RENception - S01 E07 | Unpacking Vulnerability (Trigger Warning)
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- @DiscoDocNaughtyTherapistReacts Started a movement of healing, check out RENception Season 1, Episode 7 here!
Thanks for the nomination @mcflyjp. We're sticking with the theme of vulnerability here.
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RENception is Real:
1. I will react to Knox’s video where he watches Ren react to his reaction (THIS VIDEO!)
2. I will comment in the vid that this is a Renception and use the hashtags #renception #renceptionisreal
3. I will agree secretly with another reactor that they will go next. Only this reactor may react
4. I will leave a subtle or not-so-subtle clue in the video as to who is next
5. The first video is titled S01 E01, the next one is S01 E02 etc. This leaves room for future variant series/seasons. Each reactor uploads their video to THEIR channel. My gift to you! :-)
6. The baton has been handed on. Repeat the rules and hand the next video on to the next reactor. They react to the latest vid and upload to THEIR channel.
NB: Each segment may be clipped for future brevity but ALL previous segments must be included to some degree. Feel free to add your own flavour. This could get very weird very quickly
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Episode 1:
• Renception by Disco Doc - S01 E01 • Renception by Disco Do... @DiscoDocNaughtyTherapistReacts
Episode 2:
• S01 E02 - @KnoxHill back off buddy! • S01 E02 - @KnoxHill b...
@dantheaiguy @KnoxHill
Episode 3:
• RENCEPTION - S01 E03 | MY TURN FOR THE CHAOS • RENCEPTION - S01 E03 |...
@Beldvlmnt
Episode 4:
• RENception - S01 E04 - What The Hell Is Going On • RENception - S01 Ep 04...
@ThatSingerReactions
Episode 5:
• RENception - S01 E05 - (Trigger Warning) I'm Processing Trauma, Doc!
@thewolfjohnson
Episode 6:
• RENception - S01 E06 - (Trigger Warning) - Opening up! • RENception - S01 Ep 06...
@mcflyjp
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Wow, I'm humbled and grateful to be nominated by @McFlyJP to continue the #Renception with Season 1, Episode 7. I decided to keep the theme going and hold space for McFly's excellent conversation, and continue unpacking vulnerability a bit. Keep in mind there is a trigger warning here simply because there's some sensitive mental health conversation going on.
Take care of yourselves. This world needs you.💕
Bec
Glad to have your perspective! Keep going Becca!
@@mcflyjp You picked a winner, if I wasn't already subscribed to your channel, I would do so twice!
@@eugenesiegel4556❤
Becca, I want to send you love ❤ in a friend way, I feel empathy for you and your experience.
I am constantly amazed by the respect and love this reaction community has for each other. I’m so thankful for discovering REN which in turn has lead me to discover this community and in turn discovering you. I truely wish you well Becca.
Daz
Hey Becca, the beautiful and the brave. I'm so proud and happy for you to have been given this honour. It's late here in Australia, gotta an early morning. Will be back in my morning to watch, comment and donate to your GFM. Many blessings as always.
Much love sweetie🙏🌏💙
Becca,
I know how much work you put into this and how much you wanted to keep this going. Your vulnerability is unmatched and thats why I picked you. You did amazing! Thank you for always being vulnerable and being you ❤
Thanks, my friend! It did definitely take a lot, but it was worth it 110%. I’m so glad I was able to hold space for your own story, and hopefully contribute some things of my own that may have value. You and Wolf started off the chain of vulnerability, so it was a blessing to be asked to try to tackle this one. Really appreciate you, brother.💕🫶🏼
Thanks Becca ❤
How did Disco Doc show up and, within two days, become one of the most influential Renfluencers on CZcams? It's very cool. Thank you for sharing with us.
REN AI
He’s a force to be reckoned with, for sure! I love how he’s been able to have such a massive impact on the community at large-I can’t wait to see what all he’s gonna keep doing!
@@bearbait7405AI takeover!
The following is simple and universal: I know how you feel. I have felt the same way. An I have found that... It's called Feel, Felt, Found. It's a great way to share experiences and emotions. There is no qualitative or quantitative measurement, in any form of titration, or form of indoctrination or perceptive approaches that have been known to be effective in understanding the experience of another. The advice you shared in this reaction is precious and timeless. I look forward to hearing more. Captain's log: Stardate 23.0903 - upon my return to the planet, I was greeted by the natives with anticipation and respect. My first visit resulted in more questions than answers, but now that I realize that my uncertainties were rooted in my own fears and how I was taught to think. In conclusion, I truly believe there is hope for this species, yet the same thought contains a concern for its future. The species appears to be an experiment - a work in progress. At least one more visit appears to be necessary in order to gather enough information to allow my dissertation and thesis to become whole.
2 days?? Where you been
#RENception is REAL. Real life.
So important. Love & peace to all. 🫶
You said it perfectly!
I appreciate the term, “comparative trauma.” Sometimes when I hear someone say to another person, “Calm down,” or “you’re alright,”my head wants to explode. No one has ever calmed down after being told to do so. I was fortunate to have been trained to address emotional outbursts, agitation and shock with, “I’m here, we will get through this together.” When experiencing confusion and surviving trauma -wouldn’t you as a human being want to hear from another human being , “I am here and we will get through this…”. We are not on this planet alone. Help one another, be there for each other-always. Courageous suffering begets fierce joy.
I respect disco Doc immensely.
He's created such a kind and supportive channel. Nobody expected wolf Johnson to open up as he did - there were certainly no trigger reactions in the videos wolf was responding to.
Everyone, especially disco doc, has reached out to wolf and will continue to do so.
We are here, and we will indeed get through this together.
I’m really glad you appreciate that turn, it’s some thing I definitely try to keep in mind because, if I don’t, I definitely fall into that traffic comparison, myself. And you’re so right, telling someone who’s in a trauma response to calm down, even if you don’t know it’s a full blown trauma response and they’re just having some nervous system regulation issues, never actually helps someone calm down, it has the opposite effect. I love the way that you were trained to respond to emotional outburst like that, that soon as you share it is exceedingly and infinitely more empathetic and helpful in the moment. And again, your last sentence is just so perfectly stated. I’m gonna have to steal that one.😉
@@thehangingparsiple5692It’s been such an awe-inspiring experience to watch unfold, for sure.
@@BeccaDoss ❤️✌️
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When I saw @McFlyJP change up his nomination for the Renception, I had a feeling the baton had been passed to you and think you were the perfect reactor to carry this forward.
The #Renception has evolved organically to cover some of the most important discussions we need to be having. One of the things that resonated with me was the discussion about comparing trauma. I have had cancer multiple times and so many people will talk about something painful they are going through but then say ‘but, it’s not as bad as the things you have gone through’ ….and it makes me sad that they belittle their own experiences, like that.
Disco Doc brought me to your channel via the rising tide Tuesday and I’m glad he did.
Thank you so much for such a thoughtful, kind comment. I’m grateful to know that you thought my contributions were able to add some thing a value to the conversation.
It was definitely an honor to be able to take the baton from McFly, and I’m right there with you: I love how this first season of Renception has evolved to covering some very needed discussions we don’t always see talked about publicly.
I feel you so much on that comparative Trauma thing, and I’m glad that section was able to resonate with you. I have a very similar reaction, on a level that isn’t necessarily traumatic, but that comes up a lot in our house. I’ve had a headache literally every day since January 20, 2013.
Any time my husband, Roger, gets a headache, he’ll catch himself mentioning it, and then apologize because he knows I deal with headaches every day. I very quickly always try to remind him that, in someways, that makes his even harder to deal with, because he’s not used to it. And that I don’t for one second think that he’s “whining” or anything like that.
I’m so glad Doc since you here, and I really appreciate you sticking around.💕
Wow Becca! What a fantastic, insightful follow up to the Renception. This all definitely went in a different direction than expected but what a beautiful change. Your discussion about not comparing traumas is so important. I am so very glad I found this community of Ren, his fans and the reaction community. It has helped me heal in many ways that I could not have done on my own and you are a huge part of that. This community is so supportive and positive ❤. You did not have an easy task following up Wolf and McFlyJP and you did a great job. Love and hugs to you and all ❤❤❤❤❤
It was definitely a little daunting, so I’m just glad I was able to hold space for their subject matter, as well as add my own two cents where it applied. I’m hoping it reaches whoever needs to hear it.
I’m glad to know you appreciate the discussion about comparative traumas, I wanted to make sure I spent some time on that point because it’s super easy to get caught up in doing that without even realizing it.💕 And I agree, Ren, and the communities he’s fostered, have helped so many heal and find catharsis they hadn’t found in other ways. What a wonderful time to be alive.💕🫶🏼
We love everyone involved in the making of these.
Wolf. Ah. ❤
Thank you so much for this whole conversation 🙏🙏 I know how much energy you put in to this, and what it did to you and just really wanted to say thank you! You are so inspiring to work along side and make me want to do more in this world💛
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Glad you brought up comparative trauma. Everyone has trauma, and everyone's trauma is very personal and real to them. There is no trauma that is "better" or "worse" than someone else's trauma. Trauma is traumatic.
You did a great job with this difficult (in more ways than one) reaction. This community continues to amaze me. It's great that people, at least in this community, are so supportive and willing to be vulnerable.
I’m so glad you appreciated that conversation, it felt really important for me to bring up because I know we can fall prey to it very easily (myself included).
This community is definitely one of a kind, and it continues to blow my mind regularly. Really appreciate you taking time to share this.💕
Becca!!! So proud of you!!! This is absolutely wonderful!!! Sorry for all the exclamation points!!!
Eugene!!!! Thank you!!!! (😉No worries on the exclamation marks, I just read encourage my and support when people use them) My hope is just the conversations is a valuable one for anyone who could use it.
@@BeccaDoss What started out as a clever fun idea has transformed into something real and even great, just as the Doc's own channel has become much more than "satire". We lift ourselves up as we lift others!
A wonderful edition of the Renception. I love this new spirit of openness and vulnerability that is spreading through this community and hopefully beyond. All this is a hugely teaching moment for me. I'm not a man, but I've spent much my life sitting on my sorrow because I was taught very early that to open up about one's heartbreak was to wallow in self-pity. Plus the message that nobody wants to hear about it anyway, it just makes other people uncomfortable and drives them away. It's like opening a long- dark room to the sun to experience all this. Thank you, Becca.❤
I’m so glad you found value in this addition to the series. It was humbling and an honor to be asked to hold space for the stories and conversations that had already been started, and to be able to hopefully add something worthwhile of my own.
I’m so sorry you’ve had the experience you’ve had when it comes to being taught to his your pain and sorrow-I can guarantee you there ARE people who care and want to listen, and I’m so sorry you didn’t have an environment where that was the case. That’s painful and can follow you throughout life, for sure.
I’m so thankful you felt sharing just this small part of your story, and I hope, over time, you’re able to realize there are people who care and want to listen and validate your struggles, even if we’re online. Sending you so much love and compassion.💕
RenAThon, RisingTidesDay, Renception
RenMakesMusic, RenMakesTwitch
Ren makes everythng better.
The gift that keeps on giving.
This RenForce and RenEffect is so real.
You are the perfect Bexample !
Hey Peter! The Ren Effect is DEFINITELY real. I hope I can continue being a good Bexample of it in action.😉 Thank you so much, friend!💕
Hi hey! I came here from McFly ❤Lovely to see you ❤
Hey! Thanks for stopping by and letting me know McFly sent you, he’s such a great guy! Grateful to have you here.💕
I love it and was so happy to see you being part of this. It fits like a glove for you.
I am happy what ren was able to invoke in us all and also absolutely grateful that Wolf made his punk move and turned it around into this discussion.
Season 1 will end in the next episode it seems.
Thanks again becca for this wonderful episode.
Trauma is trauma 💕💕 Keep pushing Becca💪😘. #renception
Absolutely. I wanted to make sure I hammered that point home a bit, because I know I fall prey to it at times, so I figured others do, too. A good reminder for us all to keep in mind, both for our own lives and how we view our own battles, and for our interactions with others.💕
@@BeccaDoss Big hugs lovey. We are all survivors of something💕💕
❤I really appreciate you taking on episode 7…your honesty and kindness is truly amazing. I hope that you continue to get stronger every day. You’re right, Ren has started a movement and it’s pretty incredible ❤
He really has, it’s unlike anything I’ve ever witnessed before, and it’s only going to continue to take off even more-I’m so here for it! I’m grateful to know you appreciate this episode, it was an honor to be asked to follow Wolf and McFly, and I’m just so glad people are resonating with it.💕
Thanks for stepping up for the Renception Becca !. A perfect continuation and addition to the cause. As always thanks for opening yourself up and providing inspiration to others.
Thanks for letting me know you enjoyed what I had to share-I’m just so grateful I was given the chance to share as part of this much bigger, really important conversation. Really appreciate you taking time to watch.💕
Hey Becca. You've done a brilliant job with this episode. I've been following them from the start and checking every day since McFly's to see if the gauntlet had been picked up by another. When I got the notification from your channel I had to re read S1 E7 as I was quite taken aback. You are without a shadow of a doubt one of the bravest most honest, decent to the very core, intelligent articulate people I've had the pleasure to find. I was concerned how this would affect you but I need not have been. What you have added to the series will be relatable to so many and just show's more of your beautiful soul and interesting mind. ♥to you from the UK :)
Wow, friend, I’m actually at a loss for words after reading this (but that’s not gonna stop me from trying to reply).
From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU for the exceedingly kind words you shared here. They mean so much to me, and I’m beyond grateful to be able to add anything to the extremely important conversations that were already going on. So glad to know you’re enjoying Renception as a whole!💕💕
Series 1 of Renception changed form from being something that we were all just having a laugh at to becoming something that's deeply meaningful. I don't think it could have been made to be this way so the fact it has become this is really quite incredible @@BeccaDoss
Becca you would be exactly who I would choose as a friend. You have so many incredible and admirable qualities. I so hoped it was you, when announced it would be a female reactor for the next Renception. Thanks for always been so raw, brave, and honest. ❤️
That is one of the kindest things anyone could say to me, thank you, Alex.💕 I’m glad to be able to deliver after such amazing previous episodes. Very grateful for you.
Lustening to McFly talking about his mother clicked something in my brain. My parents argued/fought a lot when my sister and i were young. I'm now 70, my sister 65. I blamed my dad's drinkjng for the fights. Only in recent times have i realised dad drank to escape mum's negativity. Mum died 17 months ago, at 94 years of age. Not having to deal with her negativity for the past months has allowed me to remember the better times we enjoyed as a family. The main sadness is that my daughters never had any positive experiences with their grandma, so have no good memories of her at all. They remember their grandad fondly, so that's a happy thought.
Wow, that is a huge realization, and I’m glad you had it. I’m sorry to hear of all you had to witness and endure growing up, but it’s always a big deal when we’re able to look back and see the WHY behind certain things (doesn’t make them any easier or less traumatic, but it’s helpful to see the puzzle pieces click).
I’m glad you’ve been able to focus on your positive memories with your mom in the time since her passing, but I’m equally sorry your daughters didn’t get to have any of those positive experiences. I have a feeling you’ve done a lot to make sure they have those memories of YOU, though. And also very glad they can remember their grandad fondly.💕
Beautifully done as always Becca.
Even though I have only followed Ren for close to 6 months (and what a 6 months that has been), I agree with what you said about how the fabric of community is changing in his wake. It's a process we each tackle in our own time, and on our own levels, but it is beautiful to see moving at a measurable pace.
With regard to Trauma-comparison, I agree with what you, and McFlyJP have said. I would also add that there is a flip-side to how that comparison works, which we should try to be mindful of as well. First, is that comparison is natural, but second--and most important--what we do with that comparison is optional/ What we should strive to do is not to minimize or maximize our pain to others, but use it to find our intersections with others whenever possible, while avoiding the activity of trauma-bonding--we are all more under the surface than the trauma we are, or have experienced.
This is a hard thing to manage for many of us because humanity is wired to react to what triggers us, and to hold space for another while acknowledging our own trauma is not something we are designed naturally to do. To this end, we should be careful, and go slowly whenever possible, while giving ourselves and those around us as much grace as we can muster. None of us can be "on" for everyone, all the time, but we are building a community where there is always *someone* there, and the wider out nets are, the better we all will be for it.
Thanks, friend, for taking time not only to watch, but for leaving such an insightful, thought-provoking comment in addition to the conversation we ended up having in this vid.
I can’t add anything to what you’ve said because you explained it all so well, and I agree with every point. I’m really grateful you took the time to type all of this out, because I guarantee you I’m not the only one who will read your comment and be affected positive by it.
So appreciative of you!💕
Always love watching you Becca. Thanks for being you. ❤❤🔥🔥
So glad you enjoyed it! As I’ve said (in different words) a few times before in response to others’ comments: I honestly don’t know any other way to be, so I’m glad people are okay with the realness.😊💕
Becca, you absolutley are the most genuine and caring person I know 💜 Irl and online. You're so intellegent and kind, and deserve all the good things in life! I feel so honored to have gotten to know you over the last few weeks 😊
To anyone reading this, Becca is such a beautiful soul! What you see in these videos is the real her. She is the bestest 💜💜💜
Love you sister!
Thankyou Becca for taking on this challenge as something that started out as a bit of silly fun it developing into a sounding board for topics that far too often get buried but by the simple act of sharing and caring can bring to light many things that are relatable especially for some feeling isolated. We are a communal species after all and I hope people use this as a pathway to there own healing. Love and respect ❤oh and nice clue to the next one xx
I had to take a break from getting back to comments last night to give my brain a rest, but I wanted to tell you how much it means to me that you thought I had something valuable to add to this conversation that was already an extremely important discussion. It’s definitely an unexpected turn that this first season took, but the response to everyone’s videos has been amazing.
Glad you appreciated the clue at the end, too… I was worried it may have been a little too abstract, but I figured they would at least be a few people who picked up on it.💕
Children are so completely vulnerable. It completely shatters my heart that there are so many of us who have been through these traumas. I have had to go no contact with my parents in order to protect myself, after years of trying to navigate our abusive relationship. There's more and it's actually very positive now, but I don't feel I should share here. It's so healing to hear I'm not alone, and that my responses are similar to those of others, but I also hate that so many of us are hurting so badly. Love and massive kudos to all of us living through it and are determined to heal. Urgh -such a lump on my throat. ❤️
Absolutely no pressure to ever share any of your own specific struggles, you don’t owe that to anyone. I do appreciate you sharing what you did feel comfortable sharing here, and I’m sorry for the pain you’ve endured. Going NC is not an easy decision, so I just wanted to validate how difficult that decision (and often, the fallout) can be.💕 I’m so glad to hear things are going more positively now, that’s amazing! And I’m with you, it’s just heartbreaking when you realize how many people, including children, are going through so many life-altering traumatic experiences.
22:57 Yes, it could be an opportunity to gain strength as a result of your reaction to accepting lifting this new weight, but it all depends on how you respond and how much support you can accept, even from yourself, to do so. Cheers to everyone that accomplishes so; I would never presume to do better, but for my soul let me just say I am rooting for each ;)
You’re absolutely right, it can be a tricky thing to navigate, but it definitely requires letting yourself receive support (as you said-even from yourself), and finding ways to respond that are helpful instead of harming you further. It’s definitely a battle and takes a lot of time.💕
#Recneption
I hear it’s real…
Oh my gosh Becca, I just love you. I truly appreciate your compassion and empathy and the care and thoughtfulness you took in your video. Mental health is a very important topic to me, and I really respect your kind words. Sending love your way. 🖤
I wish you could see the smile this comment put in my heart when I read it. Thank you so much, friend, your kindness means the world to me. I’m also grateful to know you appreciated what I was able to add to the video. I’m just grateful I was asked to be a part of this much larger conversation.💕
@@BeccaDoss 🥰 I feel the same. 🖤
Hi Becca! I just now became aware of you.💜 You are doing a wonderful job keeping it together. I identify with cptsd. Ive been on the Rentrain since hi ren. RENCeption is just about blowing my mind. The format not the subject matter. I am grateful and appreciative that this thing called RENCeption exists and is progressing. Ive been studying mental illnesses and mental health. A bit for 30 years with onset of my own mental illness. Now im on fb just 3 yrs. My studying has excelerated majorly. Ive found out that Trauma is the response of our nervous system to the Traumatic Event. Framing it as a physical reaction changed my sense of what trauma actually is. In that way, it seems simpler to Not have comparisons made between depths of trauma.
Hey! Thanks so much for letting me know you found your way here, and I’m glad to know the Renception is blowing your mind-the format is definitely unique and the good DiscoDoc started something really special here!
Also, thanks for sharing some of your own story. I appreciate you feeling comfortable enough to type it here. And as far as what you said at the end: framing the trauma response as a physical, biological reaction can help in a lot of ways when it comes to being able to navigate and manage it as we go forward.💕
One of my favorite quotes is from Anais Nin (her diaries are powerful for a young woman) 'We do not see things as they are. We see them as we are.' I've contemplated this for many years & I've always reminded myself of it when having discussions with other Bodies.
Screenshotted that to be sure I would have it going forward. Thanks!
Wow, this whole "RENception" is astonishing in the best possible way. These conversations are saving lives and souls, and it all started because Ren reacted to a reactor?! HSP's and Empaths UNITE!!! Let's change the damn world, people!
"The Body Keeps the Score" is an amazing book! I love Bessel van der Kolk. Thank you for a great reaction, and for sharing some of your story with us.
So glad you got thrown to next.
Re comparative trauma: my take on it is that if you have a broken leg and your next door neighbour gets into a car crash and is in a coma in hospital, does that mean you can suddenly walk? Your leg doesn't heal just because your neighbour is in a coma. Your life is still just as hard.
Thanks friend, I was so honored to be able to hold space for their conversation, and hopefully add something else of value.
I LOVE that example when it comes to comparative trauma, and it’s a very tangible example I think anyone would be able to understand. Thank you so much for sharing it here!💕
Hi Becca.. nice to see your smiling face.. 😊♥️😊
Always nice to be back. 😊💕
I hadn’t noticed that when you have been threw a lot of trauma yourself.
You kinda naturally do the “ comparative trauma”. You down play anything you have been threw.
I was tearing up. Just going wow, never thought of it that way. It very true.
I think it pretty common with anyone that has compassion, empathy. Is too say to yourself. “Well it could be worse” “ That didn’t happen” “Why am feeling these way? It not that big of deal”
Healing happens in layers. It takes time.
From personal experience. I can say this take the time to find the right therapist for you. The one that not afraid to say “I see this about you……”. Help you threw it.
That trauma you been stuffing it down like a freakin super power. You will run out of stuffing room. Pull some of that stuff out & get rid of it by talking to others.
This kindness, support, empathy, understanding! Is magical. It so much what this world needs. What individual need.
So well spoken. Becca. I wish I had the eloquence to speak on my own experiences in such an effective way.
OMG love cautious optimism! Borrowing this one 🥰
Glad you were able to connect with that one! It’s a phrase my ED recovery coach and I came to with sometime last year because of my tenuous relationship with, and hesitancy to use, the word ‘hope’. Feel free to borrow in any situation it may be helpful!😊💕
Another impotant Anais Nin
'Our culture made a virtue of living only as extroverts. We discouraged the inner journey, the quest for a center. So we lost our center and have to find it again.' Anais Nin
Before I listen, I must say that I saw this prismoidal house of mirrors coming and I am happy to see a plan come together. Now I want a "Healed" T-shirt or ball cap.
Becca! I just subscribed. I recovered from nearly 20 years of anorexia. I know you’re fighting hard. I just wanted to say that I know how incredibly difficult it is to walk through this and I’m proud of you for fighting so hard and for your vulnerability and sharing your experience. I’m proud of you ❤
I’m behind in answering comments, but I wanted to make sure to get to this before it got lost in my notifications. I don’t have adequate words to tell you just how much this means to me, and how much hope it gives me, knowing you fought this battle for so long and have managed to come out the other side. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU for sharing part of your own journey, and for taking time to encourage me in my own. I’m so grateful for you, and the value of the validation from someone who knows just how hard it is cannot be quantified. Again, just…thank you. And I’m so freaking happy to hear you’ve recovered! Rock on!
Thank you. I don’t really have the words right now and probably won’t later, I’m pretty overwhelmed by the last few episodes and almost couldn’t start watching this one today. I am glad I did, but it was hard and it hurts.
Much ❤️
Always want you to take care of yourself first and foremost. These past few episodes definitely took a turn we didn’t initially expect, but I’m humbled to be asked to be part of this conversation. I hope you’ve found ways to take care of yourself the past few days.💕🫂
You need to feel special because you are!! Love all the positive enforcement around you. We are each individual powers of love & acceptance & every Body needs acceptance.
Hey Becca not seen your channel before, will definitely be checking in again in the future. You did a great job following Wolf and JP. The way they both opened up was amazing. Generational trauma is so hard to unpack, as is dealing with health or mental/emotional issues; I do agree with you about the body keeping the score or being used as a protective defence. Your personality comes across so well on screen and I am glad you show some of your vulnerability, because more people (especially teenagers) need to see that it is perfectly fine being open and vulnerable in the moment. The opportunity to explore with others our own issues, troubles or struggles without compassion can be cathartic and give other perspectives. Keep doing what you are doing and I wish you well on your journey and with your own struggles. Such a beautiful commentary.
Becca, thank you for continuing Renception with so much compassion and kindness. Keep up working through your own struggles. You are doing a great job! ❤️
You are so welcome-thank you for letting me know you were able to find some value in what I had to share after the important conversations that had already been started. I really appreciate your encouragement, thanks again.💕
Comparison trauma is good if you take the light from it, the knowledge that you should accept yourself as you are. Peace comes from acceptance and understanding of one's self.
I'm reminded of the "compare and contrast" essay questions from high school exams. I guess the main thing is not turning it into a p***ing contest 🙂
You said that really well; that’s an angle I neglected to mention, so thank you for sharing it here.
I'm so glad you are back! I've missed new content, and I'm so glad this is what brought you back!
Glad to be back, for sure! It’s been getting to me, not being able to make all the content I’ve been wanting to make, but now that I’ve finished my part in Renception, I’m eager to get back to my regular reaction vids. (My reaction to How To Be Me should be up this week-I can’t commit to a specific day (yet), because who knows what life will throw our way, but I filmed it on Tuesday so I just need to get it edited and up. And then hopefully I’ll get on more of an consistent upload schedule. 💕
My hope for you and your husband is that any fertility question/issue will take care of itself as ED recovery continues 🙂
Dave, I cannot tell you how much this means to my soul. Thank you, brother. Very grateful for you.💕🫶🏼
Beautifully said. Lots of love to you Becca
Thank you! Sending love back to you, too.💕
#undivided
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Ren Nation is strong
there is some power in comparison in as far as it gives perspective. when i finally started to get to a point in my own recovery to "see the light" it gave me a place to say i dont have it as bad as x or y. it never made my pain and trauma any less but i was able to say if they can recover then i have no accuse.
sorry about the caps and grammar errors. i know you're a lit major. im not trying to be intentionally triggering. im just lazy.
No worries about any grammar or typographical things, I don’t judge anyone else for anything they type online. Heck, sometimes I don’t even remember to proofread my one stuff on social media, so I didn’t think twice about it.😊 And you make an excellent point here, thanks for sharing.💕
😂 I just got your joke in the clue for the next reactor now that episode 8 is out 😂 Very good!
😂😬 It was definitely a little obscure, but thanks for coming back to let me know you got it!
Thank you.
You’re so welcome.💕
I know from experience when it comes to downplaying your trauma you can also downplay it because you think its foolish to be fearful of something. Like for me im fearful of whole apples. (Was abused by a neighbor when i went over to his house to pick apples. So in my mind apples= abuse.) Sometimes i feel foolish for being fearful of that or fearful of other things that are common activities in life and i find myself downplaying the abuse i went through and berating myself for being so cautious when it comes to things. So that is something that i need to work on (not to be as hard on myself and to not minimize my anxieties just because I feel theyre foolish.) For tose who read this no 1 thing your afraid of is foolish to be afraid of. Especially if the thing is deeply connected with trauma. Own up to your pain and by owning up to it you can start the healing process. Much like i am doing so now.
Less than jake: anthem.... ahem...
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
With so many problems in her life it really comes as no surprise
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
She's gonna break
Welcome to her busy dizzy life
Of going out and getting high
And following all the latest trends
While shedding all her oldest friends
It's been weeks worth of weekends
With fake I.D.s and fake passions of her best friends
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
With so many problems in her life it really comes as no surprise
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
She's gonna break
She's been thinkin' wishin' she could hide
From the girls with the comments passing by
It's the boys in bars on Friday night
That replace the emptiness inside
She'll be spending her whole weekend
Faking laughs and faking smiles with her fake friends
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
With so many problems in her life it really comes as no surprise
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
She's gonna break
Promises you made back home
Are crumpled like the goodbye notes
And last night's dirty clothes
Were on the floor next to the phone
And it's been disconnected months ago
No calls from your friends back home
You lost your point of view and now
It's got the best of got the best of got the best of you
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
With so many problems in her life it really comes as no surprise
She's gonna break soon
Gonna break soon
She's gonna break
Such a great song, thanks for taking time to share it here!💕🫶🏼
This is a late comment because I am not writing until after watching episode 8 (even though I watched your reaction when it came out). I just felt, during that reaction, a strong prompting to recommend a song to you (doesn't need to be a reaction, it just speaks to me in times of feeling overwhelmed). I'm going to put a link here in a response to my comment because I don't know if you are set up to allow links. The song is "Not Right Now" by Jason Gray - specifically a live version with speaking at the beginning. My prayers are with you as you navigate a broken path.
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I love Jason Gray, but I actually haven’t heard that song before, so thanks for letting me know! I’ll check it out ASAP. Really appreciate you.💕
I can't wait for "people" to prove how influenced we are becoming by AI. I don't follow Disco Doc, though I've watvhed quite a few of "his" vids.
I'm gonna stick with the human reactors, or at least the ones who show humanity. Becca certainly fits that.
Thanks as always Becca for being as vulnerable as always.
Many blessings🙏🌏💙
I am a human and I would hope that shines through in my content. That being said, I would never try to be for everyone. Peace and goodwill.
Love it mate ❤🎉
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Thanks Dan, that means the world to me. Appreciate you!💕
Hey Becca, what's your fav Ren song? Need it for a thing. Thanks sweetie💙
I shared some things (without trying to go into detail) on the mcfly video on how wolfs video hit very deeply and the main reason i wanted to share that is i pray that anyone who read that comment will get the help that i wasnt able to and it prevents the hurt in this world. Even if 1 person seeks help instead of acting on devilistic thoughts then i will know i made a difference in peoples lives.
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Oh yeah talking normal to your prts helps. I believe that completely. ❤
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I totally agree!🐶💕
You are a beautiful energy!!
Thank you so much, friend! This means so much to me.💕🫂
Nice job!❤
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it!💕
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The Power of Many!! ❤🛶🫴👊👊✊️✊️
At 50 I've learned that 1st rule for myself:
Life is meant to be played❣️ I'm a lucky soul to have experienced the hills & many valleys in this journey we call life. Always remember there may be another hill right around the bend mate. ⛰️🏕☯️
Exactly! And life is so much less about being dealt a good hand than playing a bad one well.😊