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  • čas přidán 19. 08. 2024
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Komentáře • 336

  • @BenBeckerMusic
    @BenBeckerMusic Před rokem +163

    I'm glad I didn't make you uncomfortable by the end! haha I'm the second guy singing. Thank y'all for your honesty, I love the real reaction. You had one of the most raw reactions in my opinion, because you weren't afraid to say exactly what was on your minds. I just dropped a really raw music video called Dear YHWH. I don't know your beliefs on God, but regardless, I'd really love your honest thoughts in a reaction. Thanks again. Ben :)

    • @RealReactions
      @RealReactions  Před rokem +9

      We appreciate it 😌 🙏 we will check it out, thanks!

    • @akilluzireterrete1458
      @akilluzireterrete1458 Před rokem +5

      You sound good too bro. :) support frm the philippines.

    • @GraceGlory77
      @GraceGlory77 Před 11 měsíci +12

      @BenBeckerMusic - I think yours is the best verse! Hope to see more from you in the future! By His grace!

    • @Crybaby-Media
      @Crybaby-Media Před 11 měsíci +7

      Ben , your verse is probably my favourite . Just because my dad taught me it’s ok to cry as well. I’m not religious , but I’m getting more and more curious about becoming a Christian as life goes on. I need some guidance and support , and it seems to help a lot of people .

    • @Seacai150
      @Seacai150 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Impressive Ben ✌️❤️😊

  • @NatoHoro
    @NatoHoro Před 11 měsíci +29

    It is not men that need to be taught to cry, it is women that need to be taught to be perceptive and have compassion.

  • @watless100
    @watless100 Před rokem +92

    He actually complimented his dad for teaching him to acknowledge his emotions before speaking about his faith

    • @itswhox2
      @itswhox2 Před rokem +10

      Was going to say the same thing. They missed that one.

    • @serenitydouglas8397
      @serenitydouglas8397 Před rokem +4

      Yeah he said “daddy taught me that was how to put a fire out” talking about crying his eyes out.😊

    • @michaelbosisto6259
      @michaelbosisto6259 Před 26 dny

      Jesus is perfection.. he is the father of mankind
      The other was his real father but compared to Jesus he is not perfect. That doesn’t mean his father was absent.. matter a fact he received good advise about letting loose with years of there is a fire in your heart

  • @Dirtymikeindustries
    @Dirtymikeindustries Před rokem +59

    Buddys reaction was great and she once again digs the hole a little deeper

  • @NatoHoro
    @NatoHoro Před 11 měsíci +34

    Of course the woman has to flip things and make it about themselves lol
    Literally EVERY man relates to this song, you'll never find a single one that don't.
    As someone said in the comments, i feel sorry for your man.

  • @yeppers-ow8nf
    @yeppers-ow8nf Před rokem +7

    Leave it to a feminist to take a song, wrote for, and about men and twist it saying "women somehow understand it better."

  • @joeantczak5097
    @joeantczak5097 Před rokem +30

    How you going to take a song that points out how lonely and depressed men feel and how much is put on men which doesn't get talked about and flip it to girls feel more like this then man smh 🤦

  • @ryanpitts6563
    @ryanpitts6563 Před 10 měsíci +42

    This is the type of girl that you turn around and haul ass from. How anyone could hear this, and then proceed to say that women feel this more than men is just mind blowing. It’s socially acceptable for women to show their feelings, but men are looked at as weak/sensitive and are put down for it (hence the phrase “man up”) Other than that though, fantastic reaction!!

    • @ctucker258
      @ctucker258 Před 9 měsíci +3

      typical toxic woman making it all about her.

    • @redl1newrx1988
      @redl1newrx1988 Před 8 měsíci +2

      I had the same thought listening to her

    • @rtwxlogic1113
      @rtwxlogic1113 Před 8 měsíci +3

      I agree the song is "What is a man" and she has to bring women into this conversation. Could you imagine if we were listening to a song about women and then comment about we men feel similar, we would be bashed for not understanding how a woman feels. Bs

    • @sgtkruger
      @sgtkruger Před 8 měsíci +4

      Bro. Came here to say the same thing. I hope she sees and hears the comments and starts to understand that she is the problem and stops gaslighting. Two videos on the same topic and she hasn’t learned anything. Every new verse she just thinks, “how can I compare this to the women’s perspective”. She’s just out here living the literal battle of the sexes.

    • @John-tn7nm
      @John-tn7nm Před 7 měsíci

      11:48 amazing how a woman can make ANYTHING about themselves. SMH

  • @youmayneverknow7829
    @youmayneverknow7829 Před 9 měsíci +15

    Shes heartless. You can see her frustration and impatients during the whole video. Deep breaths, cracking her knuckles and the faces she made thru out the song are a sign. Run brother, she aint worth ur time.

    • @landonpeyton1842
      @landonpeyton1842 Před 7 měsíci

      Honestly man shits insane

    • @ThePitbullsrking
      @ThePitbullsrking Před 6 měsíci +2

      The most telling sign is when she said" BUT women feel like this too so"....

    • @dinapopecaten2454
      @dinapopecaten2454 Před měsícem +1

      ​@@ThePitbullsrking
      I am 100% woman and I can honestly tell you NO the hell we do not!!!! So she don't speak for all women.. SHE MUST HAVE A PAST WITH A FEW BOYS INSTEAD OF MEN!! HUGE DIFFERENCE

  • @maverickegan5914
    @maverickegan5914 Před rokem +38

    The fact that you had to explain yourself in the beginning of the reaction, and flipping it back to what it's like for women, speaks volume about you as a person. I feel sorry for your man though.

    • @gdav549
      @gdav549 Před rokem +1

      Sad part is that he and MANY men realize this red flag way too late.
      If a woman only listens to you in order to reply instead of simply listening to try and understand. RUN..
      Do women have their own issues? Of course.. and we hear about them ALL THE TIME..
      But damn let guys speak up and say, I'm feeling this sorta way. He's quickly shut down with his feelings invalidated by a woman making it about women.
      Nearly 70% of suicides are men and many people don't even bat an eye. Why?
      Because they know that a significant portion of those men delete themselves due to the actions of a woman.

    • @YzaekPark
      @YzaekPark Před rokem +1

      IKR. I agree.

    • @antonymataroa604
      @antonymataroa604 Před rokem +5

      Out of respect for my mother, I won't say what I want to. I won't lie. The part where she took back and made it about women and compared men to women took the rage meter off the charts. But again as men we try to understand what women mean. So I'll end this by saying that you're absolutely right. It's your reaction to this song and I respect your opinions on this matter. Keep up the good work with the reactions.

  • @randallj1291
    @randallj1291 Před rokem +19

    It shouldn’t surprise me how much your girl doesn’t get it, never open to her about your struggles because she’s shown she can’t help you. Get a brotherhood of solid men to rely on

    • @lalitsharma3137
      @lalitsharma3137 Před 11 měsíci +2

      He's already relying on several coping mechanisms like gaming, smoking, etc. His fiance is a great person with very little understanding of how it is on the men's side & that's completely fine. But I do hope both of you can grow. I'd suggest go to a gym and workout together. And become better for each other.

  • @BrncsWrldordr1
    @BrncsWrldordr1 Před 11 měsíci +17

    The fact this woman kept bringing up women’s sides of these issues. Couldn’t finish the video. I’ll just never understand why women have to defend their issues when men speak about theirs.

    • @tonystewartrlz14
      @tonystewartrlz14 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Well said. That's one of the issues this song is pointing out.

    • @michaelbosisto6259
      @michaelbosisto6259 Před 26 dny

      Every issue a woman brings up is listened too… they have groups, have everyone wearing feminine colors to represent woman’s issue.
      Try to find a single shelter for domestic violence for a single father… google it, and you’ll find pages and pages of groups for women and hardly any for men across the nation.

  • @darthwayne69420
    @darthwayne69420 Před rokem +17

    Ok.. I just reacted to Dax to be a Man on this channel and well my comment is there, but man the cojones on this lady to say that more women relate to this song than men is just ridiculous imo.. 🤷
    Stay strong bro 💪

    • @michaelcouch2594
      @michaelcouch2594 Před 5 měsíci +2

      My thoughts exactly bro. For this lady to even try to throw that in there is wild to say the least

  • @JayJay.86
    @JayJay.86 Před rokem +30

    This is what the song is about again a woman has to make it about them and ignore the male..... This video shows that exactly

  • @donaldpaulson3920
    @donaldpaulson3920 Před rokem +21

    Lmao the idea more females would feel this.... definitely not.....

  • @SeanPasell
    @SeanPasell Před rokem +8

    Man I hate how she just turns it around and makes it about women…is that insecurity that she thinks it’s a rip on women? It’s NOT

  • @jackgwilt3481
    @jackgwilt3481 Před 6 měsíci +2

    i'm 18 yrs old and i'm starting to become a man and i'm battling with depression and bipolar and boxing is helping with this but not many women understand the depression and terrible feelings that men have. Thank you guys for reacting to this! True tears were flowing

  • @jerrykunks2331
    @jerrykunks2331 Před rokem +10

    Women tend to forget that in most cases they have a lot more outlets to use when it comes to mental health.. friends, family.. most men don’t have that in order to express themselves without judgement. Great song, awesome artists..

  • @iamchicosuave
    @iamchicosuave Před rokem +9

    This chick missed the entire point.

  • @jleddy210
    @jleddy210 Před rokem +49

    I think your woman gonna get a lot more comments again. Generally women always express their feelings and it's the men that usually can't. They really don't talk to other men like females talk to their female friends. Hence that's why DAX put this out. Everything DAX says in this song is statistically right.

    • @judegamboa950
      @judegamboa950 Před rokem

      Mainly because men are told to just “MAN UP”

    • @suribabyboy
      @suribabyboy Před rokem +5

      Yep i thought same thing

    • @kegorapetsemosima7479
      @kegorapetsemosima7479 Před rokem +1

      Truth

    • @darcymiller9308
      @darcymiller9308 Před rokem +16

      I agree. I am a woman and women always have to make it about themselves when it comes to men's issues, which proves that women don't understand. There are so many women empowerment songs and as soon as a men empowerment song drops ,we hear about women issues and single mothers. It just proves Dax's point in the song.

    • @gdav549
      @gdav549 Před rokem

      ​@@darcymiller9308As men are killing themselves and dying young at overwhelmingly disproportionate rates. Today you'll find women who stand over the bodies of these dead men and still make the situation about themselves.

  • @RomeoThaGreatwhite
    @RomeoThaGreatwhite Před rokem +5

    Thank yall. i switched to Venda (a south african language)

  • @mikeedwards8398
    @mikeedwards8398 Před 6 měsíci +3

    There’s a story about a man talking about why he won’t say what he’s thinking or share his feelings, etc… and he points to his wife and children saying that they’d rather he die on top of his white horse than see him fall from it

  • @michaelbosisto6259
    @michaelbosisto6259 Před 26 dny +1

    When I was 18 years old, in the Marines I got a Red Cross call that my mother,father and 3 of my younger sisters were killed by a drunk driver. I went home to a very empty place, had to arrange a funeral and bury my own family. I requested to be discharged and it was granted because I’m the last of the family name, and it was granted. I just got a taste of being a man being a Marine, but now, I had to be strong, work 18 hour days, everyday to keep the family home and land. All I ever wanted was to be held, told that I was loved and to get a real hug. No one batted their eyes if I was hurting, all they saw was a tough steel like expression, dressed in dress blues. I had to do it all by myself… but now that I’ve been married for 31 years, and raised 2 daughter who are now college educated and married, I feel like I’ve done very well, and I know my father will be waiting to give me the ultimate fist bump and hug.
    NO WOMAN EVER GAVE A DAMN, didn’t even wanna try to care. My wife really doesn’t know the gravity of how that killed my spirit, made me so hollow inside.
    That woman on the reaction is the type that refuses to acknowledge the struggles and won’t ever admit they are wrong. Man, if you want a good life, don’t expect it coming from her.

  • @the_CrimsonChen
    @the_CrimsonChen Před rokem +6

    Why did she say that. Women can always express their feelings. People perceive that as normal. Men get looked at as weak or sensitive if they express how they really feel. I've shown this song to men and women and none of the women I know were able to relate. They said they always get to show their feelings but men never do. However every man I've shown this to has 100% related to this song. To say that, to me, is showing that you disagree with the stuff in this song.

  • @LeviTheMagi
    @LeviTheMagi Před 10 měsíci +5

    The two words he was talking about was the shortest verse in the bible. And it came after everyone ran to Jesus asking him with tears in their eyes why he didn't come soon enough to save Lazarus. And those two words were. Jesus wept. To this day it's one of the most beautiful verses. Because it shows just how human he was too.

  • @briangraybeal8416
    @briangraybeal8416 Před rokem +4

    Wow. Its obvious the man here gets what this video means. And she is clueless.

  • @celticlord1992
    @celticlord1992 Před rokem +17

    My only knit pick with your reaction is at 11:50 when Rabecka says that she "bets more women feel this way than men do." I'm sorry, I acknowledge that there's women that feel like this, but to just blanket statement say that this is probably a bigger issue for women than men immediately gives fuel to Dax's reasoning for the song. Plus you bring up that you potentially get to the point of annoyance that Vincent won't share his emotions, you even within 20 seconds say you realize men are brought up being taught to hide/bottle up their emotions, I don't know his upbringing, but maybe that is the very reason he can't properly convey his emotions. That he possibly doesn't have a lot of experience with conveying them because of said upbringing. So getting annoyed may just make him want to bottle them even more, perpetuating the cycle of annoying you and him not communicating his feelings. You seem like a nice person Rabecka like you said you just might be able to convey fully what you mean into cohesive thoughts and it comes out sounding wrong. ❤

    • @capcrunch7838
      @capcrunch7838 Před rokem +7

      Yeah seems she is missing the plot. Woman cry on a mans shoulder men cry alone in there car before coming in the house or when there alone in the shower. Woman run home to dad when life is broken men pull the trigger.

    • @kylerscott2876
      @kylerscott2876 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Every reaction I’ve seen from a woman’s perspective has said similar things. Men just need to learn it’s ok to express their feelings. It’s ok to cry. That’s not what this song is about at all. The best way to put this song into words is actually another artists verse to this song that I heard. Men build the boat and they let women on it. When that boat is sinking men are expected to let the women off first and go down with there ship. I’m sorry women I get that a lot of you have opinions on this subject and can empathize but there’s not a single one of you who knows exactly what that feels like. There are women out there who build there own lives and build there own boats. But when there boats are sinking the world gets around them to patch the holes or that women is going to be the first one off. And no one will ever question her for it. A man gets off first and he’s a dead beat piece of shit abandoning her.

  • @darthwayne69420
    @darthwayne69420 Před rokem +3

    I gave a like for my man here...
    The woman/girlfriend still doesn't understand and that's ok she willl never understand what it's like to be a man. 🤷

  • @jasonmalone9833
    @jasonmalone9833 Před rokem +11

    The fact u have to keep explaining yourself says all we need to know......

  • @bambamnj
    @bambamnj Před 7 měsíci +3

    He did talk about the other father figure. that was the first verse. His Earthly father taught him it was ok to cry.

  • @randyarmy03
    @randyarmy03 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Run dude
    Run fast

  • @Shimmerbeast3691
    @Shimmerbeast3691 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Jesus lady listen to the song you are the reason this song exists

  • @robertzerafa4806
    @robertzerafa4806 Před rokem +2

    How can you not notice. He did mean his dad. His dad told him it's ok to cry. That's how you put out the fire of pain. You sound like you don't really listen to the words

  • @brianl3089
    @brianl3089 Před 7 měsíci +2

    The words to the second guy’s “Bar” was I only have a FEW examples of man in my life and only one made perfection life like…”

  • @ducksgo
    @ducksgo Před rokem +5

    Jesus wept… and so can you is the bar he used. The second artist love❤

  • @SubOhm187
    @SubOhm187 Před rokem +8

    Woman always gotta some how make it about them. Then try to explain how they aren't doing that. Just have her look at statistics then get back with us. Hope you find a woman that will see your point of veiw 1 day without making it about then my guy until then Goodluck.

    • @gdav549
      @gdav549 Před rokem

      Among 18 to 29 year olds,, 63% of men versus 34% of women considered themselves single. 60% of those single men are actively avoid relationships.
      The current climate of women attacking men is going to result in a self fulfilling prophecy. Growing old, being childless, and dying alone. All in the name of "I don't need no man" where instead of working to try to understand us, women just demand more of us.
      The future is bleak for these modern women, and they'll have nobody to blame but themselves. 28% of men and 30% of women 50-64 years old and 25% of men and 39% of women age 65+ years old are single.
      Women today have this false reality that a man will always want them. The statistics show that there's going to be a reckoning when they're alone later in life as their looks have failed, and their only marketable trait is their personality.
      Yeah... good luck to them as many men are waking up and not dealing with the BS anymore

    • @capcrunch7838
      @capcrunch7838 Před rokem

      Truth

  • @leonardbarber9598
    @leonardbarber9598 Před rokem +10

    The line Jesus wept and so can you. Hit hard because as a little boy we wasn't supposed to and as a man when I lost my baby boy I sucked it up for years and years down the road I lost my mom and sister I still feel I have to break down alone and leave it in God's hands

  • @REALLYLEGACi
    @REALLYLEGACi Před rokem +11

    The only women who can relate to this song is the very very VERY strong single mothers out there because this song is mostly about having to hide how you feel so you can keep moving, providing, etc shout-out to all you single mothers out there love you all

  • @carlalesana
    @carlalesana Před rokem +13

    You don’t like the second guy’s stance and the way he appears but He’s the most favored verse and vocal of all the reactions of this Dax’s Mega Remix!

    • @Huge_XG-Xpop_Stan
      @Huge_XG-Xpop_Stan Před rokem +2

      Cap! Every reaction I’ve watched.. almost everybody say they felt the black mens verses more, so much they even play it back a couple times.

    • @cj7011
      @cj7011 Před rokem

      ​@CFACN is it because they were rapping?

    • @Mike-cs4pl
      @Mike-cs4pl Před 10 měsíci

      So its about race nickel with the hard er

    • @Eliath1984
      @Eliath1984 Před 9 měsíci

      @@Huge_XG-Xpop_Stan honestly for me my absolute favorite was the 3rd guy... no rapping but that guy hit me hard in feelings I've felt.. and the Father of 7 also hit deep... Then after that the father who's baby momma left him(he was the one in red).. then the guy at the end did amazing as well

    • @finlander4065
      @finlander4065 Před 8 měsíci

      So men are struggling and women and society aren't understanding them. That's what this song is about. I'm one of them! Now all you clowns can argue about is color? No wonder!

  • @davidlittlefield1327
    @davidlittlefield1327 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Girlfriend: I'll take a clue for $300 Alex

  • @chrismeyer7890
    @chrismeyer7890 Před rokem +5

    He mentioned the other man at the beginning. He said "Daddy thought that's how you put a fire out"

  • @patrickbeard3315
    @patrickbeard3315 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Calling a man a baby for feeling like they cant live without their chosen woman is insensitive, many cant, she becomes the one thing that gives him a reason to continue fighting. Many men die after losing their other half. Not because they are babies, but because they have nothing left to fight for.

  • @larrydelaney9211
    @larrydelaney9211 Před 9 měsíci +4

    To be a man but "woman can relate more" bullshit

  • @rhondagreen6761
    @rhondagreen6761 Před rokem +5

    Love me some Ben Becker voice of an Angel..(Don't 4get Jesus wept & brother so can you)

  • @Soulja4ChristWeAreAtWar
    @Soulja4ChristWeAreAtWar Před rokem +3

    This song is what the "red pill/manosphere" is about at its core.

  • @spearl1925
    @spearl1925 Před 7 měsíci +2

    How you making this about you and how women feel? I am a 66 yr old woman and after listening to this song, I'm ashamed to say I have failed at truly understanding what a man truly has on his shoulders. Sure, women gave it tough too, some worse than others but let's face it, mist women will talk among themselves, cry it out, etc....the point of this song is men don't have that. You are the kind of woman this song had to be written....what a shame you don't seem to get it

  • @tbexecutioner5392
    @tbexecutioner5392 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Just wanna say I've seen this video alot but I have watched thia specific reaction alot. I find myself coming back everytime so thank you for doing what you two do.

  • @Soulja4ChristWeAreAtWar
    @Soulja4ChristWeAreAtWar Před rokem +5

    Men, we need to foster a culture in which we teach our sons & brothers to develop the kind of relationships with other men with which we can share our frustrations, emotions and trials, so that we can be the rock our wife and family need when we are home. Only men can truly understand the struggles of being a man. Women can offer sympathy but only men can offer true empathy. Seek Wisdom.

  • @gdav549
    @gdav549 Před rokem +8

    When you get frustrated by him not opening up and telling you what he needs, what he wants, or how he feels.
    Take a step back and ask yourself this simple question. Why doesn't he feel comfortable or secure in telling me?
    Just know that as men, we have often immediately regretted opening up, and doing the exact same thing your frustrated at him for not doing.
    It's a learned behavior. The consistent reactions to our action causes us not to act.
    It's easier for us to just shut up and suck it up, rather than having to apologize or clean up the mess had we said something.

  • @GenesisSincere1
    @GenesisSincere1 Před 11 měsíci +3

    2nd guy with the long hair, I believe that God Himself is your vocal coach. That voice!!! More importantly Jesus wept line hit hard. The world needs saving. Death and Life is in the power of the tongue. Continue to use it wise! Overall, everyone was amazing!!!

  • @genoquidera8999
    @genoquidera8999 Před 4 měsíci

    Being a man, I can say that 100% of every man that listens to this song can relate. The second line of the song said, “I don’t expect you to understand. (He is talking to woman). We men know if you ladies get the song or not. No matter if you say, you get it. We know!

  • @tortillaman972
    @tortillaman972 Před rokem +2

    Don’t agree how she said woman can agree with this more then man they could never know what it’s like to be a man not a diss just my opinion

  • @roderickarina
    @roderickarina Před 9 měsíci +3

    This song goes so far over her head. She is missing the message.

  • @69bamabreeze
    @69bamabreeze Před rokem +2

    Even when the world doesnt show you the SAME LOVE!!!!!

  • @ThePitbullsrking
    @ThePitbullsrking Před 6 měsíci +1

    So she has heard the song twice and still doesn't get it. Here's how a conversation would go with her:
    •Her- hey what's wrong..tell me
    •Him- i feel like you don't listen to me
    •Her- well how do you think i feel when you leave the toilet seat up

    • @RealReactions
      @RealReactions  Před 6 měsíci

      Hi, it's Becka. I get the song. What I am saying is that I think more women understand this than men think. We know you have been taught not to show emotions, and it's very hard. I have dealt with some very manipulating men. You know the type that cheates and steals from you, or get hooked on drugs and when you try to leave the toxic relationship, they wanna cry and act like babies, so you stay so they can manipulate you more.. i spent 5 years with a man because i tried to show him his importance and love he never had before. In the end, it was me that realized how he just broke me down. I have a 9 year old son, and I have raised him to express his emotions instead of holding them in. I explained to him how society teaches men that it's not okay to cry. I have also taught him what toxic signs are in a relationship. His father was a piece of work. Sitting in jail atm.. he hasn't seen his dad for 3 years, and his brother passed away this last year on mother's day in a head on collision with a semi truck at the age of 16. He has gone through a lot, and I am always there for him
      Maybe while listening to the song, I should have tried to slow down my emotions. And really explain better what I meant. I was referring to the boys out there, not men!

  • @patrickflannery198
    @patrickflannery198 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love you guys. Beka 6:46 you said some people don't have a good man in their life. That's the point of the song, alot of women who don't believe that they have a good man in their life are over looking the issues that these artists speak of. You never thanked the man next to you while a bunch of men are singing their feelings that you claim u understand.

    • @RealReactions
      @RealReactions  Před 6 měsíci

      You are correct, I did not thank the man next to me at that time. But I do thank him off Camara every day.

  • @cmph5487
    @cmph5487 Před rokem +2

    She made the expression of these men about women. 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @tbexecutioner5392
    @tbexecutioner5392 Před rokem +2

    Love that Dax flexes by doing remixes with other Independent artists. Fuego!

  • @rodneybever9583
    @rodneybever9583 Před rokem +4

    The second on hit so real. I was raised by my grandparents and it wasn't so much raised as given a place to grow up. My grandpa was retired and did nothing but fish and sit around the house. I had to try to figure out how to be a man and I fucked it all up severely till about 4 years ago when Tom Macdonald gave me a light to get out of the darkness. Almost 50 now and I am alone and pathetic. I do not use my past to make excuses though. My actions were 100 percent my responsibility. I can only go forward and try to live the next half of my life better but man it hurts so much to know that I wasted my youth.

  • @fatherof3502
    @fatherof3502 Před rokem +7

    The fact that you had to open up the video defending yourself shows your mindset. I went back and watched you other reaction. I genuinely feel for your dude here. Good dudes need good women. Lol ain’t even finna watch y’all’s reaction. L

    • @capcrunch7838
      @capcrunch7838 Před rokem +6

      Dude seems like he is being dommed by the chick

    • @fatherof3502
      @fatherof3502 Před rokem +3

      @@capcrunch7838 %100 agreed. Beta.

  • @mongraal35.z44
    @mongraal35.z44 Před měsícem

    He literally said, “daddy told me thats how you put a fire out” he talks about god, jesus and his father

  • @dianeritthaler7792
    @dianeritthaler7792 Před rokem +4

    What an Amazing collaboration ❤🎉

  • @SleepyPCGamer
    @SleepyPCGamer Před 2 měsíci

    I love your content and i wanna say as a man I agree with Becka, their are many women out there who do understand how men feel, this stigma about men are supposed to be tough is a societal issue not necessarily a woman's issue. Many women are incredibly understanding and supportive of their men just like Becka is with Vinnie on their Monsters reaction when she was emotional because she knew what that song meant for Vinnie. Keep being you Becka

  • @Benyahweh-wr3hc
    @Benyahweh-wr3hc Před rokem +3

    The black guys was okay and I'm black myself but those white dudes and white chicks had some voices that were unexpected amongst the black community which makes us love this song even more

  • @mermaidsoul
    @mermaidsoul Před 10 měsíci +2

    I think the second guy that talked about only have 2 fathers he said in the beginning that his daddy said that its ok to cry its how to put a fire out ❤

  • @Soulja4ChristWeAreAtWar
    @Soulja4ChristWeAreAtWar Před rokem +1

    Men:
    Don't avoid the struggle, push into it.
    There is purpose in the pain.
    There is value in the struggle.
    There is no GLORY and HONOR without Suffering.
    BE BRAVE.

  • @davidgarrett649
    @davidgarrett649 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Don't flip the script! It's about men not women!

  • @bonkey12
    @bonkey12 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Honestly, the woman doesnt get it. "to be a man" is literally the name of the song but tries to flip it around.

  • @hassanjaral7682
    @hassanjaral7682 Před rokem +4

    Dax is a real one for putting these people on the map💯

  • @nicholasallison9134
    @nicholasallison9134 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I couldn’t finish the video. Bro, run. Everything will always be about her and her validation. She wants you to open up just so she can validate her own feelings. Thats a narcissistic tendency. I’m going to assume you end up apologizing for how she feels when you are having an argument. If she brings something up that you’re doing that is making her upset and you do the same, it is no longer a conversation but now and argument because you’re being defensive and attacking her even though she is doing the exact same thing. I’m hoping that isn’t the case, but, I’m in the same situation and her body language and words lead me to believe that’s what happens.
    Any women who says she’s not that type of woman is the same as a man who says he’s not like other men. There’re both lying.

  • @harleyfrench9997
    @harleyfrench9997 Před rokem +1

    In christ i have the father and that holds me together in the darkness All Glory to God Almighty 🙏❤

  • @davidrossman919
    @davidrossman919 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I’m a disabled man and I cry all the time.

    • @davidrossman919
      @davidrossman919 Před 9 měsíci +2

      I don’t care how many times I watch To be a man, I cry from the jump. I haven’t seen my sons in 13 years and I haven’t seen my daughter in 3. ( long stories) but a few months back my eldest son reached out to me and I asked if he wanted to call and he said no because he wasn’t sure if he could hold back tears. I’m like, son don’t be afraid because I will ball for sure and if I ever get to see you again, I will latch onto your neck and never let go. Then I shared the to be a man mega remix video and he was surprised. We later ended up having a 6 hour conversation (2 on the phone and 4 on video) and yes I cried….and afterwards I wrote poems about it.
      Dad’s don’t be afraid to show the softer side of yourself to the children you care for. Respect!!!

  • @TaintedXolair
    @TaintedXolair Před rokem +5

    Not to sound mean, but why does she look so mad ?

    • @mickkalshoven5
      @mickkalshoven5 Před rokem

      She's definitely not mad or upset. In most reviews, she has this , in my opinion, beautiful zen facial expressions. She has all her senses wide open to absorb all feelings of the video they watch. She has a beautiful soul, I believe......

    • @capcrunch7838
      @capcrunch7838 Před rokem +2

      @@mickkalshoven5 really? With her comment that more woman feel this way then men? What you simping for?

  • @dafog89
    @dafog89 Před rokem +3

    Finaly:D Been waiting for you two to upload your reaction:P

  • @austindermody302
    @austindermody302 Před rokem +3

    Hey @realreactions! Great reaction as always! I hope Dax continues to do these MEGA REMIXES. They're fantastic!

    • @RealReactions
      @RealReactions  Před rokem +1

      I hope so too!

    • @hatershater7539
      @hatershater7539 Před rokem +1

      still wondering why kh's verse didn't make the cut,😅

    • @austindermody302
      @austindermody302 Před rokem +1

      @@hatershater7539 that’s what I was wondering too. Maybe next time Dax does one of these MEGA REMIXES, he’ll include a verse from Knox Hill.

    • @hatershater7539
      @hatershater7539 Před rokem +1

      @@austindermody302 right,, this is no competition but come on,"" he got a dope verse too"" but this gives us hope for a second round eh"?😁

    • @austindermody302
      @austindermody302 Před rokem +1

      @@hatershater7539 you never know, my friend.

  • @Darkforces817
    @Darkforces817 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Romeo The Great white sings in English and Venda a dialect from northers South Africa. He has some great songs you might want to react to :)

  • @dennisgittens8939
    @dennisgittens8939 Před 6 měsíci +1

    There is no way more women could feel the true meaning of this song than men we as men does have ta live this s**** everyday women have no idea so miss me with that one

    • @RealReactions
      @RealReactions  Před 6 měsíci

      She was just saying that more women can understand how we feel. Then we think they do..

    • @dennisgittens8939
      @dennisgittens8939 Před 6 měsíci

      @RealReactions to be real with you with de way women does think in this time it's hard ta believe with so much 304 girls and they line of thinking look at all the podcasts and you well see how to me 90 percent of women does be all about their self your wife is in the ten percent so you are lucky 🙏

  • @corybagley7734
    @corybagley7734 Před rokem +4

    She wears the pants 😅

  • @Mhantrax
    @Mhantrax Před rokem +23

    I think it is important for the people in these comment sections to remember something. Understand that we men have been changed by the pressures of culture, our early childhood experiences, TV and commercials, our parents, absolutely infinite generations of social norms and momentum.
    Please remember that women also grew up in this exact same culture, media etc. Using Dax's song to attack women who are exploring this topic is the most inefficient thing you can do if you truly want her to listen and learn your feelings and experiences as a man.

    • @RealReactions
      @RealReactions  Před rokem +3

      Very good 👍

    • @malachynicholas
      @malachynicholas Před rokem

      Nicely said bro

    • @NatoHoro
      @NatoHoro Před 11 měsíci +2

      Men have always been the same, it is women that changeg dude to the pressures of culture. We suffer now because it's hard to adapst and chance who we are, it is on our DNA. It is not men that need to be taught to cry, it is women that need to be taught to be perceptive and have compassion.

  • @michaeljenkins746
    @michaeljenkins746 Před rokem +3

    Hope you are having a good day and hope u enjoyed your day yesterday I consider you guys friends

  • @scottnelson6075
    @scottnelson6075 Před 4 měsíci

    You don’t need to apologize, men that got butt hurt over your comments are the new men in this society, can imagine what our military will look like in 20 years , our enemies are fighters, they don’t worry about hurting peoples feelings 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @amandajean5153
    @amandajean5153 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I don’t think yall understand what these men are saying at all.

  • @Soulja4ChristWeAreAtWar
    @Soulja4ChristWeAreAtWar Před rokem +1

    Fellas, never, and I mean never ever marry a woman who you think is *only* there for what you can provide. It will never last and only get worse and it starts your relationship as one that is transactional instead of one built from genuine desire.

  • @Thomas-dy5xl
    @Thomas-dy5xl Před rokem +3

    Why do women feel the need to hijack a song about men and make it about themselves? Sheesh

  • @steelman0605
    @steelman0605 Před rokem +4

    Bro, run! She’s a straight feminist and will make you give 90 while she only gives 10 if that, and then try to guilt trip like don’t you think I deserve nice things, run!! 11:51

    • @RealReactions
      @RealReactions  Před rokem

      😆 stop, it really ain't like that yall got me 💀

    • @steelman0605
      @steelman0605 Před rokem

      Says the woman!

    • @capcrunch7838
      @capcrunch7838 Před rokem +1

      Truth.

    • @steelman0605
      @steelman0605 Před rokem

      @@capcrunch7838 notice it’s only her ever replying??? Just saying

    • @capcrunch7838
      @capcrunch7838 Před rokem

      @@steelman0605 yeah i dont think i have seen him actually address this

  • @sadisticfurytv8292
    @sadisticfurytv8292 Před 3 měsíci

    So I've been meaning to do this for a while.
    This is my verse to dax song what it's like to be a man so here it is. I hope you enjoy
    Dax hook
    I can't hide myself
    I don't expect you to understand
    I just hope I can explain
    What it's like to be a man
    It's a lonely road
    And they don't care 'bout what you know
    It's not 'bout how you feel
    But what you provide inside that home
    My verse
    As a single full time father of 3 /
    2 boys and a girl one autistic one with adhd/
    Taking care of everything on my own trying to build a dream/
    No one to to turn to when we face all of life's adversities /
    There's no movement for men were told to just keep moving/
    Theirs no outlet from the pain no way to sooth it/
    We just have to bottle the feeling and live an illusion/
    We have to be our own savior somehow having to find a way to just do it /
    Our only value is how much we can provide /
    Having to stay strong to the world while at night we cry threw our eyes/
    Knowing no one would care even if they saw threw us acting as If everything's alright /
    And if he says he's alright just know it's a lie /
    Cuz men know deep inside no one cares if we confide /
    About how we feel until we feel dead inside/
    It's the unspoken truth that simple goes undressed /
    It's the cold hard truth we simply don't confess /
    I know this verse won't change a thing I just had to get it off of my chest/
    Dax hook
    I can't hide myself
    I don't expect you to understand
    I just hope I can explain
    What it's like to be a man
    It's a lonely road
    And they don't care 'bout what you know
    It's not 'bout how you feel
    But what you provide inside that home

  • @doomdogg5766
    @doomdogg5766 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Queen feminist! Run forest Run!

  • @johnford1220
    @johnford1220 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Enjoyed your video...she had more to say...

  • @TruthBTolle
    @TruthBTolle Před rokem +2

    Turned off riiiight at 11:00 when she took a song written ABOUT men from the PERSPECTIVE of men and ENCOURAGING men while in the PRESENCE of a man and tried to make it about women. Need I remind you there WAS a female reporter who went undercover as a man to understand better... it caused such a deep depression she killed herself.

  • @Tankstheguy
    @Tankstheguy Před rokem +3

    GOD gave men a mother, a sister, and daughters if that can't get them to soften up i don't what would. Church also why families struggle in their marriage. 25 years of teen mothers and fathers playing house until the money comes up. A lot of kids being raised by kids.

  • @user-om3qb9yv6q
    @user-om3qb9yv6q Před 11 měsíci +2

    No way you tried to turn it back towards women but I guess the victim can’t understand

  • @johnmartin1569
    @johnmartin1569 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Dude you better run far and fast. She is heartless and self centered.

  • @stevestraining7291
    @stevestraining7291 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Dude… run fast and far away.. Trust

  • @Alistair102040
    @Alistair102040 Před 3 měsíci

    I dont doubt some women can relate especially these days where we are all working ourselves to the bone to provide

  • @NathanMalnaa
    @NathanMalnaa Před 5 měsíci

    10:29 she actually says "please don't hide yourself" behind Dax "i can't hide myself"

  • @Wfb_DVM
    @Wfb_DVM Před 6 měsíci

    That dude on the TV has a crazy vocal range

  • @cratanamorn
    @cratanamorn Před 5 měsíci +1

    I think the girl should stop trying to relate to guys but using her own thoughts. It's not ever gonna be the same and unless she experiences true conditional love. She will never relate

    • @RealReactions
      @RealReactions  Před 5 měsíci

      She was only saying that more women understand how we feel than we understand. Not that she knows what it feels like more than us

  • @bakeapplejam6471
    @bakeapplejam6471 Před 9 měsíci

    Great job.

  • @andrewtredway809
    @andrewtredway809 Před 10 měsíci

    Dax brother, I feel you. And Vinny……. Don’t loose her. Real talk, no one’s perfect; don’t waste time ❤❤❤❤

  • @NathanMalnaa
    @NathanMalnaa Před 5 měsíci

    8:37 this is my favorite verse. I've said that for years "most men are halfway dead inside" myself included