I am a 21 year old. Until now, I haven't smoked, drank alcohol, or done any other addictive substances. I have a lot of close friends who drink and smoke - during my 4 years of hostel life, 99% of the guys would smoke or drink. But I didn't, because I feel it's not right. I know that if I ever did those things, I would be ashamed of myself, and I don't want that. Let's talk about virginity. I am still a virgin. I do feel natural cravings sometimes, but I just can't ruin my character. I've had chances to lose my virginity but told myself not to, just to satisfy some cravings. So many people tease me for that, saying I'm not living life to the fullest. But really, they are ruining their lives. I am old school - I will stay pure for my future wife. Yes, I am still single, because I don't want meaningless relationships or flings. We old school people are always looking for something pure and permanent.✌️
@@sweet4sweet the thing is finding a girl who have value is tough these days and I did find some girl with value and morals but due to some reason I know marriage is not goona happen so I desided to step back.
@@prajwal_shindee not lifetime make girlfriends too but keep them as friends until you find someone special, I made many good friends. This way you'll also not get distracted and focus on your career with any rona dhona and drama
But bro, in this generation we can't trust someone even after marrying. I've seen people falling in love, marrying immediately and getting divorced/cheated once their desires are fulfilled.
@@yuvrajbagul6690 It happens in arranged marriages as well. I'm just trying to tell you that just because we are married doesn't mean he/she is the right person. We never know when that person will cheat on us. It can happen immediately after marriage, 5 years later, 10 years later or 20 years later also. And of course I'm against these casual relationships. I'm a one man woman and I want my man to be a one woman man. But, life is uncertain. Nobody can be trusted completely.
Its really cruel. Because of marriage laws. Check the brought up of the girl. That matters a lot Usually I can see working parents, and the girl is humble. Knows what difficulty is Business parents daughters are far too entitled
That's why I like the wolf ..bcuz he choose only one life partner and live the rest of the life with her 🤧..... Are we greater than animals but worst than humans 👀
Leaving your girlfriend after she got r*ped is like leaving your partner in their worst time... She needs support at that time and not only as a boyfriend but as a human, you should support her.
Sometimes i feel, how there's someone who has similar thoughts, in my college too people consider me as old school, and i'm proudly an old school girl. Thought of people still having same pure thoughts in this generation gives me immense happiness 🥹❤️
I have heard this same words from my professor in our lecture during my second year" we preserve our bodies for our spouse"..... And after 6 years, I'm hearing it out loud in a social media..... I'm really happy about this, that we gen z really have a good understanding of what virginity is, ( where we usually stereotyped as gen z, which i feel is a myth- atleast partially)
I thought only I had this mindset but even my mentor has this. Of course, if a girl is touched without her permission, then there is not even 1℅ of wrong from the girl's side. Heads up siters, you have the courage to face this society 😊
The actual point is not about the V!rg!n!ty, the actual point is about the person who has clear mindset on not to cheat or treachery to their future partner. A r@ed girl hadn't a mindset to cheat on her future partner, its an accident so it's not her fault
@@aniket3902 i said that everyone has there own pref. Btw i m in a healthy relationship for 3 years she was a victim of rape ,it happen to her when she was 10 yo
Marriage doesn't give you guarntee that he or she will never cheats you,what if the person who was genuine untill marrige goeson to cheating after a few years of marriage,what the other person should do,is she divorce the cheated partener and live the rest of the life all alone? Is getting cheated his/her fault? Don't they deserve second chance?
Hey Aj bhairav, i saw you first time in yt shorts and i liked your videos and now im watching your every videos... You are a great inspiration for us youngsters.... And you are the true social media influencer... Some of the social media influencers are uploading stupid contents to get more views but you are not like that.. Hats of you man👍🏻 Love from Kerala ❤️
7:37 🙃🥀 yesss it's my fault that i trust him a lot and he used me💔 i can't blame him because i trust him blindly that's why i do that....after breakup i realised my mistake and decided not to marry because i don't want to ruin other person....i don't know if god will forgive me or not💔
It was his fault, not yours. We make mistakes, but learning from them is something preferable. You're not God to never make any mistakes. But being a human there is always a chance not to repeat the same mistake but to learn from them and progress. Trust, but avoid blind trust. Coz some deserve it & some don't & we can't determine who deserves what. Don't blame yourself & God is kind to everyone. God bless you, sis!
Bhaiya, thank you so much. People like u are going to save us, our future generation. ❤ Proud to be a subscriber. I'm in 7th grade rn (12 yrs ). Things r going rough regarding relationships and all to the point I think all this is stupid. But you, Brother, Made me Believe and realise True Love.
Having a sex before marriage will gonna lose that emotional and that feeling when we feel after having a physical connection which somehow gonna affect our bond with husband !!
@@Truthisbitter575 Bruh just stop generalising the complete gender just because of some fools on internet. A lot of women in this world exist with the same mentality. Just they don't open up a lot about this. Support, don't discourage or generalize like this.
Thankyou for existing bro!🙏 Atleast there are some influencers who are posting meaningful contents that can have a great impact on this disorganised messed up generation and throw light upon such matters which are not happening in homes between parents and children.
@@adhiramahesh9783 bro when I was 11 I didn't know anything about such things when I was 11 even when I was 14 I didn't know anything. Nowadays 8 years old kids are having relationships like wth is happening in this world.
@@harpindersingh-ik6sh Let it happen. Just don't break the natural cycle. Everything has it's own time, 8 year old kids having relationships is completely meaningless. And same is till 17-18 or even till 25 if you ain't mature enough to handle it. Age might just be a number but it's true that you learn based on your experiences something like a relationship needs emotional maturity which can only come through experiences which youngsters lack and later they call themselves depressed when they break up. Better is to stay away until you both are mature enough to handle it. Best way is to focus on your career, if you like someone ask them to wait & wait for them to build their career too. If the other one is patient enough to wait for you. You found your soulmate
Investing trust from a place of reality and not potential. Accepting people for who they instead of accepting their ideal versions that only exist inside mind.
bro, first i am big fan of urs and i am 21 yr old female who is single, even though I am 2k and GenZ ppl call me boomer cuz in my personal opinion i don't accept with this entire dating and boyfriend/girlfriend phase, i personally feel if i date someone and end up marrying someone i feel like cheating on both my ex and my husband (even though i have never been in a relationship till date) also if i am getting married (which will mostly be arranged marriage in future (hope so) ) i want to stay loyal and faithful to my husband alone and i expect the same from him. Also right now i am doing my masters and i want to get into a job so that i can make my parents proud. But having this mindset and living in this society being a psychology student people call me boomer, aunty and also paati, at first i felt really bad that except me all my frnds are in relationship maybe i should join the trend, but being a christian comes with its own benefits ig, i decided to wait for my future husband. (idk if u ever read this comment but yea :) )
Sister, if you feel so to be cheating, divorce would also feel like cheating? If you would not divorce in case of unfortunate, is it not a potential trap of a lifeview? I do not understand why you think dating phase is wrong if not with sexual activity.
Bhairav, I think you might be wrong: marriage is indeed a big commitment, but the fact, that a woman or a man takes upon that commitment, it doesn't mean it's gonna work for life: some marriagies fail, some marriagies are taken too lightly, some other marriagies are either forced or are made by convenience (money, fame...) and some of these failing marriagies often end up in cheating rather than divorce; marriage doesn't have the same importance as when our grandparents married: mines still deeply love each other at 90 yo. This said, I've followed your videos for a long time and you have my respect for the message you're sharing from time to time.
Bro , the reality you told is truth, but here in this video, bhairav was relating marriage to virginity, that it should be satisfied only with the person whom you marry that was the point he trying to make! ( it turns out in this gen that there are many ex-husbands and wives wandering in the streets , so the only way to lose virginity with your soul mate is... by marrying the person you think your soul mate will be and wait till both of their age turn to " 80 " where you both will not even think of cheating, and you can have segs and hence confirm your soul mate! ... and have segs many times afterward😌(it's only my op))
@@Lonewolf-ui7dudo 90% of marriages end like this ??????? How many percentage of marriages did you see these things ??? Stop blaming marriage for this type of stupid things
All men with his mindset need to be protected.. for the girls with this same mindset.. I really hope my life partner thinks this way.. Not one of this generation
Bro it is not me 😂😂 you mad e a misconcept he helped me to come out from a lot of bad habits and that's why I am saying thank you he thought me diff between love and lust@@KoralKaur4731
bro im 17m and i had a brief thinking on the same topic few weeks ago and i had the same mindset of yours. Being a kid living around "modern culture" friends circle who consider all these relationships and hookups are normal, there are very few of them who actually accept my opinion and im proud of it brother. Idk why i talked bout it but i thought of sharing it..... keep posting such stuff anna, you are the one who this society needs now! Love from chennaii!
Bro literally like me....his mentality, his words, his opinions, his pov....demnnnnnn, he must be my 'kumbh mei khoya hua brother ' 😂❤ love you broooooooo❤❤❤
@@JakeRobert123not every one has the same level of knowledge or mindset people learn things by asking questions either with themselves or someone else
The fact that comments on a yt video are respectful even when disagreeing with op speaks volumes on the quality of the content and character of op. Props to you bro.
Bro these people are asking these kind of questions purposely,just twisting the vision of having loyalty, they think beyond that what if these kind of situation is happening then what's your opinion in this and that, and after hearing they'll decide to criticize those questions.. it's as transparent, anybody with kind heart will accept the girl if she is going through such situations..and they all know you're kind enough, but they still asked these questions to judge you again according to what you reply on those.
@@aliwaheedmomin5962 a teenager is not well aware of the world he/she doesn't have full knowledge of everything that's why that person asked the question to get his answer he got his answer and now he will be his gf side and also he will also influence people of his age for the same thing
@@aliwaheedmomin5962 are you out of your mind he is clearly answering a question and giving a suggestion to a person for a situation about which that person is not well aware. Is that wrong? And also he gave a good suggestion tho
What a coincidence i just thought about this and said myself the same thing you are saying after watching one of your video and today i am watching this😗
i had promised at my peak of sadness where i ended up being fooled by a girl her intentions was clear that she is going to cheat me when her ex comes again into her life and i was the one stayed loyal and serious towards the relation and ended up being not to go relationship until my death comes infront of me it's been 3and half years since she broke up with me. from then onwards i decided not to go into relationship because i thought one fine day she would just realize that how much serious i was about her soo staying for a girl who left you in a bad situation is it wrong or right bro, but one thing for sure that i hope not to go into relationship with any other girl and not to get married i love being single upto death , one wish to god that if possible in next life she would be my life patner as a correct person.if you read this thank you very much for saving young generation .heart from me brooo,❤
Bro this is my opinion. Marriage doesn't mean they are some saints. Many men/women cheat even after marriage. You need two people to make a successful relationship. Just because you are married doesn't mean the relationship will succeed. And you are not obliged to have an intimate relationship with a person just because they are married to you. Both men/women should marry the person they love or love the person they marry and then think about an intimate relationship.
Odd man out ❤ed your way of thinking Just like we have only one mother we should love and be with only one person in life whatever the situation supporting each other
Just like Salil Jaamdar, this guy is also in the rare race to teach values to this generation, and I really appreciate both of you. But, only those people will change who have some sense, and most people don't have it, which is really concerning. But still, these CZcamsrs are trying, which is a very huge thing. I feel strong parenting and powerful laws are needed for effective change in our society. What do you think? AJ, you are from Tamil Nadu, right, so could you please throw light on language wars and cultural hate in india???
Now !!! I'm relieved that there are few men out there ready to accept girls /women even if they are not virgin (raped) as a girl myself ,as a victim ....... I feel so happy right now bro thanks for an amazing video 😊
Anna I am a 15 year old teen but I am so glad that we share the same mindset many people kind of stereotype us as gen z but it's not true and I myself believe in saving up for marriage I am a very mature person and glad you're out guider love you Anna from heart❤
big fan of you sir❤ i don't know if u ever gonna read this, but can you pls make a vid abt should a girl choose a boy on his lowest point? I've heard of so many cases of girls doing so only to get cheated and being left by the guy when he was successful! im truly scared
I think that you should stay with your partner if they got r@ped, that would have been traumatising for them leaving them would be so stressful for them, if you truly love your partner then you will stay by them.
To be honest the one who dont what to change theor mindset and always say they are the only one who is always right , whatever u do they dont even gonna open their brain and understand the next person 😢
If you don't want to understand them why do they need to understand you. Just because they have different preferences or different mindset or different thought processes it doesn't mean they are close minded It's just a matter of different perspectives and different choices.
We (Bangladeshi) students are currently peacefully protesting against quota,but Student League an organization of the government ambushed us.Nearly two hundred people were injured and many were killed in the attack. At this time we need you very much because the journalists of our country are on the side of the government.They have no news on this issue.They have not promoting about on this issue.Seeking freedom has now become a crime for us.
Bro i have some feelings on a girl like one sided love u can say . But i didnt talk to her due to shyness and stammering. Coming to the main matter i have saw her with some 2 boys but i still want her ....
Are you out of your mind brother ? Stay away from her have some self respect ? You will become only a backup plan for her nothing else This is 2024 man you will get heavily manipulated. get out of old era mindset. Be aware of what's going on in the world Don't talk to her don't see her stay away from her it will be good for you
@@sweet4sweet Bruh calm down. Let him behave logically. Do you know what he mean by saying that he saw her with two boys? Don't misguide people, please. Those boys might be those you're feeling like but there are chances of them being her friends/brothers/relatives too. It's right to get out of the old-era mindset, but I think that the "new-era mindset" isn't like "If you see a girl with ANY other boy" stay away from her & vice versa. You can't predict anything 100% just coz YOU FEEL something is unusual. It's better to clear things up by having a convo rather than making different assumptions in mind. Loyal people & good people still exist. Please don't misguide anyone or force some thought. Help them to think & ask before answering 🙏🏻
i am not sure you remember this but you said you would make a video about the caste system in one of your previous videos I would love to hear your opinion about it
I am a 21 year old. Until now, I haven't smoked, drank alcohol, or done any other addictive substances. I have a lot of close friends who drink and smoke - during my 4 years of hostel life, 99% of the guys would smoke or drink. But I didn't, because I feel it's not right. I know that if I ever did those things, I would be ashamed of myself, and I don't want that.
Let's talk about virginity. I am still a virgin. I do feel natural cravings sometimes, but I just can't ruin my character. I've had chances to lose my virginity but told myself not to, just to satisfy some cravings. So many people tease me for that, saying I'm not living life to the fullest. But really, they are ruining their lives.
I am old school - I will stay pure for my future wife. Yes, I am still single, because I don't want meaningless relationships or flings. We old school people are always looking for something pure and permanent.✌️
Brother you can have a relationship and still stay away from being physical and believe me it will be much better for you
@@sweet4sweet the thing is finding a girl who have value is tough these days and I did find some girl with value and morals but due to some reason I know marriage is not goona happen so I desided to step back.
@@prajwal_shindee you're just 21 bruh? I'm 26 still didn't touch a single drop of ethanol nor I smoked. 21 is nothing of an age to give up.
@@Sadakpemil osm... Even I believe that I will be like this for lifetime ✌️
@@prajwal_shindee not lifetime make girlfriends too but keep them as friends until you find someone special, I made many good friends. This way you'll also not get distracted and focus on your career with any rona dhona and drama
But bro, in this generation we can't trust someone even after marrying. I've seen people falling in love, marrying immediately and getting divorced/cheated once their desires are fulfilled.
That's why we should choose right life partner.
@@yuvrajbagul6690 It happens in arranged marriages as well. I'm just trying to tell you that just because we are married doesn't mean he/she is the right person. We never know when that person will cheat on us. It can happen immediately after marriage, 5 years later, 10 years later or 20 years later also. And of course I'm against these casual relationships. I'm a one man woman and I want my man to be a one woman man. But, life is uncertain. Nobody can be trusted completely.
@@lunadawn6594
True :(
Its really cruel. Because of marriage laws.
Check the brought up of the girl. That matters a lot
Usually I can see working parents, and the girl is humble. Knows what difficulty is
Business parents daughters are far too entitled
(It's my biggest fear) I actually want bhairav to see this comment and make a video on it, I wanna know his opinion
He is a blessing to all the youngsters like us..🥺
Hello 🙋 yaha mil gaye 😂
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@@sweet4sweet hehe hi 😅 do u watch him too?
@@MissMukherjee398 from a long time and you?
@@sweet4sweet frm few months..
Now I find someone with same mindset just like me😶👽 Thanks for your videos bro 📈📈
That's why I like the wolf ..bcuz he choose only one life partner and live the rest of the life with her 🤧.....
Are we greater than animals but worst than humans 👀
Same goes with swan. They only love one swan their whole life and when their partner dies they will also die with them
@@Purple_fandom_girl yeah ...right ..I also heard about it 🤧
Whattt!??
Your point is valid ❤❤but the female wolf will try to get a new partner the moment her partner dies💔💔💔💔
@@GauravBishwakarma
Alas 🤧🤧....kya karein ..hum ladke h janab🥲
Leaving your girlfriend after she got r*ped is like leaving your partner in their worst time... She needs support at that time and not only as a boyfriend but as a human, you should support her.
Absolute agree
Sometimes i feel, how there's someone who has similar thoughts, in my college too people consider me as old school, and i'm proudly an old school girl. Thought of people still having same pure thoughts in this generation gives me immense happiness 🥹❤️
Be proud ❤
Right ... But my question is wht is your actual thought about hookup culture ? Plz reply after deep think . I m waiting
@@mayanks19 summarise aise kar do ''sala kutto ki jindagi''
@@nithishactor9764 yes,thanks🙏
@@Siddhi_Singh_ you're like a 💎. Love you from up
Great message ❤
Virginity should be given( or offered) not taken (or forced).
I have heard this same words from my professor in our lecture during my second year" we preserve our bodies for our spouse"..... And after 6 years, I'm hearing it out loud in a social media..... I'm really happy about this, that we gen z really have a good understanding of what virginity is, ( where we usually stereotyped as gen z, which i feel is a myth- atleast partially)
he isnt human he is the man the myth the legend batman
True
But his weapon is his speech
@@user-tr5yy7mz4p exactly
bro is hero
no matter what he is a gem to us
Body never forgets the touch, be careful before letting someone touch it.
Bro WT a coincidence just now I was thinking abt one of ur videos and suddenly I got ur new videos notification
I thought only I had this mindset but even my mentor has this. Of course, if a girl is touched without her permission, then there is not even 1℅ of wrong from the girl's side. Heads up siters, you have the courage to face this society 😊
The actual point is not about the V!rg!n!ty, the actual point is about the person who has clear mindset on not to cheat or treachery to their future partner. A r@ed girl hadn't a mindset to cheat on her future partner, its an accident so it's not her fault
Very well said
such a stupid question that was. Were you in a relationship just for sex? Go give her some mental support, make her feel safe, wtf is break up?
Its your pref its his pref simple
@@Guyfrom-iitd would leaving ur gf be even a 'preference' if she got rped?
@@Guyfrom-iitdno his pref is totally shit and u can't ignore
@@Guyfrom-iitdshe should also leave u when u face an accident. And leave u in your hard times
@@aniket3902 i said that everyone has there own pref. Btw i m in a healthy relationship for 3 years she was a victim of rape ,it happen to her when she was 10 yo
Marriage doesn't give you guarntee that he or she will never cheats you,what if the person who was genuine untill marrige goeson to cheating after a few years of marriage,what the other person should do,is she divorce the cheated partener and live the rest of the life all alone? Is getting cheated his/her fault? Don't they deserve second chance?
Facts
You are a gem🙇🏻♀️...bro hatts off your mentality 🙌🏻👑
Hey Aj bhairav, i saw you first time in yt shorts and i liked your videos and now im watching your every videos... You are a great inspiration for us youngsters.... And you are the true social media influencer... Some of the social media influencers are uploading stupid contents to get more views but you are not like that.. Hats of you man👍🏻
Love from Kerala ❤️
Your wife will be the luckiest girl😊
very true bro ✌️✌️ he is trying his level best to help current generation tobe in the right track 👏👏👏🙏
Gifted person in media for young generations🎉❤
That's why I love him🙂↕️💗!
Bro is 100 % right
Thanks sir, am a teenager and your advice felt like my brother is advicing something just loved the way you comprehended this :)
Your videos are special ❤❤
7:37 🙃🥀 yesss it's my fault that i trust him a lot and he used me💔 i can't blame him because i trust him blindly that's why i do that....after breakup i realised my mistake and decided not to marry because i don't want to ruin other person....i don't know if god will forgive me or not💔
It was his fault, not yours. We make mistakes, but learning from them is something preferable. You're not God to never make any mistakes. But being a human there is always a chance not to repeat the same mistake but to learn from them and progress. Trust, but avoid blind trust. Coz some deserve it & some don't & we can't determine who deserves what. Don't blame yourself & God is kind to everyone. God bless you, sis!
@@athvii Thank you sis 🙌🏻
@@Herrr2001 Most wlc! But I'm bro🤧 Athvi is my nickname
@@athvii ohhh... sorry sorry 😅
Vera level ya 👏🏻 nee oruthan podhum to make this generation in right track
The most honest person in this generation, no sweet lies about love, always honest and modest. Proud of you Bro, keep going on🤞🏻🤞🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Bhaiya, thank you so much. People like u are going to save us, our future generation. ❤ Proud to be a subscriber. I'm in 7th grade rn (12 yrs ). Things r going rough regarding relationships and all to the point I think all this is stupid. But you, Brother, Made me Believe and realise True Love.
I totally agree with you Bhairav bhai...❤
Having a sex before marriage will gonna lose that emotional and that feeling when we feel after having a physical connection which somehow gonna affect our bond with husband !!
Am I listening it from a women?... Really??
@@Truthisbitter575fs ? 😅
@@Truthisbitter575 kyu?
@@Truthisbitter575 Bruh just stop generalising the complete gender just because of some fools on internet. A lot of women in this world exist with the same mentality. Just they don't open up a lot about this. Support, don't discourage or generalize like this.
Thankyou for existing bro!🙏
Atleast there are some influencers who are posting meaningful contents that can have a great impact on this disorganised messed up generation and throw light upon such matters which are not happening in homes between parents and children.
I excpected this answer from bro ! i also think like that only . cheers mate who think like that!
Even tho I’m only 11 you’re still my future inspiration
@@kidszonebabyshop877 Just remember to have your own thoughts too, while getting inspired/influenced by others. No one is 100% right.
Internet isn't safe..... Don't reveal ur age again
@@adhiramahesh9783 bro when I was 11 I didn't know anything about such things when I was 11 even when I was 14 I didn't know anything. Nowadays 8 years old kids are having relationships like wth is happening in this world.
@@harpindersingh-ik6sh Let it happen. Just don't break the natural cycle. Everything has it's own time, 8 year old kids having relationships is completely meaningless. And same is till 17-18 or even till 25 if you ain't mature enough to handle it. Age might just be a number but it's true that you learn based on your experiences something like a relationship needs emotional maturity which can only come through experiences which youngsters lack and later they call themselves depressed when they break up. Better is to stay away until you both are mature enough to handle it. Best way is to focus on your career, if you like someone ask them to wait & wait for them to build their career too. If the other one is patient enough to wait for you. You found your soulmate
@@athvii Yes, you are right. I agree with that viewpoint. I never think about such things because I have so many other things to do, such as study.
Investing trust from a place of reality and not potential. Accepting people for who they instead of accepting their ideal versions that only exist inside mind.
What a nice answer…we have such similar mindset on these gender topics… hopefully I’ll find a partner with similar mindset like you… fingers crossed 🤞
U r amazing. Cuz I have friends who follow u and I didn't know. They are teenagers. And u have influenced them positively...
bro, first i am big fan of urs and i am 21 yr old female who is single, even though I am 2k and GenZ ppl call me boomer cuz in my personal opinion i don't accept with this entire dating and boyfriend/girlfriend phase, i personally feel if i date someone and end up marrying someone i feel like cheating on both my ex and my husband (even though i have never been in a relationship till date) also if i am getting married (which will mostly be arranged marriage in future (hope so) ) i want to stay loyal and faithful to my husband alone and i expect the same from him. Also right now i am doing my masters and i want to get into a job so that i can make my parents proud. But having this mindset and living in this society being a psychology student people call me boomer, aunty and also paati, at first i felt really bad that except me all my frnds are in relationship maybe i should join the trend, but being a christian comes with its own benefits ig, i decided to wait for my future husband. (idk if u ever read this comment but yea :) )
Sister, if you feel so to be cheating, divorce would also feel like cheating? If you would not divorce in case of unfortunate, is it not a potential trap of a lifeview? I do not understand why you think dating phase is wrong if not with sexual activity.
Bhairav, I think you might be wrong: marriage is indeed a big commitment, but the fact, that a woman or a man takes upon that commitment, it doesn't mean it's gonna work for life: some marriagies fail, some marriagies are taken too lightly, some other marriagies are either forced or are made by convenience (money, fame...) and some of these failing marriagies often end up in cheating rather than divorce; marriage doesn't have the same importance as when our grandparents married: mines still deeply love each other at 90 yo. This said, I've followed your videos for a long time and you have my respect for the message you're sharing from time to time.
Bro , the reality you told is truth, but here in this video, bhairav was relating marriage to virginity, that it should be satisfied only with the person whom you marry that was the point he trying to make! ( it turns out in this gen that there are many ex-husbands and wives wandering in the streets , so the only way to lose virginity with your soul mate is... by marrying the person you think your soul mate will be and wait till both of their age turn to " 80 " where you both will not even think of cheating, and you can have segs and hence confirm your soul mate! ... and have segs many times afterward😌(it's only my op))
@@can7964 Not even the most pure hearted people would do such thing and I am not pure...
He is speaking about casual multiple relationship and victim of some relationship either rape or marital abuse .
@@Lonewolf-ui7dudo 90% of marriages end like this ??????? How many percentage of marriages did you see these things ??? Stop blaming marriage for this type of stupid things
@@Orewa_luffy4683 Very well, it seems you understood nothing from my explanation.
thank God
u ppl are on right track
Thank you Anna for making such video.... people these days have become blind... God bless you for you hv showed them correct path
Totally Agreed G.
All men with his mindset need to be protected.. for the girls with this same mindset.. I really hope my life partner thinks this way..
Not one of this generation
Thanks a lot you chaged my life a lot
He literally hid your name ..and you showed up 😂 in comments saying thanks
What's the point of hidding your name then
😂
Bro it is not me 😂😂 you mad e a misconcept he helped me to come out from a lot of bad habits and that's why I am saying thank you he thought me diff between love and lust@@KoralKaur4731
@@KoralKaur4731it is not me I am saying thanks because to helped me came out from a lot of bad habits
Hii
It is not me
Anna you are my inspiration ❤
Love your character bhairav😍
Bro I love your vids !!!!
You're definitely right !!!!
Can I please clone this guy and protect him with all my might . He is so good yaar
bro im 17m and i had a brief thinking on the same topic few weeks ago and i had the same mindset of yours. Being a kid living around "modern culture" friends circle who consider all these relationships and hookups are normal, there are very few of them who actually accept my opinion and im proud of it brother. Idk why i talked bout it but i thought of sharing it..... keep posting such stuff anna, you are the one who this society needs now!
Love from chennaii!
Bro literally like me....his mentality, his words, his opinions, his pov....demnnnnnn, he must be my 'kumbh mei khoya hua brother ' 😂❤ love you broooooooo❤❤❤
That's not even a reason. It wasn't her fault. If you really loved her you would be comforting her instead of asking this question
I find a real MAN right now
Yeah but that boy was a teenager so asking question is not wrong
@@We-logs11 I am one too. It's more about mindset than about age
I think it was just out of curiosity
@@JakeRobert123not every one has the same level of knowledge or mindset people learn things by asking questions either with themselves or someone else
Brooo you are 10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000% right ☺💯💯👏👏🙌🙌
The fact that comments on a yt video are respectful even when disagreeing with op speaks volumes on the quality of the content and character of op. Props to you bro.
Bro came Changed some people's mindset and vanished in just 13 fking minutes, hats off to you AJ Bhairav
Thankyou so much for this video❤
Bro these people are asking these kind of questions purposely,just twisting the vision of having loyalty, they think beyond that what if these kind of situation is happening then what's your opinion in this and that, and after hearing they'll decide to criticize those questions.. it's as transparent, anybody with kind heart will accept the girl if she is going through such situations..and they all know you're kind enough, but they still asked these questions to judge you again according to what you reply on those.
Didn't you hear or read that, the person who has asked the question is a teenager ?
@@sweet4sweet so? Why does it matter to you?
@@aliwaheedmomin5962 a teenager is not well aware of the world he/she doesn't have full knowledge of everything that's why that person asked the question to get his answer he got his answer and now he will be his gf side and also he will also influence people of his age for the same thing
@@sweet4sweet you can see few more videos on his channel,then you'll understand what m I saying, I don't need to explain anything to you.. peace 🕊️
@@aliwaheedmomin5962 are you out of your mind he is clearly answering a question and giving a suggestion to a person for a situation about which that person is not well aware. Is that wrong? And also he gave a good suggestion tho
i wish more people are like you bro
You great mannnnnn …!!!!❤🕊️
Same mindset bro ❤❤❤
What a coincidence i just thought about this and said myself the same thing you are saying after watching one of your video and today i am watching this😗
i had promised at my peak of sadness where i ended up being fooled by a girl her intentions was clear that she is going to cheat me when her ex comes again into her life and i was the one stayed loyal and serious towards the relation and ended up being not to go relationship until my death comes infront of me it's been 3and half years since she broke up with me. from then onwards i decided not to go into relationship because i thought one fine day she would just realize that how much serious i was about her soo staying for a girl who left you in a bad situation is it wrong or right bro, but one thing for sure that i hope not to go into relationship with any other girl and not to get married i love being single upto death , one wish to god that if possible in next life she would be my life patner as a correct person.if you read this thank you very much for saving young generation .heart from me brooo,❤
Good bro ❤ Respect and Support from J&K 👈🔥💯 Regards State President Akhil Bharatiya Kshatriya Mahasabha Estd 1897
Brother you are amazingg❤
I will be with her for life time to support her 😢❤❤❤❤
Me too bro my mind also same
That is not their fault . If he Truely loves him . He will stay with her .
Ur thinking = My thinking 😊❤
Agree with you bro😊😊😊
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What a clarity brooo❤
Being a 23 year old girl feeling so proud being virgin and i hooe i can get someone like me ❤
Bro this is my opinion. Marriage doesn't mean they are some saints. Many men/women cheat even after marriage. You need two people to make a successful relationship. Just because you are married doesn't mean the relationship will succeed. And you are not obliged to have an intimate relationship with a person just because they are married to you. Both men/women should marry the person they love or love the person they marry and then think about an intimate relationship.
Bro is spitting the truth🎉🎉🎉
Odd man out ❤ed your way of thinking
Just like we have only one mother we should love and be with only one person in life whatever the situation supporting each other
I want to be like you ❤
Love from Andhra pradesh
Finally somone speaking my mindset.
I belong to genzs but my mindset is like that. Will society accept me? 🗿LMAO! Ofc yess!
Just like Salil Jaamdar, this guy is also in the rare race to teach values to this generation, and I really appreciate both of you. But, only those people will change who have some sense, and most people don't have it, which is really concerning. But still, these CZcamsrs are trying, which is a very huge thing. I feel strong parenting and powerful laws are needed for effective change in our society. What do you think?
AJ, you are from Tamil Nadu, right, so could you please throw light on language wars and cultural hate in india???
Now !!! I'm relieved that there are few men out there ready to accept girls /women even if they are not virgin (raped) as a girl myself ,as a victim ....... I feel so happy right now bro thanks for an amazing video 😊
100% you are correct✅
I tried to stay even after knowing she cheated on me!😢
For the first question
Of course i'll stay with her i'll try to love her even more
And i'll my best to make her forget what happened
Anna I am a 15 year old teen but I am so glad that we share the same mindset many people kind of stereotype us as gen z but it's not true and I myself believe in saving up for marriage I am a very mature person and glad you're out guider love you Anna from heart❤
Bro your mindset matches mine😊❤
But I'm a girl
Just a request bro,please never change ur character please be like this
1:55 that's the same thing i always say
big fan of you sir❤ i don't know if u ever gonna read this, but can you pls make a vid abt should a girl choose a boy on his lowest point? I've heard of so many cases of girls doing so only to get cheated and being left by the guy when he was successful! im truly scared
I think that you should stay with your partner if they got r@ped, that would have been traumatising for them leaving them would be so stressful for them, if you truly love your partner then you will stay by them.
❤💯...super bro.....🎉😊
To be honest the one who dont what to change theor mindset and always say they are the only one who is always right , whatever u do they dont even gonna open their brain and understand the next person 😢
If you don't want to understand them why do they need to understand you. Just because they have different preferences or different mindset or different thought processes it doesn't mean they are close minded
It's just a matter of different perspectives and different choices.
Hats off
We (Bangladeshi) students are currently peacefully protesting against quota,but Student League an organization of the government ambushed us.Nearly two hundred people were injured and many were killed in the attack. At this time we need you very much because the journalists of our country are on the side of the government.They have no news on this issue.They have not promoting about on this issue.Seeking freedom has now become a crime for us.
I think bro already learnt biggest lesson of his life😂
Thankyou brother 😢😢❤❤
Brilliant Bhairav
You have my respect, Come to italy my friend! non mi dispiacerebbe se fossi tu.
Bro i have some feelings on a girl like one sided love u can say . But i didnt talk to her due to shyness and stammering. Coming to the main matter i have saw her with some 2 boys but i still want her ....
Are you out of your mind brother ? Stay away from her have some self respect ? You will become only a backup plan for her nothing else
This is 2024 man you will get heavily manipulated. get out of old era mindset. Be aware of what's going on in the world
Don't talk to her don't see her stay away from her it will be good for you
@@sweet4sweet Bruh calm down. Let him behave logically. Do you know what he mean by saying that he saw her with two boys?
Don't misguide people, please. Those boys might be those you're feeling like but there are chances of them being her friends/brothers/relatives too. It's right to get out of the old-era mindset, but I think that the "new-era mindset" isn't like "If you see a girl with ANY other boy" stay away from her & vice versa.
You can't predict anything 100% just coz YOU FEEL something is unusual. It's better to clear things up by having a convo rather than making different assumptions in mind. Loyal people & good people still exist. Please don't misguide anyone or force some thought. Help them to think & ask before answering 🙏🏻
i am not sure you remember this but you said you would make a video about the caste system in one of your previous videos
I would love to hear your opinion about it