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  • čas přidán 9. 06. 2020
  • Meet 23-year-old Roxanne. She’s dedicated her life to dressing like Hollywood royalty. In a less than glamorous receptionist job with the local council, Roxanne earns just £12,000 per year and her cravings for celebrity clobber come at a price. In just two years Roxanne’s clocked up an unfashionable £14,000 debt, more than a whole year’s salary. Roxanne wants to turn her passion for A-list fashion into a new career, but the reality of her debt means she’s stuck in a rut and heading for skid row.
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Komentáře • 2K

  • @AL-zf2cm
    @AL-zf2cm Před 4 lety +3860

    I was today years old when I learned that ASOS stands for As Seen On Screen. What

  • @simrag
    @simrag Před 4 lety +3335

    I don't understand all these shopaholics, they buy designer things, but wear horrible clothing, and have average non stylish rooms, which make all the designer things look cheap

    • @kria9119
      @kria9119 Před 4 lety +333

      Because luxury doesn't equal style :)

    • @simrag
      @simrag Před 4 lety +22

      @@kria9119 haha even more confusing luxury is bought for the style of things?

    • @cindybeaton2103
      @cindybeaton2103 Před 4 lety +167

      This is going to sound mean but they are often extremely average looking. Like, it doesn't seem to be super cute, gorgeous girls who are shopaholics. I'll shut up now.

    • @cindybeaton2103
      @cindybeaton2103 Před 4 lety +65

      @ You tell me. Every single one of these shopalics I have ever seen have been extremely average looking. Must be a connection don't you think

    • @tigerlilly721
      @tigerlilly721 Před 4 lety +113

      @@cindybeaton2103 First of all, most people on this planet are defined as 'average', so the chance for you to see a beautiful shopaholic is not that high. 2. You call her average looking and i think she is gorgeous. Everyone has his own Definition of Beauty. The only connection between shopaholics is that they are mentally ill and need help.

  • @mariannesavallampi1160
    @mariannesavallampi1160 Před 3 lety +2649

    Such an unfortunate period in fashion to have bought your designer items...

    • @_kimiadventures
      @_kimiadventures Před 3 lety +172

      Not many timeless pieces hahahaha 🥴

    • @Eevanova
      @Eevanova Před 3 lety +129

      She don't have a taste at all, so "investing" in wardrobe doesn't work fo her anyway ...

    • @jelle3248
      @jelle3248 Před 3 lety +14

      For reals.

    • @TheBitchyFashionista
      @TheBitchyFashionista Před 3 lety +79

      The clothes are hideous. 😂

    • @HotSzejk
      @HotSzejk Před 3 lety +3

      🤣

  • @MrsTruthTeller
    @MrsTruthTeller Před 3 lety +3102

    How do you spend thousands of dollars on expensive clothes and still look so cheap? Seriously, she's wearing Gucci and it still looks like clothes from Walmart.

    • @theblondebiatch
      @theblondebiatch Před 3 lety +305

      Fashion back then was absolute trash, and I'm guessing she was considered to be dressed ok back in that time. Definitely not as good as much money she spent lol

    • @babegurl3152
      @babegurl3152 Před 3 lety +56

      Its bcuz shes is obese ! And... the eyebrow shape and her hair !

    • @honestreviews7185
      @honestreviews7185 Před 3 lety +24

      Perhaps she wouldn't have looked any different... oh yeh, buy wait - hang on a moment she would be saving $$$

    • @lugoncalves856
      @lugoncalves856 Před 3 lety +9

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mfenn7325
      @mfenn7325 Před 3 lety +224

      This was a really tacky era for high end fashion. I'm glad I was still a kid with no money for this period

  • @BRider221
    @BRider221 Před 4 lety +2513

    I absolutely LOVE how outdated this is. Hearing them talk about ‘Hollywood royalty” and then showing peak 2000s Paris Hilton gives me LIFE. The clothes are ridiculous which makes it all the more insane that she’s probably still paying them off today but likely can’t (or really, really shouldn’t) wear them anymore.

    • @AllenMQuinn
      @AllenMQuinn Před 3 lety +129

      Lmao hearing the OC theme song was a nostalgic trip and a half! A world without a Kardashian. Those were the days...

    • @ankida
      @ankida Před 3 lety +48

      I was 12 in 2k. I even thought the styles then were awful. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Ugh, plastic hilton actually freaked me out as a kid. 😅

    • @samanthamarie7232
      @samanthamarie7232 Před 3 lety

      Omg yess!

    • @josephiniewa3454
      @josephiniewa3454 Před 3 lety +1

      Anymore!? Never more like!

    • @minuit6305
      @minuit6305 Před 3 lety +29

      Ohhh i was wondering wtf was going on with her looks than i realized this is peak 2000s fashion. Ahhh simpler times.

  • @mariannestover
    @mariannestover Před 4 lety +1270

    Jesus the age of this video... it’s obviously 2006-2007. The music, the celebrities, the eyebrows, the cell phones... all of a sudden senior year of high school is a long time ago....

    • @natalialeipay
      @natalialeipay Před 4 lety +104

      Just the eyebrows themselves told me this wasn’t recent 😂

    • @debishaw9355
      @debishaw9355 Před 4 lety +10

      Natalia Vanderlan , so what?

    • @natalialeipay
      @natalialeipay Před 4 lety +42

      @@debishaw9355 sounds like I struck a nerve 😂

    • @debishaw9355
      @debishaw9355 Před 4 lety +1

      Natalia Vanderlan , you did!

    • @debishaw9355
      @debishaw9355 Před 4 lety +2

      It wasn’t you that struck the nerve I realize. It was Marianne Stover

  • @vandy5206
    @vandy5206 Před 7 měsíci +265

    Whoever came up with the personal shopper idea was a genius. She gets the feeling of shopping, but instead of losing money, she makes it. And she seems to be quite good at it too. The swap site too, was genius. And giving her a going out budget. They really wanted to help her, its not just about getting a show for them.

    • @cassidylouwerens1768
      @cassidylouwerens1768 Před 7 měsíci +9

      Exactly. They handled this so well. This is the first episode of this I've watched and I'm so impressed

    • @mollybrolly4717
      @mollybrolly4717 Před 4 měsíci +2

      It was amazing solution and great for her self worth AND she did them and herself proud ❤🎉

  • @jeffreylarsen4614
    @jeffreylarsen4614 Před 4 lety +1162

    I really appreciated the way the show dove into her issues psychologically with overspending, rather than turning her into a shame spectacle.

    • @user-pp4nd7vw8m
      @user-pp4nd7vw8m Před 3 lety +39

      agreed. What a refreshing approach!

    • @admiralbutt
      @admiralbutt Před 3 lety +35

      You musta missed the Overspending Awards.

    • @louloulaalee1581
      @louloulaalee1581 Před 3 lety +2

      Too late though 🤔😂

    • @alfrancis8
      @alfrancis8 Před 2 lety +20

      @@admiralbutt Has to have a balance, need some embarrassment to take accountability as well.

    • @lesleythornton1811
      @lesleythornton1811 Před 2 lety +5

      I was waiting for someone to say this.

  • @anotherperson3308
    @anotherperson3308 Před 3 lety +553

    That fake awards show was highly unnecessary 😂

    • @viceb7
      @viceb7 Před 3 lety +18

      That got me hooked 😂 so ridiculous

    • @eliedwards7693
      @eliedwards7693 Před 3 lety +16

      Yeh ahahah she looked so uncomfy

    • @anh7807
      @anh7807 Před 3 lety +12

      It made sense because it highlighted what she would be famous for...just spending money.

  • @jmlnursing1084
    @jmlnursing1084 Před 4 lety +1838

    Missed the "looking like a celebrity" part

  • @aukeycastle390
    @aukeycastle390 Před 3 lety +502

    19:05 My heart broke. It all made sense. She found identity in trying to be a celebrity to take herself out of the life she was currently living. After her mum passed, she didn't want to be herself anymore with all the pain she was feeling.

  • @CrazyBritTho
    @CrazyBritTho Před 3 lety +607

    Let’s pretend like we all knew what ASOS stood for

    • @kathleenkitcher852
      @kathleenkitcher852 Před 3 lety +5

      As Seen on Street.....celebrity sightings

    • @Aku_158
      @Aku_158 Před 3 lety +13

      @@kathleenkitcher852 No, it stood for As Seen On Screen, not Street.

    • @kathleenkitcher852
      @kathleenkitcher852 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Aku_158 .....sorry,that is what I meant to say....maybe autocorrect? Thanks😊

    • @petc8504
      @petc8504 Před 3 lety +3

      I always thought it was As Seen On Stars

    • @joanmcnulty2221
      @joanmcnulty2221 Před 3 lety +11

      I didn't have a clue that's what it meant. ASOS!!

  • @AnnaCN78456
    @AnnaCN78456 Před 3 lety +93

    She lost her mom be kind you guys.
    I believe the shopping is a form of dissociation... she’s so sweet I hope she is doing amazing today

  • @mascara1777
    @mascara1777 Před 3 lety +379

    I used to shop for fun in my 20's. Then I realized that although a purchase felt exciting , it would probably end up on the floor of my closet one day. Picturing that image made me realize that nothing I bought was going to change my life in some magical way. It was all just "stuff". Also, I started taking pictures of something I wanted to buy instead of immediately buying it, and I was able to not buy the item.

    • @Buncode7
      @Buncode7 Před 3 lety +33

      That's so smart to take pictures. I also have to remind myself, that all this clutter in my room was once money. 😪

    • @titaniumtiara4573
      @titaniumtiara4573 Před 3 lety +14

      I never thought of that angle by taking pictures-great idea. When I was younger and had a craving for something that I should probably not buy, I would simply leave the store and tell myself I could always go back and get the item that I fancied if I really wanted it. What would usually happen is that I found that, unless I absolutely loved the item, and the pricing was right, etc etc, 85% of the time I didn’t go back to purchase the item.

    • @sklolaa
      @sklolaa Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you for this! I currently have a spending addiction atm so this is definitely something I'd like to do to help with it..

    • @celestialgoddess8055
      @celestialgoddess8055 Před 3 lety +3

      I do agree. I also experienced that last few months and now, I'm saving money.

    • @annas4714
      @annas4714 Před 3 lety +3

      @@titaniumtiara4573 The problem is that now it is time of "fast fashion", which means that if you don't buy that thing now, it might not be there tomorrow. Of course, if you are a super small size, you don't have to worry - those sizes are always available and on sale :( :( :(

  • @KateDatingCoaching
    @KateDatingCoaching Před 3 lety +378

    Some of the comments are so unkind and mean.
    The clothes are irrelevant!!! The grief for her mother is the real issue... The overspending and overeating are related all to do with the grief.
    Judging her fashion choices or which celebrity to follow completely misses the point!
    This was filmed in 2004 things were cheaper back then. I rented a room for £36 a week back then!
    Hope this lady is doing much better

    • @zimjun7
      @zimjun7 Před 3 lety +6

      Yes! I get it! I started to type a long dissertation but decided not. I have find my peace....

    • @altinawashington-key5675
      @altinawashington-key5675 Před 3 lety +20

      Compassion sure goes a long way. ❤️

    • @litadriana5858
      @litadriana5858 Před 3 lety +35

      I firmly believe that the people who make the cruelest comments, are probably the ones with the most miserable lives themselves.

    • @Youmeandyume
      @Youmeandyume Před 2 lety +13

      Yes, I was heartbroken when she said that she sometimes wishes she had gone instead of her mother. I really hope she is doing well today. ❤️

    • @KateDatingCoaching
      @KateDatingCoaching Před 2 lety +4

      @@Youmeandyume Heartbreaking isn't it.... she really missed her

  • @nerdbites2212
    @nerdbites2212 Před rokem +98

    This girl is exactly the same as me. I’ve wasted my entire teen years impulsively shopping, buying useless clothes that I don’t wear instead of going out and enjoying life with friends. I ended up replacing my shopping addiction with a heroin addiction in the end and now once again I can’t afford to go out and live my life. Addiction is no joke whether that is a psychological addiction or a chemical dependancy. Shopping addiction needs to be taken more seriously, it’s very real. It’s a form of escapism, just like an addiction to drugs or alcohol. people with shopping addiction need help just as much as someone with a drug addiction. it’s filling a void. I hope she learned to get through this.

    • @kellx4321
      @kellx4321 Před 7 měsíci +8

      Jesus will fill your heart and replenish your soul with contentment and love and belonging. Only Jesus with make you truly happy

    • @Bookjunkie407
      @Bookjunkie407 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Omg yasss your completely right. Sadly, some people take it as a joke or they just assume the person is an irresponsible moron. Some have no clue what that person has been through or is going through and they may really need help before they become a hoarder.

  • @chelseav.8620
    @chelseav.8620 Před 3 lety +479

    She's actually a clever and well-spoken young lady with valid reasons behind her issue, I hope she is doing well today.

  • @Ella-bh1dn
    @Ella-bh1dn Před 4 lety +848

    okay but this first bag is probably the ugliest bag ive ever seen

    • @didimercedes617
      @didimercedes617 Před 4 lety +15

      I said the same thing when I saw it 🙈😂😂

    • @mirandaugh
      @mirandaugh Před 3 lety +27

      It’s like 2005. That was the style. Still god awful, but kind of an explanation 😂

    • @cdcd4358
      @cdcd4358 Před 3 lety +1

      Agree

    • @ashleywilliams9732
      @ashleywilliams9732 Před 3 lety +4

      Right! That’s exactly what I was thinking. I get that this was a long time ago, but that style was never cute in my opinion.

    • @Al-isthatyou
      @Al-isthatyou Před 3 lety +2

      I was wondering which you meant really and then I saw it and just...knew. Holy cow.

  • @freya1136
    @freya1136 Před 3 lety +202

    I really felt for her when she spoke about losing her mother poor girl xx she’s a beautiful girl - the 2000s fashion did no one a favour lol

    • @nataliefontane
      @nataliefontane Před rokem +12

      Speak for yourself. I was a hottie then.

    • @annaroy1694
      @annaroy1694 Před 10 měsíci +3

      ​@donnellokafor4376no need to be unkind...

  • @CD-ze6ly
    @CD-ze6ly Před 3 lety +155

    its really difficult losing a parent at any age

  • @moobrown10
    @moobrown10 Před 4 lety +532

    She's so brave. What a terrible ordeal she's been through losing her mother. Wishing her all the best.

    • @Witchezcat
      @Witchezcat Před 3 lety +19

      What a kind comment ... good on you :) xxx

    • @majordeezee1659
      @majordeezee1659 Před 3 lety +6

      Thank you.

    • @lesleythornton1811
      @lesleythornton1811 Před 2 lety +12

      Well said. A lot of other comments are going on about fashions etc. The message in the programme is timeless. It's completely about her loss

    • @micaelamcknight6967
      @micaelamcknight6967 Před 2 lety

      Your comments it out because you and I have the same name. I took the H out of my name… I do have to say your common is very kind. Good Anya

    • @peggypeggy4137
      @peggypeggy4137 Před 2 lety +6

      There is a similar Canadian show called "Princess: with Gail Vaz Oxley. A lot of those girls are spoiled and mouthy. This girl is actually very sweet.

  • @MithrilMagic
    @MithrilMagic Před 3 lety +199

    I completely get where this girl is coming from. I went through frivolous spending when I was younger but when I started doing social work, one of the things I had to do was teach financial literacy and household budgeting for women’s shelters, high schoolers and recovering addicts. I realized how my ridiculous my spending habits were and completely changed things. I really think household budgeting should be taught in school. I notice that a lot of people my age have terrible spending habits.

    • @Raebrained
      @Raebrained Před 7 měsíci +3

      Sad part is society wants us to be bad financially. In debt and living outside our means smh lol

  • @LaurenNavie
    @LaurenNavie Před 7 měsíci +26

    This made me cry. I really feel for this young lady. I’m praying by now she is healed and happy. I pray she has true happiness in her life. ❤

    • @liscatcat8756
      @liscatcat8756 Před 7 měsíci +4

      That's a beautiful comment, which is few and far between in this horrible comment section

  • @thebesteveralina
    @thebesteveralina Před 3 lety +328

    If she knew Misha Barton is broke now.... celebs spend, too.

    • @LizThrash
      @LizThrash Před 3 lety +3

      She's worth 2 million

    • @anh7807
      @anh7807 Před 3 lety +56

      @@LizThrash what google says they're worth and what they have are 2 different things.

    • @Katryncat
      @Katryncat Před 3 lety +22

      2 million isn’t a lot. I am worth more than that and I still can’t afford everything I want

    • @LizThrash
      @LizThrash Před 3 lety

      She can always just ask mom and dad for money

    • @lushpapaya9932
      @lushpapaya9932 Před 3 lety +26

      @@Katryncat 2 million what? rubles?

  • @nearlyflawless
    @nearlyflawless Před 2 lety +63

    I feel like the psychology coach really pushed her into 'admitting' that she was angry with her mother. It felt like he really manipulated into saying that when she didn't really have any anger at her mother at all. Very strange

    • @brianagreen8624
      @brianagreen8624 Před rokem +18

      Agreed. He was very odd and irritating

    • @eileenwatt8283
      @eileenwatt8283 Před rokem +10

      @@brianagreen8624I see sadness that her mom died. Angry is another level that I don't see but we are not seeing the whole of the situation due to editing

    • @harambae7014
      @harambae7014 Před rokem +23

      He does this in pretty much every episode. He comes up with a theory right from the start and pushes the person towards accepting it. I get the impression that he thrives on feeling like the intelligent person in the room.

    • @Helga-fe5xl
      @Helga-fe5xl Před 7 měsíci +7

      He's not qualified

    • @rechaelikwuagwu8542
      @rechaelikwuagwu8542 Před 4 měsíci +4

      So glad someone else noticed this too! It was very manipulative and forceful. It made me uncomfortable to watch. He was pushing an emotional narrative that wasn't there. When Roxanne acknowledge other emotions around her mom's death (like guilt) he sort of dismissed them and brought the focus back to anger. He should have dug deeper there. J was so much more helpful with the budgeting and the art classes!

  • @nrjohnsocam
    @nrjohnsocam Před 4 lety +784

    5 minutes in, and I know she's depressed🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @30catsinacardigan22
      @30catsinacardigan22 Před 4 lety +21

      A whole 5 minutes??

    • @UltimatelyEverything
      @UltimatelyEverything Před 4 lety +46

      She uses shopping to cure her depression it's like a drug for her so she needs to remove the temptation to spend money on these useless things someone should control her money for a while until she can learn how to do it.

    • @MsJeanneMarie
      @MsJeanneMarie Před 3 lety +39

      nrjohnsocam why they’re treating her depression with a “lifestyle expert” rather than a therapist is beyond me..... It’s totally unethical.

    • @daisychain3007
      @daisychain3007 Před 3 lety +9

      @@UltimatelyEverything She may be bored or lonely.

    • @gooftroop6303
      @gooftroop6303 Před 3 lety +3

      Wow didn't know there were so many licensed mental health professionals in the comment section! Amazing!

  • @PoliteTeeth
    @PoliteTeeth Před 3 lety +70

    The music. The fashion. The references. I’m back in the early-mid 00’s and 17 again. I hate it lmfaoooo

  • @amandacooper4962
    @amandacooper4962 Před 3 lety +79

    The guy telling her that she was mad at her mum was super uncomfortable :/

    • @chandracox6814
      @chandracox6814 Před 3 lety +10

      Not really. It's a normal part of going through grief....which he also said in the video.

    • @chandracox6814
      @chandracox6814 Před 3 lety +3

      Being blunt shouldn't make you uncomfortable.

    • @EvaG26
      @EvaG26 Před 3 lety +19

      He just kept pushing it, I feel like she just agreed to shut him up lol just bc ur angry doesn’t mean it has to be specifically directed at someone

    • @jamnbryan1
      @jamnbryan1 Před 2 lety +6

      he isnt a real psychologist, which makes it even more uncomfortable

  • @karenlee-johnston7118
    @karenlee-johnston7118 Před 3 lety +95

    When I lost my husband nearly 4 years ago that’s all I did- spend to fill the gap of having lost him! It takes time and a mind shift to get out of that negative place! I hope she’s ok! X

  • @Tipperary757
    @Tipperary757 Před 4 lety +186

    Should teach personal finance and household management (cooking!) In school for everyone. I hope Roxanne is doing well and enjoying her life.

    • @Augiee31892
      @Augiee31892 Před 3 lety +18

      True. But I think this kind of case is more than just financial mismanagement. She's clearly depressed and depression could make one do unreasonable things, no matter how knowledgeable the person is.

    • @MellyHhhhh
      @MellyHhhhh Před 3 lety +5

      There are a lot of companies who make money from overspending tho so... 😬

    • @octopus8978
      @octopus8978 Před 2 lety +1

      YES thats why i took busniess and economics

  • @judyruiz5710
    @judyruiz5710 Před 3 lety +42

    I was so annoyed that the "therapist" kept insisting that she was mad at her mother. She kept saying that she was not. She was angry that she died but she clearly kept saying that she was not angry at her mother. Ok that is all. Lol.

    • @ilove6kies
      @ilove6kies Před 3 lety +9

      Also I’m sure he isn’t really human lol he creeps me out

    • @redwoodrebelgirl3010
      @redwoodrebelgirl3010 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Pretty sure he was a "life coach", too.
      Life coaches do not have to have ANY qualifications, whatsoever.
      Apparently, they do not have to have personalities, nor competence, either.
      They may not even have to be...
      ... human. 🤣

    • @bugthign
      @bugthign Před 5 měsíci +2

      He bothers me too. No expression on his face at all. I know therapists are supposed to be neutral but he is emotionless and speaks for the clients.

    • @TheSimonpearse
      @TheSimonpearse Před 3 měsíci

      100%@@ilove6kies

  • @amydee8449
    @amydee8449 Před 3 lety +71

    Didn't like that he was putting the idea of being angry about her mum in her head. She said several times she wasn't and eventually she succumbed to what he was saying. Not everyone is upset with someone for leaving them ffs

    • @speakerffone
      @speakerffone Před 2 lety +9

      Yes, he always has some idea of why these women spend and convinces them of some dime-store quack reason rather than asking questions. Old VHS = hasn't progressed from childhood. Make up collection = shallow. UGH!

    • @meghanh71
      @meghanh71 Před 2 lety +7

      Totally agree, that was so weird. My mother died of Alzheimer's and I never once 'felt angry at her for leaving me'. How can he call himself a legitimate therapist, handling people's vulnerable emotions, while trying to influence/brainwash? Gross behaviour.

    • @jamnbryan1
      @jamnbryan1 Před 2 lety +12

      he isnt a real psychologist, that's why they call him a "psychological coach". he has had no education in medicine and does not posses a doctorate. he is just some dude pretending to be a psychologist. uk has pretty lax laws on calling yourself such a thing when you don't have the educational/clinical experience. that's why he does weird/creepy things with these people that are completely unorthodox. i feel bad for the participants...with him probing into their deepest issues and making judgements...all the while he is just some dude playing doctor dress up.

    • @amydee8449
      @amydee8449 Před 2 lety +2

      @@jamnbryan1 that's so appalling, he could provoke PTSD

    • @Moving_Forward247
      @Moving_Forward247 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Yes it seemed forced. I think she felt lonely and empty at times and shopping released temporary endorphins. BUT I didn’t get the sense that she was angry at her mom. She just had a lot of pain to process. The guy was kind of off in general-I think he needs to go therapy himself!

  • @heathercarter4090
    @heathercarter4090 Před 4 lety +152

    Bless I feel like she really really needed therapy, she’s so so sweet I nearly cried like 3 times

    • @majordeezee1659
      @majordeezee1659 Před 3 lety +3

      Ikr?

    • @janicewolk357
      @janicewolk357 Před 3 lety +1

      You seriously nearly cried??? About what??

    • @inspiredby624
      @inspiredby624 Před 3 lety +10

      I actually cried. I watched this to make fun of some vain spoiled brat TBH but she's actually a sweet young woman dealing with depression who's simply using an unhealthy coping mechanism to deal with her grief.

  • @ulatyszko1334
    @ulatyszko1334 Před 3 lety +417

    Why are all young people from this show look 10 years older than they actually are?

    • @jelle3248
      @jelle3248 Před 3 lety +79

      2005 was a hell of a time

    • @Mommyduck600
      @Mommyduck600 Před 3 lety +64

      Outdated fashion. Middle aged women often cling onto what was trendy in their youth so a lot of the older ladies you see today wear this type of thing.

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 Před 3 lety +21

      Tanning

    • @Jujube23806
      @Jujube23806 Před 3 lety +64

      Wait 10 years from now and look back at the young generation today you’ll probably see the same things. Look at those heavy make up teenagers today they’re already look 10 years older than they actually are.

    • @KateDatingCoaching
      @KateDatingCoaching Před 3 lety +19

      Carrying the debt ages people

  • @mumbling9708
    @mumbling9708 Před 3 lety +40

    I have never seen a therapist lead a patient like that man did during the 'grief counselling'... 'this is how you feel don't you!?!?!? That's how you feel'

    • @Helga-fe5xl
      @Helga-fe5xl Před 7 měsíci +10

      He's not qualified, in another episode they explain he's just someone who's been to therapy

    • @daCubanaqt
      @daCubanaqt Před 7 měsíci +3

      Me neither! It’s almost like he’s planting ideas in their head. He is a psychology coach, but I am pretty sure they do some sessions before they tape these shows. No way he so good that he gets to their underlying problems so quickly.

  • @driv3mysoul
    @driv3mysoul Před 7 měsíci +10

    Why did that guy want her to be angry with her mom so badly? She said she wasn’t. I think it was kind of messed up to tell her how she needs to feel. My husband died in a car accident, I don’t feel angry with him. It would make me upset if I was forced to say I was mad at him while screaming and breaking stuff…

  • @abcdisaster
    @abcdisaster Před 4 lety +353

    People here in the comments think that having extra pounds is a lot worse than being extremely indebted for years...

    • @ScourgeMonastik-oj1uo
      @ScourgeMonastik-oj1uo Před 3 lety

      You could lose a few juding by your profile pic hahaha

    • @abcdisaster
      @abcdisaster Před 3 lety +13

      @@ScourgeMonastik-oj1uo wow, way to be a douche

    • @angelastoddart9683
      @angelastoddart9683 Před 3 lety +9

      Cecilia Sicre You’re beautiful 😍

    • @abcdisaster
      @abcdisaster Před 3 lety +8

      @@angelastoddart9683 Well, thank you, Angela, so are you.

    • @paulosullivan3472
      @paulosullivan3472 Před 3 lety +20

      Well its not good to be overweight either, both are bad for you.

  • @aprilapril2
    @aprilapril2 Před 3 lety +189

    Roxanne will be not far off 40 years old now. I hope she’s doing well.

    • @23STEVO23
      @23STEVO23 Před 2 lety +35

      i went to college with her, lovely girl

    • @Fergpal
      @Fergpal Před 2 lety +12

      Ah that’s nice to hear. I hope she’s doing well now x

    • @avacadotoast5492
      @avacadotoast5492 Před 8 měsíci +13

      Dang. She looks 40 in this video.

  • @thesecretlifeofhuman
    @thesecretlifeofhuman Před 9 měsíci +146

    She’s a very brave young woman to be so open and vulnerable on camera ❤

    • @chrissalynn4276
      @chrissalynn4276 Před 7 měsíci

      Lmaooo

    • @OpalLeigh
      @OpalLeigh Před 7 měsíci +2

      It’s brave to ask for help so publicly like this:) I hope she’s doing well!

  • @sophiekidd6305
    @sophiekidd6305 Před 3 lety +115

    I feel for her so hard. I used to be in loads of debt from the same thing and paying it off recently was the best thing I ever did. No more credit

  • @dellareesejoseph2614
    @dellareesejoseph2614 Před 3 lety +79

    I lost my mom a month ago and Roxanne's experience has given me courage to deal with the loss. God bless🙏

    • @myriamwilliams
      @myriamwilliams Před 3 lety +11

      I’m sorry for your loss . May God comfort and give you strength.

    • @AnnaCN78456
      @AnnaCN78456 Před rokem +3

      Sorry for your loss hope you’re doing well 💓💓💓

    • @daniellenothmann7534
      @daniellenothmann7534 Před 9 měsíci +3

      So sorry for your loss! Hope that you are healing and doing well 💓

  • @vickylau3631
    @vickylau3631 Před 3 lety +25

    Having designer shoes and bags do not give the celebrity look if the outfit looks cheap. If You don't have fashion sense, you will choose the worst stuff, even if it is from designer.

  • @mereditheyusten7732
    @mereditheyusten7732 Před 3 lety +61

    I thought it was great that they introduced her to art. As a replacement of shopping and an opportunity to meet new people, learn a new skill, and find a new way to enjoy life. I think it was really smart and absolutely going to help her. IF she chooses to let it help her.

  • @rea1le
    @rea1le Před 7 měsíci +9

    Why was the therapist so obsessed with forcing his point of view on her after she’d been clear she wasn’t angry with her mom lol, I think she just accepted it in the end out of awkwardness 💀 gotta love y2k reality shows 😂

  • @juliepinney2856
    @juliepinney2856 Před rokem +76

    Aww what a sweetie. Hope she is having a good life. Takes courage to address issues. All power to her.

  • @miabanana9498
    @miabanana9498 Před 3 lety +53

    I feel like that shock factor setup was really harsh... they set up a big trick and then had her sit there alone while they made huge fun of her? I'm sure there's a better way.... so sad. She clearly has an issue facing reality and I think it could be handled with more sensitivity :(

  • @pink-uv3th
    @pink-uv3th Před 3 lety +84

    This made me think about my own relationship with material things

  • @Tummyboxx
    @Tummyboxx Před 8 měsíci +9

    I kind of hate how the therapist insisted she must’ve had anger towards her mom. She denied it several times.

  • @KM-nq7ez
    @KM-nq7ez Před 3 lety +147

    July 2020 ... praying her life is wonderful and fulfilling now.🙏❤️🙏

  • @Happyheart146
    @Happyheart146 Před 3 lety +70

    All the catty comments aside, she was given good advice and help and I really hope she's doing well.

  • @anna.m8
    @anna.m8 Před 3 lety +63

    She is awesome. She is actually quite aware of her feelings and is honest with herself and others

  • @smacrossing4201
    @smacrossing4201 Před 3 lety +29

    I'm really obsessed with skin care and beauty products for more than a year now. I needed this. Owgad

  • @Emilia.a.a
    @Emilia.a.a Před 3 lety +41

    Just think that one day following the current trends like Kardashians will be just as ridiculous as this documentary seems today.

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 Před 2 lety +2

      I am waiting to see what everyone's BBL's will look like in another 5-10 years 😆 I've a feeling regret will be higher than Mt. Kangchenjunga.

  • @missk7001
    @missk7001 Před 4 lety +107

    I do NOT miss the eyebrow fashion from the 2000s. Not that today’s exaggerated Instagram brows are much better but those pencil thin lines do no one a favour. As to the girl... I really wanted to shout at her to find a hobby. Shopping and fashion magazines ARE not a hobby!!!

    • @alamedadanceparty
      @alamedadanceparty Před 6 měsíci

      Agree, hope she can grow her eyebrows back, keep doing art, and make some genuine friends

  • @georginamartin3730
    @georginamartin3730 Před 3 lety +55

    Is anyone shocked at how cheap a Fendi Spy bag was back then 🤣🤣. Sounds like a bargain to me!!

    • @sisis-qt4oc
      @sisis-qt4oc Před 2 lety +6

      just tacky AF!!😆

    • @Moonlight_Sun01
      @Moonlight_Sun01 Před 2 lety +3

      Things usually tend to go up as time passes and this is like 15 years old

  • @NathalieMac
    @NathalieMac Před 3 lety +56

    Gosh I've never cried at an episode before - I'm in floods of tears! I'm praying for this girl, I hope she's in a better place x x

  • @marianneverivox1966
    @marianneverivox1966 Před 3 lety +26

    Roxanne is a sweet and soulful girl, I wish her all the best. She is beautiful, friendly and loving.

  • @hg393
    @hg393 Před 3 lety +20

    This psychologist or whatever he is 😂 jeeeesus 31:17 basically asking her to pretend to be angry at her mum when she’s said she isn’t

    • @popomavhs9408
      @popomavhs9408 Před 3 lety +2

      My thought exactly like forcing her to say she’s angry with her late🤦🏽‍♀️ which wasn’t.. I lost mine I would never be angry.. it hurts yes.. anger no.. he doesn’t know what’s own about

    • @litadriana5858
      @litadriana5858 Před 3 lety +1

      People often don’t acknowledge their feelings right away though or they’re buried way too deep. I know from my own experience in therapy.

  • @emilytelfer7542
    @emilytelfer7542 Před 3 lety +18

    I watch so much British TV and something that I have noticed is that they all seem to live in tiny flats overflowing with tacky junk like clothes, bags, furniture, kids toys and cosmetics. They have no pride in where they live it seems. Why spend $100s of pounds on stuff when your home is falling apart??

    • @emmah3072
      @emmah3072 Před 7 měsíci +1

      I think it’s because they live in government housing but idk

  • @annieweston3317
    @annieweston3317 Před 2 lety +27

    Bless her she's not alone many of us fill a void with 'stuff' but ultimately nothing does. I cut up my card at 22 never had one since. I save for what i want. It feels good to not be in debt abd have less useless clutter. We live we learn. Good luck hun.

  • @soniatibacov1700
    @soniatibacov1700 Před 4 lety +655

    Y'all know depressed people are not going to hit the gym everyday and live on salads, right? I'm all for living healthy, but you sound like mean 12 year olds with the body shaming.

    • @kimmichaud4064
      @kimmichaud4064 Před 3 lety +7

      I do

    • @pencey
      @pencey Před 3 lety +40

      THANK YOU. So much judgment. People like to talk about how bad others are but you don't see them stopping watching.

    • @paulosullivan3472
      @paulosullivan3472 Před 3 lety +24

      Being overweight is very bad for people, encouraging people to look after themselves is not "body shaming" but encouraging good changes in behaviour. Calling it body shaming though makes you responsible for enabling people to harm themselves. You should be ashamed for calling it body shaming.

    • @emmasarge4057
      @emmasarge4057 Před 3 lety +28

      Exactly. This young woman is hurting and grieving while people are insulting her.

    • @mariselalopez3930
      @mariselalopez3930 Před 3 lety +28

      @@paulosullivan3472 the video is about her spending, not her body. being overweight is an issue but that has nothing to do with her problem with spending. YOU should be ashamed.

  • @artenman
    @artenman Před 3 lety +55

    Bills? Throw them away and they will go away! How have I not tried this?

  • @lauramcnally1805
    @lauramcnally1805 Před 3 lety +39

    As a shopoholic myself, spending myself into debt and homelessness, this was a very good documentary, that addictive personalities can let things get out of hand before you know it. I do hope normalcy has returned to her and her life. God Bless!

    • @redwoodrebelgirl3010
      @redwoodrebelgirl3010 Před 8 měsíci +8

      I hope that you have found safety, security, freedom, comfort, healing, strength, support, Light, Hope, & peace.
      You deserve to be a free, healthy, balanced person, who has a home & safety, & security.

    • @jayrobinson7554
      @jayrobinson7554 Před 4 měsíci

      I hope you are in a better and safe place now. X

  • @nariasealy1220
    @nariasealy1220 Před 3 lety +39

    i genuinely thought her debt was going to be so much higher. i hope she's doing well now.

  • @suedefringe
    @suedefringe Před 3 lety +31

    I hope she wasn't so depressed about her mum after this. She really seemed like a sweet girl.

  • @jage5256
    @jage5256 Před 3 lety +70

    Once a month I took the kids on a drive in the country let them roll down the windows stick their heads out the window and scream until they couldn't scream anymore. Always on Fridays after I got off work. We all screamed till we started laughing like crazy. It was free it really works. The stuff u keep inside from work and school is angry of ppl and stuff. Try it!

    • @thatdeliagirl1491
      @thatdeliagirl1491 Před 3 lety +3

      Until a cop pulls you over for disturbing the peace😂

    • @annetnedelec1313
      @annetnedelec1313 Před 3 lety +1

      That's GREAT!

    • @anh7807
      @anh7807 Před 3 lety

      That sounds like a blast🤪
      Although I'd be worried someone is around ready to call 911

  • @sophieeffulgence5310
    @sophieeffulgence5310 Před 3 lety +38

    What a lovely person she is though- I think her personality really shone through. Grief can affect people in lots of ways. But I liked the fact that she was willing to open up and change what she didn’t want in her life anymore :) that takes courage to do

  • @kikinoir8083
    @kikinoir8083 Před 3 lety +45

    Its crazy how you can see the change and maturity in that last clip. I'm glad this helped her.

  • @user-pp4nd7vw8m
    @user-pp4nd7vw8m Před 3 lety +55

    Really proud of her. Charming lady that regained balance and very grateful.

  • @melaniexoxo
    @melaniexoxo Před 4 lety +327

    Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie? How old is this?

    • @originalindiechick7999
      @originalindiechick7999 Před 4 lety +101

      The barely-there eyebrows give it away too.

    • @yazmin4434
      @yazmin4434 Před 4 lety +101

      Judging by the background music, pretty sure this was filmed early 2000s

    • @florjean965
      @florjean965 Před 4 lety +67

      Omg this screams 2004-2007 vibes!

    • @kdp8133
      @kdp8133 Před 4 lety +32

      This was about 15 years ago, before awful slug eyebrows

    • @florjean965
      @florjean965 Před 4 lety +21

      @@moominmay it's NOT the 90s as a person who was teenager during the time in which Lindsay Lohan and Paris Hilton were super popular, this TV show is clearly 2003 - 2007. For example the terrible music (playing in the background) and the tragic fashion gives me flashbacks to that period in time.

  • @katpurfect2592
    @katpurfect2592 Před 3 lety +33

    Don't pull the girl down. This is an adiction, she compansating for something. Bless her. Hope she learns the value of money.

  • @gberia1
    @gberia1 Před 3 lety +81

    Are all current fashion CZcamsrs depressed too in some way? They do expensive hauls every week! I know they earn money through YT but some of their hauls are really really expensive to justify.

    • @SabrinaHawk
      @SabrinaHawk Před 3 lety +9

      Well they get to write off thing used in videos in their taxes

    • @LizThrash
      @LizThrash Před 3 lety +4

      The global economy would collapse without haul videos.... and Sabrina is right, it's tax deductible as a business expense.

    • @SabrinaHawk
      @SabrinaHawk Před 3 lety +2

      Liz Thrash lol so glad you comment because I was able to reread my reply and oof the typos ( missing words ) was brutal - edited so it now makes sense

    • @ashleyj0
      @ashleyj0 Před 3 lety

      I was thinking the same thing.

    • @Kuwkay
      @Kuwkay Před 3 lety +10

      And some of those clothes are free from the brand

  • @helpyourselfimbusy5747
    @helpyourselfimbusy5747 Před 4 lety +61

    “OC? Buffy? Where nothing bad happens”
    Um... I’m pretty sure Mischa’s character dies and Buffy, well season 6 happened so 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @labrat7999
      @labrat7999 Před 4 lety +7

      Haha I thought that! The OC wasn't a perfect fairy tale 🤣🤣

    • @inspiredby624
      @inspiredby624 Před 3 lety +2

      Sunnydale is such a lovely and safe place with all the deaths and monsters lol

  • @CA-bw9vw
    @CA-bw9vw Před 3 lety +17

    Stop the mean comments on this chick okay. She needs therapy and support from loved ones. Support not in money, but a listening ear, a loving companion, a source of good advice.

  • @mundaneamazing
    @mundaneamazing Před 9 měsíci +18

    I have so much stuff from ASOS and I learned mere seconds ago that it stands for "as seen on screen" 😅
    I shopped like crazy at that age, too. Materialism was being pushed on us constantly and I worked at the mall so my paycheck went from my direct deposit right back to the store. Luckily, I was taught the danger of debt by my older sister's mistakes so I only could spend what I had.
    I still have too many clothes, but I have enough sense not to buy more now.

    • @HoneyQuint
      @HoneyQuint Před 4 měsíci

      It is even worse now. Not only materialism but ageism kids are so retarded nowadays they call somebody in their 30s old or ageing and wotsnot. I never shopped online, unless it was the ebay

  • @lesley9989
    @lesley9989 Před 2 lety +14

    I loved Shopaholics. The one where they're trying to stop one girl buying loads of shoes, they line up all hers on her stairs. Her eyes light up like a beacon

  • @UltimatelyEverything
    @UltimatelyEverything Před 4 lety +167

    Some of the kids that watch this video weren't even born when this was originally made

  • @AllenMQuinn
    @AllenMQuinn Před 3 lety +27

    Kinda crazy that Roxanne is now pretty much the same age as her older sister when this was filmed!

  • @monicaluketich6913
    @monicaluketich6913 Před 7 měsíci +2

    As Dolly Parton says "it takes a lot of money to look this cheap!" When I was working and had " to dress" for my position, I went with classics. Now I'm retired and own a small ranch, t-shirts and blue jeans are my normal wear - that's good for working with animals and going into our small rural town for shopping.

  • @nas10iris
    @nas10iris Před 7 měsíci +5

    I cried with her. I miss my mom so much and I can't do what she did. I can't scatter the ashes. It will be the hardest thing, after touching her cold body. Roxanne is stronger than she thinks.

    • @KaliKali-hv9bt
      @KaliKali-hv9bt Před 7 měsíci

      😘😘😘😘😘😘 I wish you peace and love

  • @farsta8
    @farsta8 Před 3 lety +14

    Shopping was her escape. Hopefully she's better now.

  • @exquisitelyelizabeth6531
    @exquisitelyelizabeth6531 Před 9 měsíci +7

    The hurt of losing someone..i can relate. I hope she heals and become an amazing young woman

  • @woodlandflower87
    @woodlandflower87 Před 3 lety +25

    It was such an emotional episode that made me even cry.
    Great formation that Roxanne made !!!! Strong girl !!!!

  • @dianebeckett7494
    @dianebeckett7494 Před 3 lety +21

    A very pretty girl ..I hope she's debt free and happy all these years later .

  • @HashtagAPI8
    @HashtagAPI8 Před 3 lety +20

    What a sweet sweet girl. I hope she got better and was able to move on and have a happy life.

  • @Animazed0micky
    @Animazed0micky Před 2 lety +14

    I know people are ragging on her for her clothes but I have to say I liked this episode. I see where she used shopping to fill a void her mom and previous social life left. Poor girl. I cant imagine losing my mom. I totally understand her feelings. I think the crew handled it really well too by giving her money to spend getting out ofthe house. Ultimately I thought she justneeded to be surrounded by loved ones

  • @forevergreen7698
    @forevergreen7698 Před 3 lety +18

    Her sister is lovely, she is lucky to have her.

  • @jessywanders8829
    @jessywanders8829 Před 3 lety +19

    I am glad she received help with her grief and shopping addiction. It is difficult to admit you need help.

  • @dewilew2137
    @dewilew2137 Před 2 lety +9

    I wish they had her sell the shoes that don’t fit, and put the money toward her debt or paying back her family rather than swapping them.

  • @myadoua06
    @myadoua06 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Great episode and such a sweetheart. This is what reality shows should be about. Not just showing people with these issues but helping them overcome it. I love how the people helping her genuinely wanted to help her and they didn’t have alternate agenda.

  • @rebeccanater
    @rebeccanater Před 7 měsíci +4

    This soundtrack slaps

  • @ShoppeeHolic
    @ShoppeeHolic Před 3 lety +28

    Covid-free era. I miss shopping for clothes and shoes🛍 😢

    • @PSL_Lover2024
      @PSL_Lover2024 Před 3 lety +5

      I was wondering why the cashier and her weren't wearing masks 🤣 covid has me so paranoid now

  • @Dines27120
    @Dines27120 Před 4 lety +148

    I buy my stuff in salvation army and thrift store...

    • @blessedtruthdragon9145
      @blessedtruthdragon9145 Před 4 lety +8

      and make it work!

    • @rl7090
      @rl7090 Před 4 lety +14

      I love second hand shops - comes in handy as I work in one 😂

    • @greenkitty82
      @greenkitty82 Před 4 lety +17

      I buy alot of second hand stuff as the quality is great and lasts the test of time. But ive never understood this notion of why people want to be like celebrities and think that their lifestyle will make you happy. We need to be ourselves in this life and just copying people is just living as someone else which means you will always be hiding behind them.

    • @sharone6077
      @sharone6077 Před 4 lety +11

      I do too there's everything at thrift stores

    • @blondielynn337
      @blondielynn337 Před 4 lety +7

      @@rl7090 that would be a fun place to work i love thift stores

  • @Froggiespit
    @Froggiespit Před 3 lety +17

    Honestly she should be selling a lot of her purses and shoes, that would help her to tackle the debt a little more each month

    • @daCubanaqt
      @daCubanaqt Před 7 měsíci

      I agree! Back then eBay wasn’t inundated with businesses, she would’ve made a lot of money.

  • @beatriz25ish
    @beatriz25ish Před 2 lety +9

    I was a teen when I watched this episode for the first time, like everyone I focused on the shopping. Two decades later I can relate, after my mom died I turned to alcohol and shopping.

  • @parkerzeigler431
    @parkerzeigler431 Před 3 lety +15

    I am so proud of her but I cried so hard for her when she let her mom go on the holiday for a forever peace

  • @mochiis4481
    @mochiis4481 Před 3 lety +16

    When jo was bashing what she was watching . I mean who doesn’t love watching buffy the vampire slayer?

  • @giseleazerad2978
    @giseleazerad2978 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Roxanne is a wonderful person .She was attempting to deal with her grief by overspending .Some of the people made nasty comments , perhaps they should try to place themselves in her place !

  • @elliswondering7444
    @elliswondering7444 Před 3 lety +38

    And here's me taking 4 months to choose a dress I intend to own for the rest of my life haha

  • @tatan4939
    @tatan4939 Před 3 lety +13

    Howcome shopping never felt really therapeutic for me, it stresses me to see my bank account lose money. 😅😅😅