5 tips for dealing with difficult students

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  • čas přidán 29. 08. 2024

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  • @meenashrestha655
    @meenashrestha655 Před 3 lety +71

    Summary
    1. Dont take anything personally
    2. Argument....never to be last one to say ( appolize)
    3. Always settle argument privately
    4. Make student part of learning experience ( active negotiating)
    5. Walking away is strength (ONE ON ONE DISCUSSION)
    - always be on place of strength

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety +5

      Thank you for making the summary, Meena!! 🥰
      I will pin it to the top of the comments. 🙏

    • @umuahu9902
      @umuahu9902 Před 2 lety

      Thanku dear

  • @angelv1393
    @angelv1393 Před rokem +8

    Thank you for this video. The number 3 is good but with the situation we have today where students felt privileged due to social media and no teacher protection when it comes to discipline process. They have this idea that we are ashaming them when we discipline them. So most of us felt we need to protect ourselves and do nothing instead so we don't lose our jobs or famed in social media negatively.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem +1

      I know how difficult it can be, but just think about maybe the 1 student you can make a difference to!

    • @angelv1393
      @angelv1393 Před rokem +1

      @@etacude thank you, here in the Philippines you might have heard of some issues about teachers in social media and it is very sad some are being cursed in social media

  • @elenabibi208
    @elenabibi208 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank u Eric ! I have the class at school 13-14 years teens and it’s something unbelievable ((( they shout , they are bold . It’s not only at my English class but also with other teachers . As I am new at school , I was disappointed really . You give me confidence . Thank u 🙏🏻

  • @genelynarado8568
    @genelynarado8568 Před rokem +3

    Wow glad to see you visiting my country.
    I’m currently in the US as a teacher and your videos help me a lot 😊

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem

      You're welcome Genelyn Arado!

  • @bushra7352
    @bushra7352 Před 4 lety +7

    Omg those practical examples of scenarios between student-teacher is gonna save my life. So excited!!!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 4 lety +3

      I'll try my best to make them practical and explain why it is done a certain way. Hopefully release the first ones around March

    • @hinnazayn
      @hinnazayn Před 2 lety

      @@etacude where are the videos available?

  • @oxanaivasiunico8568
    @oxanaivasiunico8568 Před rokem +4

    I've just come across your videos, and can't stop watching them. You're fabulous !Thank you so much for sharing with us! Your experience is very very and extremely important! Thousand of thanks!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem +2

      You're welcome Oxana!

  • @TheLanguageLady
    @TheLanguageLady Před 4 lety +6

    My first week back has been a little overwhelming both personally and professionally. I decided to stay put home all weekend to catch on items so that I wouldn't feel rushed or overwhelmed on my return to work tomorrow. Looking forward to seeing more of your videos on your return to Korea. I am glad you were able to enjoy the Phillipines. It looks like such a beautiful country. I have never been to Asia and it is most definitely on my bucket list. All the best to you !

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 4 lety +2

      Hi Dr. Hemphill, that first week back is always a major challenge. If we're lucky we can prepare well but there will always be obstacles at home or with work. Fortunately we have experience and I believe that if we focus on the process we will end up on top. New teachers have to find a different way of motivating themselves, be it through excitement or taking solace in the truth that there is always tomorrow, they will make it through. Good luck with your year and I hope you have a great week!

  • @jablestables682
    @jablestables682 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I love your calm way of speaking, and the chickens in the background amused me 😊. Thank you for your content!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 9 měsíci

      So nice of you Thank you! ^^

  • @lonaomed5104
    @lonaomed5104 Před rokem +1

    As a teacher from Kurdistan,Iraq .
    I'm watching your vedios and they are really great man ,thank u🥰

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem

      You're welcome Lona Omed!

  • @Eduscafflearn
    @Eduscafflearn Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much, you give great advice for new teachers.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for watching, Rosemary! 😊 🙏

  • @user-xj7et6zk4x
    @user-xj7et6zk4x Před rokem +1

    Thanks alot ,
    You talk about all teaching issues in your Vids . Evrey things that belong to teaching ,students class mangment (Mashallah )

  • @sudanesenightmare
    @sudanesenightmare Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you very much T. Eric. I really have a one student that I'm trying to work out with him.

  • @veronixawardwell8802
    @veronixawardwell8802 Před 2 lety +2

    Yes! You are very helpful. I am grateful for your intuitive and creative ideas that you share. Thank you!!! Veronica from No Venice, FL USA I would have loved to have been your student!! : )

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 2 lety

      Thank you for your kind words, Veronica! 🙏
      I'm sure you would've been a great student! 😊

  • @chukoshenina5326
    @chukoshenina5326 Před 2 lety +3

    Hi, Eric. I am a retired teacher. After a few years of following my dreams, I decided to return to teach again. I teach now at a community college in U.S. I've learned all over again rom your videos. Thank you. I didn't get the title of the book you were mentioning in this video. I'd appreciate if you reply with the title. Glad that you are teaching in Seoul, my home town when I was young.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 2 lety +3

      Hi Chu! Thank you for the comment and sorry for the late reply. The book is called 'Managing Behavior in the Classroom' by David Wright.
      It's quite rare to find so I'd like to make a newer version in the future. 😄

    • @ayatabbasmostafa8848
      @ayatabbasmostafa8848 Před rokem

      @@etacude Hi,Eric. First thank you so much. 💕 Any news regarding the newer version?

    • @user-re4jk3ws5w
      @user-re4jk3ws5w Před rokem

      @@ayatabbasmostafa8848 ю

  • @josefinacanullas8636
    @josefinacanullas8636 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for visiting Philippines Sir

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem

      It was really fun! Beautiful country!

  • @malcolmtaylor3583
    @malcolmtaylor3583 Před 2 lety +4

    Thanks Eric, your videos are always filled with useful and quality information

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 2 lety

      Thank you so much for your kind words, Malcolm. 🙏 I really appreciate it! 😄

  • @mariam6927
    @mariam6927 Před rokem +1

    That's simply awesome.I've recently discovered your channel as if i have discovered a treasure..so useful for me as a teacher...regards from Egypt..

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words, Mariam! I'll try to share more useful content in the future. 😊🙏

  • @josevil1513
    @josevil1513 Před rokem

    Salamat naman po at nakapunta ka dito sa pilipinas.

  • @NavarroIvette
    @NavarroIvette Před rokem

    todos tus videos son perfectos de gran ayuda

  • @jmbhteachusa4084
    @jmbhteachusa4084 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi eric, one of your subscribers from the philippines.
    Im a teacher here in the USA.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 2 lety

      Welcome JMBH and welcome!

  • @ascensioncano3606
    @ascensioncano3606 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing the summary the 5 tips with us, teachers and families.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 2 lety

      Thanks for watching, Ascension! 🙏

  • @bolpinicreations7004
    @bolpinicreations7004 Před 2 lety

    I am a teacher from a foreign country. Not an english country. So my english would not be good. I follow you. Beacause I dont like our country s education system and I want to make a change. So I search for new tricks and tips, methods etc. Our country s teacher education is very boring. There are so many courses. We have to pay for that boring courses. Thank you so much sir because your content is very attractive and valuable to me. ♥️

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem

      I am humbled by your kind words!

  • @carolinekelly3415
    @carolinekelly3415 Před 3 lety +3

    Hello Professor, thank you for sharing your expertise!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety

      Thank you for watching, Caroline! 😊

  • @wadyahrh6107
    @wadyahrh6107 Před rokem

    Where have you been all this time im glad that u discovered u today...love

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem

      Welcome to the channel Wadya Hrh!

  • @jenifergopo4917
    @jenifergopo4917 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your tips and ideas, good job!!!

  • @NavarroIvette
    @NavarroIvette Před rokem +1

    excelente contenido gracias bendiciones

  • @learning2read
    @learning2read Před 4 lety +2

    Thanks for taking time to share these ideas. You are doing a great job.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 4 lety

      Thank you Theo! I subbed to your channel and enjoyed your video. Your reading is crisp and clear. It can help students learning to read. Keep on making videos if that's what you're into!

  • @haripariyar2286
    @haripariyar2286 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much for your tips.

  • @arnoldgabutan187
    @arnoldgabutan187 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow! You've been here in the Philippines! I hope you enjoyed your vacation here. Thank you for all the tips. I definitely learn a lot.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety +1

      I love the Philippines and can't wait to visit again! Thank you for watching, Arnold. 😊🙏

  • @user-jm2ds5og6z
    @user-jm2ds5og6z Před 7 měsíci

    great advice.

  • @sabriinaatoulip4481
    @sabriinaatoulip4481 Před 4 lety +1

    Ow I am grateful for your interesting videos, thank you so much they are really helpful. Whenever I feel confused I go back to them
    Good luck !

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 4 lety

      I'm glad you liked it. My mom told me I should stick to the main points. Also, I was kind of nervous while shooting cause there were people around. 2 weeks from now I'm back home and I'll be ready to make good videos again! Till then I hope you have an amazing week Sabrina! 😄

  • @jensmail7
    @jensmail7 Před rokem

    OMGOSH that’s cool, I am from the Philippines. Enjoy the food and lovely people.

  • @martezsatchell5163
    @martezsatchell5163 Před rokem +1

    I enjoy this channel. I cannot wait for the new content.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem +1

      Thank you, Martez! 🙏 I'll try to make some more useful content soon! 😊

  • @mymusic-no8lo
    @mymusic-no8lo Před 3 lety +1

    love your videos . keep them up please . wishing you the best .

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you Music! ☺
      I'm busy with new videos I will release shortly. Thank you for your support! 🙏

  • @maytecamacho7485
    @maytecamacho7485 Před 3 lety

    I loved the Obi Wan Kenobi's explanation, it enlighted me !!!

  • @bananatravel
    @bananatravel Před 4 lety +1

    Hope you had a nice vacation in Philippines! My "Anneunhaseyo" to Korea! I studied Korean language there for one year😅

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 4 lety +1

      Sad that I never ran into you. Where did you stay, Seoul?

    • @bananatravel
      @bananatravel Před 4 lety

      @@etacude in Cheongpeoyng, far to the North from Daegu where I guess you are))

  • @shooshjordan9172
    @shooshjordan9172 Před rokem +1

    Wow! you are soooo amazing.. Hats off.. I learned a lot from you.. Every single word you say is a treasure. You helped me a lot in class management and control. The best ever 🏆❤️ Are you British?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem

      You're so welcome Shoosh Jordan!

  • @davidpenafiel1639
    @davidpenafiel1639 Před rokem +1

    Dear sir. When you talk about the third tip. Is it used on adults students too? For instance, can I take an university student aside and talk to them about the problem that he o she has? Thank you.

  • @chahwrite1157
    @chahwrite1157 Před 2 lety

    Hello ,could you please provide us with videos about what is a lesson plan and how it should be well prepared. Thx in advance.

  • @alminodon3913
    @alminodon3913 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks for the videos you uploaded😀 It give us ideas😊 Love your videos Sir👍 Watching from Philippines, Hope you enjoy here😀

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 4 lety

      Hi Almin. I had a fantastic time in the Philippines thanks to all the great people and the beautiful country! I've been a bit busy with my travels so I was unable to upload a lot. When I come back next week I will work on lots of great videos I wish go share. Thank you for your support!!😍

  • @nimusiimaprosper7093
    @nimusiimaprosper7093 Před rokem

    thanks so much for the service

  • @jhamilante9409
    @jhamilante9409 Před 3 lety +1

    thanks for sharing.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety

      Thank you for watching! :)

  • @wardarashad6530
    @wardarashad6530 Před 3 lety

    Amazing tips, thanks!

  • @lilitbayatyan2543
    @lilitbayatyan2543 Před 2 lety +1

    You do a great job thanks

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you, Lilit! 😊

  • @edwardrossman9448
    @edwardrossman9448 Před 2 lety +1

    I enjoy and benefit from these videos, but @ 8:50 I think he misuses the word capitulating. Demanding is not capitulating, demanding can force the capitulation on somebody else.

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 2 lety

      Right. Sometimes I use the wrong to explain something. Thank you for the correction, Edward. 👍

  • @kylaandrews3658
    @kylaandrews3658 Před 3 lety +2

    what if students are talking from another language I felt they are talking about me. Even I set the rule no speaking in their native language so hardheaded students,,,,

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety +1

      Every week you have to start class by telling them that they will never improve unless they use English. They can not be afraid to look silly or make mistakes, because that is the only way they will grow.
      Sometimes they can quickly use their language to explain, but that is an English class. They have to use English, especially when they are doing activities!
      Do this every week and correct them. Be strict but understandable.

  • @martha_ntakou
    @martha_ntakou Před 2 lety +2

    Hi Eric! How do you deal with young learners who swear in classroom? I have a new student that swears every time he makes a mistake. I try to make him feel comfortable and your videos have helped a lot in classroom management. I show him it's ok to make mistakes but the other students don't want to make him part of the group so he feels isolated anyway. It's a complex situtation I know, but I was wondering if you any tips. Should I ignore the bad words? Should I pretend it never happened and then deal with it in private with the student? Thanks in advance!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 2 lety +2

      Hi Martha! Great question. If it's an isolated incident, strategically ignore it, but later mention to the student that it was wrong in private.
      If it's obvious in front of class, you want to tell him publicly that it is wrong to swear ~ also, reinforce the rule about swearing by telling the class why it's wrong. Ask the student if he understands, if he apologizes then say okay, but you don't want to hear it again.
      If he doesn't apologize, ask to see him after class and continue so that the interruption doesn't steal more of your time.
      I guess those are the 3 options. 😄

    • @martha_ntakou
      @martha_ntakou Před 2 lety +1

      @@etacude Thanks for your answer! One of the things I've done is to make him say 3 good words for every bad word but it takes a lot of time. I guess I will have to create a clear rule about it! Thanks again for your help!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 2 lety +1

      @@martha_ntakou Good idea! I didn't think of what to do with him after. I like the idea of him saying nice words after to repent. :)

  • @user-ud5vw9um8u
    @user-ud5vw9um8u Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for your videos. I heard you say you borrowed three basic rules for the classroom. Each rule included the main word of respect. I can't find the rules. Can you point me in the right direction? Which video did you post those in?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety +3

      Good question T!
      I probably said it in some other videos but I'm not completely sure which.
      The 3 rules I give my students are:
      1. Respect everyone
      2. Treat your classmates kindly
      3. When someone is speaking, listen quietly.
      I hope these help. 😄

    • @user-ud5vw9um8u
      @user-ud5vw9um8u Před 3 lety

      @@etacude Thank you!

  • @KCdierkes
    @KCdierkes Před 3 lety +2

    So glad to have discovered your channel. Your videos and advice are super helpful! Could you tell me the author or ISBN number of the book "Managing behavior in the classroom" ? Thanks so much! and greetings from France!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety +1

      Hi Carly! I'll post the code as soon as I get home. I'll also add it in the description. It is one of the best books I've read on classroom management and will make a video series of it in the future. 😊

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety +1

      Hi, I put the book in the description.
      The author is David Wright. Fantastic book!

    • @KCdierkes
      @KCdierkes Před 3 lety +1

      @@etacude Thanks so much! I look forward to watching more of your videos, especially on classroom management, in the future!

  • @hanifnumlian8191
    @hanifnumlian8191 Před 16 dny

    Good video

  • @nerminessamaldin1567
    @nerminessamaldin1567 Před rokem

    What of all the class are very noughty and few students are good I'm music teacher I can't let them sing or play music they always move and don't keep calm

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem +1

      Sorry I missed you message. Are you coping? Check out the video list or articles on Etateach.com. Best of luck!

    • @nerminessamaldin1567
      @nerminessamaldin1567 Před rokem

      @@etacude thanks

  • @user-ln7ul7pb8o
    @user-ln7ul7pb8o Před 3 lety +1

    Really good!

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety

      Thank you for watching! 😃🙏

  • @wateenal_sayadi679
    @wateenal_sayadi679 Před 3 lety +1

    Hey, I'm a new teacher
    I'm really struggling with my noisy students..

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety

      Hi Wateen! Here is a video I did about noisy classes. I hope it helps!
      czcams.com/video/51FyDOZVeVU/video.html

  • @TEACHINGTIPSGURU
    @TEACHINGTIPSGURU Před 4 lety +1

    Very nice

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 4 lety

      Thank you! Now that I'm back from vacation I can't wait to see more of your videos! 😍

  • @SuperGoatGazer
    @SuperGoatGazer Před rokem

    I feel 3 is the same as 5

  • @ikarly2898
    @ikarly2898 Před 3 lety +2

    Hello. Really appreciate these tips, but can these be applied to one-on-one teaching?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety +1

      I definitely think that the mindset that you have when controlling an entire class can be adapted to suit individual students. 👍

  • @wateenal_sayadi679
    @wateenal_sayadi679 Před 3 lety +1

    You are amazing

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety

      Thank you for your kind words, Wateen! ☺ Sorry for the late reply.

  • @mick5067
    @mick5067 Před rokem

    It seems like a melt down was happening.

  • @BeckyRiggs
    @BeckyRiggs Před rokem

    What is the name of the book that you mentioned in this video?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před rokem

      Sorry I missed you message. Can't remember of hand. Check out the video list or articles on Etateach.com. Best of luck!

  • @nihilos7225
    @nihilos7225 Před 3 lety

    Hey..are u a lecturer?..cuz i have some question to ask..btw i am a student doing research for my assignment

  • @englishforbeginners9652
    @englishforbeginners9652 Před 3 lety +1

    Unable to join to receive free resources .plz help me .

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety

      Send me an email and I will add you!

  • @roshnamohammadi2817
    @roshnamohammadi2817 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing your ideas. What is the name of facebook group? Can we join?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 3 lety

      Please do Roshna! It's called Etacude

  • @fizzarizvi7890
    @fizzarizvi7890 Před 3 lety

    Hello
    I have a problem creating student in my class.I need your help.How can I contact you sir?

  • @MrMario477
    @MrMario477 Před 4 lety +3

    I think so if the Filipinos were colonized by you American and have difficulties of English what good is they talking native language Filipino than English there that arises terrible doubts TRUE

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 4 lety +1

      I was talking to some Philippinos last night and some of them think it would've been better for them to welcome the Americans. I don't know if it's true or not but it's an interesting idea.

    • @MrMario477
      @MrMario477 Před 4 lety

      @@etacude yes theacher erick but the question is not because of reception, americans and yes because they are speaking more native filipino language than english, does that result in what the american colonization did not solve at all?

  • @Rexxx123
    @Rexxx123 Před 2 lety

    Hi Eric, is there an online version of this book? I can't find it🤣

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 2 lety

      For such a useful book it is difficult to find. I believe it might be out of print.
      In the future I'll make content based on it. But that is a long time away!
      I hope you can find it Rex, I got it on Amazon.

  • @karinaserrano5953
    @karinaserrano5953 Před 4 lety +2

    What is your facebook teacher's group? Can I join in?

    • @etacude
      @etacude  Před 4 lety +5

      Hi Karina! You're more than welcome to join the group. The group is called etacude. Right now I use it to talk and share extra contentand material with teachers. They are also welcome to post questions or ideas they want to share. So far I feel like it isn't used to it's fullest potential, but with the new series I'm working on I hope it will grow into a valuable resource and community! 😁

    • @karinaserrano5953
      @karinaserrano5953 Před 4 lety

      @@etacude Thank you very much and greetings from Dominican Republic!

    • @bananatravel
      @bananatravel Před 4 lety

      Me join too!