Pregnancy Q&A // Moving to a bigger house?!?

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  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
  • We’ve been getting a lot of questions about how this pregnancy is going. So we thought we’d answer some of your most asked questions.
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Komentáře • 454

  • @joangleason8362
    @joangleason8362 Před rokem +92

    Try a sliding barn door, between the front room and kitchen. Thank you for the update you two are ttoo cute together ❤️

    • @SarahSchimidt
      @SarahSchimidt Před rokem +8

      other possibility is a pocket door or an acordeon door (there are stylish models now!)

    • @SarahSchimidt
      @SarahSchimidt Před rokem +4

      oh and try to hide the litter box inside a cabinet with a little side opening, works like a charm!

    • @kimwilliams1812
      @kimwilliams1812 Před rokem +3

      Love the Barn Door idea. Paint it white. It would be beautiful.

    • @pamfrey6785
      @pamfrey6785 Před rokem

      A friend from like the 3rd grade said she thought everything had 2 names. Her parents taught her the English word and the polish name

  • @kc26119
    @kc26119 Před rokem +50

    Lydia- you look more beautiful than ever! Pregnancy looks great on you!! You look great, too, Trace. So glad you are with this beautiful, godly woman.❤

  • @LuwanaWard1974
    @LuwanaWard1974 Před rokem +11

    Since I live 5 away from you all it’s been a joy to watch the Bates children grow up and now married and having your own families East Tennessee is so fortunate to have such an amazing family like the Bates ❤

  • @theresaanzur9980
    @theresaanzur9980 Před rokem +5

    Build you kitty play pen that connects to outside cats love that you can connect from the inside out and your cat can be closed in so nothing happens to him while he is outside. You can make it as long and extensive as you like.

  • @ElizasGrammy
    @ElizasGrammy Před rokem +19

    I always train my cats to stay off countertops by placing a row of clear packing tape, sticky side up, on the surface, near the edge, and just roll the two ends of the strip under, to keep the strip in place. When the cats lands on the tape, it sticks to him and he immediately jumps down and runs away. It only takes a few times, for the cat to remember what happens if he jumps on the counter. (I don't have to put tape on my counters anymore; they all learn fast.)

    • @missyalford2262
      @missyalford2262 Před rokem

      Eliza Grammy thank you for posting this tip. I have tried everything to keep out one cat off counter and he is the most stubborn I've ever seen.!!! ❤

  • @theresadavis4885
    @theresadavis4885 Před rokem

    So far so good for you guys it sounds like !!! I’m excited for you guys!!!!

  • @deborahhopper2682
    @deborahhopper2682 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for sharing your plans. Looking forward to seeing and hearing more can’t wait for gender reveal. Love and Prayers Always

  • @user-yy4ej3qg6z
    @user-yy4ej3qg6z Před rokem +1

    Lydia you are glowing, praying for you.🤗 Can wait to hear what the baby is.

  • @jenniferjones1976
    @jenniferjones1976 Před rokem +1

    Wheww, bless you. I had night sickness and then all day. Yall are so genuine and such a cute couple.

  • @angelacartrette5533
    @angelacartrette5533 Před rokem +1

    Glad to hear things are going well, and very happy to hear you are keeping Maui.

  • @berrygeri
    @berrygeri Před rokem +5

    So excited for you guys! Have my notification ON!!

  • @TheKari111308
    @TheKari111308 Před rokem +2

    You both look amazing!! Praying for s healthy momma and baby. I’m team girl!!!

  • @dob8240
    @dob8240 Před rokem +7

    ❤ I'm so happy for you both. Many of blessings to you, too.

  • @hollybraddock9670
    @hollybraddock9670 Před rokem +1

    Loved the pregnancy Q&A!
    Happy early Birthday Lydia! Mine is April 4th
    Here’s to a continued smooth pregnancy.
    Can’t wait to find out what you’re having!

  • @carole3995
    @carole3995 Před rokem +9

    Can't wait to hear what you're having, shopping and planning are so much fun 🎉😻👶

  • @joannwood183
    @joannwood183 Před rokem +1

    So excited for you both !!

  • @lindajones8895
    @lindajones8895 Před rokem +6

    I'm so happy for ya'll. Congratulations on your special gift from heaven ❤❤

  • @tammieshapiro2260
    @tammieshapiro2260 Před rokem +2

    You too are so cute together! Lydia you are looking beautiful. God bless you both.

  • @charleneburr4795
    @charleneburr4795 Před rokem +4

    Congrats on having your first baby 🍼. To add to your family. May God bless your family ❤

  • @rhondasachse7552
    @rhondasachse7552 Před rokem +1

    Maui is so adorable! Y’all are going to be great parents! I am so excited for you both

  • @AmyintheMountains
    @AmyintheMountains Před rokem +2

    Maui is so precious 😻 I’m so happy you are making accommodations to help him feel included and secure! I can’t wait for the gender reveal video! ❤

  • @darlagoodman6417
    @darlagoodman6417 Před rokem

    SOOOOO Excited for Y'all. ❤️🙏

  • @joanneschwartz3753
    @joanneschwartz3753 Před rokem +10

    Thank you for the updates! I'm so excited to see the gender reveal! God bless you! ❤️🙏

  • @helendavidson3042
    @helendavidson3042 Před rokem +1

    You two are the cutest couple. Lydia you are beautiful. So happy for both of you..

  • @papaapple93
    @papaapple93 Před rokem +2

    Trace and Lydia you’re such a beautiful couple and you’re going to have such a wonderful family!! Trace and Lydia you’re going to be excellent parents thanks for answering all these questions!! Looking forward to more videos

  • @annjohns9939
    @annjohns9939 Před rokem +1

    You two are so sweet and I think God made you for each other. I am excited and looking forward to the gender reveal!!! God bless y'all and baby.

  • @dianita1759
    @dianita1759 Před rokem

    Awe I love watching your guys videos ❤ can’t wait for the gender reveal 🎉

  • @lorettayoungblood1027
    @lorettayoungblood1027 Před rokem +6

    So excited for y’all! Can’t wait to find out what your baby is!

  • @veronikalewis2871
    @veronikalewis2871 Před rokem

    I can’t wait for the gender reveal!!!!!I am so excited for yall!!!!love y’all’s videos!!!!love y’all too ❤

  • @wendyschryver9199
    @wendyschryver9199 Před rokem

    Congratulations y'all! Lydia you are glowing and look so healthy even though you feel like garbage. Prayers for that to go away and a healthy delivery for mom and baby. Trace, I pray for you as well. Looking forward to your gender reveal. Love from Nashville. 💗💙

  • @joandeigan7826
    @joandeigan7826 Před rokem +3

    Loved this video. What a beautiful couple you both are. Can't wait for the gender reveal. 😍

  • @selinabutler1164
    @selinabutler1164 Před rokem +2

    ❤Can't wait for gender reveal! So excited for yall! There is nothing wrong with having cats while pregnant! She has the best litter box you can have! Enjoy life yall and thanks for sharing your journey with us ❤

  • @donnamays6215
    @donnamays6215 Před rokem +5

    This is exciting! Love following all of you. Just don't change the litter box. Trace needs to do it!

  • @luralyncampbell6
    @luralyncampbell6 Před rokem +6

    Lydia, you’re on top of things! Great job! I’m sorry you’re sick. Fingers crossed 2nd trimester gives you some relief. I have 5 adult children and would do it over and over again to be there mom! It will be special to see you and Trace as loving parents. Feel better!

  • @donnacouch5797
    @donnacouch5797 Před rokem +14

    Lydia you got that baby glow. Gorgeous ❤

  • @lealuby884
    @lealuby884 Před rokem +1

    So happy for y'all!!

  • @ameliamcshane2283
    @ameliamcshane2283 Před rokem

    My daughter was born September 26 and she is a joy! Congratulations such a blessing.

  • @kathyleftwich5125
    @kathyleftwich5125 Před rokem

    Hello Trace and Lydia, I am so excited for you both 💕💙you could get to large decorative screens to go in front of your kitchen entrance to keep your cat out. He is really a beautiful cat. Can’t wait until the gender reveal. Love and blessings 💕🥰🌷

  • @angiemurphy3693
    @angiemurphy3693 Před rokem +1

    Your baby will be beautiful, because look at the parents. I will be looking forward too the reveal. God bless y'all......

  • @janmar7428
    @janmar7428 Před rokem +6

    glücklich für euch beide
    So happy for you both, many blessings to you ❤️

  • @michelle3445
    @michelle3445 Před rokem +2

    I am so happy for y’all. I think y’all will be Amazing. I have always thought Trace will be an amazing dad, and Lydia will be a awesome mom.
    I loved what you said about names. I had picked a few names and when I seen the babies, I used the one me and my hubby thought looked like the baby. And now the kids definitely have names that suit them. Addyson Kylie and Trenton Jace are their names.

  • @fdanielle2407
    @fdanielle2407 Před rokem +1

    Super exciting!
    What about a barn door?
    They make those doors that can be like built in the wall and then slide out and lock.
    They make some of them to be like see through so that would be super cool for the kitchen.

  • @teresacox9426
    @teresacox9426 Před rokem +1

    A family I dog-sit for used a folding room divider when they trained their puppy. You can use it later as room decorations. Trace could maybe build one with window shutters hinged together.

  • @monikawall-3860
    @monikawall-3860 Před rokem +7

    You are such a sweet Couple.❤
    Iam looking forward to your Baby and Hope that everything will be fine ❤
    God Bless you ❤
    Best wishes from Germany 🥰🥰

  • @DianeKaufman80
    @DianeKaufman80 Před rokem

    So excited for you guys. As for Maui make sure to start the room transition soon. Because having a new member at the house is a big change, and having 2 big changes at the same time will stress him out. My cats loved to jump on counters too, Amazon sells Cat training tape. You place it on your counter Sticky side up, Maui will not like the feeling and jump off. The only con is you can’t use your counter for at least 1 week. Good luck and keep us posted. 😊

  • @elizabethgray9092
    @elizabethgray9092 Před rokem +3

    Lydia and Trace, it is good to teach your children other language because my husband and I are deaf and taught our twins sons sign language and they became CODA and good have an language in family with love.

  • @lorinewgard2476
    @lorinewgard2476 Před rokem +5

    For a door to separate the kitchen from the living room use a “barn door”. I think it work.

  • @kodabear3304
    @kodabear3304 Před rokem +2

    Do a sliding barn door type idea that can latch at top and bottom to keep it secure. If you don't latch at the bottom he might be able to pull it outwards at the bottom and sneak in. It would look nice and slide out of the way during the day.

  • @lisam5576
    @lisam5576 Před rokem

    Everyone's labour and delivery is unique. The key for us was knowing the various options and what each of them were going to mean for how labour and delivery were going to progress as a result.

  • @vickijent5704
    @vickijent5704 Před rokem

    My suggestion for the doorway would be bifold french doors so they fold back out of the way, but light comes thru when you want it. They make vinyl accordion doors that slide back to one side but it leaves a gap at the bottom of the door for the cat to go under.

  • @MelissaD80
    @MelissaD80 Před rokem +1

    What about a pocket door? Or a sliding barn door!? So excited for y’all! ♥️

  • @cindykeith1266
    @cindykeith1266 Před rokem +1

    Hey guys great video thanks for sharing your lives I look forward to see your videos each week.y'all are so sweet together I thank you guys are going to be great parents hope y'all have a wonderful weekend God bless see y'all next weekend!

  • @sundaydawn9188
    @sundaydawn9188 Před rokem

    Excited to see the gender reveal! Also “built to birth” on CZcams is such a good resource for birthing info whether you choose natural or medicated 😊

  • @anniefenter8697
    @anniefenter8697 Před rokem +9

    Gender Reveal, shades of Jed and Katey's on their channel? That was so cool! Whatever you do will be awesome!

  • @leslienavinsky
    @leslienavinsky Před rokem

    I love your Q & A vlog’s. You guys are great!

  • @kakylong2
    @kakylong2 Před rokem +4

    Trace & Lydia, Could y'all do some type of cute accordian door that can be left open almost flat against the wall or closed off? Looking forward to seeing what the gender is going to be. 👶 😊

  • @lynnzimmerman4445
    @lynnzimmerman4445 Před rokem +2

    Congratulations y'all love y'all and many blessings to you both and y'all are such a beautiful couple ❤❤

  • @tammyhardy1134
    @tammyhardy1134 Před rokem +2

    To close off the kitchen,, try building a sliding barn door. You can keep it open when you are there and when you leave or go to bed slide it closed

  • @shannonnevid6826
    @shannonnevid6826 Před rokem

    The happiness in your voice shoes your excitement.
    You are going to be the best parents.
    My son is having his 1st son at the end of May. The name they chose is Sage, which can be used for a girl too.
    Pocket door to close off kitchen

  • @clarebehrens
    @clarebehrens Před rokem +11

    Maui idea - put a table top on top of the litter box so it looks like a side table. And then a barn door to close off the kitchen

  • @michellepoe761
    @michellepoe761 Před rokem

    I’m not sure if your able to do a pocket door between the living room and kitchen, I’m not sure what wiring or plumbing if any is in the wall behind your tv. Or you could do a barn door to close it off as well. I’m so excited for you both and I can’t wait for the gender reveal!!

  • @emiliamontoya2022
    @emiliamontoya2022 Před rokem +6

    Obviously it’s completely up to you guys and what you’re comfortable with, but don’t let anyone scare or sway you’re decision on YOUR birth! At the end of the day, it’s up to you guys! I am 19 and had an at home non medicated completely all natural birth. I had my baby 6 months ago and had an 8 hour labor from start to holding my baby girl in my arms. I wish I could give birth all the time with the same experience. All I’m saying is everyone and their body is different so I don’t feel that anyone can say anything against the other really unless they’ve done both:) I plan on doing the same exact way for my next one:)

  • @nicolegordon129
    @nicolegordon129 Před rokem +6

    Regarding a natural birth, it’s so important to be prepared. Read as much as you can. My husband and I took Bradley Birthing Classes. Ultimately, I think it’s good to have a plan A and a Plan B. Lol. By the way, you look great Lydia. Maybe a barn door can go between the living room and the kitchen or of you want something less permanent, you could get a shoji screen.

  • @ejandad
    @ejandad Před rokem

    For separating the kitchen off for Maui you could do some accordion doors, and you could easily open them up and they would be out of the way of everything.

  • @alysonbowler9040
    @alysonbowler9040 Před rokem +1

    If you have cats, they're going to jump on the counters. You can spend boatloads of time and energy training them not to, but the second you're not looking, they're going to jump up there anyway. I learned a long time ago just to wipe down the counter with disinfecting cleaner before using it. It takes 10 seconds and I don't have to worry about if the cats have gotten up there or not.

  • @Teresa-Q
    @Teresa-Q Před rokem

    Lydia you are glowing…Trace Too…what helped me during my pregnancies was peach Snapple ice tea….also works for Stomach viruses…a barn door would look great if not how about and accordion door….sure Trace has some great ideas. Can’t wait for the gender reveal…time is flying…enjoy this time together

  • @samanthah430
    @samanthah430 Před rokem

    You should install an accordion door between the living room and kitchen. I've seen ones that would match the clean boho looks you've got in your house.

  • @autumnsloggett2784
    @autumnsloggett2784 Před rokem

    I know what you mean my morning sickness was always worse later in the evenings I have definitely got better since I’m in the second trimester but yeah I totally relate your doing good little momma hang in there it will get better!!!

  • @WhichGospelSavesU
    @WhichGospelSavesU Před rokem

    I’m pretty positive if you can draw something out sweet Warden can make it! Since you are short on space either an accordion door with wire mesh (farm like) in between the wooden panels to be able to see out and let the natural light in. Glass would look nice too. Or Lowe’s has narrow accordion slat doors that are 48 x 80 if that width is too small, you can add a wood frame against the wall to make the width smaller. Hope this gives you some ideas.

  • @lydm3398
    @lydm3398 Před rokem

    Make sure the doors have light go through. You can buy folding screen type and rebuild it so the top is not open for the kitty to jump over as well.

  • @susanbosch2181
    @susanbosch2181 Před rokem

    Make a butler door in with clear glass so you still gets the sun light. A butler door is amazing I had one or a double glass door. But a butler door is easy with a kitchen so you can just push it open

  • @kathylarose9418
    @kathylarose9418 Před rokem

    Loved this. Lydia you said she. and Trace said he. Really funny!

  • @priscillarobinson7740
    @priscillarobinson7740 Před rokem +12

    Just yesterday I found out I was going to be a Oma. I’m so excited!!! I’m so happy for you. Priscilla from New Jersey ❤

  • @tillygiresi406
    @tillygiresi406 Před rokem +7

    Lydia pregnancy suits you well💞you look beautiful and radiant 🌹

  • @margarethicks8833
    @margarethicks8833 Před rokem +1

    I am so excited for Yall

  • @vickiebelk635
    @vickiebelk635 Před rokem +6

    I had both my girls naturally. My first weighed 8lbs. 7oz. and my second weighed 9lbs. 7oz. I did Lamaze classes, which was very helpful. With my second they gave me something to relax me and I wish I had never taken anything.

    • @kerrylewisRN
      @kerrylewisRN Před rokem

      My third was natural, the only time I didn’t tear

  • @jennr7500
    @jennr7500 Před rokem +1

    I see there’s a comment in German. No time like the present to practice. Especially because Lydia’s family speaks German it is good to teach your baby from the start. And it’s ok if Lyidia’s mom gets it rolling! Didn’t know what to call her. Oma? Right? And Opa for your dad?
    There are magnetic screens and room screens which touch the floor (no crawl space). Could easily put latches on the room screen sides too and bottom to keep Maui from pushing through. The magnetic are usually see through - but may be easy to get through the magnetic strip (for Maui).
    Y’all look great. And seem to be really enjoying this time. That’s great.

  • @paulineoconnor6205
    @paulineoconnor6205 Před rokem

    Lydia ginger snap cookies helped me. With regards to the kitchen, bifold doors.

  • @helenbenlisa4738
    @helenbenlisa4738 Před rokem

    get a folding screen room divider- they are portable and attractive and not too expensive. best of luck with everything!

  • @marlinasanches4187
    @marlinasanches4187 Před rokem +2

    So excited for you both...Can't wait to find out the gender 🤗🤗 But just a suggestion when the baby is born Lydia speak to the baby in German & Trace in English. So now is the time to practice on the German 😊 Keeping ya'll in my prayers 🙏

  • @samantharonk3371
    @samantharonk3371 Před rokem

    If it’s an option add a pocket door from the living room to the kitchen. That way you can just slide it closed when you need.

  • @mbp_33
    @mbp_33 Před rokem

    There are cute litter enclosures that look like regular furniture, end tables etc!

  • @chloe-ellawalker7093
    @chloe-ellawalker7093 Před rokem +3

    Love it! Y'all are adorable!!!😁😂

  • @annabristow5329
    @annabristow5329 Před rokem

    Ideas are maybe a pocket door or an accordion door. Hope this helps! Congratulations on your pregnancy, and I pray God gives you guys a safe delivery!!

  • @jodiboyle7274
    @jodiboyle7274 Před rokem

    We have friends who speak different languages. The kids speak English to dad, and Afrikaans to mom, and danish at school. They are sponges. Start at the beginning and they will know both. It’s awesome!! Good luck you’ll.

  • @jenniferdamato3623
    @jenniferdamato3623 Před rokem +3

    A sliding barn door wood look really nice there!

  • @CassieDeJarnett
    @CassieDeJarnett Před rokem

    I fully support attempting a natural unmedicated delivery!! You are so much stronger than you realize! Just make sure to mentally prepare and learn all the breathing techniques because they are a HUGE help! Fear and holding your breath make labor 10x harder but if you can remain calm, relaxed, and just breath through it you can totally do it natural!! I recommend Built to Birth and Mama Natural for learning all the best tips and tricks!

  • @omirasantillanes5150
    @omirasantillanes5150 Před rokem +8

    Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great weekend and can't wait to hear about the q and a.

  • @susancumming7099
    @susancumming7099 Před rokem

    An accordion door would work great in that space. There are lockable ones, too.
    Lydia, what kind of automatic litter box do you have?

  • @christinemcnabb3117
    @christinemcnabb3117 Před rokem +2

    I’m Team Girl 👶🍼👣💗💗💗 or Team boy👶🍼👣💙💙💙 and prayers for Lydia and baby throughout the whole entire pregnancy and to have a happy and healthy mama and baby👶🍼👣 and I’m just so happy for Lydia and Trace and the whole family

  • @robynwilliams5928
    @robynwilliams5928 Před rokem

    I used candied ginger for morning sickness with my oldest(he is now 30) and for my youngest I used ginger tea. But I was sick for 16 weeks with the oldest and youngest. My middle child I was only sick for the first 8 weeks and ginger ale helped with the nausea.

  • @monicajones2844
    @monicajones2844 Před rokem

    They have decorative screens. You could find one that matches your living room and hide Maui’s things with that.

  • @mki5139
    @mki5139 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for the vlog! You look both great and I'm so happy for you. Please teach your children German, Lydia. Speaking different languages opens the heart and soul and trains the brain so it makes it easier to learn all other subjects i.e. history, geography, maths, etc. At least this is my own experience being multilingual.

  • @lydm3398
    @lydm3398 Před rokem

    Said this before to your sister in law. You seem to crave what the baby will want to eat after they are born. So true, my 1st was chocolate, 2nd was breads and cereals and my 3rd was crazy he loved everything. Now in their 40's still their favs.

  • @franbertucci3570
    @franbertucci3570 Před rokem

    Use a sliding door for in between kitchen and living rm. thanks for sharing all your questions, and congratulations , Have the baby on September 23,my 70th birthday

  • @smartgrandma
    @smartgrandma Před rokem

    Hey Lydia, make sure you don't have access to the kitty litter box while you are pregnant. You and the baby can get really sick from it. If you keep your beautiful kitty in the living room whenever you go out won't she try to slip through the open door to escape from the house, especially when you are coming in with your arms full of baby, diaper bag, etc.? Just something to think about. Have you tried ginger ale for your nausea? I always kept saltines & ginger ale close by, even on the night stand. It helped for me but didn't help one of our daughters during her pregnancies. I'm just so excited for you both that I could just about burst! Enjoy making tons of memories! Prayers, love and gentle hugs.......🥰

  • @sherriitsamea3476
    @sherriitsamea3476 Před rokem

    Look up accordion doors. We had one at our church growing up & it was very sturdy

  • @crystalsiers3645
    @crystalsiers3645 Před rokem

    I love when you do q&a's

  • @gibsonschickasawhomestead5322

    If you decide on staying in Tennessee, the Blue Mountain Mist B&B in Sevierville is fabulous!!!

  • @suzannehamilton1251
    @suzannehamilton1251 Před rokem

    Lydia - you are glowing xx