@@julieschmidt8481 i’m a boy and I have a friend who met another friend on virtual learning and the friend always been so toxic to me and miles and me are such good friends when that person is not around then Jayden just makes me angry
4 people actually, I'm kind of a 5th wheel. Basically I'm glue. 2 seperate friendships that are held together by me. I literally take everything since they all don't see me as a friend. I want to see how they fall when I leave.
im watching to find out if im the toxic friends even thk theyre never there for me when i need them but im there when they need me but oh well im the toxic ig.
@Xxunicornxx _12 im in grade 5 and ITS SUCKKK Me and my 2 bff used to be a really good friends and have a good relationship with each other..and then..time passed by..year after year,months after months,and day after day,our friendship started to..tear apart.. I was really heart broken when my friend said that she and my other bff are going to make a new group with another friend of mine.WITHOUT TELLING ME...: ( Tbh i just wanted to be homeschooled..
10 Signs you have a toxic friend 1. You feel like you can't be your true selft when you're with them. 2. Your communication becomes almost non-existent. 3. They constantly smother you. 4. You feel like you guys are competing against one another. 5. They are'nt considerate of your feelings. 6. They give you a hard time for your mistakes (even when you apologize) 7. They are controlling and try to micromanage you rather than give you advice. 8. Your friendship provides more stress than support. 9. You feequently catch them talking about you behind your back. 10. You forget why the two of you bacame friends in the first place.
All I have is toxic friends. I sit with them at lunch, I get ignored. I follow people around I get ignored. If I was absent one day, it will be a normal day. They want people to feel bad for them. I wish I went back to my old school.
That sounds horrible. Time to shop around for more interesting friends in your school, try joining a club outside school as well. Sometimes you have to try on other people at school til you find a fit. And watch this czcams.com/video/hmJyWreER7A/video.html
Then that same memory that told you to get lost 5 years ago invites you to their wedding so you can make more memorys of a memory that didn't want to remember you, isn't that memorable. Sorry that's what I'm going through right now😳
Yeah I'm a human but in a toxic friendship/relationship the person makes YOU feel like you’re the toxic person when in reality they wanna see you crash and burn
I think that even if your friend doesn't show all of these signs, the fact that you are watching this and thinking about them is a sign big enough to tell you to move on.
Marcela Balan Some do, but if you look up signs of abuse, then you no longer need to ponder if the person at hand is bad for you. Of course some watch it for fun.
@@Frank-ln1td to be honest, there are no such thing as friends in this world, because eventually they either become your rivals OR straight up betray you. i was always lonely for 12 years of school once i got into the university i thought i would change that, and i did, i got popular and had A TON of friends, i was indeed happy until reality hit me hard, some of them are gonna use you, others will secretly hate you, others betray you and some even become your enemy and expose your secrets to every single enemy out there. im now finishing the university which in total was 6 years, and in those 6 years of my life i basically had Game of Thrones in real life. thats why i never consider anyone a friend anymore, neither i even use this word anymore.
My daughter sent this to me this yesterday and she came up to me crying because she realize that her best friend was the exact person that you described and then she let go of her and it hurt her but today she feels Better now thank you
my friend is really nice but I shifted school since then she got a new friend and she hanouts either her every weekend and I don't have any new friend in this school and that makes me insecure ....I don't know what to do
@neet prep Hey! Fellow student here! My advice for you is to go out and talk to people. You are bound to make at least one friend in your school. About your old friend, it’s best to just let go of it. If she was truly your friend, she would at least try to keep up on social media.
@@grandwood2795 yeah I am trying to meet new people but since I took gap year it's a little difficult ....and about my old friend I agree on what u said ....btw thanks ...means a lot 🙂🙂
I got rid of my toxic best friend today. And dont get me wrong. You will feel so much better and free. When I got rid of my toxic best friend today, I dont feel like I'm trapped, I dont feel like her puppet. I feel like I cut the puppet strings, and escaped her toxic prison. And I feel amazing.
@@infiresman8743 all I did was go up to her face and tell her how rude and toxic she has been to me. And then I told her I couldn't handle her anymore, I told her I was done and I needed to be free and move on without her. She later tried getting me back and I said "no! I can't handle you anymore. You are too toxic" hopefully that helped. If not, I'm sorry. I've never been the best at helping people...
Same i end my friendship with my terrible fake friend i'm ignoring and avoiding them however one of her friend is very kind to me But i'm so lucky that i found a friend she is very kind and giving me a wonderful advice☺
Same for me. I can't take any memes of torture any longer, my friend's stating the things I already known (like when I said I run fast as sonic the hedechog, it was a joke but he took it seriously and said "you ain't supposed to run at school" which I could of said stop stated the obvious but I said nothing and just sighed about it. He takes a lot and I mean A LOT of things seriously and giving his opinions even though I didn't asked him to do that. ), and his big obsession of memes and fire emblem (he only talks about memes, Smash bros, and fire emblem which is just boring. If you have to deal with a person talking about the same thing every day, then you will probably be annoyed by this person. And this is what I'm feeling annoyed every single time I come to sit with him in the bus. But you maybe saying, "You can just change seats." No it doesn't work in school dismissal because I try to go to the back of the line of my bus but he freaking just holds the freaking doar and goes to me realy?! I am just get unhappy when he has to sit with me in the bus because I need my peace and he gets all the room in the seat and I get squished in my seat, which is not comfortable at all.) He also goes and whispers stuff and repeats it again and again which is annoying to hear. I even get headakes every single day for even thinking of him. I dont want to do anything with him anymore. I'm just done with him. I'm can't take any of this crap with him any longer. And Orian Escoon (the dude I talked about) if you are here reading this comment (which is 99.9 percent not cuz he only watches meme videos and smash bros videos unless I bring it up.) I don't mean to hurt your feelings. I just thinked that we can just not be hanging out like at all and find different people. When I first saw you I jut thought I had a person simular to me but it ain't true. You are just a 13 year old kid who watches a bunch of memes, smg4,and smash bros directs, and draw some fire emblem stuff that I don't care about. I'm just saying that Orian is this dude who is a not good friend and I don't want to be a friend to this dude. Ok if you enjoyed the long comment please subscribe to my channel and watch my videos and like and comment to them. Hope you enjoyed.
The absolute hardest thing about having a toxic “friend” is that when you try to stay away from them or move on them they pay attention to you but then it goes back to them using you as a door mat and it makes it even more difficult when they are your only friend
Not the one I've fell out with. I've blocked him and moved on because he revealed his true colours one night and if he comes to front door I will physically remove him off my property.
@@nava2279 i had gf year ago she was really cute and we had nice time but After that she starts to be bad i didint relise that even After she broke up with me but now i relise that i am not bad guy 😂☑️
NAWlovley 96 i can relate to this so bad lmao, my friend of 12 years is rlly toxic, no wonder im rlly tired around her or even at the thought of her. And the funny things is ...i just realized that now hahaha
id gaf *_Stop knocking on a closed door .. if u looked behind u you'll find so many open doors ... leave ur friend and go make some new friends and hangout and have fun and live ur life no matter how much u love ur toxic friend ... but for sure u love ur selfmore and u deserve so much better I did that and I made some new friends and now I 'm living the best moments of my life..... RETIRE WHAT HURTS U_*
How do I end my friendship without hurting the toxic friend? I feel as if she needs me more than she wants me. She is really rude to me and she makes me buy her lunch for lunch. I give her gifts on her birthday and other days, but she isn't greatful. When I got alot of gel pens for her she said she didn't want to carry the bag because it was embarrassing! I almost cried. I just hate her so much. Please help!
Be honest with her. If she does things to you that makes you feel uncomfortable just tell her that you don't like what she is doing and that she should stop that.
What the comment above me said ^^ If she doesn't change her ways, then DROP her. You don't need that in your life, there's plenty of good people out there that you haven't met yet.
when your “best friend” does all of these😔 Edit: thank you for all the likes and support! I decided to make new friends and not hang out with her anymore and I’m so much happier. If you have a toxic friend please don’t stay with them. I have learned that I should’ve left earlier before more damage was done. 💗💗
Same, I don’t know how to leave her, I have couple mental health problems such as PTSD, BPD etc. and I have a huge fear of losing someone I’m close with
I had a very toxic friend when I was 7, who forced be to bully other kids, laugh at them, and would constantly tell me I wasn't good enough, and couldn't go anywhere without her. I was 7 and didn't know it had a name. All I knew is I didn't want to be part of this anymore. So I was a loner for the next 2 years. I got new friends though!
I've stayed in a toxic friendship for a long time,afraid to let go because I keep thinking I'll have nobody else as a friend but once I did it was such a relief like a heavy burden being lifted off my shoulder
THEUPSIDEDOWN I once dated a guy like that. It was total chaos. He would be rude to me every now and then, and overall a bit toxic everyday and I wouldn't notice. We dated for 3 months. At the 2nd month I started to feel awful and my mental health got worse because of him and a bunch of other toxic people. I thought if I left him, nobody would want me. When I was still dating him, at the 3rd month, I fell in love for someone else. The guy was super nice, single and looking for a girl. After a couple days, the guy I was in love with started to date another girl and I felt like I lost a huge opportunity because I was still dating my toxic ex. If I had the guts to jump off of the boat sooner, I'd be dating the love of my life now. As for today, I'm single and I'm happier than I ever was when I dated that toxic loser.
And all of a sudden they wanna hang out, you have the time of your life, then the next day they go back to being toxic and you don’t know what to do? ;(
I dont even know if I'm toxic or my best friend is honestly. Gets me all sad, he wouldn't care though.I have may have done some things that may have hurt him alot but i apolagize and tried to help him but I feel like nothing is enough
And my mom has told me to cut him out of my life because I have done harmful things to myself because of somethings he did, but I always say he will get better because he is really one of the best people I ever known so far
one of my friends is incredibly toxic, however, i cant cut ties or they'll send their friends after me and literally start a witch hunt. talking to them is so exhausting, you have no idea. they constantly put me down and show more than half the signs in this video.
ski Toxic can mean anything, that's the problem with society nowadays. The points explained in this video can be linked to narcissism, sociopathy and psychopathy.. If you know anyone who suffers from those personality disorders, the best thing to do would be to run for the hills and don't think twice about it. I hope that you manage to cut the ties and free yourself. I hope that this comment helped you ☺☺
I recently just cut ties with my best friend who had been a major part of my life for literally 10 years. She became incredibly toxic and made me become the same way. I couldn't handle her anymore. I knew I was being toxic as well but I started not to care at one point. I felt guilty though. Like I had no reason to be angry at her. To want to cut ties. So I didn't leave. She had an abusive father and the only reason I didn't leave was because I knew she would be broken without me. I was her only friend and she was my only friend too. Whenever I told her I couldn't handle her she would start crying and just ask what she did to me. That girl completely ruined me as a person. Ruined my self esteem until I had none of it left. And she would ask me "why would you leave after all these years?" I probably seem like the bad guy here but.. she left me so many times. Too many times to count. Whenever she would find something else to keep her happy she would leave me. And that's ultimately what drove me to my breaking point. She left me again for her other friends, knowing very well she was the only friend *I* had. It's funny, how before she cried not wanting me to leave her. And then when she finally got what she wanted.. popularity and tons of friends. She didn't need me anymore. She blocked me and I told her to never talk to me again. I cried alot after that but I'm just letting you know it gets better. It hurts alot at first (especially if you've been friends with them for a really long time) but after a week or so I was so happy. I felt so free. I may not have any friends anymore but it really is better to have no friends at all then to have a friend who ruins your self esteem, brags, lies, etc. Or who exhausts you in which I can relate. This was supposed to be some friendly advice but I'm pretty sure I just mostly ranted XD. I needed to get that off my chest tbh. So if you read this then thanks lol
This is literally the only friendships I've had, my friends have never texted or called 1st, it's always me who starts any conversation and then we never hang out
Now in this quarantine, I began to realized that all the “friends” I have they are really not my friends more like I am friends with them but they aren’t friends with me.
Same😭I'm literally the only one (from "our" "group ") who is trying to not lose our friendship. I'm trying to socialize with them(not in person, but through phone) and then there are they.. Who I guess doesn't care about me at all. .. That makes me so sad. And.. I think I don't have friends.. Until someone need a homework 🙄😭. And I hate myself for sending them my homeworks, but when I don't do that I feel super bad, and I think that I'm the worst friend ever. But then again.. How am I the bad one if they are texting me just when they need something from me.. I am always searching for my problem.. What I do wrong, what I did wrong or whatever.. Because I think that maybe I'm the problem.. Maybe I'm just stupid idiot who.. I don't know, ask too much?? Well.. I mean I want just to have friend by my side.. And to know that they need me and they talk to me, not just listen to my problems and ignore everything.. I want to feel like I am needed by someone. I don't know maybe I'm just really asking too much and no one has that kind of friendship.. Maybe friendship that I have is normal? I'm sorry I just needed to let out my thoughts somewhere..
I don't think my friend is toxic, but lately I started making new friends and got more confident, and when I tell her it just seems to bother her, knowing I used to have trouble making friends, she sees my new friends as ''competition''
I have real friends, but I also have toxic ones. I hate that they think that they can control me just because I'm an introvert and also hate conflicts. And I try to be there for them always, when they have problems, but when I need somebody, everyone disappears. :(
You are not alone. Also if you are one type of human that wants everyone to feel good i understand you((( sometimes it hurts and you get stressed but try to put boundaries. But if they don't get them and make fun of it - be more rude( sometimes it os the only way). Only when i was no more afraid of what will they think or feel about me i could say "No" to them. Of course sometimes it is not that easy but always think that your emotional health is more important, you cannot please everyone, even more, you shouldn't please people because those who love you the way you are will understand your alone time and will not change their mind about you no matter of your boundaries are, they will accept it and not harm you intentionally🤗🤗🤗🤗It happened to me.
My friend refuses to listen. She constantly asks for help, but never listens. She trash talks and can’t handle trash talk aimed toward her. She puts in no effort. Because of this, my anxiety gets worse. She always talks about her problems and never lets us talk about our problems. So this caused my problems with self worth to become even worse. I really just wanted to rant
Ik how you feel, I once had a toxic friend that used to be really nice to me until she turned our friend group into a wolf pack and made herself alpha, she then started treating me worse and worse until it came to a point where she was the cause of my depression and suicidal wishes. She moved schools though ^~^ I rant about this all the time and idk why but I feel like crying rn
Angelina Kim yeah that sucks.My friend ich makes me feel like im the younger and he is the older.He acts like he is my dad.AND IM WAY STRESS.He even says this was how i treat my father.
The toxic "friend" of mine only remembered me in time of needs, taking credit for all that I helped her with. I didn't think much of it at first, but it just got too much to the point she would start ignoring me when she wasn't satisfied with my help....it took a while but I could finally distance myself from her.
11. They are manipulators 12. They put their burden on you 13. *THEY SUCK* fake friends: haha I'm the worst Toxic friends: *hold my Toxicity 100% beer*
I’ve ended a16 year old friendships… it’s absolutely heartbreaking 💔 especially when you’re in your 40 with no other friends… but it was toxic, abusive and needed to be end… I know it will take time to heal but i need to do it for my own mental health
dort rice worst is when you think your real friend is the toxic one and turns your acts of sadness to their acts of laughter and negativity, fun and entertainment.
"Maybe at some point you guys really were friends but those days are long." This line tore my heart right apart because that's exactly how I feel about one my friends
Yess, that one line, that one line reall hit close to home with me. I had a friend who I had lots of fun with. I thought they were great that they were going to be long lasting friend. I had finally made a mew friend after I had raised up my shield around me in. I was so happy to have gotten a new friend but they treated me like an item with an expiration date and I had gone past that date. My use for her was gone. She didnt need me anymore. No matter how hard I tried I never became useful for her anymore. Left me for the friends i had introduced her to. And even tried to separate me from them.
@@zarcul1919 You- just explained my life rn I'm from the UK England specifically where friends make fun of you on a daily and there is no limits on the jokes it's the English banter, I'm year 10 (I think that's the 11th grade in US) back in year 8 (9th grade prolly) I was I guess one of the 'popular kids' relatively popular majority of people knew who I was I made a friend in the new year I never had so much fun in my life with him we had a solid friendship group about 3-5 *close* friends (I had loads of other friends but I had a couple that were really close) anyway we had the most fun ever and during year 9 the lockdown happend I didn't really speak to my friends that often but the lockdown goes into another year (year 10) and I've seen that my close friends just started hanging out together and just left me and decided to make another group with 3 more people (those 3 people left since they had a fallout and a fight) and during year 9 I made a really close friend who we both know the 3-5 people (my old friends) do we decided to hang out with them again but it's not the same anymore, anyway thanks for reading my comment I usually don't comment but your comment really meant something to me thanks.
Literally my " friend " always talks about how she's such a good friend all the heckn time, she takes my snacks on the bus and always finds something about me to criticize
One of my friends does think of something bad about me every day. They say bad things about how I act or how I look. One thing she is good about is she is funny around me in a good way. Is she toxic or just a normal friend?
Julie Kan yes that's definitely a sign!! i had a friend who would always do that,, they're trying to make you feel worse, so that either you follow their every word, or you do what they want,, leave that friendship !!! good luck bb,, it'll be hard at first but it'll be ok i promise
Yes, that is a sign. I have a friend like that. She's very controlling. She is unemployed and takes it personal when I don't get back to her in what she thinks is a timely manner over things that aren't important. And she tries to make me feel guilty about it. She's super insecure.
I always feel like I’m too clingy, with a certain friend (mostly because I have a crush on them), and I always ask if I’m a bad friend. She always says no. But she’s already rejected me, and I hope that she doesn’t realize I still love her with a burning passion.
Wiglet Ko well, think of it this way. If you don’t think of them as a good friend, are they even your friend? It seems to be a one sided relationship. I say you just finish the friendship. If you try, good luck, hope they don’t snap at you.
@@matersven actually I don't want to be my *fake friend's* bff...but I have no other chance and she is the only on with me...she hates I hate her... But everyone thinks that we are true friend
I understand it’s hard because you start thinking about the good memories, but think about the bad memories and if you’ve had more good or bad with them. And if the bad is over powering the good that’s a sign that something is wrong.
I have these four friends.....they don't treat me right, make fun of me, talk behind my back , we don't have the same intrests and ect..... But if I hang out with only one of the four friends...they start being nicer.... I really feel like they're toxicating me..... At the same time a have these 2 girls that are super nice to me, we share the same interests and hobbys..... I sometimes hang out with them....but when I do...my toxic friends become even meaner....I just want to end the friendship and start over....and maybe be friends with those 2 girls....... The only reason I hang out with the four friends is because we used to be BFF's in primary school... EDIT: I left the toxic friends! I became friends with the two other girls!~
Here’s a tip. Act like you don’t care about them. Eventually it becomes the truth. Find new friends. Focus on them. If they say anything just be like “oh yeah I have these new cool friends”. They’ll realize that they should’ve been nicer and either act right or stay the same. You might lose them, but they weren’t worth keeping them. Don’t however, start trying to reverse the situation by trying to make them feel bad. Just let them realize how they’re being bad friends and if they trually care they’ll change. Nothing pisses people or a bully more then when they realize they aren’t irrelevant or don’t have the power over you.
I hang with the ones I got cuz.... They're my way of finding that temporary happiness, whether it's a kickback or whatever... But the real question is, is it really worth it?
This video just confirmed everything that I’ve been thinking for the past ten years . But I rather have fake friends than no friends at all . It’s really sad how depressed I am .
I got a whole bunch of toxic friends! They always made me feel miserable and in the beginning, I though it was my fault. I would apologize for literally everything, even if it wasn't my fault. They would blame me, talk behind my back, never forgive me and never remember me for who I am, for my personality and for the big heart I have, always for my mistakes. They were never there for me... I recently found out that they have been cussing at me for absolutely no reason... I have always treated everyone as sweet as I could, I'd stay hours and hours on my phone checking on them, making sure every single one of them were ok after a fight or an issue. I'd get no sleep trying to make everyone happy and cool with each other again, and the list goes on. I just wish they cared about me as much as I cared about them... they truly shattered my heart...
Your story is similar to mine. I once had a friend last year and i realised that he wasn't even an actual friend, he was nothing but a judgemental freak who spent his life sending hateful comments on the internet, especially to me and my trustful friends.
I'm really sorry, I can relate to you. I wanted to be sweet and always be there for my friends but I don't think they would appreciate it, that they just wanted abandon me, or they just don't care about me.
The day before yesterday my best friend at school called me an "ugly disgusting freak" for not doing a dare she said. She's manipulative and she always makes up fights for little things. Definitely considering our friendship. Tysm for making this video Psych2Go
Skylar if you feel that you are suffering in any way because of her then don't hesitate to slam the door or at least talk about it to her. Don't be afraid of anything stay strong!
Skylar if they're toxic, then you dont owe them anything. Best thing for you would be to stop being friends or at least tell her why shes toxic and have a talk. Maybe she can be a better friend if you talk to her about it in depth. Just my guess. But if she doesn't change then cut the cord, you shouldn't have to deal with a toxic friend
Skylar just remember that people like these make us feel like we are nothing but that is not true. I am sure that you are a strong person because talking about a matter like this itself requires a lot of strength so be proud of yourself!
i am the toxic one.. i got jealous everytime she hung out with others.. i wish her to be all mine.. i got jealous of what she achieved and have.. . the fact that she never told me i’m toxic hurts me
I feel like everyone can be a little toxic I’m kinda like what you should I don’t like it when the only people I know hang out with others and leave me all alone I get jealous, I want my friends to be my friends and my friends only I don’t like hearing about there other friends cause there not mine I get annoyed cause of it and I just want a friend were they have no other friends so I can be there only friend cause it seems so nice that way, I sometimes get jealous of other peoples achievements because well I’m not sure I just do I don’t think many realize it I wish I could stop but it’s just who I am
@@zed481 yeah nobody’s perfect and yeah hopefully it will change maybe with some work and it’s good to be self aware of your toxic traits😗 hope you have a nice day sis🦊
@@zed481 it’s ok, I totally feel like that also. Since I was a little girl I’ve never liked the groups of 3, every best friend I have had in my life stopped talking to me because they replaced me with someone else, I’ve always been like that with my friends and I know it’s wrong but I can’t prevent it, deep inside it hurts me a lot, and I don’t have much friends so I’m scared to loose them for the same reason.
@@emy2248 honestly i was as well stuck as the third wheeler in any group. so i get u on that. being friends with two other people that seem to always hang out and relate more to one another, leaving u out really sucks.
:{ Im crying right now... my best friend is almost all of these... since i havnt updated yall im not friends with her i hate her shes so dramatic over everything i hang out with another friend she gets salty. Edit: ur cool
Watching this after crying about that person. I’m just so sick of being used and mistreated like this when I’m the only one who’s trying. I know I deserve better. I hope everyone watching this who realized just like me that their friend is toxic gets out of that friendship. It’s not easy I get that. I haven’t even done it yet but I hope to. Best luck to you all. Involve the people who actually like you for you around you cause you’re awesome. Don’t let anyone use you. Do what makes you happy
Me: *Realises that I have a toxic friend* Me: *Realises that I talk behind her back because she's toxic* Am I the toxic? Edit: Omg I have never got any replies or this many likes before! Thank u!
@@gaeltepale3189 To be honest, I don't Know, my friend hurt me once and said she didn't care, and she would try to make me feel bad at times, but i talk bad about her because she is very rude to me, so I think u should deside if I am toxic or if my friend is toxic
I have a kind of “friend” that I’ve been best friends for years, but he is showing signs of being toxic now. I don’t have many friends and I can’t tell if he’s worth hanging around. We have both grown together and learned a lot. He is making me feel better since I don’t have other friends, but also worse because i feel like he’s bringing me down a lot
Cheyenne Felix Keeping someone around just because they're your only "friend" can really damage your self esteem. I believed for many years that I couldn't find other friends because no one else would tolerate me like my "friend" did. It's better to have no friends than a toxic one, in my opinion. You should try to confront him, especially if he wasn't like that before. He might not realize it and needs to hear from you about the person he's becoming. I regretted not confronting my ex friend when I suddenly cut ties with them.
Cheyenne Felix try to spend some time alone and do what you like so that you can understand and appreciate yourself in a better way. And you should try to make new friends because toxic friends like to limit the number of friends their victims have and you should also talk to someone else like a family member about this.
All of these apply to me, however, I devoted so much time to that one friend that I have nobody else to turn to. I'm legit thinking of going to a therapist. She has been my best friend since kindergarten and I feel less close to her every day, she won't even tell me what I did wrong if I did something wrong. She ignores me when I try to talk to her to try to right my wrongs. Thank you so much for this video!
Gabriele Genota Hi, I'm glad you have feelings...Of course you have feelings and that's great to know. Maybe you should consider other's feelings, too. Have a great day:) I wish you the best.
@@nostalgia3283 The reason I watch these is because I want to fix myself in order to mend a shattered friendship. Seeing that people would nonchalantly "remove" friends upsets me. It feels like the value of a "friend" is little to none.
@@macaronimacaroon7608 thx for responding no just dont worry be yourself always never belive when somebody tells you you changed or something like that that is a manipulating technique just stay same i think u are good friend i you search videos like this
A few years ago I realized that I'm a really toxic person but I didn't know what I could do to make myself better so I've been cutting people off, I think this was a good choice because this way no one gets hurt, if I phase out of there life subtly soon they'll forget about me and that makes me feel more confident in doing that
The world is cruel but there are people who are always there for you... God, family, and people that could relate. Good and evil is created from the flow of this world. Just remove that attachment and learn to forgive others not for everything that they have done but for yourself by accepting that it happened and that it happens for important reasons... what is the need of hating if it won't help you? The brain is doing it's best to survive take care of it!
Same here and is heart-breaking and hard when you realize it and cut them off, because..when I had to do it, I felt the worst and most ungrateful person on the planet but within time I realize that it was the best decision despite sometimes feeling a void
Laermira2005 that can happen! toxic friends will notice if you’re trying to distance yourself from them & manipulate you into thinking they’re an actual friend through attention. it’s sadly pretty common practice
Man I’m early! I’ve had the most toxic friend she was a liar a manipulative person and everything here points out what she did. She’s moved and I’m grateful and I found friendships that are healthy and perfect it’s a dream come true this really helped me!
I’m sat here crying because every time I’m with my friend we laugh and have so much fun but now I’ve just found out she was back chatting shit about me and one of my other friends screenshoted her story on insta and it said “Gay weirdo” “Freak” “Go see a doctor” “Get help” Just because I suffer from ADHD might mean I get hyper but I didn’t know she thought that about me 🥺. If I dump her she’ll just chat even more shit about me and more people will see. The worst part is I actually viewed her as my friend and cared about her but if she dosent think that about me what’s the point ☹️
End that friendship. Ignore what other people might be saying about you, and *stand up for yourself.* Don’t let them make you feel down, they don’t deserve your loyalty and kindness! They will realise that they have lost such a great and a caring friend. Move on and make some new friends, hopefully they will be better than the one you have ❤️❤️
@@higu456 i have a “friend” and i have a good friend. the good friend is friends with the “friend”. When “friend” talks about me good friend tells it to me :)
This hurts so much, because this describes my situation 100%. He's just like the toxic, so-called "friend" in this video. He's no longer my boyfriend, and he probably never was; he's just a very cruel person. I have to let him go.
Thanks for this video. I recently got into an argument with a friend and didn't know if I was being the toxic one. My friend claimed I was shoving everything i was saying into his face when I was trying to explain things from my perspective and wasn't trying to harm him with any message that would come off as something bad again. Now I know I'm in a toxic friendship from all the past experience from the 3 year friendship.
*WARNING: THIS IS LONG!!* Some of my friends are toxic friends. Two years ago my friends (and someone who’s a toxic friend) played a prank on me and I didn’t like it. I started crying and told off them. They NEVER got in trouble. A year later I became they’re friend (the one who is toxic) and she was a nice person at first. Later on she totally ignored me and never listened to anything I said. They always used to gossip and say stuff like: “Look at that person, she’s as thin as a stick! Hahaha!” “Eww, that person is disgusting.” This year they keep on talking about that prank and they want to snitch on me 😿. One day I bought a little container of blueberries from the morning and I wanted to share some with my brother. I got them out of my bag and bought them into the playground. They said “What’s that??” And I said: “blueberries” My friends wanted them so I gave them a few before I went to my brothers. However, my friends (who are greedy) wanted more. They kept on taking some from the container. I said that you had to say please to get some. They were being stupid. They said “Please” took a few and stuffed them into they’re mouths like they were running away. They kept on saying “Please” and before you know it the pack of blueberries were gone. They were really greedy and I’d hardly had any so I was really sad. I started shouting at them. They said that I was stingy and they one who was greedy. This was one year ago. Now they’re talking about puberty and growing (you-know-what). I really don’t like it because we should just enjoy ourselves the way we are already. They keep on talking about periods as well. I told them that we don’t have to worry about it because we are young. They now ignore me in they’re conversations and don’t let me have freedom. My toxic friend always wanted attention when we were on trips and cried if I weren’t they’re partner. This only happened when my mum volunteered for the trips (I wanted her to come anyways). She cried. My mum said that she was a bit spoilt. It’s true. For my bday I wanted to have a party. I’m not gonna have one this year. I didn’t want my toxic friend to come. But there’s this girl that’s my friend and I wanted her to come to the party. My other friends hate her now. I don’t even know the reason. I don’t want them to start arguing. They don’t care about my friend. I’m going to go to one of my favourite places that I went when I was 7. It was almost 4 years ago. It is this play place and it’s really cool. Anyways, back to the story. I am a bit happier now because it’s the last year of school before secondary (don’t worry about my not being 13, my parents know what cringe videos I upload). I really don’t want to be in the same school as my friends as I want to make new friends on my own. Luckily, my mum’s signed up for some grammar and private schools (I have to do a test and if I pass I can get in). There’s one that I really like because they’ve got good art and DT things do it’ll be the perfect place for me. My friends are not bothered to do 11+ only a few ppl want to here are some of them: - A dirty minded kid - an annoying nerdy kid - more annoying people If I don’t get pass those tests and interviews I’ll be with my friends for another seven years. I’m relieved that this is the last year before I split up with toxic people. Edit: Wow 25 likes in a week! I hardly get any! Update 2nd November 2019: I have moved to a different city now and have made great friends 😊 they are really nice 👍 and I didn’t pass that test but did another one and got in!
Well, that turns out good for you, but I would still look out for more toxic people, there are still some out there that are maybe even worse! …Can I tell you something? There -> Answer of „Where?“ // „Where is it?“ - „There.“ They‘re -> They are. // „How are they?“ - „They are fine.“ („They‘re fine.“) Their -> Shows you, that this belongs to somebody. // „Who‘s schoolbag is this?“ - „It‘s theirs.“ I know, I know, I‘m german, english isn‘t my motherlanguage, blah blah blah. Well, this just kinda annoyed me (not that hard, but still), and I just wanted to tell you this, and I think I explained it right. 😅
The Unicorn are you British as I have a friend who goes to a grammar school and I thought they were only an English thing and with that grammar (no offence) is pretty bad.
Lucky everything you said about you happened to me except I'm a guy and well we all know what they love to talk about. Honestly I hope they either change or I'm forced to not be their friend. You know where you don't want to like them but for some reason you Do that happens to me. Lol I just had express my feeling out the internet. Bye
THROUGHOUT THIS VIDEO EVERY SECOND I JUST THINK OF: Hey this reminds me off *blank* Hey thats what *blank* does! This video is bringing up alot of things relating to *blank* Anybody else?
Yea, I had searched this up because of a certain friend. I wanted to know if "yea they're actually a toxic friend" because they're still good friends with some of my other friends and I'm worried that shes also gonna do the same to them. Sad thing is one of them is too nice to leave her. But it also gets me thinking how he can still be friends with her after what she did to me. I basically had an experiation date and it had been past that so she didnt want nor need me anymore so she tried to get rid of me but keep the friends I had introduced her to. And something I hate is how those friends, even after I told them the shit she did they still talk to her and told me to talk it out. And she likes to play victim in all this as well. Acts like a fuking child and looks for excuses.
i used to have a toxic friend a long time ago she never really considered my emotions, and treated me like a toy... just something to put on a shelf and forget about
These videos are so helpful. After this video, I realized I had a fake friend. Me and a true friend resolved the problem. Now me and the fake friend aren’t friends, but we are happier
my friend isn’t there for me during a tough time. all my tough times are from her
i love this
Same I don’t know what to do losing a friendship you saw a bright future in hurts the most
Same
Same :(
this literally describes my life right now
My “friends” call everyone around them toxic but who’s gonna tell them...
Mar ooooo
YESSSSSss
Omg yes.
can we all be friends pls
🥺
👉👈
Bloxy Fam yessss
I wonder if anyone else was thinking about "that one friend"...
lol I know I was
Dian V I was 😖
Dian V like no one else's business. I think we all have that "person".
Yup XD
Oooh yeah, her. :/ god she was such a b-
I know we all thinking about that one person while watching this
sometimes I question myself why am I even friends with her
Yes it is me
@@julieschmidt8481 i’m a boy and I have a friend who met another friend on virtual learning and the friend always been so toxic to me and miles and me are such good friends when that person is not around then Jayden just makes me angry
@@kingtab2742 im Sorry to hear :( that’s not okay
4 people actually, I'm kind of a 5th wheel. Basically I'm glue. 2 seperate friendships that are held together by me. I literally take everything since they all don't see me as a friend. I want to see how they fall when I leave.
10 signs you have a toxic friend
one: you’re watching this video
Well i used to have some... They all abandoned me...
I used to have a small group of friends, then... They all at the same time abandoned me😭
im watching to find out if im the toxic friends even thk theyre never there for me when i need them but im there when they need me
but oh well im the toxic ig.
Nope, I just wanted to make myself a better person for my friends, and some of the signs were totally me.
So true
When your fake friends are your only friends..... Feelsbad
You're not the only one :(
Yep your not alone
same..: (
I hate school tbh..
Mhmm :
@Xxunicornxx _12
im in grade 5 and ITS SUCKKK
Me and my 2 bff used to be a really good friends and have a good relationship with each other..and then..time passed by..year after year,months after months,and day after day,our friendship started to..tear apart..
I was really heart broken when my friend said that she and my other bff are going to make a new group with another friend of mine.WITHOUT TELLING ME...: (
Tbh i just wanted to be homeschooled..
Sad thing is we nearly all searched this up
oof
Nice it’s 69 likes
Yeah :(
:(
:(
10 Signs you have a toxic friend
1. You feel like you can't be your true selft when you're with them.
2. Your communication becomes almost non-existent.
3. They constantly smother you.
4. You feel like you guys are competing against one another.
5. They are'nt considerate of your feelings.
6. They give you a hard time for your mistakes (even when you apologize)
7. They are controlling and try to micromanage you rather than give you advice.
8. Your friendship provides more stress than support.
9. You feequently catch them talking about you behind your back.
10. You forget why the two of you bacame friends in the first place.
my whole friend group is that...
🥲
@@LogjamProductionss yes me too.. i’m just glad there are 2 people in my group who agree with me on this.
@@bluemationz lol i have none
@@LogjamProductionss that's sad :I
“Maybe at one point you guys really were friends, but those days are long gone” Damn...that really hit home.
cause im your home home home home~ sorry i remembered a song
@@iloveuryuishida9919 carat?👀👀
@@shelblzz9584 yES
@@iloveuryuishida9919 YESSS
@@shelblzz9584 YESSSS
All I have is toxic friends. I sit with them at lunch, I get ignored. I follow people around I get ignored. If I was absent one day, it will be a normal day. They want people to feel bad for them. I wish I went back to my old school.
Omg saame
That sounds horrible. Time to shop around for more interesting friends in your school, try joining a club outside school as well. Sometimes you have to try on other people at school til you find a fit.
And watch this czcams.com/video/hmJyWreER7A/video.html
Omg same with me, but I have one true friend and his name is Allah :)
45 percent of my friends are toxic. It’s part of what made high school hard.
SAMEEE
My toxic """friend""" only talks to me when she needs my help.
Get rid of the parasite 👏🏽💯
I have a toxic peer that only texts me when she needs help with schoolwork.
@@birchboom1888 yeah, me too! Otherwise she treats me like crap! 😭😭😭
@@birchboom1888 I have plenty "friends" who call me just for English homework.
omg same here
Most people think the worst thing is a cut or a scratch, but what really hurts the most is watching someone you made memories with turn into a memory
Then that same memory that told you to get lost 5 years ago invites you to their wedding so you can make more memorys of a memory that didn't want to remember you, isn't that memorable. Sorry that's what I'm going through right now😳
Yeah
Hear ya. The same feeling of loss you feel when dealing with death...
True. IMO, emotional pain hurts much more than physical pain. I never cry at physical pain, but sometimes I do at emotional pain.
Accurate for me
Everyone here watching this to see if their friends are toxic while I’m here to make sure I’m not the problem.. :(
Me too
Imgoingtobed sogoaway they also posted a video about signs your becoming toxic
Same...
Yeah I'm a human but in a toxic friendship/relationship the person makes YOU feel like you’re the toxic person when in reality they wanna see you crash and burn
Same
I think that even if your friend doesn't show all of these signs, the fact that you are watching this and thinking about them is a sign big enough to tell you to move on.
Good point!
Damn
Aha. Nobody watches such videos just for fun.
Marcela Balan Some do, but if you look up signs of abuse, then you no longer need to ponder if the person at hand is bad for you. Of course some watch it for fun.
I actually dropped some people a few days ago.
They just weren't worth the trouble
"I don't need friends, they disappoint me"
HA same
me in childhood: fuck, i wish i had friends
me now: thank GOD i have non and wish i never get any
@amir talat i kinda feel bad for you
@@Frank-ln1td to be honest, there are no such thing as friends in this world, because eventually they either become your rivals OR straight up betray you.
i was always lonely for 12 years of school
once i got into the university i thought i would change that, and i did, i got popular and had A TON of friends, i was indeed happy until reality hit me hard, some of them are gonna use you, others will secretly hate you, others betray you and some even become your enemy and expose your secrets to every single enemy out there.
im now finishing the university which in total was 6 years, and in those 6 years of my life i basically had Game of Thrones in real life.
thats why i never consider anyone a friend anymore, neither i even use this word anymore.
@amir talat that’s really sad I hope you find someone you can trust one day tho!
My daughter sent this to me this yesterday and she came up to me crying because she realize that her best friend was the exact person that you described and then she let go of her and it hurt her but today she feels Better now thank you
Did you let stop being friends with or did you make her shut up and stay with her? Is it just my parents or?
my friend is really nice but I shifted school since then she got a new friend and she hanouts either her every weekend and I don't have any new friend in this school and that makes me insecure ....I don't know what to do
@neet prep Hey! Fellow student here! My advice for you is to go out and talk to people. You are bound to make at least one friend in your school. About your old friend, it’s best to just let go of it. If she was truly your friend, she would at least try to keep up on social media.
@@grandwood2795 yeah I am trying to meet new people but since I took gap year it's a little difficult ....and about my old friend I agree on what u said ....btw thanks ...means a lot 🙂🙂
@neet prep Oh, anytime! I’ve kinda been in the same situation as you at some point. I just wanted to give some advice!
Today I’m going to end my friendship with my toxic best friend... I’m so scared but I need to do this for my mental health.
Good luck❤️
How did it go??
I got rid of my toxic best friend today. And dont get me wrong. You will feel so much better and free. When I got rid of my toxic best friend today, I dont feel like I'm trapped, I dont feel like her puppet. I feel like I cut the puppet strings, and escaped her toxic prison. And I feel amazing.
@@carlsanderson3285 so brave i have a toxic friend and i don't know how to end it
@@infiresman8743 all I did was go up to her face and tell her how rude and toxic she has been to me. And then I told her I couldn't handle her anymore, I told her I was done and I needed to be free and move on without her. She later tried getting me back and I said "no! I can't handle you anymore. You are too toxic" hopefully that helped. If not, I'm sorry. I've never been the best at helping people...
Aight..
I’m ending my friendship with them.
I ain’t taking chances
Same i end my friendship with my terrible fake friend i'm ignoring and avoiding them however one of her friend is very kind to me
But i'm so lucky that i found a friend she is very kind and giving me a wonderful advice☺
Same for me. I can't take any memes of torture any longer, my friend's stating the things I already known (like when I said I run fast as sonic the hedechog, it was a joke but he took it seriously and said "you ain't supposed to run at school" which I could of said stop stated the obvious but I said nothing and just sighed about it. He takes a lot and I mean A LOT of things seriously and giving his opinions even though I didn't asked him to do that. ), and his big obsession of memes and fire emblem (he only talks about memes, Smash bros, and fire emblem which is just boring. If you have to deal with a person talking about the same thing every day, then you will probably be annoyed by this person. And this is what I'm feeling annoyed every single time I come to sit with him in the bus. But you maybe saying, "You can just change seats." No it doesn't work in school dismissal because I try to go to the back of the line of my bus but he freaking just holds the freaking doar and goes to me realy?! I am just get unhappy when he has to sit with me in the bus because I need my peace and he gets all the room in the seat and I get squished in my seat, which is not comfortable at all.) He also goes and whispers stuff and repeats it again and again which is annoying to hear. I even get headakes every single day for even thinking of him. I dont want to do anything with him anymore. I'm just done with him. I'm can't take any of this crap with him any longer. And Orian Escoon (the dude I talked about) if you are here reading this comment (which is 99.9 percent not cuz he only watches meme videos and smash bros videos unless I bring it up.) I don't mean to hurt your feelings. I just thinked that we can just not be hanging out like at all and find different people. When I first saw you I jut thought I had a person simular to me but it ain't true. You are just a 13 year old kid who watches a bunch of memes, smg4,and smash bros directs, and draw some fire emblem stuff that I don't care about.
I'm just saying that Orian is this dude who is a not good friend and I don't want to be a friend to this dude.
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Username XAX with that pfp, I can’t take you seriously-
I want to end mine but if I do I’ll lose all my other friends
@@saryjackson7705Why do you lose all of your friends all for just a one that is a no good friend? Is the rest the same as the bad friend?
Can't have toxic friends when you don't have any friends
😎
Newby Ton not true. Having toxic friends made me not have any.
i Didn't have friends also like you.
@@rezaulkaiser685 okay
@@rezaulkaiser685 okay
That so sad
The absolute hardest thing about having a toxic “friend” is that when you try to stay away from them or move on them they pay attention to you but then it goes back to them using you as a door mat and it makes it even more difficult when they are your only friend
Not the one I've fell out with. I've blocked him and moved on because he revealed his true colours one night and if he comes to front door I will physically remove him off my property.
Me : *realizes I had a toxic friend for 7 years*
Also me : ah crap....
pat boi Yea same but it‘s 8 years for me ):
pat boi same but mine is 3 and a half years
Don't jump to conclusions just because you saw a youtube video
9 years for me :(
@@nava2279 i had gf year ago she was really cute and we had nice time but After that she starts to be bad i didint relise that even After she broke up with me but now i relise that i am not bad guy 😂☑️
11. They always put thier burden on you...
Ohhhh my gosh yes
Yep, true. My friend does that.
Edit: my mom is now dealing what that kid, she ain’t my friend anymore.
Edit 2: with* (Sorry autocorrect)
True
my friend does this all the time!!
NatCon Productions 12. They abandon you..
Me:**_Realize that I have a toxic friend_**
Also Me: *_SOOO..... What now ?!?!_*
NAWlovley 96 i can relate to this so bad lmao, my friend of 12 years is rlly toxic, no wonder im rlly tired around her or even at the thought of her. And the funny things is ...i just realized that now hahaha
id gaf *_Stop knocking on a closed door .. if u looked behind u you'll find so many open doors ... leave ur friend and go make some new friends and hangout and have fun and live ur life no matter how much u love ur toxic friend ... but for sure u love ur selfmore and u deserve so much better I did that and I made some new friends and now I 'm living the best moments of my life..... RETIRE WHAT HURTS U_*
Make a new one
\/(-“)\/
How do I end my friendship without hurting the toxic friend? I feel as if she needs me more than she wants me. She is really rude to me and she makes me buy her lunch for lunch. I give her gifts on her birthday and other days, but she isn't greatful. When I got alot of gel pens for her she said she didn't want to carry the bag because it was embarrassing! I almost cried. I just hate her so much. Please help!
I got 7/10.. and whenever she feels like she doesn’t get her way she always calls me mean things and makes me feel bad..
Be honest with her. If she does things to you that makes you feel uncomfortable just tell her that you don't like what she is doing and that she should stop that.
What the comment above me said ^^ If she doesn't change her ways, then DROP her. You don't need that in your life, there's plenty of good people out there that you haven't met yet.
Ik how you feel. I feel trapped tbh
It's incredible that I had to come here just to figure out ONE person.
Omg Same
me too
@@kamryn604 Me too...
Yeah..
Nehuen same :(
when your “best friend” does all of these😔 Edit: thank you for all the likes and support! I decided to make new friends and not hang out with her anymore and I’m so much happier. If you have a toxic friend please don’t stay with them. I have learned that I should’ve left earlier before more damage was done. 💗💗
@@rotecher mine too
Same 😥
I am too😔 Your not the only one who felt that....
Same, I don’t know how to leave her, I have couple mental health problems such as PTSD, BPD etc. and I have a huge fear of losing someone I’m close with
Yeaah :
U aint gonna have friendship problems....
If u dont have friends at the first place
Solo is the way.
that's advice right there
fooxx thefox true, but you have one problem: You’re lonely as heck!
Lol true
YESSSS #SHYANDPATHETICINTROVERTS4LOFE
I had a very toxic friend when I was 7, who forced be to bully other kids, laugh at them, and would constantly tell me I wasn't good enough, and couldn't go anywhere without her.
I was 7 and didn't know it had a name. All I knew is I didn't want to be part of this anymore.
So I was a loner for the next 2 years.
I got new friends though!
B: best
F: fake
F: friend
B - Bitchy
Idk about that chief
Maybe for some ppl
Rozel Bernardino no u XD
BFF
True ;(
I've stayed in a toxic friendship for a long time,afraid to let go because I keep thinking I'll have nobody else as a friend but once I did it was such a relief like a heavy burden being lifted off my shoulder
im in the same situation but i do have real friends that do care abt me but it’s rlly hard for me to stay in touch :(
EXACTLY !!!
Same
THEUPSIDEDOWN I once dated a guy like that. It was total chaos. He would be rude to me every now and then, and overall a bit toxic everyday and I wouldn't notice. We dated for 3 months. At the 2nd month I started to feel awful and my mental health got worse because of him and a bunch of other toxic people. I thought if I left him, nobody would want me. When I was still dating him, at the 3rd month, I fell in love for someone else. The guy was super nice, single and looking for a girl. After a couple days, the guy I was in love with started to date another girl and I felt like I lost a huge opportunity because I was still dating my toxic ex. If I had the guts to jump off of the boat sooner, I'd be dating the love of my life now. As for today, I'm single and I'm happier than I ever was when I dated that toxic loser.
Maybe I should, too...
*OOF... when your best friend is the toxic friend.*
And all of a sudden they wanna hang out, you have the time of your life, then the next day they go back to being toxic and you don’t know what to do? ;(
Mood.
I dont even know if I'm toxic or my best friend is honestly. Gets me all sad, he wouldn't care though.I have may have done some things that may have hurt him alot but i apolagize and tried to help him but I feel like nothing is enough
And my mom has told me to cut him out of my life because I have done harmful things to myself because of somethings he did, but I always say he will get better because he is really one of the best people I ever known so far
Same
Worst part is when only very few people knows they are toxic, and they really act all nice to others, so all that abuse felt like it never happened
0:40 screw my friend, I’m gonna go see Wizards vs Jedi
FandomTrash93 YAAAA
😂
Yup, me too!
Me too I will buy a lot of popcorn
I know right? I'm going to see Wizards vs Jedi!
one of my friends is incredibly toxic, however, i cant cut ties or they'll send their friends after me and literally start a witch hunt. talking to them is so exhausting, you have no idea. they constantly put me down and show more than half the signs in this video.
ski Toxic can mean anything, that's the problem with society nowadays. The points explained in this video can be linked to narcissism, sociopathy and psychopathy.. If you know anyone who suffers from those personality disorders, the best thing to do would be to run for the hills and don't think twice about it. I hope that you manage to cut the ties and free yourself. I hope that this comment helped you ☺☺
@@harrisonogarro8873 oh my, thank you for clearing that up for me. and yes, your reply has helped me! and i, once again, thank you.
ski I'll give your channel a sub too, can you sub to mine? If you ever need help, then just send me a message on Hangouts (hogarro174@gmail.com)
That's not your friend fam.
I recently just cut ties with my best friend who had been a major part of my life for literally 10 years. She became incredibly toxic and made me become the same way. I couldn't handle her anymore. I knew I was being toxic as well but I started not to care at one point. I felt guilty though. Like I had no reason to be angry at her. To want to cut ties. So I didn't leave. She had an abusive father and the only reason I didn't leave was because I knew she would be broken without me. I was her only friend and she was my only friend too. Whenever I told her I couldn't handle her she would start crying and just ask what she did to me. That girl completely ruined me as a person. Ruined my self esteem until I had none of it left. And she would ask me "why would you leave after all these years?"
I probably seem like the bad guy here but.. she left me so many times. Too many times to count. Whenever she would find something else to keep her happy she would leave me.
And that's ultimately what drove me to my breaking point. She left me again for her other friends, knowing very well she was the only friend *I* had. It's funny, how before she cried not wanting me to leave her. And then when she finally got what she wanted.. popularity and tons of friends. She didn't need me anymore. She blocked me and I told her to never talk to me again.
I cried alot after that but I'm just letting you know it gets better. It hurts alot at first (especially if you've been friends with them for a really long time) but after a week or so I was so happy. I felt so free. I may not have any friends anymore but it really is better to have no friends at all then to have a friend who ruins your self esteem, brags, lies, etc.
Or who exhausts you in which I can relate. This was supposed to be some friendly advice but I'm pretty sure I just mostly ranted XD. I needed to get that off my chest tbh. So if you read this then thanks lol
This is literally the only friendships I've had, my friends have never texted or called 1st, it's always me who starts any conversation and then we never hang out
Devin West I am very much the same. Only once in a blue moon will they call or text first. And usually they don’t respond to my texts
Same. They only want to hang out if I pay shit for them or if they get free stuff, which is basically the same thing.
Leah Spangler
Same here, I'm really hoping all this will change once I get to college
Devin West same but for when I get to high school
Leah Spangler
Well let's hope we find people who genuinely care for us. Good luck
Having no friends and watching this hits kinda different
whats thate thing they say? its like have good friends other then alot of fake friends
Trust me, having toxic ftiends hurts more than that
1- “you don’t feel your true self with them”
Me: oh so all my friends are toxic now
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In my opinion, it's better to have no friends than a toxic friend
agreed
and i have no friends
You couldn’t be more right
DayuZ agreed
DayuZ
Indeed.
Now in this quarantine, I began to realized that all the “friends” I have they are really not my friends more like I am friends with them but they aren’t friends with me.
I KNOW RIGHT!
@Villet Chuckie Damn, that sucks, I hope life gets better for you. And the people that treated you badly experience the same suffering one day.
My friends hardly talk to me anymore
Guess I kinda understand though, the pandemic and all
it can be an eyeopener.
Same😭I'm literally the only one (from "our" "group ") who is trying to not lose our friendship. I'm trying to socialize with them(not in person, but through phone) and then there are they.. Who I guess doesn't care about me at all. .. That makes me so sad. And.. I think I don't have friends.. Until someone need a homework 🙄😭. And I hate myself for sending them my homeworks, but when I don't do that I feel super bad, and I think that I'm the worst friend ever. But then again.. How am I the bad one if they are texting me just when they need something from me..
I am always searching for my problem.. What I do wrong, what I did wrong or whatever.. Because I think that maybe I'm the problem.. Maybe I'm just stupid idiot who.. I don't know, ask too much?? Well.. I mean I want just to have friend by my side.. And to know that they need me and they talk to me, not just listen to my problems and ignore everything.. I want to feel like I am needed by someone. I don't know maybe I'm just really asking too much and no one has that kind of friendship.. Maybe friendship that I have is normal?
I'm sorry I just needed to let out my thoughts somewhere..
I don't think my friend is toxic, but lately I started making new friends and got more confident, and when I tell her it just seems to bother her, knowing I used to have trouble making friends, she sees my new friends as ''competition''
I have real friends, but I also have toxic ones. I hate that they think that they can control me just because I'm an introvert and also hate conflicts. And I try to be there for them always, when they have problems, but when I need somebody, everyone disappears. :(
Black Rose I know how that feels and it hurts a lot you should probably try to get new friends that you know you can trust good luck have a nice day
You are not alone. Also if you are one type of human that wants everyone to feel good i understand you((( sometimes it hurts and you get stressed but try to put boundaries. But if they don't get them and make fun of it - be more rude( sometimes it os the only way). Only when i was no more afraid of what will they think or feel about me i could say "No" to them. Of course sometimes it is not that easy but always think that your emotional health is more important, you cannot please everyone, even more, you shouldn't please people because those who love you the way you are will understand your alone time and will not change their mind about you no matter of your boundaries are, they will accept it and not harm you intentionally🤗🤗🤗🤗It happened to me.
I feel ya
Black Rose YOU ARE DESCRIBING MY EXACT SITUATION
Black Rose :/ this is the most relatable comment I ever read lol
when your "best friend" meets every single one of these 😔
Ravenclaw Randomness same here. and there’s been a romantic element off and on. she toys w that often. It’s hard to figure out the best option.
My best friend we have been best friends for four years and she is almost all of these oof
Oh my gosh mine did. I got rid of her today, I feel so much better
haha same..
soysha I’m here if you need anything
My friend refuses to listen. She constantly asks for help, but never listens. She trash talks and can’t handle trash talk aimed toward her. She puts in no effort. Because of this, my anxiety gets worse. She always talks about her problems and never lets us talk about our problems. So this caused my problems with self worth to become even worse.
I really just wanted to rant
I had this too I know how you feel :/
Get rid of that bitchh
Ik how you feel, I once had a toxic friend that used to be really nice to me until she turned our friend group into a wolf pack and made herself alpha, she then started treating me worse and worse until it came to a point where she was the cause of my depression and suicidal wishes. She moved schools though ^~^ I rant about this all the time and idk why but I feel like crying rn
Angelina Kim yeah that sucks.My friend ich makes me feel like im the younger and he is the older.He acts like he is my dad.AND IM WAY STRESS.He even says this was how i treat my father.
Bro same here, my friend just needs to stfu like damn
The toxic "friend" of mine only remembered me in time of needs, taking credit for all that I helped her with. I didn't think much of it at first, but it just got too much to the point she would start ignoring me when she wasn't satisfied with my help....it took a while but I could finally distance myself from her.
Sign 11
They talk and gossip about other people to *you*
they could just be a gossip
And definitely they talk about you with others
I can relate
Oh.. well um me and my friend gossip about other people sometime xD
Ya plus she’s controlling mean selfish and won’t give back MY toys because she wants to keep them and she says she forgot!
11. They are manipulators
12. They put their burden on you
13. *THEY SUCK*
fake friends: haha I'm the worst
Toxic friends: *hold my Toxicity 100% beer*
I am the toxic friend or was?
I have tried changing which is working pretty well in my opinion.
....that makes me feel bad.
My friends are toxic and fake
Soooo what do I win?
Epic
"haha i am the worst" i heard that from my gf After she changes 😂☑️i feel nice really i was thinking that i am the bad guy
My friend (well fake friend and hes toxic) is annoying as hell
*Signs you have a narcissistic friend*
I’ve ended a16 year old friendships… it’s absolutely heartbreaking 💔 especially when you’re in your 40 with no other friends… but it was toxic, abusive and needed to be end… I know it will take time to heal but i need to do it for my own mental health
U know ur friend is real when they send u wholesome memes any time you show any act of sadness
I want to like but then your likes will no longer be '69'.
yes
Yubbb like me 😂☑️now i don't really love memes that much becauce i practice volleyball
dort rice worst is when you think your real friend is the toxic one and turns your acts of sadness to their acts of laughter and negativity, fun and entertainment.
lmao my friend just says "oof" or completely ignores me
"Maybe at some point you guys really were friends but those days are long."
This line tore my heart right apart because that's exactly how I feel about one my friends
Yess, that one line, that one line reall hit close to home with me. I had a friend who I had lots of fun with. I thought they were great that they were going to be long lasting friend. I had finally made a mew friend after I had raised up my shield around me in. I was so happy to have gotten a new friend but they treated me like an item with an expiration date and I had gone past that date. My use for her was gone. She didnt need me anymore. No matter how hard I tried I never became useful for her anymore. Left me for the friends i had introduced her to. And even tried to separate me from them.
@@zarcul1919 You- just explained my life rn I'm from the UK England specifically where friends make fun of you on a daily and there is no limits on the jokes it's the English banter, I'm year 10 (I think that's the 11th grade in US) back in year 8 (9th grade prolly) I was I guess one of the 'popular kids' relatively popular majority of people knew who I was I made a friend in the new year I never had so much fun in my life with him we had a solid friendship group about 3-5 *close* friends (I had loads of other friends but I had a couple that were really close) anyway we had the most fun ever and during year 9 the lockdown happend I didn't really speak to my friends that often but the lockdown goes into another year (year 10) and I've seen that my close friends just started hanging out together and just left me and decided to make another group with 3 more people (those 3 people left since they had a fallout and a fight) and during year 9 I made a really close friend who we both know the 3-5 people (my old friends) do we decided to hang out with them again but it's not the same anymore, anyway thanks for reading my comment I usually don't comment but your comment really meant something to me thanks.
Same
I know how you feel :(
So do I !
Literally my " friend " always talks about how she's such a good friend all the heckn time, she takes my snacks on the bus and always finds something about me to criticize
that 1 feetus Same here... Even though I know it's not true it makes it even harder for me to cut ties with her.
One thing I learned from the past is to avoid the people that always compliments themselves alot.
fekkin
yea same
One of my friends does think of something bad about me every day. They say bad things about how I act or how I look. One thing she is good about is she is funny around me in a good way.
Is she toxic or just a normal friend?
Another sign: They don’t start a cult with you
thats so toxic om my gosh dump them if they dont join your 50 cults
EXACTLY
@@addy225 what should i do?
I know someone who makes me feel guilty even though I didn't do anything wrong. Is that a sign too?
Julie Kan yes that's definitely a sign!! i had a friend who would always do that,, they're trying to make you feel worse, so that either you follow their every word, or you do what they want,, leave that friendship !!! good luck bb,, it'll be hard at first but it'll be ok i promise
@@sieshae thank you!!
Yes, that is a sign. I have a friend like that. She's very controlling. She is unemployed and takes it personal when I don't get back to her in what she thinks is a timely manner over things that aren't important. And she tries to make me feel guilty about it. She's super insecure.
YES!!
yes, but instead of ending the friendship point it out to them and wait and see if they decide to change :)
Im already quite toxic myself....
No this is Patrick same
LyricsVideoZone at least we see we are toxic... Not everyone admits it because they have a huge ego and can't analyze their behaviours.
I always feel like I’m too clingy, with a certain friend (mostly because I have a crush on them), and I always ask if I’m a bad friend. She always says no. But she’s already rejected me, and I hope that she doesn’t realize I still love her with a burning passion.
Mhm same-
And it gets worse because i get clingy-
LilSmol_NyanCake Have you ever asked them about it?
But i also don’t want to end our friendship as she’s my only friend...
Wiglet Ko well, think of it this way. If you don’t think of them as a good friend, are they even your friend? It seems to be a one sided relationship. I say you just finish the friendship. If you try, good luck, hope they don’t snap at you.
This is my same situation!!😓😭
@@devikalal9012 want to be friends
@@matersven actually what do u mean??? 🤔🙂Be friends with my *fake friend* ???🤔🤔 I hate my bff as she is cheating on me...😫
@@matersven actually I don't want to be my *fake friend's* bff...but I have no other chance and she is the only on with me...she hates I hate her... But everyone thinks that we are true friend
I want to end the friendship but we’ve done alot together and when i think about ending the friendship the good memories flood in and i just can’t.
I understand it’s hard because you start thinking about the good memories, but think about the bad memories and if you’ve had more good or bad with them. And if the bad is over powering the good that’s a sign that something is wrong.
This is literally all my friends.…...
Your not the only one :"(
Both of you arent the only one 😭
All of you aren’t the only ones
I can be your friend
OOF Master go find sum new friends
oh...this all speaks my “best friend”..
Same
Same😶
Same :{
Ms Pastel same except I don't talk to my "best friend'' cause anytime I do she makes fun of me and does all of these other things
That's not a best friend 👏🏽💯
I have these four friends.....they don't treat me right, make fun of me, talk behind my back , we don't have the same intrests and ect.....
But if I hang out with only one of the four friends...they start being nicer....
I really feel like they're toxicating me.....
At the same time a have these 2 girls that are super nice to me, we share the same interests and hobbys.....
I sometimes hang out with them....but when I do...my toxic friends become even meaner....I just want to end the friendship and start over....and maybe be friends with those 2 girls.......
The only reason I hang out with the four friends is because we used to be BFF's in primary school...
EDIT: I left the toxic friends!
I became friends with the two other girls!~
Here’s a tip. Act like you don’t care about them. Eventually it becomes the truth. Find new friends. Focus on them. If they say anything just be like “oh yeah I have these new cool friends”. They’ll realize that they should’ve been nicer and either act right or stay the same. You might lose them, but they weren’t worth keeping them. Don’t however, start trying to reverse the situation by trying to make them feel bad. Just let them realize how they’re being bad friends and if they trually care they’ll change. Nothing pisses people or a bully more then when they realize they aren’t irrelevant or don’t have the power over you.
Omg same
Same situation
I hang with the ones I got cuz.... They're my way of finding that temporary happiness, whether it's a kickback or whatever... But the real question is, is it really worth it?
OMG! you're so brave and you did a huge risk but you succeded and I'm so proud of you.
This video just confirmed everything that I’ve been thinking for the past ten years . But I rather have fake friends than no friends at all . It’s really sad how depressed I am .
aww im really sorry I know it can be really hard. I hope you feel better soon
haha, i’m thinking of my “friend” right now
I have depression because my "friend" called me the N word now he tries to befriend me I just ignore him
Same
Me too
Same
I'm thinking of my two close friends in school right now lol
damn this one girl I'm "friends with" does like all of these...smh
What happened? Just checking in on this comment xD
sailxcreature • Same. There's this one guy that always seems kinda off to ke and I never feel like he wants to be friends.
I got a whole bunch of toxic friends! They always made me feel miserable and in the beginning, I though it was my fault. I would apologize for literally everything, even if it wasn't my fault. They would blame me, talk behind my back, never forgive me and never remember me for who I am, for my personality and for the big heart I have, always for my mistakes. They were never there for me... I recently found out that they have been cussing at me for absolutely no reason... I have always treated everyone as sweet as I could, I'd stay hours and hours on my phone checking on them, making sure every single one of them were ok after a fight or an issue. I'd get no sleep trying to make everyone happy and cool with each other again, and the list goes on. I just wish they cared about me as much as I cared about them... they truly shattered my heart...
I feel sad for you... :(
Your story is similar to mine. I once had a friend last year and i realised that he wasn't even an actual friend, he was nothing but a judgemental freak who spent his life sending hateful comments on the internet, especially to me and my trustful friends.
😥
I'm really sorry, I can relate to you. I wanted to be sweet and always be there for my friends but I don't think they would appreciate it, that they just wanted abandon me, or they just don't care about me.
It's like ALL I GAVE YOU IS GONE
The day before yesterday my best friend at school called me an "ugly disgusting freak" for not doing a dare she said. She's manipulative and she always makes up fights for little things. Definitely considering our friendship.
Tysm for making this video Psych2Go
I forgot why I became friends in the first place...
Because I’ve known them for that long.
Same
Me too ive known my friend for 11 years
*looks blankly at all of them*
A I mood
A I im not sure if she's toxic or not
U ok?
I definitely have a toxic friend, but I'm afraid to distance myself because every time I've done that, she gets defensive and reminds me why I owe her
Skylar if you feel that you are suffering in any way because of her then don't hesitate to slam the door or at least talk about it to her. Don't be afraid of anything stay strong!
Skylar if they're toxic, then you dont owe them anything. Best thing for you would be to stop being friends or at least tell her why shes toxic and have a talk. Maybe she can be a better friend if you talk to her about it in depth. Just my guess. But if she doesn't change then cut the cord, you shouldn't have to deal with a toxic friend
Skylar Stay stong... I had been in that kind of situation before. Just be courageous, dont end up like me, tramutised, sad, lonely. Just say no!
Thank you guys very much :)
Skylar just remember that people like these make us feel like we are nothing but that is not true. I am sure that you are a strong person because talking about a matter like this itself requires a lot of strength so be proud of yourself!
i am the toxic one..
i got jealous everytime she hung out with others..
i wish her to be all mine..
i got jealous of what she achieved and have..
.
the fact that she never told me i’m toxic hurts me
I feel like everyone can be a little toxic I’m kinda like what you should I don’t like it when the only people I know hang out with others and leave me all alone I get jealous, I want my friends to be my friends and my friends only I don’t like hearing about there other friends cause there not mine I get annoyed cause of it and I just want a friend were they have no other friends so I can be there only friend cause it seems so nice that way, I sometimes get jealous of other peoples achievements because well I’m not sure I just do I don’t think many realize it I wish I could stop but it’s just who I am
@@LavenderFairy777 gurl- same 😭 i think it’s fine to be a lil toxic but hopefully i’ll change
@@zed481 yeah nobody’s perfect and yeah hopefully it will change maybe with some work and it’s good to be self aware of your toxic traits😗 hope you have a nice day sis🦊
@@zed481 it’s ok, I totally feel like that also. Since I was a little girl I’ve never liked the groups of 3, every best friend I have had in my life stopped talking to me because they replaced me with someone else, I’ve always been like that with my friends and I know it’s wrong but I can’t prevent it, deep inside it hurts me a lot, and I don’t have much friends so I’m scared to loose them for the same reason.
@@emy2248 honestly i was as well stuck as the third wheeler in any group. so i get u on that. being friends with two other people that seem to always hang out and relate more to one another, leaving u out really sucks.
Me: knows i have toxic fake friends but watches these videos anyways
lol same
RandomDraws YT same LOL
Same
same
10 signs that you have a toxic friend.
1. If I’m your friend.
(Slight chuckle)
b e m y f r i e n d
Go away
Turtle Boy *no u*
I can feel the edge from this comment and I'm using Chrome.
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Im crying right now... my best friend is almost all of these...
since i havnt updated yall im not friends with her i hate her shes so dramatic over everything
i hang out with another friend she gets salty.
Edit: ur cool
You are etter than them x
Same here
Bruh, you have a Gacha profile
Same
I'll be your friend
Watching this after crying about that person. I’m just so sick of being used and mistreated like this when I’m the only one who’s trying. I know I deserve better. I hope everyone watching this who realized just like me that their friend is toxic gets out of that friendship. It’s not easy I get that. I haven’t even done it yet but I hope to. Best luck to you all. Involve the people who actually like you for you around you cause you’re awesome. Don’t let anyone use you. Do what makes you happy
Me: *Realises that I have a toxic friend*
Me: *Realises that I talk behind her back because she's toxic*
Am I the toxic?
Edit: Omg I have never got any replies or this many likes before! Thank u!
Olivia Heart good. Give her medicine. See how it feels for her.
In the same boat, whoops 🤷🏻♂️
Yeah, I was thinking about that
Angelica Heart doesnt that make *you* the toxic friend?
@@gaeltepale3189 To be honest, I don't Know, my friend hurt me once and said she didn't care, and she would try to make me feel bad at times, but i talk bad about her because she is very rude to me, so I think u should deside if I am toxic or if my friend is toxic
all of my friends are toxic,without even watching this video i know i’m surrounded by horrible people
My name JeHHff honestly same
My name JeHHff same 😔
me too
If you perceive everyone else as toxic. The problem might be closer to home.
My name JeHHff me too :-(
I have a kind of “friend” that I’ve been best friends for years, but he is showing signs of being toxic now. I don’t have many friends and I can’t tell if he’s worth hanging around. We have both grown together and learned a lot. He is making me feel better since I don’t have other friends, but also worse because i feel like he’s bringing me down a lot
Cheyenne Felix I'd say try and do something about it now, because it'll just get worse and it'll be harder to stop later on but it's your descision
Cheyenne Felix
Keeping someone around just because they're your only "friend" can really damage your self esteem. I believed for many years that I couldn't find other friends because no one else would tolerate me like my "friend" did. It's better to have no friends than a toxic one, in my opinion.
You should try to confront him, especially if he wasn't like that before. He might not realize it and needs to hear from you about the person he's becoming. I regretted not confronting my ex friend when I suddenly cut ties with them.
Cheyenne Felix try to spend some time alone and do what you like so that you can understand and appreciate yourself in a better way. And you should try to make new friends because toxic friends like to limit the number of friends their victims have and you should also talk to someone else like a family member about this.
Cheyenne Felix don’t fall for the sunk cost fallacy!
I personally walked out of the same situation more than a year ago. Friends are not made for life, at least most of them.
All of these apply to me, however, I devoted so much time to that one friend that I have nobody else to turn to. I'm legit thinking of going to a therapist. She has been my best friend since kindergarten and I feel less close to her every day, she won't even tell me what I did wrong if I did something wrong. She ignores me when I try to talk to her to try to right my wrongs. Thank you so much for this video!
Why are we on the same page
god i have so many people to get rid of
Sweetie get rid of them, you don't deserve this treatment, I got rid of mine.
Me and you both lol
@@nostalgia3283 Hi! I'm a toxic friend here.
And I also watch these videos.
And I have feelings.
Thanks
Gabriele Genota Hi, I'm glad you have feelings...Of course you have feelings and that's great to know. Maybe you should consider other's feelings, too. Have a great day:) I wish you the best.
@@nostalgia3283 The reason I watch these is because I want to fix myself in order to mend a shattered friendship.
Seeing that people would nonchalantly "remove" friends upsets me.
It feels like the value of a "friend" is little to none.
Too many snakes in my life
Nadeem Chitaliya a literal quote i made from toy story "THERE'S A SNAKE IN MY GROUP"
This helped realize that I need new friends.
Cia Willhite lets be friend
I wanna stop my friendship with that "friend" but it is hard
me too, but im scared of being alone because that "friend" is the ONLY one i have :(
@@maddy7063 yeah...
*glancing awkwardly at the only two friends I have*
Rabiya Tisekar I'll be your friend instead
Same
Mood
Geo Globe me too!
Rabiya Tisekar
You should watch this video with them to give them a hint :'
YUP I HAVE A TOXIC FRIEND
Edit:thanks for sooo many likes!
*ME TOO*
O o f
layla msp ME TOO
How would you get rid of them it’s just so hars
Same here
I watch these because I'm scared if I am a toxic or not a good friend 😞
dont worry a toxic person would never admit that he/she is toxic
@@randomturk2094 Oh ok, thank you :)
@@macaronimacaroon7608 thx for responding no just dont worry be yourself always never belive when somebody tells you you changed or something like that that is a manipulating technique just stay same i think u are good friend i you search videos like this
Macaroni Macaroon I feel the same... All my friends left me for other groups,I’m scared I’m the one pushing them away...
my two friends bully me on discord and school what makes it worse is that i deal with it everyday and its 2vs 1
A few years ago I realized that I'm a really toxic person but I didn't know what I could do to make myself better so I've been cutting people off, I think this was a good choice because this way no one gets hurt, if I phase out of there life subtly soon they'll forget about me and that makes me feel more confident in doing that
I watch these to see if I'm being a good friend, only to end up questioning my friendship skills.
Me too.. Just found out that I'm a toxic friend she deserves someone better
I don't want to become what I hate.
I guess literally all of my friends are toxic.
Same here i also only found this video because i typed in "how to get new friends" because they were all being assholes
At lease you still have a friend but go find another friend
@@haleigh3950 same here
The world is cruel but there are people who are always there for you... God, family, and people that could relate. Good and evil is created from the flow of this world. Just remove that attachment and learn to forgive others not for everything that they have done but for yourself by accepting that it happened and that it happens for important reasons... what is the need of hating if it won't help you? The brain is doing it's best to survive take care of it!
I am sorry for you
It's wonderful that people argue that are on CZcams helping care so much to watch out for others. I pray you were blessed for all you do. Thank you
This was my ex best friend. Hands down. Every...single thing.
QuirkFrame Industries Same here!
Same but with my current friends
He would ghost you and smother you??!! Wow he sounds bipolar
Same here and is heart-breaking and hard when you realize it and cut them off, because..when I had to do it, I felt the worst and most ungrateful person on the planet but within time I realize that it was the best decision despite sometimes feeling a void
Laermira2005 that can happen! toxic friends will notice if you’re trying to distance yourself from them & manipulate you into thinking they’re an actual friend through attention. it’s sadly pretty common practice
Man I’m early!
I’ve had the most toxic friend she was a liar a manipulative person and everything here points out what she did. She’s moved and I’m grateful and I found friendships that are healthy and perfect it’s a dream come true this really helped me!
Angel- Demon Same! I didn't go through what exactly happened to you, but, most of what happened to you, happened to me.
Hey It’s Day! Yes it’s very hurtful and extremely painful but in the end the moment they ditch you it’s worth it since they weren’t worth your time
trashman that’s something good that you did it shows others that person is horrible and then it shows to avoid them
Stardoll Motion Studios there’s a way remember there can be a way
Angel- Demon
Sorry to ask but what was she like?
I feel the same way you do 😿
I’m sat here crying because every time I’m with my friend we laugh and have so much fun but now I’ve just found out she was back chatting shit about me and one of my other friends screenshoted her story on insta and it said
“Gay weirdo”
“Freak”
“Go see a doctor”
“Get help”
Just because I suffer from ADHD might mean I get hyper but I didn’t know she thought that about me 🥺. If I dump her she’ll just chat even more shit about me and more people will see. The worst part is I actually viewed her as my friend and cared about her but if she dosent think that about me what’s the point ☹️
I’m scared of that happening to me if he talks behind my back
Get yourself some good friends :)
End that friendship. Ignore what other people might be saying about you, and *stand up for yourself.* Don’t let them make you feel down, they don’t deserve your loyalty and kindness! They will realise that they have lost such a great and a caring friend. Move on and make some new friends, hopefully they will be better than the one you have ❤️❤️
@@higu456 i have a “friend” and i have a good friend. the good friend is friends with the “friend”. When “friend” talks about me good friend tells it to me :)
and Bongo it’s ok ur have lots of friends i don’t :)
I don't want to call out a friend 'toxic' because I'm afraid of being wrong and unreasonably losing someone
This hurts so much, because this describes my situation 100%. He's just like the toxic, so-called "friend" in this video. He's no longer my boyfriend, and he probably never was; he's just a very cruel person. I have to let him go.
Marie Brown block his number and read some books when you feel lonely. And get a pet!
Ruth C Thank you! ❤
You'll be all right!
Allan Baker ❤ I hope so. Thank you.
I feel you
Finding a good friend is hard....
True.
It seems impossible
I think my best friend is toxic... well ex-best friend.. :'(
Thanks for this video. I recently got into an argument with a friend and didn't know if I was being the toxic one. My friend claimed I was shoving everything i was saying into his face when I was trying to explain things from my perspective and wasn't trying to harm him with any message that would come off as something bad again. Now I know I'm in a toxic friendship from all the past experience from the 3 year friendship.
*WARNING: THIS IS LONG!!* Some of my friends are toxic friends. Two years ago my friends (and someone who’s a toxic friend) played a prank on me and I didn’t like it. I started crying and told off them. They NEVER got in trouble. A year later I became they’re friend (the one who is toxic) and she was a nice person at first. Later on she totally ignored me and never listened to anything I said. They always used to gossip and say stuff like:
“Look at that person, she’s as thin as a stick! Hahaha!”
“Eww, that person is disgusting.”
This year they keep on talking about that prank and they want to snitch on me 😿.
One day I bought a little container of blueberries from the morning and I wanted to share some with my brother. I got them out of my bag and bought them into the playground. They said “What’s that??” And I said: “blueberries” My friends wanted them so I gave them a few before I went to my brothers. However, my friends (who are greedy) wanted more. They kept on taking some from the container. I said that you had to say please to get some. They were being stupid. They said “Please” took a few and stuffed them into they’re mouths like they were running away. They kept on saying “Please” and before you know it the pack of blueberries were gone. They were really greedy and I’d hardly had any so I was really sad. I started shouting at them. They said that I was stingy and they one who was greedy. This was one year ago.
Now they’re talking about puberty and growing (you-know-what). I really don’t like it because we should just enjoy ourselves the way we are already. They keep on talking about periods as well. I told them that we don’t have to worry about it because we are young. They now ignore me in they’re conversations and don’t let me have freedom. My toxic friend always wanted attention when we were on trips and cried if I weren’t they’re partner. This only happened when my mum volunteered for the trips (I wanted her to come anyways). She cried. My mum said that she was a bit spoilt. It’s true. For my bday I wanted to have a party. I’m not gonna have one this year. I didn’t want my toxic friend to come. But there’s this girl that’s my friend and I wanted her to come to the party. My other friends hate her now. I don’t even know the reason. I don’t want them to start arguing. They don’t care about my friend. I’m going to go to one of my favourite places that I went when I was 7. It was almost 4 years ago. It is this play place and it’s really cool. Anyways, back to the story.
I am a bit happier now because it’s the last year of school before secondary (don’t worry about my not being 13, my parents know what cringe videos I upload). I really don’t want to be in the same school as my friends as I want to make new friends on my own. Luckily, my mum’s signed up for some grammar and private schools (I have to do a test and if I pass I can get in). There’s one that I really like because they’ve got good art and DT things do it’ll be the perfect place for me. My friends are not bothered to do 11+ only a few ppl want to here are some of them:
- A dirty minded kid
- an annoying nerdy kid
- more annoying people
If I don’t get pass those tests and interviews I’ll be with my friends for another seven years. I’m relieved that this is the last year before I split up with toxic people.
Edit: Wow 25 likes in a week! I hardly get any!
Update 2nd November 2019: I have moved to a different city now and have made great friends 😊 they are really nice 👍 and I didn’t pass that test but did another one and got in!
Well, that turns out good for you, but I would still look out for more toxic people, there are still some out there that are maybe even worse!
…Can I tell you something?
There -> Answer of „Where?“ // „Where is it?“ - „There.“
They‘re -> They are. // „How are they?“ - „They are fine.“ („They‘re fine.“)
Their -> Shows you, that this belongs to somebody. // „Who‘s schoolbag is this?“ - „It‘s theirs.“
I know, I know, I‘m german, english isn‘t my motherlanguage, blah blah blah.
Well, this just kinda annoyed me (not that hard, but still), and I just wanted to tell you this, and I think I explained it right. 😅
The Unicorn I always make grammar mistakes lol 😂
Kitty Queen
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The Unicorn are you British as I have a friend who goes to a grammar school and I thought they were only an English thing and with that grammar (no offence) is pretty bad.
Lucky everything you said about you happened to me except I'm a guy and well we all know what they love to talk about. Honestly I hope they either change or I'm forced to not be their friend. You know where you don't want to like them but for some reason you Do that happens to me. Lol I just had express my feeling out the internet. Bye
THROUGHOUT THIS VIDEO EVERY SECOND I JUST THINK OF:
Hey this reminds me off *blank*
Hey thats what *blank* does!
This video is bringing up alot of things relating to *blank*
Anybody else?
This video got me thinking about my friend nijar. I never actually liked her :/
Yea, I had searched this up because of a certain friend. I wanted to know if "yea they're actually a toxic friend" because they're still good friends with some of my other friends and I'm worried that shes also gonna do the same to them. Sad thing is one of them is too nice to leave her. But it also gets me thinking how he can still be friends with her after what she did to me. I basically had an experiation date and it had been past that so she didnt want nor need me anymore so she tried to get rid of me but keep the friends I had introduced her to. And something I hate is how those friends, even after I told them the shit she did they still talk to her and told me to talk it out. And she likes to play victim in all this as well. Acts like a fuking child and looks for excuses.
I got sent this video from my toxic friend😀✋
@@mishio-how6891 LMFAOOO
this video got thinking about every toxic friend i met!
i used to have a toxic friend a long time ago
she never really considered my emotions, and treated me like a toy... just something to put on a shelf and forget about
These videos are so helpful. After this video, I realized I had a fake friend. Me and a true friend resolved the problem. Now me and the fake friend aren’t friends, but we are happier