      You just have to keep looking until you find a company that will value your experience. They are out there, just maybe not as plentiful as they used to be. Good luck to you.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +2

      I appreciate your take on this, for sure. My comment on "you have to believe" was more of a statement relating that it won't do you any good to think negatively about your younger manager, especially until he/she proves that they do or don't know what they are doing. I just find that maintaining a positive outlook goes much farther than thinking the world is just serving you sh*t sandwiches.
      Anyway, thanks for watching!

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem +2

      "Ageism"? Another new word with no objective definition? Well, if it means what I think it may,---it will take 2 or 3 kids tomorrow, to do the job you are doing today.

    • @StevenBove-pw2jn
      @StevenBove-pw2jn Před měsícem

      I turn 50 in October and looking for new job

  • @ReadingsbyDom
    @ReadingsbyDom Před měsícem +21

    Relocated 2,300 miles for my dream job at my dream location.
    Economic conditions and a backstab from a trusted associate prompted me to resign.
    20-years of residential construction financing became worthless.
    Not working but Thank God that I saved my money to sustain myself. It’s been two-years of rejection. Your story instills hope.
    Thank you.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Here's hoping something good is just around the corner.

    • @Croneposse429
      @Croneposse429 Před měsícem +2

      I can completely relate! Last year, I walked off my job for the first time ever, at 63!!! Since then, I’ve gone through savings, sold my car, had many interviews, and accepted a couple offers (had competing offers as well for the first time in my life), but everything has fallen through, or not worked out for me. Finally I’m starting to see that God is leading me somewhere, even though it’s hard to see it. You finally get to the point where your vision clears, and you start resisting. Working has been difficult for me all my life, I’ve had so much stress about working. It’s how my parents felt as well, and I thought that was all there was. I honestly think I am meant to be a content creator! I am so inspired by the stories, and all the journeys that people are on. It’s good to know I’m not alone. Really appreciated your story!❤

    • @ReadingsbyDom
      @ReadingsbyDom Před měsícem

      @@Croneposse429 My CZcams channel is a creative outlet. My ability stems from my mom’s side of the family. Almost married twice, but didn’t. I’m determined to use my art talent to produce income before my day comes. It’s what I was meant to do since childhood.

    • @AstrologyClub
      @AstrologyClub Před 20 dny

      🫂

    • @stanleymcvay9283
      @stanleymcvay9283 Před 13 dny

      McDonald's is hiring.

  • @JonDAlessandro
    @JonDAlessandro Před měsícem +11

    Thanks for this. After 35 years of progressive employment from a shipper/receiver all the way up to executive leadership and president over the past 25, and nothing but recognition and praise from bosses, peers and staff alike, I was furloughed at 58. I can’t believe how alienated I feel and how my network of associates and even people who I had nurtured and promoted, now in positions of power don’t have the time for me. Your story is inspiring. Thanks.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Thank you for sharing your journey! It's tough to navigate these changes, especially after such a successful career. Remember, your experience is valuable, and new opportunities may be just around the corner.

    • @dennisfrere1757
      @dennisfrere1757 Před měsícem

      Been there. Betrayal is a very deep cut. Learn to forgive and move forward and don’t look back. Pray and seek Gods will for your life. He is in control. He rewards those who diligently seek Him (Heb 11).

  • @BrittCHelmsSr
    @BrittCHelmsSr Před měsícem +15

    At 61, I, along with my entire healthcare IT department are being outsourced to an India-based company. After 35+ years in IT, I'm ready to make a career change to something else in the near future. I feel like the Lord is guiding this transition for me.
    I am thankful that my current job is providing 11 weeks of severence AND they will have to pay out over 450 hours of PTO at 100% of my hourly rate that I have stingily saved over my time at this company.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Hey, sounds like you’ve got a solid plan! With all that PTO cash, you’re basically getting paid to look for your next challenge. Here’s to new beginnings! 🎉

    • @mikeg884
      @mikeg884 Před měsícem +1

      I hate to hear that. I am 47 and trying to make a career change to IT.

  • @askssk715
    @askssk715 Před měsícem +17

    I worked for a company for 28 years and got laid off in 2020 - like a lot of people did during the pandemic. I've worked my entire life with no break since I was 15, so that was a frightening time being in my 50's! I got very lucky and was employed only 5 months later and even beat out my severance pay. Ended up being hired by a super smart and talented 29 year old manager. I wouldn't tell anyone my age when I first started lol. However, I brought years of experience and jumped right in. Fast forward only 3 years later and she left the company just this past February and my coworker left a couple months later. That left some doors open and I just got promoted to be the manager of our Interior Design dept. and I'm about to hire someone to work under me for the first time in my career. You just never know how things will unfold.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      What an inspiring journey you've been on! It's amazing to see how things can turn around and lead to unexpected opportunities.

  • @jackchueh1231
    @jackchueh1231 Před měsícem +5

    I’m 51 and got fired from my last job after 11 years at my last company as an executive. I’m still looking for work and it’s been 7 months and I’ve been praying on it and it’s even brought me back to church for the first time in 20 years. I’m not sure what the next steps are… and it hasn’t been easy. I’ve had a really cut back my lifestyle and spending and I’m OK with that, but the stress it’s put on the family and my kids and my wife is there. I’m praying that God has a better plan for me whatever that is.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      Watch for His timing, it may come in a form and direction you didn't expect.

  • @vincentortega4284
    @vincentortega4284 Před měsícem +13

    Wow! great story, thanks for sharing. I am 63 now, and I just graduated from college with an A.S. in accounting, I have not actively been looking for accounting jobs yet, but I have been reading many job postings, many employers want potential entry-level accountants to have x number of years experience, I do not worry about it. God has that perfect job for me out there. God bless you both. Thanks again for sharing your story.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Best of luck!

    • @vincentortega4284
      @vincentortega4284 Před měsícem

      @beforeitstoolate2023 Thanks ,

    • @vincentortega4284
      @vincentortega4284 Před měsícem +1

      @beforeitstoolate2023 thanks, I do not need luck,I have Jesus with me always. I never went to college so I have accomplished much already. I do not feel like retiring like most people my age. Im63 and feel like 33. I enjoy working. God bless

    • @troyboulware3518
      @troyboulware3518 Před měsícem

      @@vincentortega4284 this is pretty cool. I often think about what it would take to become an accountant. I have my BS and mba but the accounting profession intrigues me

  • @kennethburton9165
    @kennethburton9165 Před měsícem +49

    Thank you putting this video out, I’m 58 and I’m in a career that I can’t stand, I stay because it pays well for my education level and the region that I live in. That said, I do have an exit strategy, but fear is holding me back sometimes. Your story is an encouragement to me.

    • @joserpm
      @joserpm Před měsícem +6

      Have you considered a career in the medical field (non-patient facing)? I am 50 and just starting a career as a Medical Records Technician. Pays well, age is irrelevant, and you can easily find a job at any doctor office/clinic/hospital. Don't give up, friend. But find something satisfying that can pay the bills.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      Hey, I'm really happy our video could give you some motivation. You never know what's out there until you take a look. You've got this!

    • @kennethburton9165
      @kennethburton9165 Před měsícem +2

      @@joserpm I was an EMT/Firefighter in my 20’s, I loved the word back then but today that’s not my interest. I am starting a mobile automotive repair business. It’s something I’ve been doing as a side gig for many years.

  • @dericktrx7573
    @dericktrx7573 Před měsícem +7

    I’m with you. I was a technician for a new car dealership. In my 50’s and was let go. With no job. I worked as a handyman for myself. And now I’m blessed with a job working in public education. I’m happy now, that I lossed that job. A true blessing in disguise good luck guys great video.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      That's an inspiring journey! It's amazing to hear how things turned around for you.

    • @Handymanprocess
      @Handymanprocess Před měsícem

      Great video. I decided to start a side hustle handyman business a few years ago as a backup plan in case I ever find myself in a similar situation. I now feel confident that I can always make money anywhere in the country doing this type of work and it’s very fulfilling. Looking forward to watching more of your videos.

  • @cromphx3888
    @cromphx3888 Před měsícem +4

    After being in my job for 17 years with a multinational I was laid off. With excellent education, credentials and experience I went out looking for another job and it was absolutely brutal. I ended up taking a job well below my experience level so that I could at least pull in an income and thankfully found another job through connections when I did volunteer work. Wishing all those other 50 something’s the best if you are searching!

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Wow, that's quite a journey! Good to hear you found a new job. Best of luck in this new chapter!

  • @georgepatterson5885
    @georgepatterson5885 Před 26 dny +2

    I'm 57 yrs young and facing some decisions like yours...I feel like God led me to this video...timing is everything...his timing is perfect... and for some reason this came up in my youtube feed! Thanks for sharing your story...Glad to see things have worked out for you and that you are both happy in your new life together. I encourage anyone other Christians reading this to read two passages of scripture...Psalm 27:14 and Psalm 37(all)...just remember HE is in control and his timing is perfect...just wait upon the LORD!

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 26 dny

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s inspiring to hear how God’s timing has played a role in your journey. Wishing you all the best as you navigate your decisions!

  • @bonnierust8850
    @bonnierust8850 Před měsícem +6

    Thanks for this. I left a job I was unhappy in three months ago. The obstacles kept getting bigger and the money was actually going significantly the other way due to economics…bonus money went away. I felt trapped and quit under good terms.
    I’m 52 and it has been harder than I thought to replace the job. I took a big bold step. I’m confident I’ll end up better in the end but it’s stressful in the interim.
    B

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      It's inspiring to hear about your bold step! Change can be tough, but it sounds like you’re on the right path. Keep believing in yourself, and better opportunities will come your way!

    • @bonnierust8850
      @bonnierust8850 Před měsícem

      Thanks!

  • @monicaj2254
    @monicaj2254 Před 8 dny

    Thank you so much for your video. It is just the encouragement that so many people need to hear. I just signed an offer for a new position at 49 years old. My current position was a stressful workload, and the lack of managerial support was demoralizing. My health began to suffer. I stepped out on faith and found a job in 30 days. I am nervous but I know that my 20 years of skills and knowledge will be valued in this new position. GOD always leads you where you are suppose to be.

  • @computerguy1724
    @computerguy1724 Před měsícem +8

    Thank you, Lord, for leading me to this video and these folks. I am 54. I was terminated a few weeks ago from a job I absolutely despised. This job had it all...work from home, amazing income potential, zero to little supervision required, however, it was sales and at 54 I was just burned out and lost the drive for sales. I had been telling my wife about how I was feeling for a couple of years before my termination. To make matters worse, our family went through a catastrophic event with our local school district at the end of the school year. It rocked us to the core and completely blindsided us. So, here I am 54, jobless, asking God to heal our family from what the school district put us through. Your video came by no accident. It is divine intervention, for sure. God will show up as he always has when all seems lost. I will be back, in Jesus' name, to give a good report. Amen and thank you both. God Bless.

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem

      Sell your own product or services,---and you will not get bored/burned out. :)

    • @computerguy1724
      @computerguy1724 Před měsícem

      @@EarthSurferUSA that's the goal, I thought I got that across...maybe not. Idunno.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +2

      Keep the faith, brother. God will work it out for good!

    • @computerguy1724
      @computerguy1724 Před měsícem

      @@beforeitstoolate2023 I feel it in my soul. Thank you and God Bless.

    • @lmk1595
      @lmk1595 Před měsícem +1

      I'm 60 yrs no spouse, no retirement, eager and willing to work.
      Trusting that God opens the doors soon

  • @MiamiJato
    @MiamiJato Před měsícem +6

    Paid off my mortgage, I don't care about any job anymore, if I don't like it, I quit, do it, total freedom......

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      That's amazing! Congratulations on paying off your mortgage and achieving total freedom!

  • @derrickpyles306
    @derrickpyles306 Před měsícem +15

    I was forced out at 42… best blessing I have ever received in my work life!

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      Forced out at 42? Sounds like a plot twist in your career story that turned out to be a blessing in disguise!

    • @derrickpyles306
      @derrickpyles306 Před měsícem

      For sure… I went from being a number in corporate America to using my name… amazing feeling

  • @adriennecullen1346
    @adriennecullen1346 Před měsícem +10

    Older people have experience, they are wiser, and make the absolute best employees. Companies are just stupid. The company your working for now gets it! Good luck...

  • @faithimani5480
    @faithimani5480 Před měsícem +4

    I got laid off 5 years ago and I have applied to so many jobs and no lack I will be 50 next month.I made a change and decided to switch and apply in healthcare and behold when I applied for direct care position I kid you not within 5mins of applying I had a job . I have a bachelor in Business Mgmt I’ve decided to go back to school and do nursing.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      That's amazing to hear! Congratulations on your new job in healthcare and best of luck with your decision to go back to school for nursing. Your determination and resilience are truly inspiring!

  • @terriwillis6871
    @terriwillis6871 Před měsícem +15

    Thanks for your video. I'm 55yrs old & I'm struggling finding a job in & around st.joseph Mo & Kansas city. It's really hard at this age starting over with a new job. Just praying God will open a door for me at a place I can be happy until retirement.

  • @maxpayne7419
    @maxpayne7419 Před 23 dny +2

    I worked for a company for 30 years, and all the way to VP level. My company then was bought by a larger company. I landed a VP role with the new company, but never felt fully embraced by the Executive. It just didn’t feel like a good fit. And at the same time I was struggling with wanting to retire more than I wanted to work there, and perhaps they sensed this too. I knew I couldn’t stay and would need to retire or find something else with another company. And then the best thing that could have possibly happened- they offered me a new role or a retirement package. Perfect timing - and this allowed me to retire 2 years earlier than I had planned at 54 years. I could have stayed and made more money, but I knew it was time for a new adventure.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 22 dny +1

      It sounds like you had a significant journey in your career! Making the decision to move on and embrace a new adventure takes courage, and retiring early must feel amazing. Wishing you all the best in your next chapter!

  • @andrewrose9820
    @andrewrose9820 Před měsícem +4

    At 56 I spent 2 years trying to get out of current job I had had enough of - ageism is rife however after 2 years I ended up with 3 different job offers all wanting my experience for their younger staff - in last 3 weeks of 3 moths notice of resignation (58 now) start new job soon - NEVER GIVE UP - this video is so true

  • @MillennialDiligence-sx8re
    @MillennialDiligence-sx8re Před měsícem +13

    Literally so refreshing. This video is like drinking a tall glass of 7up on ice. There’s nothing like dumping a burden.

  • @tripolarmisfit
    @tripolarmisfit Před měsícem +4

    I got fired from all my jobs, last one at 27. Best thing that ever happened to me. No one ever gave me a job after that which was the perfect excuse to not work again in my life. It truly has been a blessing. I quit the system ever since. No plans of going back.

  • @bobtn77
    @bobtn77 Před 17 dny +1

    Thank you both for sharing your story. I'm 57 and was very unhappy in my job. I started looking for another job while I had a job but it was slow going. Then in June of this year, out of the blue my boss notifies me that they have eliminated my position and I was given 2 weeks severance. I'm actively looking and like you have come in second for three jobs. Your story encouraged me that God has just the perfect job for me, not to sell myself short, and to wait on Him.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 15 dny

      Thanks for sharing!! We are coming out with a couple videos to help our generation find new jobs. I hope you watch and they give you some help.

  • @randallcarter-carterhillho2277

    Just found and watched this video. I am 52 and got fired for the first time in my life back in january. I had 3 small companies in my area call and offer me positions one of which i took as a learning opertunity. My wife and i are moving to a new state in the next few months to pursue change, oppertunity, and happiness. Something we have been wanting for about a decade now. Seeing your video has been a blessing and assuring that better opertunities and happiness can be found if we are brave enough to make a change. Thank you for sharing.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      I'm so glad our video could provide you with some encouragement and assurance. Wishing you all the best in your new endeavors!

  • @darinterhark8686
    @darinterhark8686 Před měsícem +2

    Exactly what I needed today, Thank you!! I love how God answers prayers in ways you don't think you need. I just finished my morning devotions, and prayed my usual prayer for guidance and patience through today's hunt for work. I grab my phone and here is this video out of nowhere.
    I am living your experience right now, and the parallels to our stories further validate His hands are on the wheel.
    I am 54, let go from a fortune 500 after 30 years from a security (fraud) job that I dearly loved(almost a year ago), just a few hours N in SD. like you, getting interviews, but doors keep closing.
    The current job market is brutal or everyone, but ageism is certainly a hurdle. Even though I know God has a plan on His timeline for me, I struggle with being patient enough to understand His timing.
    Your encouraging words will help me push forward. Thank you so much for following God's plan for you right now, you are helping people that need it!!
    Thank you and God Bless!

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      I'm so glad to hear that the video resonated with you! It's incredible how our journeys can mirror each other, and it's a reminder that we're never alone in our struggles. Keep the faith and stay strong-better days are ahead!

  • @garybollrud8968
    @garybollrud8968 Před měsícem +6

    I went to truck driving school at age 60 after floundering financially for 2 years after selling my pool service business, could not handle the Florida heat anymore. Did trucking for 4 years then took SS and a part time weekend job working in hospitals. Never to late to reinvent yourself.

    • @b-genspinster7895
      @b-genspinster7895 Před měsícem +2

      I was thinking about truck driving as an “encore” career. Doing some OTR. I wonder if trucking is a good choice.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      That's truly inspiring! It's amazing how you took charge of your life and found new opportunities. Never too late to make a change for the better.

    • @Roaddawg68
      @Roaddawg68 Před měsícem +1

      I did the same after 34 years as a automotive technician, got disgusted after being laided off, went to CDL school, got my tractor trailer license with my endorsements and I am 55, got to adapt and roll with what life throws at you.

    • @garybollrud8968
      @garybollrud8968 Před měsícem

      @@b-genspinster7895 it can be. But it owns your life.

    • @garybollrud8968
      @garybollrud8968 Před měsícem

      @@Roaddawg68100 per cent

  • @QrooSpanish
    @QrooSpanish Před měsícem +3

    I recently left my job at age 53 to do content creation fulltime. This is a great catalyst video for your channel. Good luck on your adventure.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Thanks for the shout out! We hope to get to the size of your community someday!

  • @michaelhaidee
    @michaelhaidee Před měsícem +8

    What a great story! 🙌 I am 50, and just switched jobs a year and a half ago for a move up. Right now, in my field of civil engineering, the kids are not interested, and with boomers retiring the past 5 years, we are so short on engineers that are asking retired guys to come back to work. It's totally the opposite of the 2009 great recession. Kids have no idea how hard it was to get a job then. I was laid off by a city along with 200 others.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      It's interesting how the job market shifts over time, isn't it? Glad you landed on your feet!

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem

      The civil engineers who repaved my road 2 years ago, sure messed it up,---because they don't have any free enterprise competition. They can be as dysfunctional as they are. Not true with competitive free enterprise,--where we get better at things.

    • @henryusa4157
      @henryusa4157 Před měsícem

      Maybe they should train and pay the kids

  • @vesnagojkovic7447
    @vesnagojkovic7447 Před měsícem +6

    When one door closes the other opens. 🙏🏻 And most of the time is better than you ever thought.

  • @tusharpawar8333
    @tusharpawar8333 Před měsícem +3

    Thank you for putting this out. I was unjustly fired from my last job. The anxiety and the depression plus the fact that I am the only bread winner for my family is affecting my ability to do well in the interviews. I will be turning 47 this month. I don’t know if and how my life is going to come back on track. It feels like hell!

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      Just keep putting yourself out there and the right opportunity will come along. Stay positive!

  • @reesesha2289
    @reesesha2289 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for the video! Ageism is a stark reality. My husband, at 58, has been diligently searching for a job for 10 months after his company was sold. It's disheartening to see him reach the end of the interview rounds only to be turned away, likely due to his age. What's even more frustrating is that I've observed many in their 30s and 40s leave their jobs within 1-2 years, yet they seem to be preferred over someone with my husband's experience, achievements, and skills.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      It may take a while but I will pray an opportunity that values your husbands experience and loyalty comes along. I think there a more and more companies that are recognizing the perils that come with hiring potential short term employees and they are turning back to looking for experience, no matter how long they can draw from them.

  • @nunyabiness1097
    @nunyabiness1097 Před měsícem +6

    I work a full time job & a part time job & I'am 64 now, both my employers jumped at the chance to hire, And were so happy to hire people to work for them from the era, That I grew up in & they both hired my sister too, who is 2 years younger than me ;0

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Wow, that's awesome! Your employers must love having you and your sister around. Keep up the great work!

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem

      Sounds like you have some negotiating power. :)

  • @kennethgustin758
    @kennethgustin758 Před měsícem +2

    This is such an encouraging story! Thanks for sharing it! I had a similar experience.... I was diagnosed with. a particularly deadly form of cancer at the age of 55. Almost two years of treatment and recovery ended with a very disappointing job search at the age of 58, until a fervent prayer asking God where He wanted me to go...I would go there. The very next day I tripped over 2 job posting for a congregation of Catholic Sisters: Dir. Of Mission Advancement and Dir. of Communications (my background was in software sales and marketing)! I got an interview immediately and they combined both roles and hired me. That was 5 years ago, and I have NEVER been happier! The cancer proved to be a great blessing...and by the way, with the average age of the Sisters being 85, I'm the young kid in the office! 🙂. May God continue to bless you both!

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Your story is so awesome! It’s amazing how things turned around for you. Keep rocking that job and being the cool kid among the Sisters!

  • @MRedman377
    @MRedman377 Před měsícem +7

    So weird how this situation is almost similar to mine. My fiancé is a nurse and I am much older than her making 6 figures for a specialty pharmacy and we hit a point like you when I got fired. But before I got fired I was already searching and I was able to get a job in no time at my age by God's grace. God has a reason for everything, and thankfully she is a nurse and will always have a job. Thanks for your story I came across your video just by random, keep it up. 😁

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      It's amazing how life can throw similar situations our way. I'm glad to hear you were able to bounce back quickly. Keep pushing forward!

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem

      There will be plenty of nurses who won't be able to find a job. The now state run health care industry can not hire all the graduates being taught to work for the state today.

    • @void________
      @void________ Před měsícem

      Where did you two meet?

  • @bethberry320
    @bethberry320 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you so much I am 56 and this is just what I need to hear right now. I’m also glad that you were willing to speak about God.

  • @andre1987eph
    @andre1987eph Před měsícem +3

    It's VERY common for employers to fire men in their 50s. You hear the story alll the time. Happened to me.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      I agree it is common but there is often a silver lining. I hope you landed on your feet.

  • @yvonnefarwell6243
    @yvonnefarwell6243 Před měsícem +2

    Thank you for the encouragement! I just turned 54. I was fired after 15 years with the same company. New younger COO just didn’t want me on his team. I’m still waiting to find the perfect job for me. Ageism is very real! My experience and hard work that got me from receiving to Director of Operations should be screaming loud and clear this is the person we need to hire! I haven’t heard a thing! I just changed my resume and got rid of yahoo email(sign of age). Hopefully it will turn things in a better direction for me. God Bless and thank you for letting me know I am not alone.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      Don't afraid to get someone to help you with getting your resume in shape for today's recruiters. Stay positive and be open to stuff you might not even think is in your lane. Good luck

  • @dadnou
    @dadnou Před měsícem +6

    Thanks for sharing and encouraging others! God was definitely moving in your life.
    It’s a western world problem where people feel stuck in their jobs and the older we get the harder it is to let go even if we hate it there. I’m 45, UK based and I quit the corporate world 6 months ago and things couldn’t be better! Fear will get you feeling stuck so. I also encourage others to choose to be happy and make a change especially what could be the last 20-30 years of their life. ❤❤

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      The only thing scarier than quitting a job is staying in one you hate. Here's to embracing change!

  • @a323bmer
    @a323bmer Před 8 dny

    I just got laid off a couple of months ago, and I'm in my mid 50s. Thanks for this video, this is very encouraging.

  • @davea221
    @davea221 Před měsícem +3

    Is great to know that I’m not the only one going through this. Thank you for sharing and giving me hope. God bless you ! 😎🙏❤️

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      I'm glad my videos could resonate with you. We're all in this together, so keep pushing through! God bless and keep grinding!

  • @SafeEffective-ls2pl
    @SafeEffective-ls2pl Před měsícem +4

    Thankfully I did my career change in 2010 when I was only 36. I went from IT to accounting and got my CPA.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Wow, that's awesome! Making a career change can be daunting, but you nailed it. Keep shining in the accounting world!

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem

      If a criminal stole your money, and I counted it for the criminal, what would that make me? :)

    • @void________
      @void________ Před měsícem

      Why did you leave IT?

  • @marlam3891
    @marlam3891 Před 13 dny

    Thanks for the inspiring content. Finding a job at 50s is hard and almost impossible in Canada. I have been looking for couple of years and no luck yet. I am just dragging myself to work everyday, and counting down for the day that I don't have to see my boss anymore.

  • @OPMfan65
    @OPMfan65 Před měsícem +4

    I'm 59 years old working as an IT professional for a State University. I agree with your perspective - with my age, I'm competing with peers who are younger doing the same job. With the current job market for IT type professions though, I'm realistic. There have been massive lay-offs in IT profession in the past three years here in the US, so I figured its better for me to stick to my current employer and job role for three more years until I hit retirement. Hitting retirement means I get benefits like a pension, lifetime health care in addiition to Medicare and SS. The "lifetime health care" I don't think you get a package like that in corporate America. Then, once in retirement i can seek further career opportunities.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      It doesn't hurt to look though. You don't have to leave unless the opportunity is something you really want.

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem

      It will be what is left of free enterprise companies,--who will be interested in your talents. They have to make a profit to survive. The state does not.

  • @ScreenPrintR
    @ScreenPrintR Před 12 dny

    Thank you very much. I feel the same. Tired of the drive, bad management etc. you’ve encouraged me. Thank God for you, and for making the video.

  • @yardboy3955
    @yardboy3955 Před měsícem +3

    Watch out for #1 that’s you cause nobody is going to, if you have a chance to better yourself do it, there’s no loyalty anymore. Don’t let emotions hold you back. When you’re old you’re a liability not an asset. Been there, seen it, went through it, done it.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      I agree. Corporate loyalty is much harder to find and it goes both ways for sure. Always seek a better fit for you and your circumstances if your just not feeling it where you are.

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem

      Look out for #1"???
      Our communistic schools today call you "selfish". But communism never created an industry. It steals them from us to fund itself.

  • @marktoomey8977
    @marktoomey8977 Před měsícem +1

    This is my exact situation. After 29 years working as an administrator, I’m now trying to find a new job. Struggling with the new hiring process and how applications have changed. Trying to stay positive and hopeful.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Don't be afraid to seek some help in crafting a resume that grabs today's recruiters and HR managers attention. That stuff makes a big difference in getting to the next phase.

    • @ValerieSue
      @ValerieSue Před 28 dny

      Same here. Applying is so different now. Once I could get my foot in the door, face to face I always got the job. Guess on paper I don’t look that great. LOL

  • @TheKurtLyon
    @TheKurtLyon Před měsícem +3

    Great video. Thanks for sharing. At 60 with 5 kids at home and in an industry “that keeps the lights on” this is inspiring.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      You can keep the lights on while looking for something more at the same time. You don't know what's out there until start seeking it. It feels good to be able to say you actually enjoy what you're doing to pay the bills, take it from someone who know. Good luck to you.

  • @mikecharger1680
    @mikecharger1680 Před 16 dny

    Im inspired by your story. Its just what i needed this early morning sitting outside pondering life..im 60 and have been working at the same job for 23 years and still trying to convince myself that it is where I need to be... 🤔

  • @Jay-KMadathil
    @Jay-KMadathil Před měsícem +3

    Really encouraging and I needed now. Thank you both for those words and your time.

  • @JasonQuinn
    @JasonQuinn Před měsícem +9

    CZcams recommended this video. Love the content and intent. Keep it going!

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      Looks like CZcams knows what's up! Thanks for tuning in and liking the content.

  • @rg14578
    @rg14578 Před 18 dny

    Thanks for posting your story and words of encouragement. In my 50's and my inner self has been telling me this job is not where I am meant to be at this point in my life.
    Hard to step away from the pay and the vacation time. Perhaps your video was suggested in my CZcams for a reason. Not to over think it, just put myself out there.
    All the best to you both !

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 17 dny

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s never too late to pursue what truly makes you happy. Trust your instincts and take that leap!

  • @anuragchakraborty8766
    @anuragchakraborty8766 Před měsícem +8

    I’m 34, jobless, afraid of wage slavery and don’t intend to apply for jobs that take more than half an hour to commute to.
    I was wondering if you guys can adopt me. I’m always on my best behavior.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      I think the key thing is to find something you like so even if the wage isn't exactly what you want, you can at least enjoy the work and support yourself.
      As for the adoption, we will have to pass. We are enjoying our empty nest and you are a little too old to be our grandchild. Good luck to you.

    • @anuragchakraborty8766
      @anuragchakraborty8766 Před měsícem +1

      @@beforeitstoolate2023 Oh well I knew it was gonna be a long shot. At least I tried 😂

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem +1

      You still have 3 choices. Do nothing with your mind and live on welfare. Get a JOB, (which stands for Just Over Broke", or many of them like I did). Or think about your own business, and using Jobs to learn from, (do not tell the boss that). Getting a job for only the sake of a job, or owning a profitable business,--is the difference between being a slave or being free. As long as you can learn from a job, and have the ability to start your own business,---you are not a slave. If your business takes off, you will discover a freedom that you never knew existed. That is what I experienced. I never want a Job again.

    • @anuragchakraborty8766
      @anuragchakraborty8766 Před měsícem

      @@EarthSurferUSA yeah well 90 percent of all businesses fail within the first year. So there goes my chances.
      Also most businesses require permits, investment and capital, so when your business goes down inevitably you basically lose everything you invested.

  • @degenyogi6140
    @degenyogi6140 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for the video. Just shy of 55 now and working for a consulting firm and bored out of my mind. I've realized that I'm a strong consultant and a horrible employee (fired from two Fortune 25 companies) so the idea of leaving this firm and taking another corporate job is anathema to me. Wish I had made a go of what I learned in from working with a small PE firm earlier in my career. The intent is to acquire a cash flowing company, place an operator to run the day to day then collect a management fee (yes, it's not quite that simple). Do this a couple times and my income is replaced. Expect to close on my first independent consulting client this week and first business by EOY and be free from corporate in 2025. 🤞

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      It's great to hear about your journey and plans! Transitioning from corporate to independent consulting can be challenging, but it sounds like you have a solid strategy in place. Wishing you all the best as you pursue your goals!

  • @user-id8ng9eq9h
    @user-id8ng9eq9h Před měsícem +5

    Working through this right now myself…thx for sharing

  • @Grateful999
    @Grateful999 Před měsícem

    At 53 I was “Quired” which was I was quitting at the same instant I was fired lol
    BEST THING EVER. Changed industries and after bouncing around a bit I went back to school to retrain and found my new job which I love! Listen to your intuition and don’t fear-you will find your way! 😇✌️

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      It's inspiring to hear how you turned a challenging moment into an opportunity for growth! Your story is a reminder that change can lead to amazing new paths.

  • @duanelanning6674
    @duanelanning6674 Před měsícem +3

    Thank you both for the words of encouragement.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      No, thank you my friend, for supporting us and taking the time to comment.

    • @bhaase1973
      @bhaase1973 Před měsícem

      Thanks for sharing another inspiring story!

    • @richcarter7889
      @richcarter7889 Před měsícem +1

      @@bhaase1973glad you enjoyed it my friend. Hope all is well with you and the fam

  • @toughharley1903
    @toughharley1903 Před 18 dny

    I'm so glad I found your video, I really need this encouragement in my life. I'm stuck in a position I'm not fully happy with and the money could be better. And I'm so glad you talk about God's will in your situation.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 18 dny

      I'm really glad my video could provide you with some encouragement! It's never easy feeling stuck, but remember that every step you take is part of your journey. Trust the process!

  • @Earthtime3978
    @Earthtime3978 Před měsícem +3

    No offense but you’re talking from the perspective of already having money and changing jobs. You have a pension and likely some deferred comp funds. An RN makes decent cash and may have a pension too.
    Anyway, switching jobs in your mid 50s is no easy task. You don’t just start another job with the same salary you were getting. If you get lucky, maybe, buts it’s not common in every field. Most people need bucks if they’re looking for change, so they’re saddled with their current job.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      I agree that we are extremely blessed and all of it came with God's timing. The best time to look for a better job is when you still have one to pay the bills. I was ready to take a step back in pay but I know that's not realistic for everyone. Point it, you don't what opportunity may be out three until you give it t a try. Thanks for watching and sharing!

    • @LillyoftheValleyAZ
      @LillyoftheValleyAZ Před 24 dny

      There are no pensions for nurses.

    • @Earthtime3978
      @Earthtime3978 Před 24 dny

      @@LillyoftheValleyAZ Of course there are. You can be a nurse that took a civil service exam or just work for a county hospital or office. What planet are you on?

  • @sdmod1
    @sdmod1 Před měsícem +2

    Life is short, I planned to not work until I drop, and my plan worked !!

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      That's awesome to hear! It's all about finding that balance between work and life. Keep enjoying the journey!

  • @ericmarshsr.6510
    @ericmarshsr.6510 Před měsícem +2

    This video was a blessing to me. I'm 54 and dealing with many of the same or similar circumstances that you described. You both are so encouraging and warm-hearted, it's impossible not to like you. I've since watched your videos on monetization and am now a subscriber. Keep up the inspiring content. ❤👏

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      I'm so glad this video resonated with you! Thank you for your kind words and for subscribing.

  • @Cookiegayle1203
    @Cookiegayle1203 Před měsícem

    THANK YOU BOTH FOR SHARING. And I truly THANK GOD for the message. Will be 50 in a few months, fired just a few days ago after 15 years. I was miserable but loved my team. I KNOW God’s plan for me is greater. Hard pill to swallow but his timing is perfect.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +2

      I appreciate your heartfelt comment! It’s wonderful to see how faith can guide us through tough times. Wishing you strength and success on your journey ahead.

  • @noreenp.9858
    @noreenp.9858 Před měsícem +2

    In my case I just retired at 62..three years earlier than anticipated. I worked in a hospital laboratory as a senior technologist and the stress was getting worse. My superiors didn’t appreciate my expertise and no loyalty on their part. I persevered working with two back surgeries with a third one coming up because I loved my work…not my job. Leadership can sure make or break teamwork that consists of great employees. My wonderful husband encouraged me to retire and he is working a little longer for healthcare because we were financially ok to take this step.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      It sounds like you made the right decision for your well-being. Congratulations on your retirement!

    • @noreenp.9858
      @noreenp.9858 Před měsícem

      @@beforeitstoolate2023 Thank you

    • @EarthSurferUSA
      @EarthSurferUSA Před měsícem

      Welcome to a communistic nationalized industry. Boy---they can really use some competition.

  • @leonrowe8216
    @leonrowe8216 Před 22 dny

    Great advice I'm in the same situation that you were in. I resigned from my job just 3 months ago because I was very unhappy there. I've worked in supervisory/middle management positions but until now no positive responses to my many applications. I'm in my early 50's.
    I love your thoughtful approach to this issue.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 22 dny +1

      I’m glad you found the advice helpful! Transitioning jobs can be tough, but remember, it’s never too late to pursue what makes you happy. Keep pushing forward, and the right opportunity will come along!

  • @la196
    @la196 Před 15 dny

    Good for the both of you! That entire story was indeed "devine order". Embrace it, smile, and be well:)

  • @karennaturallyartby
    @karennaturallyartby Před 11 dny

    I’m 54 and started some classes so I can make a career change. Now after watching the video and reading comments about everyone getting fired after years of service, and being middle aged. I’m nervous actually but I know can’t stay where I am.

  • @windyacresway
    @windyacresway Před měsícem +1

    55,lost my job 6 months ago,i live in a small town,they will only hire young people.Went to a larger city,stayed with my brother,found out ageism was rampant there to.About to give up....not much left to keep going......still the government thinks we should work longer....Good Grief

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      I'm really sorry to hear about your struggles. It's tough out there, especially with ageism being such a barrier. Remember, your experience and skills are valuable, and there are companies out there that recognize that. Don't lose hope!

  • @rudranauth.persaud6248

    Thank you I really enjoyed the sharing that you gave. I am looking for new work at 57, I got an injury and had to be retrained. I feel really good about the next phase of finding a new job. Thanks for the encouraging words. I am really glad things worked out for you and your wife.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 19 dny

      I'm so glad to hear that you found the video helpful! It's inspiring to see you taking on this new phase with such positivity. Wishing you all the best in your job search!

  • @mikeb6957
    @mikeb6957 Před 14 dny +1

    Plan to be able to retire by 55. Trying to get a job at 55 sounds like a nightmare.

  • @tommygilbert7954
    @tommygilbert7954 Před 26 dny

    Thank you I needed this video. 52 yrs old sitting at unemployment was terminated yesterday wrongfully. But I know God has an answer! Truly encouraging words! Tg

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 26 dny

      I'm really glad to hear that this video resonated with you! Remember, tough times can lead to new opportunities. Stay strong!

  • @johnboy5177
    @johnboy5177 Před měsícem

    They did you a favor like they did me a favor. They pushed me out after 37 years. It was the best thing they did for me.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 29 dny

      It's amazing how sometimes a push can lead to the best opportunities in life! Glad to hear it worked out for both of us.

  • @stephanielab.lk.l.162
    @stephanielab.lk.l.162 Před měsícem +2

    My job was so toxic, very toxic boss in the state of gov. I was glad that I got out of it.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Toxic bosses are the worst! So happy you were able to leave that job. Here's to better days ahead!

  • @tgif3657
    @tgif3657 Před měsícem +1

    So glad the CZcams algorithm recommended your video! I had to get my wife to watch it. Your story sounds so much like ours. We've been married for only seven years, and I'm 59, while my wife is a nurse who is currently not working due to recent health issues. The physical labor required in nursing became too demanding on her health, leading her to step back from the field she loves. I've worked for a major telecom company for almost 25 years and always enjoyed my job, never considering leaving. Then, out of the blue, they moved me to a role that was almost a 180-degree shift from what I was doing-a position I would have never applied for. This shift has made it very hard to focus on learning and becoming proficient in my new responsibilities. I was looking to retire in a couple of years, but now I'm not sure I can make it that long. They might either fire me, or I'll get too stressed and quit. I'm working on an escape plan by helping my wife start a new business and starting a side business myself. I'm hoping these ventures can replace my 9-5 soon. Thanks for sharing your story and words of encouragement. They mean a lot to us.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. I'm glad our video resonated with you and your wife.

  • @johnradebaugh-ss3xy
    @johnradebaugh-ss3xy Před 25 dny

    Right on ! I'm 55 and have been in a low paying but somewhat comfortable position that just doesn't cut it. I've been reluctant to take any old position because there's only so much I'm willing to put up with. It's taking a toll on my peace of mind , my ability to get to sleep and my ability to create a future for myself. I know it's time to move on to something better ,closer and higher paying.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 24 dny

      It's great to hear that you're ready to make a change! Finding a position that aligns better with your goals and values is important for your peace of mind and future. Wishing you the best of luck in your journey!

  • @martinmcquaide4807
    @martinmcquaide4807 Před měsícem +2

    Was laid-off at 47, bounced around as a contractor (industrial maintenance) changed jobs at 55 and again at 61. All paid off and have a rental property. At 65 I'm done. Just done with starting over, when you start over your the new guy. Shitty hours, low vacation, grunt work. Your not 23 anymore. It will all be done soon, 76% of tax dollars goes to just the interest on the national debt. No personal debt is the only way to survive this nightmare.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      Wow, you've been through a lot, but it's awesome to hear that you've come out on top with that rental property. Time to relax and ease into your well-deserved retirement!

  • @thisnthatwithYaya
    @thisnthatwithYaya Před 27 dny

    OMG I am so glad YT led me to you. I so needed to hear this. After being told there is no room in the budget for a raise, I was handed 4 raises to process for top execs that totalled $260k. What a slap in the face! I am about 5 years away from retirement and have been struggling with staying or looking.... your video and your encouragement sent me right to LinkedIn on the spot!! Thank you!!

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 27 dny

      I'm so glad my video resonated with you! It's tough to navigate these situations, but remember, your worth is not defined by others. Wishing you the best as you explore your options!

  • @virginia_in_the_rearview
    @virginia_in_the_rearview Před měsícem +2

    Great video! I'm so glad it worked out. I agree, God has a plan for us, and we will see it IN HIS TIME.
    I'm 51, and I work remotely doing a job I love! I'm hoping to be able to keep it until retirement. If not, God will guide me where he wants me to go.

  • @garettb7800
    @garettb7800 Před měsícem +1

    Fellow 25 year retired LEO and I went back to work at 51. I plan to work untill im 57 and then collect two pensions. By then the baby of the family will graduate HS.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem +1

      Working until 57 sounds like a solid plan, and you'll certainly have a lot to celebrate with two pensions and a graduation in the family! Stay safe, brother!

  • @lisapquinto
    @lisapquinto Před měsícem

    I will be 65 in a couple of months and I've been at my same job, same desk and same department for 20 years and I consider myself truly BLESSED. I've had past and present terrific bosses/leaders. I wish there were more people who could experience the great company and people that I work with. Thank you Rich and Robi for sharing your work history and stories and giving hope to those who are struggling with decisions about their employment. God bless ❤

  • @TheUrbanSoaper
    @TheUrbanSoaper Před 22 dny

    I was fortunate to get a job at 50 after being out of work for many years caring for aging parents. Yes, it can really be scary at this time of life. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 22 dny

      At 50, you’re like a fine wine, getting better with age! Just remember, the job market may be scary, but you’ve got this-just don’t forget your reading glasses for the fine print!

  • @user-ow9sz4rz5n
    @user-ow9sz4rz5n Před 24 dny

    I was in a supervisor role. I had the greatest team to work with. I was let go at 60 years old after working for the company for 42 years . I was assured that being let go was through no fault of my own. I hav3 a very solid resume but struggled to find a comparable job. 10 months later, I did find work for less than half of the pay I had and with no benefits. I haven't given up. I feel like I still have much to offer.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 22 dny

      Thank you for sharing your story! Your determination is a reminder that perseverance pays off, and I believe that the right opportunity is just around the corner for you.

  • @jean-francoistremblay950
    @jean-francoistremblay950 Před měsícem

    I was fired at 54 (same job 23 years). Good friend gave me 2 bits of excellent advice: 1. Don't waste the free time. Go travel, exercise, etc. 2. Hire a career coach. Not any career coach but the one who's right for me. Worked like a charm. Got a new, interesting, challenging, well paying job within 6 months. Was working freelance the whole time. Don't panic, your prior experience is hugely valuable even in a different industry.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před měsícem

      That's such an inspiring story! It's amazing how a little guidance and effort can lead to such positive outcomes. Thanks for sharing!

  • @kNr707
    @kNr707 Před 27 dny

    Thanks for sharing this inspiring story. I just got laid off from my IT Job at age 55 and I’m feeling hopeless being unable to find a job. I need to Trust God more in my current trial.

    • @beforeitstoolate2023
      @beforeitstoolate2023  Před 27 dny

      Thank you for sharing your story. It takes a lot of courage to open up about your struggles. Remember, trusting in a higher plan can bring unexpected opportunities your way!