The 5 Steps To Depersonalization Disorder Recovery
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- Recovering from Depersonalization Disorder was not an easy thing, so in this video I share the 5 main steps I took to recovery.
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This video is my own opinion based on my own experiences and is not meant to be a substitute for professional medical help. If you are experiencing issues mentioned in this video and it is creating problems in your life please seek help from a qualified therapist.
Recovering from Depersonalization Disorder was not an easy thing, so in this video I share the 5 main steps I took to recovery.
Why People Get Depersonalization Disorder: czcams.com/video/cqbSybhdy40/video.html
How I Recovered From 10 Years Of Depersonalization Disorder: czcams.com/video/maU7D7c9oEQ/video.html
Hey, two months ago i smoked weed and got dpdr its getting better but what bothers me the most is why am i questioning everything? and its like im unsure in myself and its hard to trust my decisions...before this i would trust my decisions with no problem, could it be because of the shock when i had panic attack on weed?
I cannot thank you enough for this video. I have come back to it multiple times and I am on the path to healing because of it. THANK YOU!!!
Me tooo! Wish u luck :)
How are u now
What steps did you take to get rid of it and how long did it take to recover from it?
the subconscious blind spots part was the best! becoming so used to the stress and anxiety that it wasnt noticeable makes so much sense!
Thank you once again. I have dissociative PTSD and it's severe. Hyperarousal seems to be a large part of it - or swinging uncontrollably from hyperarousal to hypoarousal, with no middle ground.
Your presentations are thoughtful and helpful, and your voice is comforting. Thanks.
One of the most helpful videos on dp/dr. Thank you so much.
Thank you for making this video brother.
This is great! Explains how to recover in great detail
Really good info. Almost out myself. Keep up with the good content
Excellent work my man
Thank you for this video. Every video I’ve seen online about this, seems so scary. And this approach was more gentle. It feels less scary for me.
This video was so helpful! Thank you
My experience with depersonalization was that I'd experience extreme difficulty concentrating, especially on work/schoolwork as well as repeatedly losing track of what I was doing/where I was throughout the day. These experiences caused me to quit my first job and become socially withdrawn. The symptoms have improved somewhat meditating in the morning, practicing mindfulness, seeing a therapist, and taking anxiety medication (which I personally found to be helpful). Thank you and I look forward to trying the sleep affirmations you suggested in the video!
@Sai suman Bhuyan plz help me out from this hell 😭
@@nawabKhan-tv7vh bhai mela koi Hal k nhi
@@goodb513 nahi ji 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I will keep in mind to cone back to this video, I thought I knew everything about dissociation, but I learned so much!
I got this shit. Hate this frfr. I can't tell whats real. Anxiety's disorders makes it worse
Thank you man thank you for explaining it this way , I suffered with this for almost 7 years and then it went on off , I did not understand it at that time so I just adapted to it and ignored it , unfortunately after experiencing alot of anxiety and depression,I recently had multiple panic attacks and that feeling came back but this time I'm more aware of it and I finally know that I'm not going crazy , I am finally opening up and asked for help from my family and started therapy and medication I feel better now to at least know that I'm not alone in this ! I hope I will heal someday and be myself again, I recently think about my childhood and how I was normal and I wish these days come back , but I will not give up ,thank you
Any update?
Another amazing video - Thank you so much Rumzi. You describe the symptoms and situation you are placed in so well (how only someone who has experienced it can). I'm working on increasing my acceptance ("sitting with the discomfort") and slowly expanding my comfort zone, and your help is so very much appreciated.
You're doing a genuinely noble thing for so many of us. Thank you.
Very helpful content, thank you.
Great advices. Thank you. This information gives me hope.
Try full spectrum cbd hemp oil it really works
Nadam se da ima to Kupit tamo ako zivis u bivsoj yugoslaviji? Ja sam u kanadi
That part about dreaming is true, but since my dp/dr got so severe I stopped dreaming. I dream maybe about once every few months. But when I do I indeed feel a relieve, like I have processed something.
You are awesome. Thank you so so much for your work
Thanks for the great video. I would love to know how you actually released and processed your old emotions. I hear this advice frequently, but I am still not sure how to actually do it. Do you have a video on this, or some advice?
Thank you for this video. And thank you for respecting our time by adding chapters! Just to add, exercise that is a bit intense helps a lot. Yoga nidra is also good. If you're struggling, just remain consistent and things will get better.
Thank you so much very informative
you sir are good , kind person .
Probably the best and fairest discussion by a layperson that I've ever heard; and I've watched and listened to dozens of these talks -possibly even hundreds of them. HUGE thank you.
I've experienced DP since 1992. THC was the catalyst, just if anyone's interested. Thanks again!
Same for me. A bad THC trip started it for me. We can get back. I know it because I already have had shorter periods of full recovery. Even if it's minutes, it's 100% possible
So sorry to hear. It's been since 1995 for me - also triggered by weed.
Thanks for the help I’ve had this for 23 years.recently I tried a really hard effort to eliminate caffeine,I take decaf coffee and tea and no fizzy drinks I don’t like defeat products but I went through every brand to get the one I liked the most so now I’m totally decaff and it’s reduced my DP by 25%,so I hope that idea helps people,because when you think about it caffeine works on the nervous system and so is DP so it’s a no brainier so my DP is a lot better,hope this help my suffering friends who suffer from the same affliction as me xx
I'm 39 and i sufferd of dp 14 years already since my brother passed away😪
I am having a hard time accepting it but I am riding with it.
Thank you so much for this!
Great content
Ive learned a huge cause of this is also OCD. Cus ocd causes constant intrusive thoughts that the brain percieves as a threat, and then compulsions to relieve it, such as constantly researching dpdr. Actually did you ever look into an OCD type diagnosis? Cus what u said about watching the thoughts, experiencing it and letting it go is literally ERP
Really useful info, and it helped me a lot, but please can you add Arabic subtitles to this video and to your other videos ? ☺️
They way you explain this disorder really resonates with me. I have the non anxiety version. Numb. Makes me feel evil not being able to feel love. I used to be very passionate. Going to a specialist in a month or two
Literally love 😂I can relate to that
Hey Ari I know this is super cliche but Have you recovered or feel better
@@sammaltman7267 60% recovered after 1 year of therapy
@@arishojaiee6483 how are you now..i have a same problem..like i don't feel anything,only sickness in my stomach,and I'm very passionate and loving person,like i don't feel myself..
@arishojaiee6483 what kind of therapy did you do?
You are very wise
God blesss your soul seriously big help .
Thank you
I am suffering from sever maladaptive daydreaming disorder.. What should I do?
Bcos of this I have developed social anxiety..
Please tell..
Man i can’t take this anymore i hate the way i perceive the world now like through a fishy lens or some sort of glass pane i get blurry vision and my memory is fucked up i hate this so much i want it gone
Take Jordan Hardgrave online course ( done with depersonalization) and also listen to this guy because these are the only 2 people knowing what they're talking about. Good luck
I would suggest giuseppe tavella also
Do you guys still got it? Have both for 2 years from marijuana and it got better but wondering if it will go away.
Stop watching these vids and stop obsessing and stop making it the main thing in your life move on do something else if the symptoms comes just ignore and think about something else
@@gixerson8212 how are you doing now? Any improvement?
I'm curious about 3D vision. My derealization is something like this. I see the world like through a loud HD TV, that's what you mean by 3D? I also have static vision like visual snow and after images. I see the world with some delay and it feels like a video game or the matrix.
Hi, is there any way to contact you? Thanks sir.
So this one time i was in a job interview and half way through it felt like my vision did a complete loop and i felt confused/scared / ringing in my ears. And i just coughed and told the guy i needa go byeeee and ran out if there. Sooo emberacing i thought i was gonna pass out
What is your opinion on the impact of caffeine on this?
Any sleep affirmation videos you recommend?
I can recommend the channel "Live The Life You Love"
whats the song name
I have a problem
My muscles are rigid and I mean like rock which is keeping me in the freeze state but want to run. I’m also so hypersensitive and had some bad experiences with massage etc. but I know if I don’t I think I’ll be a block forever.
I have had many hours where I actually felt normal 👍
How are you today?
no anxiety no dp/dr but when i feel very nice day suddenly intrusive thoughts come in i heard if we constantly accept it or look at it will be maifested thats why i am scared to accept my intrusive thought as a part of anxiety how to deal with it ( i accept my all thoughts and i say myself "this is not my thoughts its ok) but how to deal with scary thoughts and settle it down?
I did a video on racing thoughts, I recommend checking that out. I would not worry about "manifesting" something bad if you kept noticing negative intrusive thoughts. Noticing is not the same as focusing. If anyone kept focusing and creating negative thoughts all day every day they would probably start to feel negative emotions and that is what leads people to perceive reality in a negative way and then make choices in alignment with that negative perception, or "manifest" it through their actions. If you notice a negative thought, that is ok, there is no other way to observe any type of thought except by noticing it. With practices like meditation or other mindfulness practices you learn to notice a thought, or your mind telling you stories, and you learn to watch it in a neutral way and direct your attention somewhere else if you do not want to focus on it anymore. Over time the negative chatter starts to reduce and goes away. Think of it like a person - if a person kept telling you negative things all the time, if you just silently watched them and then ignored them, then directed your attention somewhere else, eventually they would stop coming back to you.
But what about if it was because of drug use can u get out of it
Why our hold habits and routine are disturbed and why I have trouble doing the routine on time
These are symptoms too
@@ch.ankit_estonia9124 are u sure this is the symptom as I don't feel responsibilty towards anything
What if you don’t sleep at all.
I am 12 years
i dont understand english, i am italian. can you write here the tips for overcome dp? thanks
Hi, I can suggest doing this to get the audio transcribed so you can copy and paste it into Google Translate, you can follow what is shown on the screen: czcams.com/video/vxb0X1fdbaI/video.html this video shows how to do it. I currently don't have time to go back and summarise my videos. I will consider doing this in the future when I am back making videos, thanks. Remember that Google Translate is not perfect at translation.
Just like you said that you realized there is a part of you which doesn't want to get better I related to it so hard because around a month ago I was feeling a little bit like myself and then I realised that a teeny tiny subconscious part of me didn't want to be better in my case I figured its because of my it's difficult to admit it but I think it's because of my self hate a little bit and I don't know how to deal with it....How did you deal with it because I don't think i can recover if a small part of me still doesnt want to
Pleaseeee answer it would really really help
I focused on self love and self worth practices, I did a video on self worth and depersonalisation it's called "the missing key to depersonalisation recovery". Treat yourself like you would your best friend, I used sleep affirmations for self love /self worth for months to get it into the subconscious and it worked for me, but the actions we take towards ourselves has a impact overtime.
@@MentalHealthPower I just watched that video and it was very very helpful. Thankyou!!!
@@harnaazkaur5599 how are u now
@@adielvahlevi428 unfortunately it's still pretty much the same I would say a bit worse
@@harnaazkaur5599 how you feeling now ?
I am feeling fully disconnected from my body, and its feel like not caring body with self ...what is solution
Hi
@@sakshithakurworld same 😭
have anyone tried paxil?
omg I first got DR after childhood trauma, it appeared several times in my life after that, but I didn't focus on it and it went away. for example I felt extreme DR while jetlagged and every time in a new place for days, but I just didn't know what it was. And then PTSD and postpartum depression hit me and I got stuck in the state for months, it was like a rabbit hole. Six months of hell and then distraction helped me a lot, I went to university. And now symptoms appear every now and then, any stressful situation causes DR, so yes, I agree it is vital to reduce stress...
How you feeling now?
@@ch.ankit_estonia9124 better, for sure. There are triggers, the main are sleep deprivation (!!!) And stress. But the main thing is not to focus on them and on this state, just tell yourself it'll pass and go on with your life.
@@DM-fd2os I'm glad that you are feeling well, you mean work stress can trigger these symptoms even after the recovery?
@@ch.ankit_estonia9124 not just work. Any kind of stress. And trauma triggers
@@ch.ankit_estonia9124 I never look at it as something I can 100% recover from, for me it's healthier to know that it can go back, but treat it more like just a symptom, and do not give it any power over my life:)
It feels like im high on weed 24/7 and I feel like im going crazy. Help
Aye bro did it get any better
Can dp make me not feel my breathing? I'm really suffering from this i don't know what to do
i have the exact same thing during panic attacks. So you're maybe having panic attacks from dp
That sounds like hyperventilation, which can very much increase a lot of Symptoms.
Have you completely got rid of MDD? Is it possible?
Yes I do not have it anymore. Only normal level of daydreaming which I can easily control.
@@MentalHealthPower Very happy to hear! This means it's doable ♥️
I remain only feelings i can start see my self and my body that its me ...u just live like in hell 😢😢😢 no body know whats i am going through even my doctor
I also feel weak and fatigued every day ,can depersonalisation cause fatigue?
It does for me. Constantly fatigued. Like I have no Energy left after very little work. It's debilitating.
Check out your vit B12 and D deficiency
Please tell me the remedies for maladaptive daydreaming, continuous useless self talk, negative thoughts and negative self talks
Did you have it 24/7 for 10 years?
Yes with only a few moments of it not being there in the 10 years
@@MentalHealthPower i have the same problem you had. Even with no anxiety and not thinking about it for many years the emotions and sense of self never really come back. I can't flip the switch no matter what...
I’m suffering that and I’m 11 any tips 😢😔😔
If you aren't already, work with a professional therapist to identify sources of stress and anxiety and how these can be reduced. Breathing techniques to calm the body and mind, and mindfulness meditation practiced daily can help (helped me massively), eat and drink in healthy way - a way where you are giving your body its daily nutritional needs, this way you are supporting your body and mind with recovery. The video and others i made covers more, hope this helps.
@@MentalHealthPower okay thank you so much. I will. I will also rewatch the video again.
Can going out more help?
I think it might do yes, I felt better going for long walks and being around friends
If you stop resisting the dpdr experience does it lessen and go away?
I have started emdr therapy hopefully I will recover. You give me the motivation and strength to do so
When I stopped resisting it mentally it helped to lessen the symptoms I was having.
@@MentalHealthPower thank you for your reply. How has your progress been so far is it still 99% gone? I keep falling into the trap of googling on the internet if recovery is possible which puts me down soo much. Many websites say you can just manage it and some websites say you can recover.
Yes I am still at 99% and although I went through a stressful period last year, it only got slightly worse and did not bother me, and now is back to 99% with times where its 100% gone. the 1% is a slight visual haze which I can ignore and appears to be going away more over time.
@@MentalHealthPowerwhy it took 8 yrs?
How do I accept it
First you understand the underlying cause of what you’re experiencing which should help you stop fearing the experience, after that I think you just need to sit with the discomfort and not let it take you bad places..
u said that ur 99% recovered, how do u know what percent ur at %
I have had a few moments and short periods over the years where I experienced 100% no symptoms at all, so that is my reference point. There is now barely anything left, its barely noticeable.
hey, hope you are doing well apologize if this question seems a bit stupid but I have a question for you. You're saying that you are 99% cured but you also said there were a few moments and short periods where there were 100% no symptoms at all so does that mean the other periods you were experiencing dpdr? Or did you just experience the 1% during the other periods? I have been suffering from it for 4 months now.
If you have any tips that would be amazing.
DP/DR can have many symptoms, and because I now only experience a very small amount of the visual haze symptom and it does not bother me at all, I see that as being 99% recovered. The other symptoms are not there. There are times where the visual haze is completely gone and so I see this as being 100% recovered. Overtime I am experiencing 100% recovery more frequently. The main thing I learned and I suggest you discuss with a professional therapist is that it is an anxiety, stress and trauma related issue. I believe a big part of it is re-training your mind and nervous system to not be in a hyper sensitive state so that it gradually moves out of the dissociative state which then starts to reduce the symptoms. So the main thing to focus on is releasing stress from the body and mind, releasing trauma from the body and mind and re-training ourselves to be in a mindful state so that we are not creating and feeding anxious thinking.
damn man i was like 99% recovered like you and last month i made the mistake of smoking again and now im back at square one. 😞
Same bro, any update?
@@Gardeez i still have it unfortunately
@AutobotOrton had it for 6 years from smoking, 99% recovered for the last few and have even been smoking, bad idea as it brought it back. 2 weeks deep now smh
@@Gardeez I’m sorry to hear that fam hopefully we recover quicker this time, it took me over a year the first time to recover
@AutobotOrton yeah bro 100%. Have been having cold showers and sauna. Nmn and other focus enhancers to mitigate diminished focus. We'll be recovered before O'malley fights honest. Keep your schedule up
DPDR sucks!!!
I have a Schizophrenic Disorder and your Depersonalization Disorder sounds a lot like Schizophrenia. I have experienced many traumas in my life, both physical and mental. I am learning a lot watching your videos. Keep them coming!
Do you hear voices?
I think it is totally different. Schizophrenia traps the person in another reality and ain't painful to experience I think. However, dpdr changes your perception of reality and is extremely extremely painful to go through.
TH C ur always in videos about dpdr you gotta slow down
@@bunnixoz do you have dpdr too?
@@thc7865 how are u now
heavy metals
what do you mean? can you tell more?
@@travaa54 I used to have high copper among other heavy metals and that is how i felt. Later, learn about removing mercury amalgams safely and whatnot.
@@xxnotmuchxx Bad weed experience trigered my dpdr and panic attacks, you think it could be this what you said? Metal poisoning? And are you okay now?
@@xxnotmuchxx i did research and i have the symtoms of mercury poison. Can you please help me? I am not 100% sure this is it but if it is, do you know how do i get it out of my body pleasee?
@@travaa54 check Andy Cutler Chelation: Safe Mercury and Heavy Metal Detox
Okay I'm one of those people that have stress and anxiety and this guy talks too fast and that popping noise every time the white letters come up on a white background which i can't read because i have anxiety which makes your pupils take in more light what hell slow your voice down man and stop the popping sound in background I realize this video is 3 years old so he'll probably never read it 😩