Pastor J.P. Miller's Alleged Double Life Sins Exposed in "Mica's List" | MICA FRANCIS MILLER CASE

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Komentáře • 722

  • @sarahs.9340
    @sarahs.9340 Před 26 dny +216

    Why isn't anyone talking about what Mica's sister said- he has had mental issues for 20 years, taking meds for Schitzo.
    This now makes more sense. He has serious mental issues, not Mica.

    • @my4daughters
      @my4daughters Před 26 dny +20

      Yes!! My ex-husband is seriously mentally unstable and refused getting help even long enough for a diagnosis! Most that witnessed his behaviors thought he was on m3th or something, but I knew and still know he was not under the influence!! But when he had to hold his crap together he could for just long enough, usually. But he is truly convinced he is 100% sane and the rest of the world is crazy and the problem!! You cannot understand or rationalize with someone like this... took me YEARS OF HELL to figure this out and get away with our 3 girls. It's not as easy as it seems to get away.

    • @bethlewis4703
      @bethlewis4703 Před 25 dny +4

      @@my4daughtersthat part.

    • @alllifematters
      @alllifematters Před 25 dny

      They call it schizo but it's narcissism as narcissism has a delusional aspect to it. I have family members for a long time we thought was schizo but no just a personality disorder

    • @heathab.tooreal
      @heathab.tooreal Před 25 dny +10

      That's why I had jus commented this :
      Why is this man not in a psych ward?? My mom took lithium when I was a teen. I'm 34 now. And they would have to monitor her blood for her lithium levels. SO WHY WAS HE GIVING HER HIS MEDS ??!!! LIKE THIS IS SO MUCH AGAINST HIM AND HES STILL NOT IN HOSPITAL OR JA!L

    • @heathab.tooreal
      @heathab.tooreal Před 25 dny +3

      @4mydaughters I felt ur post!! About my kid n ex ! 🙏🏼

  • @Marylea
    @Marylea Před 26 dny +227

    I just don't understand why people in the congregation didn't step up to help her. It's so shocking. It's mind blowing.

    • @humbertothebeliever2443
      @humbertothebeliever2443 Před 26 dny +31

      How could they if they didn't know? They both acted sooo happy in church. I blame the governing body for keeping him in charge even tho they KNEW what he was doing with some young women in the congregation.

    • @T3361t
      @T3361t Před 26 dny +39

      Some did! Her roommate got kicked out the church just because she gave Mica a place to stay.

    • @jenniferbailey5914
      @jenniferbailey5914 Před 25 dny

      Brainwashed!

    • @lisabowden402
      @lisabowden402 Před 25 dny

      Because they are brainwashed and scared I suppose. Seems crazy but when you think about cults historically , they are willing to die for these people . Guiana Tragedy, David Koresch etc. cult like behavior

    • @teelastrong8190
      @teelastrong8190 Před 25 dny +22

      @@humbertothebeliever2443 His sermons along were enough evidence to sit him down. And his governing (sham)board appears to be a bunch of "yes" folk or even people with criminal backgrounds who would cover for JP's behavior because he had stuff on them.

  • @MB-sg8dx
    @MB-sg8dx Před 26 dny +182

    I watched the interview with mica’s sister who said they photographed and videotaped the condition of her body, and that her poor dad sobbed so violently, she has never heard such a sound come from someone. May God bring Justice soon, and heal this family of this heartbreaking trauma.

    • @spunkycat6144
      @spunkycat6144 Před 26 dny +14

      And JP loved it so much that he went to see her body over and over.

    • @Marylea
      @Marylea Před 26 dny +14

      That's so heartbreaking 😢

    • @cosmicshy637
      @cosmicshy637 Před 26 dny +21

      I'm so glad they documented all of her so nobody can lie!

    • @teelastrong8190
      @teelastrong8190 Před 25 dny +12

      @@spunkycat6144According to the funeral director, it isn't true that JP was with her body four times. The camera recorded JP sitting in a corner the entire visit.

    • @robcyr839
      @robcyr839 Před 25 dny +6

      Sad that her father couldn't get her away from JP but there is only so much you can do. This is a woman who threw away a good man like trash and reconciled with a psychopath 8 times. Accountability is a scary word to modern women.

  • @lifecontent6525
    @lifecontent6525 Před 26 dny +113

    So many false prophets and their sheeple

    • @PJTYLER
      @PJTYLER Před 26 dny +2

      John 13:27
      And after the sop satan entered into him.

    • @carmenbautista3353
      @carmenbautista3353 Před 25 dny +4

      Yet no one in the church can see it or feel it. Lack of intuition.

    • @PJTYLER
      @PJTYLER Před 25 dny +1

      @@carmenbautista3353 God tells us to discern the spirits.
      It seems like those folks could not (or would not) discern between good and evil.

  • @kelliesharpe1067
    @kelliesharpe1067 Před 26 dny +90

    My ex wouldn’t let me sleep. It was weird to hear someone else going through that too. I went back to work from 11p-7a so I could be home all day with my 2 little boys. I had flat out told him I was leaving when I saved the money to go. When I would try and go to bed, my ex would open the bedroom door and slam it so hard it eventually cracked from the bottom to halfway up the middle of it. He’d also just lean down and scream in my ear and about stop my heart. I’ve been so sleep deprived that I thought I saw street signs move and I’d even get sick at my stomach from it and just throw up.
    It’s evil to keep someone from sleeping just to control them.

    • @jenniferbailey5914
      @jenniferbailey5914 Před 25 dny +18

      Mine would come in and kick the bed. Sleep deprivation is to keep you in a state of confusion!

    • @bettywatkins28
      @bettywatkins28 Před 25 dny +18

      ⁠@@jenniferbailey5914 I came to say this!! It’s easier for them to gaslight you when you’re tired.

    • @Meggerz207
      @Meggerz207 Před 25 dny +9

      It’s a common form of abuse to not allow their victim to sleep. I’m so glad you got out. The same happened to my sister. She wasn’t allowed to sleep or rest.

    • @julietruesdell.371
      @julietruesdell.371 Před 25 dny +6

      I pray you get out safely and lawyer up and document and order of protection..he's going to make your life a living hell. This is the dating life in today's world..the men I meet act just like this and I know the word of God and will not be abused or dominated in control tactics..I don't like being alone but thank God he's protecting me.

    • @kelliesharpe1067
      @kelliesharpe1067 Před 25 dny

      @@julietruesdell.371 oh I got out. I got out and met my husband 3 weeks later. That was almost 30 years ago. He raised my 3 & 4 year old boys with me like they’re his own and we had one some together. I got sole custody of my boys just 2 years after I left because my ex married a psycho who ended up punching my middle son in the face and almost broke his nose. We never heard from him again until my kids were grown. He came to one of their graduations but that was it. My husband and I have had a very good life together. He’s the polar opposite and of my ex mentally and physically. He’s actually one of the best people I’ve ever known. I was an abused kid who married someone mean like my father who abused my Mom. Very typical. I snapped out of whatever mental illness that made me stay. I was 30. I think I just needed to grow up and my ex beat the damn maturity into me. I’d do it again though just to make sure I had my two oldest sons.

  • @shesawildflower1910
    @shesawildflower1910 Před 26 dny +66

    I feel like some of the reason people in the "church" did not step up for Mica had to do with the smearing of Mica's reputation and telling them all she was mentally ill and having mental breaks all the time. No telling the CRAZINESS he spoke about her. A narcissist always destroys their victims credibility and reputation somehow and in EVERY relationship the victim has with others. Should they have stepped up, or noticed it, yes, definitely so. I would hope someone would have helped her. However, I believe he hid the abuse very well, and Mica tried to hide it as long as she. It could. He is a very diabolical and manipulative abuser. He needs intervention and held accountable for his part in Mica's demise. He is a sick, sick individual!!

  • @thierrykillian8419
    @thierrykillian8419 Před 26 dny +97

    John-paul is the worst human I've ever encounterd,

  • @jenniferbailey5914
    @jenniferbailey5914 Před 25 dny +92

    My best friend has just left her husband of over 20 years because she found out he is a pedo He was an elder in their church. These horrible people hide behind religion because it gives them cover for their sinful behaviour!

    • @kerrikolby6124
      @kerrikolby6124 Před 25 dny +7

      So sorry for her, this is a woman’s worst nightmare and after 20 years 😔

    • @julietruesdell.371
      @julietruesdell.371 Před 25 dny +6

      Wolves in sheep's clothing..the characteristics of the enemy is all about image, they have an image to uphold, it's about time God exposes the darkness.

    • @julietruesdell.371
      @julietruesdell.371 Před 25 dny +6

      Abusers are usually in a trusted position, has authority, access or power..such abuse and revenge is the Lord's.

    • @PJTYLER
      @PJTYLER Před 25 dny +2

      My heart hurts for your friend. I think that the following says it all.
      John 13:27 (KJB) And after the sop satan entered into him.

    • @shirl974
      @shirl974 Před 22 dny +2

      🤮🤮🤮🤮

  • @ksb4ha
    @ksb4ha Před 26 dny +40

    Unbelievable that the church allowed him to continue as Pastor. Thankful he’s being publicly exposed. I’ve seen his police record too. Horrific.💔

    • @Meggerz207
      @Meggerz207 Před 25 dny +6

      He should never have been allowed to be a pastor at all to begin with.

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 Před 25 dny +2

      The people there should have left and I have heard some did. The ones who stayed are either big rats or controlled like cult members.

  • @Whims-isms_1776
    @Whims-isms_1776 Před 26 dny +63

    As someone who got out of a similar situation, when you are in an abusive relationship you are afraid to involve others. When abusers are aggressively hunting you, they WILL go after anyone who provides you with support, including shelter. If someone takes you in, they will threaten . At one point, i packed up in the middle of the night, breaking my parents hearts - after they had just helped me get away - only because breaking their hearts was safer then him putting nails in their tires or attempting to threaten their livelihood.
    I went back to him fully accepting that he could kill me.

    • @Theangelsmustbelaughing
      @Theangelsmustbelaughing Před 25 dny +7

      This reminds me of my mother. I'm sorry u went thru this

    • @Maiju86
      @Maiju86 Před 25 dny +7

      That's so sad 💔😭 Are you safe now?

    • @robcyr839
      @robcyr839 Před 25 dny +3

      That is the point....nice guys are easy to leave but psychopaths aren't for more reasons than one. No one in that church or even her family was going to convince her to leave JP. This is the same woman who cheated on Jeremy and dumped him like trash. A woman's psyche is a scary enigma.

    • @grossot
      @grossot Před 25 dny +3

      You make a good point. So sorry you went through that

    • @Whims-isms_1776
      @Whims-isms_1776 Před 25 dny +7

      @@Maiju86 i am safe, thriving & FREE.
      He passed in 2021 from terminal cancer.

  • @kimberlyschilling4218
    @kimberlyschilling4218 Před 25 dny +11

    I would like to see Micas Law be passed in every state!!

  • @grace-fc2kf
    @grace-fc2kf Před 26 dny +51

    The Apostle Paul stated that we should avoid even the appearance of evil.
    So, I can't understand how congregants follow such
    leadership. This is happening all over the world.

    • @laceystrattonwhitehead1199
      @laceystrattonwhitehead1199 Před 25 dny +4

      Bc they believed what JP said instead searching scriptures for themselves.

    • @cindylewis7072
      @cindylewis7072 Před 25 dny +3

      The devil/evil comes in many forms especially in the deceiving forms of beauty, love, peace, likability, humor etc.

    • @1love1hope1faith
      @1love1hope1faith Před 24 dny

      Agree!!

    • @KatieLHall-fy1hw
      @KatieLHall-fy1hw Před 10 dny

      I don’t think it’s hard to understand at all. It happens everyday everywhere

  • @cr3062
    @cr3062 Před 26 dny +44

    The devil comes disguised as an angel of light.

  • @KatelynIngle
    @KatelynIngle Před 24 dny +11

    Donated to Micas family go gund me almost 30,000! Called my state senatoor about Micas law!

  • @vfvf9354
    @vfvf9354 Před 23 dny +7

    Why haven’t the authorities brought him forth for major questioning. This is some evil spousal abuse!

  • @bpassion4fashion581
    @bpassion4fashion581 Před 25 dny +18

    This IS NARCISSISTIC ABUSE!!!!! All of it. It’s all about power and control. The amount of rage they carry is infinitely disgusting.
    The law needs to catch up with this type of abuse. HE NEEDS to pay for driving Mica to un aliv herself and for all the abuse and suffering he put her through.

  • @JillCee
    @JillCee Před 26 dny +34

    So much info about the crime scene was so inconsistent. His lawyer also has a vacation home just 8 miles from where she died. So insane.

    • @Maiju86
      @Maiju86 Před 25 dny +6

      And direct boat connection to that location. That Fair bluff Tiktok video is also so good! Why would she say she is in Fair bluff?! It didn't make any sense.

  • @lisalee9695
    @lisalee9695 Před 26 dny +80

    How could people worship the Lord with this weirdo? It must of been uncomfortable when he laid his hands on people for prayer. His character fits his appearance perfectly

    • @carmenbautista3353
      @carmenbautista3353 Před 25 dny +3

      No intuition.

    • @jacquelynndee4321
      @jacquelynndee4321 Před 25 dny +9

      Just shows how easily people can be manipulated and mind controlled

    • @daisywares1
      @daisywares1 Před 25 dny +2

      So gross. Just sickening

    • @AmandaWait
      @AmandaWait Před 25 dny +3

      Lack of discernment. Fear maybe.

    • @deniseganey6890
      @deniseganey6890 Před 25 dny

      It looks like he pulled the wool over many eyes . Vulnerable ,gullible people are very susceptible to manipulation. .

  • @Mimi-oq5hq
    @Mimi-oq5hq Před 25 dny +24

    Let justice handle JP. However, the church needs to get JP off the podium. Don't let a double life person preach.

    • @MizzTH-G
      @MizzTH-G Před 25 dny +1

      That whole church needs to take a pause. A long pause!

  • @michellepaul6817
    @michellepaul6817 Před 26 dny +25

    What a heartbreaking case. I hope her family gets justice. This guy is a true psychopath and deserves to be held accountable.

  • @loriminutoli5921
    @loriminutoli5921 Před 26 dny +27

    I've never, ever believed she took her own life.

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 Před 25 dny +3

      I thought maybe she did, then in a few minutes had scratched the surface. I just don't see anyone filing for divorce and a restraining order, having a new church and getting rebaptised as suicidal at all. She'd sworn off the bullet.
      She was lured or overcome. It's now known how easy it is to make an AI recording or cover over your own voice with AI, live.
      And JP sounds so abusive, has no control over his urge to get a new woman, children are not safe around him. I can't imagine what it will take to get him behind bars, but I think soon he will be ostracized into a worse state of mind. He is doing this to himself.

  • @Mimi-oq5hq
    @Mimi-oq5hq Před 25 dny +19

    Shame on the congregation. They knew that JP has problems but did not dare to speak out.

  • @ellen4535
    @ellen4535 Před 25 dny +24

    JP is straight up the devil himself. I’ve never said that about anyone, but this man is truly the definition of evil. My heart breaks for what Mica went thru with him. This man needs to be locked up; he’s insane and dangerous on so many levels.

    • @NYC2023-du8mg
      @NYC2023-du8mg Před 25 dny +3

      Ephesians 6:12
      “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, *against spiritual wickedness in high places* .”
      King James Version (KJV)

    • @AmandaWait
      @AmandaWait Před 25 dny

      @@NYC2023-du8mg He needs deliverance.

  • @kitcat901
    @kitcat901 Před 26 dny +53

    Anyone who is still going this church is renouncing their faith in that action

    • @NYC2023-du8mg
      @NYC2023-du8mg Před 26 dny +1

      I agree !

    • @Igotnothin_
      @Igotnothin_ Před 23 dny

      Too many “churches” are of the same ilk
      I’m an atheist, but if I were religious, I would never tithe and/or go to church

  • @jacquelynndee4321
    @jacquelynndee4321 Před 25 dny +9

    After hearing all of this people say “oh no wonder she did ended her life”. I say the opposite. He is showing how evil and manipulative he is and could’ve pulled this off making it look like she did it.

  • @joyfullone7937
    @joyfullone7937 Před 25 dny +11

    She carried a light that came from within, you can see it in her eyes. It’s so tragic that light has been put out. JP was probably envious bc he could never have that. He pushed her into desperation.

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 Před 25 dny +2

      I don't think that light will ever go out, she's got it for good now. I don't think he will ever be what he could have been if only he'd made wiser decisions.
      Eternity is real and in a very difficult place in her life, she kept her chin held high. He took the low road of serving his flesh.

  • @bekayezme
    @bekayezme Před 26 dny +27

    Her sister said on a interview that a log was on Mica in the water. Why isn’t anyone talking about that?

    • @Maiju86
      @Maiju86 Před 25 dny +9

      Yes, my thoughts also! How could that happen?!

    • @MultiSignlanguage
      @MultiSignlanguage Před 24 dny +1

      I never saw that. Really?

    • @elvadrum4965
      @elvadrum4965 Před 23 dny +1

      I wonder about that too.

    • @anacolon1142
      @anacolon1142 Před 21 dnem +2

      I heard that too but maybe not everyone has heard this very peculiar detail of a log being on top of her body in the water. You have to wonder how she managed to do this after she pulled the trigger. 🤔🤨

  • @grossot
    @grossot Před 25 dny +5

    If someone treated an animal the way JP treated Mica, they’d be fined and locked up

  • @c.catlover4080
    @c.catlover4080 Před 25 dny +7

    Lawyer (Regina Ward) should have some provision in that document to prevent a spouse that is being divorced from to claim any rights over the deceased. Mica's family should have had rights about cremation, autopsy, etc.

  • @janinegarcilazo1061
    @janinegarcilazo1061 Před 25 dny +4

    This makes me so sad. My ex wouldn’t let me sleep. Would prohibit me from seeing or speaking to friends. Would yell at me incessantly. Would have me followed and stalked. I was lucky to make it out.

  • @my4daughters
    @my4daughters Před 26 dny +19

    I was married to a man who acted very similar to this guy. You cannot imagine the mental toll someone is going thru behind closed doors. My ex is still very unstable, but thankfully, I finally got divorced, and he is supposed to get our 3 daughters every other weekend. Thank God he realizes he can not handle caring for them even that much and has backed off somewhat. Now, he's obsessed with suing the State for trying to enforce him in paying his child support. I think my ex is more mentally delusional than this guy, but he knew what he was doing! He believes his own BS, and it's truly delusional. I filed for divorce in 2018, and he fought me every single step of the way. At that time our oldest was 4 yrs old and he would tell her on his visits that she and her sisters would probably end up being taken away by the court, but just for a little bit, and it was that moment when I realized there was nothing he wouldn't do just to hurt me!! He tried trashing me in every court room he could file stupid papers in and drag me too, 3 different County Courthouses, harassed the DA in his county to go against the words of the cops that showed up when I called bc he wouldn't let me leave with our girls in my arms screaming bc he'd scared them too death. He had me charged with 4 felony charges only to have them finally dismissed after the cops showed up to testify and my ex chickened out getting slapped with contempt charges and jail time. I could go on and on, but the terror these people cause others is real and they make you think you are nothing with out them and they will just destroy you rather than let you go! It's sad andbI pray courts start to understand and see this behavior for exactly what it is... ABUSE!

    • @teelastrong8190
      @teelastrong8190 Před 25 dny +1

      I'm so happy you escaped. I pray for your continued healing.

    • @kerrikolby6124
      @kerrikolby6124 Před 25 dny +3

      My ex husband has done much of what you are saying.
      It never ends and will continue as long as he has breath in his lungs.

    • @Meggerz207
      @Meggerz207 Před 25 dny +1

      Thank you for sharing your story. I feel more need to speak out like this. Praise God you got out and you’re okay. You’re one strong lady! God bless.

    • @mstar4150
      @mstar4150 Před 25 dny +2

      Please get your kids away from your ex. You should have sole custody. You can't change this type of person.

    • @grossot
      @grossot Před 25 dny +1

      I’m so sorry you and your girls endure this. He could use the money he’s suing the state with for his daughters! What a giant toddler. One day your strength will pay off. And his tantrums will catch up to him

  • @pattyolson3842
    @pattyolson3842 Před 26 dny +23

    This list is heartbreaking!

  • @spunkycat6144
    @spunkycat6144 Před 25 dny +4

    Someone met her at the park, told her to walk somewhere to give her money, and set it up, got her phone, did AI call, shot her where no one would be, deleted her phone stuff, had lookouts in the river. Killed her, put her in water, and they deleted her body as evidence.

  • @JimmyMeroney-pl8ld
    @JimmyMeroney-pl8ld Před 26 dny +29

    ITS TIME FOR JP TO BE MADE AN EXAMPLE OF !!!!

  • @benicio1967
    @benicio1967 Před 25 dny +4

    When you are first getting to know someone, be extremely hyper vigilant to look for morbidly low self-esteem in a potential partner. It could save you many months and even years of grief and could possibly save your life in the end. Anyone who wants to dominate and control or subjugate you, if they hate and resent you feeling connected to others or uplifted and exalted by others recognize they are poisonous and will be an impediment to your well being and joy. Anyone who smothers you or divides off you from those who truly love you, actually care nothing at all about you. Disconnect from anyone in whom you see these characteristics.

  • @My-life-b-like
    @My-life-b-like Před 25 dny +4

    This is so heartbreaking I’m crying 😢. The torture is beyond anything I could fathom.
    If there isn’t charges brought up on
    him I’ll be so shocked. There is so much evidence.
    The fact that this bill has been sitting on the senate’s judiciary committee floor for 4 years is beyond disgusting. Senator Luke Rankin must answer to this. He has blood on his hands. This bill could have saved her life and help many others, that are still going through this.
    Regina Ward the lawyer, is tough as nails. She is a DONT MESS AROUND AND FIND OUT type of Lawyer!
    May Mica finally rest in peace and get the justice she deserved!

  • @lindatheodorou389
    @lindatheodorou389 Před 26 dny +8

    Why was he never arrested? Vandalizing her car, is one reason.

  • @marywarrior47
    @marywarrior47 Před 26 dny +13

    WHAT HAS BEEN HIDDEN FOR MANY YRS. IN THE DARK IS BEING REVEALED NOW👑

    • @NYC2023-du8mg
      @NYC2023-du8mg Před 25 dny +2

      Amen !!!
      Luke 12:2
      “For there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; neither hid, that shall not be known.”
      King James Version (KJV)

  • @ashleydejardin5138
    @ashleydejardin5138 Před 25 dny +5

    This NEEDS TO BE A LAW! I support MICAS LAW! JUSTICE FOR MICA MILLER

  • @bettywatkins28
    @bettywatkins28 Před 25 dny +8

    Unfortunately, this is more common that ppl know. I went thru it. Didn’t know what was happening. I thought I was losing my mind. It almost happened again but I recognized the signs so I ran. Thank God she didn’t have children with him.

  • @jaxxb5591
    @jaxxb5591 Před 25 dny +8

    I think JP has hooves and horns at that pulpit. I feel all 50 states need Micha’s law!! RIP Micha 🙏🏼

  • @juliatillman5402
    @juliatillman5402 Před 25 dny +4

    My ex did most everything on that list to me. It took several times leaving him, going back, and finally leaving for good, but like Mika the threats and harassment did not stop until he died from his own apartment fire ( which he caused accidentally). I’ve never felt relief at anyone’s passing, except for his.

  • @katelynn58
    @katelynn58 Před 25 dny +3

    I was married to a “Christian man” who checked so many of these boxes. I was given a book called “Christian Men who hate women” and I pretty much highlighted the entire book…especially using his skewed version of the word of God to tear me down. One interesting quote from the book is the three top professions of these type of abusers are men in high regarded sales, policemen, and pastors of large churches. I found this truth over and over again as other women I knew came forward. Anyway, God was merciful to me and gave me the power and discernment of His Holy Spirit and within 3 years I got out. This is not to say those years didn’t leave their mark, but over time, God redeemed them all. God showed me He loved me far greater than I ever imagined and I’m so much healthier in all my relationships because of it.

  • @spunkycat6144
    @spunkycat6144 Před 26 dny +18

    If a woman did this to a man...the law would have been passed ASAP.

  • @onthecasejeannie
    @onthecasejeannie Před 26 dny +16

    Gavin there's actually someone who faintly says Mica Miller and there's also someone who says fairbluff before she does and there's also two men talking about turning this way and grabbing an arm and you hear mica scream hellllp. You haven't heard the entire 911 call yet I guess. But Gavin , it's 100% AI - when using AI apps to make micas voice say what they want. They have to speak into the app running on the phone. But it's probably a free or cheap app so you can actually faintly hear the actual person speaking right before Mica.
    Then at the end , you hear the men, they thought it was hung up but they just closed the app and so the sound comes in full volume.
    IMO it seems to me that she was lured by the attorney for JP or JP to the lawyers property to sign papers and make it an easy amicable divorce, mica reluctantly agreed because she would do almost anything to get the harassment to stop.
    But probably had a bad feeling so stopped to buy a gun on the way.
    JP had his PI watching her and he went in while she was in the pawn shop to see what she was buying and once he overheard it was a gun he told jp .
    If Jp had access to that plane at the time , he could have used that to travel back and forth and be in Savanah not long after. I think it was suzies voice talking into the Ai app. TWO GUYS AND A GIRL WERE ALSO NEAR THE AREA IN A BOAT -A FATHER AND DAUGHTER AND BOYFRIEND OR IS IT FATHER, SON AND GIRLFRIEND, OR LAWYER , PASTOR, AND SECRET GF?😮
    Ik it sounds crazy , but as you see we are dealing with a complete psychopathic lunatic. So the craziest story might be closet to the truth with him.
    Also that Robbie Harvey did a recreation of micas voice in the 911 call with AI and its almost identical .

    • @PJTYLER
      @PJTYLER Před 25 dny +5

      Your comment sounds absolutely, and totally wacked like crazy.
      I had to read it more than once.
      I'm not 100% sure yet(because it's still sinking in)...but I think I believe every word of your comment.

    • @whims6278
      @whims6278 Před 25 dny +5

      He was clearly a man willing to go to psychotic lengths to punish her for daring to disobey him. I wouldn't put anything past him.

    • @onthecasejeannie
      @onthecasejeannie Před 25 dny +4

      @PJTYLER to me it makes the most sense, even tho logically it sounds absolutely like a freaking movie, this guy lives his life like he's a SuperVillian disguised as a pastor and playing the role of his life. The ego can not get much more out of control than it is with this guy rn.

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 Před 25 dny +2

      Also Jenn at FITSnews did one and she said it took 30 seconds. There have been others.
      If it is her it sounds completely flat and odd, and he's no stranger to traumatizing, controlling and drugging her, so he could have programmed her. He's a total game player and controller, can't say no to himself

  • @alllifematters
    @alllifematters Před 25 dny +4

    He goes to these lengths to abuse her, how is unaliving her not also an easy next step for him. He didn't love her at all. Wow. He is a psycho!

  • @robertlee7560
    @robertlee7560 Před 25 dny +6

    Where are board members.did they get paid to be quiet????

  • @MizDawn
    @MizDawn Před 26 dny +17

    Are you aware of, or have you seen the video footage where she stopped for gas? A dark colored truck drove by 3 times, and when she first pulled in, she walked to the side of the building for quite a while. I thought he would stalk from afar, but now that you read he wanted her to know, I now believe that WAS him. Thoughts?

  • @anneliejansenvanvuuren8229

    It is very dangerous to get out of a DV relationship

  • @daisywares1
    @daisywares1 Před 25 dny +4

    If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s to stay AWAY from extreme religion and religious zealots. It pains me to no end that Mica fell victim to this creep in the name of the Almighty

  • @jenniferbailey5914
    @jenniferbailey5914 Před 25 dny +8

    I’ve seen this movie before except I was in it. Everyone has their breaking point….Mica reached hers. I can relate….it’s a living hell to be married to such a monster and worse if you try to escape.

  • @tonyahanks7863
    @tonyahanks7863 Před 26 dny +11

    I think she really thought this was the only way to get him exsposed and bring this to the light

  • @dadsarepeopletoo3785
    @dadsarepeopletoo3785 Před 25 dny +7

    He did it. Somehow, some way he did it

  • @adriannegrant766
    @adriannegrant766 Před 25 dny +5

    This man needs prison time , he is a psychopath , please FBI find something on him

  • @Investigativebean
    @Investigativebean Před 26 dny +9

    When someone shows you who they are the first time, we must believe them. There are places you can go when you are being abused, however they will not assist you at many of these places unless the abuse is physical. As the attorney mentioned, they expect physical bruises . Psychological abuse doesn’t get the same amount of seriousness. Having been in this type of relationship, and knowing a friend enduring it presently, you feel very stuck. Like “so I have to let this escalate before you can help?” This friend was told that they would need to see that a police report was filed for domestic violence.

  • @themulti-coloredcanary5795
    @themulti-coloredcanary5795 Před 26 dny +29

    This is why religion is so insidious! I do not understand how people can subscribe to something that shelters and protects people like JP. We know it happens, we know that churches protect the predators.
    I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone and then doing even one of the things that this man did. It's clear he is a monster! How many preachers have been revealed lately to be monsters?

    • @JillCee
      @JillCee Před 26 dny +7

      Obviously not everyone who says they are a Christian is. Also, people do not really know their Bibles either since most Just read them only when at church. Just knowing the Bible better would definitely give people knowledge to hold people like JP to task. Nope, not calling him a pastor. People are easily shaken if they don’t fill their minds with knowledge. God takes this kind of abuse and mistreatment seriously. Matt 25:31-46

    • @lindatheodorou389
      @lindatheodorou389 Před 26 dny +5

      The bible also commands husbands to love their wives, as Christ loves the church (people). Why can't his congregation that still follow him, see the truth???

    • @LisaP-pd6nq
      @LisaP-pd6nq Před 26 dny

      It is not religion that is insidious, it’s FALSE religion that is toxic. There are still way more good churches than bad and way more good people than bad. The facade of the wolf in sheep’s clothing spreads to every facet of society. We must remain vigilant always.

    • @whims6278
      @whims6278 Před 25 dny +1

      Amen to this

  • @loveroftruth56
    @loveroftruth56 Před 25 dny +3

    When J.P. finally knew he was loosing control of her and couldn't stop mica from sharing his horrible actions, I believe he took her out to shut her up. That is the reason why he dumped her body in some of the nasty slugg water with whatever else is in that water. He threw her out with the trash. He must be held accountable even without this law!
    In the meantime we must pray God will bring judgement for J.P. quickly to spare others of this same treatments! Praying there will be a prosecutor with a gentle compassion for her that he will go after him in every way !
    Mica prob felt that she could possibly prevent him from harassing her friends and family so she had to remove herself if she actually did take herself out.
    Pray the ppl involved in this whole situation will have courage to come forward including those children who were abused sexually by him. That 1 thing right there would be enough to put him away for a long time.

  • @radish848
    @radish848 Před 26 dny +8

    Mica's family took pictures of the bruises.

  • @lisette6720
    @lisette6720 Před 25 dny +3

    This is heartbreaking. That church failed Mica

    • @jennywilliams531
      @jennywilliams531 Před 25 dny +1

      ...and to think she is gone & that demon is still on this earth

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 Před 25 dny

      It seems like she's in a better place than he will ever go.

  • @hillarymclaughlin3347
    @hillarymclaughlin3347 Před 25 dny +4

    Thank you so much for this 3rd live, Gavin. I did not know all these allegations about JP. That guy needs to go down before he does this to another soul. Thank you for being such a levelheaded and smart content creator. I enjoy your cautious, yet ambitiously investigative nature and it is a great combo!!!!! You are a true professional.

  • @michellefaber6872
    @michellefaber6872 Před 25 dny +2

    I listened to an enhanced 911 call the lady that enhanced the ending sent it to the FBI already. But you can clearly hear a man say “get up, hun”, “grab her arm”, “ready set.” And then you can hear a scream like noooo or help! Once I heard that it’s Crystal clear to me that she was forced into it.

    • @tomcat51701
      @tomcat51701 Před 24 dny

      i heard that too! that was one of the most BIZARRE 911 calls I have eveer heard. Whenever I have heard 911 calls or made a 911 call they operator is talking over me and bombarding me with questions. NOT SO in this call, there are many pauses in this 911 call and the operator doesn't even respond when Mica says "I'm about to kill myself and want my family to find my body!" WTF! why did the operator not react? Why did the 911 operator not try to talk her out of it? STRANGE and BIZARRE and maybe this call WAS artificial intellligence, aka AI generated on Mica's end. Very very BIZARRE!!!! the 911 operator did not even act like she cared! SHAMEFUL!!!!!!!!

  • @catie5939
    @catie5939 Před 25 dny +7

    To be fair, "god hates divorce" is an evangelical catchphrase that's common in lots of high control evangelical churches, Of course it's not a doctrine everyone agrees with, but when I was growing up in the 80's/90's it was a common quip, especially in cases of abuse. Sad to see that continue.

    • @mstar4150
      @mstar4150 Před 25 dny +1

      I agree. God does hate divorce but it was permitted in some cases. I grew up in a Christian household but was also emotionally and spiritually abused. Then as a young adult I dated two psychopaths like this guy. They both used very similar tactics. The church should rightfully teach things like "obey your mother and father" but they should also teach what abuse is and not to obey that. It teaches kids and people to be door mats for abuse sometimes. Thankfully I am in a healthy marriage now but I'm still working on healing from all that trauma. Mica had it so much worse than me and I feel so badly for her. I understand how he twisted things where she would stay quiet as to not bring disrespect to JP.

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 Před 25 dny

      A neglectful church teaches that a woman should be as innocent as a dove. But they forget being shrewd as a serpent and that God does not want our sacrifices, he wants our love and he wants us to be loved.

  • @IvyRoyer-rs4wj
    @IvyRoyer-rs4wj Před 26 dny +10

    Been there. If you are afraid for others, you feel like you have to take it.

    • @my4daughters
      @my4daughters Před 26 dny +2

      Yep... anyone that tried to help just got attacked and drug thru 💩 too... it's the most alone thing you'll ever feel!

  • @bethlewis4703
    @bethlewis4703 Před 25 dny +4

    Narcissists are master manipulators and very good at what they do

  • @Jennifermcintyre
    @Jennifermcintyre Před 26 dny +14

    WHY would Mica do that to herself after she had gotten herself out.. she was slowly rebuilding her life and getting stronger. Although Dumbass JP was making her life a living hell.. she’d made huge progress and would theoretically be LESS likely to harm herself………BUT JP WOULD BE MORE LIKELY TO HAVE SOMETHING DONE TO HER… he had lost control… and he’s unhinged. I am definitely leaning towards JP being directly responsible for what happened to her.

    • @teelastrong8190
      @teelastrong8190 Před 25 dny +2

      Yes. And according to private investigator Eric Zelaya's theory it was a murder for hire which I could believe.

    • @robcyr839
      @robcyr839 Před 25 dny

      My guess is that she was not capable of leaving him after reconciling 8 times. The other issue was her stopping taking her meds when a friend prayed over her convincing her she was healed from her mental issues. Her friend should be locked up....not JP.

    • @MyYankee77
      @MyYankee77 Před 25 dny

      Knowing how much Micah loved God, I doubt she would take her own life!!!! That’s an unforgivable sin, I just hope for her soul that she didn’t do this to herself so she can be saved. The enemy can kill your body not your soul.

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 Před 25 dny +1

      She had gotten rebaptised, rechurched, filed for a restraining order and divorce. She definitely bought the gun for protection.
      She was ready to leave him for good. Her spirit was renewed. I do not believe she would have taken her own life.

    • @ockmf
      @ockmf Před 25 dny +1

      Reading so much information on this case, listening to her family attorney's hour long explanation of what was happening and speaking of the proposed Mica's Law, and now watching this video: I'm convinced JP is the cause of Mica's death.

  • @icanclutch959
    @icanclutch959 Před 23 dny +5

    People that have not lived this, don't understand how hard it is. I have lived it, I got out. Her case was very extreme!

  • @MizzTH-G
    @MizzTH-G Před 25 dny +5

    I agree with Polka Dots. I’m a regular worshipper at a ‘High’ Church of England and it’s about as far removed from this charlatan as can be. Yes, your sins can be forgiven but if you keep on sinning on the scale that JP does, surely the Lord has a limit? I also cannot abide the ‘parodies’ In the UK we would call them cover versions - although they’d never darken our church’s door. We use the book of common prayer with old traditional hymns. The sermons are always top notch whereas this fool just blathers on about himself. Lucifer comes in many forms. Here he is , right in front of everyone!!

  • @junelamie9622
    @junelamie9622 Před 25 dny +2

    Having worked in a domestic violence & sexual assault shelter, I can assure you that more funding is needed! Abuse is rampant! When something like this case happens, a spotlight brings attention to dv/sa. That attention lasts until something else hits the headlines

  • @kimberlyschilling4218
    @kimberlyschilling4218 Před 25 dny +2

    Pure Evil. I wish he could be charged with abuse & set an example for abusers in this country

  • @deborahway9280
    @deborahway9280 Před 26 dny +23

    I've just finished watching FITSnews. And hearing out this wonderful lawyer fighting for Mica. Tragic way to die. Justice for Mica. Thank you for being a good watchman

  • @susieannei5641
    @susieannei5641 Před 25 dny +3

    Mica was coerced by him to do so many terrible things, who’s to say he didn’t directly coerce her to UN alive herself or he would do something to a loved one if she didn’t?

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 Před 25 dny +1

      They could have been programming her and drugging her when he committed her. JP is great at making low friends in all places.

  • @jannyp449
    @jannyp449 Před 25 dny +6

    He wanted to break her Spirit thankful he couldn't!

  • @simpinainteasyRHEC
    @simpinainteasyRHEC Před 25 dny +3

    As someone who experienced something somewhat similar, minus my husband/bf having a large audience or platform to get a msg across, I can tell you it's not easy to get away, but it's possible.
    I don't think putting more and more laws on the books will help prevent this from happening, the police hardly know the laws on the books as is. We need to learn to support on another, but also to stand firm on our own 2 feet, and leave, no matter the cost. I left with absolutely NOTHING, pregnant, going to a homeless shelter with nothing more than the clothes on my back and a baby in my belly. I know I sound crass, but strength doesn't come from a law or the government, it comes from within.

  • @allifairm
    @allifairm Před 26 dny +9

    I have a friend that was once in a relationship like this and she had thoughts of suicide to just make it stop. Knowing all of this I think it could go either way. He planned and used AI. Or she just got desperate to have peace.

  • @fran7303
    @fran7303 Před 26 dny +4

    I hope some of the people that were at the church start talking

  • @cynthiavining4153
    @cynthiavining4153 Před 25 dny +2

    This is beyond a wolf in sheeps clothing. It's demonic.

  • @kez-chick5647
    @kez-chick5647 Před 25 dny +2

    JP knew how to twist the scriptures,
    JP learnt all he knows from his Father. Extremely Disgusting individuals.

  • @sheridanmcbride
    @sheridanmcbride Před 25 dny +3

    Thank you for your coverage Gavin!!

  • @Helloskyyt321
    @Helloskyyt321 Před 25 dny +2

    Mica was an avid writer, she took detailed journals, and thank God he did!! JP tried to destroy all the evidence but apparently he didn’t get them all! This is why the whole suicide conclusion makes no sense to me. She would have written a note she was very detailed and very precise on how she did things. She wasn’t a spontaneous person. She was a thinker, she would have planned, left a note, etc. This is completely out of character for her. That’s what makes it so hard for people who knew her to believe the whole suicide theory. I didn’t know her but from everything I’ve heard from people who knew her this wasn’t her character .

    • @EmiFromMars
      @EmiFromMars Před 25 dny

      Agree with you 💯. He won't get away with everything hes done its too much with too much evidence.

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 Před 25 dny

      Yes. After the way he treated her she did feel maybe the world would be better off with her dead. She tried once and failed, decided that was God's answer to her.
      After that she decided to live. Anything beyond that is JP's doing, somehow. He is def capable and had friends who'd help.

  • @tinameyer7080
    @tinameyer7080 Před 24 dny +3

    Mica's Law will never get passed. Its much too subjective, too easy to make the allegations and much too difficult to prove.

  • @ChelseaBrown-fz1mj
    @ChelseaBrown-fz1mj Před 25 dny +3

    You are a great reporter Mr. Gavin. Thank you for your awesome work.

  • @tammysuecooprider
    @tammysuecooprider Před 25 dny +2

    That’s so twisted what he did to her controlling her

  • @wendypoisson9601
    @wendypoisson9601 Před 26 dny +5

    He's a true predator

  • @TheHonorableAudio
    @TheHonorableAudio Před 26 dny +8

    I am so sad for her and this whole situation.

  • @girlsrnotwimps
    @girlsrnotwimps Před 21 dnem +2

    He’s not insane, he malignant and utterly cruel.

  • @Beckytilley-nk3qv
    @Beckytilley-nk3qv Před 26 dny +3

    Mica depersonalized her abuse but she was definately crying out. She knew she was enslaved and he was her handler, not truly her genuine husband. That’s my personal response to her message. JP invaded every aspect of her life.

  • @freedomvoice6797
    @freedomvoice6797 Před 25 dny +3

    A real man (husband) is suppose to protect his wife from everything JP did openly to her.

  • @ladyzinada5341
    @ladyzinada5341 Před 25 dny +2

    Cheating with him on his ex-wife was the WORST Mica Done. LORD she had no clue what she got into. This is sad ASF. Nothing ever comes out of cheating on anyone. Seems like Alison was protected by God because she got out safe. She better be careful.

  • @RotcivVanDahl
    @RotcivVanDahl Před 25 dny +2

    The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task.
    2 Therefore an overseerfn must be above reproach, the husband of one wife,fn sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,
    3 not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.
    4 He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive,
    5 for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church?
    6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil.
    7 Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.

  • @chilenitaprotrump
    @chilenitaprotrump Před 26 dny +9

    Depriving her sleep to the point she sought refuge in her car for peace and rest? That would have been enough for me to leave and never look back. Was she financially insecured? There's no way she was still in love after all she documented and the stories she told. I just don't understand why in her particular case did she not leave. Why. Just like I will never understand why my mother stayed. Spare me from your speech about the syndrome. I was in 2 toxic relationships but none to this or my Mom's degree... because I left. Never again.

    • @Futzaround.Findout
      @Futzaround.Findout Před 26 dny +8

      She tried to and is literally dead. The MOST dangerous time is right after leaving.
      Fear is real. Psychological trauma does real damage to minds and if it was as simple as "just leaving" more people WOULD.

    • @chilenitaprotrump
      @chilenitaprotrump Před 26 dny +1

      ​@Futzaround.Findout I understand and because of the fear I was subjected to growing up in a severe abusive environment by my mother's sidekick, I left as soon as I convinced my mother I needed to leave. I was 19. My mother - although she never had to - always went back and dragged us along with her to live in fear.

    • @my4daughters
      @my4daughters Před 26 dny +5

      I was married to someone like not I had to lock myself and our girls in a bedroom at night and barricade it just to try and get sleep. He didn't sleep much, and he did not care or think twice about waking EVERYONE up as well. After I finally got away, my ex went to his mother, and I swear he did the exact same thing to her. She was forced to move from her own home and leave him behind while she still pays the bills for him to live there. It's insane to even think of someone behaving like this, but long ago one of my therapist reminded me that you can't try to rationalize with someone irrational! After separating he just abused me thru the courts and by constantly calling DCS until he turned on thosepeople when things didnt go his way. Now he's spinning his wheels driving the Child Suport Attorneys, judges, clerks, lawyers, ect 100% crazy!! I've seen many times when he's been addressed by the courts having to be told to leave people alone bc he's intimidating the clerk, or DA, or Chancellor... yet to get the courts to make him stop and leave me alone I have to file orders & motions, get a lawyer$$ bc I have no idea how to do that, and go thru months in court. It's not an easy thing at all to get thru & if not for the absolute terror of thinking my babies would be left in his sole custody, I probably would not have survived either!! RIP Mica!!

    • @chilenitaprotrump
      @chilenitaprotrump Před 26 dny +3

      @@my4daughters You're brave for leaving. Stay strong and proud.

    • @racheledwards3651
      @racheledwards3651 Před 25 dny +2

      Pretty sure she didnt have a job for the majority of the time. Working for him at the church ect. She worked after she left him.

  • @lolabear6788
    @lolabear6788 Před 25 dny +4

    Have you heard about the river theory? My discernment told me she was placed from a boat when I first saw that scene of her body recovery location.
    Now, there is a tik tok person saying the 911 call was from Fair Bluff a city on the river.

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 Před 25 dny

      Yes, there is a female voice in the background saying fair bluff and "Mica" repeats it. If it's her she sounds like she's been drugged.
      The place where she died is restricted and off limits to anyone not coming in by boat. His friend's property is right on the river and right on the Park's border.

  • @Nikalina777
    @Nikalina777 Před 25 dny +1

    I am so glad I happened upon your channel. Your Mica coverage has been fantastic!

  • @wendypoisson9601
    @wendypoisson9601 Před 22 dny +2

    And that's a felony to give somebody medicine that's not prescribed for them

  • @stephm5877
    @stephm5877 Před 22 dny +2

    Thank you! My heart is so full hearing a man fight for women. 💛 It matters. So many don't and take the side of the abuser.

  • @beachmom501
    @beachmom501 Před 25 dny +2

    Nice job with accurate info. Thank you.

  • @user-dq3xx2yr3l
    @user-dq3xx2yr3l Před 22 dny +2

    Mica needs justice now for family justice.

  • @JennyThePooh75
    @JennyThePooh75 Před 25 dny +6

    GF... No one can ever understand why we can't get out of these relationships. I've been out and right back into a now 14 yr long abusive relationship. I don't want to be in it. But no one understands the mind control involved. He broke my neck last yr. I'm chastised for staying near him, but I'm telling you, I don't know how to get out fully. I'm sure there are others that understand where I'm coming from. I sit here and cry listening to what she went through. It's horrible what she endured. I hope they are able to convict him. I'm praying they do. To have a family that's recognizes the abuse is a blessing. 🙏 For the family. Thank you so much for helping expose this horrifying abuse and for having a huge heart.

    • @Hereforthelove
      @Hereforthelove Před 25 dny +2

      I am so sorry for what you’re going through. I understand the mind control so you have to take control/your power back. Love yourself enough to leave, cut contact and not go back. The toxicity is addicting and our bodies remember it and want more of it because it’s familiar. I get it! But get out and take care of yourself and get help. The longer you’re gone, the better you’ll feel. Things become more clear, your senses slowly come back and you’ll wonder why you ever stayed this long. But you have to get passed the initial phase and shock of leaving because your body and mind are used to the trauma and drama of the relationship. Like I said, addicting even! Deprogram and reprogram. Please. You’ll be proud of yourself. Life is short and you’re worth so much. Leave and do not look back. Ever heard of Lot’s wife?
      I would then recommend doing some work on your inner child because something within makes us feel we deserve treatment like this and this keeps us stuck as well. Take care of little Jenny and tell her how important she is and how you will protect her and keep her safe from now on.
      From someone who understands and had to do the same. ❤

    • @robcyr839
      @robcyr839 Před 25 dny +2

      Thanks for sharing. More women need to hear stories like this. Most women refuse to believe or understand why another woman would stay in this situation despite how common it is.

    • @whims6278
      @whims6278 Před 25 dny

      I'm so sorry to you, beautiful human ❤ 🫂 I know how hard it is

    • @veronicavastine-cazenave9663
      @veronicavastine-cazenave9663 Před 25 dny

      I fully understand and get it…I believe we suffer from Stockholm Syndrome. I know that the abuse is wrong, they gaslights until we just lose our minds. Then we finally open up and feel guilty after for speaking horrible about the abuser because we have empathy, something they lack. The abuser tells the victim everything that’s wrong with the them However, it’s actually who they are, their sinister personality; they project themselves onto the them; us. Its a nightmare that no one understands until it’s to late. It slowly progresses until you’re blinded.

    • @JennyThePooh75
      @JennyThePooh75 Před 2 dny +1

      @@Hereforthelove thank you. I have finally made the decision to leave and not look back. I'm still holding my breath. Like this isn't real or something. But I know deep down if I stay, it's not going to get better. Thank you for taking the time to be honest and saying what you did. I deleted my own comment 3 times before I pushed send. But I felt like doing so was making a decision to do things differently this time. I am just going to say I have a different outlook than I ever have and I'm going to give it every effort to not go back.

  • @kristinhunt4211
    @kristinhunt4211 Před 21 dnem

    Great coverage. Brand new subscriber! Happy I found you. God Bless Micha and her family and so many loved ones 💔. What a beautiful soul. I pray they put this monster under the jail!

  • @BeingConformed
    @BeingConformed Před 25 dny +2

    Thank you for fighting for Mica. May justice be served.

  • @kaycampbell29
    @kaycampbell29 Před 25 dny +3

    Keep reporting