MADISON BEER talks insecurities, fame, and mental health struggles on Going Mental Podcast
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- čas přidán 28. 07. 2021
- Behind the Scenes of Perfection with Madison Beer
Madison Beer is an American singer, songwriter and social media sensation. We discuss her experience with overnight fame, media scrutiny in the age of the Internet, and her insecurities and struggles with borderline personality disorder.
this girl is going through what Megan fox went through years ago, it's alright being the prettiest person ever but she's been stripped of her talents so much. she wrote all her own songs, she has a beautiful voice, her new album is so so good I can't even explain how well executed the whole thing is. She's constantly being discredited by haters because apparently, it's so insane for someone to be that pretty they have to tear her down. weirdos man
ok but why do we deem her the prettiest person alive?? like these people with very typical eurocentric, "instagram-value" features are truly being called the prettiest people alive nowadays? not to make her beauty controversial, but seeing people acting like shes the rightful beauty standard is weird to me
@@annikaa881 I don't think anyone can be the prettiest person alive due to the fact that beauty standards differ for every individual, so someone that is really pretty to one person might be ugly to another. Therefore people can be one of the prettiest people but they cannot be THE prettiest.
Guys .... he meant naturally ... madison is literally probably one of the most prettiest ever
The only reason you think that is because she physically resembles Megan Fox.
Can she recreate Jennifer’s body pls
Honestly the fact that she opened up about this made me feel so much less alone. Wishing the best for her.
She is so misjudged by a lot of people. The amount of videos I see of people uploading random snippets of her live streams trying to cancel her on tik tok is unreal. You can clearly see she's a beautiful soul. She deserves to be recognised for everything she is. Her voice, her beauty and her beautiful soul❤️. I can't wait to see her on tour I've got my tickets and I'm 100% sure the night will be magical✨
It’s jealousy. People want to hate on gorgeous faces. They can’t handle the fact that behind a pretty face, might exist a deep , intelligent, kind human being .
so proud of her
She's the kindest person in the world
Yesss
I can’t wait to watch the video versions!!!
Thank you both so so so much for this interview and being so open and vulnerable. Ive been very majority depressed this Christmas and New Years. its really hard and I felt so isolated and alone and like no one was on my side. I've been looking into BPD symptoms because I think I may share some of those or most of those symptoms and it really made my stigma for it go away. I felt ashamed that I might have BPD but its very normal. I love both of your souls so much for sharing this and I can feel your energies and love that you put out into the world. You both are great role models for me. Thank you ilyyyy
Finally!!!!!!! And this was my favorite episode so far but all sooooo good
I appreciate so much how open they both are about mental health. I'm struggling with my medication right now and hearing them talk about it just made me so relieved and calmed me down.
Sooo many important points that I needed to hear. It’s difficult to be fully aware of different aspects of your mental health and also feel validated in your emotions when you’re not having these discussions with people.
Thank you both 🤍
i have also bpd and this is honestly so helpful, just hearing a genuine conversation about sensitive topics i can relate to. Such a good podcast, thank you
I just started listening this podcast and I'm obsessed!!! Probably one of my favorite interviews Madison has done ❤️
Loved this episode specially! 💕
i love this
i love you
love you simone
I will always love Madison she is my #1 role model and always have been!!
this podcast is everything
I really feel bad for Madison. I don't know about anyone else and I dont care about anyone else but I hope that somehow she knows that even if at least ONE person hears her and gets where she's coming from, it helps her and can heal her. she seems very in her head about things and worrisome and I can totally understand why she would but but its just not a way to live. Madison you are a beautiful girl in and out, just be your true self at the end of the day and stand up and speak of what you believe in. its okay girl. most of the haters are literally haters because they're jealous and/or 15. like come on. bullying is such a big thing in our day in time so imagine having a platform like her and constantly getting hit in the face with such hypocritical ppl that could NEVER live a day in ur shoes. the music thing was such a good choice for her. keep going Madison and speak ur truth, the right ones will respect it.
omg a youtube channel YES! i'm so happy and so frickin proud of you, eileen!! you've been such a boss ass beech and an inspiration to me 💟 ok bye ilysm
Such a great interview, mad respect 👏 tour was amazing btw, my favorite ever
I am so proud of you eileenie
dude i have nothing but mad respect for her
In love with this podcast ❤️
Madison is my favorite person this was a great podcast
Eileen has the most calming voice 😌
Madison is from Long Island .. I love her even more:) 💗 💜💖Thank you for the awesome and inspiring podcast ! 💓😊
I love this podcast ❤️❤️❤️
sobbed while watching this
literal tears, i love her so much 🤍🫂
Such a beautiful pure genuine person
I love this, I feel so understood.
Ugh this is just perfection Madison is the best guest
I fucking love her so proud of her👑!!!!!!!
Tiktok is extremely shallow and rude. And the people on there are too. :/
so exciting!!!
i love madison sm
As someone who also has BPD and am literally 8 years older than Madison Beer and I seriously do look up to this girl.
It’s so annoying when people take things out of context and make it seem like she’s a bad person. With that “I’m too pretty meme”, why do people assume that it’s all she said? I mean it’s obvious to me that after she said the sentence that she probably said something like “I don’t wanna be known for my beauty, I wanna be known more than that and as a person” before I saw the full video. How can people just assume that she only said that “she’s too pretty” in that meme/video????
comfort podcast
Madison, you are so beautiful
Theres absolutely nothing wrong with u Mads.. you are a sweet sweet person and u are not to blame if you had issues.. its just we live in a very confusing and strange times! Take care and dont worry ever!
Thank you beautiful souls
❤️❤️❤️❤️to both eileenie and madison
Hi,ladies I think you are really great ladies that are real both inside and out. Just be WHO ❤you are !
I’m only 5 minutes in but i feel so bad for her. she has spent the entire time so far adjusting her hair, glasses, angle, etc. I feel like she’s so incredibly self conscious and focused on her appearance that she’s only half invested in the conversation.
Same! It lowkey irritated me I couldn't watch it all, even tho I love Eileen
@@owenwilson9398 you can listen to it tho
i agree but it makes sense bc i also struggle with bpd & anxiety n would be doing the same exact thing as her lol
It's not just her appearance. She also has ADHD and social anxiety so she's always a little fidgety
It honestly makes a lot of sense why she'd be that way. Majority of the internet discourse surrounding her are people discussing her looks which must suck, also the fact that she was catapulted into fame at a very young age. I feel like both of these things would contribute to someone being pretty self conscious.
I love this interviewer, she has a gift to be able to speak to these celebs like they are friends talking over coffee. I never new who Madison Beer was but she seems very grown and mature. Beautiful stems from our hearts soooo much and is a bonus if we look as Gorg these two girls look. 🌼🌹🌷🌹😇💐💐💐🌼🌼🌹🌹
I love her sm
Wow, guess I struggle to get out of bed in the morning a bit too! Interesting point!
It's a challenging career that reveals your strengths and weaknesses.. Overcome your fear and face reality
She’s so pretty
Love you Madison Beer
madison writes, directs, can sing really well, she looks as if she’d be a good actress, not to mention she’s intellectual and caring. but so many people keep picking her every move and word apart. or just hate because she take inspiration from more recent artists in her songs. it’s bs.
The best podcast ❤️
I wish I could relate to going to frat parties
I relate to Justin
omg
So many things here for Madison to be tornEd apart on
She’s too beautiful for this world and it’s horrible to think that this is the reason why people hate her and want to destroy her confidence and intelligence. What an awful world we live in. Looks shouldn’t destroy somebody’s life. Whether someone is hot or not…
People will always paint you into something they can cope towards because they need a heat sink for their own troubles, angers, regrets, misfortunes and their sense of lack of control.
Madison has the right idea about everything.
AHHH PJ harvey & a song off gilmore girls 😍
What is Madison’s tumblr?? I love tumblr too and honestly like she is so real and honest. It seems like it’s just a bff chat. Like both of you guys are being so vulnerable and that is so hard.
Idk, I understand that feeling of wanting to be seen more than superficial qualities such as her looks. Obviously, she's got an amazing singing voice, but I feel the way she presents her image is very much in "trend" (looks and image based), "with the cool LA kids", "Instagram model" circles, it doesn't seem to sit in line with how much she preaches about things that defy it.
It's similar to seeing how the Instagram models that use the most filters and super edited photos making these kinds of 'reality vs Instagram comments whilst they contribute to the problem themselves. Like you're not saying anything groundbreaking and it doesn't mean much when you go right back to perpetuating that cycle.
i don't think you should take someone's images on social media to define them. we all show things that we feel good on there, obviously. and i don't know which side of madison's social media make u view her like that, but to me she always keep things very og and personal. she just posts things related to her music and events she attended. she also builds a small and intimate circle w/ her fans on twitter.
I've never seen a picture she posted that was edited. She has been talking about stuff like "instagram beauty vs reality" for thousand of times but seem like nobody really listen. because people always say she is "the beauty standard" which she never said she was, and no one should be. maybe that is their problem when they compare theirselves on social media, have to point out people's flaws irl just to satisfy their insecurities.
She's not being in line with what she's saying basically.
To be honest, most of what you’re saying is lowkey shaming her and those same Instagram models for “contributing” to the problem when that’s the last thing any of us should be doing. Do a lot of IG models especially the ones who have gotten work done, often tend to use filters on their pics? Yes…..could that be seen as making things worse? In a way yes….however, we have to remember that as a society….we’re constantly being told by the beauty industry what is beautiful, and what the new trends are. For IG models…..a lot of them probably don’t wanna post some of the pictures that have on their pages, and for their ones who’ve gotten work done, they probably didn’t truly wanna do that….but the beauty industry is very demanding. Plus, as a society it’s our own faults. We like to bully and nitpick at not just each other, but influencers and celebrities for how they look whether it’s all natural, or if they have gotten work done. We bully them to the point where they become insecure about themselves, or they become way more insecure about those insecurities, and eventually they end up going under the knife…but because of online trolls criticizing them so much, they have to use filters. If they’re open and honest about getting work done and always using filters….they receive hate for it, if they keep it all a secret….sooner or later, the haters find out….and they get bullied heavily for it. When it comes to Madison, she never asked to be born beautiful….that’s all puberty and genetics which she had no control of. You might think that she doesn’t sit in line with what she preaches about, but that’s because you only see what she posts online, you don’t see what she goes through behind closed doors. As someone who’s been following her for years….most of the time, she’s home with her dog Bowie, watching tv or listening to music, or sometimes recording a song. You’re one of the many few people who are judging her, and y’all wonder why she’s been so scared to go online. I also happen to also be from Long Island to, and I’ve personally seen Madison out and about in her hometown….she never acts a certain way like she’s all that, or is with her IG friends.
Well I just have to remind myself that I was born in the 80s actually 1980, and we grew up with very personal relationships with family and each other. I’ve lived thru all of it! So from my perspective of having both I notice that when I personally had depression it was during the internet age, and it changed everything. It’s easier for me to get out of that slump tho because I can reach back in my mind and pull out those emotional intelligence skills I gained from very personal person to person interactions almost my whole life, and it just makes it easier for people in my age group. So I definitely do have a soft spot and empathy for the younger generation of girls and woman expecially like my daughter for example who is 7. Drop dead gorgeous and has never known the world without social media and the internet! So she has never seen a pay phone, a pager, or playing in the streets with friends until late,or walking to school by ourselves in kindergarten, or watching tgi Friday with the whole family around the one tv in the living room lol it just goes on and on but it’s definitely different now. And we need to realize and admit that, not talk down on this generation for it like it’s all bad, because this is real for them like our generation was real for us! And we need to have options that work for mental health issues, pushing meds is not the answer to me! I think this is where the younger generation should go back and study us and what worked for us and try to implement some things that worked in the past. If mental health has gotten way worse, then we have to look at why? The cause? And figure out what can be done! What started all of these layers of mental health issues and what exacerbated this? So I feel like most people agree with her and the meds are just too much! I got myself stuck in a 8 year trap mentally with meds! I started working out , again reaching back on old school methods, and I did work outs, I did ymca membership with my kids, focused on getting back into the Bible and praying and going to church at home online! And that worked a miracle! So as you see I added old school methods plus the internet came into use to help build my spiritual health, and limit anxiety by using the internet. So definitely need to have experienced people that have gone thru it sitting around together coming up with a mental healthy plan! Infisus on the healthy plan! Those meds also make you gain a ton of weight which makes young girls soooooo depressed! Backwards like she said! Adderal been there too, hmmm, it’s nothing less than legal meth or amphetamines as the bottle said! Oh wow. Smh This is an amazing interview, very smart girl Madison, she will make it thru this she is very smart and self aware!
my love eileen
❤
You should get Nessa Barret
i have no idea who would look at madison and say "u dont look like ur instagram photos" she literally does.. whoever says that is genuinely lying to themselves
Cancel culture is the problem like ppl shouldn't attack someone for feeling offended when someone said something in general
She seems really sad.
I think part of the reason is because her image is what stands out all over her social media. Other artists might post random pics, or show some side to their personality, in fact just be comfortable being themselves; but when you're constantly promoting or projecting beauty standards.. that's what drifts people off.. because they see that more than anything else. People notice insecurity too. I'm not going to say anything further than that.
15:45 shadddyyyy the interviewer just HAD to bring up Ariana Grande 🙄🙄 unnecessary
She didn’t bring it up in a shady way.. I doubt Eileen keeps track of that 2016 era internet drama. pretty sure Madison beer is a known Ariana fan anyway
I would LOVE TO SEE Megan fox and Madison beer interviewed together
I miss this podcast when Bella opened up to you, its a weird vibe now tbh
Justin Bieber making her famous overnight.. how sad 😢😢
I really really really wanted to watch this video and I love Madison. I just cannot handle this… it’s like how many times can two girls throw around the word “anxiety” and “depression” 🙄🙄
Sending pictures is normal, but him sending them to others is an asshole move!!!
I feel like they just walked in circles.
It’s her performative activism that threw me off. But she seems sweet and has good intentions
Performative activism? That was literally debunked one year ago.
did banana break her lil heart :(((((((
Why the constant fussing with hair, glasses etc? Not trying to be mean but it's very noticable
I thought it was just me who noticed
I mean she did spend a good portion of the interview explaining about how her fame from a young age & huge critical social media following have given her massive insecurities about her appearance
She’s probably self- conscious in general, or it could be a self- soothing gesture (anxiety)
I think Madison Beer does have a lot to offer besides her looks. I think the reason people may give her such a hard time is cause she over fills her lips and spray tans. So it’s obvious she’s had something done. Maybe she should try to go for a more natural look when she gets her lips filled again. It sucks people are that way, but it may distract from her music.
Or not get flustered and just ignore the hate and do what you want.
she doesn’t get her lips done. she did when she was younger but they’re dissolved and she doesn’t spray tan?
@@emmysbear she has silicone in her upper lip nothing wrong with that
@@fallingstaer1478 yes but only a little bit like a tiny bit is left she’s not filling up her lips the little bit of silicone is there because someone botched her lips
even if she does have filler its not like her face is completley different, its just enhancing her features. shes a really pretty girl either way and shes much more than her looks
just gonna preface this by saying I didn't watch the whole video. But I just gotta say: its kind of mind-boggling to me that young women (especially), seem to struggle with "anxiety" or "depression", but is living a life that promotes it - GET OFF SOCIAL MEDIA. Seriously, stop caring so much about this projection of an image of yourself. Its a fucking digital drug. Pefect example is @ 1:00:00 -- my question to you is: so what?! does it matter what some group of guys think if you're not wearing makeup or not "at your best"...seriously how the fuck are you expected to stay sane when living in that kind of unrealistic standard of your life? And whoever judges a person by that standard is living a delussion. That's not real life. SOCIAL MEDIA IS NOT REAL LIFE.
Not only women are held to these standards
Funny to hear her talk shit about her own looks. If she want smoking hot, she wouldn't have a career, guaranteed. I know several VERY talented female singers who are amazing songwriters and musicians. Guess where they are? Nowhere, because they are not attractive Producers and labels have straight up told them they needed to lose weight, or fix something about themselves to look more marketable etc.... Look at Lady Gaga. She was told no constantly because of her looks. Shit, look at SIA. No one paid any attention to her until she started hiding her face and that became a gimmick. Lady Gaga and SIA, two of the most talented female artists of all time. Stop pretending beauty doesn't sell. It always has and always will.
Did u not even listen to the whole thing? It’s literally hard for women in music to be successful if you’re “too pretty” no one takes u seriously if you’re not “pretty enough” no one listens, and it’s something that happens to women mostly in the industry.
Basically sexism and misogyny. Look at Ed sheeran. He has a shabby hair style, nerd looking, barely changes his outfits, look at bieber..
Examples of how sexist the industry is and how its obviously engrained in people's subconscious, to the point where they pick these people apart.
Hey; there's an account who took this interview, cut Madison out of it and paraded it off as their own podcast. Search "heyaitslar interview" and you'll find it immediately.
I'm so sorry someone decided to take your hard work and pass it off as their own 💔