Women's Bible Studies Be Like...
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- čas přidán 1. 08. 2019
- Worship, womanhood, and gossip?
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This is what happens when there’s no Bible in the Bible study, the blind leading the blind.
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Like Many American Churches.
@CJ P. Who's Protesting?
There can be a Bible in every lap, but it does no good if there's no spiritual understanding or maturity.
@@justkenzie ...apparently not...
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This is sooo good! Only thing missing is the gossip disguised as a prayer request.
But seriously, there are good Bible study groups out there.
Amen on gossip part!
That was actually in there towards the end. 😅😅
Love it - gossip disguised as a prayer request - a major function of evangelical women.
Literally 😂😂😂 so sad
So encouraging seeing that this is NOT how all ladies want “Bible study” to be.
This is hilariously sad. Let's NOT allow our Bible studies to be like this ladies :)
Right?? Maybe I have just been blessed but that behavior would not fly at my Bible study.
Amen!
Amen!
I actually don't really see anything wrong with this lol, as long as there is love there, we are human and cliches are inevitable because we are all the same.
Facts this is low key blasphemous 😂
Haha yes, dead on! How about the Gossip Prayer Request? “I have a prayer request. Sarah is going through a separation because she found texts messages on her husband’s phone. Apparently, this has been going on for months. He’s always been kind of ‘shady’. She’s always struggled with self-respect. But please keep her in your prayers. Thanks, ladies.”
Ragan Pheneger 😂 yes!
😂😂😂😂
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😂🤣
I know I'm a man and I shouldn't be here but that one was fun XD.
Don’t forget to say you’re going to “unpack” a certain passage about 10 times too…
And don’t forget to “lean in” …to… you know…. Whatever.
Bahahahaha true, I cringe when they trying to modernize it
You so made me appreciate my women's bible study. It's not like that at all. I couldn't take that foolery! 😂
ErinCM TheMC I went to a mega church with a bible study like this when I first started reading it. When I told them I was leaving because the “Bible” study and church never actually acknowledge the Bible I was called judgemental and told that if God wanted us to do the things in the Bible, that He personally would have convicted us all, but because they weren’t feeling convicted about their sin, they felt the word of God didn’t apply to them somehow.
Gilda Gottlieb yes it’s very funny actually that I’ve heard the same excuses so many times I end up saying them in unison with them. Haha one even claimed I must be telepathic to have known her every word. But I’ll at least plant the seed and hopefully one day it will grow.
@@eenzamevriend7183 , open rebuke is better than secret love!
‘lean in’..... hate that phrase
Same!!
I don't know whether to click the like button or to cry. :)
Michelle Robb-Aubey same here. It's just too true.
Same.
My exact feelings! I was jus questioning n then saw your reply. Thank you! 💖
Yes! My husband wonders why I don’t like women’s Bible studies and I try to explain it, but I don’t think he gets it.
“I’m just concern about her heart” 😅 spot on 😬
I don't mean this as gossip, but ...
Ok, I have to eat my words from a year ago now because I actually found a Bible study at the church that I am attending. We meet every week in a classroom and it’s a couple of hours. We’re doing inductive Bible study, which is quite in-depth, plus we have homework. Right now we’re in the book of Hebrews and Hebrews is no joke!
Serious, it very challenging, and I love it. I’m really glad I found this Bible study and the ladies a wonderful.
This is why I go to (we call it) Bible Class with the old folks. My dad teaches and he doesn't do foolishness. LOL
I love this!
I almost always steer away from women’s only type stuff. I want the co-ed classes.
I laughed out loud when you pulled out “Girl Wash Your Face” 😂😂🤦🏻♀️
I'm assuming everyone watching this knows that "Wash Your Face" book is garbage?
It's absolute trash. I actually met a pastor's wife that used it for her women's bible study. Then I read it for myself later one and was shocked!
@@Kiki-fe2le it's not just bad it's completely anti-Christian. It's heresy. We definitely lack discernment in the church today.
@@1689solas I pray wake more people up before it's too late for them. Thank God he's using us to warn others.
Agreed, I can barely get through it. She also talks about herself about 90% of the book of what Ive read so far....And I wasted money buying both books with plans to read the other one after :(
@@baileyh1154 Ouch, that sounds painful. I'm very sorry you spent the money for both. Thankfully someone lent it to me to read. I definitely gave it back, lol
So hard to meet friends who actually want to talk about CHRIST AND HIS WORD.
@@empnadajhhh9469 yes, you're so right about that. I know my cousin and brother both struggle with this. If I were single, I can't imagine how tough that would be because I know I want Christ as the center and foundation of my marriage... to be honest, I've been married for over a decade and my man is just now coming to church with our son and me. I thought he was a believer when we were dating and engaged, but a couple years in, he realized he only thought he believed. The loneliness I battled as a result led me to a dark place for a couple years. I chose to cling to Christ and continue in prayer for my husband. Being unequally yoked is not good for a relationship. I pray for your strength and conviction. Keep growing in the knowledge of God through His Word. That is far better than compromising for a carnal woman.
Me!!!
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God bless you, sister. I know that must be a heavy cross to bear, but his grace is sufficient for you.
I’m praying for your family.
@@empnadajhhh9469 Yep... or even worse, many they say they're Christian, but aren't even culturally Christian- they believe in abortion, feminism, etc.
Facts sis
What is really sad is many (most?) people won't catch the sarcasm in this video
Is it sarcasm if it's true.🤔
I caught immediately….
(Maybe because I’m pretty sarcastic myself)
Unfortunately I have been to a women's Bible study group that was just like this. It was in a rich neighborhood and I immediately felt out of place. It was almost as if every one of the females got off the topic of God as much as possible to keep talking about themselves and pointless gossip. One girl kept talking about an upcoming trip to Vegas, the other was talking about a virtual trainer that costs thousands of dollars and saying how she wanted that, and one of them kept referring to some home-organizing show and was giving everyone tips on how to make their home more presentable. I did not feel the presence of God but instead just felt like I was wasting my time at a housewives convention. I pray for all of those women, I only went twice and decided to quit the group. Even ended up quitting the church that the Bible group was associated with. My family and I have since found an amazing Church that really gets to the root of God's word. God Bless all the women out there, I stand with you! Do not accept all of the sugar being sprinkled into our ears. We are in very prominent biblical times!
That's awesome that you were able to find a Christ-Centered Church. Great for you! Keep praying for that other church!
I've found women's gatherings of any kind are guaranteed cringe-worthy. I decided years ago that I'm better off in mixed gender groups. Way more balance between emotions and logic.Often logical women are given more respect in a mixed group,
Also, newsflash: the food is better at Men’s events and/or mixed gender activities. Haha
Hahahaha! Allie is the female version of Jon Crist in this video, and vice-versa. Very well done!
totally agree...same great humor!
Is Allie pregnant?
Alexander Padillas her baby was born!
This is why I stopped going to women’s Bible studies. “Oh my gosh, I couldn’t do the lesson because I’m so busy with school starting , I’m so busy with summer starting, I’m soooo busy with the holidays”
Well…life is busy unfortunately. And I don’t care who you are, keeping God first is a daily fight for everyone
@CJ P. What are you on about? I have seen 2 of your comments on "protestantism".
@CJ P. and secularism discourages it? stop baiting, troll.
Please do a video on how women's Bible studies SHOULD look like. ^-^
I used to work at a library and every single time I saw that book I said "Girl, READ YOUR BIBLE!"
Every Bible study I’ve attended dissolved into a social group. Getting people to even read the Bible is so difficult! 😪 Even people who claim to be Christians know so little about the basics.... it’s discouraging.
Sadly this represents general “bible study group” whether male or female, but especially youth groups.
I went to a men's bible study where they encouraged us to bring our sons for "training in leadership". About 15 minutes in, I asked a serious question about the topic & was told, "That would take too long to answer & discuss, & some were on a tight schedule that night." 45 minutes from start, closing prayer of the study / prayer for the food was said. 2 HOURS later after ping pong, backyard basketball, & TV football, I was the 1st to leave w my sons. Apparently the "tight schedule" prioritized games over study. What leadership training was taught that night?
haaa no for male
Oh man, the backstabbing gossip justified by saying "So yeah we should pray for her" is too real.
Oh my goodness I LOVE this!! Exactly when I stay clear of women’s “Bible studies”.
Yep.
Women’s Bible studies, women’s conferences, women’s ministries….
👎🏽 NOPE
There are some good ones, but you must search! To me, the kind Allie is presenting here is just a Book Club.
I'm an avid bible study goer and I have never experienced any of these. Praise the LORD.
That got so real, real quick. Sin, submission, sovereignty, holiness.... are trigger words now...
If I meet one more woman whose struggles with basic bibical vocabulary are held higher than doctrine......
I'm going to continue to love her with the love of the Lord... cuz grace and stuff.
Nice one👍👍
Lol so perfect XD
You forgot to remind everyone to be a Mary, and less a Martha. Also, that we are still on the Potter's wheel, and having the dross separated from the silver.
@A XX Yeah, I know that.... the point is that it's taught at each and every women's Bible study.
Love the parodies. Thank you.
Allie summarized what I experience in some prayer groups and some conversations with believers. And it is so disheartening, but I know that I must stand on the truth of the Bible and not the trends of the world. Allie, thank you for confirming that this really is happening. God bless you sister.
Allie you hit the nail on the head. Ughh women, we need to get REAL in our Bible studies-it’s not just social hour!!
Where's the multi-level marketing?
Okay, I somehow just saw this and could not stop shouting YES to every comment." I FEEL"....EVERY TIME😳😳👏👏. I have given many a womens bible study a chance and end up attending the womens studies with 70+ year old women, bc they actually open their BIBLE. 😳🤦♀️. So so SPOT. ON. Thank you for calling this OUT!! It is soooooo true. Will totally comment again sometime next year...maybe...if I find time ....🤣🤣🤦♀️
My mom was an excellent Bible teacher. She was called to le@d Women’s Bible Studies and took that calling very seriously. I was fortunate enough to attend 2 Of her Bible Studies (as an adult). She’s gone now, but oh how I wish I had made time to attend more of her Bible studies. She took her preparation very seriously and always looked to God’s Word for the final say.💜
Ha! Love this. "Hang on, where is my Bible? Totally forgot it..."
"I just wanna.....leeeeaaaannn innnnnn to this."
Holy accurate.
So on point! Don't know whether to laugh or cry...
🤣 oh man this is sooo accurate, and just so sad 😢
Allie, I used you as an example to my son who needs to get married and after I watched your Ben Shapiro interview and you spoke on Calvinism I had him watch one of your videos and told him he needs to find a wife like yourself. Take that as a highest compliment. Bless you sister and we’ll see you when we go home.
Scott Davidson - I humbly say that your son needs to seek the Lord and his will, and allow the Father to prepare him for marriage and provide him with a wife. Gods plan, Gods timing, Gods will 😊
Scott Davidson - Hmm 🧐 ... I read your comment again after I posted. The second time I read it, I seemed to be on the same page as you. Please ignore my first comment.
@@Laurel_Kay no worries and thank you for taking the time to re-respond. That is one thing I do talk about is that while the LORD is preparing your wife for you, you need to be asking the LORD to mold you into the godly husband HE wants you to be.
@Rachel Nichols waiting on God is different. You have to trust Him, and listen to Him. What you do in your spare time preparing is up to you. Obedience is key.
When we follow God, His way is different to the worlds way. Dont give up hun. Seek the Lord. I'm still waiting for mine, but my focus is on Jesus.
I know the time is near though, Gods been telling me to prepare.
What about 1 Corinthians 7:8?
Marriage can be a blessing just as being unattached can be a blessing.
OK, OK, this is hilarious and convicting at the same time. This shows me how shallow so many of us have become in our Bible studies and being the Christ followers we are suppose to be. I'm totally pointing all my fingers back at me. This pandemic has been causing me to ask God to search my heart on a daily basis.
Unfortunately SO true!! THANK YOU for calling this out Allie!! Thank you for poking fun so hopefully it opens up ladies' eyes to see!! Special Request: Please do an episode about what you think about all this Bethel Church awfulness going on these days on a future Relatable episode.
Also Allie- Have you seen this yet? Lindsey Davis' testimony escaping from Bethel Church. Lord, help us all!!
Exactly!.... You are so wise for such a young woman. Every Bible Study should be centered on the Word of the Bible.
SO Funny Alliebeth. I've been in so many like this over the years....especially in my youth... maybe I learned a thing or 2... but it was mainly a social event. I'm sure the video that follows will provide instructions on getting down to the business of The Lord, worship, reading of his word and how we can apply it to our lives Today. Love you Alliebeth 😉😘
As a dude, I never understood why women's studies never seemed to actual read the Bible but instead some other woman's book about being a Christian and struggles or something. No wonder so many don't find it life giving
As a woman, I completely agree with you. ☺️
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@@dericanslum1696 not interested in an atheist’s perspective, Troll
Haha oh man I literally had my Bible study yesterday! It was 20 minutes of bible study and 2 hours of gossiping LOL I live in Kentucky so it was a lot of 'Bless her hearts' 🤣
😆, when an older Southern women says "bless her heart" and a young non Southern girl thinks she's being sincere. It's the greatest thing ever.
😂😂😂 oh the shade that thrown at a southern womens bible study 😂...there's nothing like it. Bless their 💕's
Sarah Wagner:: I love your videos Sarah!! 💄🏊🔭
Why is this unchristian, worldly, sinful behavior a joke to you guys?
Check your hearts.
@@Silence-and-Violence *sigh* I don't understand why people feel the need to point out the 'sins' of other people. We are not here to judge. I am not able to control those women's actions - however we do have the power to control our own tongue and behavior. I would never tell those women that they are sinning by gossiping, because, gosh, I am not better than them. I sin EVERYDAY! The best thing we can do is lead by example and live as Christ like as possible. I'm sorry my comment offended you!
“So I know we’re supposed to like, share the Gospel but I’m an INFP.”
Me, an INFP: 👁👄👁
I'm a dude, but... same lol
Me: An INFP AND a pieces. I have no chance at being a successful human being lol. But I’m fun 🤩
same, and I regularly go evangelizing with my church (aka approaching random strangers and going door to door trying to spread the gospel)
@@ttwings My biggest fear. Not the evangelizing, the talking to people. Especially random strangers. 😂
@@BasedZillenial tbh it gave me a lot of anxiety in the beginning, and there are times where I'm still a little nervous about talking to strangers. always being with a group helped, but even more than that, realizing that the Bible isn't kidding when it says "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength."
I asked the Holy Spirit to give me boldness and it worked. it was a really big lesson for me, understanding that I wasn't helpless to my weaknesses. in fact, my weaknesses are mostly just there so that God can give me the strength Himself.
You do it sooo well😂😂
😂😂 yes! Why I find women’s Bible Studies so “cringey “.
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Yes, that's why when I get invited to a women's Bible study or women's group of any kind, I flat out tell them "No thanks. Don't do HEN PARTIES!"
“God gave me a word for you” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“I just feel…” 🤣
Love your videos
Wow that's sad. Thank God I have not gone to a bible study like this. I think I would say something, have death stares, and then walk up and leave.
"I've already 'processed' this with..." 🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯
oh boy this was really funny. trouble is on the other end of “i feel i feel i feel.”. God bless you sister
I have a fabulous Bible study with 3 of my closest friends, and we really dig in and analyze. This would have been me years back, but God has really grown me! Not to mention my youth group small group is SO amazing and thoughtful. I just want to encourage anybody reading this to really try out digging into the word with a pen and highlighters and analyze it. What you get out of it is incredible.
Back in the day you could add which "team" you were on related to the Twilight series! Then Bible study after.
Not the “lean in!” 😂😂😂
This is spot on!
Sadly too accurate. San Diego girls are on point with this.
This just took me back to some cringe-worthy Bible studies I've been to, and clarified why I never seemed to fit in some places...
That was amazing and so on point! Yes!!! 🙌🏻😂😂🤣
lol this is sadly so true ! I wish I could find a group that really wanted real bible growth.
So funny... I'm actually wanting to start a ladies Bible study group, very soon, that focuses on building godly character, including the 2 sides of gossip (the teller/the listener), fruit of the Spirit, Proverbs 6 that gives that nice little list of the things God hates to see in people's character.
A personal revelation God opened my eyes to: we are on a slippery slope when, having the Spirit of God in us, we choose to echo the accuser of the brethren (satan) with our breath & words OVER choosing to echo the angels in Isaiah 6 that are crying "Holy, Holy, Holy." If you are a believer and you are aligning yourself with satan in this respect, not only are you incapable of understanding that gossip is anything but holy, but you are an open door to division within the body of Christ.
Fortunately, my Bible studies have usually been pretty good. I could really see some of these fitting psychological support groups. They usually do devolve into feelings seshes where people just process gossip (sometimes about the other members of the group) they've probably processed with 20 other people and no one (including the therapist) says anything helpful or even seem intended to help and I could go on. Not all of them are like that but most are.
Actually, I was reading one of those girl wash your face books at the bookstore just a few hours ago (though I can't remember the title of it). I only read a few pages before getting bored. I couldn't imagine reading the whole thing. Yeesh! I just felt like it was one of those self-help books filled with those common sense platitudes that sound good but don't actually help because they're just too ambitious. Seems like the whole book could be reduced to, "just try harder and you'll make it" which anyone who has ever actually believed and done that knows it's not true.
I get the biggest laugh out of the sketches that you do.
Well, thanks for getting through it and only using the word "intentional" once.
The Life Groups I attended at my university were the best. We read the Bible, ate yummy snacks, cried at times and literally laughed for hours.
😂 Funny yet not funny , cause I eventually walked out of one of these groups , gossip disguised as sharing and gossip disguised as prayer requests, luv your humor 💗
You forgot the "feminist" angle.
Feminist have devoured the ladies Bible study.
Yes!
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@@empnadajhhh9469 ...yeah...it's definitely them and not you...hah...
@@empnadajhhh9469 not all of them do! A lot, yes. But those are typically very very culturally Christian... because most young “Christians” aren’t Christians at all
So true. My church has a pretty decent W's Bible study but there is always some of this that creeps in. Got to be determined to call ot out in a kind but clear way.
😄, Allie is awesome!
The trolling is taking me out 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
Thank you Lord for my Bible studies! Because if I had to sit through one of these, I would be pulling my own hair trying to find grace for everyone lol
🤣😂
Unfortunately not far from reality... 🤔
This was hysterical! And points out the many pitfalls I've seen in small groups, but especially women's groups. When invited to one of these I RUN!!🤪
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I’m dumb late but dis is COMEDY!!! 😂😂😂 mannn
This is everything 😂 it is kinda sad how true it is 😔
This is so funny. You are such a good actress. I can imagine it.
Sad, but true.
You're speaking my wife's pain.
LOL!!! 🤣 This is so true nowadays!!!
🤣🤣 I love this so much!!
Holy Accuracy, Batman!
Precisely, old chum.
*disclaimer: I've never actually been to a ladies Bible study. I go to a men's study which is all men. But it has turned into a ladies style study with all men in it. That's way-worse, if you can imagine.
Hey! Do a skit on THAT sometime, please?
Nailed it!
Yeee hawww u done knocked it out of the park. Your shirt and posture such a bonus! 😄 ... A not so wise man once said. "What is truth?"
Ally, I have never led a Bible study like this. I am so sorry that this is the norm. Why is the Bible not sufficient for study Your presentation is hilarious!
This was great! 😂
This is waaaaay too accurate 😂😂
Lol.. Allie just validated me coz I only try to be part of co-Ed groups.. And this is precisely the reason why..
Further proof that Allie Stuckey is the best
This parody is spot on. It is sad to say, most Bible studies for women are emotional fluff that use Bible verses to validate the inner self or inner desires of women. Check most women Bible study books or lessons and it is geared for this type of talk. I would highly recommend that Christian women check out Susan Heck, Martha Peace, and even you, Allie, for some sound Biblical content in order to study the Word rightly (2 Timothy 2:15).
Eric Smith or, you know, read the Bible and use solid commentaries and dictionaries on the side. I do understand that there is value in hearing reliable witnesses to the faith bring themes out of the scripture into our present moment, or better, hearing them bring a theme present in scripture throughout its length or filling in the background information to better understand what was happening, but, can't we start with scripture?
@@agentbflinn1222...rather, Bible plus lexicons and concordances. Commentaries can be so misleading! Forgetting about them can literally be life-changing!
Women’s Bible study be like “Let’s talk about ANYTHING but the text!” My 5 year old niece commented that we just just talk about our “feelings” and “body pauts” 😂
You are adorable Allie, you nailed it.
I am a 9 and an infp. Thanks for letting me eavesdrop today. I was wondering how my wife's bible study went yesterday.
“Intentional” 😂😂😂
And this is why I haven’t joined a Bible study in 4 years! Funny and sad all at the same time.😬
You are hilarious Allie!
From attending life group bible studies at a PWI, this is so accurate and sad 😂😔
I am so glad to call you my sister in Christ.
I have never been to one but I’m about to start one on zoom soon 😂
I hope this is not what it’s like 😬🤪
So sad that so many people relate to that... especially assuming this applies to many places in the world (which is even more worrisome) since I totally relate to that based on Bible studies I have been to HERE IN BRAZIL!