Fakeness, Wives & Competition - Q&A with my boss
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- čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
- We finally took the time to sit down and film a video for our channels together - here's me answering your questions with @aliabdaal - this is a VERY rambly one, you've been warned, there's almost no cuts involved in this.
PLEASE let me know: is the fluff something I should add more of in my videos?
Thanks Ali, for getting me started with this whole thing ❤️
The first half of this video on Ali's channel: • Answering Uncomfortabl...
To make your life easier:
0:00 Intro
1:13 Why isn't Elizabeth your personal assistant anymore?
3:11 Will you always work with each other?
4:06 What's the most annoying thing about each other?
5:01 What's your take on toxic productivity?
7:49 How does Ali react when he's angry?
8:09 How do you not let online trolls or judgement get to you?
9:19 How do you stay motivated to publish content outside of work?
10:59 Why do you always look the same?
11:13 Are you related?
12:06 Why did you want to be a doctor?
13:09 Do you ever have self doubt?
14:26 What is the most annoying thing about each other?
15:25 Do you ever find yourselves in competition with each other?
16:49 How do you compare to your offline persona?
20:19 Does it annoy you when Ali sticks a camera in your face?
21:23 Is there something you've tried to get Ali to do that he's refused?
23:05 If Ali cut your pay in half, would you leave?
24:06 Outro
25:01 Ali's bonus question
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haha I prefer the colour grade on yours :) loved the candid chats, let's do this more often
The unscripted conversation bit was actually refreshing. Would love to see more of those.
@@aadilranesh This what gave MKBHD or iJustine the success aka why TikTok went up.
Any day ;)
I forgot to ask my question in the qna but asking here:) Top 5 reasons why Ali didn't marry Elizabeth!!!
@@sushmit6415 he wants to...
Now I believe Ali when he says he’s BAD at talking to pretty girls
Yep
not BAD, it's SO BAD🤣 "like i said, half the speed"
At least the first step to solving a problem is recognizing you have one...
And his ex assistant not even pretty enough!
Tbh looks like he was just having a bad day
Turns out Ali is a chronic transformer of med students into CZcamsrs
I loved how this is the perfect mix of wholesome and uncomfortable lol
if this doesn't define these videos
perfect representation!
Perfect synopsis
Some 'real' lessons in here!
Why does this have divorce talk at lawyer's energy ? 😄
Lol
What you think is 'fluff' are actually the good bits and makes you relatable and human. Authenticity is how we can feel more connected to you. So yes, more of it please!
Ok I think I'm being slowly convinced!
@@elizabethfilips do whatever you feel comfortable with 😊
🙌🏼 this
@@elizabethfilips yeah like the bonus question at the end, I watched an enjoyed 😁
Do the sleep video! I want to see your take 😁
Hi Thomas 👋
YESSS have to do it now!
Ok, but I swear for the first bit of the video, it felt so emotional. Especially with the song in the background. Kinda like the two main characters were about to break up. Or they broke up and they finally met up after a long time to discuss why they broke up in the first place
😆😆ikr
lmfao
Yes thats right 🤣
lol
So here's what I see in this vid. Someone who has moved on and is completely honest with the highs and lows of the work she did. With someone who still struggles with the business setup, misses the other person, has conflicted views on the current scenario but he knows he made the right call at that time.
damn you summed up the exact vibe I was getting lol. That or Ali was not having the best time for whatever reason.
Passionate but not motivated. My life has just been described. Hallelujah!
Yesss
Yes
For the recoerd Elizabeth, I saw your video first and his later.
Just so it helps you get over the doubt about “outgrowing him”.
Definitely possible. Great content!
Ahhh thank you! But I very much doubt it :)
Same. I watched Elizabeth's first too
@@elizabethfilips be consistent i think you can out grow him
Watching Elizabeth’s first right now 😅🥳
It genuinely broke my heart when Ali said the thing he hates about Elizabeth was that he feels inadequate because of the energy that she brings into a room
So much wisdom from Ali. He’s spot on with leaving in your depth vs. editing it out Liz. Show us all of the layers of who you are. Keeping it real as you are here is so attractive! You’re gorgeous, brilliant, emotionally tuned in and so darn likable!!
I can see why Ali is frustrated and a bit intimidated. He SEES your full depth and potential. He knows you’ll surpass him and legitimately feels it but you don’t seem to believe him. He respects and admires you but also sees that you’re censoring out some of the best aspects of who you are. I’d listen and I’d honestly be flattered. No idea what’s happening behind the scenes but that’s what I detect.
I believe that Ali's comment regarding your clean edit is correct. I like your video, don't get me wrong, you're fantastic and knowledgeable. However, sometimes being just a touch more rambly feels so much more human and nice. Keep up the good work and please be kind to yourself! Love your work!
Ah, thank you Benjamin!
@@elizabethfilips You're very very welcome and I'm happy to get a response from the gurl herself, Elizabeth!
"Life's too short to get a PhD"... as I painfully pursue a PhD...
Now I'm second-guessing pursuing a PhD
9:46 "When you are having fun productivity takes care of itself." This is my new favourite quote.
I SO want @the body language guy to make an analysis of this conversation 👀💙
You mean "charisma on command"?
ohmygod yes i want him to analyze boths vids soo bad
wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
@@SoroushTorkian I think so, yes.
Yes yes yes..?
Ali's deffo behaving differently!! The connection between you guys' crazy!
The fact that Elizabeth decided to make this video pure , as Ali said without cutting out extra bits of it that could have been cut out 🙌🏻🙌🏻
Elisabeth - can't wait to see your Sleep video.
Ali - up to half way I was really surprised how you seem put off, until the answer came that is your resting pose. Ali really animates only when he's talking. Not a bad thing, just hard to see when usually in videos so smiley animated.
Learnt so much from this video. Thank you both (and off camera audience 😆)
Love Sheen in the background not letting Ali skip a hard question!
Might be just me but Ali seems reserved/serious with less eye contact etc during this video, but on Ali’s video he’s more animated and comfortable 🤷🏽♂️
And I'm so uncomfortable in that other one!
@@elizabethfilips 😂😅
It was his channel thats why now its her Channel.
I was also thinking same. 🤔
i didnt plan to watch the whole thing but i found it somehow very relaxing and watched till the end. I feel like you didn't edit it that much so it feels as a natural conversation. very refreshing 😌
I love watching Ali's videos and this is how I came across you. I absolutely love your bubbly personality, it shows and shines through on camera.
The way Ali answers is like Elizabeth is his ex girlfriend, like you know so secretive, and uncomfortable almost as if it’s painful to remember the memories
Exactly or even ex-wife or something- kept waiting for them to say it’s because they are dating or on a break or something dramatix
My impression of this video, as an old psychotherapist, is that I've found that the ol`saying, "Too Much Insight Never Made Anyone Feel Good," is spot on.
Damn, that's so true!
That's on point...
Exactly!!!!!
Yes
But what does that mean ? Is it necessary even so or is jt not
I love how deeply Ali thinks about his responses
I loved the end part, the candid conversation when the both of you were engaging and being honest 💚
It's sad to hear that you have cried because of some of the negative comments others have commented on your channel. The two of you are far more successful and in control of your lives to give these trolls any power over your emotions. Keep up the great work!
I think Ali is so proud of you, and likes to see you growing. It is so lovely to see a a motivating and nurturing mentor/boss and employee relationship. I also Think your an amazing employee and soaks up everything around you.
I really like your vibes together and the way you improve each other, it shows through the screen !! Loved this
love the team and genuine openess, the experience that you guys have shared is so real and uncanny. great video.
Aw oh my goodness, something seems off about him and I never saw this version of him in my life. I feel he might benefit from a little break from everything, I'm sure he can with the amount of success he's built. He seems to be quite intelligent but also can be draining to navigate all of life like that. Unsure if he's insecure with you, or just overall seems a bit sad. You're super genuine though, love the videos
@jezabeltokio: Yep, being stuck in front of a CZcams camera would certainly be intimidating with more than a million people watching YOU!
This has been long awaited! 💕✨
I'm still sad I never got the chance to interview for the job or possibly docit because, if nothing else y'all seem to be an awesome group of people and a great team! 💪
I'm happy this Q&A happened! 🥳
We want more videos like thissss!!!! Just you two talking. This is so wholesome
Sounds like Ali needs an HR Manager who can sit with everyone, write the job descriptions, run the hiring process and help with finding any temp help on a project basis. :D Loved the interviews on both channels. Quite insightful behind the machine.
I truly appreciate how Ali's answers are more delicate and takes into consideration Elizabeth's feelings. That's a gentleman right there!
So funny you were saying "this cant go in the video" but the bonus question was THE BEST past of this!!! The most real, most authentic and most interesting
We need honesty like this. Two separate personalities, two separate cultures --- same passion with different drives. i'd say never doubt this one. CZcams is starving of healthy, constructive dissodence. That's all. Way to go. (BTW - never knew you both were connected)
Talking about the editing skills - your video looks more friendly and better "color graded"? :D Love the Q&A between you, very good chemistry :)
They both are like Harvey and Donna from SUITS! :)
Phenomenal I see True Love over here.
Totally agree
and she have hair too!
THIS!
😂
I love how thoughtful are you Elizabeth
I started a Tiktok and Ali had a lot to do with that, so Thank you, Ali. You're helping more people than you think.
Miriambo smh
This content is sooo good! I love the authenticity!
Thanks Eric :)
Ngl, I love these Q&A sessions because they reveal more relatables side of both of you
Damn!! This girl is on a mission of hearting every single nice comment❤
These videos are so fun to watch because it feels so honest. Would love to see more 😃❤
I think I’m in love with Elizabeth. Her laugh, her mannerisms…so lovely!
She's absolutely lovely 🌹😍
You guys have a great friendship and business partnership. Loved this!
Thanks Miko!
What are the odds that I run into you on CZcams Miko lol. Ali and Elizabeth are one of my faves !!
@@palomapeter-dzoho4669 Haha this is awesome. We're going to have to connect for a 1-1 sometime at this point
Hello @@palomapeter-dzoho4669, I'd like to feature you on my Channel 😜
I subscribed because of the extra content. Deal with this daily as a manager and it’s good to see I’m not alone in this.
I enjoyed having the entire video. I agree with Ali and think it was interesting to hear you guys talk about the issues you all are having.
I really liked your answer on toxic productivity and the 10 hour study with me, you gave me a new perspective.
Hi Liz, I'm happy to see you uploading again :) I love watching this video with Ali and you... xoxo
It's rare for me to leave comments on videos, but when it comes to yours...I always like to say hi from time to time :) and I was really happy to see how much potential Ali sees in you (when he said you will eventually outgrow him, that's so sweet!) xoxox
They look so cute together, I mean that platonically. :)
Nice one;)
Lol not at all. She is waaaaay out of his league in every possible way (even platonically) and they don’t really have chemistry. He is very stiff and she is very open and honest.
Part of what’s entertaining about this is how uncomfortable she’s making him by all her honest answers
@@yaserjanahi3922 why do you think he's so stiff next to her?
@@yaserjanahi3922 Lol! It's Ali who's above her league. Intelligent millionaire with thousands of female admirers way more beautiful.
@@benjamin7114 being rich and successful with thousands of female admirers chasing after you doesn’t make you desirable to EVERYONE.
I think he’s talking about her energy, how she cares about others feelings and stuff like that and not just… money. Lol.
So happy you’re back! hope you’re doing well Elizabeth !
You are looking more confident and accurate in this one... Love to watch you both together... Keep growing ❤️
tbh, this is one of the best videos on your channel because of how minimal cuts you have done. I actually loved the "fluff" parts because it feels more honest and authentic.
Thank you for your comment, endeavor to write as soon for more enlightenment or tips
+1...9...0.....9....7....1...5...5....1...0...0.
I loved this conversation, watched both videos.
And I’m glad you’ve added that last question
Wow, this is also a great video. I can tell from this and the other video that they have a good working relationship. And Elizabeth is so engaging. Lol, I’m glad Ali explain about his resting bored face. I’m glad you left the extra bits in. I found Ali charming in this video too.
Congratulation to Elizabeth with her channel. She has grown very fast with her channel and I think her channel will only get better and bigger. Ali is great and his channel is an example. I enjoyed this Q&A video and good luck to both.
You guys are amazing! 'Thank you' to both of you for the content that you put out. Stay cool 🙌
Thank you for the honesty. This is definitely a unique video and really sparked my thoughts as well.
Got the feeling that Ali's hiding something. Not saying that he should say anything about it.
Edit: I agree with Ali on leaving the "uglier" bits in.
The video we were all waiting for!!
To the toxic productivity - I think this stems from the fact that some viewers think a channel’s content is representative of a creator’s life. The analogy here for me would be to talk about ‘toxic weathermanship’ because the weather people only talk about weather on screen.
The productivity CZcamsr is not more obsessed with productivity than the cooking CZcamsr is obsessed with food or the fitness CZcamsr with fitness.
It’s the focus of a job, which ofc hopefully people are passionate about, but it tells us nothing about what else they are passionate aside from that one thing we see.
Yes!
I'm so glad Liz that you are back girl! 💅🏻
Stay safe 🥰
Love Ali’s honest answers!
“I don’t have money so I have to get these multiple jobs to cover my rent” and stuff.. wow! Elizabeth can you do an ethnicity tag and talk about your personal background and how you grew up. It sounds sad but it will resonate with many.. who came from similar backgrounds. Interested! I must say.
The background music is so soothing. Appreciate it! And the video is wholesome 😀
Liz, I am glad to see you back. 🙌🏽
Love this! Definitely agree about leaving in the ‘fluff’ haha 💓
Wow this was good, and also the other videos, they are also informative, also surprisingly they have a kind of calming effect, maybe because you are so honest in your videos. Keep up the great content.
The video that we've been waiting for💚💚💚
17:29 Your frustration with Ali’s answers was hilarious 😂 loved the video!
This was really dope, also really glad you added the bonus content👌 authentic and hilarious🤣
Elizabeth, you are just so mesmerizingly beautiful, quiet smart, cute and feels like fun to be around once you get close to people and trust em, God bless you. ❤️
Oh my, thank you Ruokuo!
@@elizabethfilips anytime Elizabeth ❤️
Loving this video ... I am able to relate the conversation to lot of different emotional state like in office culture....you both are so different in style in terms of productivity and it's great to have different perspective of two different ppl really trying to understand each other...though I wish to be like Ali in terms of productivity, I also feel burnout and therefore could totally relate to Elizabeth....
I think, this video is going to change the whole scenario of your cannel lizi. I donno why, just getting these kind of vibes. Anyways I love you and your videos forever. U r a great inspiration to me.
Loved being the heckler in the background
I only hope to one day repay you 😈
i am happy that you are back, LOVE
I'm glad you kept it in the video!
Ali Abdal is Ideal. Straight Forward he just says whatever he wants to say on face that's the real dare.
Its good to know that We all Cry.
Can't wait to comment on the upcoming marriage inbox video how you should shut the whole thing down and try work out the chemistry between the both of you.
It's showing and it's CUTE!
I love that Ali said that he watches your every video in his channel(part 1 of this) and he proved it here..
Pleaseeeeee I wanted this sooo bad!!!!!
Btww Ali’s face when you told how you despise his music taste just killed me 😂😂😂
Also please lizzie if you see this can you please make Ali answer this question: “How would you objectively define productivity?”
Also lizzie (I call you this because Elizabeth Bennet is my favorite, I’m a Pride and Prejudice diehard fan) it was quite fun to see you being candid!
Thank youu!
Good to see u after long time ❤️❤️❤️
That Bonus Question Humanizes the whole team and shows how much Dr Ali evolves. Loved it❤🙌
love this spontaneous honest style of video guys x
The response re: reasons for elizabeth leaving well done guys! Honesty, earnest, genuine, bravo!
i just how those 2 people are absolutely hit accuracy by just being honest to appreciate their - and + . So pretty
“Do you have anything to say?”
Ali on the second take: “no”
The way i laughed even though he continued 😭😂
I love how Elizabeth loves learning from Ali
Is it just me or is there just so much chemistry between them like I feel like their relationship would be so healthy- communication wise, regardless of if its friendship or something else
If your CZcams channel increases drastically in future, ali might propose you in your second collaboration video. You both look great in a single frame.
I felt cozy for a QnA ❤️
No matter what you do someone will always have something negative to say about you or what you are doing. That comes with the territory of putting yourself and your life out into the world. ♥️
this is the type of video i was waiting for
I love both of you, genuine people
Great conversation guys!