Japanese Pet Names ♡ What to call your partner? ハニーって本当に呼ぶの?

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  • @hughstout9951
    @hughstout9951 Před 4 lety +2024

    "Not a wrong way to call someone in Japanese"
    *also japan* : "if you don't use the correct form of "you", we will put you on a raft and push you gently out to sea

    • @thiskidneedstobemoist1289
      @thiskidneedstobemoist1289 Před 4 lety +24

      Hugh Stout sam o'nella

    • @holyvicar
      @holyvicar Před 4 lety +20

      @@thiskidneedstobemoist1289 DID I HEAR SAM O'NELLA ACADEMY? I'VE BEEN SUMMONED

    • @nishantbahuguna5461
      @nishantbahuguna5461 Před 4 lety +10

      @@thiskidneedstobemoist1289 did someone say Sam O'nella?!!

    • @holyvicar
      @holyvicar Před 4 lety +5

      OMG SAM O'NELLA FANS?
      IS THIS HEAVEN????

    • @yelloweyeball
      @yelloweyeball Před 4 lety +1

      @@holyvicar Sam O' Nella is the best history you tuber ever. Eat your heart out, Alternate History Hub.

  • @hay7199
    @hay7199 Před 4 lety +857

    When she said he stresses the word 'honey' all I could imagine was Frozone.

  • @IceMetalPunk
    @IceMetalPunk Před 5 lety +379

    Otto-san lol "I'm Rachel, and this is my husband, Mr. Husband" XD

    • @softpaw6234
      @softpaw6234 Před 4 lety +2

      I mean, they add -san to most family words. (Otosan, Obasan,etc.) It's not unnatural in Japanese

  • @RiggsTheFox11
    @RiggsTheFox11 Před 5 lety +182

    PFFFTTT when Jun said "Insignificant other" I started wheezing

  • @mcvibe5812
    @mcvibe5812 Před 6 lety +223

    "Sugar muffin"
    Jun: *mad confused*

  • @raychumon
    @raychumon Před 8 lety +505

    omfg i laughed so hard when jun said 'insignificant other'

  • @prestonang8216
    @prestonang8216 Před 5 lety +1326

    Best pet names :
    Haku
    Poki
    Nagi
    Literally pet names.

    • @Manj_J
      @Manj_J Před 5 lety +7

      XD XD

    • @loving_you_stay
      @loving_you_stay Před 4 lety +10

      You took it literaly.......

    • @Nakito_cl
      @Nakito_cl Před 4 lety +17

      Im not a native english speaker, so i click this video to find a good japanese name for a hamster Xdxdxd

    • @MiuXiu
      @MiuXiu Před 4 lety

      Josh S It also specifies in the title that it’s “pet name” referring to a partner with the “what to call your partner”

    • @unknown_bitch6734
      @unknown_bitch6734 Před 4 lety

      @@loving_you_stay Thats the point

  • @JessieBanana
    @JessieBanana Před 8 lety +1936

    Oh Jun, the first rule of good pet names is that they're supposed to be a little embarrassing!

  • @Einshine
    @Einshine Před 8 lety +4340

    honey-anata-tan-chan xD

  • @torable8863
    @torable8863 Před 8 lety +686

    'Insignificant other' sounds like something a tsundere would say.

    • @xrubyxlightx
      @xrubyxlightx Před 8 lety +14

      I am going to use it one day LOL >:]

    • @yosoyasi9267
      @yosoyasi9267 Před 6 lety

      .

    • @madarthivanki
      @madarthivanki Před 6 lety +1

      Nice. My partner and I just call each other idiot. Here's an example.
      Partner: Idiotttt!!! I love youuu!
      Me: Don't yell from the stairs!
      Or
      Me: I WANT A CAT.
      Partner: What.
      We honestly act like a married couple that is completely exhausted with their kids even though we're just kids.

  • @m3lahneee
    @m3lahneee Před 8 lety +434

    Soon after I started dating my boyfriend, who is Japanese, I started to call him babe. And so when he tried to find a pet name for me.... they were all so strange and continue to be quiet strange even a year later LOL. It has ranged from the simple "babe" to "sweet nuts" to "smore/marshmallow" to "cupcake." yeah.. its be .. fascinating and hilarious. It sure makes him laugh when he hears my reaction to some haha.

  • @Weaver_Games
    @Weaver_Games Před 8 lety +161

    "-tan sounds really nerdy"
    Proceeds to equate showing affection with an MP bar in an RPG. :p

  • @ezenart
    @ezenart Před 8 lety +2537

    Calling someone your *"insignificant other"* sounds like an elegant way to refer to your *"side chick"* or *"boy toy*" hahahaha (Not that I endorse infidelity or anything)

    • @elenna_alexia
      @elenna_alexia Před 8 lety +31

      +Enrique Z It's only wrong if you're doing it without everyone involved consenting to it. Still doesn't seem nice to call anyone that.

    • @Daniel-boy737
      @Daniel-boy737 Před 8 lety +3

      Pshhhh, no, not at all.

    • @NeichaUnagi
      @NeichaUnagi Před 8 lety +44

      +Enrique Z I'm laughing more than I should.
      WELL DONE.

    • @lokifire3759
      @lokifire3759 Před 8 lety +2

      +Enrique z I agree with you its to formal and proper it's like your trying to entertain a bunch of spoiled rich kid's no offence

    • @BankruptMonkey
      @BankruptMonkey Před 6 lety +1

      It sounds like a think a fancy rich person or a know it all smarty pants would say

  • @eallae
    @eallae Před 8 lety +712

    Rachel, I swear, when you look at Jun, there's so freaking much love in your eyes, it's beautiful to watch !

    • @cameroncallisto192
      @cameroncallisto192 Před 6 lety +1

      lae1819 ikr

    • @sameoldsam5534
      @sameoldsam5534 Před 6 lety +1

      lae1819 . Ikr!!!

    • @marklerseth5471
      @marklerseth5471 Před 6 lety +14

      They are a cute couple that really relates well.

    • @queenielynnn
      @queenielynnn Před 5 lety +1

      Yeaaah 💖

    • @Manj_J
      @Manj_J Před 5 lety +3

      Ikr I was distracted this entire video because Rachel kept looking at Jun and I kept looking at Rachel and honestly it is so endearing and put a smile on my face

  • @sthepannylavanwaycruz9162
    @sthepannylavanwaycruz9162 Před 8 lety +3317

    does 'dude' count

  • @Lunamine
    @Lunamine Před 4 lety +268

    Nothing's more romantic than calling them "bruh".

  • @Lydomina
    @Lydomina Před 8 lety +699

    Jun: "That sounds really nerdy." (proceeds to use MP as an analogy) lol :D.
    Also, I like the way Jun uses "honey", because sometimes when you're frustrated with something you can end up sounding annoyed with your loved ones, using a term of endearment can help soften your speech in that situation I think.

    • @loptseldr
      @loptseldr Před 5 lety +4

      yer but using it like that can make it sound less like a good thing then. its all about context haha and knowing your audience.

    • @IceMetalPunk
      @IceMetalPunk Před 5 lety +8

      To be fair, Rachel was the one who started the MP analogy :P

    • @beachblues2155
      @beachblues2155 Před 5 lety

      Yes, it could sound like a passive aggresive comment when used incorrectly I guess.

    • @Tuilelen
      @Tuilelen Před 4 lety

      Whenever I start getting exasperated with my partner or I'm going to ask make a request that I think is unimportant, I call him "darling" but in a thicker Spanish (my first language) accent than usual, as if in emphasis. I have no idea why or how it started but it just felt right.

  • @UOUOssas
    @UOUOssas Před 8 lety +431

    "Hi we will tell You something about endearment words in japanese."
    1min later
    "There are no endearment words in Japanese!"

    • @scalem5497
      @scalem5497 Před 6 lety +9

      Uvuvwevwevwe Onyetenyevwe Ugwemubwem Ossas how would they shorten your name 😂 uv-on-ug-os-chan hahaha

  • @Sephajinami
    @Sephajinami Před 8 lety +530

    Jun actually seems a lot more expressive than he used to be. Don't he if he got over camera stiffness or if it's Rachael's influence.

    • @puananihoku7302
      @puananihoku7302 Před 8 lety +80

      +Kira Suzuki I wanna say both. The more you practice a speech in public, the easier it gets. So I think for him, the more he does videos, the more comfortable he becomes. Rachel of course plays a big part in her being his cheerleader in all that he trys to do. He said in another video regarding comments saying he is expressionless that he sees that too and is trying to work harder on his expressions. Of course most of us said to Jun, just be youself. love these two!

    • @pheart2381
      @pheart2381 Před 8 lety +41

      +Kira Suzuki see the one called Are Japanese People Robotic? He isnt actually stiff,just concentrating on what the other people are saying in english. I think as a whole Japanese are more reserved emotionally. They feel things just as strongly but dont show it externally.

    • @Sephajinami
      @Sephajinami Před 8 lety +18

      P Heart I'm aware of that. My point was that he has begun to show his emotions externally more than he used to.

    • @hannahchap9764
      @hannahchap9764 Před 4 lety +10

      Jun is so handsome.

  • @audoldends6799
    @audoldends6799 Před 4 lety +38

    3:00 jun learning about his own relationship even now

  • @laurafrakinroslin
    @laurafrakinroslin Před 4 lety +50

    Me: ooh, I wonder what Japanese pet names are like
    Jun: NON-APPLICABLE

  • @kemushichan
    @kemushichan Před 8 lety +2142

    You know, Jun actually might be using 'honey' in a way very similar to many US couples! Ever heard of the "honey do's" ? It's the husbands dreaded " Honeyy.... can you do _____ for me???", where 'honey' only comes into play when asking for a favor. :) Mwuahah.

    • @snowfoxxie
      @snowfoxxie Před 8 lety +114

      I agree! To me his way of using it was very husband-like! Hahaha!

    • @SomyHeartcanBeat
      @SomyHeartcanBeat Před 8 lety +9

      +KemushiChan ロレッタ Omg I love your videos!

    • @snowfoxxie
      @snowfoxxie Před 8 lety +17

      +Daisey San haha me too! Isn't she the best?? Her videos are so well edited and put together. Also once I got bitten by a kemushi in Japan and I was allergic, I knew what was happening to me because I knew the word from her Channel name so she practically saved my life once. Haha!~~~~

    • @kemushichan
      @kemushichan Před 8 lety

      +Elle r sorry for the teeth!🐛

    • @saipurlscinema1404
      @saipurlscinema1404 Před 8 lety +2

      +Elle r Exactly my thought! My eyes lit up, like, Yeah!

  • @piropiro1882
    @piropiro1882 Před 7 lety +45

    "i can say 'i love you' as many times as i want i'm never gonna run out of NP or anything"
    That actually sounded like the cutest declaration ever ! Jun is really lucky ^^

  • @jessicajayes8326
    @jessicajayes8326 Před 5 lety +66

    One thing I love about the Japanese language is how literal it is. For someone with high functioning autism, that's a pretty big deal.

  • @VictorianRabbit3456
    @VictorianRabbit3456 Před 8 lety +1400

    The first thing you called him sounded like you were going to call him "sticky buns". You should hide cameras in your apartment and do a blog where you randomly call Jun pet names and we see his reactions. "Sugar" "honey" "baby" "my love" "sticky buns" "cutie pie" "cuddle muffin" "squishy face" 😆 I'm dying just thinking about it!

    • @parisdesaunois2338
      @parisdesaunois2338 Před 8 lety +17

      Yyaaassssss lmao 😂

    • @LaceyBachatera
      @LaceyBachatera Před 8 lety +8

      +VictorianRabbit3456 I wanna see this!! XD

    • @lancerd4934
      @lancerd4934 Před 8 lety +84

      +VictorianRabbit3456 That does sound hilarious, but I kind of think he'd be so used to Rachel's shenanigans by now that it wouldn't even faze him.

    • @kanako15
      @kanako15 Před 8 lety +2

      +VictorianRabbit3456 OMG YES I NEED THIS

    • @lisanguyen6324
      @lisanguyen6324 Před 8 lety +53

      +VictorianRabbit3456 Rather I'd want to see Jun-san use "honey" or whatever pet names he'd normally use while frustrated xD.

  • @rosalina4852
    @rosalina4852 Před 7 lety +1558

    I have an entire list of petnames, they change constantly.
    I use:
    Sugarpie
    Honeylump
    Babycake
    Honeybuns
    LillyBun
    Sugarlumps
    Sweetiepie
    Hon Bun
    Sweetie Peetie
    Unfortunately, they are all only directed to my dogs. :,I

    • @Mimi-mq2wj
      @Mimi-mq2wj Před 6 lety +37

      Rosa Lina p-please never use lump ever like ever 😂😂😂😂

    • @desvicious502
      @desvicious502 Před 6 lety +12

      I use
      Sugar pie
      Honey bun
      You know that I love you 😂

    • @lttsr
      @lttsr Před 5 lety +8

      @@Mimi-mq2wj Exactly. Idc how cute it is, pls don't use lump in my term of endearment

    • @sofiaguerrero0969
      @sofiaguerrero0969 Před 5 lety +5

      Rosa Lina
      I do too look:
      Sugar
      Pie
      Honeybunch
      Don’t you know I love yoooouuuu
      I CANT HELP MYSELF

    • @amanda3581
      @amanda3581 Před 5 lety

      @@lttsr what does lump mean?

  • @hana-chan420
    @hana-chan420 Před 8 lety +1753

    lmao "Mr. Husband" is super cute, im stealing that (*´◡`*)

    • @MadhuBala-md2sr
      @MadhuBala-md2sr Před 5 lety +69

      It also sounds like oto-san, and that means, father ....... so daddy ? 😂

    • @bhabeskapelari7211
      @bhabeskapelari7211 Před 5 lety +24

      @@MadhuBala-md2sr NANI?!

    • @Naomi-xx4nk
      @Naomi-xx4nk Před 5 lety +15

      oh yea d a d dy

    • @MeatyBoyUnofficial
      @MeatyBoyUnofficial Před 5 lety +6

      @@MadhuBala-md2sr MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY

    • @dream_dealer
      @dream_dealer Před 4 lety +10

      @@MadhuBala-md2sr You know it doesn't really sound similar...? おとうさん, pronounced as otTOUsan (no pause and a long vowel O) and おっとさん, pronounced as oTTOsan (pause at the t and a short O). Not to mention the pitch accent and whatnot..

  • @ren9196
    @ren9196 Před 6 lety +454

    Me : darling
    Inner me : DARRRINGGGG~ *inserts zero-two's voice*

    • @alteabeshiri4698
      @alteabeshiri4698 Před 5 lety +5

      I miss eunha's forehead you read my mind

    • @user-vl5mu5ux4k
      @user-vl5mu5ux4k Před 4 lety +3

      omgg yesss

    • @Hi-Hono
      @Hi-Hono Před 4 lety

      Sounds a bit yandere.🤔

    • @softpaw6234
      @softpaw6234 Před 4 lety

      Me: Redd White in the Gyakuten Saiban (Ace Attorney) anime

    • @naomi4415
      @naomi4415 Před 4 lety +1

      Lol that’s exactly what I thought of

  • @bulmak
    @bulmak Před 8 lety +751

    My boyfriend(Japanese) said he likes that part of my language (Spanish) because we have many pet-names to call our significant other, and he said he doesn't know any in Japanese. I use Spanish and English words with him and he calls me "amor" (love) in Spanish whenever he calls me, I hate it when he uses my name because here we use the name for official things or when you are in trouble(with your mom).

    • @SapphieSaurx3
      @SapphieSaurx3 Před 8 lety +45

      So I'm Hispanic too and like our culture is a lot about love and showing a lot of emotion, while the Japanese are rather timid, how does it work? Sorry curious question

    • @bulmak
      @bulmak Před 8 lety +76

      +SapphieSaurx3 he is very intense with affection and words, sometimes I have to tell him to chill out, he tells me he loves me all the time. We went to Japan this year and he will say he loved me in public places (in Spanish) because no one else understood. But he doesn't show that site (lovely-dovy) of him in front of others. It took him a while to get use to saying hello with a kiss in the lips in public (he might not do this again when we move to Japan next year), holding my hand is ok for him if there are no friends around he will even hug me or kiss me in public(very quick), now he is getting more use to the idea of holding my hand in front of other Latinos(friends) but is somewhat more difficult for him to do it in front of his Japanese friends. He love our culture very much and even wants to learn to dance. I am ok with not showing affection in public, because I have never like that kind of couple who will be extremely attached to each other as if they are about to have sex in public. But I do like to hold hands or say hello with a kiss(quick kiss). I hope he keeps doing that while we live in Japan.

    • @JessicaLeche
      @JessicaLeche Před 6 lety +27

      Omg yes! Especially if they throw in your middle name! I'm like, "Omg, Bud, please don't. That's what my dad calls me when I'm in trouble." Even as an adult, haha.

    • @saucytsun
      @saucytsun Před 5 lety +8

      That's adorable

    • @dgcclan9445
      @dgcclan9445 Před 5 lety +19

      Same with my family in the US, you only get called by your name if you done fucked up, and if your mother throws in your middle name too you might as well enter witness protection, cuz you're dead.

  • @emdadkhan650
    @emdadkhan650 Před 4 lety +40

    "Sugar muffin? That sounds sweet"
    Was that a pun? 😂😂

  • @MYFAVORITES5
    @MYFAVORITES5 Před 5 lety +284

    2015: "Nobody says Darling"
    2018: Darling in the Franxx airs
    "Everybody says Darling"

  • @elethienelvenai
    @elethienelvenai Před 6 lety +25

    "Insignificant other" - I can't 😂😂😂

  • @OhtheSuffering
    @OhtheSuffering Před 8 lety +96

    0:30 But 'snickerdoodle' is a real word. It's a type of cookie.

  • @user-kr1gi6ch9d
    @user-kr1gi6ch9d Před 4 lety +33

    “Japanese pet names, what to call your partner? Darling”
    *02 has entered the chat*

  • @shewbtoob
    @shewbtoob Před 7 lety +136

    that MP analogy. so nerdy

  • @RainbowRose769
    @RainbowRose769 Před 5 lety +8

    4:28
    Talking about being called “honey.”
    Right when Rachel said it, my mom texted, “Honey, go check on Leo and give him some hay poor guy.” 😂😂😂😂 PERFECT TIMING!!!

  • @daffo595
    @daffo595 Před 8 lety +74

    Jun is really chill and open-minded :)

  • @KasumiKrissTV1
    @KasumiKrissTV1 Před 8 lety +669

    I agree with Rachel on the MP thing, haha. I never get tired of saying I Love You to my insignificant other. I mean significant. If you really mean it, it never gets old :)

    • @percabeth86
      @percabeth86 Před 6 lety +1

      KasumiKriss I say 'I love you' a lot! To friends, to my parents, my brother...
      Just shower them with love😂

    • @melinaoliveira2018
      @melinaoliveira2018 Před 6 lety

      KasumiKriss yeaah totally agree with you! It is amazing to watch!!!

    • @Rare987
      @Rare987 Před 5 lety +2

      For me it gets old when the gf is competitive and wants to be the last one to say “I love you” but then I sometimes get in trouble for not continuing the back and forth I love you battle. That’s when it gets old and regretting for me. Sometimes doing that is ok but not every time we get off a call

    • @maddragon3076
      @maddragon3076 Před 5 lety +1

      Insignificant other?

    • @inesswadek5986
      @inesswadek5986 Před 5 lety

      I say "I love you" to my mom many times a day... When she's not trying to sleep xD

  • @NessaOfDorthonion
    @NessaOfDorthonion Před 6 lety +10

    When I had a baby I felt so weird trying to refer to my husband as "daddy" at first, so I started saying "mister daddy" because for some reason that made me feel better

  • @jphone6606
    @jphone6606 Před 5 lety +32

    Things to call your S.O.
    Sugar
    Honey
    Water
    Tea
    Then stir
    Now you have good tea

  • @RachelandJun
    @RachelandJun  Před 8 lety +477

    What are your favorite pet names? :D

    • @Syrephine
      @Syrephine Před 8 lety +5

      +Rachel & Jun LOL, well I don't know cause I have never been married and only had a few (like 3 boyfriends my whole life) so never had a pet name.....but I have heard people here call they significant others: Honeybunch, pookie, sugar muffin and many others. But Just to be called Honey would be great just once.
      I am glad you did this video cause I was wondering if they had that over there. So , now I know if I ever meet a great Japanese man and we get together to not use pet names or ask first before you do to make sure they are comfortable with it. Arigatou!

    • @Riyoshi000
      @Riyoshi000 Před 8 lety +1

      Why don't you use 親愛なる? :)

    • @RachelandJun
      @RachelandJun  Před 8 lety +69

      +Tania LoNero Honeybunch hahaha, I would be so tempted to take that all the way.
      "How's my honeybunches of oats doing this morning

    • @nananananatman7785
      @nananananatman7785 Před 8 lety +24

      +Rachel & Jun Most people I know that are around my age (early twenties) call their significant others "babe," but I don't like that, so I have stolen a British term of endearment (I myself am American)--"love." To me, "love" sounds much sweeter and it seems like "love" is to "babe" what "beautiful" is to "hot". It just seems to have a more sincere and affectionate connotation. And as for some of the more creative pet names I've heard, one of my best friends calls his fiancee "kitten"--which I think is funny because it sounds like something someone would call a lady in an old-timey noir film or something, but it works for them.

    • @FakeBritishGirl
      @FakeBritishGirl Před 8 lety +5

      This single girl's favorite pet name is Chocolate~ sweet and delicious ^^
      You two are adorable!

  • @shadowspeare1145
    @shadowspeare1145 Před 8 lety +60

    Saying "I love you" doesn't cost any MP. I love that ! XD

  • @rociogarcia-noblejasrodrig6481

    I'm from Spain and I was living in Netherlands for three months, working in a company full of poles, romanians, portuguese people and more. So i called my boyfriend "Cariño", that means "darling" , while working and poles were so confused. In that moment i learnt that in spain we have a lot of pet names that we consider "normal" but in other countrys is weird to call your partner with a pet name. So here i'm going to put a list of spanish pet names and translations.
    Cariño - Means darling
    Mi amor- my love. You can just say "amor" that is love.
    Cielo- Literally is sky, but is like "baby"
    Mi vida- My life.
    Cosita- Thing but like cute and tiny
    Bichito- The same but with bugs.
    Mi chica/ Mi chico- My girl/My boy. Now i realize that spanish people are so possesive.
    Bomboncito- Tiny chocolate.
    Querido/Querida- Darling. Different gender. A is for girl, O for boy.
    Peluchito- Teddy bear.
    Gordo- You are calling him fat, but admit it, fat are fluffy cute.
    Princesa- Princess. How cute. More usually used for dads to daughters.
    Reina- Queen. Ok i used this for my cat.
    In summary, Spanish people are weird.

    • @JustAnotherPerson4U
      @JustAnotherPerson4U Před 4 lety +6

      Can confirm having lived with a Spanish mother that this is true. I have heard mum call my dad carino and Amor. She also calls me Reina.
      oh yeah, my mum is very possessive. Telling her that her ideas about family are unrealistic is like asking for a headache.

    • @ViickyGar
      @ViickyGar Před 4 lety +3

      “Cariño” such a cute way to call a loved one

    • @_MRK87
      @_MRK87 Před 4 lety +1

      "polands" lol. It's "Poles"

    • @rociogarcia-noblejasrodrig6481
      @rociogarcia-noblejasrodrig6481 Před 4 lety

      @@_MRK87 thx for correcting it.

    • @mariatrinidad1370
      @mariatrinidad1370 Před 3 lety +2

      En Chile usamos los mismos apodos 😋
      Mi novio me dice estrella/estrellita por el dicho “bella como una estrella” 🥰

  • @xLillyKaaosx
    @xLillyKaaosx Před 5 lety +17

    "You're not important to me at all!" omg lol I just spit some food all over the place xD

  • @ninimeggie4771
    @ninimeggie4771 Před 8 lety +71

    I love Rachel's analogy with the love bar there :)

  • @pokkets9284
    @pokkets9284 Před 8 lety +117

    My boyfriend and I have been together 7 years now and we call each other "butthead" but in a loving way haha. I feel like a lot of people think it's weird, but it's a sort of term of endearment to us.

  • @Eudeman
    @Eudeman Před 5 lety +24

    I call my Partner "Schmopsi". Just sounds cute and people around me also started using it when they heard it. My flatmate now uses it for his rats xD

  • @AnimaKinz
    @AnimaKinz Před 6 lety +19

    My husband picked up on that fact that when I call him "Sweetie", I'm getting ready to correct him or I think something he just said is silly. So... yeah, I'm American and I'm bad with pet names, too. X-D

  • @megumicochran3729
    @megumicochran3729 Před 8 lety +59

    My mom and grandma call me MeguTan as a nickname and my mom was told she doesn't say, "I love you" a lot to her husband. She said Americans say it like breathing (all the time) but when she says it, she's really feeling it fully from her heart so it has more meaning to her. I thought that was cute. My Japanese family seems to concentrate on showing love vs speaking love. Lots of thoughtful and respectful things done for one another. I love seeing the different forms and expressions of love from both sides of the family.

    • @trina397
      @trina397 Před 4 lety +1

      I think showing love is slightly better bc if its only talking with no action I can't be sure if what they say its really true. In showing love even though you don't hear "I love you" at least you know they care for you which for me is more important then saying "I love you".

  • @RachelandJun
    @RachelandJun  Před 8 lety +155

    ★Subtitles!★
    *English*
    *Japanese*
    *Portuguese (Brazil)* thanks to: Mayara B. Reis
    *French* thanks to: Solène M
    *Spanish*
    *German*
    *Dutch*
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    *Italian*
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    • @arelygarcia1248
      @arelygarcia1248 Před 8 lety

      in spanish (México)
      plis

    • @saia126
      @saia126 Před 8 lety

      +Rachel & Jun In spanish (Spain) ^^

    • @ReiralSolene
      @ReiralSolene Před 8 lety

      +Rachel & Jun french is good ! (i guess it was already done but i have changed some stuff on it)

    • @anne5747
      @anne5747 Před 8 lety

      Please add the arabic sub if you can :)

    • @Tamyani
      @Tamyani Před 8 lety +2

      +Rachel & Jun Obrigada ~~ ❤

  • @Jalapinecone
    @Jalapinecone Před 8 lety +80

    I just want to say that your lighting is wonderful. I wish I had lighting like yours

  • @vanzwho854
    @vanzwho854 Před 4 lety +35

    0:19 wtf u scared me

  • @Mr_Poopybuttholes_Waifu
    @Mr_Poopybuttholes_Waifu Před 8 lety +170

    could you guys do a video about japanese honorifics? you know like, -chan, -san, -kun etc? i think it would be interesting and also cool to know if you use them yourselves. thanks!

  • @amayaaries
    @amayaaries Před 8 lety +180

    Rei-chan..... *instantly thinks of Nagisa*

    • @xNagisaChan
      @xNagisaChan Před 8 lety +2

      +Amaya TheOtaku What do I have to do with this? D:

    • @netowner666
      @netowner666 Před 8 lety +1

      Lol SAME

    • @cherie4590
      @cherie4590 Před 8 lety +2

      +Amaya TheOtaku I'm guessing Free! Iwtobi SwimClub...?

    • @amayaaries
      @amayaaries Před 8 lety

      +Cherie Lee yup😂

    • @cherie4590
      @cherie4590 Před 8 lety +3

      XD This made me think of their honorifics video, where they talking about chan and san, which made me think of Rei calling Haru "Haru-chan-san" :')

  • @msumisu
    @msumisu Před 8 lety +5

    This reminds me of my Japanese friend who asked me why I say "Love you" to my family, friends, and husband every time we talk on the phone or leaving. I guess it's just a casual reminder that that person is important to me. I feel like love should be expressed more often, heh!

  • @denipeneva
    @denipeneva Před 3 lety +1

    Watching your old videos now it is amazing to me how sweet your relationship has been and stayed this whole time. The only thing that has changed is that Rachel is getting more beautiful with time.. Just amazing to see such raw cuteness without it being cheesy at all. Love you guys!

  • @larsstoerloes6619
    @larsstoerloes6619 Před 8 lety +29

    This is one of the things that have always fascinated me about japanese culture and people. Because all sort of emotional displays are very subdued and if you blink you'll miss them, but somehow when I was staying in Tokyo for a couple of weeks I NEVER felt like people were being cold or distant. It's a strange kind of balance, because there is very little expression of genuine emotion, but yet somehow (to me at least) japanese people don't come off as cold or stand-offish. I found japanese people to be very polite and warm and always willing to help someone who obviously is not from Japan (I am blonde with blue eyes). Everyone I met was also very curious about my scandinavian culture and wanted to know more about where I came from, as well as very willing to indulge my interest and curiosity about their culture. All in all I think it's just western misunderstanding to label japanese people as cold and distant. They just have a different way of being nice, that doesn't require hugs and kisses and hundreds of pet names ;)

    • @kathygriffith5164
      @kathygriffith5164 Před 3 lety +1

      They show love by doing nice things for you. At least that was his my Japanese son in law did it. Now he says "I love you, Mom". I love it!

  • @ORIGINALITYoriginal
    @ORIGINALITYoriginal Před 8 lety +12

    Jun isn't the only one who uses terms of endearment when he's upset- my boyfriend started out doing the same thing, and he only recently started to use them normally. It was really funny. Of course, my boyfriend isn't culturally different from me, he's just shy about things, haha.

  • @olivemakwa
    @olivemakwa Před 8 lety +6

    You guys are the cutest. I appreciate your videos so much, I think you are my favorite channel! Love from Minnesota!

  • @davidpiedrahita8345
    @davidpiedrahita8345 Před 8 lety +4

    That MP animation is flawless
    10/10

  • @lightblulbb
    @lightblulbb Před 8 lety +273

    I'm hispanic america and this is always so difficult for me. Its the TOTAL opposite to spanish,there are like millions of terms of enderment,its engrained in the culture. The terms are very very intense like "mi vida" literally meaning "my life" or "mi cielo" literally meaning "my heaven". but i get it they express love in other ways.(ㆀ˘・з・˘) but its hard for me lol

    • @Lalairu
      @Lalairu Před 6 lety +11

      omipon verdad? Para mi es extraño que no haya palabras asi en un idioma. Soy vasca y en euskara (vasco) quiza no haya tantas palabras cariñosas, pero las pocas qud hay tienen mucho significado.

    • @pompomkromo1693
      @pompomkromo1693 Před 6 lety +31

      As a term of endearment my family sometimes uses gorda

    • @alejandramatas5230
      @alejandramatas5230 Před 6 lety +7

      Lol me too me and my boyfriend were seeing this video and were like "The fuck? We tell each other way too many things xd"

    • @WolfLykaios
      @WolfLykaios Před 6 lety +7

      I remember a chapter in Chavo del Ocho, were Doña Florinda is calling for his son in a bunch of terms of enderment, so many that some character comes into the screen and screams "Lottery!"
      So, yeah, for a latino, everything is a term of enderment.

    • @j.diangelo5683
      @j.diangelo5683 Před 6 lety +3

      la cultura japonesa puede parecer demásiado fría comparada con la latina/americana ^^;

  • @PowerJusho
    @PowerJusho Před 8 lety +1449

    I just noticed that you two look like Kirito and Asuna

    • @ginchan11
      @ginchan11 Před 8 lety +73

      omg 😲 i just noticed too

    • @RenKohana
      @RenKohana Před 8 lety +73

      +Power Jusho Haha- me three~ With Jun wearing black and his stylish hair, he reminds me of the the large black wardrobe Kirito has. And Rachel's really pretty hair color and white dress is similar to Asuna's ALfheim and SAO clothing. :0

    • @Madelope
      @Madelope Před 8 lety +97

      OH MY GOD COUPLE POWER INCREASED

    • @seanistheman231
      @seanistheman231 Před 8 lety +32

      Yoooo shit you're right ahahah

    • @blahhh3643
      @blahhh3643 Před 8 lety +33

      Mind blown!!! O_O

  • @AndieOrtiz382
    @AndieOrtiz382 Před 8 lety +12

    "suteki na otto" sound like something a guy from an otome game will force the protagonist to said, or something like that lol.

  • @briannamoffitt7610
    @briannamoffitt7610 Před 5 lety +7

    I call my cat “babybutt” because she’s a butthead, but also my baby

  • @Comp3630
    @Comp3630 Před 8 lety +21

    Some people in Japan shorten names, double names, elongate names, or even add rin as pet names.
    ex.) Rachel - Rei Junko - Junjun Ichinose - Icchi Yuuko - Yuukorin
    But, you should definitely check up with your partner before going PDA with the names

  • @PaleTofuTiger
    @PaleTofuTiger Před 8 lety +373

    So I can call my SO (Supervising officer) darling? Willtry!

    • @GoUseSpellCheck
      @GoUseSpellCheck Před 8 lety +59

      Nonono don't do that.

    • @wishtopublish
      @wishtopublish Před 8 lety +92

      Do it. It'll show your dedication to your job.

    • @GoUseSpellCheck
      @GoUseSpellCheck Před 8 lety +3

      +wishtopublish Nonono. It will not, it'll show how much you disrespect him.

    • @wishtopublish
      @wishtopublish Před 8 lety +88

      +PaleTofuLion Actually, Purple Panda has a point. If you use darling, your supervising officer might get the wrong idea. Instead, try shmookums or sugar lips, to truly show your dedication to your company and position. "Darling" is for the scrubs, but sugar lips shows your can-do attitude.

    • @PaleTofuTiger
      @PaleTofuTiger Před 8 lety +8

      wishtopublish shmookums it is!

  • @Googie3
    @Googie3 Před 8 lety +3

    You look beautiful in all your videos, but in this particular one you look ethereal. Your skin has such a lovely glow!

  • @koseanimation118
    @koseanimation118 Před 8 lety +12

    I dont know if it's just me here, but Jun's english has gotten really good. Like it was good before. But now its like his accent is almost not there when he speaks.

  • @deactivated-78936
    @deactivated-78936 Před 8 lety +390

    I call my boyfriend, "Puppy" for some reason (it just happened one day, and it stuck). I think he hates it. XD
    Also, I have a question! Jun has always said that, "I love you" is the sort of thing you would say with your last dying breath -- not something you just say all the time like we do in America. I am interested to know how Japanese people handle THIS situation: In America, a big turning point in a relationship is the moment where the person says, "I love you" for the very first time. They have probably been dating for a few months and the feelings of "like" have become deeper, and turned into feelings of "love". In Japan, is there a moment in a relationship where you would outwardly state that you love the person, and you are interested in becoming more serious? How do Japanese people handing that turning point in a relationship?

    • @bnpixie1990
      @bnpixie1990 Před 8 lety +57

      now i am curious about this answer!

    • @YuyuHakurei
      @YuyuHakurei Před 8 lety +4

      It feels more that Japanese are always at that point and when they are dating is during the like term. =3

    • @eggonaise
      @eggonaise Před 8 lety +9

      +ultimatekai LOL! That's funny, I call my boyfriend "Kitten". Hehe :D

    • @ginaC53
      @ginaC53 Před 8 lety +2

      +ultimatekai I think Japanese people when they start a relationship, they tend to be quite explicit. I think in that case, they might start the relationship at a later stage, but I'm totally willing to be corrected on this.

    • @keitaabe4625
      @keitaabe4625 Před 8 lety +51

      +ultimatekai Honestly, its pretty much the same as anywhere else, it depends on the person. But I will say if we were going with the general idea, then for us (well, mostly my own experiences) it's less of one single moment but rather over time, we gradually become more and more open about it. The "i love you" moment in Japan, if there were to be one, it would actually probably be when we first start dating. Kind of like in anime I guess would be the best explanation XD. as for actually saying "I love you" since that was also technically part of the question, would probably be either late into the relationship, or in marriage. What people in Western cultures wwould say during a strong relationship is obviously "i love you", but in Japan a better translation would be "I like you (kimi no koto ga suki") suki meaning like. while "kimi no koto o aishiteiru" where aishiteiru means love is used moreso when dealing with marriage. As for outwardly expressing affection..............that's very uhm, not done in Japan, it's mostly just understood that "hey, this person likes/loves me" and nothing else. For example, alot of couples wont even hold hands in public here in Japan, obviously this has changed in recent years to where more and more of them are, but still not alot. Hope this answers at least one question, sorry for it being nonsensically long. ^^;

  • @karkinissan
    @karkinissan Před 8 lety +136

    As soon as I heard "Darling" my brain went "Monster Musume!!"

    • @AliceBruce6661
      @AliceBruce6661 Před 8 lety +2

      +Nissan Karki OMG Me too! xD

    • @elisabethheiman2104
      @elisabethheiman2104 Před 5 lety +8

      For me, my mind went instantly to Darling in the FranXX. (Though, then again, that anime didn't exist two years ago.) Mainly because of how often Zero Two calls Hiro darling or "dahling" like how she pronounces it.

    • @mysticalstx
      @mysticalstx Před 5 lety

      Elisabeth Heiman same!!

    • @atypicalscholar109
      @atypicalscholar109 Před 5 lety +1

      Nah, Golden Time 😂

    • @seeingstars05
      @seeingstars05 Před 5 lety

      sameee xD

  • @guudey
    @guudey Před 7 lety

    i love rachel's so nerdy by saying there's a "mp bar" for using words of endearment LOL

  • @ewanwakao
    @ewanwakao Před 8 lety +30

    I call my Japanese husband "Shin-chan" and he calls me "Ah-chan." 😊💕

  • @Us3zn4m
    @Us3zn4m Před 8 lety +31

    By the title of the video I was thinking names you would give to animals xD

    • @RachelandJun
      @RachelandJun  Před 8 lety +8

      +Kawaii \(*-*\) haha well we'll just have to do that video, too! :D

  • @elyonum
    @elyonum Před 8 lety +120

    Ohhh I didn't know "-tan" was considered "nerdy"! It fits perfectly with Junpei's personality when he calls his friend Yukari "Yuka-tan"; (any Persona fans around here?)

    • @elyonum
      @elyonum Před 8 lety

      Yep, it's Adachi!

    • @minxtail
      @minxtail Před 8 lety +6

      +elyonum Haha, Junpei is the first thing I thought of when they talked about that!! Persona fans unite! ;^)

    • @letsgoasuka
      @letsgoasuka Před 8 lety +8

      No wonder Yukari cringes so hard whenever Junpei calls her that...it all makes sense now...xD

    • @Spongewahoo
      @Spongewahoo Před 8 lety

      +Rinoa Heartilly really adds to that eh ? I just thought it was another way to say it hahaha

    • @letsgoasuka
      @letsgoasuka Před 8 lety +2

      Danpoo1 I thought it was an affectionate kinda thing but actually it's just a geeky thing lol Now we both know better xD

  • @emmanuellehyazanandri762

    To make that correlation between pet names and MP bar lol that seals the deal! Subscribed!

  • @shinaejzhang7891
    @shinaejzhang7891 Před 7 lety +4

    I am happy to come across this channel. you're such a cute couple !

  • @MrJdronin
    @MrJdronin Před 8 lety +4

    The Cure metaphor was spot on and really cute.

  • @yeaman992
    @yeaman992 Před 8 lety +8

    You two truly are perfect for each other!

  • @liamspruyt
    @liamspruyt Před 8 lety +2

    you two are so adorable!! this is the first video i saw of you but i love it :) i'll keep watching you :)

  • @rmvsic
    @rmvsic Před 3 lety +2

    Rachel: “no one ever says darling”
    Zero two: *im about to end this mans whole career*

  • @fullmetalgrl88
    @fullmetalgrl88 Před 8 lety +35

    THIS WAS SO CUTE!!!!!

    • @lokifire3759
      @lokifire3759 Před 8 lety +1

      +fullmetalgrl I thought it was cute too, no wonder they make such a good couple😄😄😇😇😶😶😢😢

  • @CoffinCandy98
    @CoffinCandy98 Před 8 lety +5

    When he said insignificant other, I started crying laughing.

  • @LindasOishiiKitchen
    @LindasOishiiKitchen Před 4 lety +7

    My husband is Japanese guy but he wanted me to call him darling when we were dating. Until now I still call him darling. Also he says I love you everyday. Maybe not same with any other Japanese do.

    • @samlynx2016
      @samlynx2016 Před 3 lety

      It could also depend on the prefecture. I have some friends that say, 「まじで」 a lot and another friend that told me when I go to Japan, I should not say, 「まじで」 because that's really immature. She said I should use, 「本当」 instead.
      This same friend also told me that using トイリ is too immature and I should use, "hand washing room."
      I have a friend from a different area that said you can say any swear word on t.v., including the F-word, and it won't be censored.

  • @Lilas.Duveteux
    @Lilas.Duveteux Před 4 lety +7

    In french we have "chéri" (deer, darling), for us adding a possessive determinant in front of someones title make it more personal, more respectful and more affectionate (unless the title itself has a strong negative connotation), "cocotte"(my little hen, kept woman, my protégée, b-tch), trésor (treasure), "petit" (little one). And in Russian, we have even more endearment terms that often refer to small, cute, huggable animals or very precious things like the sun, gold, treasure and so on.

  • @ShankAMuffin
    @ShankAMuffin Před 8 lety +3

    Pause the video at 6:04 and look at Jun's face LMAO

  • @gaijinhakase1575
    @gaijinhakase1575 Před 8 lety +11

    Funny! And wow, I just realized how amazing Jun's English is now, even compared to earlier this year! Nice work! 頑張ってね〜

  • @yanks4602
    @yanks4602 Před 5 lety

    You guys are awesome!

  • @rrmiku
    @rrmiku Před 6 lety

    夫婦って同じ世界観を共有して生きてる感じがする。素敵だなって思う。

  • @w4hammer
    @w4hammer Před 8 lety +14

    from now on I'm calling my BF Snickerdoodle.

  • @XxObsessedXjpop
    @XxObsessedXjpop Před 8 lety +37

    Rachel and Jun!
    Go to Jenna Marbles' podcast (Jenna Julien Podcast) and on their latest video "Podcast #65 - Travel, Diets & Learning New Cultures" they give your channel a shout out!!!

  • @michelevitoria123456
    @michelevitoria123456 Před 6 lety

    guys, I really love your videos, that was so sweet!!!

  • @XAFinalFantasyX
    @XAFinalFantasyX Před 8 lety +40

    you guys are sooo cuttteee ;-;

  • @ApostlesOfStar
    @ApostlesOfStar Před 8 lety +8

    Ochikeron calls her husband darling. She's has a Japanese cooking channel on CZcams. :)

  • @juliahopesmith7926
    @juliahopesmith7926 Před 8 lety

    This was so awesome!!! :)

  • @Momo-po5tn
    @Momo-po5tn Před 8 lety

    Im having so much fun watching your videos! You guys are extremely adorable

  • @duskshadow25
    @duskshadow25 Před 8 lety +53

    What Jun was saying that, for Asian culture we generally don't express love that often in comparison to American, such as by saying, "I love you", because if you say "I love you" on a daily basis, then those words become numb and less meaningful.
    Our culture is very strict and we were raised to be cold in a way that's tough love. How we express our love or even for married couples is by saying something, "Did you eat anything yet?" or "Are you hungry?". The love is there; it's just not as direct and engaging compare to how you were raised, Rachel. A lot of these things are just to be expected and shouldn't have to be said to indicate that you love a person. It's already a given, and you can see it through your partner's actions. That's the differences.

    • @WorldTree33
      @WorldTree33 Před 5 lety +18

      dy/dx I can’t say I disagree with you. I’ve thought that “I love you” is overused in America way too many times. But despite this, I have this habit I started after attending a funeral as a kid, it was the first time I realized anyone I love could die at any moment due to a random accident I have no control over and I decided that the last thing I say to anyone I love as they leave will always be “I love you” because if I lose them that day I want them to know that.

    • @dgcclan9445
      @dgcclan9445 Před 5 lety

      It depends on the family in the USA. My husband's family was very affectionate while mine was not. I know they love me but it feels really uncomfortable and embarrassing to hear them say it and hugs are gross. My husband has softened me up quite a bit. I am much more comfortable with casual affection now than when I was growing up.

    • @elisphantomhive2209
      @elisphantomhive2209 Před 5 lety +1

      I agree. We don't really say "I love you" much. It even becomes awkward to say it even to family members

  • @lilacbombs_5197
    @lilacbombs_5197 Před 5 lety +163

    this might sound really f-ed up, but I think the reason a lot of americans/western people say "I love you" so often is because any day could be our last. If I died right after getting off the phone with someone, I would have wanted to say "I love you" when I finished the call...
    maybe that's why it/s so common to say "I love you" when getting off the phone here.

    • @saragarofano9727
      @saragarofano9727 Před 4 lety

      Daffug

    • @P_Shii
      @P_Shii Před 4 lety

      These replies are very mixed..

    • @TheSlipperyNUwUdle
      @TheSlipperyNUwUdle Před 4 lety +5

      Yeah, I would never finish a phone call without telling my mom I love her. And my immediate family.

    • @13CrystalMoon
      @13CrystalMoon Před 3 lety +1

      Not just Americans, im from Turkey I do it too. Guess it depends on your level of awareness/anxiety on how shitty life can be.

    • @kathygriffith5164
      @kathygriffith5164 Před 3 lety +1

      I would never forgive myself if someone in my family died and I had not told them that I loved them the last time we'd spoken.

  • @TeresaDLeecomedy
    @TeresaDLeecomedy Před 6 lety

    Thank you for your fun videos

  • @CYB3RANG3L91
    @CYB3RANG3L91 Před 7 lety

    I love watching your videos!!! Thank you!

  • @Tarierine
    @Tarierine Před 8 lety +7

    I understand Jun's point of view. Moreover I agree. Thank you both for sharing this very interesting facts.