ASMR In A Graveyard

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  • @cassandra238
    @cassandra238 Před 3 lety +5354

    People forget that graveyards originally were used as parks to eat and laugh near their dead friends and family.

    • @dc9067
      @dc9067 Před 3 lety +93

      Dark

    • @redvelvet6969
      @redvelvet6969 Před 3 lety +514

      @@dc9067 Not really it was supposed to be this whole idea where death shouldn't be a scary thing and both living and dead could be together in happy moments

    • @dc9067
      @dc9067 Před 3 lety +26

      @@redvelvet6969 well yeah

    • @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516
      @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516 Před 3 lety +16

      Stan.

    • @juju-be4279
      @juju-be4279 Před 3 lety +56

      Oddly wholesome 🥰

  • @teddy2271
    @teddy2271 Před 3 lety +6118

    Some of y'all talk about how dean disrespects the dead when most of you can't even respect the living 💀💀

  • @toxin7111
    @toxin7111 Před 3 lety +1132

    Imagine dying and sitting on your grave and suddenly a guy came around the corner and started whispering and tapping on your grave. I'd want that

    • @charlottequercus
      @charlottequercus Před 3 lety +82

      And then say: omg this is so vintage! While tapping on ur gravestone

    • @andreao.2722
      @andreao.2722 Před 3 lety +17

      Where do i sign up

    • @The_Rhino1997
      @The_Rhino1997 Před 3 lety +8

      Is that not disrespectful to mess with someone’s grave

    • @quandlecredit7745
      @quandlecredit7745 Před 2 lety +1

      You are rigth thats evil

    • @saphiquefemme
      @saphiquefemme Před 2 lety +4

      I wouldn't like that! Don't disturb my peace when I'm dead. Seriously I hate being woke up. 😤

  • @pastelcorpse3580
    @pastelcorpse3580 Před 3 lety +1839

    Why must we keep graveyards so damn depressing? Graveyards were originally made to celebrate lives and represent parks. When i’m dead I HOPE people visit where I lay & have fun around me.

    • @nora1423
      @nora1423 Před 3 lety +88

      also in a lot of cultures death is just a part of life and the days dedicated to dead people are not a way to commemorate the dead person in a sad way, but to remember their life with good memories and “celebrate” them

    • @boiledtoes
      @boiledtoes Před 3 lety +24

      i love this comment

    • @skullzforu
      @skullzforu Před 3 lety +69

      Fr tho if I die I’d be happy if someone tapped my grave for a ASMR video then said thank you, I’d rather have someone be happy near my grave instead of crying near it

    • @ellwaffles1344
      @ellwaffles1344 Před 3 lety +29

      Fr tho, I’d be happy as hell if other people hung out near my gravestone (as long as they be respectful to it, so like no breaking it), in some ways it even sounds really nice to know that other people who had no relation to you during your life still notice you

    • @Jonibear22
      @Jonibear22 Před 3 lety +7

      Just default dance on my grave, just don't dig be up

  • @artisticallykaylee7440
    @artisticallykaylee7440 Před 3 lety +4579

    Oh no this is gonna be controversial-

    • @abbeygibson9813
      @abbeygibson9813 Před 3 lety +311

      That’s what I was thinking

    • @abbeygibson9813
      @abbeygibson9813 Před 3 lety +341

      Mmh just don’t know about that i kinda see this a little disrespectful in some parts

    • @ASMRfleur
      @ASMRfleur Před 3 lety +60

      @mysterious alien very different kind of triggers lmao

    • @tomfod96
      @tomfod96 Před 3 lety +136

      *Logan Paul has left the chat*

    • @KurdishMuslim99
      @KurdishMuslim99 Před 3 lety +14

      mysterious alien omg 💀💀💀💀

  • @crookedanchors
    @crookedanchors Před 3 lety +3152

    "maybe this gravestone was for like a dog or a cat or something. it's very tiny."
    the infant most likely buried there: not quite

    • @kairoblues9406
      @kairoblues9406 Před 3 lety +155

      So disrespectful lmao

    • @sparky8197
      @sparky8197 Před 3 lety +15

      @@lyndleecox What happens when people don't have God, sorry to say but don't think he does.

    • @kairoblues9406
      @kairoblues9406 Před 3 lety +34

      @@sophlaransanford145 to tell him it's disrespectful, like many other people did.

    • @skyyy9121
      @skyyy9121 Před 3 lety +9

      @@sparky8197 huh??

    • @sparky8197
      @sparky8197 Před 3 lety +6

      @@skyyy9121 Jesus is coming.

  • @jasmine10799
    @jasmine10799 Před 3 lety +473

    “He died in 1918 back during the Cold War 💕”

    • @mariepret3903
      @mariepret3903 Před 3 lety +17

      Yeah because ya know, what’s a 30 year difference? War is war lol 😂

    • @alexolson8406
      @alexolson8406 Před 3 lety +71

      “Civil war or maybe the Cold War” went from the 1860s to the 1950s real quick 😂

    • @aid2381
      @aid2381 Před 3 lety +1

      @@mariepret3903 maybe work on your reading skills, he was honoring the man for being in the cold war

    • @mariepret3903
      @mariepret3903 Před 3 lety +2

      @@aid2381 maybe mind your business, I know exactly what he was doing lol it wasn’t shade on my part. He just mentioned the wrong war.

    • @aid2381
      @aid2381 Před 3 lety +1

      @@mariepret3903 I can't mind my business on the internet. Because well.. It's the internet lol

  • @cryptcr3ature81
    @cryptcr3ature81 Před 3 lety +352

    More people should visit old graveyards, read the tombstones and reflect on what the people's lives might have been like.

    • @royalpain9939
      @royalpain9939 Před 2 lety +14

      I agree. I hope long after I'm gone people still visit my gravestone. Even if it's strangers

  • @alicescott3770
    @alicescott3770 Před 3 lety +3755

    it’s the calling them “vintage” for me LMFAO

    • @milenajovanovic3104
      @milenajovanovic3104 Před 3 lety +13

      Same 😂

    • @chihuahua300
      @chihuahua300 Před 3 lety +31

      he was trying to be respectful...??

    • @harlow4095
      @harlow4095 Před 3 lety +76

      @@chihuahua300 how is that respectful?

    • @alicescott3770
      @alicescott3770 Před 3 lety +123

      @@chihuahua300 i wasn’t criticizing him i was saying it was just like funny bc they’re so old but he said vintage like they’re stylish or smth LOL

    • @chihuahua300
      @chihuahua300 Před 3 lety +15

      @@alicescott3770 yeah i just feel bad JzhzjshshahahIsbskfks everyones being so mean

  • @Oliver-yf2tl
    @Oliver-yf2tl Před 3 lety +2777

    This dude be calling the tombstones vintage like he’s shopping in urban outfitters

  • @squishapricot4890
    @squishapricot4890 Před 3 lety +674

    POV: you’re scrolling through the comments trying to find the triggered pplz

    • @spyllblud
      @spyllblud Před 3 lety +22

      Lmao yeah, but why do people get triggered? Gravestones are made with strong materials, they can't break down by some taps. Also, he isn't vandalizing or disrespecting anything.

    • @4shotss
      @4shotss Před 3 lety +18

      @@spyllblud they get triggered because a graveyard is not a place to tap for asmr triggers, people need to rest in peace.

    • @littlechungussss
      @littlechungussss Před 3 lety +11

      we found one

    • @mjtchj
      @mjtchj Před 3 lety +3

      “pplz”

    • @tre7523
      @tre7523 Před 3 lety +9

      I'm not christian but I would not want people going tapping on me or my parents when I die

  • @lilly.franco
    @lilly.franco Před 3 lety +144

    7:28 “that’s like 1000 years ago.”
    I’m dead 💀✋🏼😭

  • @neotreo92
    @neotreo92 Před 3 lety +4084

    I can see both points of this. But he does show big respect while he taps, he is careful, describing and being careful, at the same time I can see how people find it disturbing. But no ones is destroying anything, no one is actually being rude or disrespectful.
    Most likely there is no relatives left, it doesn’t look like that (or no one care fo them). And maybe this is the first time in a longtime anyone actually visit just those gravestones, now we are thousands of people thinking of these peoples in the grave. They are brought back “to life” in our thoughts.

    • @peepee9073
      @peepee9073 Před 3 lety +227

      This. This perfectly explains it.

    • @analukac5301
      @analukac5301 Před 3 lety +97

      this is such a positive view, i hope it's that way fr

    • @jay_1001
      @jay_1001 Před 3 lety +38

      yes! you explained it perfectly!

    • @thematch5858
      @thematch5858 Před 3 lety +20

      U should be the disclaimer

    • @marpro5610
      @marpro5610 Před 3 lety +17

      Perfect explanation

  • @emilyd6618
    @emilyd6618 Před 3 lety +2167

    May all of their souls Rest In Peace.

  • @mojom7564
    @mojom7564 Před 3 lety +393

    Tbh, I think him being relaxing and giving attention to the graves is actually rather sweet

    • @reaper1658
      @reaper1658 Před rokem +11

      yeah but he’s being disrespectful for stepping on the graves and touching there stones. thats like doing asmr with dead ppl

    • @xtalfinn
      @xtalfinn Před rokem +5

      @@reaper1658it’s not

    • @raizuwi0004
      @raizuwi0004 Před rokem +3

      ​@@xtalfinnstop giving vague replies and tell them why😭

    • @reaper1658
      @reaper1658 Před rokem +1

      @@xtalfinn bro what do u mean

    • @jasonbenavidez
      @jasonbenavidez Před 10 měsíci

      No it's not if u knew a guy that died and u went to go visit his grave and u see someone doing this would u find it "rather sweet's"

  • @vanillaporridge
    @vanillaporridge Před 3 lety +322

    Gen Z in a graveyard be like:
    "This is so vintage"
    "It's giving me Egypt vibes"
    "I don't think any negative energy will come to me because they are all dead"
    "They died in 1882, that's a long time, that's like a thousand years ago"
    "It's kinda creepy because we are the only people here and a kinda expensive car just pulled up"
    "The anchor is giving me Hampton's home vibes"
    "This is like a giant rock"
    "This is like granite vibes"
    "This looks like a good place for a thumbnail"
    I CAN'T💀🤚

    • @Cheeze258
      @Cheeze258 Před 3 lety +15

      "1882 was a thousand years ago" 😭

    • @Lala-ic2wf
      @Lala-ic2wf Před 3 lety +5

      and “oops i just fell into that gravestone”

    • @autistic_dude
      @autistic_dude Před 3 lety +1

      Yeah right

    • @vanillaporridge
      @vanillaporridge Před 2 lety

      @@LuisV4572 i said 1882

    • @LuisV4572
      @LuisV4572 Před 2 lety

      @@vanillaporridge um ok but I think you changed it

  • @mnshima08
    @mnshima08 Před 3 lety +4832

    "They died 1892, wow that's like a thousand years ago" Deans math is on point 😂

    • @connorc5656
      @connorc5656 Před 3 lety +29

      Holy haha 😂😂

    • @Ana-anna9
      @Ana-anna9 Před 3 lety +11

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @aanyaprasad6120
      @aanyaprasad6120 Před 3 lety +31

      i think its 108 years actually, don't come for me if it wrong it did it quickly in my head

    • @nanerz519
      @nanerz519 Před 3 lety +103

      To be exact 128 years...just saying

    • @elweydelosdibujos7885
      @elweydelosdibujos7885 Před 3 lety +54

      well, as a fellow gay i remember you, we can't do math lol

  • @hannahbull
    @hannahbull Před 3 lety +4082

    if dean doesn’t tap on my gravestone I’m haunting him

  • @Juliannafoster
    @Juliannafoster Před 3 lety +205

    " Hopefully, They Will Feel My Respects When I Tap On Them"
    THAT'S WHY HE'S MY FAV

  • @osamaal-humaimidi1481
    @osamaal-humaimidi1481 Před 3 lety +205

    His tapping is so powerful he puts people to sleep permanently

  • @martinabaduraquarellmalere947

    The anchors can mean that the person was a sailor and/or died on sea

    • @martinabaduraquarellmalere947
      @martinabaduraquarellmalere947 Před 3 lety +75

      Its also a symbol of hope, for some maybe for the eternal life :)

    • @milo8818
      @milo8818 Před 3 lety +23

      Oh wow I didn’t know that that’s actually really cool

    • @ace6645
      @ace6645 Před 3 lety +11

      thanks for sharing :)

  • @corpseparty0u0
    @corpseparty0u0 Před 3 lety +2071

    Imma keep it real...he didn’t go to a modern cemetery. I live around the same area as him and there are a lot of historical graveyards/cemeteries where there are historical sections where the only visitors are people who come in to do the paper and crayon grave rubbing thing. If he was in a modern cemetery and was visiting people who died within recent years with fresh flowers on their graves, then sure, super rude...but these people who passed in 1900 are not getting visitors.

    • @delaneygrace3569
      @delaneygrace3569 Před 3 lety +169

      finally, I’ve found someone who shares the same opinion as me!

    • @RinRinAngel
      @RinRinAngel Před 3 lety +48

      Agreed.

    • @pastelcorpse3580
      @pastelcorpse3580 Před 3 lety +135

      What’s the difference? Visitors or not, everyone should be respected. And he IS being respectful here so I don’t see the problem.

    • @corpseparty0u0
      @corpseparty0u0 Před 3 lety +140

      @@pastelcorpse3580 Of course generally everyone should be respected in both life and death, I was just noting that if he did it at a more modern cemetery where there was a chance someone’s daughter or brother or whatever was coming to visit their fresh grave, crying their eyes out, and arrived just to see him filming it and whispering, “ok miss ghost!” that they might not have the same appreciation, lmao 😭 I just meant that I think it was a responsible choice to film in a quieter cemetery where the pain of mourning may not be as fresh.

    • @veronicaave4787
      @veronicaave4787 Před 3 lety +38

      @@pastelcorpse3580 being disrespectful is defacing the property in which he IS NOT 🙄 him making jokes and tapping isnt causing any harm relax

  • @sar6562
    @sar6562 Před 3 měsíci +13

    there is a very old and historic cemetery in my town. amazing place. i go frequently just to look around. i don’t touch anything and try to avoid stepping on graves but when the graveyard is older and has less order, it’s hard to not. i go to just read the graves and look around at the scenery. i really don’t think there’s anything wrong with this. it’s also a historic cemetery so no family will be there. the graves are from the 1800s and it’s with good intentions.

  • @ryderthechallenger2788
    @ryderthechallenger2788 Před 3 lety +135

    People: *Why disrespect*
    Dean: gives the dead souls asmr

  • @zoeysealey5181
    @zoeysealey5181 Před 3 lety +2052

    Personally, I think it’s nice to shed some light on tombstones that most likely don’t get as many visitors. The ones shown were from long ago. As a side note, the little stones are likely due to having less money than those with larger tombstones, animals are not typically buried among humans in graveyards.

    • @abbey9216
      @abbey9216 Před 3 lety +128

      i think a lot of the small tombstones are for infants. my brother passed away due to a miscarriage very late on, and he has one of those small stones

    • @yasuhohirose2340
      @yasuhohirose2340 Před 3 lety +23

      Oh well I've seen some graveyards in my place (I only visited 2 till now) burying animals with humans, I didnt know that was the case for you guys! Interesting.

    • @Isabelw3
      @Isabelw3 Před 3 lety +15

      The really big ones are usually not one person bit a family then the family members will be buried around it.

    • @thatonedude7553
      @thatonedude7553 Před 3 lety +6

      Hes tapping on random peoples gravestones and walking over them-

    • @skin4700
      @skin4700 Před 3 lety +4

      If he tould what happened to the people that died then its ok, but he acted like they were some stuff that he found in his room and tapped on them.

  • @youparejo
    @youparejo Před 3 lety +2861

    I was expecting a "sassy" one or many jokes. But this was actually respectful and appropriate, and sweet he thanked the gravestones. The only disrespect was towards History dates lmao

  • @alexisflorial2627
    @alexisflorial2627 Před 3 lety +108

    I loved how he said “Thank you so much” to the grave stone😭

  • @daddychill6473
    @daddychill6473 Před 3 lety +89

    so i live right by a cemetery and let me tell u first going there i had the stigma in my mind that it’s “creepy” or bad to be going there, but as time went on i grew on to it . i could get out alone (wether i rly needed to get out of my house or just needed some fresh air) and look at all the stones dating all the way back to 1790 !! i’ve done research on some of these people and have really admired a lot of them . now bc of the dumb snow i haven’t been there in a bit and tbh it makes me feel bad ... almost like i left that small cemetery alone for a while . no one ever visits it either :(

  • @simonelijum
    @simonelijum Před 3 lety +1928

    Day 3 of requesting: *Conan Gray does your make up and gossips about Heather*

    • @Alphamatsu
      @Alphamatsu Před 3 lety +42

      omg I would love that 🧑‍🦲

    • @calswildflcwer8556
      @calswildflcwer8556 Před 3 lety +29

      yesss he literally reminds me of conan sm

    • @simonelijum
      @simonelijum Před 3 lety +4

      @@calswildflcwer8556 ikrrrrrr

    • @simonelijum
      @simonelijum Před 3 lety +3

      @@babyaquarius4331 YES! FR WHAT IS UP WITH THAT?! His videos are so creative, entertaining and tingly :)

    • @siobhanmcf2667
      @siobhanmcf2667 Před 3 lety +1

      Oh tjissssss

  • @senator5975
    @senator5975 Před 3 lety +588

    Ghosts meanwhile : wtf is this dude doing?
    we must go to his home and do the same on doors

    • @deleted1803
      @deleted1803 Před 3 lety +8

      Lol

    • @msanna4
      @msanna4 Před 3 lety +4

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @rolledsleeves97
      @rolledsleeves97 Před 3 lety +7

      funny because this ‘ghost knocking on doors’ thing is literally happening in some parts of Malaysia right now 😂

    • @brigitapimenova1396
      @brigitapimenova1396 Před 3 lety +2

      LOLLLL

    • @sal4649
      @sal4649 Před 3 lety +2

      best comment so far

  • @allaboutellaa
    @allaboutellaa Před 3 lety +31

    Dean: Oops I broke a piece..
    The mummy/ ghost: you better put that back boi

  • @wensdayaddams2739
    @wensdayaddams2739 Před 3 lety +65

    The anchor means hope. It’s often used when it’s believe, hope and love. It’s a Christian thing ⚓️✝️❤️ i’m from Norway (a Christian land) and there it means tro, håp og kjærlighet

  • @EanTheMan
    @EanTheMan Před 3 lety +1252

    POV a ghost is watching this right now

  • @jaasonmiller
    @jaasonmiller Před 3 lety +1137

    I think it’s nice to “introduce” us to tombs who probably don’t even get visitors anymore like those from 100 years ago. Coco taught me spirits loved to be remembered. Now I know Preston, Melvin, the wife of A.W Murphy, etc. If you get offended then click off.

    • @butterflyasmr711
      @butterflyasmr711 Před 3 lety +12

      Thank you for this comment!♥︎🥰

    • @tako5916
      @tako5916 Před 3 lety +8

      Respects to you man

    • @monicaailyn4816
      @monicaailyn4816 Před 3 lety +3

      We do ofrendas for our ancestors. It’s a very beautiful time

    • @ia2470
      @ia2470 Před 3 lety +9

      not coco 😭 but beautiful message tho

    • @Em-wq9cn
      @Em-wq9cn Před 3 lety +7

      Same I thought about this movie too and how ppl are saying it’s disrespectful but in dia de los muertos they are running around partying to celebrate their ancestors... please forgive me if I spelled dia de lo muertos wrong ✨

  • @mushroomkoala
    @mushroomkoala Před 3 lety +63

    Dean: tapping on the gravestones
    Spirits: feeling tingles ✨

  • @savannah_thomas03
    @savannah_thomas03 Před rokem +11

    Imagine pulling up to the grave yard and a random kid tapping on ur dead grandmas grave

  • @sscaglione94
    @sscaglione94 Před 3 lety +647

    *Sees 1918 tombstone and guesses Civil War and Cold War*
    WWI: "Am I a joke to you?"

    • @bean.gangbanger7360
      @bean.gangbanger7360 Před 3 lety +4

      There was a cold war in 1918?

    • @Hoss04-05
      @Hoss04-05 Před 3 lety +23

      THANKYOU jesus the kid needs to learn about history.

    • @bellac3630
      @bellac3630 Před 3 lety +5

      Well I suppose that ww1 wasn’t as important in America as it was in the uk or Germany as US wasn’t really involved until the middle/end

    • @AlondraNC
      @AlondraNC Před 3 lety +7

      He: sooo vINtAgE

    • @skin4700
      @skin4700 Před 3 lety

      @@bean.gangbanger7360 No

  • @mandsviieira
    @mandsviieira Před 3 lety +1075

    when I first clicked the video I was a little frightened because some people are kinda disrespectful doing videos at graveyard. but trevor was so polite and respectful the whole video🥺🥺

    • @lillianking08
      @lillianking08 Před 3 lety +33

      Finally, someone with a good mind. :)

    • @gianna5468
      @gianna5468 Před 3 lety +1

      uhhhh trevor what was that a audio correct

    • @strangeanimations588
      @strangeanimations588 Před 3 lety +1

      @@gianna5468 auto correct

    • @cringe_lord8958
      @cringe_lord8958 Před 3 lety +6

      yey someone who as brain cells

    • @rnelan1e
      @rnelan1e Před 3 lety +13

      @@cringe_lord8958 PLSSSSS ✋just because someone finds something unappealing doesn’t mean that they don’t have brain cells, miss gacha

  • @rosieposierae6035
    @rosieposierae6035 Před 3 lety +35

    As a mortuary science student this is so right up my alley! Also I appreciate how respectful you were. I think this video is a beautiful way to remember these people who we don’t know and who may not have living relatives. 🖤

  • @jlaanesaar
    @jlaanesaar Před 3 lety +15

    "Dean talks"
    Random car: 🚗💨

  • @Cherry-oj6eo
    @Cherry-oj6eo Před 3 lety +200

    Fun Fact😋😋: The anchor is actually a symbol of hope, steadfastness, and eternal life. It's mostly found on sailors' headstones. Masons used it as a symbol of well-grounded hope. Early Christians used it as a disguised symbol of the cross.

  • @thatweirdodaniel
    @thatweirdodaniel Před 3 lety +638

    people are like "i would be offended if he did that to my relatives gravestones" be honest,, when was the last time you visited them? if i was one of the spirits there, i would appreciate the company. no one really visits graveyards anymore because of the stigmas that they're haunted or that bad things happen in them. he's only lightly tapping the gravestones and being sarcastic i dont know what the big deal is.

    • @bumblevip4714
      @bumblevip4714 Před 3 lety +39

      I visit all my relatives gravestones once a week since they are all in the same cemetery. But still, I wouldn't be offended if he did this in one of my family's gravestones

    • @fareedaht
      @fareedaht Před 3 lety +15

      I wouldn't mind if he was tapping on graves but that's not my place to say I know he was being sarcastic but you don't call gravestones "vintage" as if its some kind of friends t shirt

    • @deadicated9525
      @deadicated9525 Před 3 lety +9

      Who are you to question that? I visit the graveyard once every 2 weeks. Fuck off, this is disrespectful. Stop trying to defend it

    • @godlydesire
      @godlydesire Před 3 lety

      The big deal is him getting the dates wrong lmao (jk)

    • @godlydesire
      @godlydesire Před 3 lety +1

      Deadicated X no need for profanity just tell him u do go

  • @daynadrygeese9683
    @daynadrygeese9683 Před 3 lety +52

    I don’t find this disrespectful at all. These people that have passed we’re from longgg ago and probably don’t get visitors. Love you Dean!

  • @ameliemsp278
    @ameliemsp278 Před 3 lety +23

    It’s the “vintage” vibe for me

  • @lonelynovember2835
    @lonelynovember2835 Před 3 lety +623

    Imagine if a ghost just pop-up and say ”ok, could you repeat that trigger at night?”

  • @Usakko
    @Usakko Před 3 lety +126

    I used to work at a graveyard and I have no idea why some people think this is disrespectful. He didn't cause any commotion and it's not like you're not allowed to touch the stones. I've seen people do way worse things (sit on them etc)

  • @Amelia-wd5jp
    @Amelia-wd5jp Před 3 lety +49

    At 10:30 in the video I felt bad for that lady she died right before her birthday😢

    • @prostemichal7774
      @prostemichal7774 Před 3 lety +3

      My grandma died on her birthday 😔

    • @nosimp5146
      @nosimp5146 Před 3 lety

      @@prostemichal7774 sorry bro 😞❤

    • @lizzy23-t1m
      @lizzy23-t1m Před 2 měsíci

      I had a friend she was 17 she died right before her birthday

  • @thatgtr3597
    @thatgtr3597 Před rokem +14

    Out of all the places to do asmr you choose the graveyard bro😭😭

  • @ninac1954
    @ninac1954 Před 3 lety +612

    as someone who walked through a cemetrary everyday to get to school, this is not disrespectful. I've seen people in costumes and alcohol containers on the ground, worse has been done in a cemetary

    • @justvibin7883
      @justvibin7883 Před 3 lety +1

      What kind of costumes

    • @dc9067
      @dc9067 Před 3 lety +22

      @@justvibin7883 BDSM ones

    • @justvibin7883
      @justvibin7883 Před 3 lety +3

      @@dc9067 most likely 💀

    • @creepyclowness2520
      @creepyclowness2520 Před 3 lety +2

      I wish I had to go through a cemetery to get to school

    • @szeptacz5342
      @szeptacz5342 Před 3 lety +5

      @@creepyclowness2520 not op but I also used to walk through cemetery to get to my tram stop. There were cemrnetry workers sweeping the leaves and other similarly staff. :)

  • @kaitlin7864
    @kaitlin7864 Před 3 lety +632

    "for a dog or a cat maybe" :'( honey babies die too

    • @nora1423
      @nora1423 Před 3 lety +122

      it could also be poor people that couldn’t afford bigger gravestones

    • @lily.s.
      @lily.s. Před 3 lety +8

      I didn't know that either (in my country babies usually don't get smaller gravestones)

    • @CloudDistrict7
      @CloudDistrict7 Před 3 lety

      @A&E fam 🤣🤡🤣🤡

    • @meliemays1917
      @meliemays1917 Před 3 lety +1

      299th like

    • @kaitlin7864
      @kaitlin7864 Před 3 lety +10

      @A&E fam I call everyone honey as a form of endearment, not to be rude.

  • @melanie6018
    @melanie6018 Před 3 lety +17

    I think this video was great, he visited people who probably havent had visitors in years he even thanked them, there is far more worse things in this world to worry about then a harmless asmr video

  • @gachatoons7288
    @gachatoons7288 Před rokem +7

    8:36 an anchor on a tombstones represents Hope and Steadfast. Usually, the tombstones with anchors on it means that the person who died was a sailor.
    10:31 people get different size gravestones because not everyone can afford the big ones. The huge fancy gravestones with all the pretty details are super expensive. (Gravestones can get up to $30,000+) Not everyone is super rich so they will just settle with a small gravestone.

  • @celia2116
    @celia2116 Před 3 lety +653

    dean rlly said: “REST in peace ✌🏼😋”

  • @johannagochez6356
    @johannagochez6356 Před 3 lety +504

    If I was dead I would like if someone was tapping on my gravestone :)

  • @johnnycripplestar5167
    @johnnycripplestar5167 Před rokem +9

    "When I die, I hope my son's and daughters visit my grave"
    Some random mf with a camera: Hey guys, today we're gonna be tapping on random people's graves.

  • @reginakey8794
    @reginakey8794 Před rokem +12

    Wonder what Dean would do if he heard tapping right back.

  • @roadblock6760
    @roadblock6760 Před 3 lety +874

    I lived next to a cemetery for almost 10 years of my life and I can say this was not rude or disrespectful and he was actually very respectful and polite, you guys need to chill, I've seen people pee on gravestones

    • @skin4700
      @skin4700 Před 3 lety +28

      In my country if you did this your getting beat up

    • @fer965
      @fer965 Před 3 lety +46

      @@skin4700 exusse me- did- they- beat u up- dude-

    • @ennisivy279
      @ennisivy279 Před 3 lety +52

      @@skin4700 good thing he ain't in your country then huh. Get over it man, no one cares

    • @bloom069
      @bloom069 Před 3 lety

      Proof???

    • @thepersonwhoasked540
      @thepersonwhoasked540 Před 3 lety +3

      @@bloom069 why???

  • @uamazeme2146
    @uamazeme2146 Před 3 lety +1690

    His asmr: amazing✨
    His knowledge of history: amusing✨
    (Just a joke)

    • @sambuys6415
      @sambuys6415 Před 3 lety +98

      Fr I snorted so hard when he said the Cold War about 1918 he’s so precious lol

    • @vocodabaddest
      @vocodabaddest Před 3 lety +49

      It's a joke!! just like his knowledge of history 🥺💓

    • @jayangeles9461
      @jayangeles9461 Před 3 lety +8

      LMFAOOOOO

    • @MOZ552
      @MOZ552 Před 2 lety +4

      Times it makes me mad that his historical knowledge is dog water

    • @fairyLinkk
      @fairyLinkk Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@MOZ552a year later and I still agree with you lol

  • @thatozzy6888
    @thatozzy6888 Před 3 lety +9

    “I am getting mold in my nails” I felt that on another level 💀

  • @SelenaQuintanillaIsABaddie

    Trevor: I really want the spirits to know how much I respect them.
    Also Trevor: *this gravestone looks like a fake foam one from spirit Halloween*

  • @dorian1364
    @dorian1364 Před 3 lety +557

    Yall acting like he destroyed these stones, painted them or whatever. Do you realize that if in few years someones gonna buy that place he will bprobably destroy all the stones?

    • @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516
      @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516 Před 3 lety +6

      Sensitive over non existent comments that are against Dean? Ok....

    • @delaneygrace3569
      @delaneygrace3569 Před 3 lety +25

      I see what you’re saying but Actually, it’s illegal to destroy someone’s head stone, disrupt their burial site and etc. highly doubtful for someone to purchase the land “in a couple of years” if ever.

    • @jinxk1043
      @jinxk1043 Před 3 lety +13

      @@delaneygrace3569 some places they do that, idk if that’s illegal? but where i live they did that and build homes and parks. and what about destroying them so they can be replaced by other dead people. what about that?

    • @milo8818
      @milo8818 Před 3 lety +4

      @@tosjanechapman5447 where I’m from you can do that

    • @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516
      @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516 Před 3 lety

      @@milo8818 Where is that?

  • @busratz
    @busratz Před 3 lety +176

    10:45 she died a day before her birthday...

  • @SIGNALTHEHJD
    @SIGNALTHEHJD Před 9 měsíci +6

    Dean: *Sees a Dead person's grave.*
    Also Dean: VERY VINTAGE!

  • @priv0839
    @priv0839 Před 3 lety +480

    There’s reasons this isn’t illegal.don’t get me wrong, people are sensitive about different things and that’s fine but please click off if your not interested or get offended. He gave a tw at the start, he isnt saying anything offensive(he was saying thank you and saying he was trying to be respectful ab it)personally I wouldn’t care if someone was tapping my tomb stone(I’m dead ffs, I would literally be a corpse getting eaten by bugs in the ground). If I saw someone tapping my grandads tombstone for example, I would be a bit weirded out but not angry. I would politely ask them to leave and go to another one to give me space. Half these tombstones are really old so nobody’s visiting them anymore like I’m hardly gonna track down my great great great grandmas tombstone and visit it.Also like he said, no one was there so what they don’t know can’t hurt them

    • @LaurenGodmerAsmr
      @LaurenGodmerAsmr Před 3 lety +19

      Yes i agree he even says like thank you to them for letting him tap on it he’s being respectful

    • @tokyotalk8259
      @tokyotalk8259 Před 3 lety +9

      @@LaurenGodmerAsmr what if he was tapping on ur grandmas grave?

    • @gabrielpink
      @gabrielpink Před 3 lety +14

      @@tokyotalk8259 I honestly wouldn't mind as long as it was just tapping and his words were fine

    • @tokyotalk8259
      @tokyotalk8259 Před 3 lety +5

      @@gabrielpink bruh it's really not funny at all about what u just said.

    • @yourlocalstaledorito5829
      @yourlocalstaledorito5829 Před 3 lety +25

      @@tokyotalk8259 its not disrespectful, he used kind words he even said thank you. no one was there, he didnt vandalize anything. so why you mad? i’m pretty sure no one visits those graves, more than half of those people died in the 1900’s, most likely no one has spoken of them or visited their graves in a while. so i see it as a way to “bring them back to life” as long as he’s being nice thats all that matters. now stfu with yo goku bape wearin ass, go outside stop bein mad in the comments

  • @JJosiahG
    @JJosiahG Před 3 lety +731

    here before he deletes the video 🙋🏽‍♂️

    • @Raini33
      @Raini33 Před 3 lety +4

      🤣🤣

    • @igasparovski
      @igasparovski Před 3 lety +94

      I don't think he will, he mentioned at the beginning that this isn't disrespectfull. He actually filmed so many weird videos so far and he really is used to comments. Trevor is naturally sarcastic but he isn't a bad guy.

    • @jannasmr7608
      @jannasmr7608 Před 3 lety +1

      Loool

    • @sylviarodriguez7853
      @sylviarodriguez7853 Před 3 lety +1

      Not funny 😐

    • @JJosiahG
      @JJosiahG Před 3 lety +3

      @@igasparovski didn’t call him a bad guy. I’m a huge fan of Trevor! Comment is purely comedic

  • @darbo1701
    @darbo1701 Před 3 lety +10

    I love how he calls everything “vintage”. I’ve only seen this video and the plane one, but neither of which are vintage lol

  • @persephonerussell6785
    @persephonerussell6785 Před 3 lety +11

    Him: •respectfully tapping• thank you
    Ghosts; I'm gonna sleep well tonight

  • @arianaschilling
    @arianaschilling Před 3 lety +222

    "I'm getting like mold in my nails, it's kinda gross"

  • @misha8200
    @misha8200 Před 3 lety +309

    Just wanted to let you know, World War 1 was around 1918, not the Civil War.

    • @tag7137
      @tag7137 Před 3 lety +8

      And the cold war was around 1980

    • @lillyputian5907
      @lillyputian5907 Před 3 lety +6

      @@tag7137 cold war was around the 60s

    • @sophiiesgm9279
      @sophiiesgm9279 Před 3 lety +5

      i don’t know the difference anyways

    • @tag7137
      @tag7137 Před 3 lety +1

      @@lillyputian5907 ended, I mean

    • @dc9067
      @dc9067 Před 3 lety +7

      Cold War was between 1940 and 1990

  • @shan.xluv44
    @shan.xluv44 Před 3 lety +41

    May all of their souls, Rest peacefully in Heaven.

    • @colobolo7532
      @colobolo7532 Před 3 lety +5

      Or whatever other religion, or lack there of, they believe in.

    • @Cheeze258
      @Cheeze258 Před 3 lety

      or hell

    • @FranP25
      @FranP25 Před 3 lety

      @@colobolo7532 unnecesary

    • @FranP25
      @FranP25 Před 3 lety

      @@Cheeze258 that's not good

  • @yup8166
    @yup8166 Před 3 lety +13

    I actually love this video these people most likely don’t get any visitors and its nice for someone to come after a couple decades and kind of tell a little bit about there life story just by seeing there gravestones

  • @jay_1001
    @jay_1001 Před 3 lety +519

    I found these sounds very relaxing, and personally I think it’s sweet that he’s giving attention to these graves that have honestly probably been forgotten. He even thanks a lot of them after tapping, I think that’s a good thing to do

  • @mimilil1750
    @mimilil1750 Před 3 lety +492

    at first i was a bit sceptical and afraid that this would go into the wrong direction (aka the "goth" that danced on graves lmao) but i was pleasantly surprised! you were respectful in the way you treated the gravestones (being gentle, pointing out what you like about them, thanking them after you were done tapping). you also chose old gravestones, which i liked for two reasons: it ensures nobody sees you tapping on the grave on their recently passend grandma and gives some love to the gravestones that aren't visited often!
    and while i can see how people could find this video disturbing and disrespectful, i have to agree with the people that think this is an oddly wholesome way to honor the death.
    and if anything, dean isn't disturbing them, he is only tapping them into further peace! :>

    • @3ll3llyyy
      @3ll3llyyy Před 3 lety +6

      if you mean the goth girl on tiktok who only danced on one, im pretty sure that was her dads (if not sorry lol)

    • @blobfishbeans
      @blobfishbeans Před rokem +4

      No, her dad is alive. She did that on some random guy's grave. That was a weird time😭

    • @Kubzscout
      @Kubzscout Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@blobfishbeans@?

    • @kikiwannabananawatermelonmango
      @kikiwannabananawatermelonmango Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@KubzscoutSnowthesaltqueen I think. They shot one of their younger friends and went to prison recently 🫤

    • @Kubzscout
      @Kubzscout Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@kikiwannabananawatermelonmango WHAT

  • @bige5763
    @bige5763 Před rokem +10

    0:53 The thing that you were tapping on is called a Mausoleum

  • @mr.cat_boiof_soviet_russia5801

    Ngl, i died laughing when he said 1918 was the cold or civil war lmao

  • @keniaakridgearts
    @keniaakridgearts Před 3 lety +644

    Btw, this video is really not offensive at all. He's just walking around showing us the different kinds of tombstones that's there. He didn't bring an spirit board or any of that. He's just showing us the graves and tapping on the tombstones. If your sensitive to that, simply don't watch the video. Not trying to be disrespectful or anything, just gotta let ppl know bc everyone gets offended by everything these days....

    • @user-oy5wx6ub5s
      @user-oy5wx6ub5s Před 3 lety +7

      Ikr

    • @gyalsnextman4725
      @gyalsnextman4725 Před 3 lety +14

      It’s not that it’s offensive it’s how he’s talking about the grave stones remember they’re family members to other people you would hate to see a 5’5 gay kid tapping on your grandads gravestone whispering into a mic that he’s getting mold in his nails

    • @mia7-411
      @mia7-411 Před 3 lety +68

      @@gyalsnextman4725 Idk what him being gay has to do with this but agree with the other part. would be offended if someone was tapping on my relatives' graves

    • @nickb1156
      @nickb1156 Před 3 lety +11

      He doesn't have to start twerking on the graves to be disrespectful. The fact that he is filming an asmr video (meant for relaxation and entertainment) in a cemetery (meant for mourning and remembrance), is disrespectful on its own.

    • @jasmincoplin665
      @jasmincoplin665 Před 3 lety +50

      @@gyalsnextman4725 why tf does him being gay have anything to do with anything.?? Get over yourself

  • @snazzycat5480
    @snazzycat5480 Před 3 lety +408

    "Hopefully they can feel my respects when I'm tapping on their gravestones" 💀💀 I'm dead
    (No pun intended)

    • @marli1904
      @marli1904 Před 3 lety +6

      wELL AT LEAST DEAN HAS HIS NEXT VICTIM 💀

    • @sunmi2539
      @sunmi2539 Před 2 lety

      SICKK

  • @pigeon4422
    @pigeon4422 Před rokem +6

    for some reason the tapping on the graves is so awesome

  • @nyancat8828
    @nyancat8828 Před rokem +8

    Everyone getting pressed about a guy gently tapping and reading old gravestones would probably bury me along with them since I used to play in a graveyard as a kid 😭

    • @Sir_Rat6225
      @Sir_Rat6225 Před 10 měsíci +1

      i dont think people realise how common it was for groups of kids to just hangout in graveyards

  • @pinkaimeesuh
    @pinkaimeesuh Před 3 lety +123

    He literally said multiple times that he respects these people that have passed. He is being gentle and quiet and had said thank you multiple times. He has no mal intent and made multiple disclaimers. I think this is being blown out of proportion as usual.

  • @freyax6587
    @freyax6587 Před 3 lety +264

    Graveyards were originally a place for people to have picnics and be happy near their deceased loved ones. Nowadays they’ve become more abandoned & lonely because they’ve almost been turned into something negative & people are so scared of being disrespectful. Which I think is kinda sad in a way.

    • @skin4700
      @skin4700 Před 3 lety +3

      Who tf would go and have a picnic in a graveyard

    • @deadicated9525
      @deadicated9525 Před 3 lety

      Stop trying to excuse this

    • @freyax6587
      @freyax6587 Před 3 lety +20

      @@deadicated9525 not excusing anything, simply stating a fact about graveyards original purpose.

    • @freyax6587
      @freyax6587 Před 3 lety +20

      @@skin4700 back then the atmosphere in them was completely different, you only think that now because nowadays they’re mainly empty & quite eery. but if you think about it, many people spent time at the graveyards having picnics etc. so the vibe was the same as any other park or place where people relax.

    • @hellur550
      @hellur550 Před 3 lety +5

      @@deadicated9525
      Excuse what? You’re acting as if he’s physically harming the gravestone. He isn’t doing anything wrong. Calm down.

  • @gentrama8437
    @gentrama8437 Před 3 lety +8

    Trevor: *taps on grave*
    Subtitles: [music]

  • @ZekiesCorner
    @ZekiesCorner Před 3 lety +7

    Dean:taps on grave-
    Ghost: I hear something relaxing.. Sleeps-

  • @kqyla8145
    @kqyla8145 Před 3 lety +169

    i feel like the spirits would be very pleased to have visitors though? it's not like he's saying anything bad or disrespectful to them. as someone who visits the graveyard often, I found this pretty comforting. that's just me though :|

    • @sweetner844
      @sweetner844 Před 3 lety +5

      As someone that had to bury a loved one last year, this is uncomfortable(Not your comment but the video btw)

    • @azza1074
      @azza1074 Před 3 lety +26

      @@sweetner844 tonnes and tonnes of people experience burying people and death every day. this video showed no disrespect at all. i’m sorry but if you don’t find these types of videos appealing, don’t watch them

    • @Corringe
      @Corringe Před 3 lety +6

      @@azza1074 agreed. Don’t watch the video if you know it’s gonna make you uncomfortable lol pretty smoothed brain thing to do tbh

    • @angelsebonga1900
      @angelsebonga1900 Před 3 lety +10

      @@sweetner844 as someone who buried 5 loved ones this year, I don't find this disrespectful.. Sorry..

    • @azza1074
      @azza1074 Před 3 lety +2

      @@Corringe lmaoo exactly

  • @jesuschrist6609
    @jesuschrist6609 Před 3 lety +424

    he really thought cold war and civil war happened in 1918 💀💀💀

    • @choco9418
      @choco9418 Před 3 lety +18

      Hi Jesus I promise I'll go to church on Sunday and pray to you today and read your Bible

    • @Darjko
      @Darjko Před 3 lety +1

      did that happend in like 1700🙄

    • @Darjko
      @Darjko Před 3 lety

      No but really didn’t it

    • @briiezy
      @briiezy Před 3 lety +15

      @@Darjko cold war was 1947 - 1991 and the civil war was 1861-1865

    • @andeeznuts1
      @andeeznuts1 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Darjko listen, you’re not quirky for not knowing anything about American history, and the fact that you’re going back to t proves that you know you’re wrong. You’re legit just trying to gloat about how ignorant you are. Maybe take a skillshare history course and learn a few things, thank you, goodnight.

  • @rakellagud
    @rakellagud Před 3 lety +2

    This is my favorite asmr video. So soothing listening to taps on gravestones, the ultimate 💤sleep 💤

  • @fatcat1766
    @fatcat1766 Před 3 lety +9

    Gustin F. Adams
    1844-1925
    Dang his tombstone is so old and its still clean

  • @breezyvol.1908
    @breezyvol.1908 Před 3 lety +142

    it’s people who do worser than this like piss, spit, or vandalize on tomb stones . i see nothing wrong in this & plus he gave a disclaimer in the beginning of the video .

    • @ajstyles7678
      @ajstyles7678 Před 3 lety +5

      Worser isn't a word

    • @cleo-mmvi
      @cleo-mmvi Před 3 lety +1

      @@ajstyles7678 And you didn't put a dot at the end of your sentence.

    • @user-rw6kz8cw9j
      @user-rw6kz8cw9j Před 2 lety

      @@cleo-mmvi The dot is called a full stop.

  • @ellietchi
    @ellietchi Před 3 lety +230

    Personally, I don’t think this specific graveyard is offensive. If he did it to fresh graves sure I’d understand it being offensive but these are from like the 1900s, none of their family members will be upset, they’re dead too

    • @meowtoz
      @meowtoz Před 3 lety +14

      “Their dead too” dang

    • @yungdiddy475
      @yungdiddy475 Před 2 lety +7

      Just because their all dead doesn’t mean they can’t be respected either? I hate Gen Z kids

    • @royalpain9939
      @royalpain9939 Před 2 lety +3

      @@yungdiddy475 no, I think what they meant by "they're dead too" was that these gravestones likely haven't been visited in a long time by anyone

  • @V_dar
    @V_dar Před 3 lety +18

    ”1918 is when the cold war happened” wrong war sis

  • @Idk_Eliza123
    @Idk_Eliza123 Před 10 měsíci +4

    The fact that he said “omg this gravestone is not small I wonder if it was for a cat or dog!”
    Or maybe it was for a less fortunate family that could only afford a small headstone.

  • @sallypaulsen8063
    @sallypaulsen8063 Před 3 lety +307

    This one is rated “N” for “not everyone is going to like this”

  • @Yongbokez
    @Yongbokez Před 3 lety +376

    Personally I don’t really see how this is offensive hes not being rude or disrespectful to the tombstones in anyway and he’s showing repsoect towards them

    • @rnelan1e
      @rnelan1e Před 3 lety +10

      saying that someone was probably a cat is...😒

    • @nval21.
      @nval21. Před 3 lety +33

      @@rnelan1e he said he didn’t know if it was, it’s not like he said it intentionally..

    • @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516
      @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516 Před 3 lety +2

      Stan

    • @Doryplory
      @Doryplory Před 3 lety +1

      Exactly!

    • @deca3260
      @deca3260 Před 3 lety +14

      @@rnelan1e He didn't mean any intention by it. Smaller tomb stones can be for literally anyone, he might've not known much about tomb stones prior to doing this video. And people do bury their animals in the graveyard so :/

  • @nickjarvis4324
    @nickjarvis4324 Před 3 lety +29

    “I’m not to sure how graveyards work.”
    LMAO

  • @spiritswasia
    @spiritswasia Před 3 lety +4

    Mans really gave the dead some tapping asmr. He can tap on my grave when I pass. I'd like some asmr as a ghost

  • @jennaasmr1
    @jennaasmr1 Před 3 lety +602

    Maybe I’m weird but I don’t find this disrespectful at all 🤣

  • @dog8068
    @dog8068 Před 3 lety +61

    the ghost: Which war did u just say bro

  • @alexaplaybtsbts463
    @alexaplaybtsbts463 Před 3 lety +20

    Bruh that graveyard looks ancient the people laying there dont even know y theres sum kid with a microphone tapping on em. How would u explain asmr to them?

    • @patanella2788
      @patanella2788 Před 3 lety

      they def had asmr they just didn’t have youtube

    • @BOT_MAXIMUS
      @BOT_MAXIMUS Před 25 dny

      A tingling feeling in your spine or head is a good way to explain it

  • @yuliiiiicoca9620
    @yuliiiiicoca9620 Před 3 lety +4

    y’all are so sensitive. this video was amazing. the purpose was to give asmr and you did that ✅. period.

  • @ambreaolson6320
    @ambreaolson6320 Před 3 lety +120

    I love how he refers to the graves as ✨vintage✨