Being The Bigger Person Is Always The Right Idea.

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Komentáře • 119

  • @curtOphoto
    @curtOphoto Před 2 lety +105

    Sometimes you have to stand up for yourself too, otherwise you just become the doormat nobody respects. But choosing your battles is a major key.

  • @elphabafang
    @elphabafang Před 2 lety +7

    My dad lives by this. My mom stomps on him, over and over and over. She's a narcissist, and he loved her once. But my dad always knew that fighting her wasn't worth the poison she would spit. And so, he would graciously accept defeat. Even when he was 100% right, and now, I try to do the same thing.

    • @kitsune1946
      @kitsune1946 Před 2 lety

      Yeah I'm in a similar situation and its best to play nice untill you can leave

    • @ikurasugarbooty2331
      @ikurasugarbooty2331 Před rokem +2

      Um no, y’all need to leave and she can torture some else. I’m sorry you guys have to go through that.

  • @JayCo-
    @JayCo- Před 2 lety +1

    Being true to yourself is the unlock.

  • @cadecountryman6145
    @cadecountryman6145 Před 2 lety +2

    Being the biggest person is always better because it puts your mentality in the right spot so with a little extra power you can be successful.

  • @cjraw8152
    @cjraw8152 Před 2 lety +13

    Unless if it's a situation where it's not beef it's problem than always be honest and speak up. People gotta learn how to openly communicate more without making it an "argument" or a they VS them mentality. We all live on the same place in the same place on the same planet let's act like it and behave accordingly

  • @brotaliancan
    @brotaliancan Před 2 lety

    100% agree! Tooooooo many ppl will never even be able to understand this unfortunately....

  • @cjraw8152
    @cjraw8152 Před 2 lety +13

    The real secret is don't chase the dragon's tail of happy feelings. Happiness is already a product of life, once you embrace life for what you can't change and learn how to change the things you can even if it takes the hardest work than you will already be closer to Peace and happiness than people with millions of dollars who have the money to distract themselves long enough for happiness to feel "good" enough

  • @MikeBarron1
    @MikeBarron1 Před 2 lety +1

    Being gracious is always the great idea!

  • @alexreza1552
    @alexreza1552 Před 2 lety +1

    People say they get tiered of being the bigger person. But don’t do it for them, do it for yourself. Be genuine and loving

  • @lafudge2929
    @lafudge2929 Před 2 lety +5

    We ain't gon' never stop beefin', I don't squash the beef!

    • @thefinalgrind
      @thefinalgrind Před 2 lety +1

      You bring the beef and I'll cook up burgers on the grill. Just make sure you bring the booze too. Cooks drink for free!

  • @chenhau3
    @chenhau3 Před 2 lety

    This is true,you being right isnt always the correct choice,because it doesnt puts you on the path of self improvement and by consequence,the space around you.

  • @fklr-369
    @fklr-369 Před 2 lety +1

    Less of a headache for sure. Much love Gary v and family

  • @nahumjames
    @nahumjames Před 2 lety

    Thanks for another super obvious advice Gary. You're a lifesaver

  • @thileban
    @thileban Před 2 lety

    Kindness wins in the end 💛

  • @Numen_Games
    @Numen_Games Před 2 lety +1

    Don't get involved in drama you don't need it.

  • @Editionsz
    @Editionsz Před 2 lety +1

    Why is it so hard to swallow your anger and disappointment to be the bigger person, and what if the person doesn’t deserve it? Not that I or anyone can be the decider what someone deserves but damn it’s not that easy to let it go and be the bigger person

  • @nicechick6310
    @nicechick6310 Před 2 lety

    Thank you. Good word.

  • @JonathanSorunke
    @JonathanSorunke Před 2 lety +1

    So true it’s not worth arguing and beefing

  • @lowprofilebeauty
    @lowprofilebeauty Před 2 lety

    You make me happy!

  • @chriscane6211
    @chriscane6211 Před 2 lety +5

    I’ve only been watching you for a few months but nothing you say has ever pushed me in a negative direction. You are a god.

  • @Ob-yh7df
    @Ob-yh7df Před 2 lety +1

    The thing is is that when you do it once in a while its okay even if its hard to do it but when it become a habbit to just be the “bigger person” you just start feeling petty out of yourself and you completelystop doing it .

  • @nanastos18060
    @nanastos18060 Před 2 lety

    Fucking god damn love you Gary vee you are for real my hero

  • @garyboswell8478
    @garyboswell8478 Před 2 lety

    I hate that you're right! But also love it

  • @battlemage1738
    @battlemage1738 Před 2 lety

    But I heard about people who hate Being the bigger person because the people that hurt them did something really painful like cheating

  • @NatalieAliciaRavenfire

    I would rather not start any beef with anyone, no matter how wrong or right I am. I made the mistake before and I got my life turned upside because I became arrogant. Now I'm just living my life without trying to wallow in misery. We all make mistakes, even if we lived in a perfect life.

  • @andrefecteau
    @andrefecteau Před 2 lety

    "win by losing"...sometimes a good play

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      @user-dq9ek8lv8g Před 2 lety

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      @user-dq9ek8lv8g Před 2 lety

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  • @XANONYMOUSLYX
    @XANONYMOUSLYX Před 2 lety

    Your becoming my favorite CZcamsr your videos are inspiring 🙏❤️🙏

  • @chasemarquez7620
    @chasemarquez7620 Před 2 lety +1

    Pick your battles

  • @halfb8bel
    @halfb8bel Před 2 lety

    Jidion is a prime example of this

  • @davide1842
    @davide1842 Před 2 lety

    I have the Rare #1/8 Be The Bigger Person; love the message G

  • @ToMu29
    @ToMu29 Před 2 lety

    One hundred FUCKING PERCENT RIGHT

  • @LoveLucyAlways
    @LoveLucyAlways Před 2 lety +1

    GARY!!!! QUIT trying to make me be the bigger person again!!!😐😐🥴😬🥺 People take advantage, because I ALWAYS am.😔

    • @willw33
      @willw33 Před 2 lety +1

      And that is how you discover the good ones

  • @Kty4419
    @Kty4419 Před 2 lety

    Love this guy🙌🏻🙌🏻💖

  • @CHROMEsworldmusic
    @CHROMEsworldmusic Před 2 lety

    Bro, I just saw this at the right time in life. Cheers, youre a good guy

  • @mook9016
    @mook9016 Před 2 lety +1

    I guess I'll just take your word for it then.

  • @jflores85
    @jflores85 Před 2 lety

    Forgive and Forget

  • @MonzonMedia
    @MonzonMedia Před 2 lety

    #truth the world would be a better place if we all lived by this.

  • @JaredHendrixed
    @JaredHendrixed Před 2 lety

    Speak in truth and be in truth and you won't have to worry about all that.

  • @pie579
    @pie579 Před rokem

    I learned this on my own but your 100% correct and I’m gonna subscribe to ya Gary. This is the way Jesus and MLK conducted their self and we’re still persecuted but tbh this is the only method to have a peaceful world, I wish more people could simply do this!!

  • @rishabhkhatri202
    @rishabhkhatri202 Před 2 lety +1

    Secret to be happy
    Really?
    Then I don't want to be happy anymore

  • @mdh1048
    @mdh1048 Před 2 lety

    Proverbs 15:1
    A gentle answer turns away wrath,
    but a harsh word stirs up anger.

  • @TheLisaTorres
    @TheLisaTorres Před 2 lety

    So true. Words to live by. Thanks!

  • @shadow8484
    @shadow8484 Před 2 lety

    Your the man

  • @boroszsuzsanna6882
    @boroszsuzsanna6882 Před 2 lety

    That’s how you know he’s a millionaire never blinks

  • @THEADERS
    @THEADERS Před 2 lety

    Needed that

  • @cyberjark1449
    @cyberjark1449 Před 2 lety +3

    Im stupid i dont understand please someone explain it to me

    • @samhippensteel
      @samhippensteel Před 2 lety

      It just means that when a problem arises between you and someone else, it is better to be calm and work to solve the problem, or even let it go, instead of being nasty.

    • @cyberjark1449
      @cyberjark1449 Před 2 lety

      @@samhippensteel Oh, Thank❤️

  • @pasitheathanatosasmr488

    Ugh love you💖

  • @LulBruhDMV
    @LulBruhDMV Před 2 lety +12

    Nah that’s how I wound up homeless this is horrible advice sometimes u gotta cut ties and be done with it

    • @edenstarr5740
      @edenstarr5740 Před 2 lety

      I so love that those are the two comments you got. Lol
      Like...wtf? 😆

  • @haystackgaming5724
    @haystackgaming5724 Před 2 lety

    He is right I was always taught this growing up

  • @ericad9294
    @ericad9294 Před 2 lety +2

    Humility and empathy. I try to lead with it.

  • @jamesjohn_96
    @jamesjohn_96 Před 2 lety

    Amen!

  • @traevon.m.
    @traevon.m. Před rokem

    Why? Especially if you didn’t start the beef? Who has answers?

  • @christinanguyenentertainment

    woow, it's an amazing idea about being the bigger person. Thank GaryVee for posting this video. Best Regards!

  • @GetFuktPriusOwners
    @GetFuktPriusOwners Před 2 lety

    I always squash the beef before I throw it on the grill...

  • @fj40highroller1
    @fj40highroller1 Před 2 lety

    Truth!

    • @fj40highroller1
      @fj40highroller1 Před 2 lety

      @@garyvee------youtube9381 I’ve been subscribed to you for years brother! Cheers!

  • @-hydro
    @-hydro Před rokem

    You’re gonna get bullied being the bigger person - from experience

  • @noahschaefer7979
    @noahschaefer7979 Před 2 lety

    Man I would love to tell him stuff to help me

  • @AceAzrael300
    @AceAzrael300 Před 2 lety

    💯💯💯

  • @janetcooley4022
    @janetcooley4022 Před 2 lety

    #wisdom #Mentor

  • @kamikaze3015
    @kamikaze3015 Před 2 lety

    Gary kinda looks like mr bean

  • @Rykaas
    @Rykaas Před 2 lety

    As a non native English speaker I'm a bit confused. What does it mean "being the bigger person and being gracious to squash the beef, is always a good idea"?. Is it a way to say "let go of petty arguments" kind of thing? Like, don't waste energy trying to prove others that your right?

    • @MsCristina38
      @MsCristina38 Před 2 lety

      Yes, it means letting the other person win the argument or fight. To be peaceful about it and let it go. The fight is not worth it. Let it go gracefully.

    • @Rykaas
      @Rykaas Před 2 lety +1

      Thanks✌️

  • @siviwe__m2918
    @siviwe__m2918 Před 2 lety

    I Stan!!!

  • @sbslipknot1
    @sbslipknot1 Před 2 lety

    Got it 👍🏼

  • @amr8620
    @amr8620 Před 2 lety

    My question is completely irrelevant but how do you find yard sales or garage sales?

    • @amr8620
      @amr8620 Před 2 lety

      @@garyvee------youtube9381 already did to the REAL Gary Vee

  • @aspen-1277
    @aspen-1277 Před rokem

    All that has done is get me hurt

  • @blackrebelradio9879
    @blackrebelradio9879 Před 2 lety

    We know your employers,,,, who your clients?

  • @glenbisbee4951
    @glenbisbee4951 Před 2 lety

    I work harder than you. I work 32 hours a day. No way you work harder than me. I know it.

  • @MCADHD-rf5kl
    @MCADHD-rf5kl Před rokem

    Nahh, it's the philosophy of pushover.

  • @thefinalgrind
    @thefinalgrind Před 2 lety

    IE, control your ego

  • @SantiYounger
    @SantiYounger Před 2 lety

    nice, what does "to squash the beef" mean?

  • @ankitwaurkar7414
    @ankitwaurkar7414 Před 2 lety

    🔥🔥❤️❤️

  • @filipe977
    @filipe977 Před 2 lety

    Can someone explain to me? It may be the limitation of my language, but I didn't get that one.

    • @dosatch6638
      @dosatch6638 Před 2 lety

      even if you right, to make sure the situation remains ok it's good to let it go ;)

    • @filipe977
      @filipe977 Před 2 lety

      @@dosatch6638 thank you friend!

  • @BalubishTech
    @BalubishTech Před 2 lety

    Nope i dont

  • @delamain611
    @delamain611 Před 2 lety

    No its not

  • @idontcare1102
    @idontcare1102 Před rokem

    lol no

  • @markwenning2216
    @markwenning2216 Před 2 lety

    this!

  • @emilfalsarella4893
    @emilfalsarella4893 Před 2 lety

    Why did you stop saying fuck?

  • @johnnyjohnson2301
    @johnnyjohnson2301 Před rokem +1

    That’s bullshit

  • @angelmontiel3186
    @angelmontiel3186 Před 2 lety

    Hhhmmmm