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For anyone who is going through this, and has possibly been turned down when asking for help, please do not give up! If someone does not believe you, find somebody else to tell. I promise you more people will take it seriously than not. You are worth it ❤️
Thank you for everything . I admire and respect you so so much. ❤❤❤
The algorithm sometimes knows what I need better than myself?
I went from a physically abusive relationship (2013-2017) to one with a person with NPD (2017-2020), with verbal bashings and belittling, sexual coercion and gaslighting..when I’d go see my friends? He would constantly txt and try to keep my attention on HIM…I thought back then? How cute! Looking back now? I know that’s a red flag.
For me? Having experienced both? Leaving the physical was so much easier mentally..the narcissist? Ugh I married him…I thought ? It was his alcoholism and if he stopped drinking he’d be the man I fell for? Wrong again…
I was a woman with a disability…and whom had just found out she had a neuroendocrine tumor …it was removed and I didn’t need anything else…but I had no one other than him…idk where the two friends I had went to?
But what you said at the beginning? Dont wait to leave and if you’re alone like me? Reach out to your local DV group!!
I left mine two years ago me and a Uhaul with two screaming cats…I was happy the first six months and felt hope but he’s done things he knows I will see…and see I have..my health now isn’t the best.
Everything you said I feel…I’m tired feeling small..I still don’t feel joy yet? I’ve had therapy but once I left I just kinda shut myself in my apt thinking if I did back to back abusive ships? I need to just be alone? But I’m scared of that too. I want to feel my joy again…everyday I try to…
Thank you for sharing your story…
I’ll be 50 this year and have spent the last few years getting to truly know and understand myself. Others may be wrong, but I can only change myself. It’s a long hard journey, literally changing the way I move and interact with those around me on the daily. But it can be done. If you need to reach out to someone a bit older and wiser for some guidance pls let me know darlin.
Much love XOXO
You look beautiful. Happy to support your quest for justice. May you succeed. Sending love and hugs. You go girl! ❤❤❤
I work in the justice system, and too many times have we seen DV victims drop charges and get scammed into going back. Stand your ground! Whatever he says, he's lying!! Just please remember that.
Very true! The more they return, the worse it gets. A guy who does DV NEVER gets better. He gets WORSE!!! It could end in unaliving.
@@Morrocanprincess I've unfortunately seen cases like that.
That was me. Twice. His lawyer sat me down and said if I testified it would ruin his life, he’d never be able to get a job or pay his bills. So I didn’t and he got a peace bond and I went back. I eventually left for good but unfortunately he did it to his next girlfriend. It’s hard to forgive myself. He died of a drug overdose last year so I’ve been able to process a lot of stuff. You’re right, they will say what you want to hear. Leave the FIRST time it happens.
@@Liahs333 My goodness, I'm so sorry that happened to you. Glad you are doing better! And frankly, he got what was coming to him.
Please, justice system doesn't do anything to protect us or our children during or after. It's a pay to win branch of government. All these men need is a decent lawyer and even extreme cases can get off with a decade of probation and still access to the kids.. only to hurt the kids in the exact same ways later. Going back is just choosing the familiar trauma vs. all the new ones of poverty, injustice, judgment, and powerlessness. Protective orders don't block them from breaking down your door whenever they please.
Woman, understand, nobody needs a partner to be happy. Freedom, peace, safety are everything. I have been single for a long long time and it was THE VERY BEST decision I have ever taken.
I basically said the same.🤍
The same with me. It is so true what you say. I've been single for years and don't have the slightest desire to be in a relationship. I am in love with myself and truly happy.
Preach it!
💯 AGREE, nooo one to answer to or please except good ol’ meee 😁
Same! I used to think I always needed to be in a relationship, and it was one bad one after another. I finally decided to not date at all for 1 year. I wanted to learn to love myself and figure out exactly what I wanted. That was like 9 years ago, and they’ve been a great 9 years. 😂 My friends try to get me to date, but all they ever do is complain about their husbands and boyfriends. Like…why would I want that? If I organically meet someone, and I really connect with them, I would go for it, but I’m definitely not seeking it out.
I went from an abusive relationship right into another one, it was a fast three years but I survived & now I’ve been married (almost) 10 years to the most amazing man. He’s helped me raise my oldest & gave me two more beautiful babies. We heal & the other side is SO worth the fight!! 💗
So very, very happy for you. Bless you and your family🤍🇨🇦
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My friend was just murdered by her boyfriend a month ago. So proud of yourself for getting out. As a domestic abused survivor and then having my friend recently murdered. I thought that could have been me. Don’t give up! Have faith. Sit with the emotions and pain then allow it to transmute out. Take all the time you need to soothe yourself, heal your heart beautiful. You are loved, supported and never alone’ 🫶🏼will pray for you
Wishing you the best
@@elbt101 thank you 🫶🏼
I am so sorry for your loss. It's so unimaginable but I hope you have the support you need so that you can heal too. It may take a lifetime to heal but there is a way to do it with grace. Much light, love, and good vibes.
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost a friend to DV as well, I was looking for your comment because I saw it like as a preview comment and then lost it. But I found it and I just wanted to extend my condolences and say I'm glad you're safe too ❤
😳 sorry for your loss! how did he kill your friend and is he going to prison??
Oh honey...you are not alone. We are right here with you. As a domestic violence survivor, I could feel your fear and pain through my phone and my heart breaks for you. Just know you are so worthy and so strong and you will rise above
When I was a young nurse I had a patient who was beaten by her husband with a tire iron. She barely survived and wasn’t recognizable as even human. It was so bad. Her children ran crying from the room calling her a monster. He ran from the police. He wasn’t finished. He came to the hospital that night to finish her off. We were notified and hid her and he was arrested. I’ve never forgotten her and think about her often and that was 20 years ago. My point is they don’t change. She told me she left many times but returned. You’re not alone. Be aware and be safe. Protect yourself. You will thrive!
I took a 3 year break to heal between relationships and still found another abusive partner. Some people are really good at hiding who they are & I also still needed to work on my self esteem. Always a work in progress, but getting better ever day!! You will get through this!! Sending all the love 🖤🖤
People DO hide who they really are. I think taking it really slow for at least 5 months will help you weed out any issues a person/partner may have, or show. It usually shows up by 5 months...
They are good at finding US. I now have been alone for 5 years now and I am so happy. I am 65 and if I find a partner ok and if not I am living my life how I want to. No one controlling me, or fighting with me, or putting hands on me. It’s heaven now.
@@Tracylyn42exactly. They seem to have an extra sense that shows them who is in a vulnerable state for them to destroy.
5 years! @@sharonm.t.2492
I haven’t dated since 2018. Not sure I ever will again! I have children who are having children so my life is full, I see no need to take that chance again. Just remember the first sign of possible DV get out!!
Your safety and health is all that matters! Those of us that have been with you forever will continue to be here!
I've been watching you for years, I did see notes and comments on other sites but I felt awkward about reaching out because I thought you might think I was invading your privacy and I do respect you. I admit I was worried, I thought with your illness that something had happened to you and I was very concerned. I am so happy to see you Mallory. I wish you love hun and peace of mind..... I wish I could just give you a hug sweetheart.... you deserve only good things.
I was in a life threatening marriage many years ago.. I was almost killed.. so I can imagine what you're going through . I was so afraid , all the time , with good reason.. remember to change your locks and keep your windows and doors locked ALL THE TIME... if you can have a friend or relative stay with you,do that...or stay with them at their home . If you're afraid like I was , it's a horrible situation to be in ... God bless you sweetheart, keep you so safe.. don't let him get away with it.. that was the only way he left me alone. Judge promised him he would do longer jail time if he came around ever again. Which he didn't, thank God... Now I'm worried about you ❤
I can imagine you are about the age of my daughter. She escaped a hellish marriage within an inch of her life. You have already made a BIG difference in this video alone. Some sweet girl is going to hear your message and gain the strength she needs to save herself. Thank you for sharing your heart.
I'm so proud of you Mallory. Not many women would have the strength to make a video about domestic violence. And yes I was married for 4 years to a terrible man and me and my son got out before it was to late! Sending love and light your way 💜🩷💜🤍💜🩷
My heart goes out to you Mallory. My father was a wife beater and child abuser. There were nights where I thought we’d all be murdered. You’re a survivor and you matter!
@@AnnaL-ku9yw in my case it was my mother, i often had that fear as well .. most nights were me lying in bed afraid that my 3 younger sisters were probably terrified out of their minds n almost certain that this would be the night where she would succeed in killing my daddy! She had tried ran him over with her car, she stabbed him and she shot him n she never once went to jail for any of it! I doht think they thought back then that a woman would really do all that but i would love to know they always explained my dads injuries??! He def did not run himself over or stab himself or shoot himself!! That poor man was so in love with her i just dont get it! He divorced her when i was 6 remarried her when i was 11 and divorced again a year latter! He was even asking for her on his death bed! Their story went on so long with nothing but toxic behaviors that I'm surprised my dad lasted as long as he did in the second marriage ( not even a full year) i did learn from all this other thAt once you n your children can get out safely you CANT go back no matter what they promise! Your ex is an ex for a reason! You are out n alive you may not make it out alive again! 💯😢
Proud of you for pressing charges. My biggest regret in life is not going through with it.
Same.
Narcissists will do a number on you. Be proud of yourself for leaving. Not many do.
I left my husband (now ex) less than a week after he hit me the first and only time. It was life changing. We've been divorced for 2 years, and I still haven't been with anyone else. Nor do I see myself ever trusting anyone else. It's hard in the beginning, but I've come a long way. You will too. Just continue to feel the feelings that you are having, so you can go through the process. And keep your head up!
I hear you. I've been there. I've dated but, I don't think I'll ever trust another man again. We can go out on dates but getting married is not in the cards. And, I'm okay with that. Be well.🎉
@@irislopez-royal5048 Thank you. You too! =)
I’m so happy you said “if you have the means or you have people in your life to help you get out of that…” opposed to just saying “just leave!” I was held as a s-x sl-ve by an older man from 14 to 19 and you can’t “just leave” when he locks you in a dog kennel with a chain and padlock around your neck. But also, you can’t leave when he makes you sleep outside but you know if you open that gate, he’s gonna hear it and you’ll be in 100x worse trouble. Men especially don’t understand, and I am SO for your mission for women. Us women MUST stand to together (because 99% of men have no idea what it feels like to be scared just to exist in a world where half the people in it can end you with their bare hands-one punch, even).
Anyway, I escaped at 19 and my 20 year anniversary of my escape is in a month. I don’t know if it’s God, the universe, or just coincidence… but I keep being FLOODED with women who’ve walked the same roads I have lately. It’s time to tell our stories to not feel bad about it. I just started therapy and I’m working toward telling someone EVERYTHING for the first time… ever… and I have women like you to thank for it. So dry those tears my dear… one day you will be living your 20 years free, too. I love you, we all do ❤
Sending you strength, peace and love.
May the Lord Jesus be with you.❤🕊🙌🏻
I am so very sorry that you had to endure that. I send you healing thoughts.
I'm so very sorry this happened to you, you are a very strong lady!! I'm so happy you survived ❤🎉
Yes! I understand everything you are saying. YOU WILL survive and recover and be so much more than you were….❤❤stay stong💖🌻💖🌺 Liz
This resonates so much and I am so sorry..it’s been 8 years now since my ex tried to kill me. There’s so many things we could say..I remember I couldn’t even buy myself new underwear without being accused I was cheating. All the gaslighting. It’s terrible. I’m still struggling. It does change you. You will get through this babe. I love you and you’re not alone ❤️
Wow...and your story resonates with me. It's been a month and 2 days since I almost lost my life. The things you are describing here are all too familiar. I love you, and thank you for sharing with me because it does make me feel so so so much less alone.
Stay strong 🖤 find and celebrate your accomplishments every day
@@ImMalloryBrooke Be kind to yourself, it is not your fault! You are valid.
So sorry to hear this 😢
I answered a Craigslist post for a studio for rent. When i got there he put 2 different types of a date rape drug into my drink. Long story short, i was unconscious for 15 hrs while he raped me and God only knows what else, as i can't remember anything still. I woke up naked in his bed! It took 7 mosfor the rape kit to come back. During that time the Sheriffs dept failed me bigtime! They were supposed to be keeping an eye on him and yet he sild his house and took off to Thailand to escape going to prison for the rest of his life.
This happened 4 yrs ago and i still struggle!
Take care and know you're loved and cared about... Stay safe as well!!💜💜💜
I’m so sorry that happened to you! 🥺
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Sending love to you x
@@Hvnly9 Awe thank you 💜
@@amla88 Thank you💜
So sorry you went through this. It angers me the way men think they can get away with it...and then they do. Prayers 🙏 go to you
These dudes ain't sh!t, I swear. I'm so tired of hearing about this happening to women. Makes me happy to be single and childfree because no one deserves this.
Why we choose The Bear! ❤
Men aren’t held accountable. Other men will still be friends with men like this and literally act like nothing happened, or even support them. This is part of what keeps enabling them. There are so many things wrong with our society that it constantly enables this behavior in men.
Right..? I have daughters and i swear i will go to jail for them if a man touches them
Oh sweet girl, I missed you. I’ve watched you for years, the first video I watched you had just moved into your own first place after the separation from your first marriage. I’ve wondered where you were, I thought you were ill and I didn’t want to bother you.
Think of me as a grandma that you can reach out to when needed. I will be 68 on the 13th but I seriously enjoy your channel and I get ideas to share with my daughters and granddaughters. I wish you the best, I’m glad you are back and I’ll continue watching sweety. I understand alot from where you’re coming from, “getting in trouble “ got me. I’m in west Texas a small dusty town! Keep your head up! ❤❤❤❤
Makeup can be armor. Seriously. Even during WWII women used red lipstick as a sign of liberty/victory and to feel good even in difficult times. Ancient female warriors painted their faces. Through my divorce I made myself put on makeup even if I couldn't muster anything else because once I got that done I usually felt better and could do more. It was also my way of showing myself and others that I would not be defeated. My mother and grandmother Always wore lipstick, even when going through things. I remember my mother crying in the car, then wiping her eyes. Grabbing her Revlon lipstick, and watching her put it on inthe car mirror and then her seeing little me watching and she smiled at me. It was what I now realize was her brave face.
Amen!
Cried reading the last part. Beautiful! Warrior women!
I am also a dv survivor. I know how hard it is to come forward. I had people we knew not believe me. Other women, I trusted, did not believe me. Even a police officer. I thank God for the people who finally did believe me and helped me escape. That was over 12 years ago. I’ve done alot of work in healing, and will probably always continue that work. But my life now is so good. I am so proud of you, for all you’ve overcome, and I’m praying for you Mallory 💜
I'm with you. Reading your testimony felt like my own. Down to 1 law enforcement officer (who was sleeping with him). I had a shelter ask me to leave with 3 children because my ex-husband told law enforcement he knew where the shelter was located and what all he was going to do. I've had to walk away with just the clothes on my back and start all over: new city/town, job with nothing. It will get easier.
Been there darlin, many years ago. My advice: Get your grief out, then get ANGRY, then get wise. It's likely going to be like war, so move wisely. And whatever you do, DO NOT let him know where you are emotionally. In fact, don't talk to him (or any of his people) at all. You WILL survive this and be so much stronger when it's over.
Getting out of an abusive relationship is hell on earth. It took me 6 years to escape mine. You have a voice and a platform and just sharing this small portion of your story has the potential to help so many in similar situations. You aren’t alone and you are strong than you even realize.
I was in a toxic, narcassistic relationship for 20 years. It started amazing. Things took a turn once I had my oldest and went through post pardum. It's like he took advantage of my brain not functioning properly and he wrecked me. I kept trying to push through and advance myself, but had more kids in a stupor. Towards the end, he was the worst he's ever been with me. He had choked me, raped me regularly, squeezed me, held me down, verbally abusive, financially abusive, emotionally abusive, and then it turned to verbal abuse and intimidation towards the kids. I knew I needed to get out. I took all the steps and I'm 5 months out.
I feel all of the emotions you are currently feeling, and it does get better. You need to break the trauma bond and heal.
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I’m glad you are safe now. Gather your support system around you, you are not alone!
I'm so sorry Mallory. I got out of an abusive relationship 7 years ago. I'm still affected by it. It was physical, emotional, financial.. you name it. I lost so much. I lost myself. You are incredibly vulnerable right now and will be for a long time. Be mindful of this and don't make any rash decisions. Aim for balance in every way possible. Eat (it helps your brain), sleep, exercise, time with safe people, time to reflect. You can get through the trial. You will take all of this a day at a time, or a minute at a time if you have to.
How did you get out? How does one get out when they are trapped? No finances, no familial support? Just how?
@@Portia1416 I took advantage of him cheating on me. I was packing for months. My mom would drive 100s of miles and take belongings. Things unexpectedly took a bad turn so my brother (who was away on holiday) came and got me. By this point my ex was absolutely besotted with someone else, and this was my saving grace. I had to move in with my mom 100s of miles away eventually. I was too vulnerable. I lost my job and the apartment after paying his mortgage for 5yrs. I'd be screwed if I didn't have my mom
Makeup 💄=self care ❤aka : war paint ! My grandmother in her hospital bed / dead bed ….. told me ……after I walked into the room …… Michelle …. Can you get my red lipstick 💄 and put some on me …….. ❤! Love you! You are not alone ! You will become a better version of yourself! …… 😊
I have been married and divorced twice. Both men were abusive. I have been with my fiancé now for 10 wonderful years. Together we have healed from our past. We grow stronger together every day. There are good men out there. Don’t ever settle. You deserve the best. We all do.
You are not alone. When you feel too weak to even stand, let us help hold you up. Well walk with you. Well be your support. You are supported. You are seen. You are safe.
You are everything ❤️ This means the worrrrrld to me🥲
You are not alone Mallory! As much as it may feel like you are at times, you are not! As a survivor, of DV, of sexual assault, and of alcohol and substance abuse, I write to you with 5.5 years of sobriety and recovery. Sometimes it is a struggle just to get out of bed in the mornings, but it’s still easier than life was in THOSE days! You’re brave, courageous, fierce, and beautiful inside and out. And even though you may not feel it right now, you are a warrior! You will help other women. You’re an inspiration! I already loved you, and now I just love you even more! Kindred spirits! ✌🏼❤️
You've been through horrific things, and what I hear is that you're going into your butterfly phase--now is your time to shine, to fly, to be free. Thank you for coming back and sharing with all of us.
Please dont feel like you have to be sorry for being absent from your channel. You are not defined by the title “ beauty influencer “. You are first and foremost Mallory, and you are the most important person before any beauty video. Take care of you and come back stronger and more at peace with your life and yourself. We will all be here with you as you do your best to regain your life and joy🩷
My dad actually died because of domestic violence. I am so sorry. I’m a long time viewer. You have an army behind you. Please let us know if you need us. ❤❤❤❤
You have a whole community to help lift you up and get you through this. You are not alone. Welcome back
They say getting out is the hardest part but those of us who have successfully survived knows that every part is hard, including some you don't even think of. My first abuser was physical my second abuser was mental emotional and financial and I told myself because he wasn't hitting me it wasn't abuse. I honestly think my second abuser cherry picked me based on what I had been through, he always said all the right things in the beginning. I don't know if you have a victims advocacy group where you are but in New Jersey they were able to put me in touch with the right people & hold my hand through the entire process including court appearances. And while it may not feel like it right now, you have already won and I promise you are going to find strength you never knew you had. I am so proud of you for surviving 💜
EVERY PART IS THE HARD PART. Getting out is truly just the beginning of the strength we have to show to survive the rest of our lives. Thank you for sharing this because they do see the vulnerability, and USE that weakness for control, and whatever else they want from their victims. I need to find a group for sure. Thank you love, and I am so proud of YOU.
@@ImMalloryBrooke There is strength to be found in every survivor story & sharing them might help someone else find the courage to get out. I would never change a moment of what I went through because it made me who I am today.
Oh Mallory, you're breaking my heart. I wish I could give you a giant hug. I've watched you since Alaska days and will continue to be here for you. You are loved, you matter. ❤️
I don’t know you personally, but I’ve been watching your videos for around a decade, so you have a familiarity in my life and I have missed seeing you around. I’m so very sorry you’ve had to endure the things you have. I’m so glad you were able to make it out. I am rooting for you and your happiness.
The last man who lived in my house with me, far too soon, who seemed too good to be true...was. It didnt take too long and for that im grateful. He had a substance abuse issue that emerged after the honeymoon period. Our last night together he was drunk with his huge hands around my throat. I was 58. He was 43. I haven't dated since. That was 6 years ago. I didn't trust my judgement. How could I have not seen it? My peace is far more important than companionship.
This video, along with the members video, has just ripped my heart out. The things you went through coupled with all the comments of similar situations is just heartbreaking. And unfortunately, I have been there too with a former relationship. We stand with you, Mallory. We have your back. I'm so excited to see you on CZcams again, and I'm looking forward to your future endeavors and channels. I hate that you've gone through this and that you're having to relive it over and over. But we are here for you if for nothing more than to offer encouragement. ❤
As a DV survivor, I'm sending you love and light as you go through this painful journey. Remember, you have people who love you and are pulling for you. God bless
there is not a man in the world worth going through the pain we go through when things go south/truth comes out. I spent my entire life thinking I needed a man in it, 5 husbands, 3 were absolutely dismal choices and now I’ve been single for 5 years, nothing, nada, none, and I’ve never been more at peace. I have always lost myself in relationships. The only men worth my time are my three sons, oh and my dog Charlie. My dad used to tell me “this too shall pass.” I’d glare at him and say ya right. But he was right. At some point you find your peace, your spot in this journey. Don’t be too hard on yourself. All the bad that happens, teaches us so many lessons!💖🥰
I hope your three son’s are kind and respect women. That’s what we need in this world, is for son’s to be raised to value women, respect them, and treat them as their equal. So many men think women are property, and they can treat them however they want. This comment thread is heartbreaking! The amount of women who have been in abusive relationships *JUST ON THIS SINGLE VIDEO* is insane!
I just wish mom’s of son’s would do better.
I'm one of those viewers from before the Alaska days and seeing you so sad is just heartbreaking. Whatever content and journey you wish to take we will be here. You are not alone ❤️
Sending you all the positivity and love. And as a chronically ill entrepreneur, please, please, don't overwork. Nobody is going anywhere, and you deserve to pace yourself.
I know it is emotionally hard now, but I always choose to look at the bright side. I see a strong woman who could get rid of an abusive relationship. Darling, look at the mirror, and finally realise you're FREE now. The worst is gone! Now, the path is open for YOU to CHOOSE the way to go. YOU'RE FINALLY CHOOSING, not someone else. FEEL THE FREEDOM. ENJOY THE FREEDOM. Right now, you have the control again. You're not controlled anymore. You're a winner, a warrior, and I bet a lot of good stuff is on your way. I'm sending you prayer and lots of good vibes.
Aaah Mallory, I’m crying along with you, I went from a very abusive marriage straight into another toxic relationship, I got out, I was lucky my Nan took me in, sending you so much love and strength, we will all be here supporting you every step of the way ♥️♥️♥️
You have value because you were born. Helping others is wonderful and the best thing we all can do but you don’t have to do another thing to prove your worth.
I'm sorry to hear all you've been through. I've had a "situation," and it takes a toll on your health for sure. If you're already dealing with a chronic health issue, it further impacts it. Been through it all myself. It's unnerving to feel "unsafe". Big hug 🫂 You will manage it all and be ok. That day will come. 💞
Mallory, my heart is so heavy to hear that you have been through DA and are battling in court. I have watched your channel for years and truly love your content and all that you have shared from your heart over the years. Just reading through the comments here shows what an awesome community you have built. I am sending so much love your way. I hope you feel the solid ground beneath your feet. I hope you feel the warmth and love of this community surrounding you- like a huge protective shield. We stand with you. Always.❤
Mallory, I’ve watched you on and off since the beginning your channel, I just want to say that I have so so much respect you. I’m grateful that you chose to share the not so glamorous parts of your life with us as well. I’m a sending you lots of love, because you deserve the absolute best ❤
Sending you prayers and positive/healing thoughts ! I ‘ve missed your videos! Your health is more important than us ! You don’t have to explain !……. Thank you for all your inspiration! You are not alone ! Love you!
Love you! Definitely have to explain, because of what happened to me so I can save others from what I went through.
@@ImMalloryBrookegot it ! Thanks for sharing !
I’ve been watching you since I was in high school and as a 27 year old woman who’s been through a toxic relationship, I am so proud of you and you are not alone. ❤
Don’t beat yourself up. I went from one to another, before I started to recognize what and why I was doing it. I grew up in domestic violence, so for me I was doing what felt normal. You will survive this. You will come out different, but you will come out of it. You are not alone.
Oh my goodness! 😭😤 That awful man , God will deal with him! I’m so sorry this happened to you. Mallory, I encourage you to get back into the word of God, it will really help you. I have been in two abusive relationships and I would not be here without God! I haven’t been with anyone for 30 years. I’m content with what I have. I have watched you since your Seattle days, you have been through so much. I’m sending lots of hugs to you.
I’m praying for you and your fur babies, we all love you and want the best for you. Take time to rest, heal, please take care of yourself. You are worth it! You are a very strong woman and I admire you for your courage.
Love you Mallory, ✝️🛐🙏🏻❤️❤️
Mal, you matter. You're here now to use your voice for the ones that didn't, can't, or haven't. I hope you have someone who can be with you so that you're not alone.
much love to you
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It has been 5 years for me Mallory,
Watching this video made me realize we are all not that different
Hugging you, holding you, watching you❤️❤️
You’ll be ok
I'm an abusive survivor as well and thankful to hear you got out! I went through a few abusive relationships in my teens and early 20s. The scariest one escalated days after I got out of the hospital after having surgery. It seems like this is something abusers do - something in your life is challenging, whether it's work, health or family, and instead of being supportive they get more selfish and ramp up the control and abuse. I got lucky and got out just in time with the help of the police. Hang in there, you got this! The healing process takes time. Surround yourself with a few trusted people and give yourself some grace. And for others watching and reading this and you're in the same situation, please reach out for help. I know it's embarrassing and scary but I promise your family and friends want you out of it and safe, that's all that matters.
I wish there were something to say that would alleviate the pain, even for a moment. I guess the best I can do is say we'll be here, so take your time.
I guarantee you have already helped countless others and have no doubt you will triumph and kick ass in all that you do moving forward! You have been missed, so glad to see you back❤
Love, a fellow Behcets sufferer. I have been in crisis recently, been on every med, low dose Cytoxin, lost all my hair, sick as a dog all for it to not work! Now, back on Methotrexate injections. Health is so important!!! Stress will ONLY exasperate your condition. You are so strong, you've got this Ma!!! We are all here for you, you are NOT alone!! Thank you for speaking up. You are worthy and beautiful !!! Be well we love you!!! Xoxo
Girl, I wasn't allowed to clean my garage. I was told, "That's a man's place," and I had no business other than laundry. The rules never made sense. It's all about control. Thank God you got out!
When you say "getting in trouble" I know EXACTLY what you mean. My last relationship made me feel like a scared child. 💕 You will get through this 💕 I am sorry you had to experience an abusive relationship once again but you will persevere. Love you girl 🩷
I saw the bruise before you even started speaking. My heart broke 😢 I'm glad you got out, Mallory 💜
Where is the bruise?
Don’t ever let some Di** Hea* with a fake heart steal yours. Try to put a protective cover in your mind and true spirit of who YOU are. Sometimes it can happen 2 or 3 times in a row. It takes time with creeps in disguise to rear their ugly side. So sorry that happened to you! ❤️I have 3 older sisters and girlfriends whom I’ve seen some real bs. They had to go through. Stay tough. You are worth it!!
You could always do crowd funding for your lawyers! It’s called crowd justice I believe. Also if filming 3x a week is too much just do what you can! ❤ take care of yourself
Yes! Please let us help you in any way we can Mal!
I was in a very abusive relationship for 5 years and then jumped right into another one. You’re NOT alone! I’ve taken the last few years to heal. Take your time, find your peace. ❤
Mallory, I’m glad you are back. I’m not even half way through, but thank you so much for sharing such an important message with your followers. On another note, health issues are so scary too. 💕you were missed! Sending you love & light!
Oh, Mallory…Girl, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. So brave of you to share with us. PTSD is very real and my heart breaks for you. 💗💗
Hi mallory, im ur subscriber from hong kong, i’ve been watching ur videos for many years, love ur recommendations and all the beauty and hair tutorials. You are a very stylish influencer . Just want to say you are stronger than you think, we are here to support you, do not go back to the person who hurt you, be brave to say no
Girl, I am so sorry 🖤 I am so grateful you came out alive. Please take time to grieve and allow yourself to process everything fully. I recently watched a video by disociadid explaining the 5 F's, and it helped me realize how long I have been living in 'Fawn mode'. Please give yourself grace 🖤
You are not alone - your platform will help so many others.
You are beautiful inside and out. Our faces are a canvas for makeup to make us ‘fancy’.
Take care of yourself and let yourself heal.
You're so far from alone, you've got a whole world of women that understand without you ever having to say anything. And as a survivor, I know you're going to be okay with time. I'm glad to see you back on CZcams, even if we all cried during this video.
You are not alone; hold your head up high. I, too, went through unspeakable things at someone else's hands. It changes you as a person, for the best and worst. I chose never to date again and live my best life, going further on my own terms.
This pain will subside, but you'll carry memories. You get to decide if it eats you alive long-term or builds you stronger.
I used to work as a stylist and makeup artist. But I’ve been a SAHM for seven years. I still love beauty, and I’m always on a health and fitness journey. I look forward to your new content and I’m so excited for you to get back to creating more of what you want.
I am a domestic abuse survivor, I was married for 18 years to an abusive husband. It will get better I promise. I had two children and when he broke my arm I took the kids and left with only the clothes on our backs. So I speak from experience it can only get better from here.
I'm so sorry that you are going thru this. Know that you are strong and will overcome this. My co-worker and I were discussing our past abusive relationships a couple of days ago. The funny thing is, at the time I was in that relationship, I didn't realise that I was being abused. He would say and do things that would make me think, "What is wrong with you?" Then one day he showed up at my dorm room demanding that I pack my things and leave with him. He followed me to class, getting angrier and angrier. I looked at him and realised that if there weren't people in that classroom with me, he would have ended me. You are going to survive. You are going to thrive. You will rise like a Phoenix. Bless you.
I hope you become truly free from your situation. You deserve all the great things in the world. I can tell how scared you are. I hope you find that inner peace, healing and the allowance to live authenticly Mallory ❤
Thank you for sharing your story, Mallory. I imagine it’s uncomfortable to share the deepest parts of your trauma to the internet, but I believe your story is making an impact. You are resilient! Sending love your way ❤
Aww lovely, I'm so sorry for what you are going through, I suffered domestic abuse from the age of 17 until 35, three relationships one after the other, then I met my lovely husband, we started off as friends first and I really got to know him for about 7 months before we got together properly, he was a wonderful kind careing man and we had 20 wonderful years together until cancer took him from me, I feel quite lost and lonely now but I have my little dog and my two boys so I'm just taking things one day at a time, that's what you need to do, just take things one day at a time and focus on your wellbeing, things will get better, your a beautiful person inside and out and I love watching your videos ❤
Hey, so sad for you and the fact that your going through this horrible time in your life. Please know that you are a beautiful, caring , loving person and this was not your fault. You will get through this and it will get better. You will meet the man that you are meant to be with and who will love and cherish you. Better things are waiting for you, so please don't give up. Most of all Don't settle for anything less than what you want in life !!!!!! Continue to be the beautiful soul that you are❤❤❤❤
I’ve been here since Alaska (even before?!) and I can say, at first I watched you for your TALENT(which is undeniable, hun, you are a beauty wizard..) but I have stayed because you are true to yourself. By sharing the LITERAL SHITSTORM life has handed to you, and seeing you battle and rise, battle and rise again…gives hope to us all in whatever minor or major situation we find ourselves in. You are the definition of perseverance. That’s why I watch. Always in your corner❤
Thank you for opening up, Mallory! You can be so proud of yourself.
Thank you for creating beautiful content. We are here for you and we appreciate you 🫶
Happy to see you again. I can see the stress on you.
I went through 29 years of it. Nothing physical, but I do remember the fear of "getting in trouble". Lots of breaking furnature in front of me. Emotional/verbal abuse mostly. Stay strong and keep pepper spray and a strong flashlight by your bedside.
My favorite videos of yours was between divorce and new guy. My best to you.
I’ve been thinking about you. I’m a 52 y/o Grandma that was in a bad 1st marriage and I was able to get out and I stayed too long. I had 2 young boys, but, I was so much happier when I got out. Speaking of being happy, on a happier note, I love your hair and makeup videos! I’m looking forward to ALL of your new content.
thank you, i have abused 2 times in my life. YWCA abuse helped me in memphis. Later in another county I had no help. I pressed charges and had to go to court many times and write a victims impact statement. He had to serve 2 years. I am still scared. i am on hyper alert. to get a restraining order you have to face them once a year. and agrivate the monster. I am just trying to lay low.
I just want to say I love you and you are strong and you can finally live out loud- the way YOU WANT! I have been a subscriber since the beginning and I truly believe your struggles have not been for nothing. You will change lives and help people through your videos and work. Never forget, you are amazing. You are worthy, you are YOU and that is exactly who you are supposed to be. xoxo
I am so sorry you have gone through all this trauma. All i can say is I’m praying for you. God loves you, and He will never leave you.
Fellow DV survivor (the club that no one wants to be in) I'm proud of you. Im praying for you. Im happy for the freedom you have now! Unfortunately I have a child with my abuser so every now and then I still get emotionally triggered/hurt by him but I am so much happier with my freedom! We are here for you love
Everything you went through wasn’t nothing, it made you stronger. Just know, we support you & you’re not alone ❤ I have been in a domestic violence relationship but not a physical one luckily. Just everything else, but I’m glad I’m out of it. I have been for 6 years in September.
Oh, Sweetie, I don’t even follow your channel, but my heart really goes out to you. I went through this decades ago, in my 20’s. I was in it for over 6 years. It was insane-just as you said, like a terrible movie. I went through so therapy, thought I was good. Then I got into a terrible, emotionally abusive marriage?!?!Finally, after some focused work, and time alone, I found the right person. We’ve been married for almost 29 years. There IS life after the chaos and disappointment. Keep caring for yourself, and doing what you love. You are young and lovely, and You’ve got the right attitude.
I’ve watched you for a few years now, I just want to say I think you’re incredibly strong and you will come through this even stronger.
I’m rooting for you girl! I have been watching you since the Alaska days. You are STRONG. You have been through so so much and survived, and you will continue to survive and you will thrive. You deserve peace and safety and love. Thank you so much for catching us up
Hi Mallory, I will not pretend to know how you are feeling, but I will say this, I will pray for you, and you speak about worth. You are very worthy of a life without fear and a life filled with joy on living the way you desire and deserve. Thank you for sharing and I'm so glad to see you back.on YT.!! I wish you the best in healing and moving forward, just always remember, you are never alone. ❤
Your story matters to many. You are not alone. I just found your channel and already admire your bravery
You are not alone and you are a brave woman. Thank you for sharing
Its so scary how knowing whats bad for you is actually what feels most safe and familiar to your brain. And the sad thing is most women don’t notice at the beginning at all because of this very reason. You can date the same type/ abusive behavior over and over again but the relationship or person you’re dating can be so different in other ways that they just don’t notice the signs or patterns before its too late. It’s tragic and really difficult to break a cycle like that especially when trauma or habits are involved 😢 praying for you tonight my dear. You are so strong ♥️
You are spot on with this, and I feel like this is something that isn't talked about enough, and then the women get blamed for choosing the "wrong men"...well that is the cycle of abuse, and when you have no self esteem because of being abused...what is expected?!!! Anyone love you and thank you
Mallory I don’t even know what to say. So I’ll say I love you and I’m so sorry this happened to you. Truly, if I could be with you I would hug you and tell you how wonderful and beautiful you are. You deserve the sun and the moon, when you truly believe that, love that really is love will come to you❤️hang in there my gorgeous warrior. You’ve got this! You’re helping so many people!
As a DV survivor myself, and a survivor of SA, I really feel for you. I’m so proud of you for sharing everything! You are so strong and so many women go through this and it’s never talked about. Men in society need to be held accountable. Sending all the support and healing energy.
i never normally comment, but i had to today. You are so so brave, and u didn't deserve it, and it was not ur fault. It wasn't all for nothing, u have learnt a valuable lesson which u can teach others because of ur position online. I dont know if you believe in god, but i believe horrible people get their come ups, and will have to answer for their sins, and every tear u have cried will be accountable by that person.
Watching you today literally had me in tears, and im sending love via this message. Stay strong. We are all here for you. Dont be sorry for your pain. ❤❤❤❤❤
I’m so sorry you’re been going through this. You’re very brave. You will get through all of this. We are with you 😊😊
Awe I hate to hear that you’ve gone through this. 😢I was in an abusive marriage for 13 years and I pray that my 2 daughters never have to go through that.
One of the things that I used to hate was how easy it was for people to excuse abuse My ex would say “she’s just unstable” and that would be enough for people to dismiss what I was going through. What they need to understand is stability is something that is learned and when you are constantly having the rug pulled out from under you you aren’t going to react to things the same as someone from a stable environment. That shouldn’t be a justification for women to “deserve” horrible treatment from horrible controlling men. Sending you love and good vibes.❤❤
Wow my first one was also 13 years! My friend you are incredibly strong, and WOW DID YOUR COMMENT GO STRAIGHT TO MY HEART...shared it on IG just now. Standing O right here. Love you!
@@ImMalloryBrooke Love you too girl…you got this♥️
What @myshitty reviews said isTRUE !! Stability is something that HAS the be learned because your system developed in response to threats - it works to keep you alive during threats but “stability” and other different responses are something that hasn’t been modelled let alone taught. We love you. We are here with you, you are so brave, you will get to live the life you want to live let alone get through this- it might feel like passing razor blades but you will. I’m sending love thank you for sharing with us. It makes sense that sharing would be scary - there are lots assholes in the world. We are here also