3 Gays 1 Hotel Room | Chosen Family Podcast

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  • čas přidán 21. 05. 2024
  • It’s happening! Mom, Dad, and Baby all in the same room. Join them as they discuss why Ashley puked on stage, how Mak was traumatized by a crab, and a listener question on how to let anger out.
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Komentáře • 378

  • @shadufr
    @shadufr Před 24 dny +532

    bro the in-person podcast vibes are UNMATCHED I live for this

  • @meganknapp6226
    @meganknapp6226 Před 24 dny +260

    lol, the Jewish joke while Ashley is wearing striped pajamas 💀

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBoox Před 24 dny +357

    Even Alayna's ✨fiancée✨ as the live audience? This week truly is everything.

  • @kerizella
    @kerizella Před 24 dny +262

    a single hotel room isn't enough to contain this much lesbian power

  • @hnysdn
    @hnysdn Před 24 dny +204

    Mak’s girlfriend explaining to the crab place people: “everyone can cook, not everyone can eat. “

  • @neutrinohman
    @neutrinohman Před 24 dny +254

    I really appreciate how this podcast has helped to simulate the experience of being a child of divorce

  • @karisfunkartist
    @karisfunkartist Před 23 dny +62

    When Mak said "why'd you put Mak in the corner?" Only thing I could think was "nobody puts Baby in the corner!" 😂

  • @clarag0373
    @clarag0373 Před 24 dny +44

    the ordering a crab and not expecting to get a crab is cracking me up i love this

  • @briannacruz2816
    @briannacruz2816 Před 24 dny +70

    “Bro stop, I’m going to come“ that was so funny lol

  • @jadynromero8175
    @jadynromero8175 Před 24 dny +40

    Lol to be fair, I like it when Ashley points out the parasocial 😂 reality checks are important lol

  • @swiftie4856
    @swiftie4856 Před 24 dny +31

    Nobody mentioned the black tank top. Maybe it’s because Alayna’s girlfriend was there but I felt a little betrayed by the lack of mentioning how hot she was.

  • @lysie23
    @lysie23 Před 24 dny +59

    I can’t believe they put mak in a chair!!!!!

    • @kalpic11
      @kalpic11 Před 24 dny

      is there lore I’m forgetting?

    • @Sselwal
      @Sselwal Před 23 dny +8

      Nobody puts baby in the corner.

  • @BHandle14
    @BHandle14 Před 21 dnem +8

    Alayna's crabs and period joke was flawless! My wife and I laughed so hard. This episode is amazing!

  • @spiderlinz
    @spiderlinz Před 24 dny +60

    41:08 every time Ashley says “DUMB” I cannot breathe

  • @jazzwalker5074
    @jazzwalker5074 Před 24 dny +90

    I love that mak is the youngest but has amazing dad jokes

  • @Chuberlovesguatemala
    @Chuberlovesguatemala Před 24 dny +28

    I really want a compilation of ashley explaining what the chosen family is and why we are watching. Pure Gold. The moment when it goes too far and alaynas face is like woah ok ok

  • @emilym7253
    @emilym7253 Před 23 dny +14

    trashing apple maps is the content i am here for truly

  • @AKViiduh
    @AKViiduh Před 24 dny +49

    Maks hilarious album cover joke went unnoticed! 😂

    • @eyeAmBrittanyH
      @eyeAmBrittanyH Před 24 dny +4

      I literally burst out laughing and was expecting another AshGav high five but it didn't happen LOL

  • @goldenmomo85
    @goldenmomo85 Před 24 dny +61

    49:28 the way it endeeeeeeed!! I'm dyyyyyyyyying 🤣💀💀💀💀💀

  • @significantsoil5345
    @significantsoil5345 Před 24 dny +27

    37:55 Ashley filling in for Fulton 🐈‍⬛️

  • @the_rest_is_confetti
    @the_rest_is_confetti Před 24 dny +32

    37:54 I've never laughed so hard at this podcast. It was perfect. Especially that no one adressed it.

  • @moony788
    @moony788 Před 23 dny +59

    Mak: „I don‘t think I actually have autism“ also mak: „umm that is too much eye contact for me. No eye contact pls.“

  • @madig2041
    @madig2041 Před 24 dny +14

    petition for more in person podcast episodes

  • @TolPhontos
    @TolPhontos Před 24 dny +51

    As a German Gen X I can confirm that being on time is considered polite, best to be 5 minutes early. I Don't know if the younger generations still value this as much though

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs Před 24 dny +17

      in germany they do. trust me.

  • @petrasteinke4388
    @petrasteinke4388 Před 24 dny +33

    10:26 Mak the Menace came back for a moment 😂

  • @interferenzbrille_2542
    @interferenzbrille_2542 Před 24 dny +15

    As a german, I actually agree with Ashley's analysis, really. Imagine living there and having to deal with these kinds of people and bureaucracy? It IS hell on earth.

  • @J_Themborn
    @J_Themborn Před 24 dny +29

    For the anger question, why not go to a rage room? You can go to a room where you can smash stuff and scream all you want

    • @irradiated_woman8016
      @irradiated_woman8016 Před 24 dny

      I've wanted to do this ever since I heard it was a thing (s/o Amy and Tammy Slaton lol) have you done it? Was it good?

  • @tambob82
    @tambob82 Před 24 dny +42

    Supposed to be working rn.😏 Much love from Germany!💚🇩🇪
    Update: Finished Pod, have Notes.
    Yes, Germany has a yuuuge stick up it's ass. I'm a Brit, but have lived here for 24 years. The safest, stablest country I know. But being a rebel is hard here.😅

  • @Sarah-hs5vw
    @Sarah-hs5vw Před 24 dny +18

    All single lesbians will be standing on chairs at your shows now 😂

  • @KaitieHopkins093
    @KaitieHopkins093 Před 24 dny +34

    They're too powerful all together, be afraid, be very afraid

  • @hi-yo1kq
    @hi-yo1kq Před 24 dny +11

    21:13 the shock on Ashley’s face I can’t-

  • @blakemtg47
    @blakemtg47 Před 24 dny +25

    A glimpse of what Mac is like off camera? 21:07

  • @gadogado4468
    @gadogado4468 Před 24 dny +15

    This was next level chaos and I couldn't get enough.

  • @user-et5me8mo9e
    @user-et5me8mo9e Před 24 dny +13

    Technically it is 4 Gays 1 hotel room because Alayna's girlfriend is also in the room. lol

  • @summerkennedy348
    @summerkennedy348 Před 24 dny +10

    I actually use a compass and wind direction to get where I’m going

    • @summerkennedy348
      @summerkennedy348 Před 24 dny +1

      I love to scream in my car or in the middle of the woods to get anger out

  • @kerukei1
    @kerukei1 Před 24 dny +10

    I binge watched nearly sixty episodes. This is for sure my favorite pod.

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBoox Před 24 dny +15

    Sorry from Germany and thank you from Amsterdam! (I went to the show there because it was closest to me and I used to live there.) It truly is something else to see you on stage in a room that feels so massive and see you in your element. In a "I can't believe I just took a picture on my phone of that, that's something that I'd only get to see on TV"-way. What a fun episode as well! And a deep question. You guys rock!

  • @sarahm7086
    @sarahm7086 Před 24 dny +32

    2:46 god Ashley you didn’t have to call me (us) out so hard that early on

  • @krissicarsonart
    @krissicarsonart Před 21 dnem +4

    1. As a single woman at Ashley's shows, all I'm thinking about is how bad of an audience member I am because I don't yell or laugh really hard. I feel this way at all comedy shows. 2. I use Google Maps because Apple Maps has steered me wrong TOO MANY TIMES. Also, I road tripped around Canada in 2017 and Apple Maps wouldn't even work, so Google it was from then on!

    • @ashgavs
      @ashgavs Před 20 dny +2

      dont feel bad, i dont want you to yell lol, so i really appreciated it!

  • @KalhyceK
    @KalhyceK Před 24 dny +7

    For the anger thing, exercising, particularly some kind of martial art/combat is very good. Contrary to what you may believe, you won't hurt anyone and it would help you to control how your anger is directed. It was very helpful for me when I was a teen. Running might also help.
    Depending on where you are based, rage rooms might be an option. Otherwise, wood chopping or doing something like that mght also help.
    One more thing, metal music, or music in general, sing to the top of your lungs. It gives you a physical and mental outlet.

    • @matthijsclaessen8152
      @matthijsclaessen8152 Před 22 dny +1

      Yeh. Listening to aggressive music is a safe way to vent or experience emotions.

  • @eyeseajujubee
    @eyeseajujubee Před 23 dny +3

    The chaos of the family being together is top tier ✨

  • @RoxaneJ14
    @RoxaneJ14 Před 24 dny +7

    The chaotic energy of this pod was amazing, it's really lovely to see you guys all together and really adds to the pod!

  • @marritt1
    @marritt1 Před 24 dny +6

    I could watch this for hours. Please do more together in person I loooooved it

  • @jacklandismusic
    @jacklandismusic Před 24 dny +9

    Growing up on the East Coast, I’m VERY used to getting a whole crab when I order crab. We mostly have blue crabs over here, which don’t really get big enough for the legs to be sold on their own. You can get snow crab legs, but they’re usually a totally separate and distinct item from just a crab dish.

  • @CommanderFoxxxxx69
    @CommanderFoxxxxx69 Před 24 dny +8

    OMG THIS MIGHT BE THE BEST ENDING TO A PODCAST EVER LMAAAOOO

  • @DarkRulerHaDes666
    @DarkRulerHaDes666 Před 24 dny +13

    49:26 Another one for the 'best moments' list, methinks.

  • @Eeeeeeeeerie
    @Eeeeeeeeerie Před 11 dny +1

    “DID THEY BRING OUT THE WHOLE PIZZA AND MAKE YOU CUT IT” was WILD 🤣 Ashley’s savagery has me dying

  • @sierrafancher9958
    @sierrafancher9958 Před 24 dny +5

    Not the ‘this is my album cover’ during the Alayna GF reveal omg 😅

  • @helpfuliavids
    @helpfuliavids Před 24 dny +10

    I feel seen with the rant on German neurotic behavior.... the fact that this is normalized and if you are different you are socially penalized is why we are f*ed up even when we are not neurotic like that.

  • @Ahearnhoula
    @Ahearnhoula Před 13 dny +1

    As a Marylander, the best crab comes to the table whole. I was so confused at Mak’s shock!

  • @rachellemackay6438
    @rachellemackay6438 Před 24 dny +5

    I want to win that immersion shattering sit in pod cast viewing!!

  • @joybubbles
    @joybubbles Před 24 dny +9

    Ashley giving out free foot content!
    I love how unhinged you three get in a hotel room.

  • @emilypalma5763
    @emilypalma5763 Před 24 dny +5

    As a single woman who’s been to Ashley’s show I feel absolutely attacked mak and your completely 100% right too

  • @trisarahtopsart
    @trisarahtopsart Před 21 dnem +1

    No but the comedic timing of Mac's whey joke and the ad was everything

  • @ttarotkidd
    @ttarotkidd Před 24 dny +15

    BEST ENDING EVER LMAO

  • @liza-uw3sq
    @liza-uw3sq Před 24 dny +19

    y'all didn't say anything about what you ate today for dinner, but I'm sure it was a crab!! LMAOO

  • @twildabuckingham
    @twildabuckingham Před 8 dny +2

    "You guys were *SO EXCITED* to do this 😂😂😂😂😂"
    "Well yeah❤?"

  • @theauntless
    @theauntless Před 24 dny +7

    25:15 "Sorry I'm too distracted by the point I'm about to make" 😂

  • @Butterfly-sj6wy
    @Butterfly-sj6wy Před 23 dny +6

    As a German not living in Germany I just pissed my pants 😂

  • @DanielleDrewa
    @DanielleDrewa Před 24 dny +4

    I knew Alayna’s girlfriend being in the back ground but still made me excited when I heard her voice! Alayna little laugh and compliments to her gf! ❤

  • @lizan1993
    @lizan1993 Před 24 dny +9

    This was so fun! Ashley was so funny with her face in the other camera angle 😂 so proud you loved amsterdam! Not suprised, it is a really unique city!

  • @JimmyR2023
    @JimmyR2023 Před 24 dny +5

    I’m an Aussie that works in Germany and the Germans focus on tasks not outcome. It is highly bureaucratic, inefficient and technologically backwards. The fax machine lives on in Germany.

  • @liasnclr
    @liasnclr Před 24 dny +4

    Ashley’s face when Mak said, “I take walks” 😂

  • @pauliina_
    @pauliina_ Před 24 dny +6

    As a German, Ashleys perception of germans and punctuality is so funny. It's true, being on time is running late in Germany haha. And general bureaucracy in Germany is so fucked up, but I only ever think about it when people from abroad complain about it.

  • @joojoobeez
    @joojoobeez Před 19 dny +1

    The “I’ll eat whey” “Yeah, whey good!” Right before the ad break would’ve been a perfect cut to a Hellofresh ad

  • @skallywalla502
    @skallywalla502 Před 24 dny +2

    This was amazing. Watching this right before couples therapy with my spouse is exactly what i needed. ❤
    I always feel bad when i can tell Ashley isn't feeling well...but then usually laugh the hardest because she channels her pain into humor so effortlessly.
    THAT ENDING 😂😂😂

  • @etheplant
    @etheplant Před 24 dny +8

    i didnt even know apple maps existed lol

  • @hanna445
    @hanna445 Před 20 dny +1

    It's so funny to me to hear someone elses opinion on germany as a german because working here is insane to me, i can't imagine just being thrown into this. It's a constant feeling of "is it really that serious" 😂

  • @Louisyed
    @Louisyed Před 21 dnem +1

    Alayna competing with Mak at the end for who is more in awe of Ashley 😂

  • @rapchee
    @rapchee Před 24 dny +4

    how long until betterhelp spots stop?? first i was like "probably signed up for x runs" but it's been way too long now

  • @RondyWooten
    @RondyWooten Před 24 dny +13

    I use Google Maps. Thanks for asking.

  • @ewaldahl
    @ewaldahl Před 24 dny +5

    I always use Google maps. I am a taxi driver for my job. It always gets me to my destination within 50 feet. Love ya all

  • @niareb
    @niareb Před 24 dny +3

    Mak's German joke made me CREASE

  • @seraynity20
    @seraynity20 Před 22 dny +1

    why does this have to end, i can watch them forever, we dont get much episodes where we see them together :(( i wanted this to be longer, the vibes when they are together are so different than virtual and the energy is just off the charts

  • @kapowjam3462
    @kapowjam3462 Před 24 dny +1

    This was something! Always a special event when anyone is together 🎉

  • @stephtaylor6292
    @stephtaylor6292 Před 24 dny +3

    the outro had me in tears of laughter for a full minute after.

  • @kaylajonesmarie
    @kaylajonesmarie Před 24 dny +12

    Never been so excited

    • @Over.thewillow
      @Over.thewillow Před 24 dny +1

      That's concerning

    • @skymacdermott7486
      @skymacdermott7486 Před 24 dny +5

      I literally yelled "they are doing an in person episode" and my brother looked at me concerned 😅

  • @kaiya33123
    @kaiya33123 Před 24 dny +4

    WAAAHHHH I've been waiting for this episode ever since I saw the content you posted with each other on insta!!🥰🥰😍 The all together live podcast vibes are EVERYTHING!!😍

  • @Amaya-ir6ob
    @Amaya-ir6ob Před 21 dnem

    “Guys stop im gonna come” *end of podcast* 🤣😂🤣
    Lowkey my favorite episode so far

  • @irradiated_woman8016
    @irradiated_woman8016 Před 24 dny +14

    The _THBPTTTTTTTTT_ i produced when sweet little brother produced a WW2 joke out of nowhere... that was amazing.
    For the record, i also laughed at alayna's no period-only crabs.

  • @singingwithbecca
    @singingwithbecca Před 17 dny +1

    This is so funny cuz I haven't watched you guys since episode 50 (i have a lot to catch up on), but ur intros are still a mess and I LOVE IT

  • @Miss.sassycassy
    @Miss.sassycassy Před 24 dny +1

    I LOVE that you have the convos that are real and raw ON the podcast not off air.

    • @Miss.sassycassy
      @Miss.sassycassy Před 24 dny

      Also I just use whatever map I see first on my phones screen so sometimes Apple sometimes Google and I never noticed it wasn’t the same thing until I looked while you guys talked about it😅😂

  • @shae113
    @shae113 Před 11 dny

    Talking about being at Ashley's shows makes me all the more excited for this fall. I have my tickets for the Buffalo appearance in November!
    Also, for the Patreon listener, you can't lessen anger by expressing anger, it has to be defused. Anger is a masking emotion that covers other emotions, often multiple ones. Figure out what other emotions are actually there (jealously, betrayal, guilt, grief, etc.) and address those (therapy!!!). Anger is preventing feeling these deeper and more complex emotions from being felt, so if you want to get rid of the anger, deal with the deeper feelings. Also, focus on taking care of yourself now - eat as best as you can, sleep regularly, and look for joy in your life wherever you can. It will get better, nothing lasts forever.

  • @chrisfrench5304
    @chrisfrench5304 Před 24 dny +1

    Best episode yet . Loved the entire vibe

  • @mariannetfinches
    @mariannetfinches Před 18 dny +1

    This episode was so hilarious. Definitely one of their best ones. My take on the anger thing is don't let it build up. I used to marinate in resentment. Now i start by thinking of the other person's perspective - am i justified? Do they have a point? They have their own needs that might just not meet mine. If that's not it, i address it directly as soon as I'm able to do it calmly. If i can't do that because the person has some power over me or is a faceless organisation, I do what Ashley does on stage & go into multiple high-energy rants which serve the dual purpose of catharsis & entertainment. Either way, don't bottle it up. It'll come out at some point whether you choose it or not

  • @fluterem8866
    @fluterem8866 Před 24 dny

    omg finally in-person!!
    Thanks for keeping me company while I cook dinner, y'all. I used to call my ~actual family~ but now I live in a weird time zone and they're usually asleep, lol.

  • @Cassyak
    @Cassyak Před 24 dny +11

    Google maps is the only maps!

  • @Tomie_Uzumaki
    @Tomie_Uzumaki Před 23 dny +2

    ‘That’s like, my Ashley!’ 🥹

  • @stephaliexoxo
    @stephaliexoxo Před 24 dny +3

    During the pandemic, and low key due to TikTok, I couldn’t find enoki mushrooms anywhere. All the local Asian markets near me were completely sold out so I resorted to watching the videos of people eating them 😅😂 weirdly relatable

  • @miraclewade6112
    @miraclewade6112 Před 24 dny +3

    As a southerner from the coast, I didn't know people didn't know about crabs 😭
    You have to be taught how to break it open and eat it and what parts not to eat
    Also only cooked crabs are red

  • @heuredux
    @heuredux Před 24 dny +4

    watched this on my way home and i literally have to control myself from laughing so hard in the bus hahahahaha

  • @hi-yo1kq
    @hi-yo1kq Před 24 dny

    Amazing episode. Definitely one I’m going to rewatch

  • @nyanextdoor0
    @nyanextdoor0 Před 12 dny

    No bc the “anyone can cook but not everyone can eat” is soooo funny, would definitely get the shirt!!😭😭😭😭

  • @bug_joony
    @bug_joony Před 24 dny +5

    Nobody puts Baby in a corner 💪🏼🙄

  • @ramaadole9514
    @ramaadole9514 Před 24 dny +1

    In person podcast was the greatest thing ever after the day ive had!

  • @Zoomalyssa
    @Zoomalyssa Před 24 dny +2

    I THOUGHT IT WAS A KRABS JOKE TOO!! I’M WITH YOU ALAYNA!! 🙏🙏

  • @1Pineapple
    @1Pineapple Před 21 dnem +1

    Ashleys german accent is so good! 😂❤

  • @KittyRoyalty777
    @KittyRoyalty777 Před 24 dny +7

    Ashley going too deep to fast😂

  • @KristanceGlam
    @KristanceGlam Před 24 dny +1

    One of my favorite episodes so far!

  • @joe-dy9fh
    @joe-dy9fh Před 23 dny +1

    I got so excited when I realized it was wednesday again! Also you three look so good