@nxyla123just because one person or a few people don’t find you attractive doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive, even super models have people who don’t find then attractive/ aren’t their type. i’m sure you are beautiful 💗💗
I'm bisexual and I've dated a virtual rainbow of folks. I have no type and the widest web of attraction that any of my friends straight or gay have seen
@@chubbybutterflies8971they were talking abt how they’ve just dated a variety of ppl as well… while it’s not completely off topic it’s not completely random
@chubbybutterflies8971 they just wanted to clarify that they weren't just dating men and were dating other genders. It is on topic because both people were talking about how there were no similarities between the people they had dated.
It's not that you don't know who you are. It's just that you're not blinded by a specific aspect of a person. I (an americanized latio) have dated ever type of women who would treat me right. Now married to a white woman.
No one talks about it because most people don't have a type in reality. You don't have to bring race or ethnicity in to realize that you can like or be attracted to different kinds of people. There are people out there who want a slice of both Henry Cavill and Timothée Chalamet. What a world.
Orrrrr, hear me out. No one talks about it because no one cares about anyone else's dating preferences. SPECIALLY when they get categorized by race/ethnicity
That's because it's America and most of us don't have a "type" because if we see someone attractive, they're just attractive, and if we like them as a person then we catch feelings. Race isn't as big of a factor as people think, at least it wasn't for me, but men may be different, they may have a type.
as a bi guy i agree dawg 😭 i don't have a type or anything... if i find someone attractive then they are attractive, i never look for specific physical characteristics or anything bc tbh i find it a little strange. as long as they are the same age as me and we share similar hobbies then i'm happy
@@frozenraspberries1552in other countries there is a lot more of one specific race and nationality but the US is much more blended. I guess it’s anecdotal but I’ve noticed it to here in the US that there is less of a set standard and more diversity so naturally people are more open to dating different people.
@@frozenraspberries1552 because I am American and I have been attracted to different races my entire life (black (Americans, Africans, Polish, etc) , white (European, Spanish, Asian, White Africans, White Middle Eastern), tan (Asian, Hispanic , Arabic, etc.),etc... Never made a difference. Most of the time only men of European descent have actually pursued me (asked me out), but I don't chase (if a guy has no interest I'm not going after them was my philosophy, WAS because I am taken now) , I respond to those who pursue. However, now I am taken and I am loyal, so that's that, but over the course of my life I can tell you there's not one race or body type of a man that is specifically superior through the eyes of an American woman. The majority want a man who's healthy, so they don't have to worry about them dying, and healthy doesn't mean 6pack abs, but the delulu ones (women) want a man who looks like a body builder and makes CEO money.
@@jacquelinexlara pretty much this sums it up. Our families have all been blended so much that it's really normal for most of us to be attracted to people of different races and ethnicities. I would not exist if racial barriers and ethnic barriers were an issue going 4 generations back, 3 generations back, 2 generations back, and so on. Most of us really are attracted to multiple races and ethnicities.
She looks the oposite of what a stereotypical latina would look like. Therefore, not understanding your own identity causes no care for understanding others .😊
@@MBJK_baby I'm not pissed I'm laughing. You're one to talk bc you could've just scrolled past my comment without getting mad at it but you didn't. Why don't you, "scroll". You goofy beluga baby.
I'm mixed my dad is white, and my mom is northen Mexican, but she raised me they divorced when I was young I'm bilingual. I agree with this, I dated different races. I ended up with an Australian who has almost 100% British ancestry and we are going on 10 years married. We get along like we were raised together. He also has no prejudices like American men usually have.
Americanized Latina here!!! This is so true. I’ll talk with friends and be like “my type is women :)” and somehow that’s not specific enough, they’ll be like “women who???” And what am I supposed to say Women who women???? My on going theory is that because we have a broad multi cultural background we seek people who share just a portion of that background because our mix of being Latin and American is unique to each household.
I agree to this as a Boricua raised between PR and Tx I had no prefrence to physical types. Married the lightest skinned Boricua to exist looks american but knows no 🌟Ingles⭐️😂
I'm first gen American, but Belgian. I'm the same. I think we just haven't had a monochromatic image of what a partner should be as a result of living between cultures
Yeah this is just dating. I've been with almost every race. Most of my bfs were white or Asian (I'm half and half), but in general I think it's just a matter of many Americans not having a racial preference.
I feel that. I never say I have a type either but bc I was raised very american, even though my background is Korean/Mexican. I wasn't raised either way since my dad (texas born mexican) wasnt around and my mom (korea born) is an adopted daughter raised in Minnesota by white american ppl. I always felt like I don't have a preference bc I dont really have a secured bias cultural background.
What is is with Americans and their obsesión with ethnicity. I am argentinian and I just don’t get why they feel like it is such a big deal. It doesn’t define who you are unless you were raised in that country
nope, I thought I wanted a white boy until I really embraced and appreciated my culture, and I realized I needed them to be just as passionate about being Hispanic/ Mexican as I am- I need that grito to come from generations of experience
SERIOUSLY! In Mexico i went to a private school and there were a few güeritos, that made me swoon and you known, the obsession in our countries with color. Then here in the US, yeah, I would for the Chads but also, my Mexican friend in band would make my heart flutter. Or watching the guys on the soccer team, well yeah. Lately I have been on a bit of an Italian mood 😂
Same. I’ve dated blacks, Latino, whites, super white 😂, and Native American The common factor has been the love for family even if it’s different ways.
Maybe if people stopped talking about skin colours and other ways to differentiate (usually negatively) there wouldn’t be as many issues. People have preferences, but stop being so superficial
Why I never thought about this!!!! I was attracted to anyone who caught my eye! Any raise. Only race I was not into was Chinese ….. I ended up marrying a Chinese guy I had a random crush on. Married with a kid ❤
Mehhhh well I’ve only dated 2 guys my previous boyfriend was a second generation Mexican American but he was a musician! My current boyfriend is a first generation mexican American (like me) and he is also a musician 😳 soo I kinda do have a type. Almost every guy I’ve liked is either a musician or Mexican American, but the guy who was both won me over 🥲
I was born, raised and still living in a latinamerican country. I think it has to do with growing up in a mixed raced culture. Yes, most of us are brown/black but there are a lot of people that look like you (white, blond, blue eyes). People think my husband is my type (he looks a very typical venezuelan guy, although he was not born there, his dad was) but nope. Ive dated black guys too, white and everything in between too 😂
I was so confused when my bf told me I was his "type". I'm Mexican filipino but I look very Asian. Literally can't tell that I'm half mexican. My first bf was filipino and very tall and naturally muscular. My bf now is quite short and naturally skinny. Tbh for a little while it bothered me. It kind of sounded like he could easily replace me or might compare me to other Asians. What if by type that meant there where "better" types? I went through all the worst possibilities. Total female moment. I think it's a defense mechanism. Analyze all possibilities to increase decision making 😅
What gets to me is when I say who I've dated and people are shocked as a mixed black woman. Like... for one, I can't date my race, I don't have a strict race. Also, being that, I'm not a type to a general group versus individuals. I'm also so mixed I've been confused for literally EVERYTHING. People think I'm Arab, Mexican, one of my longest friends just revealed to me he thought I was part Korean. I'm almost disgusted by the response I get to being half black. As if, I'd be so pretty if not for that.
It's fine to date and try different things until you find your person but after dating someone from the same background with the same language and culture. It feels like a warm hug, like coming home to someone you've known your whole life. Finding someone from your culture is freeing, you never have to explain your customs or traditions. Plus your family will love them.
this!!! people always assume i should have a type and i have to explain no ive liked the most different guys ever ive liked tall guys skinny guys short guys asian mexican white black like athletic nerd posh hiking dudes etc like no !!! but then i meet white or asian ppl who only want to date and have friends inside their race and it's so depressing. wish ppl wouldnt care so much about that. i get wanting someone who gets your culture but the world is just so big and you miss out on what we have in common
Personally as one myself, I don’t really want a guy who isn’t Spanish. Something about Spanish men, I do not really want to date outside of this category. You’re white and from another country? No thank you, you’re Asian/Black and from another country? No thank you, not that these men aren’t gorgeous but I just have an insane attraction to Spanish men who are funny and sexy like they just do it for me.
Bc most people don’t have severely strict preferences. My ex bf was a twig, 6’2” ex marine clean shaven. Current 5’9” beard ex navy and built The only look similarity is they’re both white and have blue eyes. The ex military thing is a familial curse idk how I keep dating ex military when the closest base to me is 3 hours away.
I’m Mexican American and I’ve dated Mexicans Ams, a Guatemalan and a Salvadoran and one white boy. I’d date other ethnicities too if given the chance and if I like their personality. Why not? 🤣
😂 as I got older I learned that white boi culture aint for me. And that i need latino traditions in my home with my future family. Its easier with someone who also live them.
She might not know "who she is", but what I think she really meant was that americanized Latinas exist along intersections that are not recognized by other Americans. It feels like you have to reluctantly pick a side.
Girl! let me tell you... my children are 1/2 latinos, 1/4 japanese, 1/4 english and they only speak english.... but love Carnitas & Sushi and Mexican bread... but they don't like burgers 😅
@@Ryan-cb1ei I dont think its was his weight because if she was not attracted to his size she wouldn't've date him. Even if that was the case if a guy said anything on the internet about a woman size its over for him.
I know who I am, I'm a child of Jesus christ and my husband and I married when I was 19, I'm now 27. And we are still crazy about eachother even more so! Thank you jesus!
it's almost like attractive men come in every color
@nxyla123black girls are gorgeous bae ✨
@nxyla123just because one person or a few people don’t find you attractive doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive, even super models have people who don’t find then attractive/ aren’t their type. i’m sure you are beautiful 💗💗
@nxyla123yeah, they’re just racist though. You’re probably gorgeous, beauty isn’t restricted by color.
That's just called ✨dating✨
SO TRUE! And I'm a super Americanized black latina. There are very few similarities between the guys Ive dated.
AMERICANIZED LATINAS. END UP GETTING WITH BLK OR WHITE AMERICAN GUYS. While latino guys get their wives back home country
I'm bisexual and I've dated a virtual rainbow of folks. I have no type and the widest web of attraction that any of my friends straight or gay have seen
@@lovinavargas-carriedo2698why do people always have to bring up LGBTQ? Theyre talking about Latinas and you HAVE to divert from that.... weird
@@chubbybutterflies8971they were talking abt how they’ve just dated a variety of ppl as well… while it’s not completely off topic it’s not completely random
@chubbybutterflies8971 they just wanted to clarify that they weren't just dating men and were dating other genders. It is on topic because both people were talking about how there were no similarities between the people they had dated.
All this tells me is you don't discriminate.
You're open for whatever adventurers that can be had.
People go to therapy to get where you are.
❤❤
@@ingoc8446I’m guessing they meant having a toxic type, like the “bad boys”
It's not that you don't know who you are. It's just that you're not blinded by a specific aspect of a person. I (an americanized latio) have dated ever type of women who would treat me right. Now married to a white woman.
No one talks about it because most people don't have a type in reality. You don't have to bring race or ethnicity in to realize that you can like or be attracted to different kinds of people. There are people out there who want a slice of both Henry Cavill and Timothée Chalamet. What a world.
Orrrrr, hear me out. No one talks about it because no one cares about anyone else's dating preferences. SPECIALLY when they get categorized by race/ethnicity
That's because it's America and most of us don't have a "type" because if we see someone attractive, they're just attractive, and if we like them as a person then we catch feelings. Race isn't as big of a factor as people think, at least it wasn't for me, but men may be different, they may have a type.
as a bi guy i agree dawg 😭 i don't have a type or anything... if i find someone attractive then they are attractive, i never look for specific physical characteristics or anything bc tbh i find it a little strange. as long as they are the same age as me and we share similar hobbies then i'm happy
How did you come to the conclusion that most Americans don't have a type?
@@frozenraspberries1552in other countries there is a lot more of one specific race and nationality but the US is much more blended. I guess it’s anecdotal but I’ve noticed it to here in the US that there is less of a set standard and more diversity so naturally people are more open to dating different people.
@@frozenraspberries1552 because I am American and I have been attracted to different races my entire life (black (Americans, Africans, Polish, etc) , white (European, Spanish, Asian, White Africans, White Middle Eastern), tan (Asian, Hispanic , Arabic, etc.),etc... Never made a difference. Most of the time only men of European descent have actually pursued me (asked me out), but I don't chase (if a guy has no interest I'm not going after them was my philosophy, WAS because I am taken now) , I respond to those who pursue. However, now I am taken and I am loyal, so that's that, but over the course of my life I can tell you there's not one race or body type of a man that is specifically superior through the eyes of an American woman. The majority want a man who's healthy, so they don't have to worry about them dying, and healthy doesn't mean 6pack abs, but the delulu ones (women) want a man who looks like a body builder and makes CEO money.
@@jacquelinexlara pretty much this sums it up. Our families have all been blended so much that it's really normal for most of us to be attracted to people of different races and ethnicities. I would not exist if racial barriers and ethnic barriers were an issue going 4 generations back, 3 generations back, 2 generations back, and so on. Most of us really are attracted to multiple races and ethnicities.
Latino is not a race though… you’re talking about “white boys” as if you’re not white yourself…
Lmao what does this have to do with being a latina? Dating preferences have nothing to do with ethnicity 🤦♀️
If it pissed you off that much, scroll
@@MBJK_baby Shutup
She looks the oposite of what a stereotypical latina would look like. Therefore, not understanding your own identity causes no care for understanding others .😊
@@Matthew-sl8dx no 🫶
@@MBJK_baby I'm not pissed I'm laughing. You're one to talk bc you could've just scrolled past my comment without getting mad at it but you didn't. Why don't you, "scroll". You goofy beluga baby.
“How dare you assume I’m white”👱🏻♀️
I'm mixed my dad is white, and my mom is northen Mexican, but she raised me they divorced when I was young I'm bilingual. I agree with this, I dated different races. I ended up with an Australian who has almost 100% British ancestry and we are going on 10 years married. We get along like we were raised together. He also has no prejudices like American men usually have.
Gurl I feel so called out rn 😅😂
Your dating preferences reflect you as a person, not your nationality 😢
This is the most real video I've ever seen 😭😭
Americanized Latina here!!! This is so true. I’ll talk with friends and be like “my type is women :)” and somehow that’s not specific enough, they’ll be like “women who???” And what am I supposed to say Women who women???? My on going theory is that because we have a broad multi cultural background we seek people who share just a portion of that background because our mix of being Latin and American is unique to each household.
Because women don't have dating preferences. They have stability preferences.
Sooooo true
not true
@@kierad1794 explain to me in a few paragraphs what you look for in a relationship and why. Let's have this conversation
be so fr lmaooo Christian let’s not say what women have and don’t have
christian some of us make our money and dont give two shits if u have it or not
I laughed and fell on the floor, God damnit why are you right?
When she said "other" lol
after i could infinitely ♾ relate to her ik i had to sub and like tysm for making this vid
"There's no famous media yet to tell me what I should like"
I agree to this as a Boricua raised between PR and Tx I had no prefrence to physical types. Married the lightest skinned Boricua to exist looks american but knows no
🌟Ingles⭐️😂
Lol this comment sections just wild. Why are people taking it super seriously. Some person is just talking about her dating experience.
Glad to know I’m not the only one 😂👏
From one americanized latina to another. Its just called dating. Not every charachteristic has to be grouped with you ethnicity. Be your own person❤
“You try every little thing”. That is so true 💀😭
I'm first gen American, but Belgian. I'm the same. I think we just haven't had a monochromatic image of what a partner should be as a result of living between cultures
Gurrrll, half Venezuelan girly here. ❤
So real, I’m a white Dominican girl and I deadass barley know who I am.
Yeah this is just dating. I've been with almost every race. Most of my bfs were white or Asian (I'm half and half), but in general I think it's just a matter of many Americans not having a racial preference.
this is so fr 😂
I feel that. I never say I have a type either but bc I was raised very american, even though my background is Korean/Mexican. I wasn't raised either way since my dad (texas born mexican) wasnt around and my mom (korea born) is an adopted daughter raised in Minnesota by white american ppl. I always felt like I don't have a preference bc I dont really have a secured bias cultural background.
What is is with Americans and their obsesión with ethnicity. I am argentinian and I just don’t get why they feel like it is such a big deal. It doesn’t define who you are unless you were raised in that country
Bc you're not from here so you know nothing about how our country works
Don't speak on a country and their ppl when you know nothing. Learn some boundaries when it comes to our country.
nope, I thought I wanted a white boy until I really embraced and appreciated my culture, and I realized I needed them to be just as passionate about being Hispanic/ Mexican as I am- I need that grito to come from generations of experience
That’s how most people are who aren’t heavily influenced by their parents to only date certain races.
✨ personality ✨
the same with me and i'm black 😭😭
I was born in Spain to a british family and now live in England and I relate to this soooooo much haha
Americanized Brazilian here same thing gal
I felt called out 😂
Un Juan Andrés😂😂
SERIOUSLY! In Mexico i went to a private school and there were a few güeritos, that made me swoon and you known, the obsession in our countries with color. Then here in the US, yeah, I would for the Chads but also, my Mexican friend in band would make my heart flutter. Or watching the guys on the soccer team, well yeah. Lately I have been on a bit of an Italian mood 😂
Gosh dang ,just watching your video was enough for my ears....
So you're white and you date other white dude from different part of the world.... woooooow 😅
I’m Mexican and i could never date a Mexican man because I feel like they’re all my cousin. Married a skinny white boy 😂
Same I am a Latina but VERY AMERICANIZED So since I act and look American I had a sweet sixteen and not quince
Same. I’ve dated blacks, Latino, whites, super white 😂, and Native American
The common factor has been the love for family even if it’s different ways.
I am Romani and have all sorts of types. We’re just indecisive bestie!
Wow ok didn't think I would be called out in this one lol
It’s 1000% true I married me a white boy after trying a chick then a Jamaican dude 😂😂
She crazy
this 😂
Okay somehow I know exactly what you mean I just forgot about it bc I’ve been dating the same man for 6 years but omfg you are so righr
GURL YOURE VENEZOLANA ❓✨!!
QUEEEE
The question for me has always been...why would I limit myself to a type
Ok this is me but imagine being Americanized Latina Asian as I’m Vietnamese as well lmao
Maybe if people stopped talking about skin colours and other ways to differentiate (usually negatively) there wouldn’t be as many issues. People have preferences, but stop being so superficial
me but as a super americanized middle eastern girl😂😂😂
I think the word you’re looking for is American. Who gives a crap about the “Latina” part? You’re one of us.
Why I never thought about this!!!! I was attracted to anyone who caught my eye! Any raise. Only race I was not into was Chinese ….. I ended up marrying a Chinese guy I had a random crush on. Married with a kid ❤
Un Juan Andrés jajajajaja
Mehhhh well I’ve only dated 2 guys my previous boyfriend was a second generation Mexican American but he was a musician! My current boyfriend is a first generation mexican American (like me) and he is also a musician 😳 soo I kinda do have a type. Almost every guy I’ve liked is either a musician or Mexican American, but the guy who was both won me over 🥲
I was born, raised and still living in a latinamerican country. I think it has to do with growing up in a mixed raced culture. Yes, most of us are brown/black but there are a lot of people that look like you (white, blond, blue eyes). People think my husband is my type (he looks a very typical venezuelan guy, although he was not born there, his dad was) but nope. Ive dated black guys too, white and everything in between too 😂
The most first world country problem ive heard so far😂. Sis just cloae your eyes and eenie meanie minnie moe.
I was so confused when my bf told me I was his "type". I'm Mexican filipino but I look very Asian. Literally can't tell that I'm half mexican. My first bf was filipino and very tall and naturally muscular. My bf now is quite short and naturally skinny.
Tbh for a little while it bothered me. It kind of sounded like he could easily replace me or might compare me to other Asians. What if by type that meant there where "better" types? I went through all the worst possibilities. Total female moment. I think it's a defense mechanism. Analyze all possibilities to increase decision making 😅
Haha same. I’ve dated all the colors of the rainbow haha ended up with a white guy
What gets to me is when I say who I've dated and people are shocked as a mixed black woman. Like... for one, I can't date my race, I don't have a strict race. Also, being that, I'm not a type to a general group versus individuals. I'm also so mixed I've been confused for literally EVERYTHING. People think I'm Arab, Mexican, one of my longest friends just revealed to me he thought I was part Korean. I'm almost disgusted by the response I get to being half black. As if, I'd be so pretty if not for that.
Being Latino is not about ethnicity is about culture. Anyone can be Latino.
Thank you for not clowning on Latina accents like that redhead girl does.
It's fine to date and try different things until you find your person but after dating someone from the same background with the same language and culture. It feels like a warm hug, like coming home to someone you've known your whole life. Finding someone from your culture is freeing, you never have to explain your customs or traditions. Plus your family will love them.
this!!! people always assume i should have a type and i have to explain no ive liked the most different guys ever ive liked tall guys skinny guys short guys asian mexican white black like athletic nerd posh hiking dudes etc like no !!!
but then i meet white or asian ppl who only want to date and have friends inside their race and it's so depressing. wish ppl wouldnt care so much about that. i get wanting someone who gets your culture but the world is just so big and you miss out on what we have in common
She explained it because it’s so true
Omg yas... I'm a mixed Latina but very Americanized and I've dated many races! Well, not THAT many but I don't judge. If I'm attracted, I'm attracted.
I agree 100% people don’t even know I’m Spanish until I start talking. I have no exit White girl just like you.
Yeahhhh sounds about right
Im a bisexual white girl and i have this same problem 😂. No type and every type all at once
I WISH I was more in touch with Latino side cause damn would it be fun to pull out some Spanish speaking in public 😂😂😂
Nińa, por Dios. Sal con quien quieras. But if he makes you laugh and can put up with your big ass crazy family, that’s who you stay with.
Personally as one myself, I don’t really want a guy who isn’t Spanish. Something about Spanish men, I do not really want to date outside of this category. You’re white and from another country? No thank you, you’re Asian/Black and from another country? No thank you, not that these men aren’t gorgeous but I just have an insane attraction to Spanish men who are funny and sexy like they just do it for me.
venezuelanaaaasss!!
Bc most people don’t have severely strict preferences. My ex bf was a twig, 6’2” ex marine clean shaven. Current 5’9” beard ex navy and built
The only look similarity is they’re both white and have blue eyes.
The ex military thing is a familial curse idk how I keep dating ex military when the closest base to me is 3 hours away.
country boys ❤ sweethearts w manners
I mean...the best of both worlds 🎉
As an Americanized Latina i dated everyone under the sun. No preference....
Mixed Latino here. It’s more about the culture honestly. Far less about race for me. I’m Americanized as well.
Try every flavor of guy until you find the right one 😂
Nobody talks about it because nobody has interest. You do you.
No fr my “type” ranges from Paul Dano to Henry Cavill (both very handsome men imo)
To women physical appearence is still a prefrence but not the most important one. I guarantee that both boys were golden retrievers.
I’m Mexican American and I’ve dated Mexicans Ams, a Guatemalan and a Salvadoran and one white boy. I’d date other ethnicities too if given the chance and if I like their personality. Why not? 🤣
...thats just called dating
😂 as I got older I learned that white boi culture aint for me. And that i need latino traditions in my home with my future family. Its easier with someone who also live them.
Imagine having so little self awareness that you literally tell the world What's wrong with you and you still don't k ow What's wrong with you. Lol
Couldn’t have said it better myself 😂
She might not know "who she is", but what I think she really meant was that americanized Latinas exist along intersections that are not recognized by other Americans. It feels like you have to reluctantly pick a side.
Truth
Girl! let me tell you... my children are 1/2 latinos, 1/4 japanese, 1/4 english and they only speak english.... but love Carnitas & Sushi and Mexican bread... but they don't like burgers 😅
You just body shamed somebody I like how it’s okay for women to do this but if I say anything about a women part I’m the devil.
Lol reach much
@@DestructionAesthetics ?
Yeah idk if that was talking about how thin he was or his “size,” like why even mention that?
@@Ryan-cb1ei I dont think its was his weight because if she was not attracted to his size she wouldn't've date him. Even if that was the case if a guy said anything on the internet about a woman size its over for him.
@@Ryan-cb1eishe was talking about his body type. Lol
Juan Andres❤
Aint she white. She's just Hispanic
So true lol.
Most women don't have just one type. That's why no one is talking about it.
I know who I am, I'm a child of Jesus christ and my husband and I married when I was 19, I'm now 27. And we are still crazy about eachother even more so! Thank you jesus!
My type is THE THEATRE 🎻🎻🎻
Amen❤
yikes how old was he?