You’re so pretty. My channel got deleted last year and I couldn’t find your channel. You #shorts just popped in my feed. So happy to see you. I want to find your “why I left Atlanta” video to show to my homegirl.
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@@BlackMacho Thank you. I left in 2022. Your video was the driving force of me leaving. I lived in Houston for a year but now I’m in Memphis. I’m never going back to Atlanta. You are probably the only one who would understand how at ease your soul feels being out of that place. Thanks for sharing the video. Ima send it to her now.
Additionally, having a "man" around doesn't automatically guarantee happiness and prosperity. There are many if not most duel couple households raising delinquent children of ALL raises, so please spare me. When I'm at my sons football games and see issues, fights, and negativity, its from "happily " married couples. I'm tired of this erroneous blissful "two parent home" hype. When married women are the most abused, and unreported.
I never disagreed with what he said. I know it to be true. I’m not mad. I thought there would be more of a discussion and not the same narratives that dominate these spaces.
Having so many biracial people in my family I get a chance to see many sides of the coin. When white or Hispanic fathers don’t have money, the women don’t shun them away from seeing the kids simply because they cannot afford to help her pay some of her bills they still, allow the man to come around to spend time with the children and to give whatever little bit of money he does have, when I see it regarding us if the man don’t have the right amount of money a lot of times he is not allowed to get the kid… also many of the black men I know that do not have access to their children. It is not because they ran off. It is because the mother doesn’t want them in the child’s life. She feels like she can do it on her own, she doesn’t want his input, or maybe he cheated on her in the relationship and now the child has to suffer because she is upset. On average most black men don’t leave broken homes. There are plenty of studies on this the vast majority of fatherless children are because they were taken away from him. We have to be a little more discerning with all of the Miss information regarding our community. And the man who don’t give a damn about their children are the so-called Pookies and Ray 90% of the time women can see that they don’t even deal with the children they already have before they make children with her, and they also see that those type of men are more in love with the streets. They are with responsibility. we all know in our community our women are vastly attracted to the bad boy persona the bad boy image we can’t then be upset when we get bad behavior.
@@Femifromthechat no ma’am I’m with my family. Those stats are from 2010 and have been updated. You just gotta search for it cause it was hard for me to find.
@@luckilew ummm y'all are still using stats from 1964 and old studies on the CDC saying y'all are the most involved fathers. So it's ok when y'all use outdated studies to shame bw but when a wm uses studies they are not accurate 😂
@@FemifromthechatThe CDC study is not old, smh. A study is not considered old until it reaches 10 years since publication. I could throw a bunch more positive stats that show how well blk men are doing now, but you're not listening so why bother.
@TheChallenger1000 the Cdc study was 10,000 ppl. There are 103,000 ppl in Atlanta alone. So it doesn’t matter if the study is outdated or not. It only a small percentage. You know there are more than 10k bm in America right.
The people that sat in darkness saw a great light. Freedom from this place this world one day it will come.
King said we shall overcome someday we shall.
You’re so pretty. My channel got deleted last year and I couldn’t find your channel. You #shorts just popped in my feed. So happy to see you. I want to find your “why I left Atlanta” video to show to my homegirl.
I had it on members only I just had to put it to public for you 🥰 I'm Glad I Left Sodom & Gomorrah AKA ATLANTA | SONCERAE
czcams.com/video/E3Gtc7QJfcc/video.html
@@BlackMacho Thank you. I left in 2022. Your video was the driving force of me leaving. I lived in Houston for a year but now I’m in Memphis. I’m never going back to Atlanta. You are probably the only one who would understand how at ease your soul feels being out of that place. Thanks for sharing the video. Ima send it to her now.
Which everyone has forgotten.
It's called the struggle.
When I say this, I get called the “President of the woman man haters club” lol
Through out all history?
Additionally, having a "man" around doesn't automatically guarantee happiness and prosperity. There are many if not most duel couple households raising delinquent children of ALL raises, so please spare me. When I'm at my sons football games and see issues, fights, and negativity, its from "happily " married couples. I'm tired of this erroneous blissful "two parent home" hype. When married women are the most abused, and unreported.
I just wish the black man would not do wrong that is all.
When does he do wrong.
Thank you.
i thought we would have a discussion about the topic but I was wrong. excuses and off topic conversation
Why are you mad. He was right. Y’all leave y’all kids then blame the moms. Where did he lie?
I never disagreed with what he said. I know it to be true. I’m not mad. I thought there would be more of a discussion and not the same narratives that dominate these spaces.
Having so many biracial people in my family I get a chance to see many sides of the coin. When white or Hispanic fathers don’t have money, the women don’t shun them away from seeing the kids simply because they cannot afford to help her pay some of her bills they still, allow the man to come around to spend time with the children and to give whatever little bit of money he does have, when I see it regarding us if the man don’t have the right amount of money a lot of times he is not allowed to get the kid… also many of the black men I know that do not have access to their children. It is not because they ran off. It is because the mother doesn’t want them in the child’s life. She feels like she can do it on her own, she doesn’t want his input, or maybe he cheated on her in the relationship and now the child has to suffer because she is upset. On average most black men don’t leave broken homes. There are plenty of studies on this the vast majority of fatherless children are because they were taken away from him. We have to be a little more discerning with all of the Miss information regarding our community. And the man who don’t give a damn about their children are the so-called Pookies and Ray 90% of the time women can see that they don’t even deal with the children they already have before they make children with her, and they also see that those type of men are more in love with the streets. They are with responsibility. we all know in our community our women are vastly attracted to the bad boy persona the bad boy image we can’t then be upset when we get bad behavior.
Those stats that he gave are outdated.
😂😂😂😂 those stats are not out dated. Y’all leave broken home.
@@Femifromthechat no ma’am I’m with my family. Those stats are from 2010 and have been updated. You just gotta search for it cause it was hard for me to find.
@@luckilew ummm y'all are still using stats from 1964 and old studies on the CDC saying y'all are the most involved fathers. So it's ok when y'all use outdated studies to shame bw but when a wm uses studies they are not accurate 😂
@@FemifromthechatThe CDC study is not old, smh. A study is not considered old until it reaches 10 years since publication. I could throw a bunch more positive stats that show how well blk men are doing now, but you're not listening so why bother.
@TheChallenger1000 the Cdc study was 10,000 ppl. There are 103,000 ppl in Atlanta alone. So it doesn’t matter if the study is outdated or not. It only a small percentage. You know there are more than 10k bm in America right.
You complain about the black man with everything that he is up against.i don't understand you WHY.
Wtf are you up against. It’s 2024.
Same place same people different time.
So when is that going to change?
Why is it always next time?
I guess it isn't right now.