WINTER VLOG | dealing with loneliness during the holidays + dating life update & skating practice 🤍

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  • čas přidán 24. 12. 2022
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Komentáře • 65

  • @Lilylikecom
    @Lilylikecom  Před rokem +27

    Merry Christmas Day everyone 🎄❤

  • @lou15176
    @lou15176 Před rokem +25

    I think a lot of women become radiant when they are engaging in a hobby or using a special talent. I really believe in the whole “glowing from within” 😊 x

  • @mariannax.6854
    @mariannax.6854 Před rokem +29

    Lily I know how you feel. Last Christmas I was mad at my parents and I didn't go to see my family (dumb decision, I know). This year I'm living abroad and it's so hard watching everyone's story on Instagram enjoying their Christmas dinner while I'm all alone far away from my friends and family. Don't take anyone or anything for granted ❤️ Merry Christmas everyone ✨

    • @Lilylikecom
      @Lilylikecom  Před rokem +4

      Aw thank you Marianna for sharing that. We're in the same boat - being far away from family is never easy, but I am sure they are incredibly proud of you for chasing your dreams. Lots of love and merry Christmas ❤️

  • @jaw324
    @jaw324 Před rokem +5

    Hi Lilia. I wasn't really planning to watch this video, after watching it, I wanted to let you know that I really appreciated your testimony and I can see the growth in you! You should be proud of yourself. I appreciate hearing from a person who is quite younger than me able to express herself in such a mature and insightful way. Good luck to you, and keep up the good vibes.🙂

  • @deliciouslyme6206
    @deliciouslyme6206 Před rokem +4

    What you said about energy really hit home for me. I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease last year but the worst part of it is the chronic fatigue, which has been really hard to deal with after a lifetime of having the energy to do everything and more. But what I’ve realised for me (not saying this is the case for others at all- and chronic illness can’t be solved for many otherwise it wouldn’t be called chronic) but for me, is that I truly believe this happened to me because I have given sooo much to the wrong people , and actually just anyone and everyone and all my relationships that my body just gave up! It’s been the hardest lesson but one I wouldn’t have learnt otherwise.
    As a long time follower, I am so happy to see you truly comfortable in your skin and doing what you love and making sure YOU are ok. I am so happy for you! ❤🤗

  • @analea6531
    @analea6531 Před rokem +12

    I know this feeling way too much. I’ve been depressed since the beginning of fall, at first I thought it was just the seasonal change but I kept going down and down to the point I didn’t go out for 3 weeks. And I’m the beginning of December I asked my sisters if we were spending Christmas together they both agreed only to cancel last week to celebrate with their friends and then I realized that I can only rely on me. So I’ve been sitting in bed the whole day watching CZcams trying to avoid social media and other people being happy. I feel miserable right now but I hope I will bounce back. I’m trying to get over the fact that people can know how down you are but not even bother asking how you are doing but I think I really need to accept that nobody owes me nothing and I should take care of myself by myself

    • @Dhanna95
      @Dhanna95 Před rokem

      Ана, вы далеко от меня. Не грустите, мы не одни в этом мире. Я ❤️ Ана. Хочу чтобы Ана была счатлива!

  • @katefan7496
    @katefan7496 Před rokem +4

    I subscribed to your channel long long time ago and I always find myself on youtube watching all of your videos when I feel down and somehow lose track and inspiration in life. You truly motivated me and helped me a lot through hard time. You seem so nice, so down to earth and so sweet. I love how you manage your life and work, also the way your voice raises in joy when you talk about what you truly love and enjoy doing. I’m glad you always share with us a bit about your life and your view on things in life, I feel like we’re close friends that live far from each other. ILYSM Lily ❤

  • @christinacastillo5956
    @christinacastillo5956 Před rokem +1

    you’re absolutely correct ! Love thyself and grow is so beneficial to oneself !

  • @lisaewald494
    @lisaewald494 Před rokem

    Hi Lily
    Happy holidays! Be true to yourself, so so important! You can’t always do what you are doing if you are tied down, that relationship will come at the right time when it should! You are still very young but you are growing in beautiful ways. Nice to see you again. ❤️✨

  • @AntonioLopez-vr7ll
    @AntonioLopez-vr7ll Před rokem +2

    Amen your a BOSS don’t look for love it will find you when the time is right, keep focusing on yourself and loving yourself ❤

  • @privatejoy.2907
    @privatejoy.2907 Před rokem

    Been missing quite time with watching you since all your friends ,skating taken much of your talk time with us;Thank you so much for coming to check on us this christmas, it's truly a gift,"Merry Xmas",Lily🕯️🕯️🕯️🌌⛄.

  • @julielondon4759
    @julielondon4759 Před rokem +1

    Phenomenal skating outfits!!! You look amazing Lily!!!

  • @samsaayma1124
    @samsaayma1124 Před rokem +3

    I love you and I definitely missed u a lot but I understand u need space and time for your self I am so proud of u that u finally understand that u don’t need any one u are complete in yourself and Merry Christmas and wishing you a happy new year I wish I could get a hug from u and I hope u be what u want in 2023

    • @Lilylikecom
      @Lilylikecom  Před rokem +1

      Aww love and appreciate you so much Sam! Thank you so much for the kind words. Wishing you a great Christmas & 2023 🥰🤍

  • @ellamez7876
    @ellamez7876 Před rokem +1

    You are the best CZcamsr I have ever seen . Please don't stop making videos I love your work, 😘

  • @HeyitsDeirdre
    @HeyitsDeirdre Před rokem

    I like your pink sweater and that fryer looks cool

  • @MG-bj8sj
    @MG-bj8sj Před rokem +1

    you resonate with me 💕

  • @GraceNoel2222
    @GraceNoel2222 Před rokem +1

    Merry Christmas Lily!! Love seeing how much you e grown and what you learnt from tough moments. You taught me what to do and not to do in another situation.. just be thankful where you are and enjoy it. Thanks Lily merry Christmas!💚❤️🎄😁

    • @Lilylikecom
      @Lilylikecom  Před rokem

      Aww you have no idea how much that means to me Grace, thank you so much for your kind words and your support throughout the years (never goes unnoticed). Merry Christmas ❤️🎄

    • @GraceNoel2222
      @GraceNoel2222 Před rokem

      @@Lilylikecom your welcome Lily! I found you helped me so much during the pandemic, with stress and anxiety and finding new hobbies. And I still enjoy the content you do! ❤️💚😁

  • @kissablestyles
    @kissablestyles Před rokem

    I have watched you since D.C diaries and you have gotten so much American English in your accent now. I can't believe how long it has been 🥺

  • @josefinademialma
    @josefinademialma Před rokem +2

    What a present!!! Thank you for uploading today 🎄🤍🥹✨

  • @caritovazquez5255
    @caritovazquez5255 Před rokem

    Merry Christmas Lili Beautiful 💮

  • @lindseylee251
    @lindseylee251 Před rokem

    sending you love!!

  • @julietaguzmangonzalez7974

    Love the ice skates

  • @primalabelprimalabel2522

    love you love your video

  • @HeyitsDeirdre
    @HeyitsDeirdre Před rokem

    Happy New year

  • @HeyitsDeirdre
    @HeyitsDeirdre Před rokem

    I like your mug and your pjs

  • @Today_sobi
    @Today_sobi Před rokem

    새해 복 많이 받으세요 from korea ❤

  • @violetgirl1996
    @violetgirl1996 Před rokem

    I relate to the loneliness thing except it's not only in holiday seasons So thank you for your advice and input to this video

  • @paulinehiltra2161
    @paulinehiltra2161 Před rokem +2

    Great video. Love from Kenya ❤️

  • @merazhroberts
    @merazhroberts Před rokem

    I feel where your coming from about being to yourself. I've definitely been realizing and reflecting alot about my life and the energy I let in. I posted on my IG THAT IF YOU DONT SEE ME THAT MEANS IM DOING ME. I'm just going to get hyper focused on talking my life to the next. Level. Your always an inspiration to me I want to travel and live my best life period. It can be just me.

  • @myhappyplace718
    @myhappyplace718 Před rokem +3

    Hi Lily. You look great. Dont listen to some comments about you needing a man etc. Wtf? Age has nothing to do with love. You can find someone at any age and even if it doesn't happen, so what? Focus on yourself and thats it. I did just like that and than at 32 I met my husband and never looked back. It was totally unexpected. If its meant to be its meant to be and will happen unexpectedly. This stupid mindset that a woman is nothing without a man is archaic for people needing validation from others to feel good and whoever sees it this way needs therapy to learn how to value him/herself. Continue to do you. Thats all you have to do. ❤❤

  • @violetgirl1996
    @violetgirl1996 Před rokem

    For me this year's been the year where I had no home and was evicted from my flat

  • @Thecornerr
    @Thecornerr Před rokem +1

    What do you do for work?

  • @varsharanimusic
    @varsharanimusic Před rokem

    Hey Lilyyyy!!! Merry Christmas 🎄⛄
    Can you please suggest me some life changing books.✨ Plz Lily sister ❣️

  • @narutosd8178
    @narutosd8178 Před rokem

    love u dear

  • @bluegrassbelle5325
    @bluegrassbelle5325 Před rokem

    ❤️

  • @startingover7217
    @startingover7217 Před rokem +1

    I get where you are coming from. I've also had terrible romantic experiences with men this year and decided to be alone. I think society pressures us to be in a relationship by a certain age and then settle if you miss the target. It's sad, but we need to choose men that meet our standards and there aren't easy to find these days.

  • @sunflowersseeds_
    @sunflowersseeds_ Před rokem

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @violetgirl1996
    @violetgirl1996 Před rokem

    gim is Korean for roasted seaweed

  • @demahf1939
    @demahf1939 Před rokem +1

    the content lately has been the same on your channel, glad to see something new

    • @Lilylikecom
      @Lilylikecom  Před rokem +3

      Really? Feel like it’s been so different since I’ve done hauls, travel vlogs & now LA vlogs again lol!

  • @onghelo
    @onghelo Před rokem +3

    First here ❤

  • @sunflowersseeds_
    @sunflowersseeds_ Před rokem

    🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @MinervaRoman88
    @MinervaRoman88 Před rokem +1

    You should go home to Europe. You looked so much happier when you were there. LA will always be there to visit but it’s not a place to put down roots.

    • @Lilylikecom
      @Lilylikecom  Před rokem +3

      Aw thank you, but I definitely don't agree... I never felt at home living in The Netherlands. I am also not in any position to put down roots either haha, not sure I ever will tbh.

  • @beboy462
    @beboy462 Před rokem

    I am a student
    can you help me

  • @kudrah
    @kudrah Před rokem +3

    No, but you need a man. You need to know how to choose one because it sounds like you're choosing the wrong ones. You need the right man because you're getting older, and you do not want to reach a certain age without one because the older you get the more difficult it can be to find your ideal man. So do not lay off the opportunity to meeting the right guy just because you've had some bad experiences because it doesn't get better. Even us men need a female partner besides us for support but if we can't find one, then we are left with no choice but wait for one while looking. In this world, man and women are meant for each other and are meant to compliment each other. This is how nature is supposed to work out. This whole notion of "I don't need a man", is only going to lead you the wrong direction that you'll resent and find frustrating. But you wouldn't be able to turn back time.

    • @Lilylikecom
      @Lilylikecom  Před rokem +19

      Thanks for your comment! Our core beliefs differ, so I do not agree with your viewpoint. I actually believe that the support you mention can be found in not one, but multiple people, as well as in platonic relationships. I think our society instilled this notion in us that we “need” a partner sooner than later, and that it’s almost impossible to find love later in life, especially for women. I personally like to focus on the love that I already have in my life in the form of the love I have for myself, my family & my friends, rather than on what I’m lacking. trying to find that ‘dream person’ that might or might not exist, and that’s going to ‘save’ me and achieve my ‘natural’ destiny as a human being, is something I do not see myself doing anymore.

    • @kudrah
      @kudrah Před rokem +1

      @@Lilylikecom The need for a male partner is not a societal construct. It's nature and it is an inner natural urge. The problem is when we intentionally surpress it because of the pressures put on us by modern times. It is hard finding the right partner who can see us through and who understands us, and who we can work with to accomplish our goals. Many people are struggling with this. However, the part of finding the inner self is recommendable which often can only happen when one is in seclusion from any attachments i.e., including a partner. Knowing oneself by having space for yourself to contemplate on the self and things around us is so important and crucial to self development.

  • @bettysue5497
    @bettysue5497 Před rokem +1

    I love all you recommends

  • @Dhdhdhhdhd23
    @Dhdhdhhdhd23 Před rokem

    Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰

  • @Dhdhdhhdhd23
    @Dhdhdhhdhd23 Před rokem

    Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰