What Being Rejected Says About You
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- čas přidán 9. 02. 2024
- #motivation #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment
“To be shocked at how deeply rejection hurts is to ignore what acceptance involves. We must never allow our suffering to be compounded by suggestions that there is something odd in suffering so deeply. There would be something amiss if we didn't. ”
― Arthur Schopenhauer
Rejection is Better Than Regret 💯💊
yes
After realising how ridiculous, foolish and petty so many people in this world truly are, i rejected humanity a long time ago.
It was only then that life became interesting.
This was me for the past 3 years, deliberately avoiding people, and feeling like a "discarded sample" who wasn't good enough for the people who initially rejected me for my individualism.
Bruh. The universe is ridiculous. I really needed this TODAY after an L I took yesterday. Thank u
We got you bruh👍
3:32-4:40 if this is the case, work on yourself to change for the better, but do it only for yourself and noone else.
I don't think proving others wrong is the best motivation. I don't think that's real self love cause it's like setting your self worth on others expectations. And maybe it wasn't your case but that also often mean setting yourself up for failure. And you can end up doing something you don't really want just to show others they were wrong to reject you. I don't think that's healthy.
Now, that doesn't mean you shouldn't strive for improving and growth - but maybe you need other motivation. I think your path makes you a little unempathic towards your target audience. Or you wanna be heard just by those who agree with you?
Btw, I like how you are so brutally honest 😅 bc people need to hear what they don't like. If they wanna hear only what they like than they're not so mature. And I love how you insist you should not lie to yourself - I totally agree. I wouldn't be able to grow so much if I didn't respect that rule. Lying to yourself is one of the worst things you can do for yourself. It's like burying the seed of a weed that will later grow and ruin your garden.
I think I'm slightly more biased to prove people wrong, because at one point in my life I had to do so in order to earn my respect in a corporation, and also its a lot of fun due to the rush. But now I'm more of in the "not give a f**k" caregory. Its your choice at the end of the day, but most importantly, as stated, to not lie to yourself of what you truly value. If people reject you because of a certain attribute that you lack, you have to be honest if that particular attribute truly means a lot to you or not. If it truly does, don't reject the blunt criticisms, instead work on it. But if you truly don't care, then move on
Thank you for your input mate 👊
I once had a guy insistently argue that a steam engine doesn’t take fuel. It runs on steam. Only one thing to do. Let him be right!🙄😂😂
And what other motivation would that be?
@@bethelsheunesumasukume352 It depends on what you want to improve or what goal you want to achieve but I'd say that in general you should grow for yourself. For exemple, I want to improve as a teacher because I love teaching and I care about the children I teach.
5:42-5:48 the hardest one of the three. And also most likely the best option of the 3.
I usually have fun in some conversations. When things like this come up I tell people I sense they’re ignoring me I say OK I’ll just ignore you back!😂😂 😂
Only God really cares and He’s all I need to live for and please! I love my own company!
It's a normal thing. I've rejected many people, people have rejected me, it does not bother me. I'm not much of a people person anyways
I was discarded by someone, I worked with.
It wasn't a romantic relationship and by no means one-sided. I was kicked out of a project without any plausible explanation and got told by this person that she didn't want me to continue to work with me.
She was my supervisor and I have no idea what went wrong.
I changed jobs and continued my work but I never got a plausible explanation.
Just this morning I was talking to a mentor of mine about how I was still having trouble getting over rejection from a former girlfriend (unlike your situation, this was romantic in nature and I was suddenly and inexplicably ‘shown the door’). Here I am still struggling with the ‘why’ when my mentor told me, “broken people do broken things”. Sounds like your former coworker could’ve handled that situation better… and maybe they were in a messed up place mentally/emotionally and took it out on you. Regardless, it’s probably a good thing that you moved on to a different work environment.
@@CheezeTank
The sentence ' Broken people do broken things' is useful.But you have to understand that the trouble she caused was not just her unfair treatment but professional damage she caused on my part ( hers as well). We were in the middle of a project and apart from a certain grumpiness and one or two complaints on her part, there was no reason for such a reaction.She was too scared to talk to me personally and simply walked away from it all. As she was in a superior position,there was nothing I could do.No valid explanation was given.
Thank you for sharing
As always, as your name suggests, a verbally forged masterpiece.
I'm probably suffering from RSD, so, sometimes, it's not that easy trying not taking it so personally.
It's better to lower the background music a little bit. Valuable info, Keep going👊
Rejection of society in response to perceived rejection by the whole of society seems to have become normalized. I blame the self-interested individuals that didn't raise their children with sufficient love or support for reinforcing feelings of rejection the child may have from dealing with this complicated world. Most of our issues stem from a poor childhood. I think the only thing we can do is try not to be like our parents and do better for the next generation. Help our children build self-efficacy while teaching them humility. Praise their accomplishments in endeavors, even when the end result is failure; help them find their good in the bad. Exemplify resilience as well as you can when you fail. Teach them about how your failures eventually lead to your current successes. Fathers need to stay with their children and show them genuine care. Caring for your child isn't a feminine thing. Raising children isn't women's work. We men are supposed to teach our children what their mothers cannot, the same as a mothers job is to teach a child what their father cannot.
Thanks for the prompt and space to share.
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2:03-3:31 so if this is the case in any circumstance, "DON'T GIVE A DAMN!!!", right?
I agree
TRUTH..................AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH .
In 2012 I made a spiritual movie FORCED ADVENTURE with Karl Renz
Talk about nonduality...in the line with Ramana Maharshi, maybe resonate with you.
Full movie is on my channel, all the best.
Realize nobody cares about you besides family and move on
Say we tried