Why Exes Should NOT Be Friends | 4 Girls VS 4 Guys

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  • čas přidán 15. 01. 2024
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  • @DavidAlvareeezy
    @DavidAlvareeezy  Před 4 měsíci +2895

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      @dashar5725 Před 4 měsíci +7

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  • @miksisfragile
    @miksisfragile Před 4 měsíci +33556

    The “exes can’t be friends” argument while Tara and Jake are both in the room is wild

    • @jauzkaiye
      @jauzkaiye Před 4 měsíci +653

      RIGHT

    • @Youknowsucker
      @Youknowsucker Před 4 měsíci +8

      AND THEY BOTH AGREE WITH NO

    • @sheridan7475
      @sheridan7475 Před 4 měsíci +807

      I feel like they’re more than friends 🥲

    • @Unclegreg4_2o
      @Unclegreg4_2o Před 4 měsíci +97

      @@sheridan7475SAME AHAHA

    • @riritsun
      @riritsun Před 4 měsíci +182

      @@sheridan7475 they were, they broke up

  • @may-qf1kq
    @may-qf1kq Před 4 měsíci +20177

    i love taras giggles whenever jake makes a joke while everyone else looks horrified

  • @annag1468
    @annag1468 Před 4 měsíci +7120

    Mitsy ate with the “ you didn’t even get her name right “ when she tried to say Tara was a friend 😭😭

  • @sov05
    @sov05 Před 4 měsíci +3835

    Calling her your friend and then saying her name wrong multiple times is CRAZZYY

    • @Fiveditsxz0
      @Fiveditsxz0 Před 2 měsíci +9

      FRRRR

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor Před 2 měsíci +59

      She has a very loose definition of friendship. If it was just for the video that would make sense but she seemed pretty serious about it lol

    • @Kapados_
      @Kapados_ Před 2 měsíci +43

      ​@@ComedyGlorlike hunter(?) said, she is probably just out of touch with the term friends because she is surrounded by all these other influencers that are basicly work friends.

    • @Gamfluent
      @Gamfluent Před 2 měsíci +17

      Why are all the comments taking it serious when it’s meant to be a debate show

    • @gabyfc101
      @gabyfc101 Před měsícem +28

      The girl in green literally said it was an accident. Its not that deep. Their mutual friends not besties lol.

  • @bella-ch5kj
    @bella-ch5kj Před 4 měsíci +14455

    jake and tara are literally proof exes can be friends

    • @Raneemity
      @Raneemity Před 4 měsíci +290

      *with benefits

    • @fernandagudino2935
      @fernandagudino2935 Před 4 měsíci +308

      Hmm but when that girl said "say we are dating" to Jake and Tara made a face its kinda like hmm can exes really just be friends idk maybe after some time goes by they can but I feel like feelings don't go away that soon after you breakup, especially after such a serious relationship yk? Idk I love them both so much but I just sometimes think exes can't be friends when there's feelings involved

    • @ErgoJunglistix
      @ErgoJunglistix Před 4 měsíci +17

      ​@@Raneemity I dont think that's them

    • @ettimira444
      @ettimira444 Před 4 měsíci +23

      be for real

    • @Teeplesexe
      @Teeplesexe Před 4 měsíci +140

      @@fernandagudino2935they absolutely still have feelings for each other they are pretty open about that. but they aren't together, they are friends, that's the point. just because you have feelings for someone doesn't mean you can't be friends

  • @aasiyahhasan7664
    @aasiyahhasan7664 Před 4 měsíci +15907

    The cheating emotionally v. physically convo is always interesting to me because they're both 100% unforgivable imo🤷‍♀️

    • @prinaecess
      @prinaecess Před 4 měsíci +868

      agreed. cheating is cheating regardless of it being emotional or physical

    • @lor962
      @lor962 Před 4 měsíci +308

      Yea I mean for me the relationship is dead either way but I'd rather it be physically than emotionally

    • @jamesbaggett3655
      @jamesbaggett3655 Před 4 měsíci

      woah
      @@lor962

    • @soullessnight6539
      @soullessnight6539 Před 4 měsíci +54

      @@lor962so you would rather your girlfriend not love you but be in love someone else. The fact she actually loves someone else is forgivable but not a one night stand. Interesting.

    • @J-tt1lu
      @J-tt1lu Před 4 měsíci

      @@lor962hopefully with the added benefit of STDs!

  • @joeyps2861
    @joeyps2861 Před 3 měsíci +535

    I’ve only seen Mitsy act in skits, so I gotta say I did NOT expect her to be so extremely shy 😭

    • @juliettecharron6717
      @juliettecharron6717 Před 2 měsíci +35

      Ahahah she’s just like me. I just can’t talk / think when a group of people are looking at me, I find it really intimidating. But I’m ok on one on one even with people I think are really cool 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @gutsswife9023
      @gutsswife9023 Před měsícem +5

      She's so cute tho😭

  • @JustJoan
    @JustJoan Před 4 měsíci +804

    Jake and Tara are physical proof that it is possible. In their literal break up video, they were full on snacking on pizza and other food and just talking to eachother. They were doing that like the king and queen they are. 😂❤

  • @Lena.kpp_
    @Lena.kpp_ Před 4 měsíci +6560

    I love how Tara gets Jakes humour and laughs at his jokes

    • @igoriliev5305
      @igoriliev5305 Před 4 měsíci +137

      Its almost like they were together for multiple years 😂😂

    • @stillclouds
      @stillclouds Před 4 měsíci

      she doesn't even bother to put any input when he talks cause she knows and is just watching the girls squirm XD

    • @pretty.in.blue.
      @pretty.in.blue. Před 3 měsíci

      It might seem crazy what I'm bouta say..​@@igoriliev5305

  • @tabithadeleon-david1621
    @tabithadeleon-david1621 Před 4 měsíci +8844

    Sorry but Hunter won that last one, being friends and being friendly are two totally different things.

    • @AK-ie2rp
      @AK-ie2rp Před 4 měsíci +381

      he ate that argument

    • @mouryavardhan7786
      @mouryavardhan7786 Před 4 měsíci +420

      The other girl got shut down TWICE. One by misty for ‘you don’t even know her name”and then by hunter “And that’s why….”

    • @jayleneaceves8310
      @jayleneaceves8310 Před 4 měsíci +484

      Facts dude !! No offense to that last girl but it was driving crazy that she wasn’t comprehending the difference between someone being “friendly” vs “being friends”. Two completely different things, I am friendly with my coworkers but I’m not friends with them. Someone can be friendly socially without slapping the label of being friends. As Hunter said a friend is someone you can call if you have a problem or someone u can depend on and vise versa. For example just because I’m friendly with the cashier at Target doesn’t mean we’re friends. Friendliness can often be confused as wanting to be friends and/or being friends, it all comes down to social cues and understanding your relationship with that other person. Hunter won that argument hands down.

    • @tellyg47
      @tellyg47 Před 4 měsíci +95

      @@jayleneaceves8310she understands them she was just defending the argument she was given. If she actually agreed with it she’ll probably had a more compelling argument 😪

    • @jayleneaceves8310
      @jayleneaceves8310 Před 4 měsíci +73

      @@tellyg47 yes I’m aware that they had to defend the card no matter what they actually believed. But I just believe her argument was weaker than hunter. She was dismissing the actual definition of being friendly vs friends. Hunter made a stronger argument in my opinion.

  • @wsdtailz2813
    @wsdtailz2813 Před 3 měsíci +133

    christian & misty’s interaction during the flirting question was so cute 😭 i was cheesing the whole time

  • @Duskdel
    @Duskdel Před 4 měsíci +621

    At 16:27 Oh my god💀 I love how both Tara and Jake felt weird when Alexis said “Let’s say I’m trying to date Jake,” LIKE AHH why would she say thattt😭

    • @AngelicaCastro-gc8gd
      @AngelicaCastro-gc8gd Před 4 měsíci +131

      Bruh she was giving an example that made quite sense, why would Tara even feel jealous if they are “just friends” goes on to prove the point in the last question… they’re not really just friends if there feelings there

    • @MySnowball14
      @MySnowball14 Před 4 měsíci +58

      @@AngelicaCastro-gc8gdno it's not that Tara was jealous, it's just a weird thing to say while knowing Jake and Tara were in a long term committed relationship. that's why jake said 'what the heck' lol

    • @Duskdel
      @Duskdel Před 4 měsíci +15

      @@AngelicaCastro-gc8gd I mean yeah personally I don’t think being friends with an ex is really ideal cause then it’s harder to get over each other and it’ll hurt more. But idk Alexis just gave me weird vibes like fake-girl vibes and just me personally it seemed like she thought jake was cute and that’s why she used him as an example. I can just see through her cause I’ve seen similar things happen before anddd they say things for a reason😭

    • @taylahocking7642
      @taylahocking7642 Před 4 měsíci +40

      she was giving an example for her side of the debate, she has a bf so obviously she didnt mean it in the way you ppl think

    • @taylahocking7642
      @taylahocking7642 Před 4 měsíci +26

      @@Duskdelshes literally dating alex wassabi, she doesnt want him😭

  • @trinitiparker7
    @trinitiparker7 Před 4 měsíci +6604

    when she said “say we were dating” to Jake, Tara’s face reaction would have been a perfect argument for Jake

    • @shutupnvibe
      @shutupnvibe Před 4 měsíci +164

      LOL her face had me weak 😂

    • @jenaissantegfriend
      @jenaissantegfriend Před 4 měsíci +16

      Timestamp?

    • @julianasofia960
      @julianasofia960 Před 4 měsíci +33

      @@jenaissantegfriend16:30

    • @Duskdel
      @Duskdel Před 4 měsíci +192

      Yeah I could read Tara’s mind when that girl said that cause I felt the same thing as Tara😂 Like I wouldn’t say that to Jake let alone in front of Tara😭

    • @ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx
      @ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx Před 4 měsíci +21

      @@Duskdel thats alexis she has a boyfriend

  • @lena__lu
    @lena__lu Před 4 měsíci +2695

    i love how jake and tara were completely silent during the whole "fiends with the ex" argument.

    • @Hellens.melons
      @Hellens.melons Před 4 měsíci +82

      I swear if it were me I would have been so loud I have no idea how they kept so quiet 😭

    • @tay_rizul
      @tay_rizul Před 2 měsíci +19

      It turned more into a “who are your friends” argument lolol let’s be honest

  • @myraaguirre5307
    @myraaguirre5307 Před 4 měsíci +97

    the guy in the red beetles shirt is a vibe!! hes giving saved by the bell, and 80's mullet. I am all the way here for it!!!!

  • @brecarlton938
    @brecarlton938 Před 4 měsíci +144

    Tara and Jake are literally definition of Ex’s can be friends. They both still adore one another, I mean look at how she laughs when he speaks

    • @mxmaddds
      @mxmaddds Před 4 měsíci +33

      be fr, they’re still painfully obviously in love with each other still.

    • @Starlight-37
      @Starlight-37 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@mxmadddsreal

    • @JMBBrasil
      @JMBBrasil Před měsícem +2

      Maybe she just still likes him

    • @slenderman-tz6tm
      @slenderman-tz6tm Před měsícem

      Yea but what happens when one gets in a relationship

  • @ElectricPansies
    @ElectricPansies Před 4 měsíci +3591

    What Alexis is defining as ‘friends’ is actually ‘acquaintances’ in my opinion. Acquaintances are friendly to you and have mutuals, but you don’t really hang out with them often.

    • @jayleneaceves8310
      @jayleneaceves8310 Před 4 měsíci +12

      💯💯💯💯

    • @X2o0876
      @X2o0876 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Tara and jake

    • @larsp23
      @larsp23 Před 4 měsíci +49

      100% because I’m like shorty saying hello to someone don’t mean you’re friends

    • @shutupnvibe
      @shutupnvibe Před 4 měsíci +8

      @@larsp23 literally! 😂

    • @mya3693
      @mya3693 Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@X2o0876they are friends they literally hang out

  • @izwizzzle
    @izwizzzle Před 4 měsíci +2175

    every time that girl mispronounced taras name I had such secondhand embarrassment LMAO

  • @jjenn444
    @jjenn444 Před 4 měsíci +522

    that girl in the green mad annoying

  • @staytiny10
    @staytiny10 Před 4 měsíci +107

    4:16 jake is so real for that because I never understood how people can see their partner sleeping with someone else as a 'mistake', cause like think about it. Let's say you go to a bar and get tipsy and you leave with someone who isn't your partner. There's multiple steps you'd have to make to cheat. You'd have to talk to them, agree to leave with them, then you have the whole way to likely either of your places to think about it. Then you get there and there's all the the steps leading up to the actual cheating. It's not just a simple 'mistake'.

    • @bvtterflyes
      @bvtterflyes Před 26 dny

      yess, whereas emotionally cheating the intention to cheat is there, but the people doing it are just not committed enough to make that bigger move to cheat physically. none are better yk but i’d say physically cheating is 100% worse. as a girl i have no idea why all those girls are agreeing that emotionally cheating is worse, physically cheating is also a serious problem in nowadays relationships as well. it’s a bigger backstab and it can cause a lot of insecurities, like what looks did that person have to make them not want me or not be physical with me, instead emotionally i feel like it’s just personality wise in my eyes, and i’d rather get cheated on if my significant other likes the persons personality more than their physical appearance. like in my experience it’s never happened to me i’ve only been emotionally cheated on, but seeing my big sister go through her breakup with her boyfriend of 7 years really messed around with how i view things.. he slept with another girl and i just can’t get the fact of that out of my head and that he could even do that it’s been like 3 years since but it was horrible to know that she was backstabbed like that from someone we’ve known for years and i would never wish it on anyone.

  • @abi6ail333
    @abi6ail333 Před 4 měsíci +3614

    Tara could say anything, and she would still get my vote lmaoo
    Also happy birthday David

  • @joliemayerr
    @joliemayerr Před 4 měsíci +6062

    it’s cool that Jake and Tara are able to remain friends

    • @catlvr355
      @catlvr355 Před 4 měsíci +242

      well obviously😭nothing negative happened in their relationship for them to break up, it was just timing

    • @AndNoted
      @AndNoted Před 4 měsíci +18

      @@catlvr355 why would it be obvious?

    • @catlvr355
      @catlvr355 Před 4 měsíci +45

      @@AndNoted if you had known why they broke up, it would be clear that they can totally still be friends

    • @pneumaa
      @pneumaa Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@catlvr355i don’t watch them much.. why did they break up?

    • @catlvr355
      @catlvr355 Před 4 měsíci +131

      @@pneumaa they basically broke up because they first got together when they were pretty young, and growing older they realized that they want to be able to make more time for themselves and grow, - as they see themselves as both “jake and tara” but also “jake” and “tara” considering they’re their own person - explore more things/ maybe other people? that’s from what i remember, but they do have a whole video about it, so you could watch that. they did also say that if they were truly meant to be together, that they’d find each other some time in the future.

  • @jasmondo
    @jasmondo Před 4 měsíci +154

    the way christian switched up so quickly is so funny to me i love it. mitsy also has my heart i literally love her awkwardness. she is me, i am her

  • @l3fty939
    @l3fty939 Před 4 měsíci +65

    I love how Tara was the only one laughing at Jake’s joke at 5:22

  • @yui.qin22
    @yui.qin22 Před 4 měsíci +1303

    crazy theyre having the “can exes be friends” in front of tara and jake 😭

  • @A_someone443
    @A_someone443 Před 4 měsíci +1691

    I love how when the girl said “say I’m actively tryna dating u” to Jake and Tara looked like she was ready to fight 😂

    • @dubsnac7407
      @dubsnac7407 Před 4 měsíci +169

      wouldnt this prove the point that exes cant be friends though? cause she was jealous in a way ?

    • @ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx
      @ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx Před 4 měsíci +80

      @@dubsnac7407she still loves jake, it was a mutual break up

    • @fatma-oz6gb
      @fatma-oz6gb Před 4 měsíci +9

      Whats the time stamp

    • @madisonschaufert5280
      @madisonschaufert5280 Před 4 měsíci +46

      @@dubsnac7407she can still get jealous and be in love with him or whatever she wants, while having a healthy friendship

    • @shayu.4488
      @shayu.4488 Před 4 měsíci

      @@fatma-oz6gb 16:30

  • @psychedelic_sol
    @psychedelic_sol Před 4 měsíci +43

    mitsy, tara, AND jake? in ONE video?
    blessed

  • @bottlepop7
    @bottlepop7 Před 3 měsíci +12

    The girl who was trying to justify cheating by saying its a mistake over and over just bothered me. Cheating isnt a mistake, its a choice! You dont go “uh oh omg I slipped into this girl by accident!”

  • @stuitaff
    @stuitaff Před 4 měsíci +2373

    Good to see Mitsy back in your vids...but Zach woulda killed in this debate 😂

    • @nealkrishna4826
      @nealkrishna4826 Před 4 měsíci +151

      The uterus joke makes me think that she and Zach would get along pretty well

    • @zwravx
      @zwravx Před 4 měsíci +55

      YES ZACH WOULD EATTT THIS UPPP

    • @tellyg47
      @tellyg47 Před 4 měsíci +55

      Zach would win just because he’s the loudest voice in the room

    • @jonatanbucup4403
      @jonatanbucup4403 Před 4 měsíci +57

      I like how we all know Zach would win his arguments. He just so good a creating a story/ narrative in a short amount of time

    • @Aishamc_04
      @Aishamc_04 Před 4 měsíci +4

      yesss, I was literally thinking this!!!!

  • @apr1llvv
    @apr1llvv Před 4 měsíci +1597

    We love jake and tara

    • @alexschaefer1861
      @alexschaefer1861 Před 4 měsíci +19

      Who gonna tell him

    • @poiloi6208
      @poiloi6208 Před 4 měsíci +4

      🎉😂nice video, i like social experiment because they are so controversial 😅

    • @viviants
      @viviants Před 4 měsíci

      @@alexschaefer1861what

  • @turnitupwithnelly-2337
    @turnitupwithnelly-2337 Před 4 měsíci +39

    The comedic timing in this video was everything and Mitsy was so cute!

  • @BircastleQueen
    @BircastleQueen Před 4 měsíci +60

    This should used as a case study on people in toxic friend groups lmao

  • @siaracummings2930
    @siaracummings2930 Před 4 měsíci +869

    That “nahhh shut the f*** up” GOT MEEE! The delivery was pristine! 👌🏽

  • @jackym4652
    @jackym4652 Před 4 měsíci +1006

    Hunter is so real for the argument of using the “friend” term loosely. I used to use it loosely too and my boyfriend would correct me every time like “they are not your friends” LMAO like wait you’re right. It’s like just bc you’re cool with someone, doesn’t mean you are friends. Hunter should’ve won that

    • @clairem5164
      @clairem5164 Před 4 měsíci +23

      Agreed. I thought he’d win by a landslide

    • @mioom0w38
      @mioom0w38 Před 4 měsíci +21

      He didn't win just beacuse 2 of the voted are friends that are exes lol

    • @taesugnx
      @taesugnx Před 3 měsíci +7

      no because i agree with alexxis’ claim, just not the way she backed it up. if we’re talking about who backed it up better hunter definitely should’ve won

    • @GammaRayBill
      @GammaRayBill Před 2 měsíci +1

      That’s what I’m saying, like you can be friendly out and about but doesn’t mean you are friends with someone, I think acquaintance is a more honest title.

  • @juliettecharron6717
    @juliettecharron6717 Před 2 měsíci +3

    That’s a really nice concept. I love this video!!

  • @gogpog6624
    @gogpog6624 Před 3 měsíci +1

    MORE MORE MORE please 😋 looooovveeee there vídeos like this were it’s just debating on different topics i would watch all of the ones you have !!!

  • @Erikasuperiority
    @Erikasuperiority Před 4 měsíci +810

    Flirting is 100% cheating its a romantic or sexual thing. And most of the time it leads to more. If you’re consciously flirting that is.

    • @rasbyyy_ig
      @rasbyyy_ig Před 4 měsíci +26

      I mean if someone were to intentionally flirt with someone (as per their definition) thats cheating. even if it sucks ass and most people wouldnt even call that flirting. its the intention that matters (being wanting more out of that situation).

    • @val6224
      @val6224 Před 3 měsíci +6

      Like im a flirty person, i flirt, but once im in a relationship I stop. I view flirting as like "wanna go back to my place tonight, do some 'stuff'" Things like that so yes it is

    • @surbhikumari7161
      @surbhikumari7161 Před 3 měsíci

      Then according to that then every threesome, actors doing romantic scenes and pornstar and stripper is cheating .
      But no cheating is when it is a secret. If you ask your partner about the flirting then they refused to tell u then it is cheating . Otherwise it is not.

    • @Erikasuperiority
      @Erikasuperiority Před 3 měsíci

      @@surbhikumari7161 A threesome? How? A threesome is literally a relationship.. cant be cheating. And those r special cases…💀. Acting is completely different, its a lie ergo acting. if theyre acting for a pornstar scene, its not intended as a romantic or sexual thing its meant as ACTING. Strippers are just doing their jobs honestly, thats another special case..

    • @Vexxing666
      @Vexxing666 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thank you. They knew it was cheating and gave no valid reasons as to why it wasn’t. The whole conversation was hard to watch

  • @christophervicca7669
    @christophervicca7669 Před 4 měsíci +1976

    I cannot put into words how funny Mitsy is

    • @evandower6708
      @evandower6708 Před 4 měsíci +119

      She’s gotta be acoustic or smth she’s so cute

    • @HomeMadeVintage
      @HomeMadeVintage Před 4 měsíci +99

      She reminds me of Sheila on shameless lol they way she talks

    • @ghostinyourcloset
      @ghostinyourcloset Před 4 měsíci +15

      @@evandower6708 ??? you know acoustic has to do with music (or physics) related things right? so what you said makes no sense lmao

    • @jaelyn7138
      @jaelyn7138 Před 4 měsíci +70

      @@ghostinyourclosetpeople use the word acoustic instead of using the word autistic

    • @ghostinyourcloset
      @ghostinyourcloset Před 4 měsíci +10

      @@jaelyn7138… huh? why? 💀

  • @racheldelgado1598
    @racheldelgado1598 Před 4 měsíci +19

    Didn’t even realize it was mitsy for a sec bc she’s not doing something that makes me wanna rip my hair out LMAOO (I love her)

  • @mystictakeschances
    @mystictakeschances Před 4 měsíci +419

    I came for Tara and Jake, and I stayed for Tara and Jake

  • @face2facewitchu
    @face2facewitchu Před 4 měsíci +802

    I LOVE the 'tear-uh' 'TAR-uh" thing. It's hilarious every time and I know it's coming.... EVERY...... TIME.

    • @shutupnvibe
      @shutupnvibe Před 4 měsíci +4

      Hilarious 😂

    • @zo.ie.s
      @zo.ie.s Před 4 měsíci +44

      no bc how did she mess taras name up THAT much 😭

    • @gabriellasansuste2340
      @gabriellasansuste2340 Před měsícem +2

      @@zo.ie.sbecause Tear-uh is the common way to say that name. Tar-uh is very uncommon and not easy to remember specially when you already know a Tear-uh. This is not the first time someone got her name wrong, it happens often.

  • @delaneycoleman4404
    @delaneycoleman4404 Před 4 měsíci +25

    Would love to see Mitsy and Christian do some sort of dating show together

  • @miloisgood5904
    @miloisgood5904 Před 4 měsíci +2

    This was very entertaining and fun to watch.

  • @heyyloserrr
    @heyyloserrr Před 4 měsíci +507

    I hate that the last girl doesn’t understand that being friends is different from being friendly. you hang out, call, text, etc. with friends and that doesn’t have to be daily, you can checkup with each other monthly too.
    being friendly is an action, for ex. in college we’re all being friendly in class, we aren’t friends.
    I won’t hang out, text, call, etc. after class or even after the semester ends.

    • @OliveGrummer
      @OliveGrummer Před 2 měsíci +4

      She had me yelling at my phone.

  • @dallasallad_2484
    @dallasallad_2484 Před 4 měsíci +677

    I love seeing Jake and Tara together in any video

  • @1-800soapytiddyz
    @1-800soapytiddyz Před 4 měsíci

    this vid has allll the right people in itt. period we love to see it😍😍 (also keep bringing vereena on here, she's great.)

  • @graysonjd5624
    @graysonjd5624 Před 4 měsíci +26

    Boy do I love generalizing gender traits, this is exactly how we connect as humans and absolutely not further the objectification and alienation of ourselves.

    • @suigetsushark
      @suigetsushark Před 3 měsíci +5

      Haha right? These videos are so wild to me (but I can’t stop binging). It’s almost as everyone has different opinions and values based on their life experiences 😂 everyone has a valid argument but the thing is that they need to communicate that to their partner and find someone with those same values.

    • @chocokat97
      @chocokat97 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Lolol right? It’s all fun and games but I do think it it emphasizes separation between genders and reinforces certain things that don’t really need to be reinforced lol

  • @solysqdro
    @solysqdro Před 4 měsíci +589

    I loved Jake and Tara together but I adore them as friends. They’re meant to be in each others life

  • @aislinnmiranda7779
    @aislinnmiranda7779 Před 4 měsíci +431

    zach in this combo would’ve been HILARIOUS

    • @prinaecess
      @prinaecess Před 4 měsíci +44

      no this group was perfect they were all equally funny. if zach was here, david would make his jokes the highlight of the video as always

    • @aromlaa7066
      @aromlaa7066 Před 4 měsíci +23

      @@prinaecessI completely agree. I never watch any videos with him because he becomes the entire center of the video. Like, if I wanted to watch him I would just watch his own CZcams channel.

    • @mouryavardhan7786
      @mouryavardhan7786 Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@aromlaa7066eh. Only the last few videos because he really needed zach. Those videos would have been dull. In the starting few videos, he was pretty subdued

    • @phantasyreethym7865
      @phantasyreethym7865 Před 4 měsíci

      Well he was cheated on 😅

    • @alexusmckoy
      @alexusmckoy Před 4 měsíci

      No it would not the video is perfect let's not ruin it

  • @gabbyward7796
    @gabbyward7796 Před 4 měsíci +14

    Off topic but Tara is so pretty, like she is genuinely stunning

  • @danielandrade643
    @danielandrade643 Před 4 měsíci +1

    MORE OF THIS!!! PLEASE!!!
    (Preferably with unacquainted acquaintances)

  • @nicolebriceno2012
    @nicolebriceno2012 Před 4 měsíci +338

    Jake is so real. It’s not like you wake one day and say “I’m gonna emotionally cheat on my partner” the only thing they’re doing wrong is staying in their current relationship but cheating on someone physically is A CHOICE Even if alcohol is involved.

    • @rasbyyy_ig
      @rasbyyy_ig Před 4 měsíci +25

      but at that point they should be upfront and break up with ur partner. while yes, its not a choice to have a crush on someone, it is to keep feeding into it while simultaneously being in a relationship

    • @nicolebriceno2012
      @nicolebriceno2012 Před 4 měsíci +9

      @@rasbyyy_ig I agree, falling in love with someone is an active choice, by getting to know them more. I personally would just feel more disgusted & hurt if I found out they had sex with someone else. Both situations are terrible tho

    • @limazulu6192
      @limazulu6192 Před 3 měsíci +8

      You don't just fall in love with someone. We're not some virgin teenagers anymore. This stuff takes time now. Time you CHOSE to spend with someone. Time you spent FLIRTING with someone or going even further FOR AGES until it happend.

    • @Subsistence69
      @Subsistence69 Před 3 měsíci

      Both are shit and automatic grounds for a break up. But getting physically cheated on is better for me because it makes the bandaid easier to rip off.
      Emotional cheating is sneaky and slimy and they have to hide it and lie about it and you’re essentially getting led on the whole time and getting your time wasted.

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor Před 2 měsíci +1

      I agree unless the person is in a whole relationship with the other person. If they just caught feelings then I agree

  • @prinaecess
    @prinaecess Před 4 měsíci +293

    i loved misty and jake they were so funny 😭😭

  • @chloehughes4320
    @chloehughes4320 Před 2 měsíci

    Obsessed with the energy in this vid❤

  • @ainanpatel6726
    @ainanpatel6726 Před 4 měsíci

    David needs to start making more videos i feel … i have watched them all and waiting for his new video … great videos❤

  • @rosetta_st0nr
    @rosetta_st0nr Před 4 měsíci +262

    One, Zach should’ve been in this vid to banter with Mitsy. Two, Mitsy was spitting when she said “You can’t even get her name right and you say you’re friends?” 😭

  • @theuchiha7
    @theuchiha7 Před 4 měsíci +323

    The last question can be simplified like this: If you are like Jake and Tara after a relationship ends, thats friendship. Alex and his ex Lexy are not friends as they do not maintain regular friendship. They are friendly sure, they are neighborly sure.... Not friends.

    • @nesnintendo9107
      @nesnintendo9107 Před 4 měsíci +4

      She wasn't talking about Lexy she was talking about Lauren

  • @vicxxo_
    @vicxxo_ Před 3 měsíci +1

    This was so difficult lol props to everyone for argueing their side even if they didn’t believe in it. I would never be able to do that 😂 cool vid!

  • @vivisminiblog6689
    @vivisminiblog6689 Před 3 měsíci +10

    When Tara sneezes the only one who says bless you was jake🥺😭🩷🤩

  • @TheLauracastillo999
    @TheLauracastillo999 Před 4 měsíci +304

    Trying to get Mitsy to flirt was so funny 😂😂
    Happy birthday David 🎉

  • @TheOddDonut
    @TheOddDonut Před 4 měsíci +343

    Hot take guys and girl absolutely can be friends and can be platonic. We all just people not everyone needs to date or f*ck everyone, and I think we'd be missing out on some great friendships if we limit ourselves to just one gender.

    • @rasbyyy_ig
      @rasbyyy_ig Před 4 měsíci

      true, if you always end up wanting to enter a romantic relationship with the opposite gender, it means you only value them for a potential romantic relationship and less just for them as a person

    • @ErgoJunglistix
      @ErgoJunglistix Před 4 měsíci

      You are right, mostly horny assholes are the ones that cant be friends with the other gender.

    • @UnderWhereVPL
      @UnderWhereVPL Před 4 měsíci +9

      No

    • @cait3
      @cait3 Před 4 měsíci +27

      Thats what i thought too but the amount of guys ive met that would fck their friends makes me question whether its truly innocent friendship

    • @Ok-pk3cv
      @Ok-pk3cv Před 4 měsíci

      @@UnderWhereVPLYes, y’all forget other sexualities exist & that not everyone wants to fuck anyone that breathes 😭

  • @angelaamberaa8365
    @angelaamberaa8365 Před 4 měsíci

    Happy Birthday!🎉

  • @hannahchoi7608
    @hannahchoi7608 Před 4 měsíci

    these questions are WILDDD

  • @kaylalyn4281
    @kaylalyn4281 Před 4 měsíci +351

    Heres the thing though, cheating physically is a choice, falling in love isn't and is completely out of your control. To cheat physically is an action, to fall in love is simply a feeling. Please tell me that makes sense

    • @whtevrdonna
      @whtevrdonna Před 4 měsíci +34

      Holy shit it does tho lol but it also makes me think of how i met your father where one of the characters feels himself starting to get too friendly with someone and cutting it off before it escalates. I can’t remember if the couple ended up breaking up still 😅

    • @aaam0670
      @aaam0670 Před 4 měsíci +53

      yes you have a point, but say you fall in love with someone, the chose is there to associate with them or not while in a relationship,
      you could be with someone and seek out support or something from someone else, that was a choice not just something you couldn’t control, but you do make sense too about it being a feeling

    • @Erikasuperiority
      @Erikasuperiority Před 4 měsíci +27

      Yes but that isnt cheating. To act on it is, which is also a choice.

    • @CallumBailey-wu7gc
      @CallumBailey-wu7gc Před 4 měsíci +4

      Its not out of your control to fall in love and what they said would still make sense if you fall in love with someone else while in a relationship then you clearly did love the person you are currently with im all most 100% sure the ppl in the video don't agree but you should only be in a relationship people you love otherwise things like this happen

    • @IshratJahan-dh3ev
      @IshratJahan-dh3ev Před 4 měsíci

      I’m sorry but who do you value more? Someone you fall in love with or someone you fucked without feelings? Who would you rather fight to have for the rest of ur life?
      And with THIS much value on someone other than ur significant other, you think it’s okay to continue to associate w them while you are consciously aware that they are becoming/already are more valuable to u then ur significant other themselves?
      You still think it’s better to consciously spend time w someone ur falling in love with than mistakenly fuck someone out of horniness? Both are fucking wrong but one is clearly so so so much more hurtful than the other.

  • @Nunudes
    @Nunudes Před 4 měsíci +208

    I 100% agree with Hunter on the term of friends. Alexxis was describing acquaintances, those people you rarely see and have small talk with. Friends are people you would go out of your way to help, hang with, invite out or make plans with, catch up on life, check on, and have basically grown fond of each other to have a meaningful friendship. The term friend should not be used easily otherwise everyone would be considered friends when in reality that’s not the case.

  • @notk3mii
    @notk3mii Před 2 měsíci

    they both had very valid points for the first one!!

  • @mattcrawford5215
    @mattcrawford5215 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Friendship rarely matters when it’s convenient, if you won’t go out of your way to get in touch with them then the friendship is superficial at best

  • @frizzyisdizzy
    @frizzyisdizzy Před 4 měsíci +107

    tara really just sat there and looked pretty for most of the video

  • @ppness673
    @ppness673 Před 4 měsíci +123

    mitsy is so awkward i love her

  • @wyatthalvorson746
    @wyatthalvorson746 Před 2 měsíci

    Dave has such kind eyes
    I love him

  • @_thatgirlcailen
    @_thatgirlcailen Před 4 měsíci +89

    Also Misty gives me young Winona Ryder vibes!!! She's so pretty!

  • @Luv4gh0sts
    @Luv4gh0sts Před 4 měsíci +102

    Bro I love how argumentative Jake is

  • @maryam6138
    @maryam6138 Před 2 měsíci

    Do more of this David pleas

  • @michaelpaley3518
    @michaelpaley3518 Před 4 měsíci

    This was a crazy line up for this vid

  • @AmeliaMulberry
    @AmeliaMulberry Před 4 měsíci +189

    Guys that can't be friends with women they find attractive are really telling on themselves. You view attractive women as sex objects? Wild.
    They have a whole personality, feelings, interests, experiences,etc attached to that hot bod.

    • @rasbyyy_ig
      @rasbyyy_ig Před 4 měsíci +1

      + what if they had multiple female friends ykwim

    • @UnderWhereVPL
      @UnderWhereVPL Před 4 měsíci +2

      Most men don't care about the first 4 of those 5 things you listed though...it is what it is

    • @ewitsmorgan8035
      @ewitsmorgan8035 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@UnderWhereVPL well then yall need to stop shitting your pants and crying when women say they hate all men

    • @Breadcrumbs_1803
      @Breadcrumbs_1803 Před 4 měsíci +6

      ​@@UnderWhereVPLwho are you to speak for "most men"? Most guys like a respectable woman.

    • @Breadcrumbs_1803
      @Breadcrumbs_1803 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@UnderWhereVPL and if you dont then that just shows you view woman as sex objects.

  • @Littleghostman4
    @Littleghostman4 Před 4 měsíci +103

    what do I do when I see Jake and Tara in a video? I click it.

  • @nanay1639
    @nanay1639 Před 4 měsíci

    happy belated to david

  • @AnnikaATLxSEA
    @AnnikaATLxSEA Před 4 měsíci +1

    I feel like for the last argument, it depends on the origin of the relationship. It’s not uncommon for people who grew up together (or just, people who have been friends for a whileee) to explore a romantic relationship at some point. They could decide after a few months or years of dating that they’re better off with a platonic relationship- maybe they didn’t feel the romantic spark, or they just realized that they’d drive each other crazy if they stayed together. It’d be easy to argue that those people can and should be able to maintain a friendship- it’d be ridiculous to end a 15 year friendship over a failed romantic relationship you both tried for 6 months.
    I also believe that divorcees can maintain a friendship with their ex-partners- many choose not to, but it’s often possible (especially when there are children involved).
    Nobody asked, but at the end of the day, I feel like exes can be friends if they highly valued the platonic aspect of their relationship while together and if the breakup was civil. One of the reasons why many exes with civilized breakups aren’t friends is because they realized they don’t mesh well, they want to avoid awkward situations, or they continued to grow and change into different, less compatible people. If those aren’t obstacles for you and you guys are still compatible platonically, then why not?

  • @RikoUStarss
    @RikoUStarss Před 4 měsíci +69

    “Ex’s should not be friends” Jake and Tara: 😭🫵

  • @blessedbe2222
    @blessedbe2222 Před 4 měsíci +41

    33:40
    "Its TARuH💅"
    That was the nail in her coffin after his point 😭

    • @person7896
      @person7896 Před 4 měsíci +3

      wait she really said her name wrong lol they're not friends

  • @sam-nw5vw
    @sam-nw5vw Před 4 měsíci +37

    why did tara and jake both raise their hands for 'exs can't be friends'? they were literally eating costco cookies together a day ago.

    • @diazkaka
      @diazkaka Před 4 měsíci +25

      They raised their hands for exes can be friends. They were on the girls side and that’s the card that she got, that they can be friends

    • @sam-nw5vw
      @sam-nw5vw Před 4 měsíci

      @@diazkaka ah yes, you're so right

  • @MrGoldInfinity
    @MrGoldInfinity Před 3 měsíci +1

    This is a certified Alvareeezy classic

  • @aaliyahcruz7786
    @aaliyahcruz7786 Před 4 měsíci +157

    I'm glad Jake and Tara are still on good terms, I hope the best for them

  • @Bubblefart69
    @Bubblefart69 Před 4 měsíci +116

    sending nudes isnt a sign of trust, its a sign of thrust.

    • @shreyabhatt16
      @shreyabhatt16 Před 4 měsíci +5

      worddd

    • @449new
      @449new Před 4 měsíci +2

      Period

    • @daikonyum3688
      @daikonyum3688 Před 4 měsíci +1

      DEAD THIS IS SI TRUE

    • @HayleyDLacy
      @HayleyDLacy Před 3 měsíci

      ABSOLUTELY (but personally if you take out the “in a relationship” point of the question)😂

  • @Yourpookie_me
    @Yourpookie_me Před 4 měsíci

    “I don’t think you think with your minds I think you guys think with your other heads.” Is so true bro

  • @anacastro4203
    @anacastro4203 Před 3 měsíci

    i lit love thesee!

  • @vereenaslayed
    @vereenaslayed Před 4 měsíci +200

    thank you for havin me 😁

  • @Dark.Paradise
    @Dark.Paradise Před 4 měsíci +47

    Last one: There’s a difference between friends and mutuals. Friends you do stuff with, you’d do stuff for or you’d invite them to your house for the day regularly. A mutual is just someone you see and say hey I know them, we’re friendly to each other, if I happen to do an activity with them I’d enjoy it.
    A friend is a close bond. A mutual is a loose bond.

  • @kittytime3802
    @kittytime3802 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Whole comments are about jake and tara and i love it

  • @lacrem736
    @lacrem736 Před 4 měsíci +1

    i love this group i laughed so loud so many times 😭

  • @katesbetter
    @katesbetter Před 4 měsíci +49

    misty is so gorgeous omg (THEY ALL ARE)
    im also soso happy jake and tara are still good friends after being together for 4 years

  • @joanna6256
    @joanna6256 Před 4 měsíci +54

    There is honestly an 100% a difference between friends and friendly and sometimes you’re gonna have to stop and take a look at your relationship and see who are acquaintances that you get along with and you are a friendly with and don’t mind kicking it with friends are People that you rely on that you would help who would help you and they know you

  • @nokyle8575
    @nokyle8575 Před 4 měsíci

    i love this vid fr

  • @anacamacho2756
    @anacamacho2756 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Hope you have Misty in more of your videos she pretty funny. Hope you have a great bday 🎂🎉

  • @Marimoo22
    @Marimoo22 Před 4 měsíci +70

    Yeah Tara has my entire heart like she talks I listen…I am sat🧎🏽‍♀️

  • @mtotonchi77
    @mtotonchi77 Před 4 měsíci +42

    Misty giving me Winona Ryder vibes and I love it 👍🏼✨

  • @smilestarrocks6185
    @smilestarrocks6185 Před 4 měsíci +8

    The homie hopper question was low key relatable for alexxis lmao

  • @miomiomio56
    @miomiomio56 Před 4 měsíci

    Literally never clicked on a video so fast genius move to put Tara and Jake on thumbnail

  • @JP-bh6wh
    @JP-bh6wh Před 4 měsíci +9

    David you are probably the most underrated CZcamsr out there! Your videos are always so entertaining and funny, thank you for bringing all these influencers and personalities together every video to create the best videos ever! Happy Birthday! 🎂🎊🎉