A New Year or a New You?
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- čas přidán 7. 08. 2024
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Heyy man, I sincerely enjoy your content you've been putting up, I'm a 17 year old guy out of South Africa and your videos have really helped me mature into a young man, love from South Africa ❤
Lots of love from South Africa ❤️🇿🇦🤙🏼
@@brazosbottomhandeveryone recognizes a term of endearment. Hey Man, Dude, Bro, etc. are all suitable, and I assure you Dewayne is more than tickled to reach the heart of a youngster with his videos vs being offended by whatever friendly term was used. Get a grip. 😂❤
Don't make a big deal out of it. It wasn't with disrespect@@brazosbottomhand
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When your book comes out, please do an audiobook version with YOU reading it. You've got the voice for it. Can't wait!
I've found when I read a book by someone I've mostly listened to before, their voice defaults into my head anyway. Alan Watts being the primary and almost only example. Not agains tthis idea tho
as someone who really struggles with actually reading, i would love an audiobook to follow along with
@@micahwilson3783 true that i havent read a book in over a year easily
Agreed
AGREED! So many AI voice readings in audiobooks and theres no nuance or authenticity, cadence or realness to it. AND we need those pauses and exhales from him smoking the cigar
Simplified lesson: "If you want to change a negative behavior, replace it with something you really want to do it, and keep choosing that with consistency, until you become it".
Thanks for spreading wisdom.
"Things don't get better because of a new year, they get better because of a new you" Powerful 💯
If every boy had a father this wise, the world would be such a better place.
Большой привет из России! Мне 19 лет, и для меня вы как дедушка повидавший уже многое в этой жизни. Спасибо что помогаете всем нам! Ваши слова действительно правильные и по факту!
My 15 yr old son Trent Loves your Channel, your content and your message. We are frozen in down here in Texas watching you all day! God Bless
Mine is more focused on how I treat my neighbours.
Words of wisdom Dwayne always enjoys and appreciate your opinion and way of living.
My mom says “when my head, heart, and hands are aligned I know I’m doing the right thing.” Prayer is a great way to get aligned with your purpose. Another great video Dewayne! God bless ❤
Just a dang good message.
It's s like listening to the book of Proverbs cowboy style.
I'm diggin the ball cap!! Great pow wow sir 🫡
I just wanted to say that you are the example of a heroic, hard working, down-to-earth man that everyone needs to see in this world and try to emulate! Several of your videos had helped me. I’d definitely like to meet you in person one day!
This is gold advice.
I never make New Year's resolutions because I feel like it's changing for the wrong reason. I make an effort to change something when it's important enough for me to change. I like your alcohol example, replacing bad habits with something not as bad, working up to something good.
New year resolutions rarely stick. It's a fad to say you are gonna do them. As you say, out with the old, in with the new... as and when required. Just aim to make every year a good one
I'm 29 days sober, no weed and no beer. I didn't do it as a new year resolution. I have goals in mind and I just had a strong feeling that I was gonna have tough challenges this year. I wanted to have a clear mind. No amount of days in mind, nothing. Like I predicted, 7 days ago, I learned that I was let go from my contract. After almost 2 years there, it's like my co-workers are turning against me for my final weeks. I'm tired of corporate. I'm really trying to quit the office world this year. I had a good high paying job that I hated but I was going to reach my goals faster. I just want to live quietly in nature, I'm emotionally dead inside.
You’re the first person who has ever explained what Jesus meant about the person getting rid of the demon and ending up having seven more in a way that made sensed to me! Thanks for your videos ❤️
I'm 57 years old and still learning new things everyday , I thought I knew it all but maybe not so much . The wisdom of old men is like Gold , invaluable !
Thank you, Dwayne awesome video👍👍👍
Been struggling through the holiday season and really needed the wise words
"Experience leads to self-confidence, self-confidence leads to calmness & it is calmness that leads to safety" - Awesome & so true in all areas of life 🙂 Plus replacing bad habits with good ones 😉
Thank you for these talks. They mean a lot to me.
Thank you to Dwayne for being the hero that we need and always knowing what to say. I sincerely appreciate you. 🙏
Dewayne
@@obviouslykidding9597okay
Big love to you from Helotes, Tx.
Blessings for 2024
A real horse whisperer 😊👍 thank you for this awesome clip
Yes. Replace it, be consistent, be patient, get up when you fall, and don’t quit. Thank you.
I love this advice.
Can't say enough, you have brought me though some tuff days thank you Dwayne
As a middle to older man, ( though I like to think of myself as the latter), who has traveled to 3 continents, 27 countries, and 48 states of the U.S. serving in my countries military, and trying to LEARN from all and every experience I have to finally recognize someone that not only can instruct but make things understandable. Thank you DCWS . This is one of my morning necessities, just as much as my meditations, prayers, coffee and reflection. " Ain't a bronc that can't be rode, Ain't a cowboy that can't be throwed."
Have a blessed New Year! Dewayne! You will change and touch many lives! Take care!
My first book of 2024 is The Power of Habit and it is quite good. Basically says what Dwayne said in that you can't get rid of habits but you can replace the response to what is cueing your habits and thus changing the reward/outcome. Great read for anyone looking to better themselves.
Can you explain a bit more? Or let me know the author I am interested, thank you 🙏
@@ARdave311 The book is by Charles Duhigg. :)
Couldn't have listened to something like this at a better time. Thank you Dwayne
The issue I had was removing but not replacing, and what do ya know the problems came back worse. Replacement is KEY and I was able to learn that today.
Thank you
Americas favorite cowboy! Love your videos! Especially from a grounded perspective and someone who has had allot of experiences most folk wouldn’t have had.
The world's favourite cowboy even! Watching from the UK
I absolutely am hooked on your videos. Every year I say this is the year I’m not going to be broke. So last year I wanted to study AWS sysops and become a junior cloud engineer. Well I failed and I’m still broke. It’s like I feel like I don’t know how to succeed in this life. I have been playing music for 20 years and feel like a failure in that to bc I have never played live. Anyways just thought I would give my new years story and this year I am done saying I’m doing anything(I’m also 35 and getting scared I’m getting older with no career)
It's a sound move, the Internet is the future and old men will pay allot for you to do what they are too old to learn.
Like Dewayne said, don't just say "this is the year". That puts too much pressure on yourself. Don't label yourself a failure, either. That's not helpful and only causes you to wallow in self pity. If you're curious, look up the Standford Prison Experiment and learn about what labels can to do a person. For the new year, just preform actions that will better you in the long run. No need to make a 'thing' out of it. Try to stick to something you enjoy and can make a life of. A lot of people can't force themselves to stick to something they hate even if they need the money. If you can't stick to a 'money maker', just do what you love and figure out how to make a living off of it. You could try to get a gig playing music at old folks homes, or teach children to play your instrument, or try to sell your music online. Good luck brother
If you feel like like running-- instead of removing yourself from the situation, offer yourself something calm.
Replace fear with wisdom, knowledge and experience which supplies self-confidence. Self confidence leads to calmness and calmness leads to safety.
This is pure wisdom. Dewayne, I am applying this wisdom and knowledge to my innate feeling to shut down in my relationship. Everytime he says or does something I feel I wrong (due to his ill behavior and bad mouth against me in our history) I immediately tell him to get away from me. I tell him to leave me alone and to go away.
It's been a long journey with him and I do feel like giving up because I feel like it's time for HIM to change. I feel that ive been ever changing for 13 years and for him, he just gets to be stiff. I don't get it most days and I've developed such a deep anger with him and his chosen ways. I can bend if he can bend. I just want him to see the light.
Every time I watch your videos, I feel like I'm there sitting with you, we're smoking a cigar, and your looking directly at me giving me this advice. You always make me soul search. I greatly appreciate your videos! May you and Mama and the rest of the Family have Very Blessed 2024!
Love this man and the message he brings!!!
Great haircut D money. Appreciate you
your video's really help me overcome my demons you are helping me become a better version of me!
Thanks for the positive the love
Psalm 32:8,9
So much wisdom 🫶🏻
Sir, I know nothing about horses. I am an IT manager in mid 40s who follows your content since couple of months. Not too many people has a gift to share wisdom in simple form. Thank You!
Greetings from Poland 🇵🇱.
Surfing through and see DeWayne in a ball cap . That's new . Wonder what has changed ? Same old Dewayne , and thank God for that . Same old wine , just a different bottle . Keep on keepin' on Goldtimer . We all need to know that the way we live , the way we work , the way we think ; are normal . And sometimes WE need to just refine them a little to "stay on track" . Keep up the good work . Can't wait to read your book .😊
Always a pleasure to hear you 💪
Thank you, Dewayne. I wish all the best for you and your family
Hell Yeah Dwayne, thank you sir. Blessings
Yes sir, it will be same unless we become new. Let's let ourselves change. I wish you best 2024 to all of you guys, you are absolutely special ones out there on this channel
1791 is the day ! You didn't need a permit! Shall Not Infringe! God Bless justice Clarence Thomas
@@Trumptrain2024Vance What the hell are you talking about brother.. lmao
@@greatdavid8790 well if you took the time to look up 1791 you would know!!!!! Hello
@@Trumptrain2024Vancethe constitution and Bill of Rights has nothing to do with choosing to replace a bad habit or bad situation in your life with a good one. I think you are either commenting on the wrong video or just plain tweaking my friend.
@@straehalo lmmfao No Gates and Clinton are tweeking ! And Shall Not Infringe is very clear English
Such wise words
I feel like your words and wisdom are so simple yet overlooked. What I mean to say is that it's not a new discovery! It's obvious, but somehow, I don't think about these words myself when I find that I am struggling. I hope that makes sense. Thank you for taking the time to do what you do: share your wisdom with everyone here.
I'm 30 years old been following you for about a year now and Thank you for sharing your advice at anytime
Interesting how these things fall into place more easily as we progress through our lives.
Thanks Dwane, very good message .....reminds me that Shakespeare in his famous "Richard the third" puts the horse in the center of the story ...where Richard III had to chose between the kingdom and the horse , he chose the horse
The tack shed (outside of my saddle shop) is my 2nd favorite place to hang out in. Calming and comforting.
Thanks I needed to hear this, yesterday I realized I need to move from where I am as its doing nothing for me and if I move I can advance my life substantially.
I Am finding you sir since last years to say thanks for your words because it really helped me alot and will help me in future. A secret I would like share with you is that your words helps me to come out from depression and again thanks alot sir
I started watching these I think around the 350K range of subscribers and have watched the numbers go up. You're almost at 1 Million!
Happy New Year! I hope it brings you and your close ones many good memories and fortunes!
Thanks for your insight! Godspeed
Great advice Dewayne. Fall 8 times, get up 9.
Thank you sir maybe I can use this to help fight off some of my anxiety issues I’m a new subscriber I’m not the most knowledgeable or even that into horses but I am into good advice and good people thanks for the helpful tips
You handled that Brad Lea interview beautifully. Calm, cool, and collected. Your explanation of the trinity was fantastic. Most importantly, you shared the Gospel of Jesus Christ to a whole new audience. Praise God.
Praise the Lord Jesus! Amen!
Thx Dwayne God Bless you My Friend
Seeing Dewayne in a ball cap is a trip. He goes from rancher to pipefitter.
Good stuff, Dewayne! Very well stated!
Mine remains the same every year: Grow in the Lord, and read the Bible thru every year.
My parents passed away a few years ago and you have been a savior to me for awhile since
Thanks uncle Dwayne. You always seem to give me the right tools to handle my problems. I know I don’t need to do what you say to a T but it gives me a different perspective on what I should be doin which seems to be just enough each time.
Very well put, as ever.
It took me to my late forties until I managed to sort myself out.
The big sneeze closed down my business, and it was the best thing that ever happened, led me on a path to happiness and a self awareness that I'd always managed to avoid. And honestly, the best thing about it was that my current situation is all the more valuable because I understand the alternative is somewhere I never want to go to again. I think the 'path' is a slope, I'm on wheels, and if I don't keep pushing forward, I might roll back.
I am looking forward to your book, Dwayne. I have fallen back in love with reading. It was frustrating at first. I'd clear about 10 pages given an hour. I've only gotten incrementally better these past few months, but with every page I absorb, I become that much more formidable. For any guy struggling in the age of instant gratification and short-form content, I believe in you. Start now.
Your content is great. Thank you.
Marcus Aurelius is something everyone 13 years or over should know about.
I am training myself now to replace my people pleasing tendencies with new skill of setting boundaries or talking my truth (for example that I don’t like something instead of pretending I do). This is a fascinating process of transformation!
It’s very similar to training dogs: the dog won’t stop to like chasing cats, for example, but if you teach her recall and reward generously, it will come to you instead of a cat. Reward yourself for making better choices 😊
Thank you, Dewayne!
Look into Buddhism also..your people pleasing is due to your ego wanting something. I'm not saying it's true but one could look at people pleasing as being greedy as you are looking for recognition?
Anyway as someone who used to people please a lot but then realised you should be kind but firstly kind to yourself and not get used I wish you the best
@@Mannsy83 yes, this is one of the reasons too! Thank you for your advice. I'm glad you were able to solve this issue.
1:03 " quieren hacer cambios de año nuevo pero no saben como hacerlo.
4:50 "🎯 cuando vas hacer un cambio en tu vida, simplemente no puede ELIMINARLO"
5:33 PERO SI reemplazar LA REACCION NEGATIVA, por algo positivo.
7:51 "lo que hice fue: 1] tomar una situacion
2]Una reaccion negativa
3] en lugar de ELIMINAR ESA SITUACION
4] la REEMPLACE.
5] agrege una reaccion mas Positiva.
8:58 no fue de la noche a la mañana.. reconoci el problema.
Desarrolle y determine que iba a hacer para solucionar ese problema
Tome lo negativi y no solo lo elimine.
Lo reemplace
9:24 " si eliminas algo y no lo reemplazas creas un vacio, y la naturaleza aborrece el vacio.. y si no lo reemplazas lo negativo con ALGO DE TU ELECCION, ese vacio no permanecera asi por mucho tiempo algo entrara y sentira que esta bien.
Hey Dewayne, been away a bit, good message and a ton of truth and wisdom! Beard is looking good and the blonde pipe is nice!
God bless y'all real good! ❤
It’s been a really mellow winter here in Minnesota and I love it
Started reading Meditations, just ordered several of the classics from Thrift books. timely advice as always thank you for sharing. Myself is my main project for the new year. Take care Sir.
hey thanks for teaching me a lot of motivation hope you are doing well in life I plan on owning several businesses, but I have objects in my way such as distractions and addictions and you teach me how to avoid it.
Dewayne, your advice is amazing and inspiring. God bless your heart. I’d like to add to your advice a little. You talked about taking away the bad and replacing with the good. And for those who may see fit to just simply add something good to their life this year. Here’s a little advice: Start small, don’t start big. Wanna become a reader? Ok, simply read 2 minutes a day of a book, a month later increase it to a page a day, and keep growing like that until you reach your goal.
Praise God for you. You inspire me.
Once again, thank you! I have several young men who look up to me, and I find it very helpful how you re-tell age-old wisdom with stories. Kinda like having Louis Lamore giving Godly advice. Blessings to you, Dwyane, and your wife. Mark in Montana.
I believe "they" lied to us when they told us that opposites attract. Maybe true on some levels but with a relationship it s probably best to trust that process and be the best version of yourself and that perfectly imperfect woman will come to me....or won't! Either way I'm blessed!!!🎉🎉🎉💗💗💗💐💐💐
You're a wise fellow. This is some grade A advice. I'm planning to quit drinking this month after years of alcoholism and this is going to help me a lot. Thank you ^_^
For the first time in a very long time, I'm able to tell myself I deserve to heal. I know it isn't as easy as "I don't want to be sad and confused anymore so I won't be."
But something clicked for me a few months ago, I guess. I was so angry for so long, and I was so afraid of someone telling me I didn't deserve to be, that I didn't realize how much stress I was causing myself by making such a bigger issue out of it. No one was telling me I couldn't be. I just never got the validation that I wanted. I spent most of 2023 being very exhausted, to the point of me believing I had long covid. I had no idea depression could make you this tired. Somewhere around December, I asked myself, "Aren't you tired?" And instead of breaking down, like usual, and go "yeah I am! I'm so tired and angry! And I deserve to be!" I went "Yeah, I am. But I don't want to be anymore. I want to be happy."
Breaking out of a victim mentality is a lot more difficult than I told myself it would be. I've had to confront very real fears. But if I can survive cancer and my father, I can thrive for myself. That anger isn't doing anything for me. I'm a 28 year old woman and I spent too long being angry. I looked at my reflection for the first time today, right in the eye, and said "I love you." And I cried like a baby. So I'll say it until I can smile. ❤
Key conclusions :
Do not remove, but replace what you want to get rid of ( so as not to leave a hole for something worse )
Be consistent and patient
And change yourself because a new year doesn't change anything!
Love these. Much love from the spanish eastern coast🇪🇦
Words of wisdom God bless , see you down the trail.
Confidence ❤ it has great reward.
Hebrews 10:35
Thank you Dwayne. Your advice is so needed.
Never knock another man’s desire to change for the better. Yes, it’s touché to change on the new years. Maybe re will fail than will succeed. But don’t give up if you’re trying! I’m two weeks nicotine free! Feeling great!
Greetings from Florida.
Got out a pen and paper for this one.
Thank you for doing what you do 🙏
I have been pretty damn depressed but everytime Dewayne posts a new video I will force myself to watch it. It actually calms my mind alot.
Thank you. What you said makes a lot of sense and now i know exactly what i need ro do. Don't get rid of something but replace it with something.
Every new day is a new me and you
Every new day is a new we and they
Every new day is a brand new view
Every new day life's a game to play
Every new day has a way to see it through
Man, your videos are perfect, I love watching your content, your lessons are useful for me because I have a complicated life, you help me a lot, tks
I just started listening to Waylon Jennings and Johnny Paycheck. I’ve never heard such beautiful music in my life.
If you got up the one time, it means you can get up the next time.
I needed this. Thank you.
Thank you for the wisdom, God Bless you for this.
I stumbled across your channel when I was a younger man, and through your words of wisdom; I have become a better and stronger man in mind and body. There are many more young men, who may be unsure of their role in life. Your channel gives the many a positive direction for the many you have helped.
Sending you abundant gratitude and thanks from South Texas, U.S.A.
Thank you for your help. Your talks are very beneficial to me.
Raise your banner and plow forward. Never back, always forward.
THANK YOU FOR SHOWING ME THIS VIDEO GOD BLESS YOU AN YOURS SR. 💯 %!!!!!!!!😮😊❤