Psychotherapist REACTS to XXXTentacion Revenge
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I am a BABCP accredited cognitive and behavioural psychotherapist living in the south of England. I specialise in working with people who have experienced trauma to help them move forward with their lives.
On this CZcams channel I try and make information more accessible by discussing psychological concepts through reacting to popular media.
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PhD (trauma informed services)- Ongoing
Master of Science (MSc) Psychology
Post Graduate Diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (High Intensity)
Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) (Levels 1,2,3,4)
Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) Child and Adolescent Level 1 and 2)
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You did know he was dead when you recorded this right? 🙏 Rip Jahseh Onfroy 1998-2018
I'm pretty sure the "I've dug two graves for us my dear" is like that thing "if we go down then we go down together"
2:57 is real confusing to me on why you’re confused, he legit says for him and who ever broke him-
incase you dont know the song joceyln flores by x is named after a girl he flew out for a buisness trip she and her freind were very excited but due to some stuff x had to fire them and fly them back out to a hotel so joceyln flores ended up hanging herself and the freind that was there sore the bathroom light was locked so she just left it but the next morning it started to smell so she got the hotel people to open and they found her body... this song revenge.joceyln flores,remedy for a broken heart,everybody dies in there nightmares, most of the 17 album was about her im pretty sure but revenge and joceyln flores are 100% about jocelyn and incase you didnt know XXXTentacion has been dead for 6 years he also has a son who was born a few months after x was shot
xxx is dead
When you said " To answer your question X " like he was still here with us I started crying It hurts so much man
people say he got famous cause of his death but he was a really talented kid ? was one of the best albums I've ever heard
Same
same fucking thing
I never got this, I was a fan since day one but ppl hate so much for no reason..@@creeperyoda4163
So sad 😢 🕊️
To really understand X's music, you have to experience something like how he has experienced. Whether it's a bad break-up, depression issues, or the loss of a loved one. Anything that has permanently scared you. Physically, like me, or mentally.
To me, X helped me through a hard time, and I wish I could've said thank you.
I'm not the therapist here, but to me music is the most powerful thing, and X's music just hits different during certain times in life.
Goodbye X. Goodbye Juice. Goodbye Peep. Goodbye, Mac. Fly high guys, you changed lives 🕊
Edit: Thank y’all for so many likes! It’s hard coping with these emotions and it’s a bittersweet feeling that so many people can relate.
Fr man
Yo you forgot pop smoke but yeah rest in peace X, juice, peep, Mac, and pop smoke
Your right I can understand it I also do have trama
No you dont, just need human emotions.
amen
“Before you embark on your journey of revenge, dig two graves “
This isnt a song about revenge, despite the name being that. This song is about how he dug a grave for a relationship. He feels guilty, its literally his first words... Why would someone who feels guilty about doing something wrong want to take revenge? I feel wronged but i also did wrong, will i act on my revenge. He says all of this in the song. That is the whole moral of the story he is trying to tell.
Fire quote for a tattoo ngl
@@theminime3574 but too long tbh
@@BrokenNatthey said if your going to seek revenge start by digging 2 graves
@@BrokenNat You missed the point mate
The I've dug two graves is a reference to the quote "before you embark on the journey of revenge, dig two graves" basically meaning that trying to get revenge will be bad for you as well
I thought the quote was “He who seeks revenge digs two graves”
Damn. You right. I just searched it up
Knowing this hits even harder. Damn what a prophet
stolen
isn’t that about jocelyn flores who k1lled herself while at X’s house?
“Ive dug two graves for us my dear” basically saying he doesnt want to be seperated from this person even in death.
He’ll rot in his grave because he’s waiting for her. He’s dug two graves after all. He could act on revenge and be with someone else. Some kill some steal and some break your heart. In his heart he’s so in love it feels guilty to want to move on, he doesn’t want to, he doesn’t want to hurt her or show her. He rather lay in his grave and rot, still he wants to act on his revenge out of anger. His pain is her freedom, she’s free while he’s in pain. This song calls to me and is jarringly overwhelming. One of my favourite melancholic melodies.
this. i believe "is all of my pain your freedom?" is referring to the fact he is in pain when seperated from her, but the seperation is her freedom from him.
im not a Psychotherapist but like I feel there is a deeper meaning to this song then he explains here
I imagine so. Sometimes I think it’s easy for us to try and over analyse which I don’t feel is fair having never met him etc based on some song lyrics
thought the same he didnt even understand the line ive dugged to graves for us my dear
As a musician there’s always a deeper meaning sometimes the artist don’t see it either
@@Max-ez7jx exactly 😂😂
It does have a meaning, it’s about his ex and him not being ok with letting her go but she is hurting him and he’s saying he’ll rot but she’ll come with him, also it’s about his uncle who killed himself while x was in the house and x found his body
X was one of the most talented artists i've personally ever seen wich shows in his music
some of fav songs by him are "Depression & Obssesion","Fuck Love" and especially "What Are You So Afraid Of" wich is like a comfort song to me i always come back to when i feel giving up on everything
Since you like a lot of the guitar songs of him i recommend “before I close my eyes” it’s one of my comfort songs
right bro out of the 15 best songs ever imo like five of them are x
“Before You Embark On A Journey Of Revenge, Dig Two Graves” - Confucius
When you said “well to answer your question X” i just started thinking that if X was still here he would’ve appreciated it. R.I.P X, we will all miss you forever. Fly high 🕊️❤
if i may recommend some more songs by him: depression & obsession, jocelyn flores, sad, the remedy for a broken heart, changes
list might go on for a while so this is it for now, i appreciate you and what you are doing here
these are like the worst recommendations you could give sad is like one of his worst song imo get him on some older shit like 777, I spoke to the devil in Miami or in the end
@@wastydBro, it's not about his best songs, these are the easiest songs to give a reaction to as a therapist reaction channel
@hurricaneyouth4227 I love all those songs but nah bros list is better for the psyche. The songs you listed are lyrical but the only one I can see being good from yours is 777. The others aren't songs you can really analyze from psychiatrist perspective. Another recommendation I would suggest is slipknot because he's talking about how his uncles death fucked him up.
@@coldsun29 that means you don’t understand i spoke to the devil in miami properly look into it more
@@coldsun29 that is exactly what i went for with this list, thank you.
if it wasnt specifically to analyse the psyche this list would look a whole lot different, trust
Everytime I hear this song I can’t help but burst into tears. I’ve loved X for so long and his death shook me and everyone that knew him. Rip Jah💔
If you didn't know the actual meaning behind the song is obviously to forgive yourself and move on for the mistakes you've made in the past and the song is explaining how tentaction is willing to accept his punishment in the grave if his ex can move on and enjoy her life without pain or having to worry what he has done in the past
X was such a poet
get them juice wrld reactions in 🙏🏽❤
Yep 100% more on the way
@@TherapistReactsOfficial Take your time!
waiting on it
same pfp brother!
good job@@tsolakiz2589
6/18/2018 was a horrible day. Losing this young am at the age of 20 when he has his whole life and career ahead of him. He was already a legend. And he never got to meet his son. Losing him is one of musics biggest tragedies. I can only imagine the beautiful music we would have gotten. So happy his killers were caught and will rot in jail forever
And he died 7 months before he got to meet his son 😢
This song was dedicated to Jocelyn Flores after she committed suicide. Jocelyn along another girl were involved in a photoshoot with x for his clothing brand, someone stole from x and he didnt know who to thrust, so he decided to fly them back. The girls were supposed to stay in their room until the were flying back. One of x's friends was accompanying Jocelyn in the room when she went to the bathroom, he ended up falling asleep, and the next day the light in bathroom were still on. They contacted the hotel staff to open up the bathroom door, to find her dead body. After Jocelyn's death, x was pretty devastated, it was second person that he found after suicide. First one was his uncle when x was younger, he came back from school to find his uncle hanging from the balcony.
Thanks for sharing, the gives a lot more context
Revenge was dedicated to his Ex girlfriend Genevea not Jocelyn Flores, but The song Jocelyn FLores By X was.
@@ItsKennedy nope, both Revange and Jocelyn Flores were dedicated to her. As for songs dedicated to Geneva from album 17, that was the Ayala (outro).
bro its so sad that he had to see such horrifying and heartbreaking things while growing up
Jah previewed this song 3 days before Jocelyn passed away brotha, it was originally written for Geneva, the the whole situation with Jocelyn happened days after
i take the end as a message to his fans struggling with pain, he knew he was helping people
thank you so much Stu! hearing you validate his emotions in these songs is so relieving. especially when you react to Juice WRLD, my favorite artist. Would love to hear you react to Sometimes - Juice WRLD, and Feel Alone - Juice WRLD. i know you get many suggestions but these two are gold !!
It's crazy how fast time goes by. I just realized it's been about half a decade since X's death and with Juice it's a bit less, but still it feels like it was not THAT long ago.
🕊️ RIP
mother I sober by Kendrick Lamar is absolutely perfect for what you do. It is a very deep and personal song that talks through Kendrick’s trauma that he had to deal with growing up and how it effects him now. Really hope you can get to this song it is so important for people to hear especially with how healing the song truly is. Would love for you to check it out, appreciate the videos
Thanks Tyler, added to my list.
@@TherapistReactsOfficialI completely agree with that recommendation
It was THIS song that REALLY put me onto Jah. I thought he was just a delinquent before this song. He showed his talent for singing and brought up deep questions that are usually only asked by the sub-conscious and later recognized consciously in what he says. But he was insanely troubled. I dont think he would of lasted long anyways if it wasnt for his strong morale. Sadly he was murdered and a legend was stripped from us before it was born.
Legend was born
noo bcuz i almost started crying when he said “well, to answer your question X,” because it made it feel like hes still here..
There is so much more to X's music, you really have to understand what he has been through to listen to his songs to realize their all mainly about the same topic of his ex leaving him and telling him that he rot in hell with X saying he dug two graves for them both saying as she will rot with him.
X has really gotten me through some tough times.
Fly high X
X didn’t deserve to die bet his music would be so good for rn and his music still hits after 6 yrs
you seem like a genuine dude keep doing what ur doing!
Thanks for the supportive comment.
Yooo great job TheRapist
Really enjoying your reactions. I’m looking forward to seeing more Juice Wrld and Xxxtentacion! It’d be really great to see you react to Yungeen ace he has a lot of content for you to break down, his song “Pain” would be a great one to start with. Excited to see more videos from you
thank you so much for keeping his name alive bro
personally i think the ending asking about his pain being your freedom relates to how we as a community we consumed his content
alot of us looked to him to help regulate the emotions we felt in our darkest times through his music
this couldve been his realization of that
i just love his reaction
"Yeah X forgiving yourself it's pretty helpful"
I've dug two graves for us my dear
"oh god"
The song is about revenge and there's a japanese saying that goes like " before you go seeking revenge you should dig two graves" or atleast that's what I think
X is truly a genius. May he rest in peace🕊️🙏
The song is not about "I cant have you, so no one can" - its actually somewhat simple.
Its just about being hurt & wronged and then carrying the anger, because you cant let go of the feeling. He knows he's suffering because of it but cant help that he cant let go of the pain & bitterness, therefore he'll rot.
Hes even saying he doubts he'd act on any revengeful feelings, reinforcing the anger is totally pointless and serves only as poison to himself. The song is supposted to be cathartic for people going through the same, hence the ending.
The digging 2 graves things is only there because he thinks that he wronged her as well - or maybe also because of his failure to let go.
tentaction is willing to accept his punishment in the grave if his ex can move on and enjoy her life without pain or having to worry what he has done in the past
I cant wait anymore for those Juice Reactions. Im checking every single day if they are out.
Oh okay, I’ll get one uploaded in the next few days! I’ve got a few reactions that I’ve filmed but I need time to edit the video screen record and my camera etc. I’ll prioritise the juice wrld ones !
@@TherapistReactsOfficial jes dont stress jourself, take your time to make the best video possible
I have a different way of interpretate eh song, on a way more of like; him burying a part of him alongside of his partner, as if everything remains in the past kind of thing... But he's introspective tells that he's probably the only one that couldn't get out of the misery that break up left him. "You thouht that I would let it go and let you walk", talking about her being on his mind, he could not let it go, he trapped a memory in him... "In my grave I'll rot", he burried all of himself in his grave, symbolising that he couldn't move on from there, he got stuck in the sadness.
That makes sense, that’s a great interpretation thanks for sharing
Even if he's dead, he's still alive, this is Gekyume. Don't cry bacause he died, smile because he existed
17 has always had a special place in my heart because some of his experiences are not too different to some of mine and the lyric from revenge which I always think of is ‘broken hearts break bones’ bc that has been a recurring theme every time u have a breakup whether it’s from my time in drugs and I got worse or self harm or what but I always end up with something broken
Face to face by Juice wrld is a song that, i personally believe explores some interesting and common struggles with sleep paralysis and it would be cool if I could hear your take on the song. Just found the channel and think the vids are awesome. Keep up the awesome content!
rest in peace X i'm sure that if you keep this channel up you will have more subscribers really soon. goo luck man
Thanks. To be honest I just enjoy doing it, and people seem to like it so I’m gonna keep doing it.
X still tries to help and speak to us through his music.
you are so underrated you earned a new subscriber
Thanks so much for taking the time comment - made my day!
@@TherapistReactsOfficial thank you for replying to my comment that made my day
When he Said to answer your question X fr it hurts so bad that his no longer with us but will Stay in our hearts
My pain is your freedom. it basically means his pain gets put into a song for us to enjoy and free our minds. Something for us to relate to ig.
i think the point x was trying to convey here was that instead of revenge he has learned forgiveness he mentions he dug two graves which is his seeking revenge and then states he will rot in his grave which is a kind of change of heart he isnt talking about a past relationship but could be about his mother that couldnt do as much as she or he wanted to as a kid and instead of him hating his mother he accepted and knew the entire time that he should love her and respect the decision and way his life hw was brought up and let his past not change but make him who he was before he passed away
I think when he says is my pain your freedom he is talking directly to us …….asking if him sharing his pain allows us freedom from our own then almost as a response he says enjoy
Yeah that’s a really good point
The worst and most heartbreaking part about his death was that he suffered immensely from depression and wanted to take his own life but someone else took his life when he was on the road to recovery...
The way u said “ to answer your question X” I broke down because you said it like he was still with us and if he was but he’s not 😔
When in the song he says “I’ve dig two graves for us my dear” he saying if I’m going to take my life I’ll also take yours
I Believe this song is a reference to his Jocelyn Flores who committed suicide. He speaks about broken hearts because of his her passing. He says is my pain your freedom because he is in pain on the earth while his she supposedly gave herself freedom from life. The line "I've dug two graves for us my dear" is saying he might take his own life in his grief. And finally he is talking about revenge because he is mad at her for taking her life.
I interpret the ”I’ve dug two graves for us my dear“, more as in that his issues pulled his significant other down with him, due to the follow up ”can’t pretend that I was perfect leaving you in fear“.
nah man this song made me cry when he said i've dug two graves for us my dear' man that hurts me so much
R.I.P. legend
X was a really interesting individual and currently still my biggest idol. I would recommend you watch the "look at me" documentary (about his life). It's here on youtube and offers great insights, especially on his toxic, abusive relationship
Oh I’ll certainly check that out. Didn’t know that was a thing so thanks for sharing
You should hear "Orlando" or "save me" by xxx tentacion those are a must to listen to since ur a therapist
I know nothing about X but my take from this song has always been that he was in a toxic, volatile relationship, maybe violent (i left you in fear, broken hearts break bones so break up before that happens) but he cant let it go, so he'll "rot" over it now its over. But the intro shows the hope that hes moving on and forgiving himself for his own toxic behaviour. I find it really nice actually, sometimes people just arent good for each other and it doesnt mean they are inherently bad or can't grow.
His friend took her life in a hotel bathroom. He fell asleep and she went into the bathroom, and the next day she was still in the washroom, they found her dead in the bathroom. Jocelyn flores and revenge are about that girl who committed suicide.
I would imagine that "revenge" may not be for another person but towards himself as in the song lyrics he is constantly blaming himself for the "break up", he is willing to do things to himself saying things like "is my pain your freedom" as well as "enjoy". We can imagine that maybe he blames himself so much for it that he is willing to do things just for the other person to feel a sort of release from him.
I was just whistling this song and couldn’t remember the lyrics or who made it and then I get on CZcams and this is the first thing I see I kept thinking the lyrics where I’ve tried so hard to hide my pain
I think Jah is speaking to his fans and listeners when he says "is my pain your freedom", for me his music gave me conform that I wasn't alone, many of you may agree to this being true, especially with X's music. then he says enjoy LLJ🕊
“Is my pain your freedom” his meaning behind it is her making him suffer makes her happy
It takes a lot to be able to understand these lyrics, either from being a fan of Jah, or going through something similar to him. Usually the people would listen to his music is people who can relate to his songs and the things he says.
You are overthinking the two graves thing. There is this famous quote- "before you embark on a journey on revenge, dig two graves". X just means he's gonna take revenge on whoever hurt him. "In my grave I'll rot" is just a testament of his dedication to take vengeance
from what i know X felt very alone and depressed for much of his childhood and would fight and get into trouble on purpose to get attention from his Mom, and in terms of trauma at an age no older than 15 he came home from school one day to see his uncle hanging by his neck… fucking brutal to say the least. i really wish he had a longer life to prove that he could become a positive person to spite the conditions from which he came from. Rip Jahseh, i still miss you dearly
from my point of view hes is not singing to a broken relationship hes talking about the thought of having revenge against someone or something and about the mixed feelings hes going through while he contemplates hes decision making. again this is my point of view nice reaction !
I can't even imagine a therapist reacting to my playlist 😂
When he says “in my grave I’ll rot” the line before he says “I don’t want to let it go”. So I think he is being aware of his two beings, his soul and his body. I think he is saying that he (his body) will rot away and he will stay (his soul) on earth. A lot of times it is said souls stay on earth due to a held on grudge. Maybe this is what he is referring to in his song ? Because this girl broke up with him and broke his heart but apparently she led this relationship on for a long time because he says “broken hearts break bones so break up fast”.
No joke I cry sometimes when i think about X, I never knew him personaly but his music was always something that hekped me, Hurts to think about him
I think think that in this song X is trying to express how he wants to be together with a loved one forever but they together seem to have some difficulties.
“in my grave i’ll rot” means to sit and dwell on the past that mollified you and to grow onto it and learn, expressing and learning about life and how to avoid these things instead of being petty and seeking out revenge to harm the individual in mention to the most of his capabilities.
X, was quite the character and philosopher despite him not having experience in the job.
Thanks, that makes sense.
The lyrics of “Revenge” touch upon themes of regret, heartbreak, and the desire for revenge. In the opening lines, X acknowledges his past mistakes and attempts to forgive himself. It’s a vulnerable admission that many of us can relate to-the struggle to come to terms with our own flaws.
X sings, “I’ve dug two graves for us, my dear / Can’t pretend that I was perfect, leaving you in fear.” These lines convey a sense of guilt and an acknowledgement of the pain he may have caused someone he cared about. The repetition of this verse emphasizes the weight of his regrets.
The chorus, “In my grave, I’ll rot,” serves as a metaphorical expression of the pain and suffering he carries within himself. It’s a haunting reminder that our actions have consequences and can leave lasting scars.
“Revenge” is a song dedicated to X’s late friend, Jocelyn Flores, who tragically took her own life while visiting him. Through the song, X reflects on the profound impact her death had on him and explores his own feelings of guilt and grief. It’s a deeply personal and cathartic piece that allows him to process his emotions.
The release of “Revenge” as the single to promote his debut album, 17, highlights its significance to X’s overall artistic vision and the importance he placed on honoring his friend’s memory.
As a listener, I find solace in the vulnerability and honesty of this song. It serves as a reminder that we all have our own battles to fight and that music can be a cathartic outlet for processing our pain. “Revenge” will forever hold a special place in my heart as a testament to the transformative power of music.
Rest in paradise, Jahseh Onfroy, known to the world as XXXTentacion. Your impact on music and the lives of many will be remembered. Your raw talent and emotional depth resonated with countless fans. Though you may have left us, your legacy lives on through your music and the profound influence you had on those who connected with your art. You will be dearly missed, but your voice will continue to echo through the ages. -With love, Angel.
Juice and him is so alike but from x u should listen to 777 he talks about a lot and juice wrld listen to dark place very sad
777 is some real fan shit
Love how he vibes to it😂
to myself, "ive dug two graves for us my dear" means he felt the hole he dug for himself directly effected the other person, jocelyn flores took her life around the time this music was made
The line where he said “I’ve dug two graves for us my dear” is believed to be a reference to the famous Chinese philosopher Confucius quote “before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves”
Juice and x helped me make it thru 🙏🏽
Im not dead till im forgotten.
~X
And that’s why real legends never die
if only x was still here to see this vid, rest easy king.
This makes me want to listen to X again
The slow version made me cry
I sadly only discovered a love for x's music after his passing, when he died I was just too young to really understand the meaning and importance of this music.
That "in the grave ill rott" knowing you cant and would never get or would actually want revenge but wanting it, so you'll think about it and rott with it 😢😢 then the point is to break up what he said, "if I could act on my revenge.. ohhh would iiii" like most people it's a thought not reality , he can't but he wishes he could, even tho he knows it's painful so hurting him or the other party isn't right.
I think you have a great point with if your neighbor is playing music too loud you ask them to turn it down 4:40 my friend was playing music at 7:00 pm and his neighbors called the cops on him so I agree act with respect before acting violent
My intake when listening to revenge iv dug two graves for the pain we go thru together ride or die feeling due to Aquarius's value very much friendships and relationships
ofc he’s an aquarius (as an aquarius i should’ve known ❤)
rip XXXTENTACION fly high 🕊🕊😭😭🕊🕊
i was literally crying and then he said in his wonderful british accent "Break bones"
I think what he meant with dug two graves like, they werent perfect for eachother so kind of did bring eachother down, but then again they love eachother alot so they are burried together
Revenge is just something else
We miss you down here x nobody has or will ever do what you did the way you did it🖤
You gained a sub today
xxtentation JOCLEYN FLORES OR REMDEY OF A BROKEN HEART !
Depression and obsession is one of my favs from x I think youd like the insight
Rip X miss him so much, hope he is flyning high in heaven
I feel like the term "I've dug two graves for us my dear" is him saying that he's planned death for him and his s/o in the relationship, but since something happened, he'll rot in grave alone.
thats my fav song : )
Pretty sure x is saying about how he has many thoughts on how he can commit his revenge on the person who wronged him but at the same time he understands he was making this person live in fear so although he'd like to take their life and his he ultimately decides to take himself only. Taking his anger and crave for revenge to his grave, His pain/death then becomes the other persons freedom as they no longer have to deal with him anymore.
you can use rap genius to get more info on what the lyrics may / do mean great video just found your channel keep going
Hope to see x react to this !
Mans was vibin
The line 'I've dug 2 graves for us my dear' refer to jocelyn flores death (cause: suicide) after she was evicted from x's apartment and im pretty sure that was her 5th or 6th suicide attempt
You missed on this song in terms of your analysis for a lot of it. That's probably due to missing context. Even so your video was great, just subscribed.
Keep up the awesome videos.
Yeah I appreciate there’s loads I miss as I don’t know any background or context and I just base things from what I hear at the time. Thanks for the comment and support.
@@TherapistReactsOfficial Understandable context is key as they say, but I still enjoyed the video.
Also, you've been pretty spot on with your other videos, it gave me a deeper understanding of the songs that I didn't have before.
Once again keep up the good work sir👍